I never knew how much we women avoided accountability until I started watching Kevin. I’m listening while grocery shopping and just yelled out “ just answer the question, yes or no” wow 😯
This man passed with 1.49M subs and at the time of writing this comment its up to 1.52M, even in death people still subscribe to the gospels this man has to teach🙌🏽🙏🏽
My grandmother: Least education, married to my grandfather until his death. My mother: More education, married half as long, divorced. My sister: Most education, can't keep a man. You can't make this shit up.
They’ll call this anecdotal but your right they’re hypocritical if they say otherwise women were happy but now they’re never happy most men are happy with just being left alone 😂
Oh wow, u are so generous! U assume modern Americans, know: 1) there or what is Egypt. 2) There is a river there. 3) The river is called the Nial. I think you may be over reaching.
Kevin has changed my whole perspective on relationships. I’m no longer looking for women to date I’m looking for a woman to marry. When I changed my dating profile from looking for a relationship to someone to marry I went from 20 to 75 matches in just a week. There are plenty of young attractive single women who are over this dating nonsense. I’m 34 and I will marry a FBI woman soon enough. Feminine beautiful inspirational 😎
Test her. Vet her. Kevin does things to evaluate a woman but he doesn't share much of it bc he knows they're watching. He does say that if she's serious about you she will delete all of her social media accounts. All of them. Most women use them for affirmation and attention. At first slowly find out everything she's on from watching her apps and searching around for yourself. THEN when it's time put it on her about getting serious = no social media. Then go check to see if she actually deleted all of them especially the ones she thinks you don't know about.
@@brianafranklin8164 I never understood these five year relationships which ended without so much an engagement.. They didn’t see a future with each other yet continued being in a relationship? The ones I know who got married in less than a year are still together
@@venicec3310 people who dislike Kevin are people who are used to having their ego stroked. Results don’t lie! You don’t have one million followers on IG and over a million subscribers on UA-cam by giving people the wrong advice. What he says works.
When you are dating to marry, the first couple of dates are like an interview. On both sides. Know what you want, and don't think because you're so cute, he might change his mind. Man: I'm not looking for marriage. Woman's interpretation: I'll be the exception. I saw it over and over again with my handsome brother. They all thought he would marry them "eventually." Then when they broke up, they'd come crying to me. "You were told up front!" 🙄
A woman who thinks she “has you” can’t be trusted. This woman “chose” to be engaged for 5 years and she’s attractive. This is a woman still weighing her options.
INTENTIONAL dating works! I did it in high school. My husband proposed junior year and we married the summer of graduation. I told him straight up, I'm not living with a man I'm not related or married to and he took me seriously. We didn't care that others thought we were too young. Fast forward through 7 years of ugliness and selfishness that got weeded out and WE GOOD! I love me some him! 😍 3 kids and a dog to boot. If we're married 50/60 years and only 7 were bad, that's a DAMN good marriage! THINK LONG TERM LADIES!
Well you made your intentions very clear to him. It seemed like his were aligned with yours too. And now you've enjoyed several decades together. I'm glad you stuck out those rough 7 years. Congratulations :)
Every marriage has some bumpy times. Too many people divorce not realizing that a lifetime together means good years and bad years! If you can't tough it out and hang on in the tough times then *do not get married!* Leave him to someone who won't leave him. 🌺
I see why Kevin doesn't count engagements. Just because a man gives you a ring, or a woman accepts it, doesn't always mean they truly want to marry you. Some people will get engaged to you just to get you to stop bringing it up. Next thing you know 5 years has gone by, and you're still not officially married. If they genuinely want to marry you, they won't take years to go through with it. Stop letting these people who aren't serious waste your time. Both men and women.
Engagement used to be a period of people trying to arrange the marriage, or wait until they finish some study or work that can't be postponed. Since families is not involved as it used too I can see how engsgements turns out like what the above OP said.
@@feliciacahyadi6821 Engagement used to be the waiting period until the wedding which was immediately scheduled. The ONLY reason, historically speaking, for a long engagement was to wait until both parties were of legal marriage age. (It was not uncommon for royal/aristocratic children to be "betrothed" very young). But otherwise you got Engaged and the Marriage Ceremony was scheduled.
I can really appreciate how K.S. handled the lady who has a mental health issue. That’s not entertainment or a laughing matter at all. God bless her heart.
I have my own accounting practice and I own property, I make over 6 figures and I'm married. It took me all the way to 38 just to get that far. So yes I agree.
Kevin inventing the S.I.G.N language is a stroke of genius because it’s not only relevant in today’s society but sooooo true especially with black women. When these women are argumentative from the jump you know they have no chance and it also tells men to RUN.
I’m not sure he invented it. But it’s good that more men become aware of it. Especially in the black community being a single mother matriarch. We don’t see our fathers suffering through this as an example to learn this truth before it’s too late.
The late Patrice O'Neill would call that dynamic out with combative female callers, "if you talk like this to me, a complete stranger, you must treat your man like sh*t when no one is watching".
@@JGComments How about: S: Shame I: Insult N: Need to be right G: Guilt L: Lack of accountability, and Laziness to not do the homework and/or apply what they should've Learned in Life/for Life E: Exaggerated Examples that they haven't Experienced (color purpling)
I stumbled into Mr. Samuels' channel by accident, but I have to admit, that everything I have heard him say thus far are the same bits and pieces I heard from my mother and father, years and years ago, so I know there is great credence in what he shares. It might be hard to hear but on most of it, I think he is spot on!
Usually, when modern women start talking about not wasting anymore time, that means that they have already wasted their time, and now they're trying to catch up when it's already too late for them.
Women believe anything if it sounds good. Adam probaly would kill the snake if he came at him first. But Eve took the word of a SNAKE before she believed GOD!!!!
One of the biggest mistakes we make is assuming we will ever be ready for marriage. No matter how much you know a man or woman, no matter how many marital books you read, no matter how many marriage documentaries you watch, there are some things that will *only* be revealed in marriage. It truly is an experience in lifelong, on-the-job training. Figure out who you can trust to take that journey with you and then move forward.
But that's the concerning part, marriage is a liability to today's men. One wrong move & she can ruin him financially. No matter how sweet & feminine she is, the laws will cater to her. 👀
1:50:38 This why I left an 8-month relationship. I was tired of being subjected to the fear based selfish treatment. I'm so thankful for men like you, Mr. Samuels, who are actually allowing the male perspective to balance the narcissistic, toxic culture that women have enwrapped men in. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
They don't pick the wrong guy...they pick the right guy everytime...he's exactly what she wanted...a guy she really don't want...just like all the baby fathers...those guys were selected for that role...baby daddy...boyfriend. sneaky link...they get what they are..average and below average. So was the fathers of their kids and boyfriends. They know this....
Women today no longer value the perspective of our elders…especially their fathers. Due to mother alienating the daughter from their fathers. A lot of the issues with modern women and dating can be mitigated with the inclusion of fatherly advice and perspectives. This is because a fathers perspective will not be filter through emotion but through logic and practical application
@@SNTMLI that's because society allows them too. Disciplining you child now is seen as abuse 🤦♂️ I bet yah back in the scavenger days before the 50' (before feminism took off basically)) Single mothers were rare back then , because they would be outcasted from their community , and on a bigger scale , society .
Hi Kevin. Thank you for some real truth. Yes ladies, real TRUTH. I'm 57 met my husband at 17. Married him at 19. Had our 1st baby at 21. Had our 2nd at 23. I was blessed to stay home and be a great mom and wife. I am still married to my man and still blessed and thankful for my concrete driver of a man. God bless all
If KS didn't regulate their time, it would be one guest per show! Women are wired to be more verbal and to talk more, to talk about feelings more, to feel feelings more deeply, to notice feelings in other people - that’s the biology. That's why they mostly lead off with "I feel".
Women if you are calling to learn how to get a husband,with Kevin give single answers,stop saying what you think,stop wanting to be right,let down your defensiveness,and shut up and learn. What you are doing isn't working!!!
I swear this show is one of many that truly exposes the modern woman and where their minds are at .... it's so informative and necessary...the manosphere must prevail
This show is focused on the shortfalls of our sister. Imagine a similar show, illustrating shortfalls of our brothers. In truth, the brothers and the sisters, have both fallen short of each other. This show, is particularly helpful to the sisters, as it aims to help them see blindspots. But I dont think there is a show like this, made from female perspective, to show and help the brothers with their blindspots. Don't be too excited, the brothers are in the same sinking boat as the sisters. But the sisters are getting an opportunity, Kevin is giving them, n others, the brothers just don't have.
@@theflame5919 Brothers have been told their shot falls for over 50 years. The women have just started to get theirs. Everything has to come full circle. You get one side, so you must get the other to make sense to fix the problems. This show completes the puzzle.
@@theflame5919 Lol that's what this show is about? What about all the hundreds of years black men have been shit on and talked about? You must be a woman cuz you're not thinking clearly its obvious.
Women pick men like children pick food, they only want candy. Then when they get stomach aches or their teeth rot out, they call the candy abusive 🤦🏽♂️
When KS held his hand to his face saying woman think right from here, the nurse didn’t even take into consideration inflation!😂😂🤦🏿 Love from the UK. 🇬🇧 Keep going !🇬🇧
I realized today that all these women hating on KS are RED PILL RAGE. Kevin is red pilling women by the millions now. Much love to you all including the women hating. You are in the right place.
@@getithowyoulive2. Colombians, Asians, Indians, Mexicans etc live in this country and don't have this problem. Quit giving people excuses to blame white people and instead hold them accountable.
Have you all not? I've worked a wide range of jobs just to see what it was like/see what I could learn from them. Currently 34. It makes you well prepared for returning to these places later. Like being a car salesman for 2 years. Now anytime I go to help my friends buy a car, I can ask key questions about paperwork, delivery, etc that help them get the best deal possible. Same when buying kegs/booze for events, etc. Can't sht me when I used to be a drink rep and managed an liquor store. The list goes on.
