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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @jiawei0917
    @jiawei0917 Рік тому +26

    which is why divorce rate among arranged marriage is significantly low. because there's no such thing as "you're not the person I fall in love with", their mindset was "we'll work everything out" from the get go

  • @noelrobinson2307
    @noelrobinson2307 Рік тому +49

    Truth be told, relationships are hard to maintain.
    It is just like anything in life, it requires discipline.
    Unfortunately, everybody wants the results, few actually put in the work to keep the relationship going.
    Simple things like respect, putting down your phone when your partner is talking.
    Considering what will make your partner happy. (Instead of what should your partner do to make you happy)
    The cycle goes on if everyone goes into a rel;ationship with the mindset of "how can i make my partner happy".
    All it takes is 1 partner to have the wrong mindset, everything goes downhill.
    Because we are all humans, sooner or later, the one giving will burn out even if it is giving from love.

    • @Wowzasburp
      @Wowzasburp Рік тому +1

      Best comment I’ve read today.

  • @derrickcsh
    @derrickcsh Рік тому +15

    I think its about working together on the relationship, accept the partner changes over the married life. Most important is communication to talk and listen to each other not escape the problems.

  • @andyhoo5358
    @andyhoo5358 Рік тому +38

    The commercial is upthere

  • @Jay-ru2cw
    @Jay-ru2cw Рік тому +25

    Oh yeah. This episode should be made into a series! Love the different inputs from everyone. The challenges that everyone shared are real. Thanks for being open.

  • @atatur123
    @atatur123 Рік тому +27

    Poor Jared pouring his heart out meanwhile JP cracking dick jokes 😂

  • @Audrey-dm6hz
    @Audrey-dm6hz Рік тому +29

    This episode quickly escalated into Jared’s therapy session.

  • @aanchaallllllll
    @aanchaallllllll Рік тому +4

    1:16: 😕 The speakers discuss their views on staying in a relationship with a partner who transitions gender.
    4:33: 🔄 Change and acceptance in relationships
    8:29: 🤔 The speaker and their partner have conflicts but try to compromise and live together with disagreements.
    11:13: 💬 The speakers discuss the issue of feeling like they have to constantly think of things to talk about in their relationship and the impact of expectations.
    17:55: 😔 The speaker reflects on the loss of excitement in their relationship and the need to appreciate their partner more.
    21:28: ❤ The speaker realizes that the solution to their relationship problems is to love their wife more and do small things to show appreciation.
    25:39: 🗣 The hosts discuss the importance of intentional intimacy in relationships and how neglecting it can lead to problems.
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @stan29443
    @stan29443 Рік тому +3

    i think society needs to reconsider the construct of marriage itself. is it built on love, acceptance , tolerance or sth else? i think its different for different people. and sometimes ppl change over time as they grow older. i dont think its wrong to tolerate, everyone has things they cant accept. but does it warrant a breakup just because the person is expected to accept everything about you?

  • @EIJIHS
    @EIJIHS Рік тому +8

    Denise "That's why i love JP" - me DIED. LOL !!!!!

  • @chickennutpie
    @chickennutpie Рік тому +1

    Foodpanda ad was great yall I was about to order my dinner via grab but after your ad I went to my foodpanda app. Commenting so clients will continue supporting the gr8 work y’all do!
    Also, podcast was gr8. Really appreciate everyone being open and vulnerable!

  • @sadmochineko
    @sadmochineko Рік тому +4

    would like to mention that before jumping right into sex change issues, maybe recap a bit (even personally) on transitioning. its not as easy as 1-2-3 and your body is totally of the other sex, bottom surgery may also not be an end goal for people who are transitioning. if you are able to clarify the scope of the hypothetical scenarios, i think it will greatly help to decrease the stigma around sex change!
    people can change in all ways, tolerating and accepting is key in relationships, but within your personal boundaries, of course! there is no wrong reason to want to break up with your partner, imo. just never cheat

  • @simplebalanceastrology
    @simplebalanceastrology Рік тому

    You can have expectations, but it need to be properly communicated first.

  • @momokook8081
    @momokook8081 Рік тому

    I was thinking my Spotify is it something wrong. Cause I have Spotify premium and there's ads in your podcast. Then I realised it's only TDK podcast. Smart move! 😅

  • @blablablackskip
    @blablablackskip Рік тому +1

    What’s the new channel name? Can you guys include the link in the description? Can’t find it anywhere. Thanks!

  • @tanlinzhi9677
    @tanlinzhi9677 Рік тому +1

    JC should have been in this ep! pretty sure he would have many insightful inputs to share!

  • @ssangyongA230
    @ssangyongA230 10 місяців тому

    Faith in each other. Being honest with each other. Be able to communicate everything. Don't get married if you cannot commit in a long term relationship. Choosing divorce often is shortsighted and not willing to compromise, are pretty irresponsible.

  • @angiemf9033
    @angiemf9033 Рік тому +1

    I feel like her relationship might not last long. It’s still honeymoon period but will he still be able to accommodate her years down the road???

  • @coach.jaytee
    @coach.jaytee Рік тому +2

    Nice conversation! Would love to contribute but the comment section is too short.

    • @audeamus7388
      @audeamus7388 Рік тому +2

      HUH?? what do u mean too short?? i can literally do this!
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  • @danieltoh71
    @danieltoh71 Рік тому

    21:30 Archer : "Phrasing!" 😛

  • @yeehuikoh3571
    @yeehuikoh3571 Рік тому

    foodpanda advertisement at the start quite funny haha

  • @ysngngys7753
    @ysngngys7753 Рік тому

    15:40 Applying managing a professional relationship on managing a personal relationship?...hmm...

  • @nasibryani
    @nasibryani Рік тому

    I love JP's watch! A Bulova Lunar Pilot if I'm not wrong🤩

  • @bakajelly2698
    @bakajelly2698 Рік тому +1

    the presence of my SO is tbh all i need but i also have to keep in mind of her feelings as she might have things she want to talk about

  • @mayyuen552
    @mayyuen552 4 місяці тому

    yeah this relationship won't last if you can't remember his name lol

  • @janjan-janny
    @janjan-janny Рік тому

    can we get tharman

  • @pepethefrog3651
    @pepethefrog3651 Рік тому +1

    JP really damn funny

  • @AsianHustler
    @AsianHustler Рік тому +2

    did jon paul said the N word HAHAHAHAH 24:30

  • @LifeHacksProducts
    @LifeHacksProducts Рік тому

    Sherms so cuteee!!

  • @user-sf1ld7ed1u
    @user-sf1ld7ed1u Рік тому +6

    jared lowkey keeps undermining jon by reminding everyone that hes single

  • @tanchormay6447
    @tanchormay6447 Рік тому

    I think with oestrogen, he will develop abit of boobies

  • @benwong2061
    @benwong2061 Рік тому

    Algoooooooooooooooooo

  • @8MonkeyIsland8
    @8MonkeyIsland8 Рік тому

    JP grow up.

  • @eeto_plays
    @eeto_plays Рік тому