My “FrIeNdS” Just go “ARE YOU WHYING? WAHH WAHHH WAHH! YOU SO TOXIC. YOU NEED TO BE MORE LIKE US. YOU SUCK. YOU STUPID. CRYBABY. IDIOT.” And then “WhY aRe YoU sO dEpReSsEd” Like they not being a total a-lord
I honestly cried while watching this since I literally related to so many things that Alex said. I just recently cut my friendship with a girl who I have known for 3 years. She made me so happy and I thought god blessed me with an amazing friend who would be there with me forever. But after awhile she started hanging out with a few boys. They were really rude to me and her, but she didn’t care, she just considered everything as a funny joke. On the other hand, I was really sensitive. We would hang out everyday after school and after awhile, they started treating her normally. They just got worse for me though. The boys would tell me to go kill myself, said anything I said was “gay”, and many other cruel things that would make me cry everyday. “My best friend” would always just listen to what they had to say to me and she wouldn’t say anything. She just let them put me down and after I left, she would just start playing with them. I would still come back to the group chat everyday just because I wanted to hang out with my friend, but everyday was just the same. After a few months, I told someone about what had been happening to me. They told the counselors and principals and the boys got in trouble. I knew it wasn’t gonna help, it was just gonna make them hate me more than they already did. Eventually they closed the group chat and we all didn’t talk to each other for months. I was happy about that since I got to hang out with my friend more, but she wasn’t the same. She started not wanting to hang out with me anymore and it really hurt me since I didn’t really have any other friends. She would talk to me about another girl who I had a toxic friendship with and would tell me that she was better than me and she would rather be around her instead. A few months had passed and they opened a new group chat up. They where all friends again and were still kind of mean to me. I keep crying every night and getting even more depressed. All my mom ever told me was that I was just too sensitive and I should stop. I believed her and would feel worse every time I would cry. Soon after that, I finally got enough courage to let them go. I feel better about it everyday and I’m glad I made that choice. Sorry for the really long comment.
@@dickridernumber1 I'm in full agreement with you. Also @Lunaverse, I've read the entirety of your comment and I'm deeply sorry you had to endure being held in such an ethically disgusting regard. I wish to say, similar to Iadorea, that there exists no such thing as being "too emotional" or "too sensitive". Rather, everyone processes and displays their feelings in their own unique fashion. While some may indeed be harmful for the individual, it's paramount (important) to approach this with a listening ear, an open mind, and a heart prepared to employ the care, compassion, kindness and respect needed to lessen the emotional weight they bear upon their shoulders. Regardless of the words spoken to you of how "your feelings are irrelevant" and who has the audacity to dare utter such a sentence, when they too are equally as human as you; and are subject to emotional experiences: your feelings matter, and they're as real as they are valid. Those, outside of your mother for I don't know her, who aren't firmly believing of as such just aren't worthy of occupying a space in your heart, mind, and most certainly - your life. You deserve people with a balanced since of value towards themselves and, most importantly, yourself. You did the right thing detaching yourself from them. Never allow yourself to become desperate, just continue to remain true to your core identity... and eventually, you'll attract friends far better than, if I may say, you could've thought of. As for that previous "friend" group, I'm certain a visit from Anakin Skywalker would... convince them to change their ways.
oh no i’m so sorry you’re going through that. i hope you know NOBODY deserves that kind of treatment. you are a worthy, amazing, good hearted person and i can tel just from tour comment. i’m so happy you let them ho because at the end of the day if your friends don’t treat you with respect then they are no friend to you. i am currently going through a similar situation where three of my closest friends started basically bullying me so i just cut them off today.
I use to have a online friend who would always make sure I wouldn’t play with anyone else and only her. When they sometimes just joined to say hey or talk she would ignore me saying that I was the “worse” (she wouldn’t understand I was just talking with friends and I wouldn’t ignore her i would also talk with her) months later she got a new friend (ima call her amber) amber would make me feel bad about myself and always telling my toxic friend to ignore me and to not play with me. A few days later i got a really great group of friends who weren’t toxic and made me happy. I told them about the situation (at this time I didn’t realize that they were toxic and I was just thinking I was just too “sensitive”) my new friend group knew I had to speak out so i did. My toxic friend told me that eventually told me that amber said that she stole her friend and called her names. My toxic friend ended her friendship with her. Before she ended it I cried every night hoping this would all end and I would be happy. Months pass (lets call toxic friend Marisa) marisa got even more toxic and would control me soon enough she finally ended our friendship and said I was the “toxic” one but I was just full of happiness that I finally got away from her. Sadly i think she will make a return. She always did this once we took a break from each other she would return days after and restart this toxicness. I hope she doesn’t make a new account but I do think i’m now just ready to speak up any time. Super long but I rather just tell my story aswell :)
@@mimicyn Don't let her slither back into your life like the snake she is! I'm proud of you for finally having the strength to understand when you're in a toxic relationship and cut ties with those who make you feel bad about yourself. Keep going my guy! (or girl or non-binary person, we don't judge here)
@@softbread5703 sorry I didn't really know, I just need to know. I've seen the exact same profile picture on every coment section on every video for weeks and I feel like that Chanel is why.
tbh when it hit me that i had a lot of toxic friends i cut them out of my life *yikes* i don't have friends at school now but tbh i don't care, just because i spend time with them at school doesn't mean we have to be friends asgkj I have amazing friends online that i trust and that help me, also now that i'm far away from those toxic friends I got to make amazing friendships out of school with people who help me grow and help me with my art :) so sometimes leaving toxic friends behind can mean growing
in all honesty i’ve been on both ends of this. growing up in a dysfunctional family i didn’t learn what healthy relationships looked like. i thought emotional abuse and manipulation were a normal part of every relationship. because of that i let myself be a doormat. i had friendships modeled after my relationship with my parents because it was what was familiar to me. so i made friends with people that routinely teased me, invalidated my feelings, and excluded me. the friendships never lasted more than a few years, and i was constantly jumping between new friend groups, never having any stable relationships until college. middle school was the worst because of it. i was in a friend group where one person held all the power and manipulated the rest of us. it’s also where i abandoned my one friend to try to be popular. my parents raised me to believe what other people thought of me was more important than all else. people kept teasing me for being friends with the one friend and i took the first opportunity i got to climb the social hierarchy. i know how hurtful it was and i regret it. i wish i’d known better, but i was just a child doing what my parents modeled to me. I’m still unlearning a lot of the toxic things they taught me, but like to think i’ve come a long way.
Jayson: Everyone thinks I'm gay... Jayson: My parents... Jayson: My friends... Jayson: *Even my boyfriend thinks I'm gay* Edit: Heyo guys, can I just say, sorry to offend y'all. This is a joke, obviously. I wasn't trying to be offensive, and also, duh this is from Bo Burnham, stop pointing it out.
5:05 *approached by a girl* That's gay, I don't like gay. *approached by a guy* Oh yeah! I love talking about stuff! It's ok Jason. It's 2019 you can come out now.
Ok so after you said your story I really wanna say mine. All of the following happened in elementary. So I had just moved to a new school, which I was pretty used to, since I move a lot. It was third grade and for the first time ever, I had friends my age that lived in the same neighborhood. Two of them, let’s call one Rose and the other Lisa. I was so happy coming home from school every day to play with Rose and Lisa. What I didn’t , is that they were just pretending to be my friend and bullying me. I can’t remember too many things they did since it has been a while. However, i do remember one scenario. The way our neighborhood was organized was this: there would be rows of houses with bushes in the middle, so row of houses, bushes, rows of houses, bushes, and it kept going. One day Rose came to my house and asked if I could play. I said yes and saw Lisa on the other side of the row of bushes. Rose told me that she wanted to scare Lisa by hiding in the bushes and then and then jump scaring her. I reluctantly agreed and we both sneaked toward the bushes. I just thought this was a harmless joke and it was ok. After hiding for a little, Rose told me that she would go “distract” Lisa, and told me to wait until she gave a signal. I tried asking what signal and for more info, but she had already run off to Lisa. I continued to sit there, waiting for something to happen. 5 minutes. 10 minutes. 20 minutes. At this point I was exhausted and finally got up and said hi. I didn’t scare them, just walked up to them. Then, out of nowhere, Rose was like, “You tried to scare us didn’t u?!?” Lisa sided with her and questioned me too! I was shook and confused. I told Lisa that it was Rose’s plan and I wasn’t trying to scare them just then. THEN, Rose said, “WHAT?!? I WOULD NEVER DO THAT! YOUR JUST TRYING TO PUT THE BLAME ON ME?!? RIGHT?!?” The even more shocking part was when Lisa BELIEVED her, and no matter how much I tried to explain and defend myself, they wouldn’t listen. I remember going home, crying. After one year, a new girl moved in, let’s call her Isa. At this point they were nice to me, and one of my deepest regrets was when they made me bully others. I still hate myself for doing it. Anyway, this girl was one grade older, and in Lisa’s eyes, she was COOL. At this point, Lisa stopped hanging out with me and ROSE. This is when Rose realized what she had done to me, and now Rose is a much better person. However, (and Rose was part of this because of peer pressure) one day all three of them told me to climb something and stay, and then Lisa pulled out her phone and played some farting app. Everyone knew it was her, but they continued to laugh and act like it was me. But I wasn’t in tears until Isa said that she had recorded the whole thing and was gonna put it on the internet. At this time, I was a very shy kid. I didn’t know how to stand up for myself. And I was very innocent. Thankfully, Isa didn’t actually take a video, it was only a threat. Even so, I was so broken, and I remember never telling my parents until recently. Now, Isa is gone(moved), Rose has moved but we still keep in touch, and Lisa goes to a different school. This wasn’t the only bullying I had in elementary, but I don’t wanna write too much. All I’m trying to say, is to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF thank you for reading and don’t worry cuz I have awesome friends now (๑>◡
You just haven't found the right people lmao There are so many nontoxic people around, but if u think someone is 100% toxic after one bad thing happening, that's on you (not saying you do that but a lot of people have that kinda mentality. We can ALL be toxic, as long as we own up to it it's fine.)
Yup it hurts a lot mostly when a best friend you had since child hood gets embarrassed for being friends with you, leaves you and changes themself to be with the cool kids. It hurts a lot. Thank you for making this video
Kinda reminds me on my best friend and what she did back in primary school (I gave her another chance later in life and she matured a lot since then) but in last year of primary school she completely distanced herself from me because I can't hear 100% so I can't determine how loud I am and what's nomal volume to me may come off as yelling to you- it hurt like hell because everyone abandoned me and I spent last year at primary school without friends but at least she changed since then and she realized what a douche she was. I am so sorry that you had to go through that :(
oh dot // Guess I can relate. My “BFF” also pulled a lot of shit afterwards, too; just to rub it in my face the she’s supposedly the “prettier, popular, cooler, and better writer”. I’m glad to have cut toxic people like that from my life.
I met this friend 2 years ago oon roblox, she was one of the happiest person on roblox I've ever seen back then, it's scary how fast she changed after being the popular girl
This is so relatable "your too sensitive" They say "Why are you so emotional"? They ask They make you feel bad They make you feel like you don't matter They call you a crybaby Well whoever "they" is... They mean nothing to you Don't let they hurt you You don't need they
Yea... I left mine since this covid and it felt so good...Because she stated to change after one year of our friendship she would act different around me all "Nice and sweet" then tried to act like the "cool kid" around the others... Then she started to lie to my face... Then that's when she neglected our friendship... For about the rest of the school year.
