Transforming Your Relationship with Anxiety, with Tara Brach

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  • Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
  • Livestream+Q&A: Transforming Your Relationship with Anxiety, with Tara Brach [from 2020-09-02]
    Strong anxiety frequently triggers fight-flight-freeze, our survival brain’s strategy for dealing with threats. This can become a trance that dominates our thoughts, feelings, behaviors and deepest experience of who we are. This talk explores how we get caught in this reactive trance, and ways of calming anxiety and radically shifting our way of relating to the experience of threat. The gift is discovering an inner freedom in the midst of life, and the capacity to respond to what arises with love-in-action.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 135

  • @julienorton1407
    @julienorton1407 4 роки тому +157

    I have Tara’s books but I love listening to her speak...for some reason her intonations are very soothing for me. Thanks for sharing your peace with us over this medium.

    • @krandly8
      @krandly8 3 роки тому +5

      I love her affect too

    • @bondgirrl007
      @bondgirrl007 3 роки тому +1

      L)))l

    • @masonart4950
      @masonart4950 3 роки тому +7

      She is an absolute blessing

    • @rhonamcmichael
      @rhonamcmichael 2 роки тому +2

      Totally agree

    • @luisxavila
      @luisxavila Рік тому +6

      I often just pick a talk I’ve already heard and go to sleep listening to her voice. Listening to her is calming enough to help me fall asleep faster. And if it’s a meditation like this one I’ll be asleep in minutes.

  • @maryannevanoff4464
    @maryannevanoff4464 2 роки тому +42

    So it is 2022. Long time follower to ms brach -years and reading her books. Just listened to this 2020 talk! Loved it. My biggest problems in life is myself. My whole life I felt there is something “wrong” with me. Always looking for the magic to free me from my pervasive anxiety and rumination revolving around how horrible life is and how can I feel better. I don’t realize that I am not the only person who may feel this way and that it is OK and I am ok not nuts. Thx Tara.

    • @elizabetheakman
      @elizabetheakman 3 місяці тому +1

      I too did not realize others, nearly all others, are dealing with despair and feelings of worthlessness, blame, shame and self torture. It helps to know that. But why? Is it the spiritual path?
      Does the spiritual need to damage the body?

  • @janestanton9422
    @janestanton9422 2 роки тому +12

    I have started saying to myself, there's no emergency going on right now and I give myself permission to relax for one minute. Then extend to five minutes and so on. It's helping me out with generalized anxiety in myself.
    Thank you so much for this beautiful video.

  • @healwith.ashley
    @healwith.ashley Рік тому +3

    I love Tara Brach. I also feel it's important to note that sometimes our anxieties are trying to show/ tell us something. Trust your gut

  • @arleneroth6369
    @arleneroth6369 Рік тому +3

    Hi Tara,
    Thank you for all your love, compassion and intelligence. I wish you and yours blessings.

  • @cookiecravingperson
    @cookiecravingperson 2 роки тому +15

    I return to this talk and practice as needed and it is such good medicine. Thank you, Tara. Those feeling anxious today, we are not alone.

  • @sojourner6046
    @sojourner6046 4 роки тому +58

    What a blessing that this video popped up on my feed on the day when my anxiety came out of nowhere, at a level I've not felt in years. Thank you for sharing. 🧡

  • @nancifiske3681
    @nancifiske3681 4 роки тому +30

    Tara, you have been a comfort to me for years now. Just hearing the gentle tone of your voice sometimes is all I need. Thank you for connecting so many hearts. And also, your beautiful face and radiant smile💕

  • @jacquelinethereseplunkett221
    @jacquelinethereseplunkett221 3 роки тому +7

    Anxiety and despair... welcome you belong... underneath it is so much grief...and underneath that there is the love, which is why we care so much to grieve.

  • @tovekane
    @tovekane 4 роки тому +25

    Tara thank you for your lovung reassurance and also - for the humour that you always find to help us access your teachings from an everyday perspective. Your compassion, wisdom, kindness and insight are so comforting. So grateful for your teachings! Thank you.

  • @mihajloe
    @mihajloe 4 роки тому +38

    Tara, you are such a guiding light for so many people. I just want to say thank you, for being always active, bringing your words of wisdom, peace, balance and awakening. My life is better after listening to your talks... it's like everything makes more sense. Blessings!!!

