Why I Have 2 Different Accents

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  • @zafa13
    @zafa13 11 місяців тому +1445

    "i felt like an alien in both places because I wasn't indian enough o fit in but I wasn't british enough to fit in either". that is the most relatable thing i've ever heard. that hit hard.

    • @misguided_ghost
      @misguided_ghost 11 місяців тому +7

      I relate to this so much as well

    • @genevaxo
      @genevaxo 11 місяців тому +11

      The average mixed person in America says this and anytime I see it, it's so cringy💀💀

    • @divyaa4459
      @divyaa4459 11 місяців тому +24

      @@genevaxohow is someone sharing a very normal experience cringy?? you tiktok kids think calling anything and everything cRinGy makes you cool lol

    • @genevaxo
      @genevaxo 11 місяців тому +7

      @@divyaa4459 "You tiktok kids" Bro go outside and touch grass, You're probably obsessed with tiktok more than the average teen.

    • @luvhashira
      @luvhashira 11 місяців тому

      @@genevaxoyou must be white bc how is it cringe? 💀

  • @3cheesepizza
    @3cheesepizza 11 місяців тому +1009

    I think people who are complaining that you have a "fake accent" are the ones who only know how to speak in English. Code switching is very common if you're bilingual.
    You don't have to explain yourself, Sara! 🤗

    • @pam2910
      @pam2910 11 місяців тому +48

      I speak 4 languages and I still think is just weird, bye

    • @3cheesepizza
      @3cheesepizza 11 місяців тому +1

      @@pam2910 congratulations

    • @chrissyswifey
      @chrissyswifey 11 місяців тому +1

      @@pam2910REAL

    • @SpicySpinach
      @SpicySpinach 11 місяців тому +28

      @@pam2910same i speak 5 and never heard of that it is so silly

    • @3cheesepizza
      @3cheesepizza 11 місяців тому +62

      @@SpicySpinach Code switching is common and a real thing. If you don't relate to that then great. But just because you don't experience that then that means it's silly.
      I speak and think in 2 languages because my parents spoke to me in both English and my native language.
      If you don't frequently speak and think in those 5 languages then code switching is likely to happen. BUT AGAIN that doesn't mean it's silly or it's non-existent.

  • @bluesage_mami.01
    @bluesage_mami.01 11 місяців тому +325

    You don't have to explain yourself Sara. You have every right to speak, and be whoever you want to be . Don't listen to rude people. And I get where you are coming from, it feels hard fitting in when you come from a different background and are raised in another one. But slowly and surely we start finding a place for ourselves one way or another. Still, loved your video btw, and its nice getting to know you.🩷 Much love to you guys, take care, and wish you guys all the best.♥︎💟🩷

  • @NasRin974
    @NasRin974 8 місяців тому +14

    lol your Indian accent sounds like a wind up and really weird

    • @ascha730
      @ascha730 6 місяців тому +9

      Yeah it's like she's mocking the indian accent lol

    • @thegirl177
      @thegirl177 6 місяців тому +9

      genuinely just feels like she made up the indian accent coz i know literally no other indian who has such a weird stereotypical indian accent

  • @mdavis3524
    @mdavis3524 11 місяців тому +201

    I really like how you explained this side of your life and yourself in a such a vulnerable way. I could tell you’re nervous yet you’re not afraid of just opening up and accepting yourself AND doing that while telling it to the world, literally. Lol. You’re strong Sara and I feel a sense of belonging when I hear this truth about you. You’re doing amazing too. Sending love from Brooklyn. Oh wait I think you’re in Brook rn haha 💕☺️

  • @rhitichattopadhyay5416
    @rhitichattopadhyay5416 11 місяців тому +50

    I feel like so many of you are missing the point. It’s not like she’s made up this Indian accent to feel more connected to her roots. That would be weird. If she naturally spoke in a British accent, and then created and put on an Indian accent to feel more Indian (I mean I still wouldn’t judge her but some of you guys’ criticism would atleast make sense) that could still be described as inauthentic.
    But that’s not what’s happened here. This is an Indian person who lived in India, with parents who spent most of their lives in India, who speaks Marathi at home. It’s the British accent that she put on to fit in to her new circumstances. That’s the mask. Her Indian accent is just her - Sara.
    So when you say it comes across as a performance, what you’re really saying is that you were comfortable watching her when she spoke in a British accent and now that she’s no longer making the effort, you’re mad.

    • @mahaikram4873
      @mahaikram4873 11 місяців тому +1

      you put it so well!!