Almost All the friendships I’ve been in have been toxic..... not to name names but I had two friends in primary school and they constantly called me names and made me do there homework and left me out and yell at me if I did anything wrong.... they had this game where they would run away from me and call me a monster. I tried to tell them but every Time they would tell me that I was the one being a jerk....I stayed with them for 5 years because I was scared to let them out. Eventually I did get them out and I became friends with the “popular” girl. It was never my intention to get popular but when I was friends with her she constantly put me down. She would point out my flaws in front of her group to get attention... she made me do her homework and make me help her get set up with any boy she liked... at one point she found out that I liked someone and forced me to set them up together... she let people talk down to me and she did the same...she threw my stuff away... she ripped my homework... she broke my favorite pen and wiped the ink on me....I stayed with her for a year... when I went to middle school none of them when to the same school. I had never been in healthy friendships so I didn’t know what it was like. I instantly meet a girl and she was nice and so I trusted her...there were things that she would do that made me feel bad but she was all I had so I stayed. She forced me to be in large groups that I had told her I didn’t like.... she made fun of me whenever I was in my gym clothes.... she would make sure that I didn’t talk to anyone but her. She constantly picked fights with me and would blame things on me and tell me that I was worthless....she left the next year leaving me with no one.... i sat next to a boy in one of my class... he became my new best friend.... he would have me talk to girls for him and constantly call me fat and ugly.... he would laugh at me and force me to tell people my weight and mile time.....when I told him who I like it was his friend... he told the friend and they both made sure that I knew that I was to ugly for him.... He eventually stop being friends with me because there were rumors that we were together and he said that he didn’t want to be with a pig..... eighth grade rolled along and I was alone once again.... I met a girl and she was kinda a bad girl.... she smoked and got into fights and ditched classes.... she would call me names if I didn’t do what she wanted.... she would spread rumors about me.... not to long after we started hanging out she stoped talking to me... and started talking to other people.... I went threw eight grade with nobody.... when high school rolled around I had moved to a new state so no one knew me....I meet this girl... and she was sweet and nice and a pleasure to around... and she introduced me to another girl.... they were nice and it was weird... because I was so used to being yelled at and called names and pushed down... I never had been lifted up.... me her and the other girl started hanging around a lot... they helped me out in ways that I can’t discribe.... I love them
Sophia Gonzalez I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that hardship in your life but I’m also really happy you finally found a new non-toxic little group of friends! Hope you meet new friends and stay with your awesome friends who I hope will continue to value your accomplishments and dreams so that you can be the best person you can be! And I hope you will do the same! *smiley face*(I don’t have emojis on my iPad so just pretend that’s there)
sounds alot like my old best friend except...a little different it was she was a bad girl she did stuff that i didn't really liked, i stayed quiet tho. She would lift me up and then when i began to be confident she would throw me down. I was with her 7 years. And then middle school came... met a girl who became friends with my friends and kinda took them away from me. I was quiet... Then my best friend sided with them in big fights but later on called me crying on the phone saying sorry and got me to do the same i was quiet... Now, we got in a fight with all my friends and the turned against me because i was sticking up FOR THIER FRIEND and that friend..she left for them. And i was left with no one but silence. I spoke up a few times but we always seemed to work it out but went back into the same problem. I...was...quiet... And i still am im no longer friends with them but an old friend of mine from 6th came back into town and attended the same school and i hang out with her now. But i was quiet. That was the problem. Quiet. Silenced. Nothing.
"Tag you're it!" "No, you're still it." Yeah... i experienced that too. I was never a fast kid either so me being "it" really sucked. When I did finally tag the one girl in particular, she'd say I was still it & I didn't actually tag her. She really was horrible.
It happens to me, I have a group of friends who play man hunt and when I tag someone sometimes they say " YOU DID IT TOO FAST " or " SNEAK ATTACKS DON'T COUNTTTTT "
it makes me feel bad bc i did that a lot when i was younger, especially towards my brother 😂😭 if he tagged me id literally throw a fit.. i was the devil child
I literally had to cut out a toxic friend, only due to my other friend saying that she was only using me for school work, and didn't put as much into our friendship as I did. The other friend was so kind, and I'm glad we're friends, but this video really is a wake up call for the friendship with the toxic friend. Thank you.
Toxic people make me sick! I encountered different forms of toxic people all my life, and they make me want to say... "You know what!? Screw it, I'm done with people and I hate everyone!" I have a zero tolerance for jealousy and hate towards those who do not deserve it! This is why I do not hesitate to block and stop speaking to toxic people who try to ruin the lives of good, genuine people! Toxic people? Leave them alone. Run for your life, and don't look back.
these r litteraly the type of friends i had in 5th grade i just got to 6th grade todsy was my first day of 6th grade and i got new friends that were already my friends and they have much interest in me and r happy with me :D i also feel the same way u felt my mom tried her best to get me away from my toxic firends but i have baaad anxiety and i do not know how to socialize at all so their my only friends if i left them i was terrified of going to school when i went to school with my toxic friends i thought everyone hated me and judged me but today i realized with the help of my other friend that i and my feelings matter and i dont regret anything i did to the toxic friends when i left them when they first left me i was so scared to o to school but now i go to school happily and feel confident about myself :D
Wow.. That's exactly what I feel too .. Imagine you supported them, make them feel that you're here for them but then WOOOSH! The true colors unleashed out of no where.. leaving you with a total "wow" expression on your face. VERY CLASSIC!
dude boys who say THatZ GAi r the gay ones , im straight and rember beign called gay for liking anime , and the guy who did that is now gay , and he calls me his straight girl bff
@@olivashard8113 you are smart. Anyone who stays in a toxic relationship is worse than the toxic friend himself, because they are too stupid to stay away. It's not as hard as people make it out to be
These toxic people are often manipulative, and they go after more sensitive people at their weaker moments. They act like their friend and then betray them when the victim is too close to them to break it off. It’s not stupidity it’s selfish people playing puppets with others emotions. It may be hard to understand when you have had no toxic relationships, but it is something hard people go through; It’s not stupidity it’s just a human want to be accepted by others.
thank you for actually talking about how hard it can be to let go of the only friends you have, even if they're super toxic. I feel like not a lot of people really talk about, or even acknowledge it much, so it's nice to hear someone talk about it so genuinely.
If you went to my school you would probably wonder how only 10% of the population is LGBTQ+,EVERYONE IS GAY,including me. But there still is a shocking amount of homophobia so....
oml thank you...You posted this at the right time because I am currently struggling with the aftermath of leaving my once called best friend who ditched me because I unintentionally lied about something to prevent myself from hurting them. I would cry every day because of it and I'm just a sensitive child that has very bad separation anxiety. But after she left, yeah I still see her in the hallways of my school and it makes me sad..but I still have people from the friend group who stuck with me despite the fact that the one toxic friend said crap about me to them. But the people who break you are the ones who make you who you are as a person. They make you smarter the next time you have to deal with the same problem and you learn from your mistakes. I loved the video it made me smile a little Thanks again! Also i'm glad to see more animators joining the community, once I get my drawing tablet fixed I'm going to make some myself lol.
I feel you Zelda. My ex bff who id known from six grade till now (second year of uni) bullied me for almost 3 years and I didnt say a thing because I didnt want her to hate me and I was desperately tryna hold the fact that we were ''bff''s. She and other 4 guys from my friend group bullied me all the time and i didnt stop them cuz i had no one else and I had to see them everyday, we shared the same classes, same friends etc. I would cry everyday and make excuses to not go to the classes. I almost dropped. It was so freaking awful. Now they study what im studying in the same uni as mine and i see them in campus often but this time I ended this toxic hell. Life is so, SO much better now
I thank you for this. I'm sorry you went through that but I feel you with the "sensitive child" I try to do things to help people and try to take the pain myself. I also thank you for bringing attention to toxic people helping you with your mistakes. A lot of my friends don't realize that/a bunch of other common sense stuff that I do. I belive in you, and support you! :'3
I personally never cared much about me being alone, I'm comfortable with myself, so if you come to waste my time than I don't care about you, even if by chance you're the only person who came talking to me, I have too much respect for myself and I know I deserve better, love yourself mate ! ❤
Same, I hate socialising with people my age (I'm 13 and half my friends are 20+) and when people tell me to 'socialize' I hear it as 'put yourself through hell and back'. If people what to hang out I generally make excuses 'nah I'm tired' 'another time' cause social experiences just drain me dry. Lol I love being introverted.
im normally ok being alone like i have fun by myself but it just gets lonely sometimes. I feel like being all alone is something im gonna have to do anyways when im old and if i don't take advantage now ill never know whats its like to have a fun friend group and im wasting my youth. Im certain its something ill regret. but i guess its better to be alone than to be in bad company
I have a toxic friend group, there is one time that I play some video games (Jailbreak),I was the cop and I arrested them and they said “OhHhH, ThAT DoEs not count!”, and then suddenly, they just said that I was a sensitive dude and other kinds of mean stuff, I just left the meeting and cried whole night. Thanks for the video :)
@@Scarlettt343 I mean like I'm on the same page though .. I once tried to go church but quite cringey actually .. no hate bout the religion but I manage to escape 😂😂😂
I USED to have a “best friend” and we were friends 4th grade through 5th grade and we were pretty ok, we didn’t fight as much but when 6th grade rolled around she wanted to act more cool and popular. My best friend ( this best friend is a real friend) and I always wanted her to hang out with us but she always hanged out with other people, and when we would talk and started hanging out with the people she would hang out with she would immediately start talking to us. My best friend and I noticed that and ignored it. She would always favor my friend more some days and favor me some days, and we didn’t like that. Then when New Years came, we came back to school and about a few days after a lot of people were telling me that she was going to tell me she didn’t want to be my friend because I was “too clingy” or “ she doesn’t let me hang out with other people” were the things she would tell people. I said that was fine and I really didn’t care. When she finally came up to me and said “ hey, can I talk to you?” I said “sure...” she said, “ you know how it is new year, new stuff, and new friends?” I said “yeah...” she said, “ well I have new friends and you are not apart of that” then so she didn’t have the satisfaction of me feeling down and begging her to be my friend I said “ ok, that’s fine” and I smiled to her. She said “sorry” but that kind of sorry when you have no other excuse but to tell the truth. Days passed on and she talked to me as if I were her friend! Like, come on if you don’t want to be my friend, don’t talk to me, but I always had respect and I didn’t answer her badly, then one day I found out she was talking very bad about me behind my back and what I would say is “ she is a hypocrite” and I would always just leave and I am not her friend anymore, she did a lot more but it isn’t worth saying. And whoever read this may God bless you and have a good day!