Middle Easterns have been doing arranged marriage forever. Muslims and Christians. It’s actually nice. The men in the family ask about the potential suitor and see if he would be a good fit and then present it to the wife-to-be. And it’s by choice. And it usually is followed by a short engagement that involves courtship and then finally marriage. They don’t live together or produce children before marriage either. And divorce rates are low too.
Absolutely! Nobody is talking about this, but arranged marriages will return again very soon once society collapses. This “modern” paradigm is NOT sustainable. With God’s Grace, the world will soon return to Tradition! 🙏
Yes! I’m black and a Hindu and I think the black community would do well with a couple of decades of arranged marriages either by families or by religious institutions.
Sure divorce rates are low but those marriage are not happy, they are happy to the public but behind closed doors they are bad and sad. Most stay cause of children and families honour that it. That why UAE and other Arabia countries has a raise in divorce rates cause those women now has choiy.
@@justus7181 The neck was fine just : Don't OD on fetanyl behind the wheel of your car will help with that THROAT. Especially when you urge yourself cops to put you on the ground.
I'm starting to realize they get taken off the market at 18 - 19 and 20. If she's still single at 21 - 22 she's more than likely a modern woman. Most traditional women aren't on the market past 20.
Its not being taught or valued in western society. A majority of people are carrying bad energy learned from bad parent(s) and Social Media . It is what it is
I got fed up with dating with no purpose, wasting my precious time and accumulating bad experiences, I gave myself a deadline of 6 months to either get married or move on... when I met my (now) wife I knew she'd be my wife even before I actually loved her. No child from another man, never married, young and beautiful, inspirational and nurturing and now she's expecting our first child and I could not have chosen a better wife, I retired her from her job and we live an amazing life and I owe my family to the Godfather. I had nearly given up before I stumbled on his content and started vetting women with a purpose. We miss you Kevin, thank you for your undeniable legacy!
I realized that Society shuns a man for making those types of moves so early in a relationship. They would say that's a red flag if when a man knows what he wants.
Y’all ladies keep choosing them single home raised boys expecting for commitment when they saw their moms get ran through…. Find men who came from solid homes or men who have the desire for the better natural life….
It is some men out here who came from single parent or co parenting homes that want marriage and to have cooperative wives. But I believe you touched on that at the end of your comment my brother 💯
"Never stay with a woman who has no respect for men in general" I've spent 8 years with that kind... Nothing will be built efficiently. She thinks men are dumbs. She NEVER took an advice from me but at the same time admitted that I had more experience in life. I was 10 years older with an international background (leave in differents countries). At the end, for her, women know better. No Marriage. No kids. Nothing in 8 years. And I'm the mean one of course... What a waste of time!!🤯😵🥺🥺😫😫😫
@@AskAW I'm moving all my stuff from my own appartment to a new one today. I'm still experiencing this... Cannot moved earlier because of my financial instability. She has a stable job. Wanted to do so 2 years ago but I had to put my ego aside cause if she has discovered my intention and moved before me, I would have been on the street.
Wow! Sorry to hear that. I do believe women and men are weighing their options when the refuse to commit after being in long term relationships. Protect your time and energy; leave at the first red flag you can’t live with! Stay strong king
@@spectershore4482 That's on you then. Can't expect a woman to respect your leadership if you're mooching of her. Leaders can show their work, you failed to do that.
Married almost 5 years this November and honestly, dating doesn’t matter. Marriage is so different. It takes grit and grace unlike dating. The woman I’m married to now is completely different from who I was with when we first met, in a good way. It’s hard to act upon your roles (husband, wife) when dating. It takes real commitment to do so. Marriage > dating
@@familyman4668 yes!! Congratz. I find joy in having years under my belt. Marriage isn’t an ego trip, it’s a joy to be completely yourself around them… as you’re proactively trying to figure out who you even are to begin with haha
@DJColdCuts with dating, there’s no real stakes to it. You can run away from problems, not acknowledge deep issues, or just be a different version of yourself. I saw her “pretty privilege” and enjoyed her company… but until we committed there was no reason for her to become cooperative, caring and submissive. Which is what began to grow after marriage
Dam, that 28 year old left me speechless. $150,000 to last 20 years? Does she know that’s $625 a month? My god she no idea how hard it will be when she reach retirement. I take care of my mom and Medicare only covers 80% of your bill and they don’t cover dental/vision. $10k hospital bill? You have to pay $2,000. $625 ain’t gonna help. Wake up lady.
Most people don't plan for medical expenses when thinking about the future. A car accident or even a fall can change your life. Of she doesn't own her assets, she'll be up the creek.
I never knew about this size 4 thing until after listening to you KS. No relationship coach, mentor, parent, expert, guide etc mentioned it. I was overweight bordering on obese through my 30s yet invested money in courses, mentoring and coaching and nothing about being a size 4. One guy I did date said something to me about I could be smaller but he was a first to say but he didn’t say how small. Not even the men in my family mentioned it but I’m 15 Ibs away from my BMI weight. Thanks to you, I have clear answers.
AyoKemi: That's really interesting to read. I hope you're willing to answer a question for me...and I promise, this is in no way meant to be an insult or attack. My genuine question, with no mal intent is: All the time you were obese, you thought it was perfectly fine? Nothing in you, told you that maybe you should consider losing some weight? I'm genuinely baffled that a person can be that overweight and not realize how much better their life could be by getting healthier. And again...I'm not attacking. I'm just trying to understand the mindset of a person who is obese and thinks it's perfectly normal/okay.
@@tizodd6 In Dallas, I worked out, I walked around the block, I’d walk on the treadmill but I had no real sense of urgency nor was I aggressive about it. I also saw that BW around me had big booties, big, thick thighs and just thought if I wanted a BM, I needed to be that, so I saw conflicting messages plus I had no support to be smaller from the women around me. I thought my efforts to lose weight were futile. My sister is a size 0 and her ex husband said she was too small so again, conflicting messages. Since moving to Austin and seeing who is coupled up, I see how small these white, Asian and Latino women are, so I have more encouragement and support to lose weight. The BW I do see in Austin (in general) are big. I had to move to a more health-conscious city to move my weight loss into overdrive.
@@joyhappy3461 I appreciate that reply. It does help me to understand a bit better. Best of luck to you, I hope you continue to improve and reach your goals.
01:58:50 … Many times when Kevin asks GROWN women how old they are, they give their age and then say how old they’ll be in X months. No one asked for that. That’s the kind of answer you get when you’re talking to a 5 yr old, “I’m 5 and three quarters. I’ll be six in 3 months”. Have you ever in your life asked a grown man how old he is and he goes on to volunteer his next birth date? No. Neither have I. Too many women carry themselves like overgrown children.
I've laughed so hard when he asks a woman if she's single, or what her weight is and they say..."well right now I'm..." Of course right now! He isn't asking about last week or next year! 😂 freakin hilarious!😂
My mother told me her mother (My grandmother) told her to leave a guy she was dating at that moment to pick another man instead (My father). They have been married for more than 35 years and happy. Old folks know about these things. Mr Kevin is helping truly.
Women today no longer value the perspective of our elders…especially their fathers. Due to mother alienating the daughter from their fathers. A lot of the issues with modern women and dating can be mitigated with the inclusion of fatherly advice and perspectives. This is because a fathers perspective will not be filter through emotion but through logic and practical application
The tiny house comment was said out of the deflecting and need to be right part of modern women. She tried to say anything that sound good to try to make Kevin conversation or point be wrong. Something modern women do a lot because they don’t want to talk about things when they are wrong
I’m going to get fit for my first suit as an adult, thanks to KS! We have to get more of this out! They said “the game don’t change, the players do.” But, KS is changing the game! Putting the settings back on default. We need to see more men dressed for business. Not like we’re going to the club or just got out of the bed ALL THE TIME. Women too! Dressed like teachers.
I LOVE THE FACT THAT THE LAST YOUNG LADY WAS MORE CONCERN WITH HIS TONE THAN HER FUTURE, 150 THOUSAND DOLLARS FOR 20 YEARS AND SHE IS COLLEGE EDUCATED ,MY FARTHER USE TO SAY,SON JUST CAUSE YOU WENT TO COLLEGE DOSEN'T MEAN YOU'RE SMART, AND SHE JUST PROVE THAT,THIS IS ONE INDIVIDUAL,NOT EVERYBODY THAT GOES COME OUT LIKE THIS.
My mother used to say, it's not what you say it's how you say it. I work in an office full of women. If I speak bluntly and to the point, I get complaints that I'm being mean. I'm not even yelling or screaming like Kevin when he's in his feelings. Just straight talk. Even on emails I have to add exclamation marks because the women complain if the emails don't sound upbeat and cheerful. I can't say "Here's the files you requested.". I have to say, "Here's the files you requested!" It's insane.
“ *Down the aisle or out the door* “ 😵💀 It does *NOT* take 100 years to know if someone is marriage material. If you have to wonder *that long* then it’s *probably* a sign they’re not the one-or you aren’t 👀 If you have difficulty vetting potential partners, speak to someone you trust who has sound judgment (e.g., a parent, religious leader, a wise friend, or a good therapist) so you can learn how to discern.
I'm not sure they really care about finding a good partner. This kind of woman have usually nothing of value for a guy or have lost her value to other men. It's the equivalent of a rich man living the player's lifestyle but suddently become faithfull once he goes broke.
01:53:00 WOW. Every time I see this behavior I have to laugh. I’m so happy it’s not just me. I ask my wife a simple yes or no question and it takes over a minute to get the answer. Did she not hear the question? Is she having a different conversation with a man that looks like me in a parallel universe? Why can’t so many women not get to the fracking point and answer questions directly????!?!?!? LOL.