    • @geetika6540
      @geetika6540 10 місяців тому +14

      as someone who has spent most of their life in India and then moved to Hong Kong, I adopted a mixed americanish accent. I don't feel like a different person though, this is just how I've grown. She had her british accent for 10+ years, so there's no way that didn't become her natural accent after this much time. I find this wierd connecting with your culture can be done in more meaningful ways. The point about her being more comfortable and open.in her indian accent doesn't make sense, because again she had her british accent for like at least 7 years.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +8

      @@geetika6540 exactly. ​​⁠​​⁠ I’ve actually seen comments from maharastrian people who still live in her region asking why she’s talking like that? As Indians in her region DO NOT have that thick of an accent unless they’re extremely old. She moved to England at 10 years of age. Coincidentally my bf moved from Russia at age 10 as well, he speaks fluent Russian daily on the phone but has a CANADIAN accent. I asked him about this situation. He told me if he just woke up one day using a Russian accent his family, friends and ME would all make fun of him because it’s a conscious decision to suddenly wear an accent like a hat. She’s mocking it without even realizing it and it sounds like a caricature. If I just woke up one day using a Swedish accent I’d get roasted, rightly so! Like you said, there are way more meaningful ways to connect to your culture that don’t include sounding like a cartoon version of said culture

    • @hohoho080
      @hohoho080 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@geetika6540 she speaks in an Indian accent at home, that explains why she didn't let go of the accent. I have a friend who has Singaporean and British parents and when she speaks to her dad or any European person, she naturally has a thick British accent but when she speaks to her mom or other people, her accent is Singaporean. Code switching for accents is a lot more common than you would think

    • @JuneKafaltiya
      @JuneKafaltiya 5 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@geetika6540 it's not you it's her, her experiences how she precived them can be different then you, how her mind works is different then you and if she feels herself in a particular accent let her be

  • @tanvibiyani
    @tanvibiyani 11 місяців тому +137

    you are emotionally so strong. didn't shed a tear but your eyes were watery the entire time. I admire how honest you are. you're amazing and beautiful :)

  • @keepingupwithdisco
    @keepingupwithdisco 11 місяців тому +42

    okay miss pune marathi mulgi represent 🗣️🗣️ thanks for sharing this!! was also born and raised in pune and currently living in the US and i also have two different accents (an indian one and an american one) and you couldn’t have put it in a better way!! thanks for sharing this 🤍🤍

  • @Ooglyboogly1235
    @Ooglyboogly1235 9 місяців тому +18

    Im sorry, but its a forced accent... no one i know (ive lived in pune for 5 years) sPeAkS LiKe ThIs.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +8

      Yes! It’s giving “thank u come again”

    • @Ooglyboogly1235
      @Ooglyboogly1235 8 місяців тому

      @@therewassun I don't get that

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому

      @@Ooglyboogly1235 (Appu from the Simpsons)

    • @Ooglyboogly1235
      @Ooglyboogly1235 8 місяців тому +4

      @@therewassun never watched that show but I'm planning on watching it as soon as finals get over! And it's so so so fake because she switches the british accent and "indian" accent and it's that she notes it down in her head like yup just for the sake of it, just for people to notice im gonna switch... girly has lived outside of india for YEARS now and even if she stuck with her indian accent, this just isn't it. It's a mockery of the indian accent, it's what Hollywood depicts an indian accent to be. No body who is fluent in English talks like how she forces herself to talk.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +3

      @@Ooglyboogly1235 exactly, she sounds like a walking stereotype! Enjoy the Simpsons when you’re done and good luck on your finals! FYI Appu was removed from the show because his accent was deemed offensive, so you’ll only see him in the earlier seasons if you’re curious

  • @ritiroy694
    @ritiroy694 11 місяців тому +20

    Behen aise toh hum bhi English nahi bolte.. Your Indian accent sounds like you are mocking us.

    • @minholic2390
      @minholic2390 11 місяців тому +3

      Yall do and she's not mocking

    • @casperfriendly-m2m
      @casperfriendly-m2m 11 місяців тому +2

      dude relax!!! the woman learnt english as a child and learnt how to enunciate and pronounce words in english, Indians didnt learn that, so when she is saying certain words ,it comes across as internal racism unintentionally and the poor thing isn't doing it intentionally, she can talk like a freakin unicorn or whatever she feels like!!! but when you just tell an Indian "yall do" and if you are aren't an Indian yourself, you just come across as a freaking racist!!!@@minholic2390

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +6

      That’s because she is. She sounds like Appu from the Simpsons.

    • @manasvisingh2101
      @manasvisingh2101 5 місяців тому +1

      ​@@minholic2390 no we absolutely donot sOuNd like this. She is clearly mocking us lol.

    • @minholic2390
      @minholic2390 5 місяців тому

      @@manasvisingh2101 you'll be surprised but indian ppl have different accents and alot of yall infact sound like this without realising

  • @xenia_zurith
    @xenia_zurith 11 місяців тому +61

    This made me tear up fr.... I've a dominant English accent when I speak English but I also have the Indian accent when I speak Hindi, and I'd been through so much of shit in 12th grade because of this. I'm so happy for you that you're finally free from all the facade that you'd put up to fit in. When I'd I heard you speaking in the Indian accent for the first time, it felt very homely and it made me smile. Also, you and Lewis are adorable together

    • @corasundae
      @corasundae 8 місяців тому +1

      I didn't know "homely" means cozy for British people lol. Thought you were using it in the American sense ("ugly").

