Never take an ex back. Shes a ex for a reason. There's a saying if you cant be with me at my worst then you dont deserve me at my best. But this giuy is right that you should work on yourself but to get a BETTER woman.
The last word is the right word , never take your ex back if she dumped u , cause u simply change the dynamic of the relationship. U show like u are not a man and she will leave u again .
I agree, once you've lost that power after being dumped, you need to just walk away. She has to come crawling back apologising in order to win you back over.
good info...thing is i am at 10% bodyfat, play piano and do art etc and still got dumped...where do i go from here? its still brutal out there but i got some gameplans up my sleeve.
Those things are great, but how are you coming across on dates. Are you a leader or a Grateful Gus. Are you getting into text conversations? Always initiating contact? Is she excited to be with you?
Hello Ralph, thank you for the video. I'd like to ask. It's been two years since I broke up with my ex - I've moved on long ago. Since then, I've been in a relationship, and so has she. I've met plenty of amazing women, but unfortunately, none of them were quite like her. I know she occasionally follows me on social media, and we both keep our distance. Our breakup was amicable (no cheating, no betrayal). But now, I'm on a journey to self-improvement - for at least the next year (without"party" women, fun, alcohol), focusing solely on success. I'm not fixated on her at all, and the outcome doesn't bother me. Perhaps in the meantime, I'll meet someone better - but so far, that hasn't happened. My question to you, Ralph, is: "If I were to contact her in a year - what qualities should I focus on, whether it's a good idea to try, and whether it's possible to be with someone after several years when we've both had other partners, but we harbor no resentment or anger towards each other?" Thank you and have a wonderful day, Ralph.
You can definitely re engage in conversation, you'd be starting from scratch and dating again, you'll have to attract all over again which is fine. If you still want her, reach out with a casual message like "Hey just got reminded of you because of BLAH BLAH BLAH, thought of you! How are things going?" Keep it casual and put the feelers out there, see how she responds. No reason not to try again since the break up was mutual.
what would you do if a friend with benefits accused you of being obsessed with her or having a crush on her due to having way higher libido than her, making her pull back in both the friends and the benefits to the point you question if you two are even friends anymore?
If she pulls back then let it go. You could've made a joke like "Baby I'm just horny and I'm super fit at the moment, no one is going to f*** you like this 😉". Keep it lighthearted and cocky. Anyway sounds like she's gone now...
@@realralphanthony yes i said that, that im just too horny and probably a nymphoman and that she was making no sense at all, but i dont think it worked
I read somewhere that women take longer to fall in love and take less time to fall out of it, men take less time to fall in love and more time to get over it
Because they mentally checked out months ago and was considering a new partner. They fall out of the relationship weeks, or months before they tell you. The guy doesn't see the signs and it hits him like a wall.
The fact that you broke up is proof enough that she wasn't the "right one". Take the lessons and apply them with a new girl
Correct thank you.
Never take an ex back. Shes a ex for a reason. There's a saying if you cant be with me at my worst then you dont deserve me at my best. But this giuy is right that you should work on yourself but to get a BETTER woman.
You got the idea 🙂
The last word is the right word , never take your ex back if she dumped u , cause u simply change the dynamic of the relationship.
U show like u are not a man and she will leave u again .
I agree, once you've lost that power after being dumped, you need to just walk away. She has to come crawling back apologising in order to win you back over.
good info...thing is i am at 10% bodyfat, play piano and do art etc and still got dumped...where do i go from here? its still brutal out there but i got some gameplans up my sleeve.
Those things are great, but how are you coming across on dates. Are you a leader or a Grateful Gus. Are you getting into text conversations? Always initiating contact? Is she excited to be with you?
Good questions asked.
Hello Ralph,
thank you for the video. I'd like to ask. It's been two years since I broke up with my ex - I've moved on long ago. Since then, I've been in a relationship, and so has she. I've met plenty of amazing women, but unfortunately, none of them were quite like her. I know she occasionally follows me on social media, and we both keep our distance. Our breakup was amicable (no cheating, no betrayal).
But now, I'm on a journey to self-improvement - for at least the next year (without"party" women, fun, alcohol), focusing solely on success.
I'm not fixated on her at all, and the outcome doesn't bother me. Perhaps in the meantime, I'll meet someone better - but so far, that hasn't happened. My question to you, Ralph, is: "If I were to contact her in a year - what qualities should I focus on, whether it's a good idea to try, and whether it's possible to be with someone after several years when we've both had other partners, but we harbor no resentment or anger towards each other?"
Thank you and have a wonderful day, Ralph.
You can definitely re engage in conversation, you'd be starting from scratch and dating again, you'll have to attract all over again which is fine. If you still want her, reach out with a casual message like "Hey just got reminded of you because of BLAH BLAH BLAH, thought of you! How are things going?" Keep it casual and put the feelers out there, see how she responds. No reason not to try again since the break up was mutual.
what would you do if a friend with benefits accused you of being obsessed with her or having a crush on her due to having way higher libido than her, making her pull back in both the friends and the benefits to the point you question if you two are even friends anymore?
If she pulls back then let it go. You could've made a joke like "Baby I'm just horny and I'm super fit at the moment, no one is going to f*** you like this 😉". Keep it lighthearted and cocky. Anyway sounds like she's gone now...
@@realralphanthony yes i said that, that im just too horny and probably a nymphoman and that she was making no sense at all, but i dont think it worked
Do you recommend a expensive gym like third space in London ?
I recommend the closest gym to your house so you become consistent.
@@realralphanthony I work near third space
did this yesterday in snap and yes she looked at it and the funny shit is she did the same and she never uses story in snap
Yep, thought that would happen, social media GAMES.
Why do women move on faster than men and find a partner quicker ?
I read somewhere that women take longer to fall in love and take less time to fall out of it, men take less time to fall in love and more time to get over it
Because they mentally checked out months ago and was considering a new partner. They fall out of the relationship weeks, or months before they tell you. The guy doesn't see the signs and it hits him like a wall.
@@richw7275 true been through that
I agree with this statement