I'm sorry about your friendship, I've been called clingy too, and it hurts. I have a talkative friend that doesn't let me speak, no matter what news I had she always acted like my accomplishments didn't matter, and like the same thing happened to you, she kind of "punished me" like she was more than I was. Any advice to know what to do about this or even how or if I should end this friendship? (No pressure to actually answer this comment, it's okay)
@@lilamccormick6004 oh my gooseness I am glad you told me that!!! I think you shouldn't have friends like that, the person I talk about still is the same way and even my real best friend's mom agrees that she is a hypocrite and only wants to get attention and cause drama. I think you should get better friends or you could be my friend because I'd love to have more friends that are not fake or really just in general rude. I hope you have a great day, may God bless you. I suggest you don't confront this person you talk about because they want attention and if you comment or fuss about what they do or say they would have gotten what they wanted. I really hope you get better friends but you have just earned another friend!!! One last thing, just ignore this person too, make more friends and the person will eventually stop being the way they are because you aren't sad or upset because of what they said. Thank you sooo much for telling me too!!😀😁
i also had a toxic friend that would always talk about how bad her life is when she has everyday problems that are common and she gets in fights a lot with people (not physical) and whenever id talk about one of my serious and in need of help problem she says something like stfu no one cares stop complaining or i knew something for 1 nanosecond with the same problem so shut the f up she was always so mean and hurt me and the other friend a lot she body slammed the other friend and broke the glasses and she also drop kicked me and laughed amd it hirt to walk for a while and then there was a fight and now we are no longer friend i believe she was only “friends” with me because i had a dog and id give them stuff when they came over like treats and drinks and she also made fun of me for everything i did and everything was unfair when she was doing most stuff and when people are being normal and im scared bc she knows where i live and i dont want her to try and let my dog run free or take her
I had someone that was just like jayson. there was this girl lets call her phoebe. She related everything bad with gay. I always tought that it was bs(especially since i was a closeted lesbian). I took it with a grain of salt because she might did not knew how it could effect people, But then i heard from another friend that she used it because she believed that gay was bad and that everything gay was bad. A couple days later i did something that she apparently didnt like so she said "OmG YoU aRe SO gAy" so i said "i know right, im hella gay". That look on her face. It was priceless.
wish i could say the same my brother was the one who says everything bad with gay so i turned from gay to bi to straight to homophobic and man am i happy he left the country
I’m also a people pleaser and during the beginning of grade 5 I became friends with a new kid because he didn’t have any friends and I knew what the feeling was like when you arrive at school and don’t know anybody, eventually he developed a crush on me and whenever he told me he liked me or asked me to become his gf I said that we were to young. When we played any games together it was always a mental warfare and when he lost at stuff or was trying to guilt trip me he would put things like “Non of my friends want to play with me :( msg me to play games? Please I’m lonely” e when we found out what bedwars was he bought MVP + for me (the best rank on the bed wars server but only lasts for a month of you don’t renew) and when I tried to stop being his friend he would use my other friends as leverage and call me bad words and laugh it off when confronted him then he bought me a really expensive mouse for some reason which I didn’t even want and when I tried to leave the relationship again he told me to give the mouse back or else he would call the school. (I was already leaving the school due to family issues in a different country and so I was moving) and I still got the mouse. Turns out he was using his grandma’s credit card without permission for fortnight, and other more expensive purchases than the mouse and the rank. Luckily after being friends for 4 years my other friends in the same friend group cut off communication with him along with me. ( sorry for long paragraph xd)
I had a pretty toxic friend online and it took me a while to understand how bad he was. We had common interests but our conversations would always be very stale and go around in circles and whenever i called him out on something i saw as bothering he’d seriously guilt trip me. One of those things was always when I needed to leave the chat bc of irl stuff and he would always write to me something along the lines of “*sobs* please don’t go...” and I told him it made me rlly uncomfortable even when he wasn’t serious but he always shifted the blame to me or never make good on his promises. And then there were the moments when he called me his sister and gushed about how good of an artist I was and it made it very hard to me to cut him off. eventually I told him to stay away from me But the real stinker happened 6 months later when he just started talking to me again under a different username like nothing happened. Idk if he was stalking me back then or not but either way I blocked him... Anyways this was a fantastic video!
Wait i can tell who your "new friends" are from the way you've drawn. You've gotten really good and i see the amount of improvement you've made since the beginning. Keep it up senpai
once i had a toxic friend. we had been friends for 8 years. she kept going in and out. she kept finding new friends and let me out in the cold and when she wanted to come back to me after a half year or so i just let her. i think that happened 3 times but i just kept letting her in to my life. i kept forgiving her. then we became older and we where stil together. i did not like to be whit her anymore but i could't say " i dont want to be your friend". then a new girl came to our class and of course my friend left me for the new girl. this time i had enough. my friend and the new girl bullied me every day. calling me names. laughing at me. the worst thing was that she treated me as she just said " What are you talking about i never said does things or laughed at you". i told my mum that i was really depressed. so my mum talked to my friends mum. and my friends mum said that my friend had told that I WAS THE ONE BULLYING HER. like come on... so i said to her that i didn't want to be friends anymore. yes it hurt a lot to say it but today i feel so great. i am so happy i did it. so if you have a toxic friend or lover then just say i dont want to do this to myself anymore. just let go of them.
Same but I don’t know what to do we have been friends for 5 years and I heard she’s been calling me names and that I was lazy for skipping 3 days of school and I was sick! She was being rude and mean to me and now I don’t know what to do
It is hard. And it might be a bit harsh of me to say... but those old friends are gone. They've already left you by changing into toxic ways. Good luck, I hope you find better people. They don't deserve you if they treat you badly.
This video reminds me of when I was a child and I spent 5 years in an abusive friendship. I was bullied by a group of girls who only used me and kept talking about me in a very false way. These girls kept whispering over me in front of me. They intimidated and excluded me. I did everything for their attention, I bought things, I did school work, I carried their bags. In the end, after they did something that made me very angry, I decided to get out of this situation. After a few years, I asked the girl leader why they had done all this to me. She told me it was because I looked like a "retarded and sucker". I will never forget everything they did to me. If you are going through a similar situation, quit. You do not deserve to suffer for people who do not give a damn about your presence and act like bully's. You are much more important and you will find people who will give you value. The best thing I did back then was to give up on that. If you have a younger brother or sister, teach them to respect their colleagues, because the marks of an abusive, manipulative and toxic relationship stay forever in those who suffer. I came out of that situation when they came to confront me, accusing me of doing something against them. In fact the girls who claimed to be my friends armed me, they no longer needed my presence. I just accepted with hatred and sadness. I was always treated as a second choice and I was afraid I would not have anyone else, but from the beginning I had no one. Over the years, I have been meeting other people who value and respect me. I do not forget any of that. To remember is to live. * and if u wanna know...* The last time I saw that group formed was before an ugly fight between a parent of a student and the group of girls who tormented me. There was no time to see them crying, returning to the classroom because the class was over. Even after all that they did to me, I packed up their stuff, put away every pencil and paper they used to send nasty messages about me during class. I arranged everything so that when they arrived, they could leave with their things in the classroom. I packed everything up as if I were burying a part of my past and let it go so that it would not bother me any more, as if it were a synonym of my farewell and repudiation of all this hostility. That's how I dealt with it, I wanted to punch them, but that's how I performed my sweetest revenge.
This is my story. I don't remember much because it's just now that I realize how toxic of a friend she was, so I will try to dig up stories for you. I had this friend. Let's call her Clara (names are changed for privacy). I'm home schooled so none of this was at school. It was all in my house, her house, or outside. I met this girl Clara when I was around 6. She was my only friend. She was just a few months older than me but she was super bossy and rude. I remember once she didn't bring her shoes over to my house and when we wanted to go outside she made me not put on shoes so she didn't feel "weird" or "left out". She would always play the "if you do or don't do this than I'm going home." I always felt pressured to do these things because, she was my only friend. I didn't want to be the lonesome person. I would tell my parents about these things and they always said just don't be friends with her. One day a new girl moved onto our street. Let's call her Amy. Amy was a few years younger than me but I still hung out with her sometimes. Though she was pretty aNnOyInG I didn't want to have to hang out with Clara and feel that horrible feeling. One time I was playing with Clara over at her house. She had to go (shopping or to eat or something I don't remember) Clara said that I if I went over to Amy's house while she was gone that she wouldn't be friends with me anymore. She left, and of course, I went over to Amy's house. When Clara got home and I went over to her house, she asked if I had gone over there. I said yes. I felt so guilty that I didn't do what my friend had asked me not to do. She got really mad at me, but she still would be my friend. I now realize that she probably was really lonely back then and she just wanted to keep a friend... Here's some other stories about Clara. One time her cousin was over at her house. She was like a year older than me, but I thought she was so cool. She was in gymnastics and back then I was so flexible and I realllllllyyyy wanted to be in gymnastics. I would ask Clara's cousin (let's say her name's Ana) if she could teach me some things. Ana would try to help me do ariels in Clara's backyard. Clara was super mad at me for just wanting to hang out with her cousin... ⚠WARNING⚠ Grossness >~< One time her cousins were other (new cousins.) There was only one cousin that was around our age. Let's call him Bradley. Bradley... was your average 8-yr-old boy. Annoying. We were on Clara's playhouse in her backyard. Clara was up in the little house while I was on a swing. Bradley came over.... AND PEED ON MY FOOT >~< Of course, Clara being the rude toxic friend she was, started laughing. I immediately went inside and told Bradley's dad. Bradley's dad washed off my foot and my shoe and Bradley got in trouble. This story includes the same boy from last story. Bradley. Bradley and his family were over at Clara's house (I'm pretty sure this was the same visit). We were all playing in their garage when Clara told me to get into her red wagon (we all know those red wagons from our childhood) Bradley got scissors and they were going to hurt me. Of course they were laughing. I was freaked out. I don't remember what happened but remember that I didn't get hurt. I'm pretty sure I went inside and told Bradley's dad and Bradley got in trouble (again. Dude you should've learned your lesson from last time.) Those stories were really all about Bradley but Clara wasn't doing anything to help me. She was going along and laughing. This is the last and final story but the worst. I'll never forget it and I'm pretty sure I'll be scarred forever. (This isn't about Clara as it was about Bailey.) A new girl moved into our neighborhood. Let's call her Bailey. Bailey... swore... a lot. And need I remind you we were only around 9. My family doesn't believe in swearing so I felt really uncomfortable around her. My 9th birthday was coming up, and I was going to be nice and invite both Clara and Bailey. Clara at the time was starting to change, become nicer. But the thing is we stopped hanging out as much as we used to. The day of my 9th birthday came. Before this I had met this amazing girl (who I'm still best friends to this day and we talk and hang out everyday. Love you girl
This needs more likes love ur stories and I'm so happy you moved on also thank you for taking your time to write this and one more thing girl I wish I was your friend because you look like you got a lot of tea lol 👁👄👁
Then even if every christmas gets uncomfortable from now on, distance yourself from them as much as you can!!! A good way would be to do something new or get busy. This way you'll feel less lonely, and if things get rough, you can use them as excuses with your cousin/aunt/uncle: "Ohh, ***** can't play with you today because She's at ***" or "you know She would love to spend the day with you but She's busy doing ***". This way your family won't immediately think you're rude. But also, if you trust some adult around you, TELL THEM!!!!!!!!
My girl. You have no idea how I needed this, especially the part where at first it’s like, I am the bad guy somehow. But upon realizing it, I am not. I did the right thing. Especially since I figured out that these two previous friends by the name of “Aaron” and “Gregory”, just started to talk smack about me after I left, and make a lot of pointless excuses on how I somewhat “backstabbed” them and making themselves sound like they know what they’re talking about. but really it’s just their annoying ego. Like really, my life feels better and way easier now, I have new better friends (I still have one of those old friends with me by the name of “Jack”, and he just understands me way more), and for real, I am just way happier now. Having that freedom just really makes me relaxed alot more
This video speaks to me. I know how frustrating it is to be stuck with people who bring you down. I had a toxic classmate not too long ago who got angry at me for telling jokes and being funny because they thought I was annoying. I started to dread being around them. And the worst thing about these toxic relationships is that you can’t always cut them out of their life even if you want to, because you’re forced to see them every day at school or any other environment. My most hated types of people are the ones who go around bringing people down and cutting down their happiness. They’re cowards.