  • @thebrokegirl___
    @thebrokegirl___ 11 місяців тому +57

    I would think why you didn’t use your Indian accent but it also made me think that it’s easier to fit in using their accent in the society cuz nobody wants to be alone at this age. As a regular subscriber of yours I was so proud and happy that you were using your Indian accent and was just talking made me see you differently. I’m so happy for you

  • @insertcoolusernamehere
    @insertcoolusernamehere 11 місяців тому +79

    I relate to this so much as someone who’s indian but has been living abroad for uni. I’m so happy you’re feeling comfortable enough to be so open with us. I hope you know you are SO loved by everyone here

  • @snigdhavarrey
    @snigdhavarrey 11 місяців тому +50

    i relate to this so badly 😭😭 i am indian who’d moved to the uk for undergrad and i had adapted my accent to the norm here but i feel like it’s a whole different persona from when i talk to my family versus when i interact with people in my daily life!!

  • @StephaneStephanie
    @StephaneStephanie 11 місяців тому +22

    Why does this feel like complete bullshit?

    • @minholic2390
      @minholic2390 11 місяців тому +4

      Are u fr?

    • @nana-uf5ql
      @nana-uf5ql 8 місяців тому +7

      because it is

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +5

      It is, that’s why

    • @starlight8554
      @starlight8554 4 місяці тому +2

      It is. I can’t do an Indian accent even if I try. She sounds even more stereotypically “Indian” than my dad who spent 40+ years of his life in India.

  • @AHossain-j2q
    @AHossain-j2q 11 місяців тому +50

    As an American born Pakistani who’s had a similar experience when it comes to “ethnic identity crisis”, I don’t think your accent matters. It’s more how rooted you are to your culture. Do you speak your mother tongue often? Do you listen to South Asian music and watch Hindi films or shows? Do you participate in events relating to your culture’s/country’s holidays? Do you wear ethnic clothing representing your culture/country often? Do you have south asian friends with whom you communicate using your mother tongue? These things all help in getting you closer to your “South Asian” identity rather than having an accent. They not only help you get closer but also teach you about your own identity.

    • @geetika6540
      @geetika6540 10 місяців тому +6

      I completely agree with this. Idk why she's doing this and this is quite patronizing to a natural pune accent.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +4

      Exactly. She is making a mockery of the accent

  • @sonakshikhosla6422
    @sonakshikhosla6422 11 місяців тому +58

    As someone who moved to study, involuntarily adopted the accent I relate to it so much!! I feel like a different person when I am not talking in an Indian accent too!! It's like a ghost in me speaking that way, and I am so aware of myself just like you. More power to you, Sara! Thank you for sharing this!

    • @fh9061
      @fh9061 11 місяців тому +1

      I'm so happy to see people share their stories with this because I never hear it discussed and linguistic discrimination really effected me as a teenager and I didn't know how to talk about it at the time.

  • @virgoteaze
    @virgoteaze 8 місяців тому +8

    I’m so confused. I immigrated to Canada at 11 and speak in a full Canadian accent. The Indian accent is long lost

    • @angelf722
      @angelf722 7 місяців тому +4

      Maybe she picked it up with her parents, like her parents speak english in an accent so she naturally changes her accent to match theirs and it has never been forgotten. But it's not the same case for all immigrants, for example, i only speak in english with british accent or I speak in my native language, no in between.

    • @Pinksugarcandy
      @Pinksugarcandy 2 місяці тому +4

      Bc she fakes it

  • @itsmirian
    @itsmirian 11 місяців тому +20

    I didn't expect to relate so much ❤❤...now I'm emotional

  • @roxyp7569
    @roxyp7569 11 місяців тому +47

    When he said “I want you to be at home with me” my heart melted ❤that’s so cute.
    I am Indian, living in the USA, but I grew up around A LOT of Indian influence, almost as much as American, I have a big family that is old fashioned and a little stricter.
    i watch you guys often. It’s so refreshing seeing Indian Women being fun and free! I have never seen it before only on tv. I have lived in Miami Florida and I still haven’t seen many Indian women, living like I live (more modern lifestyle)
    And you guys make me feel seen and heard!

  • @angelaann553
    @angelaann553 11 місяців тому +19

    I’m half German, half English. My mums German but speaks poor English, my dad is English but speaks fluent English and German. I have this same thing because I live in England I have an English accent but when I speak to my mum or German family members I switch into a slight accent to make it easier for them to understand as well as speaking German if my family don’t know English words.

  • @teamjacob4eva
    @teamjacob4eva 11 місяців тому +16

    at the risk of sounding like a stereotypical Tai, I'm super proud of you.

  • @KraftKing
    @KraftKing 11 місяців тому +52

    Having an "Indian accent" won't make you more connected with your roots I'm also living in an english spoken country I've a good fluent accent and it doesn't make less Indian or who you are so ofc speak the accent you want but this video you made is about you seeking validation and comfort in your favour from the public which is so pitty in my opinion because the only validation that you should be seeking should be from you and speaking in british accent makes you feel that you are a different person then maybe you should seek medical attention about split personality because you can be talking in british accent and still feel and be who you are as an individual a language or accent shouldn't be defining your borders of who you are internally unless you are fully aware and doing it on purpose to look more likeable and accepted which 'influencers' in this case you tend to do so instead of seeking public validation sit down and get things sorted inside of you and your mind so that it helps you in the long run.