@@ishaw9894 *We really don’t like men in our business unless the questions pertain to specifically you!* Except they came on the show to get help. Not answering the question is like going to the doctor and wanting to tell a story or lie when the doctor is asking questions to to diagnose the issue.
Mr Samuels, I wanna thank u sir for bringing this great content and especially this topic about dating. This is something that I see even the parents in the Muslim community are having trouble teaching these concepts to our children. I love how u explained how dating started as an industry in the 1950s. And how dating is just a synonym for having sex...and the more sex partners a girl has, the less chance she ever has at becoming a real wife...she will never be invested into u like her first...I knew these concepts early on from my pops. Thats why when I got married, I went as old school as possible. I did like Pacino in Godfather 2 and went back to the old country, found me a college senior virgin, and asked her family for permission. I told her, "first u belonged to ur father and now u belong to me" ...she knows family comes first because she has morals. So even if I have to get on her about something, she recognizes what needs to be done and she doesn't give me any attitude. She gots that feminine energy that calms me down when Im angry, she even knows how to change the topic when there's a group conversation and its going somewhere where I might take issue...she is molded for me....and we never had a "dating period."
@@Violetsinbloom Woeman shut up and step away from the keyboard. I'm married and most of my peers and men I network with worldwide are married or are planning to. Don't get defensive because you can't get wifed.
Winning arguments in a relationship is like winning NBA games during preseason. They games don't count, but your best players could still get injured. Proceed cautiously and look at the big picture.
@@bluewave3417 good analogy. I know for myself I get to a point where the shit becomes stupid and repetitive as far as arguing. Most women will proudly drop 50 in a preseason game that go into quadruple overtime.
@@darealtruth3095 Kevin interjects because he has facts, and to prevent the women from derailing or deflecting from the topic or question, Women try to impress and ram home their flawed logic based on "I feel" and fact-less assumptions based on here say and anecdote.
Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home... it's your responsibility to love it, or change it. ~Chuck Palahniuk How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.~Wayne Dyer Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.~Bob Marley "Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope." - Maya Angelou quotes on love and relationships
Reminds me of when my sister was in her late 20s. She was dating a guy almost 10 years older than her for about 2 years. At first she was hesitant he was that much older, but knew she wanted to get married and figured an older guy would be a better choice than the guys she had been dating her own age. Bottom line he wasn't making any moves or even talking about marriage after 2 years and it concerned her. She was wanted to have kids and a family and was nervous time was passing her by. So she finally decided to throw caution to the wind and sat him down for a talk. She basically gave him the shit or get off the pot speech, alluding to being ready to leave if he wasn't ready to make a move. She had a ring a month later. Sometimes you have to put your foot down to get what you want. I had my doubts, but they're still happily married with 2 great kids 20 yrs later. He's a good guy and a great father. I'm her older brother and was a bit of a player back in the day, so I think I'd pick up on it if he wasn't good for her. If your a good woman like my sister, a good man, will not let you go.
Thank you! Women need to stop being so damn prideful and speak up on matters like this. We aren’t mind readers and maybe he was nervous to ask so that extra nudge helped him. If a man sees a quality woman and is invested in her he will want her to be his wife.
Before I was married, I told my husband. We’ve been together long enough for you to know if you want to marry me or not. I can’t force you to marry me, but you will have to get out the way for the man that is. We got married. Still married 3 years later.
"They don't listen to us, we're mean." That sums up the arguments against KS. They'd rather be lied to, deceived in a sultry tone than hear an objective assessment of REALITY in a sobering tone. You can't make this 💩 up.
@@borisn.1346 LOL@ SIGN language. How about he lies then. Is that better? The most blatant lie is that he dishes what he gets. I have seen him go ham on a woman just because her words trigger him. The only exception is if she is a 9 or 10. Women are all extra pleasant to him because he hangs up on people and he still gets all emotional (feminine trait) and disrespectful.
“It just happens.” Nothing ever *just* happens. 🤦🏾♀️ People *have* to start connecting the dots between their *behavior* and the *consequences* of that behavior. Until they do that, they will go from point A to point A to point A over and over again…
ask any woman about some dude she had sex with and how it started. they all say the same thing "idk it just happened" cuz they wanna skirt the accountability
Many modern women display a sentiment that you work in a relationship until you get married and then the work is done. Instead, you build a relationship, get married, and the the work stops. Marriage is not the finish line it is the starting line. My POV.
LOL. Marriage used to mean a sort of retirement for many women. 50 years ago, it meant a lot for a Black man to be able to say "my wife doesn't have to work..." I'm not even talking about wealthy men, just regular Joe who worked for a living and took care of his wife, and or his family.
Tresa Welch yep times have changed men want women that works and split 50/50 it’s only right women make more than men nowadays I make. 80 k if I got married i would most likely be making more cuz most men don’t make over 50 especially black men, I like making money it’s fun
Even if you get a tiny home and live a minimalistic lifestyle. Outside the cost of living. There’s the cost of maintenance, insurance, potential disasters, etc. No matter how much you want to split the diff, those are possibilities and responsibilities that you’re going to bear for the remainder of your life and $150k is not going to cover that for 20 years. Which is why I always say husbands are heavily under appreciated when they are expected to be the bank, the super, and the repairman. You want to be the CEO, but have no idea the cost to maintain that kind of infrastructure.
All of that break down and you will still rely on social security. 70 percent of all elderly relies in social security. It’s the retirement plan for most . Men and women . Married or not. But you do pay into this during your work years. And it’s not going anywhere it will be just changed. Do research. Most adult men too don’t save enough or at all when retire . Even married couples . You can be just as fine being single as being together if you are wise . And you will get retirement money too .
@@cloverleaf9532 True, however that’s not the point. 150k in your retirement plan in a small minimalistic life style, as a home owner is not a financially sustainable living situation to last the later single elderly 20 years of your life. Relying on social security, and deflating the argument by saying Men financially suffer too doesn’t change the math. At least to the benefit of long-term married couples, a sustainable life insurance policy at a younger age can average a net of $600,000+ payout since on average most wives outlive their husbands anyway.
@@cloverleaf9532 there won't be social security around 2035...do your research. Depending on ur age, if you're 40 and under, maintain some healthy lifestyle. You'll see many singles, couples, whole families in the streets around 2045...thats 20 some years. It's happening now, but in the future...more and more!! Kevin is right, if you're not making around 125k a year and doing what your supposed to with it...u better couple up and hold on tight bc we haven't even added inflation...good luck to all!!
I don’t understand why these women keep asking Kevin where to find older men. They act like little clueless school girls. They don’t want to find good men.
This is so true…If any women are reading this… where do you find young wives? Older men are at the barbershop, golf course, casino, sports bar, strip club, doctors office,pool hall, car shows, monster truck rally, Home Depot, at the lake fishing etc.
@@bw9707 to be honest most of the women that y’all want are in the house. They don’t go anywhere. They’re not in the clubs or bars. You’ll have to find them on social media. Try a dating site, the mall or a shopping center, the gym, nail shop or the wine section lol
@@bw9707 not too young nothing under 21lol im 26 used to work in casino/ bar as a waitress. There are beautiful young educated feminine women in the bars/ lounges near college/universities. But do not approach them let them approach you! Those kind of girls will not be afraid to speak to you. Look good smile, smell good and mind your business. If they look back send 1 drink over. Men and women are everywhere even coffee shops. Good luck to you 🥰
1:58.00 I love how you phrased marriage. I think more people would be open to marriage if they had a man like you break it down💯✊🏾 thank you mr Samuels 💕
"They don't want to be found out as the frauds they are." They have not been taught and spend their time listening to other women more dense than themselves.
In the late 70's early 80's in California you could see many of the white boys with bumper stickers that said " No Fat Chicks". Does anyone remember this?
@@JohnSluderPhoto To remember in the 90's belly shirts came back into fashion. Britney Spears said she did 3,000 situps a morning. Women worked hard to have flat stomachs so they could dress like her. I think of that everytime I see a woman wearing a belly shirt when she should not.
Kevin - Truth for the majority of us is that we are scared. We are scared to end up in bad situations like our parents, we are scared to be vulnerable. You either have those with nothing to lose, entering into relationships every month because their bringing nothing to the table. (nothing to lose). Most of us struggling to have healthy marriages/relationships either don't have an example, aren't authentic enough to be ourselves because of no relationship example or worried we will marry the parent that disappointed us. It takes courage to love. It takes courage to be vulnerable. Therapy, most of us need it. A major underdiagnosed or largely unrecognized issue in our community - trauma of poverty. This is real. It's the basis of unrealistic financial expectations of a man. It's the idea that you have to "take him for all he's worth, because men don't stick around" thought process. It's working way too many jobs, stressing out your body because you never want to lack again. The problem with thought process and intelligence is a SERIOUS problem. How do you graduate from college but you can't speak in complete sentences? How did you graduate high school and you can't answer or process a simple question? This is NOT FUNNY. Nor is the praise of anti-intellectualism in the community. It's not funny to be almost mentally disabled in the brain and act as if the way you're operating is normal. There are resources to help but you must acknowledge something is off. Stop arguing and over-talking people. That is so rude and disrespectful. You're feelings and thoughts DO NOT TRUMP logic and engaging in a rational conversation. Stop it. STOP IT! We need each other. Everyone chasing after the 1% doesn't make sense. That's like saying you'll take the bugatti or I'm walking. There is nothing wrong with working together, many of our parents did. Be open to that but that requires bringing something to the table. Historically A.A. men are not in a position to have unlimited money. You need someone by your side that is realistic and willing to work with your business ideas or grow a business supporting one another for a foundation of a future generation. Hate to bruise the ego but most don't have it like that. (wealth). Stop plugging into what capitalism is telling you about how you should move and behave and plug into budgeting, investments and managing finances. "A fool and his money shall soon depart." We need community once again. While other cultures aren't perfect when I watch Nollywood movies they depict what we now lack. Parents involved in approving your mate. Bride price. Family inclusion. Appreciation and acknowledgement of different education, income and class level which DOES matter when choosing a mate. Marriage is expected, family is an important aspect of life. In the U.S. we lack any understanding of that. We don't even respect our elders, tragic.
