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  • @OH5311883
    @OH5311883 2 роки тому +2174

    The black community has really lost a GEM. This man's video just flooded my page this morning and I have been watching all day and I am sorry that he is gone. He speaks truth to power.

    • @nattyparis654
      @nattyparis654 2 роки тому +45

      This is exactly how I feel.. I’m like damn imagine I was watching him all this time I’d be hella heartbroken☹️😢💔

    • @masskhamisi4
      @masskhamisi4 2 роки тому +104

      It's not just the black community ...everyone knows his a gem and everyone is sad ...he was real deal

    • @mchristpmc2152
      @mchristpmc2152 2 роки тому +31

      I think we are all in aggreance & I wish I could surround myself with you like-minded people.
      I have always thought his way, so much so, I had to question whether I was anti-woman(I'm not though). Smh. I'm so grateful that there was some1 to strictly call out the BS.

    • @joeannguy4839
      @joeannguy4839 2 роки тому +21

      Me too... I can't stop watching

    • @afrikanvoice7873
      @afrikanvoice7873 2 роки тому +13

      Definitely a gem. Real and raw 🎯

  • @AsumanMotivations
    @AsumanMotivations 3 роки тому +3929

    Her: "I'm independent"
    Kevin: "Really?"
    Her: "Because I pay my own bills"
    Kevin: "Congratulations! You're an adult" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    •  3 роки тому +47

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @mauricemartin2982
      @mauricemartin2982 3 роки тому +138

      🤣 gets me every time. They are in competition with us. So what your an adult. Smh

    • @mr.tonywilliams1236
      @mr.tonywilliams1236 3 роки тому +48

      @@mauricemartin2982 the stupidity gives me a headache. She's done

    • @renesharodgers8598
      @renesharodgers8598 3 роки тому +51

      Lol but I say this all the time..like no praise will be given or doing the basic stuff to survive.

    • @jesuschristislord77733
      @jesuschristislord77733 3 роки тому +34

      Only western feminism brainwashed waaahmens say delusional nonsense like "strong independent woman".
      There's no such thing.

  • @edgarramirez9113
    @edgarramirez9113 3 роки тому +1743

    Kevin: Who filed for divorce?
    Her: Well it was a mutual decision.
    Kevin: Who filed for divorce?
    Her: I mean it was a mutual decision between the both of us
    Kevin: WHO FILED FOR DIVORCE??
    Her: Me 🙄🙄
    You really can't make this shit up 🤦🏽‍♂️😒

    • @irritatingtruth9121
      @irritatingtruth9121 3 роки тому +73

      Yooooo! That got me. Not going to lie lol!
      That’s when I subbed

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 3 роки тому +3

      @MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS the absolute stupidity of people kill me.

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 3 роки тому +15

      @MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS trust me I already have. The worst was when I asked a couple chick's how many years are in a decade. I'm not gonna write what they said but right then and there I knew there was very little to no hope left in humanity. I'm over it hence why I just can not associate with ppl anymore.

    • @peacewilliam-west2249
      @peacewilliam-west2249 2 роки тому +36

      Bro I couldn't stop laughing. "Who filled for divorce?". Woman just say "I did."

    • @twayne4608
      @twayne4608 2 роки тому +18

      Bro that was just insane to me.

  • @juliorodriguez2694
    @juliorodriguez2694 2 роки тому +529

    I'm at Walmart right now and It's wild how many single women over the age of 40 are walking around me. I just passed by a lady, grumpy as all hell bumped past me with her son. She had a shirt on "No Boyfriend, No problem" YOU CANT MAKE THIS SHIT UP

    • @dutchdna
      @dutchdna 2 роки тому +31

      No shirt, many boyfriends.

    • @thewatcher4552
      @thewatcher4552 2 роки тому +36

      Man I used to work at a factory so many unhappy women, single moms, divorced, or have settled for deadbeats. It's really sad. My mom even bit the bait divorced after 36yrs of marriage now ✌🏽 divorced.

    • @juliorodriguez2694
      @juliorodriguez2694 2 роки тому +11

      @@thewatcher4552 I work at Amazon 🤣🤣

    • @MiguelBandito1988
      @MiguelBandito1988 2 роки тому +2

      😂

    • @kwazzawazzakushheightseloh9970
      @kwazzawazzakushheightseloh9970 2 роки тому +2

      Good day to you I don’t know you but is it true that Kevin Really died

  • @pineapplegirl8078
    @pineapplegirl8078 3 роки тому +985

    My husband asked me out in January. He asked me to marry him in February, we found a house in July, closed on the house and got married in September. 17 years and counting.

    • @davidcosdesign6785
      @davidcosdesign6785 3 роки тому +38

      Continued success and good luck.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 3 роки тому +30

      Many more years of happiness to you!

    • @Tramplyfe
      @Tramplyfe 3 роки тому +27

      May Allah continue to bless your union

    • @quashiesuzanne
      @quashiesuzanne 3 роки тому +7

      Congrats, does that mean law of averages if women do that 100% of the time it's 100% rate of longevity in marriage ?

    • @selahcmusic
      @selahcmusic 3 роки тому +1

      @@dcg590lolppol

  • @SeattlPig
    @SeattlPig 3 роки тому +977

    Kevin is totally spot on, I met my wife, we dated 3 months I purposed we moved in had very small private wedding ( because I was financially very bad spot, yet she still trusted me and supported me for years and still are). Year later we had another big wedding with everyone invited, now i make $160k+ a year and we are happily married for 15 years and counting

    • @shawnaatchley8166
      @shawnaatchley8166 2 роки тому +22

      Awesome

    • @masskhamisi4
      @masskhamisi4 2 роки тому +16

      I have similar story ...I agree

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 2 роки тому +13

      Glad you busted this one story. It can happen in all kinds of ways when you just pic healthy people who are willing to work hard on it all.

    • @vernaharris4700
      @vernaharris4700 2 роки тому +12

      Congratulations! on 15 years of marriage.😊🎉🎉🎉🎈🎈🎈

    • @lovemycreator1356
      @lovemycreator1356 2 роки тому +21

      I am so happy for you are your family! I met my husband and was married in 6 months he worked 2 w2 jobs and later he moved into his career he takes care of us and we have been married for 21 years.

  • @DivinefrequenciesXL
    @DivinefrequenciesXL 3 роки тому +2955

    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    “ Who filed for divorce?”
    GIRL!! wtf 😳 tell the truth🙄

  • @leyenda6149
    @leyenda6149 2 роки тому +206

    I was in an LTR for years. One thing I knew for sure was that I would never marry her, especially because I knew it would absoluyely end in divorce. Then had lots of fun as a single guy for years. I met someone and knew almost instantly she had all the qualities I wanted in a wife. We wed exactly 10 months to the day after 1st meeting. 1st child arrived about 2 years later. We are coming up on our 17th wedding anniversary. She's still just as amazing if not more so.

    • @kaheaisaac1
      @kaheaisaac1 2 роки тому +16

      Y did you waste the first girl time?

    • @annastarr2043
      @annastarr2043 2 роки тому +12

      May I ask why you stayed with her for so long?

    • @3rdeyegirl449
      @3rdeyegirl449 2 роки тому +8

      So you kept her as a place holder 🙄😒

    • @antoniowithrow
      @antoniowithrow 2 роки тому +16

      Right off the bat it starts with why he did this and that. Why did she allow it? Why did she stay? We all know people will only treat you how you allow them to. It’s always Brandon’s fault

    • @3rdeyegirl449
      @3rdeyegirl449 2 роки тому +6

      @@antoniowithrow she probably benefited from him but clearly he was the one that expressed that it was never going to go anywhere passed that point. She probably never wanted to get married but keeping some one as a placeholder says a lot about his character then it does her. He holds on to stuff that displease him and waits instant of cutting it off. Why???? Maybe he didn’t want to be alone

  • @skepticalj5445
    @skepticalj5445 3 роки тому +1423

    I'm a 51 year old man married for 30 years and I have a 22 year old daughter.
    I'm going to recommend her to watch your UA-cam channel.
    You are much better at explaining what is going on these days between men and women then I can.
    Thank you.🙏🏻 With love from the crazy Dutchman

    • @mmills1782
      @mmills1782 3 роки тому +73

      I have some nieces that need to watch Kevin. I know they won't like it but they need to hear it.

    • @mmills1782
      @mmills1782 3 роки тому +20

      @The Esquire of Sports® That's a good idea. Thank you

    • @DaleJr43
      @DaleJr43 3 роки тому +28

      I have daughter, and I watch for educational purposes to better inform them on how the dating world works and how to explain it to them. Take this info and "You" share it, because most likely than not they will receive it better coming from you not Kevin.