I love your art, animations, and personality. You are so underrated just like a bunch of these great animators. I hope you see more exposer in your future because you deserve it! Love you Alex 💛
@@RisingJay exactly. They inspire me to work on my art and of course I love james and jaiden but these guys inspired me to work harder and that success won't just come to you.
hi, I had as a lot of people toxic friends but its a different story how they treated me but you made this video and this made me realize that I just have to leave them and stop thinking about them this video helped me a lot!! thx
Cool beans thanks for the advice. A few days ago I got the courage up to confront her and it turns out she wasn’t worth my time because she pretended she was sorry and would miss me. I ignored her. But the next day 20 of her friends surrounded me and shouted horrible, kind of racist things and threatening me to leave the country and she pretended it wasn’t her fault and it was mine. I had a minor panic attack. And ever since then, she has tried her absolute best, every single day! To make me jealous and act like she’s popular and shoving her friends in my face. I have none at the moment. Honestly I have come to the realization that I should’ve never stayed friends with her. Someone who uses you for popularity and to make her feel better about herself is not worth it AT ALL. 😢💕
Life in Yellow I’d just say, assuming you’re in school, whatever year you maybe in, make sure you do well in studies and set your future up, people get better as they age, I found proper friends only ‘‘tis year, I’m 17 so yea, but it’s not that hard to be alone for a while, we have the Internet now.
Life in Yellow yeah, you’ve got a lot of time. Make sure to do well at school, you don’t have to have friends, especially if they’re just there jus because. I was pretty much alone till 16, so just stay on the Internet, improve yourself be kind and don’t let people use you. You’ll find real friends with time. People tend to be less bitchy and well like they are when they are older rather than your age. Remember, it will all be better in the future!
I had a toxic friend but they were so clingy so I couldn’t leave them. They eventually turned me into a toxic friend and I didn’t even realise. Thankfully I have left now, and I have new friends, and I am good friends with the person that I was toxic too.
OMG I love the new style so much!! :) Come to think of it, I think I had a few of these types of relationships specifically when you talked about playing tag, it rang a bell. I remember I used to play with these boys, and come to think of it I don't know why I did, but we played run away from me, basically, where I run after people, and when I tag them, they still run away from me. Anyway, great video! :D
Thanks for making this video, this was kinda a wake up call for me because i deal with toxic friends and for a long time they made me feel like my feelings did'nt matter and that I was just overreacting about everything but it's up to you. You need to decide if it's worth it being brought down and feeling useless all the time is worth pleasing a few people . and that you don't need to put yoursef through that and that you deserve better as a person :) (sorry i just needed to put this out there for me and maybe for others who might be going through the same thing sorry if i worded it wrong)
Jason's so far in the closet, I think he found Narnia.
He’s so far in the closet he’s finding Christmas presents
@@skyes._.studio2170 lol good one
LMAO he will see trees and snow soon
*LOL*
So far in the closet, he's kissing with Peter or Edmund by now XD
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I hate it when ppl say ‘can’t you take a joke?’ As an excuse to be an a-hole.
And they also add "stop being so sensitive!!" When you tell them to stop mistreating you. I hate that!!
So true it happens alot to me especially with the toxic ones
My “FrIeNdS” Just go
“ARE YOU WHYING? WAHH WAHHH WAHH! YOU SO TOXIC. YOU NEED TO BE MORE LIKE US. YOU SUCK. YOU STUPID. CRYBABY. IDIOT.”
And then “WhY aRe YoU sO dEpReSsEd” Like they not being a total a-lord
Chilli Townend 420.
Ikr
Jayson: This is gay
Me: No, this is patrick
ME: No this is Sparta!
Alex : " How was your day ? "
Jayson : " It's pretty gay. "
Jayson, again : " --..nevermind.. "
lol
No, this is the Krusty Krab
Me: No this is AnImE
"Life's too short to spend your time getting on the floor and being a literal doormat for people to step on"
Ouch..that hit hard
Jayson now: *I am NOT gay*
His boyfriend: *i think I just heard something gay*
A true gem of a comment 👌
You stole the second one from the top comment
Him: im not gay but my boyfriend gay
Annoyingly autistic add- on comment
XD
JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL! SKRRRAaaaaAHHHH
I hope Jesus does coz I don't know how to drive
@@AlexsCorner lol
Yeshua take the wheel! No, not you, Cesare Borgia! Go home to Rome, ya dirty Roman!
Hahaha
Alex Animation Corner lol
"BUT JESUS DOESN'T EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL!"
He was at mine, but he graduated last year.
There was a guy that actually looked exactly like him tho last year.
XD
I had a friend that looked like jesus but a ironicly he loved death metal
@@dogonpc618 A metal Jesus... That's awesome as hell
Lmao your profile pic
I honestly cried while watching this since I literally related to so many things that Alex said. I just recently cut my friendship with a girl who I have known for 3 years. She made me so happy and I thought god blessed me with an amazing friend who would be there with me forever. But after awhile she started hanging out with a few boys. They were really rude to me and her, but she didn’t care, she just considered everything as a funny joke. On the other hand, I was really sensitive. We would hang out everyday after school and after awhile, they started treating her normally. They just got worse for me though. The boys would tell me to go kill myself, said anything I said was “gay”, and many other cruel things that would make me cry everyday. “My best friend” would always just listen to what they had to say to me and she wouldn’t say anything. She just let them put me down and after I left, she would just start playing with them. I would still come back to the group chat everyday just because I wanted to hang out with my friend, but everyday was just the same. After a few months, I told someone about what had been happening to me. They told the counselors and principals and the boys got in trouble. I knew it wasn’t gonna help, it was just gonna make them hate me more than they already did. Eventually they closed the group chat and we all didn’t talk to each other for months. I was happy about that since I got to hang out with my friend more, but she wasn’t the same. She started not wanting to hang out with me anymore and it really hurt me since I didn’t really have any other friends. She would talk to me about another girl who I had a toxic friendship with and would tell me that she was better than me and she would rather be around her instead. A few months had passed and they opened a new group chat up. They where all friends again and were still kind of mean to me. I keep crying every night and getting even more depressed. All my mom ever told me was that I was just too sensitive and I should stop. I believed her and would feel worse every time I would cry. Soon after that, I finally got enough courage to let them go. I feel better about it everyday and I’m glad I made that choice. Sorry for the really long comment.
@@dickridernumber1 I'm in full agreement with you. Also @Lunaverse, I've read the entirety of your comment and I'm deeply sorry you had to endure being held in such an ethically disgusting regard.
I wish to say, similar to Iadorea, that there exists no such thing as being "too emotional" or "too sensitive". Rather, everyone processes and displays their feelings in their own unique fashion.
While some may indeed be harmful for the individual, it's paramount (important) to approach this with a listening ear, an open mind, and a heart prepared to employ the care, compassion, kindness and respect needed to lessen the emotional weight they bear upon their shoulders.
Regardless of the words spoken to you of how "your feelings are irrelevant" and who has the audacity to dare utter such a sentence, when they too are equally as human as you; and are subject to emotional experiences: your feelings matter, and they're as real as they are valid.
Those, outside of your mother for I don't know her, who aren't firmly believing of as such just aren't worthy of occupying a space in your heart, mind, and most certainly - your life. You deserve people with a balanced since of value towards themselves and, most importantly, yourself.
You did the right thing detaching yourself from them. Never allow yourself to become desperate, just continue to remain true to your core identity... and eventually, you'll attract friends far better than, if I may say, you could've thought of.
As for that previous "friend" group, I'm certain a visit from Anakin Skywalker would... convince them to change their ways.
oh no i’m so sorry you’re going through that. i hope you know NOBODY deserves that kind of treatment. you are a worthy, amazing, good hearted person and i can tel just from tour comment. i’m so happy you let them ho because at the end of the day if your friends don’t treat you with respect then they are no friend to you. i am currently going through a similar situation where three of my closest friends started basically bullying me so i just cut them off today.
I use to have a online friend who would always make sure I wouldn’t play with anyone else and only her. When they sometimes just joined to say hey or talk she would ignore me saying that I was the “worse” (she wouldn’t understand I was just talking with friends and I wouldn’t ignore her i would also talk with her) months later she got a new friend (ima call her amber) amber would make me feel bad about myself and always telling my toxic friend to ignore me and to not play with me. A few days later i got a really great group of friends who weren’t toxic and made me happy. I told them about the situation (at this time I didn’t realize that they were toxic and I was just thinking I was just too “sensitive”) my new friend group knew I had to speak out so i did. My toxic friend told me that eventually told me that amber said that she stole her friend and called her names. My toxic friend ended her friendship with her. Before she ended it I cried every night hoping this would all end and I would be happy. Months pass (lets call toxic friend Marisa) marisa got even more toxic and would control me soon enough she finally ended our friendship and said I was the “toxic” one but I was just full of happiness that I finally got away from her. Sadly i think she will make a return. She always did this once we took a break from each other she would return days after and restart this toxicness. I hope she doesn’t make a new account but I do think i’m now just ready to speak up any time. Super long but I rather just tell my story aswell :)
its okay bb! im so proud of you
@@mimicyn Don't let her slither back into your life like the snake she is! I'm proud of you for finally having the strength to understand when you're in a toxic relationship and cut ties with those who make you feel bad about yourself. Keep going my guy! (or girl or non-binary person, we don't judge here)
Alex: "AKA toxic friends"
screen: *turns black so I can see my reflection*
Me: "oh"
Fido and The cakes it’s Unnus Annus with two n’s
if the shoe fits, wear it.
@@softbread5703 sorry I didn't really know, I just need to know. I've seen the exact same profile picture on every coment section on every video for weeks and I feel like that Chanel is why.
@@softbread5703
actually it's 'unus annus'
SennaCookie yea I just figured that out but I got distracted and forgot to edit my comment lol
Jayson: that's gay
me: slowly pulls out a reverse card (no u)
4:00
But Jesus doesn’t even go to my school!
-Alex 2018
“bUt JEsUs dOEsn’T EveN gO To my SchOoL!”
Me in 4th grade trying to avoid Sunday school 😂
“But jesus doesn’t even go to this school!”
That’s gonna be my senior quote for sure
Do you mean even?
Yeah sorry
Infact, Jesus DOESN'T EVEN EXIST MUM!
Ha Ha, **laughs in atheist**
Legit I used to be SUPER religious. But now,I am proud to say that I am a gay atheist who worships Gerard Way.
Hehehehehe
What if I said “hey, Jason, your gay.”
Jason: “that’s gay.”
Me: Wh-
You’re*
@@Littlechikita your OH WAIT SORRY You're* CAUSE THIS IS DEFINETLYY SCHOOOOOOL
When people call me gay I just say “what gave it away?”
Hinemoa normally it’s when they use it as an insult. Which makes it ten times funnier.
what's it you just said" jason" " ThAtS gEY"
"BUT JESUS DOESNT EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL!!!" -Alex 2018 - 2019
,That's Gay."-Jayson 2018 - 2019
I died so hard.
DuDe!!! ThATs gAy!!