I notice that a lot more women calling in to Kevin's show don't want to be on camera lol. They know they'll end up on worldstar lol 😆 😂 🤣 "I'll make you famous"
I hope that KS's show does have a very impactful positive effect in the community like Oprah has. I also worked in banking, and dealt with lots of women that were clueless, about finance and how to earn and save for the future. very few people can actually do the math.
@@ladye626 I don't know her circumstances but sometimes when you have a teenage mother they can be angry at their children. It goes back to Kevin's recent show about the Sister Daughter relationship. It can be very toxic.
1:39:00 I don't think I've ever heard pity from Kevin ever. But he truly felt sad for this woman. She was drinking heavily before she came on and is clearly troubled. Good on him for being kind.
Just cause men settle for big women don't mean men want big women. When I was dating big women it was because I couldn't get anything better and I hated it
They was cool women with good personalities but having to sleep with them was horrible. It's the same if a woman had to sleep with a guy they're not attracted to with a small penis. I don't know why they don't understand that
For the record, we women do drop jewels on younger women. However, they don’t listen. They’re very combative and they think they know everything. These younger women don’t listen to wise counsel from older women who have already been there, done that. So we tired Lol. Thankfully The Godfather is dropping jewels. We appreciate your work Sir.
Unfortunately the actual mothers in the household are telling the opposite. Its a horror some of the things my “christian” grandmother told me. And when we’re young we learn to trust some of the people close to us. The women who had mothers like this did listen and they speak about it. But even my own mother attacked me when all i said was I learned from her mistakes. If your own mother tears you down its hard to listen to a stranger. When Shaharazad Ali was speaking in her prime, many young women who did agree were not as outspoken to say that like people are today. Staying quiet on important subjects happened way more often back then in fear of being attacked like Kevin goes through all the time. There are more women speaking out today than there were then. We still need more though.
@UA-cam IsNazi Agreed. Shahrazad Ali is the first black woman whom I heard speaking on the subject. I agreed with her and told others about how everything she said made sense and felt right in my spirit. I caught hell from other women about it. Here we are today and of course Shahrazad Ali was right. I am happily married because I listened to her, did the work and rejected the ideas of modern women.
I never knew how much we women avoided accountability until I started watching Kevin. I’m listening while grocery shopping and just yelled out “ just answer the question, yes or no” wow 😯
You just now realizing this
🤣👏🏾🙌🏾make her see lawd! Use her Jesus 😅
@@redsavage2141 🤣🎯💪🏾💯
Are u the same? Be honest
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This man passed with 1.49M subs and at the time of writing this comment its up to 1.52M, even in death people still subscribe to the gospels this man has to teach🙌🏽🙏🏽
You are right
1.68 and steady lately, but still. He would have gone to 10 I'll bet.
We should be downloading ALL HIS WISDOM cause you never know when UA-cam is going to take down his vids👍
He's at 1.7M now!
@@brandonferguson4421now 1.73
First caller: "I am happily single!"
And your child is sadly fatherless.
Damn that’s real
Most women have children selfishly. It's about them, not the child.
But she’s happy though so that’s all that matters…..yeah fucking right 😂😂😂
Child services come get this mother who enjoys neglect
@@KemonoB facts
if a woman says she's happily(insert word) she's NOT happy
My grandmother: Least education, married to my grandfather until his death.
My mother: More education, married half as long, divorced.
My sister: Most education, can't keep a man. You can't make this shit up.
They’ll call this anecdotal but your right they’re hypocritical if they say otherwise women were happy but now they’re never happy most men are happy with just being left alone 😂
Miseducation. Social engineering.
@UA-cam IsNazi oh yea. Tell us how racism doesnt really exist guy. I mean, you ARE the expert.
Isn’t that crazy lol I never go for the most educated. Too much conflict
The more you know...
Modern women STILL think denial is just a river in Egypt.
😂🤣😂👏🏽👏🏽
Bars!
Bars
Oh wow, u are so generous! U assume modern Americans, know: 1) there or what is Egypt. 2) There is a river there. 3) The river is called the Nial. I think you may be over reaching.
Lol I see what you did there 😆
Kevin has changed my whole perspective on relationships. I’m no longer looking for women to date I’m looking for a woman to marry. When I changed my dating profile from looking for a relationship to someone to marry I went from 20 to 75 matches in just a week. There are plenty of young attractive single women who are over this dating nonsense. I’m 34 and I will marry a FBI woman soon enough. Feminine beautiful inspirational 😎
Test her. Vet her. Kevin does things to evaluate a woman but he doesn't share much of it bc he knows they're watching. He does say that if she's serious about you she will delete all of her social media accounts. All of them. Most women use them for affirmation and attention. At first slowly find out everything she's on from watching her apps and searching around for yourself. THEN when it's time put it on her about getting serious = no social media. Then go check to see if she actually deleted all of them especially the ones she thinks you don't know about.
Facts. I skip right past the guys that claim they don’t know or they’re not looking for anything serious. Me and my friends are dating with intention.
@@brianafranklin8164 I never understood these five year relationships which ended without so much an engagement.. They didn’t see a future with each other yet continued being in a relationship? The ones I know who got married in less than a year are still together
Do it brother he’s definitely reshaped my mentality as fas as dating goes aswell
@@venicec3310 people who dislike Kevin are people who are used to having their ego stroked. Results don’t lie! You don’t have one million followers on IG and over a million subscribers on UA-cam by giving people the wrong advice. What he says works.
When you are dating to marry, the first couple of dates are like an interview. On both sides. Know what you want, and don't think because you're so cute, he might change his mind.
Man: I'm not looking for marriage.
Woman's interpretation: I'll be the exception.
I saw it over and over again with my handsome brother. They all thought he would marry them "eventually." Then when they broke up, they'd come crying to me. "You were told up front!" 🙄
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He’s a smart man! Marriage is pointless.
Correct, they always think they can do something magical and change a guy stance
You were warned 💯… yet still delusional about the outcome 😂
@@SanchoBohemian007 for the most part it is pointless, but if you’re going to have kids you should do it. I don’t plan on either
A woman who thinks she “has you” can’t be trusted. This woman “chose” to be engaged for 5 years and she’s attractive. This is a woman still weighing her options.
Cold Fax
Bruh...I've been saying this for years now. Once they feel like they got u locked down everything changes.
INTENTIONAL dating works! I did it in high school. My husband proposed junior year and we married the summer of graduation. I told him straight up, I'm not living with a man I'm not related or married to and he took me seriously. We didn't care that others thought we were too young. Fast forward through 7 years of ugliness and selfishness that got weeded out and WE GOOD! I love me some him! 😍 3 kids and a dog to boot. If we're married 50/60 years and only 7 were bad, that's a DAMN good marriage! THINK LONG TERM LADIES!
Well you made your intentions very clear to him. It seemed like his were aligned with yours too. And now you've enjoyed several decades together. I'm glad you stuck out those rough 7 years. Congratulations :)
@@olglez9230 thank you! 😭 We're not decades in yet but I truly cannot wait to see where life takes us. Stay blessed! 🤗
@@tndm8312 oh sorry I misread the part when you mentioned 50/60 years. I didn't have my glasses on haha
@@laurenh9674 It's called FAITH!
Every marriage has some bumpy times. Too many people divorce not realizing that a lifetime together means good years and bad years! If you can't tough it out and hang on in the tough times then *do not get married!* Leave him to someone who won't leave him. 🌺
These chicks overvalue their worth like Dennis Schröder in the NBA.
Man literally finessed himself lmaooo
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FACTS!
That one hit home lmao
damn daamn daaamn 😭
I see why Kevin doesn't count engagements. Just because a man gives you a ring, or a woman accepts it, doesn't always mean they truly want to marry you. Some people will get engaged to you just to get you to stop bringing it up. Next thing you know 5 years has gone by, and you're still not officially married. If they genuinely want to marry you, they won't take years to go through with it. Stop letting these people who aren't serious waste your time. Both men and women.
Engagement used to be a period of people trying to arrange the marriage, or wait until they finish some study or work that can't be postponed. Since families is not involved as it used too I can see how engsgements turns out like what the above OP said.
@@feliciacahyadi6821 Engagement used to be the waiting period until the wedding which was immediately scheduled. The ONLY reason, historically speaking, for a long engagement was to wait until both parties were of legal marriage age. (It was not uncommon for royal/aristocratic children to be "betrothed" very young). But otherwise you got Engaged and the Marriage Ceremony was scheduled.
Agreed. Very well said. Marriage is the end goal for any serious courtship. From there, maintaining and working on the marriage is another story.
It’s been observed that engagement periods were adopted to sell diamond rings. There didn’t use to be an engagement period really.
Amen!
I can really appreciate how K.S. handled the lady who has a mental health issue. That’s not entertainment or a laughing matter at all. God bless her heart.
Men in their 20’s are not making 6 figures a year and sitting on the board of directors why don’t women understand that lol
I’m 29 & I just started making 6 figures. I have my own business tho
@@det3135 That's what's up 💯
I have my own accounting practice and I own property, I make over 6 figures and I'm married. It took me all the way to 38 just to get that far. So yes I agree.
@@det3135 that’s good brother keep striving
@@vennyi that’s beautiful
Kevin inventing the S.I.G.N language is a stroke of genius because it’s not only relevant in today’s society but sooooo true especially with black women. When these women are argumentative from the jump you know they have no chance and it also tells men to RUN.
I’m not sure he invented it. But it’s good that more men become aware of it. Especially in the black community being a single mother matriarch. We don’t see our fathers suffering through this as an example to learn this truth before it’s too late.