    • @Emmere
      @Emmere 11 місяців тому +23

      Clearly you missed her point.

    • @fh9061
      @fh9061 11 місяців тому +10

      Dude chill I swear she's not attacking you for having a British accent

    • @brain_stroming
      @brain_stroming 11 місяців тому +3

      Bruh chill out
      She's just sharing her journey of overcoming this problem where she was kinda afraid to show her real self just to fit in the new environment which is totally understandable I'm sure we all have done that

  • @JuliaJuliaJuliaHey
    @JuliaJuliaJuliaHey 10 місяців тому +14

    I think having the correct pronunciation of a language doesn’t mean the erasure of your identity. Just like how when we learn French we learn it with the French accent rather than French with a British accent.

  • @Nushka23
    @Nushka23 11 місяців тому +63

    Still sounds false. British seeps through and it’s as if you recognise it you change it back to Indian.

    • @pragati95
      @pragati95 11 місяців тому +15

      No. That's Marathi accent. She's speaking normals English in Marathi accent

    • @Nushka23
      @Nushka23 11 місяців тому +9

      @@pragati95 you can put on an accent.

    • @yungdaku212
      @yungdaku212 11 місяців тому +10

      Lmao i dont get it either like just speak marathi instead of english in an accent

    • @pragati95
      @pragati95 11 місяців тому +6

      @@yungdaku212 Yeah I mean I get it if she used to speak English with her family and friends back home and that's why she's attached to the accent. But since she mentioned that they mostly spoke in Marathi at home, I don't know why she finds it important to hold on to the accent when it's not necessary

    • @adeniyiblessing1609
      @adeniyiblessing1609 11 місяців тому +6

      I don’t think so, I’m going through the same thing . My natural accent is my Nigerian one and the one I put on is the British one. Which is what she’s explaining

  • @malenameow
    @malenameow 11 місяців тому +22

    it is so nice that you can open up about this with us!! “pretending, that makes no sense” should be a life motto, specially in these days. congratulations on your personal growth ❤ it’s admirable

  • @Persassyproduction_fanpage
    @Persassyproduction_fanpage 11 місяців тому +27

    Although I don’t have two accents I rlly felt this. I was born in the U.S but my mom was born in Poland my my dad was born in El Salvador and I’ve always struggled with my identity. Thank you for the video Sara, your making me feel rlly seen

    • @saludosalsol
      @saludosalsol 6 місяців тому +1

      You are not alone :) us mixed ppl are all over and we get the best of both worlds and cultures. Maybe other people can’t relate or are jealous. My mama is from Nicaragua btw and my dad is from US. I was born in the U.S.

    • @Persassyproduction_fanpage
      @Persassyproduction_fanpage 6 місяців тому

      @@saludosalsol thank you so much!! Thank you for telling ur story!

  • @abby-xo7kf
    @abby-xo7kf 11 місяців тому +13

    I’m not even bilingual but as someone who’s been around a lot of people who speak two countries or who came as immigrants this makes complete sense to me. Whenever they’re here surrounded by Americans, their accent decreases a little bit and starts to sound a little bit more American, because they’re not speaking in their native language or surrounded by people who are speaking with an accent from their native country. When they go home, They start speaking in their native tongue and their American accent goes away a little bit and they have a thicker accent of their native tongue when they speak English. It’s not surprising that you would have two different modes, where if you’re thinking about the native language you might start speaking English with a stronger accent because this is the accent you would use when you speak the native language, but if you’re thinking about only speaking English you might speak English with a more American or British accent, which you have learned over the time you have lived in that place.I don’t know why people are over complicating this. And I think if you didn’t make a video like this people would’ve attacked you anyways, you can never make people happy online but just know that not all of us are thinking negatively and to me it makes perfect sense

  • @yxngkayplayscod
    @yxngkayplayscod 11 місяців тому +7

    Damn the people in the comment section are not it. Claiming that Sara is faking her accent for some views??? That’s some wild accusation, people don’t even realize how different the whole personality of a person can become especially if they are a people pleaser. She was keeping that side of her just to please the british people around her hence the accent, it’s not that difficult to understand if only you want to.

    • @fh9061
      @fh9061 11 місяців тому +4

      People are feigning ignorance just to attack her after she clearly explained everything. Just because you can't relate to something doesn't mean it's not real.

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +7

      We just find it funny that Indians who currently live in the region she’s from think it’s a fake accent. It’s also funny that her new accent is thicker than her own parents, and that her sister does not have an Indian accent, despite her making more of an effort to connect with her culture. There are more meaningful ways to connect to a culture than putting on an accent like a hat.

  • @martinmystery4484
    @martinmystery4484 3 місяці тому +2

    Please cover how you and your bf met??? We want to see the back story... !!

  • @littlekiller1121
    @littlekiller1121 11 місяців тому +4

    ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا.🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be a human
    ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا.🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be a human
    ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا.🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be a human
    ليس عليك أن تكون مسلمًا لدعم فلسطين ، عليك فقط أن تكون إنسانًا.🇵🇸 You don't have to be a Muslim to support Palestine, you just have to be a humanv

  • @Vedazap
    @Vedazap 11 місяців тому +10

    SARA you are amazing
    I cant wait to watch more stuff from you!