  • @manfredschmid9899
    @manfredschmid9899 2 роки тому +3

    such a magical space when we truly let go ........with gratitude TARA FOR UR GRACE AND LOVE ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;

  • @jadefg1353
    @jadefg1353 4 роки тому +11

    I have just recently returned to my workplace and been feeling fear and anxiety about being back out on public transport and around more people- I listen to Tara's podcast every morning on the journey to and then after work and it helps so much. I am so grateful to Tara. Thank you. Love and strength, and peace of mind, to everyone 🙏

  • @joanelderweller1
    @joanelderweller1 2 роки тому +4

    I like the idea of befriending anxiety. Working with it. Finding a blessing in it.

  • @VoiceoftheProphecy
    @VoiceoftheProphecy 2 роки тому +5

    Very powerful topic. Appreciate it

  • @Lilith__asmr
    @Lilith__asmr 4 роки тому +23

    It’s like you read my mind. I woke up an hour ago with anxiety (which I’ve been getting more and more in the morning now, used to be just at night) and thought I needed a meditation or some guidance and then I see you uploaded this. Thank you!

  • @mejiaguillermo4998
    @mejiaguillermo4998 2 роки тому +2

    Pleasure as always and nice to see you too my dearest online teacher Tara Brach!

  • @4tarakirk
    @4tarakirk 4 роки тому +31

    Experiencing major anxiety and come to my homepage and this is first thing I see 🙏🏼

  • @josephinemcdonnell9262
    @josephinemcdonnell9262 2 роки тому +2

    I endorse others beautiful comments which helps me understand and appreciate myself with compassion, love and gratitude.

  • @chayil0427
    @chayil0427 4 роки тому +17

    Namaste. I quit smoking 5 days ago, and I have been very reactive. This talk really helped.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 4 роки тому +3

      Bless you! Thank-you for taking care of yourself. Continue to heal your being, and be kind to yourself, whatever happens.

  • @lisalazo
    @lisalazo 4 роки тому +12

    This was my first time to be a part of your mindfulness meditation and talk on youtube. Thank you so much! I needed this group energy that was created to help me be present with my own anxiety that has been building up over the last few weeks. It helped unravel a lot for me. I look forward to attending a live class. Blessings to you all:)

  • @smongo182
    @smongo182 2 роки тому +2

    I am in the middle of reading your book Radical Acceptance. It is without a doubt the best (self-help) book I have ever read. It's one that I will read and listen to again and again. Thank you for being so generous as you graciously share your knowledge and gifts with the world. I only wish I discovered your brilliance sooner!

  • @mariagoldstein5494
    @mariagoldstein5494 3 роки тому +8

    Tara you have helped me so much. I've taken your amazing course. Thank you.

  • @carolpridgeon8200
    @carolpridgeon8200 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you so much again, Tara, your wisdom is so profound and your compassion seems to know no bounds. I cried off and on listening to this podcast and am so appreciative of your healing space. Namaste' from Humboldt County in California!

  • @mindfulnesstoday6
    @mindfulnesstoday6 4 роки тому +7

    So full of presence, wisdom and care. Its so wonderful to watch you Tara and to be invited to your Q/A:s. Thank you for bringing compassion, balance and healing into this world. I think that is something we need more than ever.
    One of my favorite quotes on fears/anxiety (I heard it on your podcast with Jim Gordon) was something like "to deal with the fear you have to walk through the fear". That really resonated with me.
    Thank you and namaste!

  • @AJHillhiker
    @AJHillhiker 4 роки тому +14

    I’m so grateful for you Tara. Thank you for what you bring to the world.

  • @utaschmelter2630
    @utaschmelter2630 4 роки тому +11

    This was really helpful Tara, thank you so much. Love and Blessings from Germany 🙏🧡💛🧡

  • @faysaunders2582
    @faysaunders2582 2 роки тому +1

    Tara, you are so beautiful inside and out,! Love your quiet spirit,! Thankyou for all you do.

  • @froipieces
    @froipieces 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Tara❤ for being my meditation guide everyday for the last 7 years. You have given me the tools to find my light💫

  • @ingridborate1064
    @ingridborate1064 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart 🌹

  • @JN-0peny0ureye5
    @JN-0peny0ureye5 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for giving us a visual example of being in the present with your patience✌️❤️🙏

  • @pamela2862
    @pamela2862 3 роки тому +1

    THANK YOU TARA AND FRIENDS! I am grateful for your teachings and sharing!

  • @bgabaldon2
    @bgabaldon2 4 роки тому +5

    Very good. Thank you and blessings to all.