The insult one is what I see everyday in comments from women to shut someone down.
@@Galavantworks I only wish he would add something starting with L and E so that instead of SIGN, it could spell SINGLE, lol.
The late Patrice O'Neill would call that dynamic out with combative female callers, "if you talk like this to me, a complete stranger, you must treat your man like sh*t when no one is watching".
@@JGComments How about:
S: Shame
I: Insult
N: Need to be right
G: Guilt
L: Lack of accountability, and Laziness to not do the homework and/or apply what they should've Learned in Life/for Life
E: Exaggerated Examples that they haven't Experienced (color purpling)
These shows are brilliant, because he uses women to show other women how silly, ridiculous, their actions/decisions truly are.
I stumbled into Mr. Samuels' channel by accident, but I have to admit, that everything I have heard him say thus far are the same bits and pieces I heard from my mother and father, years and years ago, so I know there is great credence in what he shares. It might be hard to hear but on most of it, I think he is spot on!
Mirrors still Work
That's exactly what he is doing. And they need to see it. Men do too.
Correct
Lol then it’s wild when you see it play out in your day to day life when coming across random people 🤣🤣
Usually, when modern women start talking about not wasting anymore time, that means that they have already wasted their time, and now they're trying to catch up when it's already too late for them.
Damn right!! They waste men's energy, time and money.
@@stephprec1410 exactly.
So they want to cancel Kevin, but keep Derrick Jaxn? Seriously?
"When you lie, women will buy"
They cancelled Jesus and kept the murderer. This is how life works
Major Fax
Women believe anything if it sounds good.
Adam probaly would kill the snake if he came at him first. But Eve took the word of a SNAKE before she believed GOD!!!!
women "hate" liars, but yet liars are the majority of their body counts, it will never change
We don’t want his cheating ass either
KS your last two shows were absolute fuego, sir. You will be at 2 million subscribers by December. I’m counting on it.
Hector: I think he's already over 2 million. UA-cam, Twitter etc. ghost numbers of shows that go against the mainstream narrative.
Not while brandon is in office. UA-cam is ran by communist
One of the biggest mistakes we make is assuming we will ever be ready for marriage. No matter how much you know a man or woman, no matter how many marital books you read, no matter how many marriage documentaries you watch, there are some things that will *only* be revealed in marriage. It truly is an experience in lifelong, on-the-job training. Figure out who you can trust to take that journey with you and then move forward.
But that's the concerning part, marriage is a liability to today's men. One wrong move & she can ruin him financially. No matter how sweet & feminine she is, the laws will cater to her. 👀
@@SirYeetus Prenuptial agreement 🤝
I'm worried about marriage because too many women take advantage of it. I don't trust no wife
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@@SirYeetus the average man is already ruined financially, it ain't like a bunch of Dr Dre's & Jeff Besos running around here
1:50:38 This why I left an 8-month relationship. I was tired of being subjected to the fear based selfish treatment. I'm so thankful for men like you, Mr. Samuels, who are actually allowing the male perspective to balance the narcissistic, toxic culture that women have enwrapped men in. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
8 months isn't a relationship,.if you're a man it's a blip.
They don't pick the wrong guy...they pick the right guy everytime...he's exactly what she wanted...a guy she really don't want...just like all the baby fathers...those guys were selected for that role...baby daddy...boyfriend. sneaky link...they get what they are..average and below average. So was the fathers of their kids and boyfriends. They know this....
Absolutely True!
True.
And those are the Breaks....
Exactly
Lmfaoooo “Stop right there” 😭😭😭 never ends well
Can I eat those faces please?
Women today no longer value the perspective of our elders…especially their fathers. Due to mother alienating the daughter from their fathers. A lot of the issues with modern women and dating can be mitigated with the inclusion of fatherly advice and perspectives. This is because a fathers perspective will not be filter through emotion but through logic and practical application
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@@darealtruth3095 nah, ones with dads purposely go against they dads they’re no different just spoiled
Not to mention, a Fatherly advice, these days, are "Toxic Masculinity."
But when dads are RayRay and Pookie, it’s even harder, guys. Maybe we are not ready for that conversation 💬
@@SNTMLI that's because society allows them too. Disciplining you child now is seen as abuse 🤦♂️ I bet yah back in the scavenger days before the 50' (before feminism took off basically))
Single mothers were rare back then , because they would be outcasted from their community , and on a bigger scale , society .
Hi Kevin. Thank you for some real truth. Yes ladies, real TRUTH. I'm 57 met my husband at 17. Married him at 19. Had our 1st baby at 21. Had our 2nd at 23. I was blessed to stay home and be a great mom and wife. I am still married to my man and still blessed and thankful for my concrete driver of a man. God bless all
Well done
If KS didn't regulate their time, it would be one guest per show! Women are wired to be more verbal and to talk more, to talk about feelings more, to feel feelings more deeply, to notice feelings in other people - that’s the biology. That's why they mostly lead off with "I feel".
They're more verbal to manipulate as well. That might be the primary reason why they drag conversations out.
@Andrea B If he didn't, he wouldn't have made several marriages happen this year.
@@eastwaters4082 Boom!
LNP
Women if you are calling to learn how to get a husband,with Kevin give single answers,stop saying what you think,stop wanting to be right,let down your defensiveness,and shut up and learn. What you are doing isn't working!!!
They use more words but make less sense...
I swear this show is one of many that truly exposes the modern woman and where their minds are at .... it's so informative and necessary...the manosphere must prevail
This show is focused on the shortfalls of our sister. Imagine a similar show, illustrating shortfalls of our brothers. In truth, the brothers and the sisters, have both fallen short of each other. This show, is particularly helpful to the sisters, as it aims to help them see blindspots. But I dont think there is a show like this, made from female perspective, to show and help the brothers with their blindspots. Don't be too excited, the brothers are in the same sinking boat as the sisters. But the sisters are getting an opportunity, Kevin is giving them, n others, the brothers just don't have.
@@theflame5919 Brothers have been told their shot falls for over 50 years. The women have just started to get theirs. Everything has to come full circle. You get one side, so you must get the other to make sense to fix the problems. This show completes the puzzle.
@@Luminous03 how is that remotely similar to kind of patient work Kevin does to help the sisters?
@@theflame5919 Lol that's what this show is about? What about all the hundreds of years black men have been shit on and talked about? You must be a woman cuz you're not thinking clearly its obvious.
@@darealtruth3095 no one is more privileged than modern women. Stop it lol The men most women want are in high demand and they can't compete for it 🤣
Women pick men like children pick food, they only want candy. Then when they get stomach aches or their teeth rot out, they call the candy abusive 🤦🏽♂️
That's a good one.
don't let that just be a UA-cam comment
This candy is toxic we gotta ban this type of candy 😂
That is so true. I know I do/did
You need to make a t shirt..or a sticker..something. This cannot just be left here..
When KS held his hand to his face saying woman think right from here, the nurse didn’t even take into consideration inflation!😂😂🤦🏿 Love from the UK. 🇬🇧 Keep going !🇬🇧
I realized today that all these women hating on KS are RED PILL RAGE. Kevin is red pilling women by the millions now. Much love to you all including the women hating. You are in the right place.
Shiiit!
Yup.And some will make it through and the rest we must avoid.
Well we wouldn't had this problem if yall was to put y'all ww in check. Put y'all women in check and there wouldn't be no women rights. Tighten up
@@getithowyoulive2. Colombians, Asians, Indians, Mexicans etc live in this country and don't have this problem. Quit giving people excuses to blame white people and instead hold them accountable.
@@melvinbarnes6652 did black men told the women they're strong and independent???? If they did then I'm missing something
One thing i learned about Kevin is that he has worked EVERYWHERE 😂😂😂😂
😂 facts
That’s why BS won’t fly with him… he’s seen to much for too long… you can’t fool that type guy with lame ass nonsense….
an astronaut comes on his show... KS, Yeah, the moon, I've been there lolol!
Like everywhere
Have you all not? I've worked a wide range of jobs just to see what it was like/see what I could learn from them. Currently 34. It makes you well prepared for returning to these places later.
Like being a car salesman for 2 years. Now anytime I go to help my friends buy a car, I can ask key questions about paperwork, delivery, etc that help them get the best deal possible.
Same when buying kegs/booze for events, etc. Can't sht me when I used to be a drink rep and managed an liquor store. The list goes on.
" afraid to make a mistake and all you do is make mistakes by not making a choice " ...💯💪🏾
You allow me to see women more clear…thanks Kevin.
Middle Easterns have been doing arranged marriage forever. Muslims and Christians. It’s actually nice. The men in the family ask about the potential suitor and see if he would be a good fit and then present it to the wife-to-be. And it’s by choice. And it usually is followed by a short engagement that involves courtship and then finally marriage. They don’t live together or produce children before marriage either. And divorce rates are low too.
Absolutely! Nobody is talking about this, but arranged marriages will return again very soon once society collapses. This “modern” paradigm is NOT sustainable. With God’s Grace, the world will soon return to Tradition! 🙏
Divorce RATE is very high in the Middle East, especially in UAE and Saudi Arabia.
I know what I’m talking about..
Yes! I’m black and a Hindu and I think the black community would do well with a couple of decades of arranged marriages either by families or by religious institutions.
@@doveflyer1636 Are you West Indian?
Sure divorce rates are low but those marriage are not happy, they are happy to the public but behind closed doors they are bad and sad. Most stay cause of children and families honour that it. That why UAE and other Arabia countries has a raise in divorce rates cause those women now has choiy.
i understand Kevin's frustration talking to them is like trying to get a blind person to understand sign language 🤦🏽♂️
and white knights defend them
i agree 99% of the time it be lild that lol but @57:00 he was kinda trippin
@@mrlilrip10 no she was being passive aggressive & it gets old
@@justus7181 The neck was fine just : Don't OD on fetanyl behind the wheel of your car will help with that THROAT.