  • @miayana2539
    @miayana2539 11 місяців тому +21

    But I hear only one accent. The other one is an impression of the ghost of a lost accent and just sounds bad. Indians don't talk like Apu from the Simpsons. If you really want to own your identity, talk in Marathi.

  • @hi.i.like.crochet
    @hi.i.like.crochet 11 місяців тому +9

    i went through this and it was very rough because every person bullied me but i am in a better place now

  • @zenaphillipsjensen7262
    @zenaphillipsjensen7262 11 місяців тому +5

    I’am mixed race, South African/Denmark. Grow up in Denmark, when my sister was born and was sickly, so was sent to South Africa, I was 4-5 years old. Forgot how to speak danish, and only spoke English and africansk.. I don’t have a accent, but I do mix language, especially if I’am nervous..

  • @Joanna-xu3ji
    @Joanna-xu3ji 11 місяців тому +4

    honestly indians🔛🔝 but like you shoudnt have to force yourself. i need tips tho cuz im tamil and i live in nz but everyone else speaks hindi and i cannot relate at all and they judge me for not watching hindi movies or knowing alot abt indian cricket team and all that sh and idk what to do

  • @ananya_8109
    @ananya_8109 11 місяців тому +8

    She literally told the story I am experiencing

  • @ninka_43
    @ninka_43 11 місяців тому +14

    dude i just wanna give you a big hug rn. i love that we get to see your more authentic self that’s awesome. but also u don’t need to prove your sense of identity to anyone, you are enough just the way you are but- man i wanna give you a big hug cause i was smiling the whole time watching this video you are so brave and beautiful 💕💕💕

  • @hoseokiejjang6013
    @hoseokiejjang6013 6 місяців тому +3

    people be forgetting that people who grow up in a foreign country for majority of their lives have two to three different accents. one is their own language, english in their hometown accent and the accent they pick up with people around them. I think its no surprise u have two accents.

  • @darthvader3910
    @darthvader3910 11 місяців тому +5

    Was she ACTUALLY FAKING the british accent or the indian one LOL. Which one's fake, i dont know cuz im new to her.

    • @fh9061
      @fh9061 11 місяців тому

      Neither is, but she said she tried to speak exclusively British outside her home and now she doesn't feel the need to do that anymore.

    • @erwin5731
      @erwin5731 11 місяців тому +2

      British accent

    • @therewassun
      @therewassun 8 місяців тому +4

      The Indian one. Her “accent” is thicker than her own parents and her sister doesn’t use the Indian accent at all. She just decided to do it and has to consciously use the Indian accent

  • @mathildaanderson231
    @mathildaanderson231 11 місяців тому +4

    I have a question and I mean it in the kindest way. Does this mean you will stop talking in a British accent to most people, or like in what scenario would you speak in a British accent?

  • @ifredbenson
    @ifredbenson 11 місяців тому +7

    im sorry you have to explain yourself sara, i understand because im from bradford yorkshire but i moved to canada when i was barely even 1, but i still have 2 accents. i only switch when im calling people, idk why, but i hate when people comment on me switching accidentally, instead of just ignoring it.

    • @fh9061
      @fh9061 11 місяців тому +1

      Oh my god! That experience when you're on the phone with your family and someone you know spots you and realizes that's how you actually speak.

    • @ifredbenson
      @ifredbenson 4 місяці тому

      @@fh9061 LITERALLY

  • @patilgandhali
    @patilgandhali 11 місяців тому +5

    hey Sara and Avani me pn Punyachi ahe. But I live in Ireland now. I love watching your videos, you guys are so funny. First video I came across of you was with your mom where you fake pierced your septum and your mom yeld at you in marathi. Since that day I was hooked. I love glimpes of you guys talking in marathi here and there. keep it up.

  • @amanyrana6900
    @amanyrana6900 11 місяців тому +18

    I understand how big this is for you. You are truly wholesome and walking on the right path. It’s better out here, living life authentically ;)
    Lots of loveeeee

  • @NadiasCloud
    @NadiasCloud 11 місяців тому +4

    This is me in Nigeria even though I grew up in Nigeria. Now I’m schooling in the UK but it’s obv not home.
    I have a Nigerian accent, a British accent and sometimes an American accent pops up 😂 so I love hearing you switch and the people saying you’re faking, forget about them, they seem to live in a bubble

  • @mayahart3554
    @mayahart3554 11 місяців тому +5

    im from pune as well and moved to London for uni and tho I don't have any problems while speaking in English I get why u felt like u didn't fit in because of your accent coz I'm feeling that rn and seeing u be open about make me more confident so thank u soo much

