Why I STOPPED Wasting Time Making Friends After 60
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- Now that I'm over 60 I don't feel the desire to put in the effort to make new friends. I think an awful lot of women over 60 also feel like this. Today, I want to share why I don't have very many friends left and why I'm not going to go out and make new ones.
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I completely agree with you. People are exhausting and backstabbing.
SO exhausting!!
Civic, church and volunteer groups likewise. Some in these groups are controlling and narcissistic.
@@sociologyaddict8689 I’d rather argue with my cat, all she can do is return a meow!
@msmarie2023Marie-ne7qm 😆
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We feel empowered as we age, I like you don't sugar coat things. I love the line "the need to need someone" I agree there is no room for negative in our lives at this stage of our lives. Trusting your people that feel like home is the best!
Exactly!
Give me animals over people any day..❤
Yasssssssssss girl!!!!!
I just turned 50 and I'm done. I am still working and that is enough interaction for me. I tried making friends, really put in the effort and people just trauma dump now. I can't do the compare the resume, one upping, phone obsessed, and no real conversation beyond surface items, I just can't. One lady I was out with, she kept making snide comments about my material things, which I could care less about but obviously she had an issue with it. I go to art classes, I visit museums and I hike. I'm also around animal rescue people and that is enough for me. I'm like you, I am direct. I'm not loud, I'm just truthful. I don't have time to waste anymore and bend over backwards for people who would run me over in the parking lot.
I totally get what you're saying! Thanx for sharing your thoughts. Always appreciated!
Very well said 👏
I completely agree with you. I'm 62 this year and 5 years ago I began a relationship with myself. I too don't sugar coat things and I've realised, although people can see truth staring them in the face, they prefer sticking their heads in the sand and goodness help you if you expose the reality. I can't be bothered. At my age, making friends means accumulating drama. I don't want to know about someone else's Daughters husband who won't do the dishes etc! I have two Dogs, a Beddlington and a rescue, disabled Greyhound. I go to Marrakech twice a year by myself and my eldest Daughter looks after my Dogs. Life is great, I feel completely fulfilled and although I have short chats with other dog walkers or shoppers in the local store, it's enough for me. Since covid, people seem angrier and less tolerant of other people and their opinions. I've never kept large circles of company though, my home is my sanctuary! I have date nights and go to the cinema by myself and I enjoy it very much. Thank you for your videos and good luck with your Dog rescue centre. Please send some nice weather to a very chilly UK 🇬🇧 🙏
Your life sounds wonderful!! Marrakesh? Wow nice!!!
Me too! I am 62 1/2. Grateful for many things, but UA-cam helps a lot. Love watching music videos from the 70's & 80's. Listening to "rock star interviews". Love my cats. Absolutely love being with myself - talking to myself while shoveling snow. Singing to myself while mowing the lawn on a beautiful summer day.
Say it loud sister!!👏 You have 100% mirrored my thoughts here. I too was an extrovert until my mid 50s. These days I have no time for gossip and drama ,therefore I prefer to hang out with my cats and dogs and ..myself! 😅 💗🌞🌷
Yes girl, pets are life 😍 💖
I'm the same, if I want to be around people I just go to the store, and say hi to people. " I don't like talking to people I know, but strangers I have no problem with." - Larry David
Love that quote!!!
I agree with you 100 percent. 😊
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Yes!!!!!
Crocheting, knitting ,making jewelry, painting are my best friends 😁
Introvert shout out👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I have 2 friends that I've known for 45+ years,they are my tribe❤.
I totally agree with you. People are strange 🤷🏾♀️
Yes, no filters, I tell people " I don't beat around the bush" I would rather tell you straight to the point.
Love the tats❤❤
Thanx!! It's nice to have a small tribe 😌 😊
You have an amazing soul of acceptance, detaching from what no longer serves you and speaking your authentic truth 🌗🪞🌓
It took me a long time to get here! Thank you 🧡🤗
You are right, the best way to deal with toxic people is to remove yourself from the situation. Toxic people aren't going to change. I learned that the hard way.
Exactly it's SO important to leave the situation!!
I'm in total agreement! I've always been a loner. And now, at the age of 66, i'm even more so. It's good (in a weird way) to hear that you see the hatefulness that's becoming the norm. It's a bad time if you need people! BTW it's so nice to see your curtains blowing in the breeze. Very relaxing!