  • @dianneschmid8129
    @dianneschmid8129 Рік тому

    Thank u Tara for uniting us as a beautiful family feeling the love the light the the honest truth as we are willing to share with u
    Love and joy and blessings 🕊🍀🍀🍀❤️

  • @ruth6833
    @ruth6833 3 роки тому +1

    'Something in you is dedicated to healing' and the advice Tara gave to Jennifer 1:31 so helpful as I could relate. I guess the body is a trustworthy barometer of truths that underly all our pains that can be portals into our inherent wholeness 🙏💛

  • @onanee8488
    @onanee8488 Рік тому +1

    This talk was most helpful. I struggle with anxiety/panic disorder/c-PTSD for many years. I have been following a number of different teachers for a good while, involved with 'self-inquiry', meditation and mindfulness skills.(* I also have been fighting breast caner for the past 14 yrs...this past Jan. 2022, I was diagnosed with it becoming 'metastastic'. I am on an experimental tx...it seems to be helping, except the side affects can be debilitating. I have other health issues besides this. I am Hopeful and see myself in recovery...Living with a terminal disease, has been a blessing with focusing to stay in the moment, knowing just how Impermanent this life is. So, underneath the anxiety and all is 'Grief'. I can so relate and empathize with what everyone seems to be experiencing with so much uncertainty with what has been happening in our world. I love how you explain so easily about, 'just allowing' to feel what comes. I am able to do this to a certain point and have allowed the feelings to surface even though they are unpleasant... after a while, the stress lessons in spite of the 'ruminating' and hashing over the trauma when it gets triggered. The more I allow, the lessor the feelings take over. It eventually passes. Honestly though, I get tired and fed up with myself when I still 'trance react' as you say. I realize this is a process and how I must be more gentle with myself with this process. Thank you for the helpful tips and your compassion and understanding for what we are all going through. Blessings to you Ms Tara. GBY! Namaste'...❤‍🩹❤

  • @sikelelwaskoti6267
    @sikelelwaskoti6267 2 роки тому +2

    Thank Queen for the beautiful work you do♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘😘😘😘😘

  • @mrobillard7553
    @mrobillard7553 4 роки тому +6

    Good morning from Ontario, Canada. Sending much Love & Blessings!
    🙏💞💖

    • @MultiFreddy34
      @MultiFreddy34 4 роки тому +3

      Good afternoon to you from London Ontario Canada!

    • @djleduc7380
      @djleduc7380 4 роки тому +3

      And blessings from Toronto lots of good knowledge being had in Ontario this is great :)

  • @Carolleemakesthings
    @Carolleemakesthings 4 роки тому +6

    This was an exceptionally helpful meditation and dharma talk. Thank you.

  • @seamusdebuitleir20
    @seamusdebuitleir20 3 роки тому +1

    Tanx Tara, A true lady Buddha, a long distant runner for humanity.🔑💚☘️🤝🧘🏼‍♂️🙏🏻

  • @richkimchi
    @richkimchi 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you, Tara. Such a substantial teaching.

  • @Monkey_PNut
    @Monkey_PNut 4 роки тому +8

    thankyou and: every time I opened my eyes your lovely face looked back.. very comforting thankyou

  • @writeract2
    @writeract2 3 роки тому +3

    She is very very good - this was like the real therapy that used to go in the 70's.

    • @PHanomaly
      @PHanomaly 3 роки тому +2

      Right? What happened to therapy at a system level? They seem to have forgotten what was.

  • @산장노리
    @산장노리 4 роки тому +3

    Love and gratefulness from South Korea😊🙋🏻‍♀️🌎💕

  • @johnoffutt1646
    @johnoffutt1646 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Tara

  • @johnmckenzie5297
    @johnmckenzie5297 3 роки тому

    Thank you Tara for this wonderful gift you are all I felt you were and so much more words don't Express the breath and death of your of your Inspiration, I enjoy everything you shared tonight love you

  • @fran8935
    @fran8935 4 роки тому +3

    Beautiful - thank you so much Tara.

  • @judithkrause8550
    @judithkrause8550 4 роки тому +3

    I just listened to this today and it has helped so very much!

  • @yogachittammclauchlan6806
    @yogachittammclauchlan6806 Рік тому

    Absolutely marvellous strategies here and delivered with a beautiful equanimity. Gratitude from NZ

  • @leahboydmathis
    @leahboydmathis 4 роки тому +9

    Oh my gosh Tara, you are so beautiful!

  • @meghan42
    @meghan42 3 роки тому

    And yet we are still are on our own. Which is beautiful.

  • @ilzitek2419
    @ilzitek2419 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you.