Especially when you urge yourself cops to put you on the ground.
*It is like trying to unscramble an 🥚 egg? How?*
A humble woman that knows her true value and respects herself is almost impossible to find
They are impossible to find.
That's are in decent shape. "fat men aren't fat, only fat women are fat." -Peter Griffin
Wow.. This is Saddening.
I'm starting to realize they get taken off the market at 18 - 19 and 20. If she's still single at 21 - 22 she's more than likely a modern woman. Most traditional women aren't on the market past 20.
Its not being taught or valued in western society. A majority of people are carrying bad energy learned from bad parent(s) and Social Media . It is what it is
I got fed up with dating with no purpose, wasting my precious time and accumulating bad experiences, I gave myself a deadline of 6 months to either get married or move on... when I met my (now) wife I knew she'd be my wife even before I actually loved her. No child from another man, never married, young and beautiful, inspirational and nurturing and now she's expecting our first child and I could not have chosen a better wife, I retired her from her job and we live an amazing life and I owe my family to the Godfather. I had nearly given up before I stumbled on his content and started vetting women with a purpose. We miss you Kevin, thank you for your undeniable legacy!
Proposed after six weeks, married after six months. Still married after 23 years.
Ur a brave person!
I realized that Society shuns a man for making those types of moves so early in a relationship. They would say that's a red flag if when a man knows what he wants.
@@SerenitySound-Scape What Society do you live in?
@Terry Allen Incels do not count.
Perpetual dating only benefits financial/commercial institutions.
The longer men and women date, the more cash they can pull from you.
Always follow the money.
🚹 🛑 giving away your MEAT:
Money Energy Attention Time
Throwing away time which is the most valuable resources.
Indeed
Kevin is out here snatching dog tags like it was Battlefield 3! 😵💀 😵💀
Did you have to give me nostalgia? 😭
Ohhhhh Noooooo......Not Battlefield 3.....Hilarious
Sooooo nobody else noticing Lady Red having a whole conversation with herself up there in the left hand corner? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah, she's kinda buggernuts.
She got an Insta? 👀
Exactly he shut her down but I wouldn’t
If we aint gettin married then we shouldn't be together, It's a waste of time.
She said “Tell me what I’m doing wrong.” He said “breathing.” Fatality 😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣man
It was a ruthless response. I laughed and then went into shock.
Y’all ladies keep choosing them single home raised boys expecting for commitment when they saw their moms get ran through…. Find men who came from solid homes or men who have the desire for the better natural life….
You should have more likes. Facts Facts.
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It is some men out here who came from single parent or co parenting homes that want marriage and to have cooperative wives. But I believe you touched on that at the end of your comment my brother 💯
My husband sure is trying despite having had an upbringing like what you mentioned
Facts. Finally someone’s said this. Men raised by single mothers with zero father figure are *THE* most difficult men to date.
"Never stay with a woman who has no respect for men in general" I've spent 8 years with that kind... Nothing will be built efficiently. She thinks men are dumbs. She NEVER took an advice from me but at the same time admitted that I had more experience in life. I was 10 years older with an international background (leave in differents countries). At the end, for her, women know better. No Marriage. No kids. Nothing in 8 years. And I'm the mean one of course... What a waste of time!!🤯😵🥺🥺😫😫😫
Did you learn your lesson?
@@AskAW I'm moving all my stuff from my own appartment to a new one today. I'm still experiencing this... Cannot moved earlier because of my financial instability. She has a stable job. Wanted to do so 2 years ago but I had to put my ego aside cause if she has discovered my intention and moved before me, I would have been on the street.
I'm learning this now after 4 years together. I'm ready to get out and tired of trying to help her
Wow! Sorry to hear that. I do believe women and men are weighing their options when the refuse to commit after being in long term relationships. Protect your time and energy; leave at the first red flag you can’t live with! Stay strong king
@@spectershore4482 That's on you then. Can't expect a woman to respect your leadership if you're mooching of her. Leaders can show their work, you failed to do that.
Married almost 5 years this November and honestly, dating doesn’t matter. Marriage is so different. It takes grit and grace unlike dating. The woman I’m married to now is completely different from who I was with when we first met, in a good way.
It’s hard to act upon your roles (husband, wife) when dating. It takes real commitment to do so. Marriage > dating
Agree. This is one of the reasons why dating is so ineffective. The things people are instinctively attracted to often mean very little in a marriage.
Facts bro congrats and I'll hit 6 years next month. People are so afraid of growing apart that they don't focus on growing together.
@@bluewave3417 that’s exactly right! Well said
@@familyman4668 yes!! Congratz. I find joy in having years under my belt. Marriage isn’t an ego trip, it’s a joy to be completely yourself around them… as you’re proactively trying to figure out who you even are to begin with haha
@DJColdCuts with dating, there’s no real stakes to it. You can run away from problems, not acknowledge deep issues, or just be a different version of yourself. I saw her “pretty privilege” and enjoyed her company… but until we committed there was no reason for her to become cooperative, caring and submissive. Which is what began to grow after marriage
Dam, that 28 year old left me speechless. $150,000 to last 20 years? Does she know that’s $625 a month? My god she no idea how hard it will be when she reach retirement. I take care of my mom and Medicare only covers 80% of your bill and they don’t cover dental/vision. $10k hospital bill? You have to pay $2,000. $625 ain’t gonna help. Wake up lady.
Most people don't plan for medical expenses when thinking about the future. A car accident or even a fall can change your life. Of she doesn't own her assets, she'll be up the creek.
She plans on living off of Cat food.
@@mesalouis8976 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤣🤣🤣
Her answer had me like 😯
It would be what they deserve if they end up living on the streets saying "I don't need no man. I'm strong and independent."
These Women wait until it is too late and try to recycle the people that they threw away!
“Hey big head”😂😂😂
I miss K S man dam…. He was popping and had so more to give.. R I P 🙏🏾😎
I never knew about this size 4 thing until after listening to you KS. No relationship coach, mentor, parent, expert, guide etc mentioned it. I was overweight bordering on obese through my 30s yet invested money in courses, mentoring and coaching and nothing about being a size 4. One guy I did date said something to me about I could be smaller but he was a first to say but he didn’t say how small. Not even the men in my family mentioned it but I’m 15 Ibs away from my BMI weight. Thanks to you, I have clear answers.
AyoKemi: That's really interesting to read. I hope you're willing to answer a question for me...and I promise, this is in no way meant to be an insult or attack.
My genuine question, with no mal intent is: All the time you were obese, you thought it was perfectly fine? Nothing in you, told you that maybe you should consider losing some weight? I'm genuinely baffled that a person can be that overweight and not realize how much better their life could be by getting healthier. And again...I'm not attacking. I'm just trying to understand the mindset of a person who is obese and thinks it's perfectly normal/okay.
@@tizodd6 In Dallas, I worked out, I walked around the block, I’d walk on the treadmill but I had no real sense of urgency nor was I aggressive about it. I also saw that BW around me had big booties, big, thick thighs and just thought if I wanted a BM, I needed to be that, so I saw conflicting messages plus I had no support to be smaller from the women around me. I thought my efforts to lose weight were futile. My sister is a size 0 and her ex husband said she was too small so again, conflicting messages. Since moving to Austin and seeing who is coupled up, I see how small these white, Asian and Latino women are, so I have more encouragement and support to lose weight. The BW I do see in Austin (in general) are big. I had to move to a more health-conscious city to move my weight loss into overdrive.
@@joyhappy3461 I appreciate that reply. It does help me to understand a bit better.
Best of luck to you, I hope you continue to improve and reach your goals.
@@tizodd6 thank you 😊
Because of your “feelings” is why
KS: Make the story Short
Caller: Well 10 years ago....
Hahaha lmfao. It is like that Patrice O'Neil story of his girlfriend telling him a story about her friend Diana. Hahaha
@@leonelorozco2514 RIP. Patrice
@@leonelorozco2514 "WHOOO GOT SHOT???"
Word salad
LOL...typical...they DONT listen
01:58:50 … Many times when Kevin asks GROWN women how old they are, they give their age and then say how old they’ll be in X months. No one asked for that. That’s the kind of answer you get when you’re talking to a 5 yr old, “I’m 5 and three quarters. I’ll be six in 3 months”. Have you ever in your life asked a grown man how old he is and he goes on to volunteer his next birth date? No. Neither have I. Too many women carry themselves like overgrown children.
I've laughed so hard when he asks a woman if she's single, or what her weight is and they say..."well right now I'm..." Of course right now! He isn't asking about last week or next year! 😂 freakin hilarious!😂
I hollered when I read this🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agree it makes no sense.
I said the same, thats a statement a child will make
Yep. Most these ladies never grown up. Still teenagers. Chuckling and acting all silly
*lol Kevin’s musical taste is🔥*
Major facts. Always got the Spotify on standby
“I could live in a tiny!house” he was right this was definitely one for the record books, you can’t make this shit up!
Tiny house for tiny goals
@@knifeboygamer1200 tiny marital skillsets too
My mother told me her mother (My grandmother) told her to leave a guy she was dating at that moment to pick another man instead (My father). They have been married for more than 35 years and happy. Old folks know about these things. Mr Kevin is helping truly.
Ngcobo✊🏾🇿🇦
Women today no longer value the perspective of our elders…especially their fathers. Due to mother alienating the daughter from their fathers. A lot of the issues with modern women and dating can be mitigated with the inclusion of fatherly advice and perspectives. This is because a fathers perspective will not be filter through emotion but through logic and practical application
Hi, where are you from?
Not all old folks...
@@lokishvibes202 Hheshe!
Keep pressing in Kevin. You stirring up the black community … making an impact. 💁🏾♀️
We miss you Godfather. Thank you for content and devotion to the truth .May you rest in peace.
