Xiaxue's divorce & Jianhao's Breakup | Answered EP 2

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  • Опубліковано 12 бер 2024
  • 0:20 Xiaxue’s divorce
    2:47 Fallacy of Marriage vows
    3:59 The Hardest Thing about Divorce
    4:40 Singapore’s Co-Parenting Program
    7:05 Complications of splitting assets
    10:16 Jianhao’s very public break up
    12:25 Truth about Saying Goodbye
    14:40 When Jianhao met Debbie
    15:12 Keeping Debbie “safe”
    19:24 Outro
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 79

  • @Peacelily22
    @Peacelily22 3 місяці тому +109

    Debbie is the sweetest. She smiled at me when i glanced at her. She just comes across as very easy going and friendly

    • @debbwie
      @debbwie 3 місяці тому +15

      🥹💗 sending y love tooo sweet

    • @meesanunab4811
      @meesanunab4811 2 місяці тому +2

      I just love her endearing vibe ❤

  • @jonong9305
    @jonong9305 3 місяці тому +44

    The part about having to say goodbye to a person permanently including the version of the person at that point of time hit me right in the feels. I’ve experienced that before but hadn’t heard of it being put into words until I watched this video.
    Great job, guys! I enjoyed watching it. Keep it up!!

  • @bigmattwheel
    @bigmattwheel 2 місяці тому +15

    hearing JH describe having to say goodbye to his school mates and teachers, really sheds light on why his videos revolve around the secondary school setting

  • @choonhuitan5798
    @choonhuitan5798 3 місяці тому +40

    Frank and honest conversations. Clearly very good chemistry betw the two, and it shows the deep sincere relationship betw them.

  • @xfall86
    @xfall86 2 місяці тому +13

    Have always felt XX's wit and her candidness in convo are entertaining since her blogging days despite the controversies here and there. Clearly articulated as well. Will make a really chill friend to have

  • @michalphang
    @michalphang 3 місяці тому +50

    Need to work on the chemistry, xx is like so open and ready to share, like she really enjoys sharing her views and stories. She comes across genuine. Jh is really like what he said, uncomfortable in front of the camera😅 and uncomfortable with xx sharing about Debbie, always trying to moderate xx's statements like to avoid controversy maybe. I love xx for being brave and controversial la. Aiihhh..
    OK sorry if it's offensive. Just my opinion.

    • @bbgui
      @bbgui 3 місяці тому +17

      Agree though 😂 at some points, feel like the topic gonna be like so interesting and then it suddenly went down and end 😅

  • @meesanunab4811
    @meesanunab4811 2 місяці тому +7

    Debbie is such a mood. Shes inspiring and endearing. She truly light up any room she is in. Thank you Debbie for inspiring me ❤❤

  • @yao9598
    @yao9598 3 місяці тому +95

    Xiaxue please do stuff like you did for guide to life

    • @decozo78
      @decozo78 2 місяці тому

      I love the LIVE 24hr in Tokyo …

  • @Dee-wb5go
    @Dee-wb5go 3 місяці тому +6

    Loved this Duo🎉

  • @sharonblythe3807
    @sharonblythe3807 2 місяці тому +6

    Xiaxue I just want you to know that on average 12 years of marriage is a success...so yours is a success...

  • @blingblingsx
    @blingblingsx Місяць тому +5

    Xx is so cute when she talk about not knowing where the $7.6k lawyer fees were spent on. 😂

  • @jaychow3208
    @jaychow3208 2 місяці тому +5

    Remembered Xia Xue was head over heels over the looks of her husband and son years back , sorry to hear and wish you all the best in the future! Jian Hao , keep staying authentic and keep doing what you’re doing, always great to see!

  • @vantanvantan1528
    @vantanvantan1528 2 місяці тому +3

    Debbie is indeed such a darling. 🥰

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 2 місяці тому +4

    Hello Jian Hao, I always love your amazing videos, & Debbie are so loving. 😊 I feel empowered by your videos.