  • @laureliaaaa
    @laureliaaaa 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you tara

  • @DidiyogasalsastudioTM
    @DidiyogasalsastudioTM 4 роки тому +2

    oh nice lots of information. excellent. let's stay connected Namaste & much kinness from the bottom of our hearts

  • @bethb7965
    @bethb7965 4 роки тому +1

    Having a bad day and was hoping this would help, but it's not. I can't concentrate at all.....Listening to Tara usually help, but not not today. The long periods of silence inbetween just aggravate me more today....

    • @janetmerrick2910
      @janetmerrick2910 4 роки тому

      I’m sorry, Beth. We have the talk now up on audio and will do a cut of the full video very soon. Many blessings, Janet (assistant to Tara)
      www.tarabrach.com/transforming-relationship-anxiety/

  • @minidocstv3339
    @minidocstv3339 11 місяців тому

    I was randomly listening to de Gabor Marte’ and he mentioned you and I here I am 😊the intro sound was peaceful (I even had headphones in to focus so I can get ready) so I can tell she’s an expert on anxiety❤ can’t wait to listen thanks 🙏🏽

  • @wangarrdee
    @wangarrdee 4 роки тому +7

    🙋🏾‍♀️🙏🏽❤️🔥
    Sending Love to You Tara and All from West Terra Australi.

  • @krisamara1111
    @krisamara1111 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you! Namaste 🙏 ❤️

  • @MMeyer945
    @MMeyer945 4 роки тому +13

    Love from Denmark 🌈🙏🏻🌻

  • @openheartandmindful
    @openheartandmindful Рік тому +1

    BEAUTIFUL

  • @onekinmashiachuniverse2774
    @onekinmashiachuniverse2774 3 роки тому

    we're stuck sharing on UA-cam because we haven't gathered as a family and a community of life beings yet. We still let the major society overwhelm us and we still live separated in our little places .

  • @nathalieberleand9269
    @nathalieberleand9269 4 роки тому +1

    thank you Tara merci beaucoup

  • @susansacco7583
    @susansacco7583 Місяць тому

    Goodness. Thank you💕

  • @susansacco7583
    @susansacco7583 Місяць тому

    Thank you. Very helpful 💕

  • @lM-wp4sn
    @lM-wp4sn 3 роки тому

    Thank you for that is beautiful meditation. 🧘🏻‍♀️🙏❤️

  • @valeriehopebennett
    @valeriehopebennett 4 роки тому +1

    thank you wonderful success.

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 3 роки тому +2

    How to get fear out of the default response....

  • @LA-jx2nb
    @LA-jx2nb 3 роки тому +1

    You are beautiful, thankyou

  • @marikorhonen8382
    @marikorhonen8382 4 роки тому +3

    Love from Finland🙂🧡💛💖

  • @mitaganguly3948
    @mitaganguly3948 Рік тому

    Hee hee....peaked at you mid meditation..between the heart and abdomen..this restless mind....wondered if you'd fallen off the screen. There you were ..patiently blinking back.

  • @marymoeller8144
    @marymoeller8144 4 роки тому +12

    You have a beautiful glow about you today.

  • @mars1783
    @mars1783 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for these talks and meditation. I'm having

  • @McFraneth
    @McFraneth 3 роки тому

    Living in Spain. The stealing and cheating is so anxiogenic. Thanks for this.

  • @maryanngriffith6736
    @maryanngriffith6736 6 місяців тому

    Thanks!

  • @iymbuilder
    @iymbuilder 2 роки тому

    Thank you 💫

  • @eleonorebernair5314
    @eleonorebernair5314 4 роки тому +2

    You are so utterly cute. You bring enlightenment to a humain level. Thank you for that. God bless you

  • @jenw1936
    @jenw1936 3 роки тому

    Thankyou Tara 🙏🏻💖🎄

  • @tullysoulliere8103
    @tullysoulliere8103 Рік тому

    goodmorning Tara,i love your content! Could you tho please record it in a louder recording . Your kind sweet voice is so soft i often have trouble hearing you. Maybe its my ears .Just asking because i don`t want to miss anything.

  • @raynash4117
    @raynash4117 3 роки тому

    Thank you! Keep going..

  • @elscoeckelbergh6564
    @elscoeckelbergh6564 6 місяців тому

    Bedankt

  • @relaxingsoothingsounds8945
    @relaxingsoothingsounds8945 4 роки тому +2

    amazing! =)

  • @johnmckenzie5297
    @johnmckenzie5297 3 роки тому

    That smile

  • @vs9312
    @vs9312 3 роки тому +1

    I just heard in one of your videos you said you are 67 years old and I was shocked because you don’t look more than 50! What is your secret ?

