Howdy! I showed my wife your videos and we were discussing what u had talked about one time regarding the question of do you tell the person you're going on a date with right away that you're trans or do you wait until things are going good and then tell them. My wife is a straight gal which ive told u about before..and she says that when the right person comes along, they will love you for everything you are and they won't judge you for what's in your pants. She fell in love with me regardless of what genitals I have. You're a good person Colton and you'll find true love one of these days !!!!!
Thanks for your comment! It gives me hope. I’m a gay transman and was dumped by a guy I dated after I told him I was trans. It was really heartbreaking at first but I know there’s hope in the future. Thanks for making my day.
I have a few binders I could give away but they've definitely been used. They're lifesavers for sure. I wore them for 3 years before getting top surgery. They made me feel more like a man.
@@sumanrishi1714 I am 5'3" I was around 155lbs to 165lbs when I wore the binders. They're for medium size chesticles. I had probably a 34 or 36 B or so. I dont know for sure because I never wore a regular bra, I only wore sports ones while I was female. The binders held them down pretty well. I even had to sew them when they got stretched out. That's how long I had them for. They get stretched out the more you wear them. But its easy to hand sew them.
@@kikimatthews4571 I'm waiting to hear back from that other person. They have not contacted me yet. I still have to buy some special soap that removed all oils from clothing. I need to probably bleach them too.
I'm so sad that I'm late for the giveaway :( Because of my household and financial situation, I've never been able to get a binder or transtape or anything of the sort and I feel a lot of dysphoria over it because I'm a D-cup at only fifteen.
I’ve got mad appreciation for what you do, man. Keepin’ it positive can be tough for me at times, but watching your vids helps keep my (hopefully soon to be bearded) chin up 🙏🏼 a binder would be extremely alleviating, but funds are tight right now with covid and some of the more popular, cheaper spots to get them have been difficult to contact. I appreciate even your consideration 🙏🏼😁 keep doin’ you
I feel honored i can help keep positive vibes for you over there my dude 🤘Thanks man. Keep your chin up for sure! That beard will come in soon enough haha
#5 is something I struggle with a lot. I’m still pre transition and haven’t even started yet but patience is so important. This was some great info and a binder would help me a lot with being confident to go outside and alleviate my dysphoria, especially since my chest is pretty big (unfortunately for me). I liked, subscribed, and did the rest of the steps. Thank you for this!
Honestly I never had the issue with underwear. I use underwear expert and it’s just worked. They are lgbtq trans friendly. I actually found out about them on another trans man’s UA-camr’s video.
I’ve been out as trans to my family since I was twelve, and at eighteen, after working through years and years of internalized transphobia, I’m finally ready to live as the man I’ve always been. Your channel has been 1000% instrumental in giving me confidence in this decision, after all these years, and getting my first binder feels like a step forwards, after so many years of going backwards. Love you, man!!!!!! You’re awesome!!!!! Also I do not have Instagram, as family is very very strict about such things!!!!
First of all, I wanna give a huge thanks to you for creating a channel that is about GENUINE trans men tips. You’re down to earth and realistic about educating your viewers. Second of all, I would love to take part in your binder giveaway! I’m stuck financially as I got laid off with COVID-19 going on and just paid money to my college for this upcoming semester. Any little bit would help, even if I could buy one fairly cheap from someone in the comments!
Hello! I'm nonbinary and really want the more androgynous look, sadly I dont have the money for it right now because of COVID and all that. It would also probably make my entire year, I dont have Instagram, I dont care about celebrity's food or whatever is on there lol EDIT: alright now I've been feeling super angry at myself and the want feels like a NEED now
Stps give me a lot of dysphoria. When I’m at a bar that has a dicey bathroom I use the pstyle- it’s not realistic, but I’ve never pissed on myself with it. I kind of hold onto the funnel so other people can’t see, it feels like the best I can do without using a cray enormous stp packer that leaks.
I'd want a binder to help me feel like the real me. Help me feel more confident in the mirror and in public, and to help get positivity in my body. I used to have a binder from amazon when I was 17 (2017), but when I had to leave, it got tossed by a family member. I don't have an Instagram at the moment, Im anxious about that lmao And man, I honestly love and appreciate your videos, and the time you take with them. They help a lot of us out. I hope y'all have a good Christmas!
I just can across you page and I like your content. I accidentally commented on your instagram so you can take that down. But I have lost a weight due to my eating disorder, I would really just like to wear binder that just fits me .