Hatefulness, seems like there's so much of it now 😢. Thanx for watching!
Good luck with the dog sanctuary. That sounds beautiful
Thanx! 🐶🤗
I feel the same way, and I am basically a hermit.
I'm heading that way!
I so agree that it is such a colder world now.
I have had difficulty with people all my life and it’s just worse now . I wish I could have a dog or cat.
I had been a people pleaser for the sake of keeping so called friends.
I have 2 people now that are still friends and know my authentic self.
I am so much more content with no drama and bullkaka.
I enjoy your posts and relating to you.
I have never been good at small talk.
wish my health was better so that I could travel again.
It shouldn’t be surprised that You are getting so much bad , hurtful comments. You are being Real.
perhaps that threatens them and Jealousy is a very toxic emotion.
I think you are great 🙋♀️👍🤗💃
Thank you so much Suzanne. I appreciate your kind words.
I agree with you. I think that at our ages that we finally put ourselves first and concentrate on things that make us happy and fulfilled. ❤
Exactly!! Thanx for watching!
I don't want to be alone all the time - I do enjoy other people's company - but I no longer take "friendship" seriously nor expect much from it. If we can enjoy hobbies together or just shoot the breeze, that's great, but the difference is that I now view these people as acquaintances and am no longer stressed or disappointed. I agree that friendships are exhausting in this day and age. I was once told I "must not want friends" because I'm not constantly on my phone talking and texting and posting on social media and "liking" others' posts all day long. Apparently that's what it takes today, and that's a change from friendships years ago. Finally, when you retire in your 60s and/or your kids grow up and leave home, that removes a whole "world" where we once had close friends, so it makes sense you'd have fewer after that age.
Thanx for sharing your thoughts and for watching! 🫶💕
Female here using my band account. I am 46 and feel similar. I have given a lot of myself in friendship. People haven't had a lot to give me. So I am grateful for the few friends I do have and not looking to make more. People do have a lot of pressure on them financially and emotionally. It's all good.
Enjoyed your chat with Deb. So glad I have been introduced to your channel!
Oh, thanx so much for watching that and welcome to my channel :) Lovely to have you here.
This is the BEST video I've ever seen on this subject. Nails every feeling I have about friends at our age. TFS! 👍💯
Thanx for watching and glad it resonated with you!!
I am 70 years old and disabled. I had an older friend whom I would give rides to. She lived 30 miles away in Los Angeles. After I retired and had a major back surgery, I realized that she only wanted me as a taxi. Everything changed for me. She had her health struggles too. I have walked away because she couldn’t understand my situation. I have chronic pain. Great video. Thank you very much❤
Sorry that happened to you 😔
I have more to say, LOL! Yes to the no to the gossip! I can't take that anymore. It's mind numbing. I just attended an educator's conference and pretty much stuck to myself. The gossipy, whining, one upping was enough for me. I sat at my table and had things to do in between talks. I also brough my camera and was happy just taking my pics. People do not want to heal themselves, which mean owning the truth. It's few and far between. No accountability or self/social awareness.
You're right, people don't want to heal themselves. It takes a lot of work and no one wants to do that. It's so sad.
58 and quit my job 7 years ago after having a panic attack. No regrets. I thought my coworkers were my friends and then silence after I left. I embrace the silence now, no drama or gossip. You have to be fake to be popular. No thanks.
Ya hard pass on being fake...no thanx!
The more I know people more the more I like my dogs. It’s hard to find people like minded when you’re older. ❤
At 55..i have the same mindset..getting older wakes you up to what really matters in life. 💐💖
Oh, it sure does!!!
Oh thank goodness! I thought I was the only 62 year old who prefer's my own company.I have become a real homebody,I will occasionally go out and socialize but mostly I stay home.I find it a sanctuary from the world.I am an artist and spend my time painting.I cant be bothered peopleing .I also learnt how to say "no thankyou" to things I dont want to do.I no longer feel guilty doing my own thing.I get enough interaction on UA-cam.
You're definitely not alone!!!!
I love staying home with my 3 dogs, and enjoy walking around my neighborhood and exercising at home. I have never been a big people person.. I have my adult children, and that's enough. I literally can't stand the gossip, jealousies and cliques at work anymore, and look forward to resigning in the very near future, to retire and finally get rid of that toxicity. I love your idea of the dog sanctuary.. I am seriously thinking about volunteering at dog rescues once I retire. I enjoy your videos, and I can totally relate.. May God bless you! 💟
OH I hope you find an animal shelter or rescue center to volunteer with!! Thanx for watching and Bless you too! xo
Dear, sending you a warm hug from Canada. Love your 100% honesty.