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 3 роки тому +4

      THX POPS BECAUSE HOPEFULLY SHE'LL LISTEN BECAUSE THIS IS THE TRUTH

    • @reese85
      @reese85 3 роки тому +17

      I wouldn’t recommend my daughters or nieces to watch this channel, especially if ur a dad! The way he talks to some of these women is crazy

  • @rachelwilliams4193
    @rachelwilliams4193 3 роки тому +1750

    Kevin is speaking facts. My husband and I met in September, dated the next month and married 3 months later. We dated with a purpose. We've been happily married for almost 4 years and counting.... *Update, 5.5 yrs and a baby. ❤

    • @cire155
      @cire155 3 роки тому +37

      Honestly, what is the difference between dating being committed and being married for you?

    • @goonn337
      @goonn337 3 роки тому +9

      congrads

    • @terikareviews2657
      @terikareviews2657 3 роки тому +16

      Congratulations. I pray for this.

    • @faebaby89
      @faebaby89 3 роки тому +14

      This is what I want lol but my father raised me to be a boy and on survival ughhhh so hard to unlearn the bs I was taught

    • @panama2468
      @panama2468 3 роки тому +36

      @@cire155 nothing except that now she has her nails in her husband's pot without earning it

  • @romeoo5272
    @romeoo5272 3 роки тому +1043

    This man gave me an entirely new perspective on the dating world. I dont miss a single show.

    • @uptowngeorgiaave900
      @uptowngeorgiaave900 3 роки тому +11

      ✊🏿💪🏿👊🏿

    • @shadyeighty1
      @shadyeighty1 3 роки тому +34

      Right, he's got experience and his views are deeply grounded in reality and I realized it quick: you better get in touch with reality and play your cards accordingly because no man or woman gets to win against it!

    • @mr.blademonktravels1880
      @mr.blademonktravels1880 3 роки тому +25

      The truth sets people free, doesn't matter how harsh or rough it comes at you. It's still truth.

    • @gw6496
      @gw6496 3 роки тому +1

      Ditto!!🤝🏾

    • @sirbreeze3369
      @sirbreeze3369 3 роки тому +1

      💯💯

  • @nunyabiznessnerd
    @nunyabiznessnerd 2 роки тому +267

    Met my wife in June, got engaged in November, married in December. That was 25 years ago and still going strong.

  • @PJacksonPorter
    @PJacksonPorter 3 роки тому +890

    The most difficult question of the day for no reason: “Who filed for divorce?” 🤣🤣

    • @jeremiahdavis3398
      @jeremiahdavis3398 3 роки тому +14

      Lols 😂

    • @deebrown1113
      @deebrown1113 3 роки тому +48

      No accountability at all. Yes or no …. That simple 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 3 роки тому +32

      @@deebrown1113 Accountability is modern womyn's krytonite.

    • @ZackSuru
      @ZackSuru 3 роки тому +35

      They love to deflect. Direct questions are a nightmare to them.
      Imagine having to answer without gaslighting. .. How dares he?

    • @simbafinalhour6184
      @simbafinalhour6184 3 роки тому +15

      Lmao Who filed divorce who filed Who file the divorce who file the divorce who the filed

  • @scottgrey6961
    @scottgrey6961 3 роки тому +406

    "It's perpetual high school" TOO MUCH TRUTH.

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 3 роки тому +11

      It is - & whoever got the best picture on Facebook of their vacation or new designer purse on Instagram... it is sad. Pathetic, actually.

    • @FatherFH
      @FatherFH 3 роки тому +3

      There is a song called High school never ends. And it is true

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 3 роки тому

      @Thomas Mottl Spot on, that's just more bluff.

    • @mikemontgomery2654
      @mikemontgomery2654 3 роки тому +1

      For far too god damn long! Why do people INSIST on not leaving?

    • @Koozomec
      @Koozomec 3 роки тому +2

      @@mikemontgomery2654 moving on takes accoubtability anf humility. Both are not that common on either genders.

  • @MrCanelover
    @MrCanelover 3 роки тому +1307

    Somebody get this man a blockbuster biopic started. Please and thank you. This is legendary and one of the most revolutionary acts of service for the black family since the Civil Rights era...

    • @everythingisupsidedown9593
      @everythingisupsidedown9593 3 роки тому +15

      Also recommend Jesse Lee Peterson

    • @andrew2393
      @andrew2393 3 роки тому +69

      He's not only doing good for the black family but also for all races too. Women really don't understand that men are the reason why they are allowed to live comfortable and do what they do. I'm glad men are finally saying enough is enough.

    • @Strength_In_Wisdom
      @Strength_In_Wisdom 3 роки тому +23

      A stern hand. Some would say God spoke through Moses the same way.

    • @TivBoiMedia
      @TivBoiMedia 3 роки тому +10

      Hands down the truth.

    • @DavidAnthonyBrayboy60
      @DavidAnthonyBrayboy60 3 роки тому +7

      Absolutely 💯

  • @charms85
    @charms85 2 роки тому +242

    How come people hated this man?? Brother thank you for being such a eye opener. People are so hard to learn. Stressing over assets earned but giving up her one body, spirit, emotions and life. Thank you Kevin.

    • @MadScientistSid
      @MadScientistSid 2 роки тому +33

      They hated jesus because he told the truth

    • @mzv2754
      @mzv2754 2 роки тому +11

      I was guilty of pre judging based on a short. Until I actually started listening to his full videos He's a genius and cared more than we realized

    • @greyman6353
      @greyman6353 2 роки тому +1

      F-ist hate him because he refused to be cowed into echoing the insanity that they perpetrate, unlike popular media. Men understand because what Samuels said aligns with our experiences and the lives of their brothers, fathers and uncles.
      They cant handle the truth and hence try to silence him instead

    • @SammySosa4N
      @SammySosa4N 2 роки тому

      idiots with no accountability hated him***

    • @jordyalmonte42
      @jordyalmonte42 2 роки тому +19

      Cuz people especially women choose to live in the land of make believe rather than accept the truth

  • @datzlukeh2627
    @datzlukeh2627 3 роки тому +596

    “He might not Blow ya back out, but he can keep a roof over your head “ 😂😂😂😂 KS be keepin it real!!

  • @Hajj1718
    @Hajj1718 3 роки тому +280

    She had a complete meltdown when he asked her who filed for divorce. Phone started shaking and all that 😂😂

    • @user-tk7rl6hw6c
      @user-tk7rl6hw6c 3 роки тому +12

      I swear 😂😭

    • @thuroB30
      @thuroB30 3 роки тому +15

      She took a while to answer that one! 🤣😂

    • @allenlevelle
      @allenlevelle 3 роки тому +17

      Did you notice that too??? I got dizzy when he asked her the question....You can't make this stuff up!!!!

    • @persona-non-grata
      @persona-non-grata 3 роки тому +18

      "iT wAs MuTuAL"

    • @Hajj1718
      @Hajj1718 3 роки тому +8

      @@persona-non-grata 😂😂 Nah he was pressing her and staying on task. A meltdown is what she had.

  • @OtsutsukiSan
    @OtsutsukiSan 3 роки тому +492

    The answer is no. You can’t even know what to look for in a husband if you aren’t even trained to be brought up as a wife.

    • @amodog99
      @amodog99 3 роки тому +52

      Exactly! They are more worried what their female friends and female relatives will think than what a man wants.

    • @mikhailabdurrachman2443
      @mikhailabdurrachman2443 3 роки тому +29

      Bottom line is that if a woman is not thirsty for you then don't even waste your time talking to her 🔥

    • @sc3167
      @sc3167 3 роки тому +11

      As a 44 yrs old black woman I totally agree with you Kota Kimura! But thank God I am blessed with a wonderful black man and learned how to become a great wife over our 17 yrs of marriage. His mom and dad were a great example for me. I came from a single parent household, the only child and was raised to be "independent". My mom absolutely loves my husband and said that she couldn't have picked him better if she had picked him for me.

    • @amodog99
      @amodog99 3 роки тому +25

      @@sc3167 ❤️. keep jealousy ass women out of your relationship as well as close all social media account and enjoy your life together.

    • @LadyNaomi441
      @LadyNaomi441 3 роки тому +5

      Facts

  • @EarthboundinAdrock
    @EarthboundinAdrock 2 роки тому +140

    Met my wife when I was 23 and she was 18. I proposed after 8 months of dating. Now I'm 30, happily married with 2 children. Both average people Working average jobs, combined income 80k happy and middle class. Peoples standards are too unrealistic

    • @kernelkestrel4400
      @kernelkestrel4400 2 роки тому +19

      Right. Don’t let these fake ass people and society try to tell you that you need more. You got all you need my friend! Congrats to you, live long!

    • @MrBl3ki
      @MrBl3ki 2 роки тому +12

      80k wisely used in company is better than double wasted in loneliness.