The tiny house comment was said out of the deflecting and need to be right part of modern women. She tried to say anything that sound good to try to make Kevin conversation or point be wrong. Something modern women do a lot because they don’t want to talk about things when they are wrong
Fr this female said ill live in a tiny house and that was the best rebuttal she could come up with
I’m going to get fit for my first suit as an adult, thanks to KS! We have to get more of this out! They said “the game don’t change, the players do.” But, KS is changing the game! Putting the settings back on default. We need to see more men dressed for business. Not like we’re going to the club or just got out of the bed ALL THE TIME. Women too! Dressed like teachers.
Right on brother. I hope you hear of your success. Let's beat this devil!
Hypergamy that's left unchecked will lead to a life of promiscuity & loneliness! 👀
Agree and we're seeing it played out first hand.
🗣 facts 💯
Appreciate the comments
Yeet you’re everywhere. CGA gave you a shout out the other day
I LOVE THE FACT THAT THE LAST YOUNG LADY WAS MORE CONCERN WITH HIS TONE THAN HER FUTURE, 150 THOUSAND DOLLARS FOR 20 YEARS AND SHE IS COLLEGE EDUCATED ,MY FARTHER USE TO SAY,SON JUST CAUSE YOU WENT TO COLLEGE DOSEN'T MEAN YOU'RE SMART, AND SHE JUST PROVE THAT,THIS IS ONE INDIVIDUAL,NOT EVERYBODY THAT GOES COME OUT LIKE THIS.
My mother used to say, it's not what you say it's how you say it. I work in an office full of women. If I speak bluntly and to the point, I get complaints that I'm being mean. I'm not even yelling or screaming like Kevin when he's in his feelings. Just straight talk. Even on emails I have to add exclamation marks because the women complain if the emails don't sound upbeat and cheerful. I can't say "Here's the files you requested.". I have to say, "Here's the files you requested!" It's insane.
“ Stop calling my show you freak “ 😭😭😭😭😭
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I laughed too!😳🤣🤣
“ *Down the aisle or out the door* “ 😵💀 It does *NOT* take 100 years to know if someone is marriage material. If you have to wonder *that long* then it’s *probably* a sign they’re not the one-or you aren’t 👀 If you have difficulty vetting potential partners, speak to someone you trust who has sound judgment (e.g., a parent, religious leader, a wise friend, or a good therapist) so you can learn how to discern.
I'm not sure they really care about finding a good partner. This kind of woman have usually nothing of value for a guy or have lost her value to other men.
It's the equivalent of a rich man living the player's lifestyle but suddently become faithfull once he goes broke.
Asking the judgment of a religious leader about marrying someone?
Are u outta your mind?
I feel sorry for u
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Some may be the right one but don't wanna get married. Now days marriage isn't the must do thing.
@@Wispeks Times have changed for sure
01:53:00 WOW. Every time I see this behavior I have to laugh. I’m so happy it’s not just me. I ask my wife a simple yes or no question and it takes over a minute to get the answer. Did she not hear the question? Is she having a different conversation with a man that looks like me in a parallel universe? Why can’t so many women not get to the fracking point and answer questions directly????!?!?!? LOL.
Makes a man go MAD dealing with this
We really don’t like men in our business unless the questions pertain to specifically you! 😅🤣
@@ishaw9894
*We really don’t like men in our business unless the questions pertain to specifically you!*
Except they came on the show to get help. Not answering the question is like going to the doctor and wanting to tell a story or lie when the doctor is asking questions to to diagnose the issue.
She wont just ANSWER
@@ishaw9894 Have no problem being in ours.
Mr Samuels, I wanna thank u sir for bringing this great content and especially this topic about dating. This is something that I see even the parents in the Muslim community are having trouble teaching these concepts to our children. I love how u explained how dating started as an industry in the 1950s. And how dating is just a synonym for having sex...and the more sex partners a girl has, the less chance she ever has at becoming a real wife...she will never be invested into u like her first...I knew these concepts early on from my pops. Thats why when I got married, I went as old school as possible. I did like Pacino in Godfather 2 and went back to the old country, found me a college senior virgin, and asked her family for permission. I told her, "first u belonged to ur father and now u belong to me" ...she knows family comes first because she has morals. So even if I have to get on her about something, she recognizes what needs to be done and she doesn't give me any attitude. She gots that feminine energy that calms me down when Im angry, she even knows how to change the topic when there's a group conversation and its going somewhere where I might take issue...she is molded for me....and we never had a "dating period."
“You Can’t Make This Shit Up”
This need to be a T-shirt 🤔.
Learn how to read. Mj
Sup bro 😎
@@pookvalo6855 thanks.
MJ Salute Homie!!
These women want un conditional love yet leave when they claim they're unhappy with their husband. That's Iove with conditions.
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Yall r basing this off the small percentace of men especially bm who get married. Statistically you will nvr marry so y u worried ?
@@Violetsinbloom Woeman shut up and step away from the keyboard. I'm married and most of my peers and men I network with worldwide are married or are planning to. Don't get defensive because you can't get wifed.
I’ve started to not allow women to over talk me and answer the question how I ask without another question I’m loving it 🤣
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And they can never just answer a yes or no question. I dear you to ask, and see for yourself!! 😅😂😂
Same hear, I did it on Tuesday, she shut up, and did what I told her to do!
Put them on there square. Like a child. 😂 they hate it.
😂 oh man you gonna fail hard times
WOMAN: tell me what am doing wrong????
KEVIN: breathing.🤣🤣🤣
Her: Tell me what I'm doing wrong?
Kevin: Breathing
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That part took me out bro 🤣🤣
I was on the floor
Pure antics .. he has something NEGATIVE for everyone woman and the men cheer him on for saying the stuff that they are afraid to say😳
Don't these women realise that the need to be right seldom means that the person IS RIGHT.
No. Its hard for them to admit it.
Winning arguments in a relationship is like winning NBA games during preseason. They games don't count, but your best players could still get injured. Proceed cautiously and look at the big picture.
@@bluewave3417 good analogy. I know for myself I get to a point where the shit becomes stupid and repetitive as far as arguing. Most women will proudly drop 50 in a preseason game that go into quadruple overtime.
@@darealtruth3095 Kevin interjects because he has facts, and to prevent the women from derailing or deflecting from the topic or question, Women try to impress and ram home their flawed logic based on "I feel" and fact-less assumptions based on here say and anecdote.
Find joy in everything you choose to do. Every job, relationship, home... it's your responsibility to love it, or change it. ~Chuck Palahniuk
How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.~Wayne Dyer
Truth is everybody is going to hurt you: you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.~Bob Marley
"Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope." - Maya Angelou quotes on love and relationships
Love is a chemical reaction in the brain
@@plot229 naw that's lust. Real and unconditional love is a choice. But many people are too selfish to choose it, though they crave its reward.
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@@Harm0niNhips Peace and Blessing Queen
@@AdonaiZedek peace and blessings to you as well 💙
Reminds me of when my sister was in her late 20s. She was dating a guy almost 10 years older than her for about 2 years. At first she was hesitant he was that much older, but knew she wanted to get married and figured an older guy would be a better choice than the guys she had been dating her own age. Bottom line he wasn't making any moves or even talking about marriage after 2 years and it concerned her. She was wanted to have kids and a family and was nervous time was passing her by. So she finally decided to throw caution to the wind and sat him down for a talk. She basically gave him the shit or get off the pot speech, alluding to being ready to leave if he wasn't ready to make a move. She had a ring a month later. Sometimes you have to put your foot down to get what you want. I had my doubts, but they're still happily married with 2 great kids 20 yrs later. He's a good guy and a great father. I'm her older brother and was a bit of a player back in the day, so I think I'd pick up on it if he wasn't good for her.
If your a good woman like my sister, a good man, will not let you go.
Thank you! Women need to stop being so damn prideful and speak up on matters like this. We aren’t mind readers and maybe he was nervous to ask so that extra nudge helped him. If a man sees a quality woman and is invested in her he will want her to be his wife.
Before I was married, I told my husband. We’ve been together long enough for you to know if you want to marry me or not. I can’t force you to marry me, but you will have to get out the way for the man that is. We got married. Still married 3 years later.
"They don't listen to us, we're mean." That sums up the arguments against KS. They'd rather be lied to, deceived in a sultry tone than hear an objective assessment of REALITY in a sobering tone. You can't make this 💩 up.
So true
🤣🤣🤣 @ Sobering tone. Sometimes. There is so much hypocrisy coming out his mouth its shameful.
@@amzngmo.e Can you at least attempt the counter the arguments presented? SIGN language is not communication.
Why are men concerned because women don’t listen?
@@borisn.1346 LOL@ SIGN language. How about he lies then. Is that better? The most blatant lie is that he dishes what he gets. I have seen him go ham on a woman just because her words trigger him. The only exception is if she is a 9 or 10. Women are all extra pleasant to him because he hangs up on people and he still gets all emotional (feminine trait) and disrespectful.
Most of these woman coming on a live broadcast unprepared as hell. No wonder they end up the way they do.
“It just happens.” Nothing ever *just* happens. 🤦🏾♀️ People *have* to start connecting the dots between their *behavior* and the *consequences* of that behavior. Until they do that, they will go from point A to point A to point A over and over again…
ask any woman about some dude she had sex with and how it started. they all say the same thing "idk it just happened" cuz they wanna skirt the accountability
@@earl-larsen sex lol sex happens when you attracted to someone. Isn’t for you?
And do you know how hard pregnancy is LOL
tell me what im doing wrong ?
"breathing"
LMFAO
I hollered. I’m listening while at work so just imagine. Men don’t want that thing on your head 🤣🤣
Many modern women display a sentiment that you work in a relationship until you get married and then the work is done. Instead, you build a relationship, get married, and the the work stops. Marriage is not the finish line it is the starting line. My POV.