Thanx and I'll return that with a warm hug from Guatemala!
I’ve been done with people for a long time. As an introvert born in an extroverted world with extroverted family, I had to socialize, and then I had to go to school and work, etc. I’ve lived my entire life out of my comfort zone. At work, during lunch break, even when there was a massive storm, I needed to get out, sit in my car if I couldn’t drive, just to get away from people. I’ve spent a lot of time on the internet throughout the years to post and debate about activism. Aside from personal experiences with people and how 💩💩 they are, I realized that they’re more so 💩💩💩 on the internet because their true self comes to light. And they never disappoint.
Thank goodness that I never needed the validation of the outside world to be true to myself. That’s why I enjoy my own company more than anything else in the world. This way, when we detach from the noise, we can dig deep and find the truth. It builds character and perspective on what’s important and what truly matters.
Thanx for sharing all your thoughts about this and people. I agree with you!
61 here. You are absolutely 100% correct.
Thanx for watching!
61 and I feel the same way! I love my quiet time. I work full-time and when I clock out I can't wait to get home to my peace! If I never had to leave home, I wouldn't. I enjoy my sanity lol I hate drama and chaos, I choose to leave it behind. I'm alone, not lonely :) "The Older I Get" the song by Alan Jackson, pretty much sums it up for me lol
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Its totally true Iva...im 61 now but noticed since maybe 59 i started to feel exhausted with even try....although animals come first in my life, i too was an extrovert social butterfly 🦋 but now it's totally different. I don't mind being home with my cat and being involved in all my many animal charities is my greatest fulfilment....peacecul after 60 is now my best chapter 😹🐶🫶🇬🇧🐻ps i think you are really brave doing your channel regarding toxic horrible comments. I would be too sensitive as i cannot understand it. Nothing nice to say, keep quiet and change channels right. Hurt people hurt people ❤its there crap never yours!
People can be draining 😪
Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts 🫶💕
I sure hope our conversation yesterday (day before? I dunno anymore!) wasn't hurtful. I'm just learning how to say no to doing the things that are really hard for me, so I probably haven't gotten the tact part down yet. I get almost sick if I have a Facetime appointment or have to talk on the phone. All my life I told myself how defective that is and to just DO IT. Nowadays, I've given myself permission to be honest and say, "I can't." And feel no shame. BUT, I never want to hurt someone's feelings either. It's like walking a tightrope sometimes, isn't it? Good video, girl, enjoyed it!
Of course it wasn't hurtful!! I love you because you're YOU!!!
@@WomenBlazingTrails Dats a relief! Thank you. xo
64 here , you are spot on . Dogs are my pals.
Dogs are life 🐶🧡
Well, I love your channel! You will not find " toxicity" from me. Perhaps the
" operative " word here is " need". I agree, when we find ourselves needing others or anything really we create suffering for ourselves. We cannot look to others to fill ourselves up, but when a lovely person crosses our path, to recognize them and reach out. Also, perhaps to understand that people/ friends are not always forever, they come and go as we change and they change. As it should be. Keep going my friend. Remain open, eyes wide open for change!!! P.S. You look so pretty in blue!!!
Thanx so much for sharing your thoughts on this. It's important to keep in mind that people do change.
Great video ! Thanks🤗
Thanx for watching!! 🫶
I like people overall, but it's important to be our own gatekeepers. Protecting who and what we are exposed to is a form of selflove & selfcare. It's about boundaries, as you mentioned. And balance too. I've had my share of toxic relationships & friendships in my lifetime. I honestly don't have the energy anymore. I'm 61 & single. No pressure. No expectations. No bs. I strive for serenity & peace. I have learned to enjoy my own company. I like who I am and who I'm becoming. I'm on a journey of self-discovery and I'm loving it. Thank you for your videos. I appreciate them & you. :)
Thanx for chiming in and sharing your thoughts! 💕🫶
I will not tolerate lies, bs , backstabbing and fair weather friends. Compassion, respect and letting others live their lives in peace matters to me. So yeah, I hit the delete and block in real life. I am very choosy who I let in and negative, toxic people are not welcome.
It's the best way to be!!
