Skinny Girl in Transit S6E4 - After The Blues
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- Опубліковано 5 бер 2020
- Tiwa struggles to come to terms with losing her first pregnancy, and Shalewa looks to Mohammed to clarify issues in their relationship.
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Wilting Rose by Warsheep
Brave by Buki
Dirty Laundry by Apartment VII
Do You Remember Me by Jessica Bongos
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When a woman's done there's no shouting, no dramatics we're just done. Shalewa did a great job.
True that
True! In the coolest voice “it’s time, we can let go now.” No drama indeed.
Oh sure no shouting ,no dramatics,,,in fact no nothing
If only men knew that it would save alot of relationships.
@Oyindamola Akinso yep.
Shalewa fans let's gather here and cry 😭😭😭😭😭😭by hitting the like button and who's happy that Tiwa is ready to go back to Mide
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😓😭😭😭🤯😭😭
Benedicta Azakaye me me me me
😥😥😥
even me too I lost my first pregnant at 6weeks, and the second one 20weeks, am praying for God to give me the one that will stay with me(Amen)
Amen 🙏
Amen my dear
He will IJN
Amen ijn ❤
I hope you now have your baby Ma?
I love how they showed us Mide’s pain from the baby loss. We often don’t see that side. We focus more on the woman & forget the men hurt too
Yeah. It will be nice if they genuinely show it.
Hmmm I wish I saw my partner’s pain
@@faithyande6702 I agree. most times they don't show it
I'm not saying that the man does does not feel the pain that comes from losing a baby but it is different with the woman because she carries the baby in her and sometimes the woman is blamed for the loss of her child people would say that she did not take care of herself when she was pregnant
Hmmmm,true
All you watchers of SGIT, Sign your attendance sheet here👇
We go soon start roll-call
Present ✔️
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Mo ti de🤘🏾🤘🏾
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Present mam
Mide was scientifically created in a lab to be every woman's dream and there is nothing anyone can tell me
yes my dear yes
Foshoko Hahahaha you are mad! But seriously though are there any men out there like Mide’s character?!!!
If he is just that way in real life then abeg the lady with him I jealous her
Jane Nunoo he can’t be. Not that Ayoola is bad oh. It is just that the funding could only make one Mide
In the lab of Abimbola's brain
The script writing, dialogue, the beautiful characters, everything is so real and relatable! These guys deserve multiple awards! UA-cam, do you guys do awards for UA-cam Series????
yes they having been displaying incredible acting skills
I share this view too.. I'm really impressed with it. Very relatable and realistic.
you are wrong. The role of Mohammed is a joke. Every other thing is perfect but that northern man role is a joke. They speak hausa that has no single meaning. Or make silly mistakes when they make a simple sentence in Hausa. In this episode for example, Mohammed is wearing a chain. that is not even possible for the role he is trying to portray. I know they probably forgot or did not even notice. He is probably just wearing his everyday chain and forgot to take it off. his stylist or screen director was supposed to remind him. I mean if you want someone who is not a northerner to act such role, get him a trainer. we say we want to compete with foreign movies or foreign series yet we miss out on little details. If an American needs to act the role of a northerner they will get him a trainer to learn all he needs for 1 year if possible.
@@cradlehaven8137 come and train him then?
Honestly
Prior to Mohammed blurting out the truth, Who else first thought the big secret Mohammed was keeping is that he had a secret wedding in kano (with farida)...
Yes ooo! I thought the "stupid guy" did something that stupid.
Sometimes us guys don't know how good we have it, until it explodes in our faces.
Honestly I thought so too 😂
Meeeeeee🙋.....I did too!! Wouldn't have been funny...but either ways this news too isn't funny...
I swear that's what I thought too
I am not going to lie. This is the saddest episode ever, and I can’t even explain it.
“show me how to love you” is an important to question to ask your partner today.
Damn these hormones...
Oreoluwa Aremo it really is! One guy I was with asked me from the beginning , “what’s your love language” and that really set the tone for tough situations
The most emotional, the most interesting
Someone shud plz tell me wat Mohammed did
@@bukoladammy5308 He had sex with Fareedah
No, the saddest episode was 3
Love how Shalewa handled her issue. I mean, why fight when it's clear there's nothing to fight for ... "it's time. We can let go now. Go home, Mohammed"
A sad move but it was very necessary.
Catherine Anthony chaiiiiii.....very apt sis
Looking back at the Shalewa one will never have expected her to be this mature.
@@AdaobiNnoli Exactly!
Mohammed broke my heart
@@moroladefawehinmi2181 He broke everybody's heart
The main purpose of Mohammed In her life was just to help her grow and be matured and pass on
Shikina.....you meet people for a reason and I'm happy she is mature now
Exactly
Salewa has really grown, I love how she handled that Mohammed Scenario.