    • @robertneblett6559
      @robertneblett6559 2 роки тому +6

      80k is plenty to be secured in a middle class lifestyle. Although my wife of 32 years has rarely worked outside the home throughout our marriage I didn't hit 80k until about 12 years ago. But we raised 3 kids on my salary, which, when the kids lived at home was between 35 and 70k. Now I'm over a 100k and we're the rich grandparents that can afford to spoil our grandkids.

    • @oliviazuniga4677
      @oliviazuniga4677 2 роки тому +3

      Absolutely. $$ is only important to LIVE.
      Too much focus on money not enough value put into family and values.

    • @CEWIII9873
      @CEWIII9873 2 роки тому

      Have you seen the movie Indecent Proposal?
      Or you two could book a chocolate pudding party in Dubai...

  • @LagunaLeonhart
    @LagunaLeonhart 3 роки тому +362

    "you want traditional men but you want to be modern women"
    Wow truth

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 3 роки тому +3

      PPPRRREEEAAACCCHHH IT DOESN'T WORK

    • @jaydub2003
      @jaydub2003 3 роки тому +18

      They want the benefits, but none of the responsibilities that comes with it.

    • @Cassiejaylove
      @Cassiejaylove 3 роки тому

      Hectic

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 3 роки тому

      @ノロイ some people can be happy without a husband/ wife. It just depends, tradition doesn’t matter at ALL.

  • @japekto2138
    @japekto2138 3 роки тому +702

    I'm an outsider looking in and I only learned about Mr. Samuels very recently. My wife and I have been married for 27 years (2 kids). Looking back through the years, I have to say, Mr. Samuels is spot on. We need more pros like Mr. Samuels because relationships for certain groups are becoming a lost art.

    • @msi8311
      @msi8311 3 роки тому +59

      Healthy relationships are certainly in a lost art category for many people.

    • @Proteanlife
      @Proteanlife 3 роки тому +4

      👍🏿

    • @Domini0n1
      @Domini0n1 3 роки тому +3

      👍🏽

    • @F3f3333
      @F3f3333 3 роки тому +32

      @@Domini0n1 27 years!! God bless you and your wife

    • @ronswanson1410
      @ronswanson1410 3 роки тому +3

      Tell em.

  • @Elcapitaan5
    @Elcapitaan5 3 роки тому +870

    BW" "It's actually a funny story"
    KS: "No it's not"

    • @stressbucket9846
      @stressbucket9846 3 роки тому +43

      That probably comes from thinking we're unique and special.

    • @chefrynojohnson7965
      @chefrynojohnson7965 3 роки тому +6

      😂🤦🏽

    • @EM-hn1db
      @EM-hn1db 3 роки тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @LivingisGiving
      @LivingisGiving 3 роки тому +17

      Funny for her because KS was exposing the truth in front of her. Playing BS word games with him won't fly

    • @boykaunlimitted4514
      @boykaunlimitted4514 3 роки тому +4

      SAVAGE😂

  • @SweetBSaph
    @SweetBSaph 2 роки тому +38

    So true. People got so caught up on his delivery while ignoring the message. At the end of the day he was about fit partners and healthy relationships. But females are all up in arms because that male presence is missing in the modern family. That uncle, big cousin, grandpa with that straight forward advice.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn Рік тому

      Should l blast myself in the face with a sh0tgun since I’m 27 and men only value your looks and fertility?

  • @DaliaMiller
    @DaliaMiller 3 роки тому +360

    I'll be completely honest, the only reason I "chose right" was because I listened to my father in my teenage years about boys. Ended up marrying the first guy I dated in college because literally all my family members loved him, including my dad.

    • @BChan1991
      @BChan1991 3 роки тому +12

      Are you satisfied with the results so far?

    • @DaliaMiller
      @DaliaMiller 3 роки тому +74

      @@BChan1991 Absolutely! I love that man 🥰

    • @donmiko7439
      @donmiko7439 3 роки тому +22

      @@DaliaMiller you were blessed in God's way and lucky in the world's way

    • @jayskezee598
      @jayskezee598 2 роки тому +38

      you were not lucky... you are obviously a feminine and good woman, and attracted a good man. That's how its supposed to work. ..Congratulations!

    • @murielodette2995
      @murielodette2995 2 роки тому +1

      hope you love him too,or grew to love him!!!

  • @CdnElJefe
    @CdnElJefe 3 роки тому +531

    Started dating my wife at 22. Got married at 23. Two kids later we’ll be celebrating 10 years this winter. Know what you want, don’t settle, and don’t waste time.

    • @Omooba-1004
      @Omooba-1004 3 роки тому +12

      Most Sensible!
      Don't Settle! Don't Waste Time!! Know what you want!!!

    • @kimberlymorrison5417
      @kimberlymorrison5417 3 роки тому +3

      Truly correct

    • @alwaysblack2436
      @alwaysblack2436 3 роки тому +2

      Congrats bro! Great job.

    • @ramieyaharris
      @ramieyaharris 3 роки тому +3

      Love this! 👏🏾👏🏾 CONGRATULATIONS!

    • @CdnElJefe
      @CdnElJefe 3 роки тому +2

      @@ramieyaharris
      Thanks so much!

  • @voyager6472
    @voyager6472 3 роки тому +242

    My story, I met my Spanish wife in the UK. We dated a month, I asked her to live with me, she said that means a future together for me, I said I am happy with your terms and flew to Spain and spoke to her Dad, we were engaged and married within a year, and have been happily together for more than 23 years now.

  • @houathao1144
    @houathao1144 3 місяці тому +12

    Went on a date with my husband one time; after one week, we got married. Been married for 23 yrs and have 4 boys.

  • @Gstealth7
    @Gstealth7 3 роки тому +566

    When accountability is discussed it feels like an attack because of the truth!

    • @dorianvedrashko9172
      @dorianvedrashko9172 3 роки тому +1

      nonwhites tell whites that everything feels like oppression when supremacy is being corrected. That is true. This is the equivalent of that to feminist scum. I've learned to see how good I have it compared to black guys. I learned a lot just by shutting up and actually listening and reading for a long time. I'm embarrassed it took such a long time, but I used my ears to learn. women seem incapable.

    • @PhantomFilmAustralia
      @PhantomFilmAustralia 3 роки тому +10

      Truth of accountability feels like an attack because it hurts.

    • @reenamola2162
      @reenamola2162 2 роки тому +3

      it does to women only.

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 2 роки тому +2

      No. it feels like an attack bc he tells only one side of the story while placing the blame on the other. He is doing exactly what he whines about regarding women. You all need to stop

    • @ruffneckdaniel8842
      @ruffneckdaniel8842 2 роки тому +2

      still watching and keeping his content alive

  • @rosanmokhtar3736
    @rosanmokhtar3736 2 роки тому +317

    Im asian, born n bred in South East Asia, this channel and Kevin makes me ponder, reflect on myself and appreciate my husband more. Im a higher earner in the family, degrees n all but guess what, I didn’t have to fix anything or to take care of anything because my husband did it all. I need my husband. He’s the man in our house. I let him be and know that.

    • @luvone2
      @luvone2 2 роки тому +18

      That’s inspiring!!! In our community a relationship/marriage as such would be frowned upon…. Men don’t always have to be the breadwinner.

    • @sovl2178
      @sovl2178 2 роки тому +4

      Your husband is white, isn't he...

    • @Iammediamillztv7373
      @Iammediamillztv7373 2 роки тому +4

      Salute sister!!! Love that man we need it!!!

    • @lnb252
      @lnb252 2 роки тому +3

      @@luvone2 if men are in their masculine they have to be the bread winner in the relationship

    • @thetraveler1182
      @thetraveler1182 2 роки тому +6

      @@luvone2 a Man, WILL be the Man of the Relationship. Otherwise the BW will always tend to try to wrestle the crown from him

  • @thechosenone7875
    @thechosenone7875 3 роки тому +624

    She’s 39 been with someone for 4 years . He’s either cheating or is just keeping her around until he finds better. Spending 4 years with someone who only somewhat respects her... unbelievable

    • @maelmontero
      @maelmontero 3 роки тому +11

      Facts

    • @MzBerry-24
      @MzBerry-24 3 роки тому +8

      Truth

    • @Tonay1999
      @Tonay1999 3 роки тому +28

      He also does not want to marry her. He is probably waiting for her to let him go. It's hard to be the first to break off a relationship sometimes.

    • @tystomrte4442
      @tystomrte4442 3 роки тому +4

      I'm going to be real with y'all if a dude is doing all that making her a a freak and hitting those spots is, hard to let a chick like that go I mean come on some dudes know that yeah he going to play the field yeah he would even lie to her yeah he even going have sex with her best friend or whatever you still love her right wow

    • @thechosenone7875
      @thechosenone7875 3 роки тому

      @@tystomrte4442 that’s the truth right there fam. 💯

  • @KienDLuu
    @KienDLuu 2 роки тому +18

    I can’t believe I only just found this man after his passing. This man has transcended death. His wisdom will live on.