Hey Colton, it’s been a minute but thanks for the great advice in this video! Sadly I don’t have Instagram so everyone who is in need of this binder good luck and put it to good use. Later and have a good day/night🤙🏻(when ever you are reading this)
I can't buy binders within my budget from where I live. And it gets difficult to cover the shipping cost AND the cost of the binder. In fact, impossible. And I do have to pay for it myself because #TransphobicParents . And having a binder would really up my confidence, mentally as well as physically, I'LL STOP SLOUCHING HELL YES. And like you said, it's one of the things trans guys need, not need buy you know :) . My Instagram is @leobrokelegs.
Duuuuude i really reaaaaallyyyy need a binder i cant find any in africa im from tanzania its in africa and its a very non understanding place about the lgbtq so i have to live a stealth life and its hard to fo that due to the size of my chest and i dont do bras so i just leave em hanging please help me i really need a binder it will make me the happiest man in the world and i dont have an Instagram
so i need a binder because my chest gives me really bad dysphoria and a binder would help flatten out my chest. I also cant afford one because binders are pretty expensive and my mom wont buy me one because she doesn't like me being trans and doesn't think its real. I also don't have instagram
I really need a binder coz I wanna look flat and my parents think there expensive so they don't want to buy the good stuff I am subscribed I liked and I am gonna follow you on Instagram
I would love to win this binder for my best friend who just came out. And he has his first appointment to discuss testosterone tomorrow 🥳❤️. The difference in his confidence by simply coming out is night and day! And so far a beautiful thing to witness. Liked and subscribed and my insta is ogres_rlike_onionz. 👐🏼
Well, I need a binder because I'm in a current situation where I can't afford mainly because I'm a teenager and I don't have an income, and also because I live in a third world country
Howdy! I showed my wife your videos and we were discussing what u had talked about one time regarding the question of do you tell the person you're going on a date with right away that you're trans or do you wait until things are going good and then tell them. My wife is a straight gal which ive told u about before..and she says that when the right person comes along, they will love you for everything you are and they won't judge you for what's in your pants. She fell in love with me regardless of what genitals I have. You're a good person Colton and you'll find true love one of these days !!!!!
Thats nice of you to say my man, I appreciate the continued support! You guys are awesome
Thanks for your comment! It gives me hope. I’m a gay transman and was dumped by a guy I dated after I told him I was trans. It was really heartbreaking at first but I know there’s hope in the future. Thanks for making my day.
I have a few binders I could give away but they've definitely been used. They're lifesavers for sure. I wore them for 3 years before getting top surgery. They made me feel more like a man.
I really am in the need of one, just in case you're willing to donate, I'll be incredibly grateful. I can pay for the shipping!
@@sumanrishi1714 I am 5'3" I was around 155lbs to 165lbs when I wore the binders. They're for medium size chesticles. I had probably a 34 or 36 B or so. I dont know for sure because I never wore a regular bra, I only wore sports ones while I was female. The binders held them down pretty well. I even had to sew them when they got stretched out. That's how long I had them for. They get stretched out the more you wear them. But its easy to hand sew them.
Can I pls have one
@@kikimatthews4571 I'm waiting to hear back from that other person. They have not contacted me yet. I still have to buy some special soap that removed all oils from clothing. I need to probably bleach them too.
I'm so sad that I'm late for the giveaway :(
Because of my household and financial situation, I've never been able to get a binder or transtape or anything of the sort and I feel a lot of dysphoria over it because I'm a D-cup at only fifteen.
I’ve got mad appreciation for what you do, man. Keepin’ it positive can be tough for me at times, but watching your vids helps keep my (hopefully soon to be bearded) chin up 🙏🏼 a binder would be extremely alleviating, but funds are tight right now with covid and some of the more popular, cheaper spots to get them have been difficult to contact. I appreciate even your consideration 🙏🏼😁 keep doin’ you
I feel honored i can help keep positive vibes for you over there my dude 🤘Thanks man. Keep your chin up for sure! That beard will come in soon enough haha
Omfg just watched your 2 week video, whoa!!!! Your beard gives me hope!!
🤘🧔♂️✌️
#5 is something I struggle with a lot. I’m still pre transition and haven’t even started yet but patience is so important. This was some great info and a binder would help me a lot with being confident to go outside and alleviate my dysphoria, especially since my chest is pretty big (unfortunately for me). I liked, subscribed, and did the rest of the steps. Thank you for this!
Need a good binder as i am not able to get a good one till now in India
Honestly I never had the issue with underwear. I use underwear expert and it’s just worked. They are lgbtq trans friendly. I actually found out about them on another trans man’s UA-camr’s video.