Alex: **breathes**
Jason: *thats gay*
*:0*
Lol *thats gay*
Jason: "This comment is pretty gay"
FELLAS? IS IT GAY TO BE A MAN? I MEAN YOU LITERALLY KNOW WHATS IN EVERY MAN’S PANTS? FELLAS?
Jason. I don’t respect girls
Me, “I think I just heard something gay”
AHAHAHAH
OMG. YOURE RIGHT. IF HE DOESN'T RESPECT OR LIKE GIRLS, THAT MEANS HE LIKES GUYS
Quote 2020
That's gay
I'm gay
Are you gay?
IM GAY
tbh when it hit me that i had a lot of toxic friends i cut them out of my life *yikes* i don't have friends at school now but tbh i don't care, just because i spend time with them at school doesn't mean we have to be friends asgkj I have amazing friends online that i trust and that help me, also now that i'm far away from those toxic friends I got to make amazing friendships out of school with people who help me grow and help me with my art :) so sometimes leaving toxic friends behind can mean growing
simplygi
Aww cool!
@@nope3123 :)
I can relate 🗿💜
simplygi
:D
me too
So you're saying if I want to support you, I have to punch you in the face? *takes notes*
Also holy improvement girl the quality was. 😫👌💦
HAHAHA Thanks Sultan 🍑🍑!!
Sultan Sketches Hahahahah
Lolll btw love ur videos, just discovered this animator and my recommendation section wasn’t crap for once 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻💦💦💦💦
It's the bro code
OH MY GOD!!!! IT'S SULTAN!!!!! 🤩🤩🤩🤩
in all honesty i’ve been on both ends of this. growing up in a dysfunctional family i didn’t learn what healthy relationships looked like. i thought emotional abuse and manipulation were a normal part of every relationship. because of that i let myself be a doormat. i had friendships modeled after my relationship with my parents because it was what was familiar to me. so i made friends with people that routinely teased me, invalidated my feelings, and excluded me. the friendships never lasted more than a few years, and i was constantly jumping between new friend groups, never having any stable relationships until college. middle school was the worst because of it. i was in a friend group where one person held all the power and manipulated the rest of us. it’s also where i abandoned my one friend to try to be popular. my parents raised me to believe what other people thought of me was more important than all else. people kept teasing me for being friends with the one friend and i took the first opportunity i got to climb the social hierarchy. i know how hurtful it was and i regret it. i wish i’d known better, but i was just a child doing what my parents modeled to me. I’m still unlearning a lot of the toxic things they taught me, but like to think i’ve come a long way.
Honestly, you're a very mentally strong person!
*I think i just heard something gay*
Me too 🤔
Yeah I think I heard you
Gosh darn it get back to your channel and make some good vidoes
Sorry I'll be quite now.
Relachi Lmaooooooo it was me
People are fake. Thats all i have to say.
Just too many fake people making expectations, and judging others.
Lil Cookie exactly
Then ur fake 0_p
me: *catches myself being judgmental*
also me: i did not raise you like that
@Julya Flyer yikes loner
@Julya Flyer Just jk btw, don't take it personally please!
"BUT JESUS DOESNT EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL!!!!!!!" --Alex 2018
Really laughed when she said that 😂😂😂😂😂
@@izuchisoonforever8151 lol. Same
I didn't really laugh.
Yo I’m Christian
@@Sharon-ks4zc Ok..?
Jayson: thats *gay*
If i was there: *LiKe yOu*
Jayson: Everyone thinks I'm gay...
Jayson: My parents...
Jayson: My friends...
Jayson: *Even my boyfriend thinks I'm gay*
Edit: Heyo guys, can I just say, sorry to offend y'all. This is a joke, obviously. I wasn't trying to be offensive, and also, duh this is from Bo Burnham, stop pointing it out.
Ginger Loves Warriors mood
He could be bi or pansexual
Life is hard
Lol
B O B U R N H A M
5:05 *approached by a girl*
That's gay, I don't like gay.
*approached by a guy*
Oh yeah! I love talking about stuff!
It's ok Jason. It's 2019 you can come out now.
*seems pretty gay to me*
It's funny how some homophobes can be supressed gay
@@maccychee3858 exactly I guess it's just to much for them to hendle
Haha yeah Jason you big gaylord kiss boys Haha you can come out now you gay lord. Also there nothing wrong wit be gay okay, I support all geys
@@IHaveACrushOnBTMC Seriously? Not even a snide homophobic remark or an AIDS joke? Are you trolls even trying anymore? I almost kinda feel insulted.
*but jESUS DOESN’T EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL*
D:
SKSKSKAKAKSOWKWK
Hahaha
What if Jesus was a toxic friend
What's that?
Ok so after you said your story I really wanna say mine.
All of the following happened in elementary. So I had just moved to a new school, which I was pretty used to, since I move a lot. It was third grade and for the first time ever, I had friends my age that lived in the same neighborhood. Two of them, let’s call one Rose and the other Lisa. I was so happy coming home from school every day to play with Rose and Lisa. What I didn’t , is that they were just pretending to be my friend and bullying me. I can’t remember too many things they did since it has been a while. However, i do remember one scenario. The way our neighborhood was organized was this: there would be rows of houses with bushes in the middle, so row of houses, bushes, rows of houses, bushes, and it kept going. One day Rose came to my house and asked if I could play. I said yes and saw Lisa on the other side of the row of bushes. Rose told me that she wanted to scare Lisa by hiding in the bushes and then and then jump scaring her. I reluctantly agreed and we both sneaked toward the bushes. I just thought this was a harmless joke and it was ok. After hiding for a little, Rose told me that she would go “distract” Lisa, and told me to wait until she gave a signal. I tried asking what signal and for more info, but she had already run off to Lisa. I continued to sit there, waiting for something to happen. 5 minutes. 10 minutes. 20 minutes. At this point I was exhausted and finally got up and said hi. I didn’t scare them, just walked up to them. Then, out of nowhere, Rose was like, “You tried to scare us didn’t u?!?” Lisa sided with her and questioned me too! I was shook and confused. I told Lisa that it was Rose’s plan and I wasn’t trying to scare them just then. THEN, Rose said, “WHAT?!? I WOULD NEVER DO THAT! YOUR JUST TRYING TO PUT THE BLAME ON ME?!? RIGHT?!?” The even more shocking part was when Lisa BELIEVED her, and no matter how much I tried to explain and defend myself, they wouldn’t listen. I remember going home, crying.
After one year, a new girl moved in, let’s call her Isa. At this point they were nice to me, and one of my deepest regrets was when they made me bully others. I still hate myself for doing it. Anyway, this girl was one grade older, and in Lisa’s eyes, she was COOL. At this point, Lisa stopped hanging out with me and ROSE. This is when Rose realized what she had done to me, and now Rose is a much better person. However, (and Rose was part of this because of peer pressure) one day all three of them told me to climb something and stay, and then Lisa pulled out her phone and played some farting app. Everyone knew it was her, but they continued to laugh and act like it was me. But I wasn’t in tears until Isa said that she had recorded the whole thing and was gonna put it on the internet. At this time, I was a very shy kid. I didn’t know how to stand up for myself. And I was very innocent. Thankfully, Isa didn’t actually take a video, it was only a threat. Even so, I was so broken, and I remember never telling my parents until recently. Now, Isa is gone(moved), Rose has moved but we still keep in touch, and Lisa goes to a different school. This wasn’t the only bullying I had in elementary, but I don’t wanna write too much. All I’m trying to say, is to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF
thank you for reading and don’t worry cuz I have awesome friends now (๑>◡
I'm glad it's over for you.. it must have been terrible
*BUT JESUS DOESN’T EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL*
he go's to my school
But i do fo to school idiot just playing is that my name is Jesus
It really is hard to cut off toxic friends, it’s also hard to find nontoxic people these days. #SAD
Yeah it sucks 😑😔#SAD
The block button does wonders
No...Not really.. unless you're different from everyone your surrounded by
You just haven't found the right people lmao
There are so many nontoxic people around, but if u think someone is 100% toxic after one bad thing happening, that's on you (not saying you do that but a lot of people have that kinda mentality. We can ALL be toxic, as long as we own up to it it's fine.)
Yup it hurts a lot mostly when a best friend you had since child hood gets embarrassed for being friends with you, leaves you and changes themself to be with the cool kids. It hurts a lot. Thank you for making this video
I hope you're doing better now ❤
@@AlexsCorner thank you, you are a very inspiring and strong person im glade we have people like you in this world
I know exactly how you feel qwq
Kinda reminds me on my best friend and what she did back in primary school (I gave her another chance later in life and she matured a lot since then) but in last year of primary school she completely distanced herself from me because I can't hear 100% so I can't determine how loud I am and what's nomal volume to me may come off as yelling to you- it hurt like hell because everyone abandoned me and I spent last year at primary school without friends but at least she changed since then and she realized what a douche she was.
I am so sorry that you had to go through that :(
oh dot // Guess I can relate. My “BFF” also pulled a lot of shit afterwards, too; just to rub it in my face the she’s supposedly the “prettier, popular, cooler, and better writer”. I’m glad to have cut toxic people like that from my life.
I met this friend 2 years ago oon roblox, she was one of the happiest person on roblox I've ever seen back then, it's scary how fast she changed after being the popular girl
What do you mean by "change"
Me:so,Jason hows your day?
Jason:gay
Me:life?
Jason:gay
Me:sexuality?
Jason:gay...NO WAIT!
Me:hehe (- v -)
Ricardo Cruz I am your 99th like
🤪
I love that. It's hilarious!
That's me with anyone
Starved Comedy 😂😂😂😂
Jason's vocabulary is the vocabulary of the boys in my class
IDontHateU IJustDisagreeWithUrActions gay
gae
Same, I sometimes say “that’s gay” when I don’t know what to respond with. But, I need to stop though.
The most correct statement I have heard
Dude...that’s...kinda gay
This is so relatable
"your too sensitive"
They say
"Why are you so emotional"?
They ask
They make you feel bad
They make you feel like you don't matter
They call you a crybaby
Well whoever "they" is...
They mean nothing to you
Don't let they hurt you
You don't need they
Coral Rauch yeah I had a “friend” and she always called me a cry baby
thing is i used to call my self that but for some reason my eyes just leak 😂
Yea... I left mine since this covid and it felt so good...Because she stated to change after one year of our friendship she would act different around me all "Nice and sweet" then tried to act like the "cool kid" around the others... Then she started to lie to my face... Then that's when she neglected our friendship... For about the rest of the school year.
And if it's a parent then what?
@Reddit tea l will surely try it out thank u so much
“Sometimes being alone is scarier than being betrayed.”