    • @SuperiorRobyn
      @SuperiorRobyn Рік тому

      Should I blast myself in the face with a sh0tgun since I’m 27 and men only value your looks and fertility?

  • @MissAlomo
    @MissAlomo 3 роки тому +752

    People have been laughing at foreign cultures for dowry traditions, arranged marriages, and extensive marriage rites till the cultural marriages trended on social media and became glamorized, however the process was/is in place for a REASON. Because our people knew we (young adults/ kids) didn’t know what we were doing and the elders had a place and an obligation to make sure we marry right! In this 21st century, where there is pre-marital counseling, books, couple therapy, etc it seems the more educated we became in academia, the DUMBER we became in building the foundation for family & relationships. The sad part is she’s speaking so firmly as if she’s right, yet so wrong!

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 3 роки тому +51

      Parents have a vested interest in their children, their overall family legacy, and their community. There's a reason many of these cultural traditions are... traditions. 'Feelz' are unreliable and are destroying everything important. F your feelz. Duty and responsibility are far more important.

    • @Nyalaize
      @Nyalaize 3 роки тому +7

      Speak

    • @joesmith3098
      @joesmith3098 3 роки тому +26

      It's not an accident. These things and values are taught not only by parents but in schools. " As we became more educated" that's correct. Why do you think the left is pushing for free college, same with feminism. Along with every other policy that has been ruining not only the black community but this country!
      If someone was a white supremacists who hates America and freedom, but can not defeat the country in an out right war they would do exactly what has been done! Democrats and the left with their policies have not failed the black community, the policies have worked perfectly!

    • @MissAlomo
      @MissAlomo 3 роки тому +1

      @@joesmith3098 Joe 🤫 don’t drag it.

    • @joesmith3098
      @joesmith3098 3 роки тому +2

      @@MissAlomo I don't know what your saying

  • @uticiaburroughs5233
    @uticiaburroughs5233 3 роки тому +361

    My father always said Man picks wife. Women makes them selves available and ready to become wife. My dad chose my mom, her parents approved. August 6th was there 55th anniversary.

  • @josealexi5141
    @josealexi5141 3 роки тому +558

    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    "Who filed for divorce?"
    she can't answer the damn question because she knows it makes her look bad.

    • @brothaantone8286
      @brothaantone8286 3 роки тому +22

      Exactly!

    • @aaaaaa2206
      @aaaaaa2206 3 роки тому +36

      She CAN answer the question, and she knows it.
      She doesn't CHOOSE to answer the question because it makes her look bad.

    • @rastaa3x787
      @rastaa3x787 3 роки тому +20

      That part was funny asf 😂😭

    • @michaelthomas8230
      @michaelthomas8230 3 роки тому +11

      It looks bad on her either way.

    • @bornstar7916
      @bornstar7916 3 роки тому +15

      I couldn't stop laughing bruh that shit was funny

  • @honeylove7678
    @honeylove7678 2 роки тому +81

    Watching this show gives me a sense that KS is still here but reality steps in......we lost a man who was trying to bring wisdom giving women a platform to succeed in their relationships.

  • @gablgr1
    @gablgr1 3 роки тому +152

    “100k miles on a heart and have nothing to show for it”…. Big Bro stay dropping knowledge!! Bravo 💯👏💪🏽

    • @Pysnpai
      @Pysnpai 3 роки тому +17

      “100k dollars in the bank, 100k miles on the heart, and nothing to show for it”
      I had to pause the vid on that one.

    • @parker7030
      @parker7030 3 роки тому +4

      @@Pysnpai yeah nah that was a bar

    • @joshamsalu6663
      @joshamsalu6663 3 роки тому +2

      @@Pysnpai that was a BAR!

    • @dariusbradley14
      @dariusbradley14 3 роки тому

      @@Pysnpai i didn’t catch that lol .. at what mark did he say that ?

  • @mylesmarks5687
    @mylesmarks5687 3 роки тому +182

    “Who file for divorce”
    “It was mutual”
    It took him 7 times to get the truth outta her that’s crazy 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @Trilljay718
      @Trilljay718 3 роки тому +29

      This shows you fellas that woman will lie straight up in your face. Don’t take any of them serious. Play Chess always stay one step ahead of them no matter who they are to you.

    • @carmcharm6496
      @carmcharm6496 3 роки тому +2

      Well if it was mutual she should have explained dissolution of marriages exist. She probably was lying though because I have been asked that and I simply explained someone has to serve the other person and the attorney simply fills in the blanks for both parties.

    • @judithnickelberry2536
      @judithnickelberry2536 3 роки тому

      @UA-cam IsNazi no lies told here. Every word was true

    • @24KLuxury
      @24KLuxury 3 роки тому +4

      realize we’re having to badger women we know like this just to get a simple straight answer

    • @thePraddagee
      @thePraddagee 3 роки тому +1

      @@24KLuxury lol they have to have some semblance of respect for you in order for you to even get a word in first. With Kevin they seek his approval first and his public platform gives him the opportunity to demand order. Most men don’t have that platform and are “average” men. I’ve been talking to my family like this for years lol 😂. I’ve just been labeled the black sheep and called “terse”. Literally had to just leave them be, they are too far gone. A woman’s body count is her mileage and experience tells me unnecessary drama and stress of a woman is a man’s mileage. It’ll leave you old and balding faster than you normally should be 😅. Even the Bible says
      Proverbs 25:24
      It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.

  • @Introverted_Extrovert99
    @Introverted_Extrovert99 3 роки тому +455

    This vvoman said, “you gotta have a tingle” then giggled after it. That is the reason she is in the position she’s in now.

    • @hardplans2366
      @hardplans2366 3 роки тому +45

      She was but thurt when she tried the "mis o g yn" smear with kevin
      He steamrolled her and she blinking away tears

    • @balerikirmu.11
      @balerikirmu.11 3 роки тому +42

      tingles from dudes who aren't economically at their level..

    • @Introverted_Extrovert99
      @Introverted_Extrovert99 3 роки тому +14

      @@balerikirmu.11 Tingles from the dudes package or bank account, still can put them in the same position. That’s why many cultures have arranged marriages. (I’m sure you know that)

    • @Jaslath
      @Jaslath 3 роки тому +41

      @@balerikirmu.11
      *tingles from dudes who aren't economically at their level..*
      It's not even about resources. Women will have sex with dudes that gives them the tingles in the same night. Way too many women don't realize that those tingles are simply lust.

    • @seraphim3599
      @seraphim3599 3 роки тому +18

      Aka the most hood dude they can find

  • @lut2843
    @lut2843 2 роки тому +19

    Kevin is so right. I knew I wanted to marry my wife within a month of dating and talking to her. We are 10 years and happily married.

  • @angsana2800
    @angsana2800 3 роки тому +266

    KS is so committed to make a change in his community; this lady accusing him of hating women made a desperate attempt to discredit him. She failed spectacularly.

    • @tdrive398
      @tdrive398 3 роки тому +4

      Amateurs face plant when they engage a professional. 😊

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 3 роки тому

      Yeah KS is trying change the community for the worst lol.

    • @angsana2800
      @angsana2800 3 роки тому +2

      @@santacruz8507 The grammatically correct phrase is worse, not worst. Time to go back to school.

    • @TheAlmightyClipse
      @TheAlmightyClipse 3 роки тому

      Too busy grinning while getting checked.... No wonder K.S loses his patience...

    • @santacruz8507
      @santacruz8507 3 роки тому

      @@angsana2800 your right Angsana I made a mistake in my spelling. Just like ks made a mistake to humanity by starting a disgusting UA-cam channel.

  • @maryjones1659
    @maryjones1659 3 роки тому +249

    When I met my husband within six months we were already ring shopping and a year after that married. Two years later we had our first child and two years later our second. It truly doesn't take four years ladies.

    • @grantwithers
      @grantwithers 3 роки тому +27

      It only takes 4 years if you're not wife material and not even trying to be

    • @SH-vj2ce
      @SH-vj2ce 3 роки тому +23

      Same sis. Same. Got engaged in 12 months... ring shipped 4 months in. The only reason he didn't propose sooner, my ring was being custom made🥰

    • @jwa7378
      @jwa7378 3 роки тому +18

      Good for you. I'm worth 500k and I'm 40 why the hell would I want to be married in six months. I'm never getting married but congratulations to you and your spouse.

    • @gbjanuary
      @gbjanuary 3 роки тому

      @ノロイ God has lot to answer for then as more single lonely people than ever before.

    • @tyraceabdulraheem2295
      @tyraceabdulraheem2295 3 роки тому +2

      Thank you I told a lady 1 yr and am out.