  • @debbwie
    @debbwie 3 місяці тому +46

    I love you cuties !❤ subscribing to all accounts

  • @Naughty_8oy
    @Naughty_8oy Місяць тому +2

    Just for the info - breakdown of the payment
    File divorce paperwork - $1000-2000
    Mediation aka negotiation session - $2000-5000
    more mediation - one amount per session - 15min - 20min
    Assets division - SMLJ also can divide. Guys be careful !!!
    Married to the wrong woman = buy a coffin first..

  • @Jjjjjjjj848
    @Jjjjjjjj848 3 місяці тому +277

    I watch this to know the cause of xiaxue divorce but nothing

    • @jianhao
      @jianhao 3 місяці тому +79

      it's still very raw and if she's not comfortable about going too in-depth about something so personal. I respect it.

    • @lisa_roev
      @lisa_roev 3 місяці тому +59

      The way she talks about it ending without a fight seems like they just "fell out of love"/drifted apart. She said she calls their 17 year long relationship a success and not a failure. Sounds pretty amicable to me.

    • @qiqiyong6562
      @qiqiyong6562 3 місяці тому +19

      @@lisa_roev I agree. If you can fall IN love with someone, you can also fall OUT of love. Most people think marriage is an ending. But it's only the beginning. No one can tell the future. You can only enjoy the present, the moment, the NOW. Whatever will be, will be.

    • @Mwsopa
      @Mwsopa 2 місяці тому +1

      @@lisa_roev It can still hurt in certain ways but yeah

    • @decozo78
      @decozo78 2 місяці тому +2

      Xx had a fairy tale romance… it was great till then … Hope she finds someone compatiable. ❤

  • @mapleleaves7345
    @mapleleaves7345 Місяць тому +1

    i like how xx talk abt the divorce and she is being happy now..

  • @user-hr3bp8fm1q
    @user-hr3bp8fm1q 3 місяці тому +11

    Video title should change to " Everything good about Debbie"

  • @lingdawyeu6005
    @lingdawyeu6005 7 днів тому

    Exactly Xiaxue. It's not a "failure". People do change

  • @christinepok
    @christinepok 3 місяці тому +6

    This podcast is gonna be so interesting

  • @amariifvr.
    @amariifvr. 3 місяці тому +3

    this podcast sounds so intresting ngl😭

  • @MaxGarmin
    @MaxGarmin 15 днів тому

    We only have this one life, so it is important to live one that is true and a happy one one for ourselves. XX you go GAL!

  • @Claire-wl8ir
    @Claire-wl8ir 3 місяці тому +6

    hi jianhao i think i saw you yesterday from afar. But i dont know if it was really you or not

  • @zacklee22
    @zacklee22 3 місяці тому +5

    How are you ☺️ and I am Zack from Malaysia and I really like the video 📹

  • @adminadmin3649
    @adminadmin3649 2 місяці тому +3

    I stand with JH. Sincere at vows. Come on, just one time

  • @waikiankhoo8746
    @waikiankhoo8746 2 місяці тому +2

    I thought i learned alot from this dialogue. Some audience just want to hear gossips .

  • @lawrencewong100
    @lawrencewong100 2 місяці тому

    its like that la
    after having the intimate relationship for long time, sure will sien and want to move on

  • @ploooompkin
    @ploooompkin 11 днів тому

    are they talking about Naomi

  • @Lufqil92
    @Lufqil92 Місяць тому

    Failed marriage is the relationship that failed that unnaturally die and cost a buck load of money in the end.

  • @mabeldin7891
    @mabeldin7891 29 днів тому

    My peaceful divorce cost me $988. How did it accumulate to 7.6k? Oh my gosh.

  • @adminadmin3649
    @adminadmin3649 2 місяці тому +1

    I stand for JH but sad to see JH's now scenario

  • @creativenatty7159
    @creativenatty7159 2 місяці тому +1

    ya I love debbie! she is really a super nice person

  • @adminadmin3649
    @adminadmin3649 2 місяці тому +1

    Many seniors definitely say you Xiaxue. Are your parents divorced? Hurt to see your arguing your way through

  • @ijustwantsomefood2484
    @ijustwantsomefood2484 Місяць тому

    Xiaxue is divorced? What?