Almost All the friendships I’ve been in have been toxic..... not to name names but I had two friends in primary school and they constantly called me names and made me do there homework and left me out and yell at me if I did anything wrong.... they had this game where they would run away from me and call me a monster. I tried to tell them but every Time they would tell me that I was the one being a jerk....I stayed with them for 5 years because I was scared to let them out. Eventually I did get them out and I became friends with the “popular” girl. It was never my intention to get popular but when I was friends with her she constantly put me down. She would point out my flaws in front of her group to get attention... she made me do her homework and make me help her get set up with any boy she liked... at one point she found out that I liked someone and forced me to set them up together... she let people talk down to me and she did the same...she threw my stuff away... she ripped my homework... she broke my favorite pen and wiped the ink on me....I stayed with her for a year... when I went to middle school none of them when to the same school. I had never been in healthy friendships so I didn’t know what it was like. I instantly meet a girl and she was nice and so I trusted her...there were things that she would do that made me feel bad but she was all I had so I stayed. She forced me to be in large groups that I had told her I didn’t like.... she made fun of me whenever I was in my gym clothes.... she would make sure that I didn’t talk to anyone but her. She constantly picked fights with me and would blame things on me and tell me that I was worthless....she left the next year leaving me with no one.... i sat next to a boy in one of my class... he became my new best friend.... he would have me talk to girls for him and constantly call me fat and ugly.... he would laugh at me and force me to tell people my weight and mile time.....when I told him who I like it was his friend... he told the friend and they both made sure that I knew that I was to ugly for him.... He eventually stop being friends with me because there were rumors that we were together and he said that he didn’t want to be with a pig..... eighth grade rolled along and I was alone once again.... I met a girl and she was kinda a bad girl.... she smoked and got into fights and ditched classes.... she would call me names if I didn’t do what she wanted.... she would spread rumors about me.... not to long after we started hanging out she stoped talking to me... and started talking to other people.... I went threw eight grade with nobody.... when high school rolled around I had moved to a new state so no one knew me....I meet this girl... and she was sweet and nice and a pleasure to around... and she introduced me to another girl.... they were nice and it was weird... because I was so used to being yelled at and called names and pushed down... I never had been lifted up.... me her and the other girl started hanging around a lot... they helped me out in ways that I can’t discribe....
I love them
Sophia Gonzalez I’m so sorry you had to go through all of that hardship in your life but I’m also really happy you finally found a new non-toxic little group of friends! Hope you meet new friends and stay with your awesome friends who I hope will continue to value your accomplishments and dreams so that you can be the best person you can be! And I hope you will do the same! *smiley face*(I don’t have emojis on my iPad so just pretend that’s there)
I'm glad you found good people.
I can SO relate. All through my life except this year. I found new friends!
sounds alot like my old best friend except...a little different it was she was a bad girl she did stuff that i didn't really liked, i stayed quiet tho. She would lift me up and then when i began to be confident she would throw me down. I was with her 7 years. And then middle school came... met a girl who became friends with my friends and kinda took them away from me. I was quiet... Then my best friend sided with them in big fights but later on called me crying on the phone saying sorry and got me to do the same i was quiet... Now, we got in a fight with all my friends and the turned against me because i was sticking up FOR THIER FRIEND and that friend..she left for them. And i was left with no one but silence. I spoke up a few times but we always seemed to work it out but went back into the same problem. I...was...quiet... And i still am im no longer friends with them but an old friend of mine from 6th came back into town and attended the same school and i hang out with her now. But i was quiet. That was the problem. Quiet. Silenced. Nothing.
@@karmaanimates1369 you are waaaaaay better without them. I think it's easier to find what you need, after getting rid of what you DON'T need.
Alex *SHE DOESN"T EVEN GO HERE!"
*Jesus*....
He*
"Tag you're it!"
"No, you're still it."
Yeah... i experienced that too. I was never a fast kid either so me being "it" really sucked. When I did finally tag the one girl in particular, she'd say I was still it & I didn't actually tag her.
She really was horrible.
Sammie Lynn “YoU tOuChEd mY hAiR tHaT dOeSnT cOuNt”
It happens to me, I have a group of friends who play man hunt and when I tag someone sometimes they say " YOU DID IT TOO FAST " or " SNEAK ATTACKS DON'T COUNTTTTT "
@@kindlittlebunny9869 YEAH
ikr its freaking annoying
it makes me feel bad bc i did that a lot when i was younger, especially towards my brother 😂😭 if he tagged me id literally throw a fit.. i was the devil child
I literally had to cut out a toxic friend, only due to my other friend saying that she was only using me for school work, and didn't put as much into our friendship as I did. The other friend was so kind, and I'm glad we're friends, but this video really is a wake up call for the friendship with the toxic friend. Thank you.
Jason: IM NOT GAY
His closet:am I joke to you 😞
@berry gacha did you even watch the video?
@@fjord2454 chill I was joking XD I watched the whole damn video (Jason was who says 'this is gay' at every single talk with Alex)
Jason: my closet is so gay.
Lmao
Everyone else says I take things to seriously but they really just bully me
So relatable
relatable so I aint weird
hidelyho, neighborino! -ned flanders
It's been a year since I've gone toxic friend free and guess what I lost? Depression!
So you still have the toxic friend?
I know what you mean. I went through something similar. Hopefully everythings going alot better now for you
Sharum ayyyy das cool-i mean the depression is lost thing
I envy you
YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Toxic people make me sick!
I encountered different forms of toxic people all my life, and they make me want to say...
"You know what!? Screw it, I'm done with people and I hate everyone!"
I have a zero tolerance for jealousy and hate towards those who do not deserve it! This is why I do not hesitate to block and stop speaking to toxic people who try to ruin the lives of good, genuine people!
Toxic people? Leave them alone. Run for your life, and don't look back.
This video actually helped me end a very toxic friendship with a girl that I thought of as my first best friend.
Thank you. 💜
Nice I hope you find better people in your life UwU
YO GO GIRL(ASSUMING YOUR A GIRL SINCE MOST THE TIME GIRLS ARE FREINDS WITH GIRLS SORRY IF IM WRONG) YOU DESERVE THE BEST 😸😺😸😺😸😺😸😺😸😺😸
O_O oki
Same here
"I'm not letting Jesus take the wheel this time"
Me: wot._.
Jesus take the wheel
*TAKE IT FROM MY HAND*
. _ .
HE HAS TO TAKE IT 0-0000
Jesus needs to take the wheel, he has plans 😉
"BUT JESUS DON'T EVEN GO TO MY SCHOOL"
This is true. Jesus...is...everywhere! :P
Yennie Fer in the air, in the water, behind every tree, in your room...
...Is he in the my room when I am being gay?!
Nope😶😶😶
...Everywhere? *looks towards the creepy closet in the room*
If i do a satanic ritual will Jesus be part of it?
these r litteraly the type of friends i had in 5th grade i just got to 6th grade todsy was my first day of 6th grade and i got new friends that were already my friends and they have much interest in me and r happy with me :D
i also feel the same way u felt my mom tried her best to get me away from my toxic firends but i have baaad anxiety and i do not know how to socialize at all so their my only friends if i left them i was terrified of going to school when i went to school with my toxic friends i thought everyone hated me and judged me but today i realized with the help of my other friend that i and my feelings matter and i dont regret anything i did to the toxic friends when i left them when they first left me i was so scared to o to school but now i go to school happily and feel confident about myself :D
Why does Jason look like an emo Marco
lol i get the reference
Marco from what...
@@Lindwyrm6429 from "Star vs The Forces of Evil"
@@darkenedraccoon2394 Oh thank god.
darkened raccoon bnha
“ThAtz GAy”
me everyday
“Jared, we’ve been dating-“
I'm GaY
*toxic friends suck*
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*that's why I stopped making friends :D*
ARE U ALSO AN ANTISOCIAL PERSON???
wow I know exactly how you feel :/ such thoughts suck and friendship is not so bad but at least you feel protected bc no one can hurt you anymore
@@ekatvolk8571 this is exactly how I feel but I use to be social and I have a bestie but..I'm not sure it'll last
Edit: it didn't last :^
Wow.. That's exactly what I feel too .. Imagine you supported them, make them feel that you're here for them but then WOOOSH! The true colors unleashed out of no where.. leaving you with a total "wow" expression on your face. VERY CLASSIC!
I don't need freinds they disappoint me
Wow that made me realize im not the only one that have those kind of friendship thank you🤧❤️
Jason: Thats gay
His massive closet: *Shaking with rage*
dude boys who say THatZ GAi r the gay ones , im straight and rember beign called gay for liking anime , and the guy who did that is now gay , and he calls me his straight girl bff
97%- jaysons gay
2%- the video
1%- toxic friends
Check again
Admire M Wow it actually added to 100
Having noone is always better than having toxic relationships
Absolutely
Loners rise up!
But toxic people come into your life to teach you so I'm thankful I had toxic friends so that I know well enough to stay away
@@olivashard8113 you are smart. Anyone who stays in a toxic relationship is worse than the toxic friend himself, because they are too stupid to stay away. It's not as hard as people make it out to be
That's probably because you havnt felt the feelings and struggles other people have.....
These toxic people are often manipulative, and they go after more sensitive people at their weaker moments. They act like their friend and then betray them when the victim is too close to them to break it off. It’s not stupidity it’s selfish people playing puppets with others emotions. It may be hard to understand when you have had no toxic relationships, but it is something hard people go through; It’s not stupidity it’s just a human want to be accepted by others.
thank you for actually talking about how hard it can be to let go of the only friends you have, even if they're super toxic. I feel like not a lot of people really talk about, or even acknowledge it much, so it's nice to hear someone talk about it so genuinely.
Jayden is everyone in middle School: Everything is Gay
If you went to my school you would probably wonder how only 10% of the population is LGBTQ+,EVERYONE IS GAY,including me. But there still is a shocking amount of homophobia so....
Omg yes. That is literally the only word in their vocabulary
Lmao
oml thank you...You posted this at the right time because I am currently struggling with the aftermath of leaving my once called best friend who ditched me because I unintentionally lied about something to prevent myself from hurting them. I would cry every day because of it and I'm just a sensitive child that has very bad separation anxiety. But after she left, yeah I still see her in the hallways of my school and it makes me sad..but I still have people from the friend group who stuck with me despite the fact that the one toxic friend said crap about me to them. But the people who break you are the ones who make you who you are as a person. They make you smarter the next time you have to deal with the same problem and you learn from your mistakes. I loved the video it made me smile a little Thanks again! Also i'm glad to see more animators joining the community, once I get my drawing tablet fixed I'm going to make some myself lol.
I feel you Zelda. My ex bff who id known from six grade till now (second year of uni) bullied me for almost 3 years and I didnt say a thing because I didnt want her to hate me and I was desperately tryna hold the fact that we were ''bff''s. She and other 4 guys from my friend group bullied me all the time and i didnt stop them cuz i had no one else and I had to see them everyday, we shared the same classes, same friends etc. I would cry everyday and make excuses to not go to the classes. I almost dropped. It was so freaking awful. Now they study what im studying in the same uni as mine and i see them in campus often but this time I ended this toxic hell. Life is so, SO much better now
I have no idea what you typed because I’m way to lazy to read.
@@EE-fn4tf lol sameee
I thank you for this. I'm sorry you went through that but I feel you with the "sensitive child"
I try to do things to help people and try to take the pain myself.
I also thank you for bringing attention to toxic people helping you with your mistakes.
A lot of my friends don't realize that/a bunch of other common sense stuff that I do.