  • @bones549
    @bones549 3 роки тому +80

    I was in college, having fun, and met my wife. We dated 6 months I proposed, and we were engaged for a year and a half. Only because I was finishing school. I graduated on a Friday and started working on the following Monday. We were married one month later. Been married 36 years and raised two boys.

    • @gotrescuedauto3584
      @gotrescuedauto3584 3 роки тому +1

      WWWOOOWWW ❤️

    • @musakgoete4544
      @musakgoete4544 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly
      .. we men don't need 48 months to marry a woman...its usually within a year

    • @doombrush
      @doombrush 3 роки тому +1

      Textbook 💯💯

    • @osolvholts
      @osolvholts 3 роки тому

      Love this!

    • @JohnDoe-gc1kt
      @JohnDoe-gc1kt 3 роки тому +2

      Bro I hate to break it to you but times have changed

  • @DoughDashWord
    @DoughDashWord Рік тому +11

    I love how he repeats his questions until he gets an answer!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @georgeblair3894
    @georgeblair3894 3 роки тому +493

    Modern women want the "privilege " of a man, with the accountability and responsibility of a child.

    • @williamparker7584
      @williamparker7584 3 роки тому +18

      I have never heard anyone put it better than this.

    • @sickofguysnamedtodd2293
      @sickofguysnamedtodd2293 3 роки тому +24

      More like the power and authority of men, the privilege and advantages of women and the last part you nailed.

    • @suziebee4240
      @suziebee4240 3 роки тому

      What accountability and responsibility do men have that women don't?

    • @georgeblair3894
      @georgeblair3894 3 роки тому +7

      @@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 Much better than what I had. Thanks.

    • @darthkek1953
      @darthkek1953 3 роки тому +28

      The wealth of a man
      The accountability of a child.
      The body of a hippopotamus.

  • @el_tradicional
    @el_tradicional 3 роки тому +498

    "it was a great 4 years, we've traveled" 🤦🏿‍♂️ They value the things that can be showed off

    • @allgasnobrakes5233
      @allgasnobrakes5233 3 роки тому +68

      Everything is a show for a woman’s peers, every move they make

    • @igorstasenko9183
      @igorstasenko9183 3 роки тому +44

      well, at least now she can check mark against "i love traveling" in her tinder profile

    • @surgedidit
      @surgedidit 3 роки тому +9

      @@igorstasenko9183 😂😂😂

    • @DeADvElOciRaPtor
      @DeADvElOciRaPtor 3 роки тому +20

      Yes bro this the reason they always dating the type of dudes they date. Funny thing is they creating more dudes that won’t marry them but will fly them somewhere to smash then move in to the next one.

    • @el_tradicional
      @el_tradicional 3 роки тому +5

      @@DeADvElOciRaPtor still no shade on those dudes 🍻

  • @mra.4466
    @mra.4466 3 роки тому +87

    “Who filed for divorce” bout to be a rap song hook.

  • @tartfresh5565
    @tartfresh5565 2 роки тому +8

    I can't believe how much KS point makes sense lol I'm literally scratching my head how I'm now convinced after 3 to 6 months you know if you have a play thing you don't want to let go or a martial partner

  • @Cramernutz22
    @Cramernutz22 3 роки тому +388

    She's the embodiment of "Admit nothing, deny everything"

    • @vernaharris4700
      @vernaharris4700 2 роки тому +11

      Sad isn't it? She really need to do less talking and more listening?

    • @raymondaranda8716
      @raymondaranda8716 2 роки тому +4

      Even if you on camera .... Deny deny deny

  • @ashleyashloc23
    @ashleyashloc23 3 роки тому +166

    My husband proposed to me two weeks after our first date. We were married a month later. Will be married for two years next month. Women have to be serious about wanting too be married and be willing to walk away if someone is not on board sooner.

    • @doombrush
      @doombrush 3 роки тому +3

      Congratulations 👏

    • @tshiamoleipego5549
      @tshiamoleipego5549 3 роки тому

      I believe in not walking into an unfavorable situation in the first place.

    • @angelinaad209
      @angelinaad209 3 роки тому +1

      2 weeks werent you scared?😯

    • @ashleyashloc23
      @ashleyashloc23 3 роки тому +8

      I had come to the point that I no longer wanted to date just because. I had two previous suitors that were serious about marriage but looking back I wasn't. I allowed fear to end things with the notion of it being too soon. I know one went on and got married to the next woman after me within six months. When a man is serious about finding a wife, then he will find one. The woman has to be ready or step aside for the next woman that is. The same applies to women that want to be married and encounter a man that is not on that page. People will have unprotected sex on date two but date for four years after because they fear marriage. We have things backwards.

    • @user-kz2yt5ow7r
      @user-kz2yt5ow7r 3 роки тому +1

      I got underwear older than that.😀

  • @tyronedawn5048
    @tyronedawn5048 3 роки тому +111

    This dude is a GODSEND. I have learned so much about myself and women and still learning. I have become a better, more focused man listening to Mr. Samuels.

  • @CrispNoodles
    @CrispNoodles 2 роки тому +199

    My husband proposed to me 2 months after we met. Engaged for 1 year. Been married over 7 years now. Kevin is speaking facts!!!!! Get with it ladies.
    Stop ignoring 🚩.

  • @willemdaffo
    @willemdaffo 3 роки тому +421

    If women are so happy with their jobs and money and are so independent then there’s no need to get married or even expect a man to be monogamous.

  • @angelique707
    @angelique707 3 роки тому +839

    I resent the “broke construction worker” comment. My dad was a carpenter and did very well for his family. Respect blue collar workers. They are in demand and often make more than college grads.

    • @giantboop5189
      @giantboop5189 3 роки тому +79

      I think he was referring to just that individual, and not construction workers as a whole

    • @jemalguillory
      @jemalguillory 3 роки тому +61

      Kevin is litigating. He’s using her own words as statement of facts to debate her argument. You have to make a debate logical to debate it being sound or not. Colloquial syllogism.

    • @benten1453
      @benten1453 3 роки тому +55

      Women call men who make significantly less than them broke....nothing new

    • @zuhalterei4090
      @zuhalterei4090 3 роки тому +37

      The Godfather was talking about her ex who she said was broke. Listen to his other content. He calls out blue collar brothers and says women missing out. Don’t get upset

    • @MassiveReset
      @MassiveReset 3 роки тому +34

      No diss to blue collar types from KS. He has routinely taken women to task who overlook tradesmen with very good incomes and zero school debt. Says they are often a better fit for women than white collar types who he credits as building the world 🌎
      I'm certain he meant no disrespect 💯

  • @usmcdevildog6935
    @usmcdevildog6935 3 роки тому +445

    The longer a man dates a women the less likely he is to marry her.

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage 3 роки тому +36

      why marry, what dose it change, divorce rates are over 50% and 85% on those are engaged by the women, its pointless, marriage, dose nothing.

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage 3 роки тому +3

      @ノロイ you're missing my point.

    • @d.l831
      @d.l831 3 роки тому +22

      @@TallGarage isn’t it more like: why would a man marry a woman who is willing to just play house?

    • @lemontmorrison4262
      @lemontmorrison4262 3 роки тому +2

      I agree with that

    • @TallGarage
      @TallGarage 3 роки тому +15

      @@d.l831 Pay house as too being married and playing house? its the same thing with a piece of paper that say now when you split up your going to be spending thousands on a lawyer and she gets half of everything and maybe spousal support, why do that? men receive nothing from marriage, rings dont plug holes youll still get cheated on youll still fight. it means nothing.

  • @lwilliams7448
    @lwilliams7448 2 роки тому +11

    "I'm a Ph.D" Lol. That soundbite gets me every time.

  • @jeanellreynolds7291
    @jeanellreynolds7291 3 роки тому +129

    Wow. Three minutes in and Kevin is right. We don't know how to pick men for relationships. We are so blessed to have you create this platform. And believe me I got to this point kicking and fighting. I stayed mad with Kevin until I went back and started watching more shows. So thank you KS for this channel.

    • @mr.fantastic1485
      @mr.fantastic1485 3 роки тому +11

      Jeanell Reynolds you'll pick the right one beautiful

    • @MH3GL
      @MH3GL 3 роки тому +4

      You just found the meaning of "surrendering" 🙂
      When people learn to surrender to the will of the World, and work within its rules, it's amazing how much you can achieve...

    • @elitegotenks2204
      @elitegotenks2204 3 роки тому

      And this why you for the streets

  • @MGrose407
    @MGrose407 3 роки тому +70

    When Kevin breaks it down it really is about helping our community, but as individuals we are so selfish and that’s why the women always say “I feel like” and pander their independence while also never taking accountability.