Yes oh..infact..
Agreed, but one small slap without breaking a sweat wouldn't have hurt...all else was certainly praiseworthy tho🍹
Jasmine Dokun 😀😀😀
absolutely
Why do guys always say its a mistake, if roles were to be reversed you wouldn't want to hear any of such. I love the way Shalewa handled it, shes now so matured
Imagine "it was a mistake" how did he do to enter in that mistake. If it was with a woman that you just meet yes but no the one everyone knows and who you pretend to not love. Mohammed just go home, leave our Shalewa in peace
@@rosettefeuze7918 Let her focus on her focus abeg.
Mistake is breaking a plate
Mistake is burning your cloth when ironing it.
Mistake isn't have sex with a girl everyone knows Is suppose to be your wife and then telling the girl you love it's a mistake.
The guy is the most matured one to me for being honest
Adaobi Nnoli next thin we will hear now is dat d girl Is pregnant,,shalewa say on ur own joor
After watching today episode I feel like de should bring another episode tomorrow.. How many people de with me on dis one
Meeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Meeeeeeee
Meet oo
wanemi ebele imagine ahhh... waiting for next week is killing me
Meeeee
I totally love the way Shalewa ended her relationship with Mohammed. This episode is too emotional😭😭😭😭.
Finally, to the cast and crew of SGIT, y'all deserve smoking hot akara, bread and a cold bottle of water.
Akara and bread ke 😂😂😂😂
@@danielleese3645 😂😂😂😂😂
You mean coke
@@chidozieibe9734 or zobo sef 🤣😂🤣😂
Now I want akara and bread
We can call Salewa's dumping of Mohammed 'Quality Dumping'😄
@oluwadamilola Ajibade it was an exquisite dumping, dumping with finesse😎
With finesse. I love ittttttt
Hahahahaha
Don't leave me 😁👍...fitnesse at it peak
😂😂😂😂😂
I didn’t expect Tiwa’s weight issues to play into her miscarriage. It makes it so real that our insecurities come back up in a different way. It was so heartbreaking to watch her self destruct.
Farida Belo-Osagie excess weight can surely impact the health of a pregnancy
I know! It was so sad to watch! I wasn't expecting her to say those things to/about herself! 😢😢😢😢😢
"We can let go now" - Shalewa.
I felt that deep in my soul.
I felt that too.
And she was even holding his hands when she said it.😪
E thouccheeeed me mehn😣😣
These kind of communication skills are what we need in this life. "Show me how to luv you" wooow. This is my lifetime favourite series.
That sentence resonated within me so much that I had to pause the series to analyse that sentence and how it would help a lot of
confused partners.
this words make my knees weak
Yet, how many actually listen when u answer
"show me how to love you" - a love language. Mide, A king, I stan.
I honestly don't know where to start because this episode exemplified various themes:growth, grief and so on.
First off, I have never been more repulsed by Mo until now, he displayed every trait of a red flag : Manipulation, playing victim and trying to bite more than he can chew but the star of the episode is how Shalewa handled the situation. Our Sha baby displayed maturity that has evolved over the past seasons. To our TiwaMide, Tiwa we felt and understood your pain, however, after taking time off to process things yourself, the pain must also be shared with Mide. Let me stop here before Mama Tiwa wires me anointing oil.
Mohammed is a big Sly
Wolis anointing oil that does wonders with his 3 pieces of cow skin
Lol
I see no future with Muhammad and Salewa
Very well said
With the way Shalewa handles issues I can boldly say she’s more matured and stronger than Tiwa. Mohammed should stop stressing our girl 👧 for us .. Shalewa we love u 😍 so much
Mhaggie A.M.A rightttttttttt 😭 she is such a strong beautiful lady
❤❤
I admire her calm and way to handle this matter... Courage Shalewa ❤️
More matured and stronger? Don't know about that o! Different situations, different problems. But I like the fact that Shalewa rarely runs to her mother with her problems even under the same roof. Small argument with Mide, Tiwa packed bag to mother's house!
@@ememobongnkana because they are different, everyone handle situation differently
Wow, this episode is soooo apt! Seeing Tiwa on the operating table being prepped for an evacuation took me back to 2017 and my own miscarriage. Ndani TV did their home work! Thank you for doing your research and telling this story for the countless women like me that are not encouraged by our society to grieve for the child that never got the chance to fully form. The child that left our bodies before the 12 week mark, the child we never got to see on a scan. That child! We grieve for all of you that lost a child at whatever age!!!!