  • @hey2930
    @hey2930 11 місяців тому +3

    As an African American my experience isn’t as bad as yours but code switching is absolutely annoying. AAVE is definitely a thing and I found myself trying to turn into this Cali valley girl.
    “Mane I aint doing dat.”
    “What you on?”
    Vs
    “I’m not doing that.”
    “Are you okay?”
    Because the first one is considered “ghetto.” I don’t to this day think AAVE is studied enough. Watch a rapper name Dee 1 do interviews he is literally one of the most intelligent men I have ever seen and he doesn’t code switch no matter one he sticks ferm to his Louisiana accent. The CEO of my old company did not hire this black man because he said “Ax and not Ask.” The man was still qualified and capable. It’s honestly sad that code switching has to be a thing. BUT as of recently I have been able to just be me and the most accepting has been my YT church family! But most importantly me mot caring anymore. Staying true to me has gotten me so much favor with highter ups. That same CEO would come to my desk and great me every morning and when I had Covid he called and checked on me

  • @darasimiAdj68
    @darasimiAdj68 11 місяців тому +8

    This was honestly very beautiful to watch. You explained it with such genuineness. I love both your accents, it's a testament to your journey and your experience. They tell your story❤.

  • @absolutelynotellen
    @absolutelynotellen 11 місяців тому +9

    Hey, please don't listen to the comments about people talking about your accents. You don't have to explaim yourself. ❤

  • @whatsup7064
    @whatsup7064 11 місяців тому +3

    its because speaking in an indian accent is not a desireable accent so people will make fun of you. Good that you didnt face a lot of bad reactions to it but for me I was constantly hated on for my accent. However I dont care anymore. I speak my indian accent everywhere.

  • @Idontsimp
    @Idontsimp 11 місяців тому +7

    This is soo relatable although I was actually born in the Uk and now I have shifted to India…. It’s feels nice to know that I am not the only one going through this.

  • @sanshagupta6969
    @sanshagupta6969 11 місяців тому +9

    No other video has probably encapsulated my life experience as well as you have in this one

  • @thehannahlp
    @thehannahlp 11 місяців тому +6

    I’m so glad someone else is talking about this because I’m not an immigrant but my parents are Jamaican, I was born in the US, and I grew up in Italy so I have hints of all three accents and used to have a British-ish accent too and it’s just confusing but it’s unique and I’ve learned to love it :) idk you seem cool, I’m glad you’ve been embracing yourself more, happy for you girly 🙇🏽‍♀️🤎

  • @mayamartin7359
    @mayamartin7359 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing, it makes those of us with this speech pattern, feel less alone ❤
    I am American but raised overseas age 2-5. Had many English friends and developed an English accent even mostly living in Kuwait. Apparently I tried very hard to lose the accent upon returning to America at 5-6 (I have no memory of this, only my mother’s stories).
    When I was a teen I decided to pick it back up and the accent came back very quickly. But, my mother always criticized it saying “you’re in America now” and telling me people would judge me big time and think I was “stuck up” and if they acted like my accent was ok or cool they would just be pretending to be polite about it. (This is not the only issue in my relationship with my mother!)
    This created a situation where I’m basically secretly bi-dialectal. like your accents there is no real middle ground between them.
    I would be most comfortable swapping between American and English 50/50 but people have no idea of this. I’m terrified Americans would think I’m being fake, or worse, Brits would think I’m being dumb or having a go at them.
    The only person I’m comfortable speaking English in front of is my own daughter. She speaks mostly American but has some English, it was so funny the other day she kept accidentally saying “pahk” and had to continually force-correct herself to “parrrk” 😅

  • @hrishitapatil212
    @hrishitapatil212 11 місяців тому +9

    Loved to see you open up so much and show your vulnerability
    Soo happy and proud ❤❤
    We need more long form content tho!

  • @sivialove475
    @sivialove475 11 місяців тому +6

    Girl this was beautiful. And as an immigrant myself I definitely relate to some of the stuff you mentioned. Being yourself can be so hard but it can also be so freeing🥺.

  • @notmrunall
    @notmrunall 11 місяців тому +8

    gurlll so proudd of youuu

  • @GoodDaysWithDana
    @GoodDaysWithDana 11 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for sharing. It’s vulnerable and courageous to me.

  • @starlight8554
    @starlight8554 4 місяці тому +1

    I’ve been in Ireland since I was a kid and my accent is mostly Irish, I’m not putting it on purposefully. I can’t do an Indian accent, even if I try. Maybe because I came to Ireland when I was young? And I knew English before we moved to Ireland? Idk. I pick up accents easy, I guess if I lived in India I’d pick up the accent?

  • @SuperCuddlebuddies
    @SuperCuddlebuddies 11 місяців тому +4

    When you said the thing about loss, I bawled 😭
    I was not expecting that, but I had a recent big loss in my family and I also feel a big metamorphosis happening in me

  • @theproperty541
    @theproperty541 6 місяців тому +1

    I think it’s so strange when people say “I didn’t feel British enough or Indian enough” like the people around them care. I think once you accept that your are not the main character you will realize that most people have an understanding that we live in a big world and no one is the same and no one cares how you talk or how you look or what you eat drink or wear. It’s like someone who is high and so Paranoid that everyone knows…nobody knows and most importantly nobody cares.