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 3 роки тому +4

      @Big Boss _”...twitter quotes...”_ 🤣
      Bruh, that’s a keeper😄

  • @amandabrown2152
    @amandabrown2152 3 роки тому +652

    What Kevin’s saying is so deep. I’m married, but I wish I could share this with so many women, including my sisters. Unfortunately, Kevin’s not PC and they will not hear him. I’ve tried to share other videos and they’re horrified I love KS content 🥺

    • @berzurker
      @berzurker 3 роки тому +19

      The cussing seems to be new. I've been watching him since before the pandemic, he used to watch his language more. I think is sortof takes away from his message, which I believe to be correct. He was a little salty with this woman for some reason. She's definitely a feminist but she was nasty to him at all.

    • @ShesooBreezy
      @ShesooBreezy 3 роки тому +38

      You can lead a horse 🐴 to water 💧, but you can’t force it to drink it. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Nonpeon
      @Nonpeon 3 роки тому +54

      @@berzurker Words are the frosting, the message the cake. Don't get hung up on the superficial.

    • @HorizonMediaGaming
      @HorizonMediaGaming 3 роки тому +35

      KEEP YOUR MAN SIS!!! LET THOSE WOMAN FEND FOR THEMSELVES!! I wish you and your man peace and bliss, let those woman wreck their own homes!

    • @NoPauseTv1
      @NoPauseTv1 3 роки тому +6

      😭 Their loss

  • @Collectivemyndthought
    @Collectivemyndthought 2 роки тому +44

    Kevin, I think I speak for all men when I say, “We miss you!” Rest easy, Godfather!

  • @starznmyeyez8906
    @starznmyeyez8906 3 роки тому +117

    Sis that's with the man for 3 or 4 years is NOT happy. I have been a woman all my life. Nothing crushes a woman's spirit more than loving a man and wanting that man and knowing that he does not feel the same way. But now she is too afraid to say how she really feels. No woman is "happy" wasting her time on a man who won't marry her. It's better to be alone than to feel rejected everyday. Don't waste your beauty and youth another day. Once I set myself free the "right" one appeared. Pray for strength and release this one. You will be amazed at what opens up for you. Sending you much love. 🦋

    • @rstreetz
      @rstreetz 3 роки тому +6

      This spoke to me😇 thank you 😘

    • @AM-ri9ut
      @AM-ri9ut 3 роки тому +8

      I agree with this. To be honest, my kids mom has wasted almost 2 decades of her time with me, we've been together on and off since 2000, but she won't leave, and I'm not ever getting married. I'll continue to enjoy her companionship and co-parent until she moves on.

    • @kathyflorcruz552
      @kathyflorcruz552 3 роки тому +7

      She's protecting her money. And won't have anyone to leave it to in the end. Sad.

    • @joshamsalu6663
      @joshamsalu6663 3 роки тому +3

      @@kathyflorcruz552 thats cap lol she aint that rich.

    • @JadeCarter66
      @JadeCarter66 3 роки тому

      AMEN!!!!

  • @andrewcjeffrey
    @andrewcjeffrey 3 роки тому +245

    Damn. I am 43 years old and learning from Kevin. Kevin, you are full of wisdom. Love this session.

    • @kissmlungu7883
      @kissmlungu7883 3 роки тому +6

      What are you learning ?

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 3 роки тому +19

      @@kissmlungu7883 she learned it's too late for her.

    • @shayonsmith
      @shayonsmith 3 роки тому +1

      @@cipryan96 wheyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy yuh dread

  • @stevenedwards891
    @stevenedwards891 3 роки тому +249

    The Delusion is real folks. Man his patience during these conversations are amazing. I would’ve just hung up.

    • @AntonioMartin-gx2fx
      @AntonioMartin-gx2fx 3 роки тому +18

      Real talk bro she just should've said I like thugs

    • @stevenedwards891
      @stevenedwards891 3 роки тому +5

      @@AntonioMartin-gx2fx Facts Bro 😂😂

    • @sanir5133
      @sanir5133 3 роки тому +4

      On soul 😂😂

    • @icsharpk
      @icsharpk 3 роки тому +2

      True 🤣🤣🤣

    • @stevenedwards891
      @stevenedwards891 3 роки тому +2

      @The Esquire of Sports® aye man he’s doing some great work Bc I know I couldn’t do this!!

  • @michaelnorman9962
    @michaelnorman9962 2 роки тому +16

    My wife and I have been together for 36 years, married for 34. We dated and got married within 18 months and I treasure her each and every day, especially after watching these videos and other videos of the MGTOW type. My son and daughter will have it tougher and they are 24 and 22.

  • @jaimehall8537
    @jaimehall8537 3 роки тому +49

    I’m so happy he was able to connect all of the ideas in one fluid statement!! From our poor decisions to us failing our kids. AND IT IS A SERIOUS MATTER FROM BEGINNING TO END!

    • @waynebruce2606
      @waynebruce2606 3 роки тому

      You get a 🌹. 👏🏿YOU GET IT. Rome fell because of fefails.

  • @MrJoseph1856
    @MrJoseph1856 3 роки тому +541

    KS: Independent meaning what
    Caller: I pay my own bills
    KS: Congratulations you're an adult
    😭😭😭

    • @coolslimm5105
      @coolslimm5105 3 роки тому +1

      lls

    • @chriscarter8228
      @chriscarter8228 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @samg2590
      @samg2590 3 роки тому +3

      Smh like that's gold metal deserving 🤣

    • @goatinaroun1944
      @goatinaroun1944 3 роки тому +4

      Yes bruh like that shit is what you’re supposed to do😂

    • @hardy2k11
      @hardy2k11 3 роки тому +1

      I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @narcanmedic3841
    @narcanmedic3841 2 роки тому +251

    Dated my wife for 11 days before I proposed. We we're 18. It's built into a man's lizard brain to be attracted to wife material. Been happily married for 15 years and this man is correct

    • @kuja5809
      @kuja5809 Рік тому

      Modern women ability to pair bond is permanently damaged they can't bond due to high body count

    • @NubianQueen100
      @NubianQueen100 Рік тому +1

      Dont even know who are as an adult, but married??..ok

    • @damian7509
      @damian7509 Рік тому +10

      Lmao marrying sombody after 11 days is insane

    • @humblybrash7642
      @humblybrash7642 Рік тому +4

      ​​@@NubianQueen100 says 'Nubian QUEEN"😂 U really can't make this ish up

    • @bethanyangelheart
      @bethanyangelheart Рік тому

      @@damian7509right like im all for marriage after a couple months but days 😭

  • @HopeLoveHealing
    @HopeLoveHealing 2 роки тому +14

    I hate he’s gone he is giving and speaking Life to me and it’s a harsh reality and it needs to be said and the truth is the truth and I have been dating dumb and never been married and tired of dating dumb!! I sit in my truth I picked the wrong men!! Thank You Kevin and Rest in Power

  • @doclew28
    @doclew28 3 роки тому +102

    OMFG he is on point with their NEED to be right!!! It's OK to learn something and just let it marinate... There doesn't always have to be a "yeah but..." 😬🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @geovanajalio4200
      @geovanajalio4200 3 роки тому +3

      I'm a woman and I'm always right.

    • @doclew28
      @doclew28 3 роки тому +1

      It's MADDENING 😡😡😭😭

    • @candycynt
      @candycynt 3 роки тому

      You mean. Don't consider the source, just run with what ever he says. Fool thoughts.

  • @ryanbaker7404
    @ryanbaker7404 3 роки тому +228

    "You gotta have the tingle..." Wow. Just, wow. Is the tingle going to pay the bills, repair the roof, and hold your hand when your puking your guts out from chemotherapy, etc.?

    • @Likexner
      @Likexner 3 роки тому +21

      I actually get this. Look at it from the other side - would you want to be married to a woman who isnt attracted to you? I wouldnt.

    • @rantersparadise
      @rantersparadise 3 роки тому +8

      @@Likexner tingle is 'spark' not attraction. 'spark' is haaaard to find. Their are lots of attractive ppl out there

    • @georgeokello8620
      @georgeokello8620 3 роки тому +17

      @@Likexner dude that’s why in history there are concubines and the same concept is today. Women who default to attraction as just their highest value look arousing but they are don’t improve the survival of your offspring. Besides no matter how attractive or hot she looks she always annoys somebody else. Tingles are temporary not permanent

    • @johnniebanks4832
      @johnniebanks4832 3 роки тому +4

      She makes 6 figures remember?

    • @willanbel
      @willanbel 3 роки тому +4

      @JohnnyKush why even get sexually and intimately involved with someone who you’re not into?

  • @SavingSheilaPodcast
    @SavingSheilaPodcast 3 роки тому +153

    I got engaged within 7 months (wedding in February). It doesn’t take long when you figure out what you should be looking for.

    • @AB-vb4sv
      @AB-vb4sv 3 роки тому +7

      Congratulations. I’m sure your values had to change and you’re now married. Funny how that works lol.