Olajumoke Aruwajoye yes!!!! I still celebrate birthdays that never were even though I’ve moved on to have 3 beautiful children the loss of those that weren’t still stings! I felt it for her because that loss is exactly what happened to me. The promise that wasn’t
Sending you a big virtual hug! You never forget but thank God for the ones who have come after
😭😭😭😭two gone😭
I had one and I wasn't even aware, wasn't even married sef. Bf didn't believe I had a miscarriage and he couldn't be bothered. I went through evacuation myself,I had no one with me. Stayed in the hospital for 6 hours,called a cab to take me home. I couldn't tell anyone,I cried my eyes out.
@@preciouschideraalumona5143 I'm so sorrrryyyyyyyy... I'm really so sorry... This pains my chest
I cried when Mide cried. I remember blaming myself when I lost my bf August 2011. I blamed myself for not being prayerful enough and for not being on talking terms with him prior to his passing. I fell sick and was admitted for days until the reality set in, he wasn't coming back, I don't have the power to turn back the hands of time.
I finally felt at peace when he came to me in the dream all smiles and bade me goodbye. Sometimes we need that extra conviction, that rude awakening to enable us accept the reality that we can't change the course of nature rather we can prepare better and live better for the days ahead.
May God comfort u. Stay strong dear. It's never easy
I'm sorry for your loss, i have walked that path, i don't know how you felt, what i know is that: that pain of having something taken from you and to never have it back... i have felt that too.
Your story is so familiar. Difference is he was already my ex. Why it got to me more was that I dreamt about it and 6 months later he really died. I was a shadow of myself. I also blamed myself for not praying enough for him or checking on him regularly. He left 2 beautiful children with his baby mama. I have since appreciated life more. I thank God everyday for the GIFT OF LIFE
@@ememudoh1968 it is well with you dearie
It is well. I understand that pain of losing someone you love dearly. Mine was my brother. God knows best
This series is underrated. It should have more views and likes.
ogba esther very underrated. I felt it so deep
facts
Very true...one of the best out here...real life lessons
It doesn't have that much publicity. I Just found out about it last month.
Maybe that's why it's underrated
The series is the best
I think it will.
This episode has many lessons, the pain of shalewa, Mide and Tiwa is what alot of people deal with. Thumbs up Ndani TV and SGIT Crew👍👍
True.
10:3Honestly after watching this I realized how self acceptance (physical and amongst others) is so important and if you don't deal with it on your own, before marriage, it's more difficult to deal with (together) in your marriage. Tiwa is successful, married to a loving and supportive man, strong praying Christian mother but also not perfect and human. However, look at how much she blamed herself and her body for losing her baby. She forgot what she has, who is there for her, who she believed in, who she is. It's sad and painful because she can't see that it's not her fault. One area of her life that she didn't deal with, affected almost every area she was "perfect" in.
She needed to understand that she is human and she is beautiful in her own way just like Mide would always tell(struggle to convince) her. Grieve Tiwa but not at the cost of losing everything else❤️.
I forgot this is a series😂🤦
I just love u, Rachel! U just echoed my mind totally!
You took the words out of my mouth....
Beautiful comment!
Kudos to you sis! Self esteem issues always show up no matter what the issue is one might deal with in a relationship. If Mide was cheating, she would have blamed herself and her body. If he suddenly became violent, again she would blame herself. If Mide became obsessed with work, and she felt ignored, etc., and the list goes on. We must check ourselves and love up on ourselves at all times, as you alluded to.
When she was yelling at herself I almost cried. You said it all sis. It was so sad.
I will never understand why people call cheating a ‘mistake’. HOW IS IT A MISTAKE ABEG? Mtchew, nonsense and ingredients😒 I love how Shalewa handled the situation though.. no shouting, no crying, no drama, I’m so proud!
Cass ooo...so i found you here...small world baby
NNEDI AZOLIKE Lmaoo, yes oo... very small world sis!
Who would think that these guys would show their mad acting skills on a web series. This episode was an emotional rollercoaster. You could see from the look in Shalewa's eyes, as Mohammed was talking, that she'd had enough.
And Tiwa's pain was so real. Great episode really.
Michael Kolapo I saw disgust in her face😂
The look on her face was like 🤨🤨🤨
@@basseycomfort9997 & she said "even if u don't tell me I knw"
She already knw he ws gonna fuck up... She literally begged him to take her along... She even went as far as learning Hausa so she dd fit in... Bt las las men ar... Lip sealed
This tiwa was just like mide when he lost his dad
Grief is crazy mannnnnn😭
Shalewa’s growth is outstanding she didn’t show weakness. now Mohammed you can take her to Kano hmm continue
i just love shalewa's calmness... gosh she's so mature ....
Like.... she has really grown...