  • @Shigglez123
    @Shigglez123 11 місяців тому +2

    Please talk in Marathi sometimes :( Last I remember seeing you talk Marathi in your dad's video it was soo cool :D

  • @maryjan3660
    @maryjan3660 11 місяців тому +3

    I love you girl, not coming from an Indian background bUt so relatable as a Kurdish girl moving to the UK too ❤
    I adore you

  • @wariwarin
    @wariwarin 11 місяців тому +3

    I recently saw comments fighting left and right saying u faked ur accent and stuff
    But ive been watching ur vids since a long time, and i vaguely recall how u said u moved when u were a kid, which justifies everything bcs i am an Indian myself, and i can vouch on how english accents are pretty much influenced by what we hear everyday, and it differs from place to place with that too. It's ridiculous to see people fight over stuff that U are most aware of, but i guess that's the internet for u. Also OG viewers will know how she switches often when she's conversing with her family, esp. w her mum and dad.
    U reembracing ur own culture in ur own way should not pose as a threat or hatred or discomfort of any sort to others and if it did so, it's their problem and never yours.
    Looking forward to the new chapter Sara!

  • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
    @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 8 місяців тому +2

    Im so inspired by you! You have the emotional intelligence amazing for your age! You are just an amazing person and this is Literally only my 3 video/short into your world! I think you are following your calling, really sad that it take something devastating to happen in our lives for most people i know to take a pause to self reflect. To do an self check of ourselves, it sure put you on your path...me too had an awakening in 2019. Still struggling at my older age but i havent given up the fight! Thank you for being so transparent and vunerable and for being brave enough to be on camera (i cant 😢) its givin me confidence than i had in a perspective kind of way! Thank sis! Where can i see more of your videos/content?

  • @sanjanasakhare2188
    @sanjanasakhare2188 11 місяців тому +4

    i hope you would make more videos like these hope u and avni are doing well

  • @harithaabharathan2311
    @harithaabharathan2311 11 місяців тому +3

    Early❤ love u sara❤.... love ur channel guys... keep posting more❤. much love to u... I could relate to u in an another level😂❤

  • @keplerkangroo8715
    @keplerkangroo8715 11 місяців тому +2

    this was a very validating recounting of the immigrant experience that is not normally discussed as much

  • @iamannjan
    @iamannjan 11 місяців тому +4

    Journey of confidence and self love is difficult but its completely worth it❤

  • @meera6428
    @meera6428 11 місяців тому +2

    Ek video marathi madhe please!!
    (One video in marathi pleaseeee)

  • @anaya9438
    @anaya9438 11 місяців тому +3

    I almost never comment, but I had to because I felt so seen by this video. Thank you Sara. I know it couldn't have been easy to make this.

  • @divita5717
    @divita5717 11 місяців тому +2

    ur marathi accent is really cute tho i luv my maratha fam i live in pune too its crazy knowing u used to live there also plz teach me marathi goddamn mai idhar almost 8 saal se rehe rahi hu mujhe genuinely bohot kam marathi aati hai shameful tbh i wish i knew

  • @jjfrost4678
    @jjfrost4678 7 місяців тому +1

    honestly even in india itself my hindi accent changed from how it was in my early childhood to now...i had UP hindi accent, to mumbai hindi accent, to punjabi hindi accent then haryanvi and now its messed up🤣🤣🤣🤣 (I don't know if its sccent or dialect so pardon me for that)....but yaa totally relatable, as now I live in southern america and I hv started using their slang and my english accent still hv that indian thing to it but sometimes it does not.

  • @tanishamalhi
    @tanishamalhi 11 місяців тому +3

    im 16th! love ur vids soo much!!

  • @yxngkayplayscod
    @yxngkayplayscod 11 місяців тому +4

    You did not cry but I did 😭 Fr tho I’m so happy for you that you were able to find yourself, you don’t have to fit in anywhere and you don’t have to pretend for no one, we will always love and support you 🫶❤

  • @PalsLivesLife
    @PalsLivesLife 11 місяців тому +1

    Yep.. whhite people.. that's the correct Pune way to say white. ❤ Because waaeet means bad. 😂 If you know, you know.

  • @hidivya31
    @hidivya31 11 місяців тому +5

    love you sara ❤ your experience hit home to me

  • @muuomutua381
    @muuomutua381 11 місяців тому +2

    wow..that's great,accepting who you are..and your beauty is really stunning

  • @HelenGetu-tw3sj
    @HelenGetu-tw3sj 6 місяців тому +1

    My love, this is the diaspora. Diaspora will never feel enough to be either one of their two identities, the way I found a good way to settle in my identity was accepting that I am diaspora. I’m Ethiopian but I was born and raised in the states, in Ethiopia I wasn’t Ethiopian I was American, but in America I was African and never fully American so describing myself as diaspora became the easiest way to show myself. This happens to immigrants as well, when they stay in a different place from their native home for too long they develop into a diaspora. I think it’s this beautiful point of intersectionality that only diasporas can understand each other regardless of where they are from. I’m so glad you’re embracing both your identities, and choosing what’s best for you and no one else!