    • @tomiwafaith
      @tomiwafaith 3 роки тому +4

      Period!! Congratulations hun ♥️

    • @kennethwillis5503
      @kennethwillis5503 3 роки тому +2

      Congratulations

    • @SavingSheilaPodcast
      @SavingSheilaPodcast 3 роки тому

      @@kennethwillis5503 thanks

    • @SavingSheilaPodcast
      @SavingSheilaPodcast 3 роки тому +2

      @@AB-vb4sv yes, what I valued changed as well as self assessment of what that person would want.

  • @servantofyah1377
    @servantofyah1377 Рік тому +3

    I met my wife for the first time and 11 days later we got married. We are 7 years strong.

  • @ajazzydoll9867
    @ajazzydoll9867 3 роки тому +115

    He is on point with the most valuable asset being time & womb. That resonates.

  • @YasapYaakov018
    @YasapYaakov018 3 роки тому +88

    This was a learning experience for me. I remember i was deeply in love with someone but she said I was moving too fast. It eventually spiraled into a ball of madness. Now it's completely over.

    • @GadeaOne
      @GadeaOne 3 роки тому +9

      Just broke things off w/ someone after a year i feel you

    • @daibm5392
      @daibm5392 3 роки тому

      She doesn't deserve you bruh

  • @rayhend100
    @rayhend100 3 роки тому +372

    In some ways it’s satisfying to see him go through these undulating, circular conversations with women. Most men, myself included, thought for years it was just us. It’s so clear, viewing so many of these videos, that it’s definitely a woman thing.
    They refuse to cede to any logic. If you have a valid point, they change the subject. They will NEVER admit they’re wrong. The list goes on.
    Men need to see more and more of this. It’s incredible to watch, from the outside.

    • @lisafinger7092
      @lisafinger7092 3 роки тому +30

      Women have not been raised to be wives.

    • @Elcapitaan5
      @Elcapitaan5 3 роки тому +13

      We all havr ptsd from that 🤕

    • @sarahduvall1479
      @sarahduvall1479 3 роки тому

      @@Elcapitaan5 😆

    • @evos469
      @evos469 3 роки тому +18

      @Marian Hanson Confidence Coach because women in 1st world countries fits in the paradigm of women we don't find attractive in some fashion.

    • @rayhend100
      @rayhend100 3 роки тому +20

      Hilarious. American modern women have been hoodwinked by our liberal/feminist ideals that they need not equally contribute or cooperate in relationships. They been fed an unrealistic ideal that relationships are all about them.
      Women think that they have little to no responsibility to their men. No high value, self respecting man will go for that for long. These men know their value in a relationship. So the idea that they should just provide and get nothing in return is foreign to them.
      That’s why so few black women end up in good relationships long term. The high value men they desire, by virtue of that very value, won’t put up with the BS modern women try to bring.
      Like Kevin is fond of saying, illegal alien dudes lining up in the Home Depot parking lot at 5 am get better than that.

  • @waynecallwood3740
    @waynecallwood3740 2 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @DontHurtMeNoMo
    @DontHurtMeNoMo 3 роки тому +266

    Kevin is such a G. This is exactly the lesson that most black women need to hear.

    • @kyleetienne6799
      @kyleetienne6799 3 роки тому +3

      @John Doe *hear

    • @poetryrhymez9620
      @poetryrhymez9620 3 роки тому +4

      This the internet stop correcting people... 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @DontHurtMeNoMo
      @DontHurtMeNoMo 3 роки тому

      @@poetryrhymez9620 it's okay, some folks just can't help it. I guess it makes them feel better.

    • @chaoticorder5116
      @chaoticorder5116 3 роки тому +4

      @@DontHurtMeNoMo don't you want to be better than you are today mate ? Why does simply accepting that you wrote it incorrectly challenge your existence if somebody points it out when it shouldn't.

    • @DontHurtMeNoMo
      @DontHurtMeNoMo 3 роки тому

      @@chaoticorder5116 I don't quite understand what you're saying

  • @michaelemison7900
    @michaelemison7900 3 роки тому +50

    My man spitting straight facts. I got married to my wife 22 years ago right after highschool. We have two grown daughters today who are very good homemakers and know how to be part of a team. My wife supported me all through my military career until my retirement in 2012. We struggled when we were young, but neither of us gave up!

  • @hiddentruthchannel3121
    @hiddentruthchannel3121 3 роки тому +108

    I love how Kevin keeps proving time and time again the difference between how women feel they are portraying themselves against how they actually are being experienced from a males perspective

  • @willp3561
    @willp3561 2 роки тому +28

    She just refused to be honest, sadly this is too common in our community.

  • @zamukwandamohale3878
    @zamukwandamohale3878 3 роки тому +23

    The Church I go to in South Africa has been teaching this since 1920s, part of the reason I love your KS👌🏾

  • @nickgrant8976
    @nickgrant8976 3 роки тому +48

    I’ve noticed when the questions get tough or they start to get pissy, most of these women start walking around or can’t sit still. Almost like their reaction is to try and get away when they realize “winning” isn’t happening.

  • @SweetJoye
    @SweetJoye 3 роки тому +94

    If I was her, I would have been crying at this point. She said her current man doesn't respect her in some areas and she started laughing? I don't even know what to say.

    • @Ruckerpark98
      @Ruckerpark98 3 роки тому +21

      She has accepted defeat and is ready to die as someone’s play thing/side piece. I know plenty of women like this🤷🏾

    • @PricelessBinkey1337
      @PricelessBinkey1337 3 роки тому

      Women like her do not respect men. And brain wash other clueless women weak in their feminity.

    • @justdan98
      @justdan98 3 роки тому +1

      @@Ruckerpark98 naw she ain't accepted defeat she's one of those women who put the "D" above all else..simple. these types of women pass up men who would provide a "traditional" life for them for men with good "D"..lol..and it NEVER works because that man knows his "D" is in high demand so he gives it to other women like her.

    • @V9Grows420
      @V9Grows420 3 роки тому

      I swear to God I was thinking the same thing. She is Dumb. Especially given the fact that she openly said that shit in front of thousands.

    • @Ruckerpark98
      @Ruckerpark98 3 роки тому

      @@V9Grows420 damn saying it fun of people. She actually doing dumb shit😂

  • @ralukral9651
    @ralukral9651 2 роки тому +22

    I married my husband after 4 months since the moment we've met (I mean the actual wedding). I was 28, he was 35. We went on a date, and at the end of it, while we were in the car, he said "Look, I came to see you, but I also wanted to talk to you. I've been thinking and...we both know that we're not teenagers anymore and don't want to waste time on drinking juice. I believe that each of us had their experiences and each of us is old enough to know what to look for. So, if that's ok to you...I think we should give eachother, 6 months and after that time, to take a decision in one way or another. What do you say? "
    We decided to get married the next week after that talk. We had only 5 or 6 dates.
    Next month, we will be celebrating 7 years of marriage. We have a little boy and we are happier than ever.
    It's going great for us.

    • @pianosonata5029
      @pianosonata5029 2 роки тому +1

      Wow.
      May I ask, where are you guys from?

    • @ralukral9651
      @ralukral9651 2 роки тому

      @@pianosonata5029 Romania. And we met on Tinder

  • @AJ-ox8xy
    @AJ-ox8xy 3 роки тому +49

    That's exactly what happened with my parents. They met, 3 months later my dad proposed, 7 months later they were married. They've been together for 25 years now.

  • @BrittanyH87
    @BrittanyH87 3 роки тому +418

    Kevin: “What are you protecting?”
    Her: “My assets.”
    Kevin: “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣”
    I have to stop watching KS while at work🤣😂

    • @cityboychad
      @cityboychad 3 роки тому +20

      😅 If she knew divorce law, only what is acquired during the marriage is split. Her "assets" before that are 100% safe.

    • @mickdog7
      @mickdog7 3 роки тому +13

      Me too, he got me on that one and the who filed for divorce exchange, he's killing me at work

    • @jatmo6991
      @jatmo6991 3 роки тому +11

      Seriously. This shit will get you fired at work. You don't want your headphones to be too loud for a second.

    • @jakakwemba
      @jakakwemba 3 роки тому +1

      😅me too

    • @rolgriff
      @rolgriff 3 роки тому +2

      this is why im so glad i work at home because this stuff is gold LOL

  • @1Austereone
    @1Austereone 3 роки тому +226

    This woman proves emotion overrides logic with them every time

    • @rasskass1977
      @rasskass1977 3 роки тому +1

      That ish is mind blowing especially because it's always..now the reverse is powerful

    • @ghariiscool
      @ghariiscool 3 роки тому

      What a shock

    • @mjbset93
      @mjbset93 3 роки тому +3

      I am such disbelief that a 39 year old woman is talking this way. So lost so afraid but thinking she is correct. Divorced her husband she should know exactly what she wants in a man by now. Four years of dating GTFOH.