LOL. Marriage used to mean a sort of retirement for many women. 50 years ago, it meant a lot for a Black man to be able to say "my wife doesn't have to work..." I'm not even talking about wealthy men, just regular Joe who worked for a living and took care of his wife, and or his family.
Tresa Welch yep times have changed men want women that works and split 50/50 it’s only right women make more than men nowadays I make. 80 k if I got married i would most likely be making more cuz most men don’t make over 50 especially black men, I like making money it’s fun
@@aprylwalk6887 Congrats.
Women and men do this. Why gender this problem?
@@b00psn00t because there’s roles in marriage nittwit
The "stop talking 😵" sound byte is hilarious!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol dawg 🤣🤣
Even if you get a tiny home and live a minimalistic lifestyle. Outside the cost of living. There’s the cost of maintenance, insurance, potential disasters, etc.
No matter how much you want to split the diff, those are possibilities and responsibilities that you’re going to bear for the remainder of your life and $150k is not going to cover that for 20 years.
Which is why I always say husbands are heavily under appreciated when they are expected to be the bank, the super, and the repairman. You want to be the CEO, but have no idea the cost to maintain that kind of infrastructure.
Great comment (coming from a woman).
All of that break down and you will still rely on social security. 70 percent of all elderly relies in social security. It’s the retirement plan for most . Men and women . Married or not. But you do pay into this during your work years. And it’s not going anywhere it will be just changed. Do research. Most adult men too don’t save enough or at all when retire . Even married couples . You can be just as fine being single as being together if you are wise . And you will get retirement money too .
@@cloverleaf9532 True, however that’s not the point. 150k in your retirement plan in a small minimalistic life style, as a home owner is not a financially sustainable living situation to last the later single elderly 20 years of your life.
Relying on social security, and deflating the argument by saying Men financially suffer too doesn’t change the math. At least to the benefit of long-term married couples, a sustainable life insurance policy at a younger age can average a net of $600,000+ payout since on average most wives outlive their husbands anyway.
@@cloverleaf9532 there won't be social security around 2035...do your research. Depending on ur age, if you're 40 and under, maintain some healthy lifestyle. You'll see many singles, couples, whole families in the streets around 2045...thats 20 some years. It's happening now, but in the future...more and more!! Kevin is right, if you're not making around 125k a year and doing what your supposed to with it...u better couple up and hold on tight bc we haven't even added inflation...good luck to all!!
Tiny house + $150k nest egg = dumbest retirement plan EVER.
🤣😂😂😂😂😂😭😭 he kilt me “you so afraid to make mistakes but all you do is make mistakes”
I don’t understand why these women keep asking Kevin where to find older men. They act like little clueless school girls. They don’t want to find good men.
*They want Beta Male Providers*
This is so true…If any women are reading this… where do you find young wives?
Older men are at the barbershop, golf course, casino, sports bar, strip club, doctors office,pool hall, car shows, monster truck rally, Home Depot, at the lake fishing etc.
@@bw9707 to be honest most of the women that y’all want are in the house. They don’t go anywhere. They’re not in the clubs or bars. You’ll have to find them on social media. Try a dating site, the mall or a shopping center, the gym, nail shop or the wine section lol
@@brianafranklin8164 Facts👏
@@bw9707 not too young nothing under 21lol im 26 used to work in casino/ bar as a waitress. There are beautiful young educated feminine women in the bars/ lounges near college/universities. But do not approach them let them approach you! Those kind of girls will not be afraid to speak to you. Look good smile, smell good and mind your business. If they look back send 1 drink over. Men and women are everywhere even coffee shops. Good luck to you 🥰
1:58.00 I love how you phrased marriage. I think more people would be open to marriage if they had a man like you break it down💯✊🏾 thank you mr Samuels 💕
"They don't want to be found out as the frauds they are." They have not been taught and spend their time listening to other women more dense than themselves.
LMAO Kevin did the Tropic Thunder Tom Cruise movie ending. I'm F dead 😭🤣🤣😂🤣😭😭
In the late 70's early 80's in California you could see many of the white boys with bumper stickers that said " No Fat Chicks".
Does anyone remember this?
I remember, I'm from Cali
Lol now in 2021, you could see fat chicks with bumper stickers that says “no short dudes”
@@wiseone8604 common in Florida in the 80’s, fat chick was an oddity, not a common occurrence that is 2021
@@JohnSluderPhoto To remember in the 90's belly shirts came back into fashion. Britney Spears said she did 3,000 situps a morning. Women worked hard to have flat stomachs so they could dress like her. I think of that everytime I see a woman wearing a belly shirt when she should not.
@@darealtruth3095 please kind sir stop with this crazy talk. ALL \/\/ymon = Tens
😂😂😂😂😂 this episode is big savage 😂😂 KS is going in today!!
I died about tree or 4 times with the sound effects. On a serious note Kevin spittin facts. He says what I've been thinking for years.
Kevin - Truth for the majority of us is that we are scared. We are scared to end up in bad situations like our parents, we are scared to be vulnerable. You either have those with nothing to lose, entering into relationships every month because their bringing nothing to the table. (nothing to lose).
Most of us struggling to have healthy marriages/relationships either don't have an example, aren't authentic enough to be ourselves because of no relationship example or worried we will marry the parent that disappointed us. It takes courage to love. It takes courage to be vulnerable.
Therapy, most of us need it. A major underdiagnosed or largely unrecognized issue in our community - trauma of poverty. This is real. It's the basis of unrealistic financial expectations of a man. It's the idea that you have to "take him for all he's worth, because men don't stick around" thought process. It's working way too many jobs, stressing out your body because you never want to lack again.
The problem with thought process and intelligence is a SERIOUS problem. How do you graduate from college but you can't speak in complete sentences? How did you graduate high school and you can't answer or process a simple question? This is NOT FUNNY. Nor is the praise of anti-intellectualism in the community. It's not funny to be almost mentally disabled in the brain and act as if the way you're operating is normal. There are resources to help but you must acknowledge something is off.
Stop arguing and over-talking people. That is so rude and disrespectful. You're feelings and thoughts DO NOT TRUMP logic and engaging in a rational conversation. Stop it. STOP IT!
We need each other. Everyone chasing after the 1% doesn't make sense. That's like saying you'll take the bugatti or I'm walking.
There is nothing wrong with working together, many of our parents did. Be open to that but that requires bringing something to the table. Historically A.A. men are not in a position to have unlimited money. You need someone by your side that is realistic and willing to work with your business ideas or grow a business supporting one another for a foundation of a future generation. Hate to bruise the ego but most don't have it like that. (wealth). Stop plugging into what capitalism is telling you about how you should move and behave and plug into budgeting, investments and managing finances. "A fool and his money shall soon depart."
We need community once again. While other cultures aren't perfect when I watch Nollywood movies they depict what we now lack. Parents involved in approving your mate. Bride price. Family inclusion. Appreciation and acknowledgement of different education, income and class level which DOES matter when choosing a mate. Marriage is expected, family is an important aspect of life. In the U.S. we lack any understanding of that. We don't even respect our elders, tragic.
PREACH
I notice that a lot more women calling in to Kevin's show don't want to be on camera lol. They know they'll end up on worldstar lol 😆 😂 🤣
"I'll make you famous"
No guidance + Options = confusing
This is so true.
To WOMEN: Being ENGAGED does NOT count!
"its not my fault u don't know wtf u'r talking about!".......luv it!!!!!!
Imagine Kevin as your Math teacher 😳 I'd be terrified 😨 but you'd definitely pass
I hope that KS's show does have a very impactful positive effect in the community like Oprah has. I also worked in banking, and dealt with lots of women that were clueless, about finance and how to earn and save for the future. very few people can actually do the math.
The nurse" doing an impression of a woman who doesn't have trouble finding people to put up with her childish antics, called in to roll her eyes.
Why did she even call? If you don’t want a man what the point?
@@ladye626 I don't know her circumstances but sometimes when you have a teenage mother they can be angry at their children. It goes back to Kevin's recent show about the Sister Daughter relationship. It can be very toxic.
1:39:00 I don't think I've ever heard pity from Kevin ever. But he truly felt sad for this woman. She was drinking heavily before she came on and is clearly troubled. Good on him for being kind.
Protect this man at all costs
Yes👍👍
They got him:(
Just cause men settle for big women don't mean men want big women. When I was dating big women it was because I couldn't get anything better and I hated it
Damn thats facts
Damn. This level of transparency is admirable.
Boom! Big girls when you're broke fit girls when you're not.
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They was cool women with good personalities but having to sleep with them was horrible. It's the same if a woman had to sleep with a guy they're not attracted to with a small penis. I don't know why they don't understand that
For the record, we women do drop jewels on younger women. However, they don’t listen. They’re very combative and they think they know everything. These younger women don’t listen to wise counsel from older women who have already been there, done that. So we tired Lol. Thankfully The Godfather is dropping jewels. We appreciate your work Sir.
Hellcat: it is hard to communicate with them.
Unfortunately the actual mothers in the household are telling the opposite. Its a horror some of the things my “christian” grandmother told me. And when we’re young we learn to trust some of the people close to us. The women who had mothers like this did listen and they speak about it. But even my own mother attacked me when all i said was I learned from her mistakes. If your own mother tears you down its hard to listen to a stranger. When Shaharazad Ali was speaking in her prime, many young women who did agree were not as outspoken to say that like people are today. Staying quiet on important subjects happened way more often back then in fear of being attacked like Kevin goes through all the time. There are more women speaking out today than there were then. We still need more though.
@UA-cam IsNazi Agreed. Shahrazad Ali is the first black woman whom I heard speaking on the subject. I agreed with her and told others about how everything she said made sense and felt right in my spirit. I caught hell from other women about it. Here we are today and of course Shahrazad Ali was right. I am happily married because I listened to her, did the work and rejected the ideas of modern women.
This is one of the best shows he’s done with women. I’ve listened to them all. Fuego!! “That’s one for the record books!”