Changing Your Narrative - Victim to Victor

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  • Опубліковано 29 жов 2024

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  • @zXJulianXz
    @zXJulianXz 6 років тому +5

    You are wise beyond your years. I recently went through a very traumatic event that brought up a lot of stuff and caused me to lose four months of my life to depression and crippling anxiety. It was pivotal though. I am hardened from that experience. I want to take back control. You cannot rely on other people to treat you fairly, so don't! Take what they should give you for your own preservation. Give what you can to those less fortunate than you. Live a life of meaning and action and importance, as opposed to a life of emptiness, passivity and impotence.
    KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! ;)

    • @ThomasHenley
      @ThomasHenley  6 років тому +2

      Keep it up man, I’m glad to hear it when people decide to make that turn. The whole process is more of a trial and error. Two steps forward, one step back, sometimes you stay in the same spot, sometimes you run forward and trip over.
      Lovely to have such a well thought out commment. I, and Im sure others, appreciate your kind words.
      Keep regular buddy 😊

    • @zXJulianXz
      @zXJulianXz 6 років тому +1

      Aspergers Growth aye, I like your sincerity. Keep it up! :)

  • @charimonfanboy
    @charimonfanboy 6 років тому +2

    I think I get the whole narrative thing, when I came out in highschool it split the school between those, including everyone I hung out with, who were freaked out by it, ditched me and avoided me from then on and those who bullied me because of it. At least, I thought I was ditched by my friends, I hung out with them for a week or so, but they were acting weird around me, or at least I was more aware of them acting weird around me. I am thinking that we weren't really friends anyway so much as they were just too polite to tell me to go away when I sat with them. I tried getting to class or lunch early and sit down with spaces around me to see if they would join me, which they didn't. These days I have no idea if they ditched me, or if I was always a tag along and when I stopped trying to tag along it just didn't click with them or if I isolated myself from them because of the narrative in my head of "no one likes you and it's not like it matters since I'm not going to live past highschool anyway."

    • @ThomasHenley
      @ThomasHenley  6 років тому +2

      Awh man.. yeah people can be tough, especially kids. Take solice in the fact you aren’t alone, an astonishing amount of Aspies have negative, confusing and depressing childhood experiences.
      I know it’s horrible to hear people say they ‘UNDERSTAND’, but I think you’ll find a lot of people can relate to you in some way. I honestly have no idea how I’m still alive today and how I coped, but be proud of yourself for taking on such a difficult early life. It makes you STRONG 💪🏻 so remember to give major credit to yourself for sticking around.
      I hope you can take on board my story, and believe if you try, stay consistent and do your research... I’ve come a long way, but I still have a way to go until I’ve reached the happy place so stick with me and we can sort it.
      Thank you so much for being so active on my channel, I do see who comments and I remember.
      ASPIES UNITE! 🙌🏻

  • @black_horse_lover2655
    @black_horse_lover2655 6 років тому +1

    Really awesome entrance😄

  • @MrMattytube
    @MrMattytube 5 років тому

    I can relate to you so much bro, you're a good role model for me, even though you're a similar age. I hope I can work up the courage to go traveling like you

    • @ThomasHenley
      @ThomasHenley  5 років тому +1

      Thanks a lot! You definitely can, the hardest part is booking the flights 💪🏻

  • @black_horse_lover2655
    @black_horse_lover2655 6 років тому

    You say really wise things, thank you

    • @ThomasHenley
      @ThomasHenley  6 років тому +1

      And thank you for supporting my content, I can’t get it out without people like you.
      Thank you for staying active and contributing to my channel, I really appreciate it 😊

    • @black_horse_lover2655
      @black_horse_lover2655 6 років тому

      Aspergers Growth 😊 Of course

  • @lucacilaura-otilia4333
    @lucacilaura-otilia4333 6 років тому +2

    Do you have an Instagram account?

    • @ThomasHenley
      @ThomasHenley  6 років тому

      I do indeed, it’s @thomashenleytkd 😁

  • @sillyfool7207
    @sillyfool7207 Рік тому

    Nice message! Positive message... You're a bit like me!...Thanks mate...From Australia.