  • @jbb8261
    @jbb8261 3 місяці тому +2

    I miss Kevin so much!!! I love binge watching his videos while I clean the house and make food for my husband

  • @Marktheproducer
    @Marktheproducer 3 роки тому +510

    Sadly enough, KS cares more than his detractors would like to admit. KS doesn’t need much validation, however, you are telling facts and truths.

    • @michaelgraham6959
      @michaelgraham6959 3 роки тому +26

      Yeah, but black people interpret each other words and actions negatively

    • @Marktheproducer
      @Marktheproducer 3 роки тому +2

      @@michaelgraham6959 big facts

    • @Parktrizzle
      @Parktrizzle 3 роки тому +23

      Exactly! This man ain't just in it for clout. Not even money. He's trying to tell folks something.

    • @yawpapa12
      @yawpapa12 3 роки тому +12

      The detractors are the 1s who need to hear his messages most

    • @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet
      @adustygreasyandsweatybonnet 3 роки тому +3

      @@Parktrizzle I agree

  • @Screech032
    @Screech032 3 роки тому +307

    ATTENTION WOMEN:
    Remember this is a show with topics...
    1) BEFORE rushing a man into marriage first make sure you're a WIFE
    2) Before ASSUMING you're a wife, make sure you first KNOW what a man wants.
    3) Before claiming you know what a man wants, dig down deep and try to CARE about what a man wants. Knowing isn't enough.
    4) The only way to truly care about what a man wants is to learn to be SUBMISSIVE.
    5) If you are NOT willing to submit, you are not an option... period.
    6) You are NOT in a competition with men, your competition is OTHER women.
    7) Stop calling submissive women "Pick Me" type women and realize they are probably smarter than most women as far as their ROLE with a man is concerned... learn from them.

  • @poohrl
    @poohrl 3 роки тому +379

    “Women these days want traditional men, while being a modern woman”

    • @MeidoInHebun
      @MeidoInHebun 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly, modern men are not appealing to most women, in the same way modern women are not appealing to most men, nothing wrong with being either, but be realistic about you demand vs. what you offer.

    • @ronaldboykin9755
      @ronaldboykin9755 2 роки тому

      Modern women are women who are independent women, independent women are women who are under the illusion that they don’t NEED a man! These women are the MOST single women on the planet! NO HUSBANDS!!

    • @funkbros3141
      @funkbros3141 2 роки тому +1

      @@MeidoInHebun men havent changed...

    • @MeidoInHebun
      @MeidoInHebun 2 роки тому +4

      @@funkbros3141 Testosterone levels in men have been steadily decreasing throughout the years, we live in a society of simps.

    • @funkbros3141
      @funkbros3141 2 роки тому +1

      @@MeidoInHebun but we achieve the same function and pay all bills.....mens role never changed womens did...

  • @Rome__king
    @Rome__king 2 роки тому +2

    I am so thankful for the short time KS was here with us.

  • @eddieble024
    @eddieble024 3 роки тому +219

    KS new mixed tape is fire.
    Track 1 "Who filed for divorce?"
    Track 2 "Who filed for divorce?"
    Track 3 "Who filed for divorce?"
    Track 4 "Who filed for divorce?"
    Track 5 "Who filed for divorce?"

  • @Skywalker721
    @Skywalker721 3 роки тому +195

    I need a shirt that says “Who filed for divorce?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mimi11011
      @mimi11011 3 роки тому +5

      😭😭😭😭😭

    • @neomotsamai9290
      @neomotsamai9290 3 роки тому +8

      That Shirt Would Be Fire😂

    • @Timoteo4
      @Timoteo4 3 роки тому +7

      If Kevin ever decides to do merch, that's got to be the first tee he prints up!

    • @rosecapitalgroupinc
      @rosecapitalgroupinc 3 роки тому +10

      Or "I can't make this shit up people"

    • @sitymanpt
      @sitymanpt 3 роки тому +7

      Here’s another one, “let me ask it this way.”

  • @tdrive398
    @tdrive398 3 роки тому +150

    "You move in with your husband."
    KS speaks the hard Truth.

  • @aranmcclary5836
    @aranmcclary5836 9 місяців тому +5

    My wife and I met in February and got engaged in March and married August. We will celebrate 40 years of marriage this year.

  • @nitaj2958
    @nitaj2958 3 роки тому +192

    For those whom are serious about having a “Family” & “Children” dating is a …..JOKE! Thank you Mr. Samuels for attempting to wake people up. Blessings! Nita J. 👑🙏🏼❤️🥰✌🏽

    • @remywinans1575
      @remywinans1575 3 роки тому

      Do you date? What are your views on building a marriage if I may ask ms nita j??

    • @RtistiqSkubie
      @RtistiqSkubie 3 роки тому +2

      @@remywinans1575 dating is for dummies. You're just wasting time.

    • @javiermontes905
      @javiermontes905 3 роки тому

      Women change the game. Not men.

    • @vash2929
      @vash2929 3 роки тому +2

      Lie i dated my wife 3 years before i askd her. To marry me. And ive been married 10 happy years now just 🎉 our 10 year anniversary a month ago

    • @javiermontes905
      @javiermontes905 3 роки тому +1

      @@vash2929 get on Kevin Samuel show n tell him

  • @NileValleysFinest
    @NileValleysFinest 3 роки тому +375

    Women: "I've been proposed to multiple times!"
    Newsflash: Men hittin' you up in your DM's/leaving a comment asking you to marry them is NOT a proposal!

    • @sonsofjacob12
      @sonsofjacob12 3 роки тому +20

      🤣🎯🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @SeeItLikeItSub2It
      @SeeItLikeItSub2It 3 роки тому +53

      Akmed said he would marry her, all he needs is her SSN and bank account #. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bigstacks1463
      @bigstacks1463 3 роки тому +9

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @thejourneyofraymond5752
      @thejourneyofraymond5752 3 роки тому +21

      She loves the man she's with currently, yet she said he doesn't respect her!!! Still want to marry him, because of the tingles! LOL, these women are bat shit crazy

    • @kujokannibal7081
      @kujokannibal7081 3 роки тому +11

      @@thejourneyofraymond5752 you can’t make this shit up lol

  • @radioflyer985
    @radioflyer985 3 роки тому +213

    17:53... 39 y/o woman has been in a relationship for 3 years and hasn't gotten a marriage proposal... Hint: Baby girl, that man ain't trying to marry you! He's running your maternal clock down to absolute zero before he dips and finds a younger model.

    • @Jusskenya.
      @Jusskenya. 3 роки тому +8

      She said 4 years ! Pay attention

    • @anthonyt425
      @anthonyt425 3 роки тому +4

      She’s wasting her time, really sad.

    • @radioflyer985
      @radioflyer985 3 роки тому +18

      @@Jusskenya. It sounds like she says "3", though on second look it appears she mouthed the word "4". I guess that explains why KS said 4 as well. Either way, it doesn't help her case and the point is still valid.

    • @panafricanismstrikesback
      @panafricanismstrikesback 3 роки тому +1

      Nah if the biological clock times out. She will never leave him.

    • @jamnorge
      @jamnorge 3 роки тому +3

      I was like "shiiiiiit" when i read this. Truth, and more truth.

  • @OumuAasiyah
    @OumuAasiyah 2 роки тому +102

    As an arab, my coworkers asked me how did i married my husband, i told them we talked for 3 days and we liked one another there was attraction and we had lot of things in common and he asked me if i would agree to marry him on the 3rd day, i said yes but he had to talk to my parents, they liked him and he came from America to morocco to marry me , he came 3 times before our marriage and my coworkers said “ i wouldn’t marry someone if i didn’t sleep with him” but i said how manny of you were living with your boyfriend for years and then u guys broke up , single moms by yourself struggling!! Who benefited from those years?! Of course the men because i don’t have time to waste, if the men is doing everything to marry me he ll go every thing to get me and he ll do good by me because i respect him and im submissive and willing to let him lead and learn together and not bash him if he make the wrong mistake but let him learn he know i ll be there by his side, and i know he is doing his best
    Islam is a beautiful Religion, we have some strong rules when it comes to marriage, you don’t have to be muslim just benefit from it

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 2 роки тому +11

      alhamdulillah for islam

    • @User77587
      @User77587 2 роки тому +9

      Alhamdullilah. May Allah swt put continued barakah in your marriage.

    • @OumuAasiyah
      @OumuAasiyah 2 роки тому +3

      @@User77587 allahuma ameeen 🌺jazakum Llahu khayran

    • @harminderkambow9642
      @harminderkambow9642 2 роки тому +1

      This isn't an Islam thing only though. This (arranged marriages) happens in south asian countries of all religions...

    • @plusdecorinteriorsdesign5755
      @plusdecorinteriorsdesign5755 2 роки тому +3

      Alhamdullilah
      Would you mind if he wanted to get a second wife?