I belive in you, and support you! :'3
@@rebeckadraws except some people would rather hear the truth than being "protected"
I personally never cared much about me being alone, I'm comfortable with myself, so if you come to waste my time than I don't care about you, even if by chance you're the only person who came talking to me, I have too much respect for myself and I know I deserve better, love yourself mate ! ❤
Same, I hate socialising with people my age (I'm 13 and half my friends are 20+) and when people tell me to 'socialize' I hear it as 'put yourself through hell and back'. If people what to hang out I generally make excuses 'nah I'm tired' 'another time' cause social experiences just drain me dry. Lol I love being introverted.
im normally ok being alone like i have fun by myself but it just gets lonely sometimes. I feel like being all alone is something im gonna have to do anyways when im old and if i don't take advantage now ill never know whats its like to have a fun friend group and im wasting my youth. Im certain its something ill regret. but i guess its better to be alone than to be in bad company
sakura heartfilia jin’s cult lol. Same,I’m comfortable with being by myself I’m also an antisocial person but I have friends that are the same :)
Goddamn you stole my wallpaper
sakura heartfilia being alone is honestly the best
I have a toxic friend group, there is one time that I play some video games (Jailbreak),I was the cop and I arrested them and they said “OhHhH, ThAT DoEs not count!”, and then suddenly, they just said that I was a sensitive dude and other kinds of mean stuff, I just left the meeting and cried whole night. Thanks for the video :)
Alex: *toxic fRiEnDs*
My trauma: *TIME FOR YOU TO CRY*
I think i just heard something gay
@@alpi5459 what 😀
@@requa700 5:28
@@alpi5459 oh HAHA
I think I heard something *lesbian* .
*I'm not letting Jesus take the wheel this time*
Last time I let him he tried to take me to church
He's trying to make me Christian lmao
@@кям-г8и no I'm athiest
@@Scarlettt343 hahahaha same..
@@creepycat31 he ain't getting me dis time
@@Scarlettt343 I mean like I'm on the same page though .. I once tried to go church but quite cringey actually .. no hate bout the religion but I manage to escape 😂😂😂
Do I SmeLl GaY iN The aIR
I’m sorry
Yeah sorry. It's my perfume.
Yea.. Thats me... Sry
Jin is that you?
Yup
Oh is me! *jumps down from counter* IM GAY
3:50
Jessus comes first
It was a meme
I LAUGHED AT IT , WATCHED IT EVERYDAY AMD OMG ITS SO FUNNY!!!
Oh yes! Another Alex upload! Now I can watch this on loop! YEEEEEEEEEEEEY
Animated Carl hooray for repeats!
You won't have toxic friends if you don't have friends at all haha
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Ha ha ha....
Yes true ;-;
Well I guess I don't have to worry about that then
@@glitchthewolf8120 me either
I USED to have a “best friend” and we were friends 4th grade through 5th grade and we were pretty ok, we didn’t fight as much but when 6th grade rolled around she wanted to act more cool and popular. My best friend ( this best friend is a real friend) and I always wanted her to hang out with us but she always hanged out with other people, and when we would talk and started hanging out with the people she would hang out with she would immediately start talking to us. My best friend and I noticed that and ignored it. She would always favor my friend more some days and favor me some days, and we didn’t like that. Then when New Years came, we came back to school and about a few days after a lot of people were telling me that she was going to tell me she didn’t want to be my friend because I was “too clingy” or “ she doesn’t let me hang out with other people” were the things she would tell people. I said that was fine and I really didn’t care. When she finally came up to me and said “ hey, can I talk to you?” I said “sure...” she said, “ you know how it is new year, new stuff, and new friends?” I said “yeah...” she said, “ well I have new friends and you are not apart of that” then so she didn’t have the satisfaction of me feeling down and begging her to be my friend I said “ ok, that’s fine” and I smiled to her. She said “sorry” but that kind of sorry when you have no other excuse but to tell the truth. Days passed on and she talked to me as if I were her friend! Like, come on if you don’t want to be my friend, don’t talk to me, but I always had respect and I didn’t answer her badly, then one day I found out she was talking very bad about me behind my back and what I would say is “ she is a hypocrite” and I would always just leave and I am not her friend anymore, she did a lot more but it isn’t worth saying. And whoever read this may God bless you and have a good day!
I'm sorry about your friendship, I've been called clingy too, and it hurts. I have a talkative friend that doesn't let me speak, no matter what news I had she always acted like my accomplishments didn't matter, and like the same thing happened to you, she kind of "punished me" like she was more than I was. Any advice to know what to do about this or even how or if I should end this friendship? (No pressure to actually answer this comment, it's okay)
@@lilamccormick6004 oh my gooseness I am glad you told me that!!! I think you shouldn't have friends like that, the person I talk about still is the same way and even my real best friend's mom agrees that she is a hypocrite and only wants to get attention and cause drama. I think you should get better friends or you could be my friend because I'd love to have more friends that are not fake or really just in general rude. I hope you have a great day, may God bless you. I suggest you don't confront this person you talk about because they want attention and if you comment or fuss about what they do or say they would have gotten what they wanted. I really hope you get better friends but you have just earned another friend!!! One last thing, just ignore this person too, make more friends and the person will eventually stop being the way they are because you aren't sad or upset because of what they said. Thank you sooo much for telling me too!!😀😁
Thanks so much for your reply, I appreciate it. The advice was really helpful and I need non - fake friends too. I hope you have a great day :)
@@lilamccormick6004 thank you and Have a good day!!
i also had a toxic friend that would always talk about how bad her life is when she has everyday problems that are common and she gets in fights a lot with people (not physical) and whenever id talk about one of my serious and in need of help problem she says something like stfu no one cares stop complaining or i knew something for 1 nanosecond with the same problem so shut the f up she was always so mean and hurt me and the other friend a lot she body slammed the other friend and broke the glasses and she also drop kicked me and laughed amd it hirt to walk for a while and then there was a fight and now we are no longer friend i believe she was only “friends” with me because i had a dog and id give them stuff when they came over like treats and drinks and she also made fun of me for everything i did and everything was unfair when she was doing most stuff and when people are being normal and im scared bc she knows where i live and i dont want her to try and let my dog run free or take her
4:47 DID *ANYONE* ELSE NOTICE THAT, SHE HAD *6 FINGERS* ON ONE OF HER ARMS xD
*I'm not letting Jesus take the wheel this time.*
Honestly I just let *everyone* step on me like a doormat
Bleh Blah Lmao SaMe 😭😂
Bleh Blah lolol same
Same...
Omg why dafq
tHaTs gAy
I had someone that was just like jayson. there was this girl lets call her phoebe. She related everything bad with gay. I always tought that it was bs(especially since i was a closeted lesbian). I took it with a grain of salt because she might did not knew how it could effect people, But then i heard from another friend that she used it because she believed that gay was bad and that everything gay was bad. A couple days later i did something that she apparently didnt like so she said "OmG YoU aRe SO gAy" so i said "i know right, im hella gay". That look on her face. It was priceless.
@Agera R yeah, it wasn't particularly crazy, but using "gay" as an insult or to describe something bad is still shitty.
Lol
wish i could say the same my brother was the one who says everything bad with gay so i turned from gay to bi to straight to homophobic and man am i happy he left the country
I’m also a people pleaser and during the beginning of grade 5 I became friends with a new kid because he didn’t have any friends and I knew what the feeling was like when you arrive at school and don’t know anybody, eventually he developed a crush on me and whenever he told me he liked me or asked me to become his gf I said that we were to young. When we played any games together it was always a mental warfare and when he lost at stuff or was trying to guilt trip me he would put things like “Non of my friends want to play with me :( msg me to play games? Please I’m lonely” e when we found out what bedwars was he bought MVP + for me (the best rank on the bed wars server but only lasts for a month of you don’t renew) and when I tried to stop being his friend he would use my other friends as leverage and call me bad words and laugh it off when confronted him then he bought me a really expensive mouse for some reason which I didn’t even want and when I tried to leave the relationship again he told me to give the mouse back or else he would call the school. (I was already leaving the school due to family issues in a different country and so I was moving) and I still got the mouse. Turns out he was using his grandma’s credit card without permission for fortnight, and other more expensive purchases than the mouse and the rank. Luckily after being friends for 4 years my other friends in the same friend group cut off communication with him along with me. ( sorry for long paragraph xd)
I had a pretty toxic friend online and it took me a while to understand how bad he was. We had common interests but our conversations would always be very stale and go around in circles and whenever i called him out on something i saw as bothering he’d seriously guilt trip me.
One of those things was always when I needed to leave the chat bc of irl stuff and he would always write to me something along the lines of “*sobs* please don’t go...” and I told him it made me rlly uncomfortable even when he wasn’t serious but he always shifted the blame to me or never make good on his promises.
And then there were the moments when he called me his sister and gushed about how good of an artist I was and it made it very hard to me to cut him off. eventually I told him to stay away from me
But the real stinker happened 6 months later when he just started talking to me again under a different username like nothing happened. Idk if he was stalking me back then or not but either way I blocked him...
Anyways this was a fantastic video!
no joke something similar happened to me-
Proud of you for making the decision to block
I feel the same way! People say I'm too sensitive when I'm getting teased. I absolutely HATE IT!
2:48 JAJAJAJAJAJ EL “p o r q u e” ME MORI
4:58 that’s literally my brother.. I should go tell him now
lol that’s literally my sister
Oh god my guy BFF
GIRL SAME
That’s my brother
Wait i can tell who your "new friends" are from the way you've drawn. You've gotten really good and i see the amount of improvement you've made since the beginning. Keep it up senpai
once i had a toxic friend. we had been friends for 8 years. she kept going in and out. she kept finding new friends and let me out in the cold and when she wanted to come back to me after a half year or so i just let her. i think that happened 3 times but i just kept letting her in to my life. i kept forgiving her. then we became older and we where stil together. i did not like to be whit her anymore but i could't say " i dont want to be your friend". then a new girl came to our class and of course my friend left me for the new girl. this time i had enough. my friend and the new girl bullied me every day. calling me names. laughing at me. the worst thing was that she treated me as she just said " What are you talking about i never said does things or laughed at you". i told my mum that i was really depressed. so my mum talked to my friends mum. and my friends mum said that my friend had told that I WAS THE ONE BULLYING HER. like come on... so i said to her that i didn't want to be friends anymore. yes it hurt a lot to say it but today i feel so great. i am so happy i did it.
so if you have a toxic friend or lover then just say i dont want to do this to myself anymore. just let go of them.
Too. Long. Mate.
Shes obviosly a narcissist.. its good that you left..
Y E P about the same.
Same but I don’t know what to do we have been friends for 5 years and I heard she’s been calling me names and that I was lazy for skipping 3 days of school and I was sick! She was being rude and mean to me and now I don’t know what to do
100th LIKE ya congrats
honestly im dealing with it rn buut its hard to let go to friends that have been there for you every single time until they change
It is hard. And it might be a bit harsh of me to say... but those old friends are gone. They've already left you by changing into toxic ways.
Good luck, I hope you find better people. They don't deserve you if they treat you badly.
Ooh recommended finally gave me some quality
This video reminds me of when I was a child and I spent 5 years in an abusive friendship. I was bullied by a group of girls who only used me and kept talking about me in a very false way. These girls kept whispering over me in front of me. They intimidated and excluded me. I did everything for their attention, I bought things, I did school work, I carried their bags. In the end, after they did something that made me very angry, I decided to get out of this situation. After a few years, I asked the girl leader why they had done all this to me. She told me it was because I looked like a "retarded and sucker". I will never forget everything they did to me.
If you are going through a similar situation, quit. You do not deserve to suffer for people who do not give a damn about your presence and act like bully's. You are much more important and you will find people who will give you value.
The best thing I did back then was to give up on that.
If you have a younger brother or sister, teach them to respect their colleagues, because the marks of an abusive, manipulative and toxic relationship stay forever in those who suffer.