Yeah, this friend who never let me speak and everything was about her, she came back into my life. I just grey rocked her when she told me about her wedding. She just wanted my sympathy, attention and attunement. She would give about 5 min worth back. So I gave her nothing. Feels right .
Many years ago, I took a personality test and my score said I was an Extroverted Introvert. It made so much sense! I'm okay in groups but I don't specifically get energy from being around other people, which a true extrovert does. So I, too, am perfectly happy in my own skin and do not feel the need to assemble a huge group around me all the time!
Thanx for sharing that!
I hate the expectations that others require from me. I'm 66 and love spending time with myself! I'm my best friend! Love cooking, studying, reading,sewing, etc. My cat, Willow, is my best buddy! I love animals more than people most of the time. I am married and raised 5 kids. I get you! Thanks for sharing! ❤😊
5 kids wow!! Thanx for watching and sharing your thoughts! xo
I agree,
the world is a different place!
It really is.
WBT I agree ! I like people n my life who make sense to my life style we hav to b able to disagree w/out it causing tension agreements exhausting or draining one who listens not over talking each other I’m not gon sugar coat nothing nor do I want them to sugar coat at this point it Must b smooth sailing I’m not gon b stressed out bout another person for Nothing !! And I love this soft smooth life I’m living (72 n March ) ❤
Amen to all that!
I'm 63 , I'm open to quality connections with people, but not superficial ones. No time,or mental space for that. ps the devil hangs out in the comment section 🤦🏾♀️ but there's a few genuine souls there too ✌🏾💖
Totally agree!!
Great video, this really resonated with me.Thank you.I wish we can be friends, but I live in California.I totally get you! Watching videos like this makes me feel I have friends to connect with.Take care Iva.
Thanx Lisa. I'm glad these videos help you even a little! 💕🙌🫶
You nailed it
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I’d like good conversation like once a month. Otherwise people-ing is for sure overwhelming. I tend to overshare then regret talking to the person. Just over it. Here at home with my 4 legged kids is my happy place. You’re so spot on with this video for me. Love the cat pic (she’s lying) 😂😂👍
I'd love to have good conversation too but I'm struggling to find even that.
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I too went from being an extreme extrovert to really not needing people so much. I still love my friends but I don't need them to be around all the time. I am so comfortable in my own skin.
Same! It's weird for me because I've always needed people around me. Now? Meh, hard pass...
I’m my own best friend lost the only person who loved me for me my late husband we loved each other so much he has been gone 27 years tried one other relationship just always compare him too Steven that wasn’t fair too him so here I am in my 60s loving life on my healing journey I can’t have complainers negative narcissistic just plain nasty people who have too bring you down they see you working too be a better version of yourself & they don’t like it cause they are STUCK in there own way & this includes family which is sad but I don’t loose any sleep over it ! Being able too do your own thing when & when you want is the way I want too live out the rest of my life with my 🐶 who loves me unconditionally I love her so much I get joy from just watching her play anyhoo raved on too long sending love & strength from Australia ❤☀️💐
Thank you for sharing your story and thoughts xoxo
dear I understand
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I'm there too. I think the more we belong to ourselves, the less need we have to fit in anywhere else.
I've always preferred animals over ppl. They do heal us❤
They're very healing! 💕🫶
Cats are awesome!
Ha! They sure are!
I have no friends, I was once really outgoing, the social person, has lots friends, I no longer desire that!
Weird how we suddenly stop desiring that.
@@WomenBlazingTrails Lots things are weird, what kind of weird are you ?
The kinda weird that prefers animals to humans, that has great conversations with her cats, not so much with people. You?
@@WomenBlazingTrails My weird is trying to learn cat meows 🙀 haven’t tried the dog growls yet!
Yup! no I don't go out of my way to make friends, but I don't miss an opportunity when it confronts me. Just let them talk, keep it close, and you will find out what you need to know.
Exactly!!
In your videos, you often discuss the concept of 'limiting friendships' after 60. I'm curious to know how your perspective on this influences your approach to social media and video content creation. Do you find that sharing aspects of your life online aligns with your philosophy of limiting friendships, or do you see it as a different kind of connection? And what are your thoughts on the balance between authentic sharing and maintaining a healthy online presence? I'm sincerely interested in this because I think you may have revealed an important consideration choosing an online endeavor and how to structure it. It's one of the issues I've wondered about.
This is a good topic.