I’ve been out as trans to my family since I was twelve, and at eighteen, after working through years and years of internalized transphobia, I’m finally ready to live as the man I’ve always been. Your channel has been 1000% instrumental in giving me confidence in this decision, after all these years, and getting my first binder feels like a step forwards, after so many years of going backwards. Love you, man!!!!!! You’re awesome!!!!!
Also I do not have Instagram, as family is very very strict about such things!!!!
First of all, I wanna give a huge thanks to you for creating a channel that is about GENUINE trans men tips. You’re down to earth and realistic about educating your viewers.
Second of all, I would love to take part in your binder giveaway! I’m stuck financially as I got laid off with COVID-19 going on and just paid money to my college for this upcoming semester. Any little bit would help, even if I could buy one fairly cheap from someone in the comments!
I appreciate the love my friend 🤘😎 🤘
@@ColtonRyals Also followed you on my Instagram, I’m under a different user name though.
Hello! I'm nonbinary and really want the more androgynous look, sadly I dont have the money for it right now because of COVID and all that. It would also probably make my entire year, I dont have Instagram, I dont care about celebrity's food or whatever is on there lol
EDIT: alright now I've been feeling super angry at myself and the want feels like a NEED now
Great video 😊
Stps give me a lot of dysphoria. When I’m at a bar that has a dicey bathroom I use the pstyle- it’s not realistic, but I’ve never pissed on myself with it. I kind of hold onto the funnel so other people can’t see, it feels like the best I can do without using a cray enormous stp packer that leaks.
I'd want a binder to help me feel like the real me. Help me feel more confident in the mirror and in public, and to help get positivity in my body. I used to have a binder from amazon when I was 17 (2017), but when I had to leave, it got tossed by a family member.
I don't have an Instagram at the moment, Im anxious about that lmao
And man, I honestly love and appreciate your videos, and the time you take with them. They help a lot of us out. I hope y'all have a good Christmas!
Im glad you’re digging my vids 😎 Thank you my friend 🙌 have a good xmas too!!
I just can across you page and I like your content. I accidentally commented on your instagram so you can take that down. But I have lost a weight due to my eating disorder, I would really just like to wear binder that just fits me .
Hey Colton, it’s been a minute but thanks for the great advice in this video! Sadly I don’t have Instagram so everyone who is in need of this binder good luck and put it to good use. Later and have a good day/night🤙🏻(when ever you are reading this)
If you dont have an insta and you need it i’ll still throw ya in the mix no worries 🤘
@@ColtonRyals no it’s fine I don’t need there are people who need it more then me thanks for being so considerate
I can't buy binders within my budget from where I live. And it gets difficult to cover the shipping cost AND the cost of the binder. In fact, impossible. And I do have to pay for it myself because #TransphobicParents . And having a binder would really up my confidence, mentally as well as physically, I'LL STOP SLOUCHING HELL YES. And like you said, it's one of the things trans guys need, not need buy you know :) . My Instagram is @leobrokelegs.
Hey Cole I love your vids! You should talk about Phallo in a vid :)
I havent had phallo so that might be a tough one for me. Lol but i can give my thoughts on it 🤘
Duuuuude i really reaaaaallyyyy need a binder i cant find any in africa im from tanzania its in africa and its a very non understanding place about the lgbtq so i have to live a stealth life and its hard to fo that due to the size of my chest and i dont do bras so i just leave em hanging please help me i really need a binder it will make me the happiest man in the world and i dont have an Instagram
so i need a binder because my chest gives me really bad dysphoria and a binder would help flatten out my chest. I also cant afford one because binders are pretty expensive and my mom wont buy me one because she doesn't like me being trans and doesn't think its real. I also don't have instagram
I really need a binder coz I wanna look flat and my parents think there expensive so they don't want to buy the good stuff
I am subscribed I liked and I am gonna follow you on Instagram
I now follow you on Instagram
And I would wanna buy it myself but sadly enough I live in the Netherlands so costs to send it are already 20 euros
Yeah i can only ship in U.S....I appreciate the love tho 🙌 ❤️
I would love to win this binder for my best friend who just came out. And he has his first appointment to discuss testosterone tomorrow 🥳❤️. The difference in his confidence by simply coming out is night and day! And so far a beautiful thing to witness.
Liked and subscribed and my insta is ogres_rlike_onionz. 👐🏼
Love this! You’re an awesome friend. Thanks for the support 👏👏👏
Well, I need a binder because I'm in a current situation where I can't afford mainly because I'm a teenager and I don't have an income, and also because I live in a third world country
I can only ship in U.S unfortunately.... 😢
But I appreciate the support 🤘
@@ColtonRyals Well i guess i could talk with someone who could help me with sending it to my country
Welp, i'm not from the US
For the damn confidence
Oh and I’m @_laouu
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