I came out of that situation when they came to confront me, accusing me of doing something against them. In fact the girls who claimed to be my friends armed me, they no longer needed my presence. I just accepted with hatred and sadness. I was always treated as a second choice and I was afraid I would not have anyone else, but from the beginning I had no one.
Over the years, I have been meeting other people who value and respect me. I do not forget any of that. To remember is to live.
* and if u wanna know...*
The last time I saw that group formed was before an ugly fight between a parent of a student and the group of girls who tormented me. There was no time to see them crying, returning to the classroom because the class was over. Even after all that they did to me, I packed up their stuff, put away every pencil and paper they used to send nasty messages about me during class. I arranged everything so that when they arrived, they could leave with their things in the classroom. I packed everything up as if I were burying a part of my past and let it go so that it would not bother me any more, as if it were a synonym of my farewell and repudiation of all this hostility. That's how I dealt with it, I wanted to punch them, but that's how I performed my sweetest revenge.
a girl punched my arm when I was in preschool. i hate her to this day
siyah davis i know what u feel ...
you should do an animated story time lol
Because she isn’t like other UA-camrs using their 10min mark as a way to put in like 15 adverts, I’ll watch your ads sis. There’s only 2😭👏🏽
This is my story.
I don't remember much because it's just now that I realize how toxic of a friend she was, so I will try to dig up stories for you.
I had this friend. Let's call her Clara (names are changed for privacy). I'm home schooled so none of this was at school. It was all in my house, her house, or outside. I met this girl Clara when I was around 6. She was my only friend. She was just a few months older than me but she was super bossy and rude. I remember once she didn't bring her shoes over to my house and when we wanted to go outside she made me not put on shoes so she didn't feel "weird" or "left out". She would always play the "if you do or don't do this than I'm going home." I always felt pressured to do these things because, she was my only friend. I didn't want to be the lonesome person. I would tell my parents about these things and they always said just don't be friends with her. One day a new girl moved onto our street. Let's call her Amy. Amy was a few years younger than me but I still hung out with her sometimes. Though she was pretty aNnOyInG I didn't want to have to hang out with Clara and feel that horrible feeling. One time I was playing with Clara over at her house. She had to go (shopping or to eat or something I don't remember) Clara said that I if I went over to Amy's house while she was gone that she wouldn't be friends with me anymore. She left, and of course, I went over to Amy's house. When Clara got home and I went over to her house, she asked if I had gone over there. I said yes. I felt so guilty that I didn't do what my friend had asked me not to do. She got really mad at me, but she still would be my friend.
I now realize that she probably was really lonely back then and she just wanted to keep a friend...
Here's some other stories about Clara.
One time her cousin was over at her house. She was like a year older than me, but I thought she was so cool. She was in gymnastics and back then I was so flexible and I realllllllyyyy wanted to be in gymnastics. I would ask Clara's cousin (let's say her name's Ana) if she could teach me some things. Ana would try to help me do ariels in Clara's backyard. Clara was super mad at me for just wanting to hang out with her cousin...
⚠WARNING⚠ Grossness >~<
One time her cousins were other (new cousins.) There was only one cousin that was around our age. Let's call him Bradley. Bradley... was your average 8-yr-old boy. Annoying. We were on Clara's playhouse in her backyard. Clara was up in the little house while I was on a swing. Bradley came over.... AND PEED ON MY FOOT >~< Of course, Clara being the rude toxic friend she was, started laughing. I immediately went inside and told Bradley's dad. Bradley's dad washed off my foot and my shoe and Bradley got in trouble.
This story includes the same boy from last story. Bradley.
Bradley and his family were over at Clara's house (I'm pretty sure this was the same visit). We were all playing in their garage when Clara told me to get into her red wagon (we all know those red wagons from our childhood) Bradley got scissors and they were going to hurt me. Of course they were laughing. I was freaked out. I don't remember what happened but remember that I didn't get hurt. I'm pretty sure I went inside and told Bradley's dad and Bradley got in trouble (again. Dude you should've learned your lesson from last time.)
Those stories were really all about Bradley but Clara wasn't doing anything to help me. She was going along and laughing.
This is the last and final story but the worst. I'll never forget it and I'm pretty sure I'll be scarred forever. (This isn't about Clara as it was about Bailey.)
A new girl moved into our neighborhood. Let's call her Bailey. Bailey... swore... a lot. And need I remind you we were only around 9. My family doesn't believe in swearing so I felt really uncomfortable around her. My 9th birthday was coming up, and I was going to be nice and invite both Clara and Bailey. Clara at the time was starting to change, become nicer. But the thing is we stopped hanging out as much as we used to. The day of my 9th birthday came. Before this I had met this amazing girl (who I'm still best friends to this day and we talk and hang out everyday. Love you girl
This needs more likes love ur stories and I'm so happy you moved on also thank you for taking your time to write this and one more thing girl I wish I was your friend because you look like you got a lot of tea lol 👁👄👁
Could you even call toxic people "Friends"?
Blueberry Meows if you dont realize, then yes, you could
@@milkyii I guess you could. But even if you think of them as friends, they don't think of you as one
Yes, you can
Poppy KIRK I have “toxic” friends but I don’t give a shit
Poppy KIRK I have toxic friends and nice friends and really most of the time I feel like people are being sensitive about of all it
I love your animations, I think your styleee is really cute
Sarah Ackerson Same.
very good
What if your cousin is the toxic friend?
Blob Fish -kill them- tell an adult
Then even if every christmas gets uncomfortable from now on, distance yourself from them as much as you can!!! A good way would be to do something new or get busy. This way you'll feel less lonely, and if things get rough, you can use them as excuses with your cousin/aunt/uncle: "Ohh, ***** can't play with you today because She's at ***" or "you know She would love to spend the day with you but She's busy doing ***". This way your family won't immediately think you're rude. But also, if you trust some adult around you, TELL THEM!!!!!!!!
Kill em
Meowmeow Chickenpoppie Hey that’s what I said! I mean- That’s TOTALLY NOT what I said!
Magical girl Unicornia
No you didn’t let me finish
My girl. You have no idea how I needed this, especially the part where at first it’s like, I am the bad guy somehow. But upon realizing it, I am not. I did the right thing. Especially since I figured out that these two previous friends by the name of “Aaron” and “Gregory”, just started to talk smack about me after I left, and make a lot of pointless excuses on how I somewhat “backstabbed” them and making themselves sound like they know what they’re talking about. but really it’s just their annoying ego.
Like really, my life feels better and way easier now, I have new better friends (I still have one of those old friends with me by the name of “Jack”, and he just understands me way more), and for real, I am just way happier now. Having that freedom just really makes me relaxed alot more
Me: *Reads title*
Also me: *Looks at my "best friend"*
Dear God
That's gay
@@Peaneslol Ok just try to be better...
@@iiwitherminecraft2787 okay then you don't
same. just... same.
This video speaks to me. I know how frustrating it is to be stuck with people who bring you down. I had a toxic classmate not too long ago who got angry at me for telling jokes and being funny because they thought I was annoying. I started to dread being around them. And the worst thing about these toxic relationships is that you can’t always cut them out of their life even if you want to, because you’re forced to see them every day at school or any other environment. My most hated types of people are the ones who go around bringing people down and cutting down their happiness. They’re cowards.
4:27
Spongebob and friends go camping episode?!
omg I GET IT NOW
OMG
Yes, spot on 👌
Extraordinary Hybrid a
Yes
Thank you for that talk at the end
Awww Alex! If you got fake friends then get them away from you immediatly hiss!
*slurp slurp slurp*
Pj's daycare? *IT'S A JOKE PLS DONT OBLITERATE ME*
Ania da Peasant
SENPAI~
Senpai Ania~ .o.
👌
SENPAAAAAAAAAAIIIIIIII
I love your art, animations, and personality. You are so underrated just like a bunch of these great animators. I hope you see more exposer in your future because you deserve it! Love you Alex 💛
Ava Beljaeff ikr? they all gotta collab together one day! they’ve inspired me to start working hard on animations on my channel
@@RisingJay exactly. They inspire me to work on my art and of course I love james and jaiden but these guys inspired me to work harder and that success won't just come to you.
anyone notice that at 4:54 she has 6 fingers on one hand???!!!
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I counted the fingers twice just to see if I was hallucinating. 😂
7:18
@@elizabethstone9732 HAHAHAHA I never thought of it like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I watched ALL the episodes of Gravity Falls
@@rose21234 HAHAHA😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 #GravityFalls
hi, I had as a lot of people toxic friends but its a different story how they treated me but you made this video and this made me realize that I just have to leave them and stop thinking about them this video helped me a lot!! thx
I have a best friend right now who I thought was my best friend until she brought out her toxic side. I’m too scared to confront her about it
Slowly back away from her. She’s not worth your time
Cool beans thanks for the advice. A few days ago I got the courage up to confront her and it turns out she wasn’t worth my time because she pretended she was sorry and would miss me. I ignored her. But the next day 20 of her friends surrounded me and shouted horrible, kind of racist things and threatening me to leave the country and she pretended it wasn’t her fault and it was mine. I had a minor panic attack. And ever since then, she has tried her absolute best, every single day! To make me jealous and act like she’s popular and shoving her friends in my face. I have none at the moment. Honestly I have come to the realization that I should’ve never stayed friends with her. Someone who uses you for popularity and to make her feel better about herself is not worth it AT ALL. 😢💕
Life in Yellow I’d just say, assuming you’re in school, whatever year you maybe in, make sure you do well in studies and set your future up, people get better as they age, I found proper friends only ‘‘tis year, I’m 17 so yea, but it’s not that hard to be alone for a while, we have the Internet now.
Procrastination yeah. I’m 13. Studying makes me much happier :)
Life in Yellow yeah, you’ve got a lot of time. Make sure to do well at school, you don’t have to have friends, especially if they’re just there jus because. I was pretty much alone till 16, so just stay on the Internet, improve yourself be kind and don’t let people use you. You’ll find real friends with time. People tend to be less bitchy and well like they are when they are older rather than your age. Remember, it will all be better in the future!
I had a toxic friend but they were so clingy so I couldn’t leave them. They eventually turned me into a toxic friend and I didn’t even realise. Thankfully I have left now, and I have new friends, and I am good friends with the person that I was toxic too.
I know dude... I FEEL U😅😢
OMG I love the new style so much!! :) Come to think of it, I think I had a few of these types of relationships specifically when you talked about playing tag, it rang a bell. I remember I used to play with these boys, and come to think of it I don't know why I did, but we played run away from me, basically, where I run after people, and when I tag them, they still run away from me. Anyway, great video! :D
CeeSaw so weird that that happened, but awesome video nonetheless
Thanks for making this video, this was kinda a wake up call for me because i deal with toxic friends and for a long time they made me feel like my feelings did'nt matter and that I was just overreacting about everything but it's up to you. You need to decide if it's worth it being brought down and feeling useless all the time is worth pleasing a few people . and that you don't need to put yoursef through that and that you deserve better as a person :)
(sorry i just needed to put this out there for me and maybe for others who might be going through the same thing sorry if i worded it wrong)
Me: *appears*
Jayson: That’s gay
Me: M’kay.
*Edit*
*omg 100 likes i love you*
*Edit 2*
200 likes!!! Thanks a bunch!
that's big gay
J
300th like
You're welcome
The Lego Series love honeyy
G o o d j a o s hahahah yass