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I don't create videos to make friends. I create to educate, entertain, inspire, motivate, empower, etc. I share what I feel comfortable sharing and only if I feel it will resonate with my viewers and they can get something out of it.
Great questions by the way. 💕🫶
@WomenBlazingTrails bheres an example. Some creators make friends behind the scenes and sometimes create issues. Some start fights for subscribers too.
One lady was trying to help someone and people in comments and other vloggers sabotaged her efforts. You'd be surprised. This is YT and some treat it like social media.
Your answer helps to reframe other ways to do YT. 💯
Thank you for explaining.
Fights for subscribers? Good grief. Grow up. People are exhausting
ME TOO! GAVE UP...people are toxic, ill-mannered, and selfish.
Yup 🫣
Yes, sis, anger & hatred. It's a huge turn-off. Find the ❤
Love is always the answer!!!!!
I dont think you are broken😂😂 you are a realistic optimist. Tell them to hop off my life train if you arent enjoying the ride.
Choo choooooooo
Haha choo wooooooo!!!
Hurt people hurt people...
And misery loves company
I feel like when you are over 60 you lose friends because they are dying. Facebook is like an obituary list
You're not wrong
How is the quitting smoking going???
I slipped back am back on track!
I'm sorry you get those negative Nancy types that are so judgemental and hurtful. Their nasty comments say more about the state of their soul than it does about you. It's sad to know that these people are so miserable. I agree with you. I don't like or need other people's drama in my life. I need inner peace at this point in my life.
Ya so many angry and hurt people in the world today it seems.
I find that lots of men cannot bear it that many older women just want to be solo with cats and live our own life and they seem to be furious that we are still alive and these things are used as insults 😂 cats and birthdays and still being alive to an old age, are sneered and spat at us, it’s weird that they’re so angry that women want to avoid their miserable azz 😂
Right? They seem to get so butt hurt over that...like who cares, leave us alone!!
Well we don't have the progesterone and eostrogen (caring hormones) that we did in our young days
havent had friends in a long time dont think they ever were so really mates assosiates colleegs and random folk i am 58 dont want need friends but would be nice thow tbh & yep sometime we are worth the effort
I totally get that!
People have become to focused on their own needs and not thinking of anyone else … only what makes them comfortable … just easier by yourself
Yes exactly!
Well I'm taking my time. I'm just moving on. You'll forget about me after I've been gone and I take what I find. I don't want no more. It's just outside of your front door. ~ Boston (1976)
Ooooooh good song!!!! 🎵🎵
MS SISTERHOOD!..PLAY! AND ..LOVE LIFE! .. ..WE JUST TRY TO BE IN THIS WORLD AND NOT OF IT!
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I told my son’s I was thinking about starting a channel. They warned me about the trolls. I have no female friends. I think most women are competitive and jealous at any age.
@MargaretGSmith-c1q yes, there are lots of trolls. If you can handle that, you should start a channel!
turn the comment sections off, if the negativity is too much for you to take
@@eyesofra1111 that's a good idea too!
What about family..they bring you drama they let you down and ruin your health.peace
Yup they do. Most of mine blocked me long ago
Hell im 38 and damn sick of ppl 😂
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hahaha your cats "commen"
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"Need to have friends" does seem to reduce with age. We do have fewer needs. However friends are fun. Well, for some people. I know many people who think most people are angry and hurtful and I think "Well yeah because you're a nightmare." I don't tell them this of course because it would do no good, they wouldn't believe it and poking nightmare people is not a good idea imo.
They do hurtful things to people yet expect to be thanked for their "truthfulness" as they put it
3:18 She explains this in detail. "I found my voice...lot of people get butt hurt over that." So you know you're a hurtful person. 1:40 complaining about "hurtful" people as a reason to not want to make friends.
This is super common in the US. People speak "the truth", meaning their opinion, but they think it's fact. It hurts people but they rationalize this as the hurt person's fault. "I just said the truth". This goes on for decades and by 60, 70 these nightmare people really have almost no options remaining. Everyone has been driven away years ago. They don't understand why everyone is so hurtful (meaning not agreeing with them on everything 100%). Exhaustion overwhelms them and they say they give up. One last "everyone is mean and I'm taking my ball and going home" tantrum. But it's never the last tantrum. They keep returning to the same tantrum over and over. They just can't handle no one cared.