  • @pavankalyanchannel5706
    @pavankalyanchannel5706 3 роки тому +1

    I am diverting all time there any problem in me my thinking to different

  • @sheliamagbee5670
    @sheliamagbee5670 4 роки тому +1

    You look great, shocking to see you so glamorous. I wasn’t expecting you to be a different face beautiful makeup

  • @denisehabib8123
    @denisehabib8123 Рік тому

    Tara I suffer with a lot of anixety also I have zoom available on my tablet yes I have questions

  • @marniebable
    @marniebable 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @rlsnorton864
    @rlsnorton864 4 роки тому

    Good morning from western Massachusetts ☯️😷☮️

  • @hadarovsky
    @hadarovsky 3 роки тому

    step 1 49:30
    step 2 54:10

  • @amyandrews4333
    @amyandrews4333 3 роки тому +1

    i love your videos but as a person with anxiety i can't be told "relax your heart" with much success in relaxing in general as any attention paid to the heart to many with anxiety is uncomfortable as it's something of an area of hypervigilance that has a tendency to cause very unnerving symptoms relating to anxiety. It really sucks because so many classes and mediations bring up the heart and opening it when so many people have other chakras that are very inactive and often with overactive heart chakras. Then they go to classes and listen to guided mediations and every single one mentions the heart. Thats not your fault though, just trying to spread awareness

    • @ceeceemolineaux6813
      @ceeceemolineaux6813 3 роки тому +2

      Oh my gosh, I thought I was the only one. Any time a meditation focuses on the heart, it seems to trigger my health anxiety. That being said, however, this meditation with Tara was overall so calming. I loved it!

    • @amyandrews4333
      @amyandrews4333 3 роки тому +1

      @@ceeceemolineaux6813 yeah that's kinda why i mentioned it because although it's with the best intentions, everyone is seemingly going for the same popular chakra to open up when if you're someone with anxiety and/or are an empath it's not something that you want to be constantly encountering when things like the root chakra for example are so great to give our attention to for much needed grounding! or the sacral or solar plexus!

  • @Le_Brick420
    @Le_Brick420 4 роки тому +2

    I think your viewers need to be reminded that the comment section is for improving YOUR show and NOT attacking other viewers.

  • @mare2723
    @mare2723 Рік тому

    2023 still hurting😪🙏🏽

  • @joanjettboy
    @joanjettboy 4 роки тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nerakkayy
    @nerakkayy 3 роки тому

    You are crying, Sending love your way.

    • @amandaboddice505
      @amandaboddice505 3 роки тому

      Yes I am, how did you know? Thank you Karen

    • @nerakkayy
      @nerakkayy 3 роки тому

      @@amandaboddice505 it shows to me. I remember a couple of months ago I saw a video and I picked up my phone and started touching the scream saying “non no no ) please you can’t -
      I was projecting; there was a lot going on...

  • @cassandro9445
    @cassandro9445 Рік тому

    50:00 herramientas prácticas

  • @jacquelinethereseplunkett221
    @jacquelinethereseplunkett221 3 роки тому

    As an Australian in Melbourne's lockdowns, I didn't realise the full extent to which the US election scared people. It seemed very unreal, almost like a Hollywood movie. I hope you're all feeling calmer now. Trump definitely scared us.

  • @MMeyer945
    @MMeyer945 4 роки тому +1

    🌈🙏🏻🌸

  • @lukejones7366
    @lukejones7366 Рік тому +2

    I'm so glad democracy was preserved by the outcome of the election 😂

  • @antandshell
    @antandshell 3 роки тому +1

    Do not like the pic of you this video is displaying in search and before you press play. Odd frame makes your hands look like a scar on your chest. Sorry to say it but even my wife sees It. Maybe it's your hands glowing? Or maybe I just smoked too much pot... Nope, not the pot, wife is sober....

    • @calisongbird
      @calisongbird 3 роки тому +1

      That’s called a thumbnail photo, FYI

    • @antandshell
      @antandshell 3 роки тому

      @@calisongbird Thank you

  • @m2pozad
    @m2pozad 4 роки тому +1

    Sorry, but emotional handholding does not build self-efficacy. This is what American white women are lacking more than ever. Female hive minding and manifesting has been a timidity inducing disaster.

    • @m2pozad
      @m2pozad 4 роки тому

      Kate Shanley- ... Because I care.