  • @aikhong16
    @aikhong16 3 місяці тому +4

    no stigma la. ppl just not equip to talk about it

  • @htl2031
    @htl2031 2 місяці тому +2

    She always say “like” …….. too much eh hahaha

  • @musimmas83
    @musimmas83 2 місяці тому +11

    nobody dare to talk to XX hahaha avoid drama la

  • @xtreame
    @xtreame 2 місяці тому +8

    Talk like never talk kind

  • @earthlynn
    @earthlynn 2 місяці тому +7

    Who was JH ex?

    • @lenee10
      @lenee10 2 місяці тому +3

      naomi neo

  • @yashniaraz1001
    @yashniaraz1001 2 місяці тому +10

    Debbie seems insecure of Naomi Neo because she isn’t that intelligent because they way she behaves but Naomi is intelligent and more genuine who doesn’t complete with her in social media 😂

    • @meesanunab4811
      @meesanunab4811 2 місяці тому +12

      I think if u cant be kind u be quiet

    • @dada-lp6pz
      @dada-lp6pz Місяць тому +1

      @@meesanunab4811why must OP be quiet when it’s their opinion? the internet is an open space. If you can’t take the heat, get the fuck out of the kitchen

  • @audreyang902
    @audreyang902 8 днів тому

    Forget about the past ! Move on with life . Woman reach 35 yrs n above no point to remarry. Look after yourself well being and enough funds for retirement..
    A true husband is willing to support you ,when you are down , pay for yr personal life insurance n shelter you with true love to build a strong commitment to children needs n welfare.

  • @besottedbelovedlovely2560
    @besottedbelovedlovely2560 2 місяці тому +1

    Couple divorce is can't get along ..or e thrill isn't there,.or Their Loves not threr anymore,or both isnt e right Soul mate or in a wrong n unhappy marriage or in- law interfering...between couple or 3rd party involve..etc
    Be Free n Easy ,Single with no Emotions,heart break or Cares for another half. .
    Be Single better. .

  • @TB-zt6hs
    @TB-zt6hs 2 місяці тому

    lol...

  • @elizabethd5264
    @elizabethd5264 Місяць тому

    Whats with her eyes

  • @Amphibians45
    @Amphibians45 2 місяці тому +3

    Can i see her face without makeup

  • @coolocean11
    @coolocean11 2 місяці тому

    The nose thingy…zzz

  • @angzt83
    @angzt83 2 місяці тому +8

    Is there a need for that thick fake eyelashes, thick mascara and contact lens to make your eyes look bloated ? less is more lar.. xiaxue look sticks out like a sore thumb

  • @rynashazrina
    @rynashazrina Місяць тому

    why xx talk like that 🥲 oh god

  • @Sky-8646
    @Sky-8646 2 місяці тому +5

    Makeup really thick..

  • @olivialing3159
    @olivialing3159 Місяць тому

    The English speaking is la la like like la la...

  • @user-fp9cx9st7e
    @user-fp9cx9st7e 2 місяці тому +4

    Thanks Xia Xuey. I learned nothing from this.

  • @iwdws
    @iwdws 3 дні тому

    But seriously how in the world these bengs and lians nvm 🙄😒

  • @AIisMyBff
    @AIisMyBff 2 місяці тому +5

    3:30 when you make stupid arguments like that, you deserved to be divorced. 😂😂😂 Didn't xx consider this before she got married? Comparing her spouse to a child rapist or murderer is an easy out. Xx is pretty dense not to detect that her potential partner is a murderer or child rapist before getting hitch. 😂😂😂

  • @adminadmin3649
    @adminadmin3649 2 місяці тому +1

    Marriage fail but relationship pass? Looks fail? Sex fail?