It's not hard to avoid these nightmare people. They're like this 24/7. Within 30 second of conversation with them you know. Nice people are a joy to be around and they will around if you are also a joy to be around. Nightmare people will form intense relationships with other nightmare people for as long as there's 100% agreement on all topics. Normally alcohol is needed to keep these relationships going. But always very short duration. A day, a week, few months maybe.
It's an interesting dynamic. There seems no way for nightmare people to get out of that pattern. They get extremely defensive as their only remaining way to protect their ego. They can not face their part in this.
Interesting. Thanx!
While i agree with much of what you say n certainly you n other's are free to choose what is best for you i have a few observations. You do have a few trusted friends so thats perfectly ok. But often these videos attract many people who have no friends at all n claim to be ok with that. Im not sure this is true or long term good for people though i understand how many get to this point. Im 58 n single with no kids n though im noy as outgoing and social as i used yo be n menopause n life these days can oftem suck the energy out of me, i still do value friends n friendship in general but I've always had hood boundaries n never had very negative n toxic friends but have been very hurt by a friend group so i tendcto have just individual friends now which is safer n more fulfilling bc you're always chatting about or doing something specific to you. Sadly i think social media n evrn videos like this only show that people are still seeking connection n chance to express themselves otherwise why do a video n why do people comment. I think many people aee just afraid which is ok but be honest. Most healthy people want n need connection woth other healthy people not just animals. I also love to laugh n always been good at making others laugh. I think problem with women is few know hoe to disagree without being disagreeable n have poor communication skills . Good n healthy people are still out there though. Peace
Peace! 🙌🧡
My brother always asks me,why don't you come to the dinners for retirees ,I dint like them people then why would I now?
Ha, right?
i guess i'll find out if you blocked me. i don't want to be from the department of unwanted attention. i think you're a beautiful woman, both in appearance and personality. i'm a widower and have a world view pretty similar to your's. i don't socialize really at all anymore. i recognize in you that you're kind and not a golddigger. i live up in the frozen tundra where you despised living. but, i would really see you as someone i would be interested in if that wasn't the case. i have a youtube channel that might be in hiatus for awhile due to the tik tok ban.
Why would the TikTok ban affect your UA-cam channel? I don't even have the app on my phone
@@WomenBlazingTrails i don't have tik tok, but i use capcut as a portal to upload onto youtube. i think capcut is a subsidiary of tiktok. i'm not all that schooled in technology. tik tok was banned in the u.s.it's become a political football, i guess it's back up again so maybe i'll post tomorrow. i upload videos pretty much daily. i was a policeman for 30 years, i seek a life of peace now.
@brucehelppie6119 ah ok. Weird. I use capcut too I didn't know there was an issue.
Yes keep posting! 🙌
@@WomenBlazingTrails it was only banned in the us where i live, not anywhere else.
@@brucehelppie6119 Tik-Tok is back in the US😀
But wondering if where you live might also be more challenging because of the language barrier? just asking
Not really. There are lots of English speaking foreigners here
I don't want friends but I will make a video so lots of people look at me , jeez...
Thanx for watching. That's what I do. Make videos so lots of people look at me. 😎
People are crazy vicious.
Yup, they can be
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Respectfully, Please someone Help me to understand the reason(s) WHY a Woman would aLLow someone to SCRIBBLE on her body and Disfigure it with tattoos. To each His/ or Her Own because I certainly believe in someone having the Space to express themselves. But WHY in such a Hideous fashion 🤷🏻♀️ I grew up in the 70s, so I’m used to seeing Men (mostly Military) with tattoos, but I just DO NOT GET IT why Women are Choosing to tattoo themselves, and Especially in such an Obnoxious way.
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Hideous, Disfigure, Obnoxious
Wow! You're full of compliments today.
@ You’re right, and I Sincerely apologize 🙏🏽 to have offended you. I seem to go a little “nuts 🤪” when it comes to tattoos and I’m TOO opinionated. However, I honestly would like to know what inspired? You to get as many tattoos as you have 🤷🏻♀️
thank you. Honestly, I don't know. At first it was just me being young and 'cool'. I guess now it's just body inspiration for me.
As you said ? Buy a dog or a cat
Yup!
Adopt a pet....💚
yes, they are full of hate, I was sacked in a week, ladies told bad things about me, yes, it is better to be far from people
😥🧡 women can be so mean. sorry that happened to you
Babysitting grown ups !