  • @ramanihusic9013
    @ramanihusic9013 11 місяців тому +4

    i have literally the same experience. i was born in bosnia and moved to germany when i was 10. it is easier because i dont look different from the typical german, bosnia is still in europe. Its just hard cause i cant speak perfect german nor bosnian. i feel quite embarrassed when making mistakes. im not really german but i feel like im missing out on a lot of bosnian culture. i found very good friends who accept me though so im very greatful

  • @surjitsingh1316
    @surjitsingh1316 11 місяців тому +4

    FIRST!!!

  • @ayaahmed-6378
    @ayaahmed-6378 11 місяців тому +2

    I just wanna say I had the same jacket for p.e class when i was ten😭

  • @angelf722
    @angelf722 7 місяців тому +1

    At the end of the day speak in the accent you feel most comfortable in, nothing wrong with that. Not every immigrant will relate to this though, because some of us moved to London at a super young age, and we naturally grew up speaking english or forgot our accent, if we even had one. But there's other ways to express your south asian identity, for me my accent is the only british thing about me, but from my taste in food, clothes, places i go to, activities i partake in, I am always a south asian, accent doesn't change anything.

  • @SuhanaLal-y6e
    @SuhanaLal-y6e 11 місяців тому +4

    SARA I LOVE YOUUUUUU

  • @kavya12kohli
    @kavya12kohli 11 місяців тому +3

    It's really nice to meet the Indian accent Sara! Also, all this time, everybody was shipping you and Louis, not realising you were already together was a nice twist. You both are so cute together. I'm partial but I love your Indian accent. You sound closer to me if that makes sense? As in, the accent makes me feel like you're one of my friends because that's what we sound like.
    P.S. I love you ❤️. You are an amazing human.

  • @adisoo3396
    @adisoo3396 10 місяців тому +2

    It was really well put and said, well done. As an immigrant that came to the UK in 2013 related super hard

  • @jessicabrown11
    @jessicabrown11 11 місяців тому +2

    as a third culture kid, I related to every single word you uttered. love always

  • @TokoAceh123
    @TokoAceh123 2 дні тому

    wth you don't need to explain yourself i love Indian I love India period ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Siennajs
    @Siennajs 10 місяців тому +1

    When i speak English i change the accent, don't know if that's a problem.

  • @nandinihans9130
    @nandinihans9130 11 місяців тому +4

    I think you are amazing with either accent.
    Loads of love.❤

  • @sophie_drachen
    @sophie_drachen 11 місяців тому +2

    I would love to hear you speak Marathi!
    I speak English, and I live in Wales and I was born in Wales, I am proud to be Welsh and I feel like I just don't have the Welsh accent at all... it's only that the town that I live in is too close to England and I guess it might've influenced my accent. To be honest, I think "dear God, I really don't sound Welsh, so how could I possibly conceive the notion that I am Welsh if my accent is weird in Welsh and English". Welsh is my (sort of) second language, and my accent is *dreadful* in it.

  • @fiofreddy7201
    @fiofreddy7201 Місяць тому

    Tbh I have a Yorkshire accent due to living in the uk for a very long time, but at the same time won’t speak English with my Asian accent. It just doesn’t come naturally. But my accent will change when I speak Tamil, not with an English accent. So I don’t understand switching the language to a different accent when you can speak perfectly fine in both!

  • @niqslaholic6063
    @niqslaholic6063 11 місяців тому +2

    I felt the same way when I moved from the Caribbean to England. I felt like I was a different person trying to get people to understand me so I changed my accent. I sooo get it.

  • @jyothsnak3679
    @jyothsnak3679 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi Sarah.. I just need to get this off my chest. I have watched one of your videos a few months ago. You remind me of someone who passed away two years ago. She and I both from Pune.

  • @apoorvapatwardhan
    @apoorvapatwardhan 11 місяців тому +2

    you know what's even more interesting is that I was born and brought up in india and I am from pune too, so I have an indian accent through and through, but even here, I unknowingly have switched up my english accent when I am speaking with someone from south bombay (a comparatively richer area) vs when I am speaking with someone from pune or from north bombay. I switch up my Hindi accent when I speak with someone from the north of India(a predominantly hindi speaking area) vs when I am speaking to someone who isn't from a hindi speaking background. accent switching is a very human thing to do, especially if you're multilingual. and it's a lot harder if you're deliberately doing so. so if you ever hear someone code-switching while speaking, know that most likely it's not deliberate and just a matter of habit.

  • @p.kimberlythomas1255
    @p.kimberlythomas1255 11 місяців тому +3

    Love ur true accent. Glad to see you sharing ur true self with ur audience. Also so glad u and Louis/Lewis have gotten together. Reach for the stars babe!

  • @thedarkestsunn
    @thedarkestsunn 11 місяців тому +1

    LMFAOOOOOOO im guyanese i thought white people only existed in movies too

  • @Hi.Hey123
    @Hi.Hey123 11 місяців тому +2

    WHY DOES THIS HAVE BARLEY ANY VEIWS U NEED MORE VEIWS SARA
    LOVE YOUUUUUU

  • @studyaestheticlly
    @studyaestheticlly 11 місяців тому +1

    i dont know maybe I was sort of relating to put on mask thing or not but i cried watching your video

  • @SHARPTWINS
    @SHARPTWINS 11 місяців тому +3

    Amazing video Sara ❤