I was torn into pieces with the cycle of grief Tiwa went through and I couldn’t relate more after going through it thrice. The loss of a child is unparalleled, you have “no memories” to hold on to, only the constant what ifs and it stays with you for the rest of your life even after birthing other children! 💔 In our society where people pop babies left right and center, women shy away from being open about their loss and it’s so easy to feel like a failure, to feel frustrated like God loves us any less than He loves the next person, like no one understands and like you’re all alone as the next woman who has gone through the same experience conceals her truth for the fear of being perceived as less. Its so easy for us to project every feeling of pain, depression, regrets etc on the beautiful creatures God has given to us as Husbands, forgetting that they “lost” too. We expect them to be superhuman and take all the pain away and it’s only “human” that these men struggle to keep up with grieving with us and themselves. A miscarriage can greatly rock even the most beautiful and stable marriage. Please let this be a reminder to anyone who has gone through one, is going through one or knows someone who is going through one to be KIND to themselves and be comforted in the fact their miracle is near!❤️
well said lost 2 myself, it was a very painful feeling and i couldn't help but blame myself.
Thank you for sharing. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing ♥️♥️.You are amazing.
It's well sis, God will give you yours.
Your comment moved me even move than d episode with I cried thru though! Th pain of loss is always strong even if it a fetus
The disgust on Shalewa's face when Mo was talking says its all. Oh my Mide, a definition of perfect husband.
Yes I captured that in my review and called it the look of finality!!!
When I was thinking Chris and Mohammed were also made from the same clay as Mide but nah, they were made from loamy soil ....they actually served their babes breakfast 😌
Yes ooo 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Mohammed before sleeping with faridat: you can’t come with me to Kano
Mohammed after sleeping with farida: you can come with me to Kano
Mohammed you re not doing well at all
Somebody that His head has hit the floor! If he took Shalewa to Kani we would have saved ourselves all this heartache. Besides, why do I think his going to Kano without Shalewa was all part of the plan , Small time now, Farida or whatever she is called will say she is pregnant....
@@IfeoluwaIyaniwura scopatuumana......the prediction is breaking my heart abeg
dolapo eyisanmi 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@kokobee9583 I swear lol my heart jumped!
Ifeoluwa Iyaniwura you knowwww! Mr Stupid
Today's episode 😭is too emotional, but we move. Happy Independence day to my follow Ghanaians.SGIT family ❤️🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Very very emotional. I want a Mide
Ghanaians leave our chat 😂😂😂
@@naomiihedimbu6844 ,🙄🙄🙄
@@naomiihedimbu6844 😒 really
Happy independence day ❤
Why do Mide have to be the perfect gentleman in all his movies?
I just love this man
zina kachi not in Industreet
Not in Unmarried. Hahaha he has started taking different roles
Not in industreet
He was horrible in industreet. I couldn’t believe my eyes at first, hated him so much in that show. Lol I guess he’s just a great actor
@@faye8694 Hahahha now I want to watch industreet
I don't like the way Mama Tiwa is limping. She needs to get healed like ASAP
Me toooo
True talk. Why isn’t Woli praying?
Gabriel G Odigiri where is Woli and the anointing oil?
Gabriel G Odigiri 🤣🤣🤣
Me too 😒
I remember when i was ready to let go of a 3 years cheating, heartbreaks and toxic relationship. I used to fight, shout, cry, yelled and even lost my sense of reasoning because of this same relationship, one day i couldn't take it no more and decided to quietly and peacefully let go. I swear that was the end i never looked back. He was shocked, even i was shocked by my actions that particular day no yelling, no cry, no questioning just a simple pack your things and get out of my house period that was it. Even when he did everyday to get the forgiveness he always get it was too late this time i never looked back.
I relate to you sis 16 yrs cheating losing my mind, God grace bought me back. In left the marriage. Never look back.
When a woman has had enough she will take a honest action that will be beneficial to only her irrespective of anything else.
11yrs of heartbreak, crying, yelling and no going back because i've got my peace now
💙💙
Marie Claudia me too! After 2 whole years of misery, holding on to the few good times as a basis to not let go, when I was finally done I was done indeed. No shouting, no pleading, no begging. I let him go. Didn’t even block his number. I just went to pray to God to keep me strong in my stance to stay away. Of course he came back, begging, promising heaven and earth. But oh I was certainly done. I was ready to face whatever devils would be out there or remain single for life. And it was the best decision I could have ever made.
This is arguably THE BEST EPISODE OF SGIT EVER!!!!!!! HANDS DOWN! MY GOSH!!!!!
Ehhh💃💃 see our Adenike here.. waiting for ya reaction o
Me too! Hope to still see your review o. We'll wait till you're available to make it happen!
As in! I tell you.
Ndani TV mehn plain pure reality!!!!
Can't wait for your reaction 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
This show deserves an award! In fact multiple awards! They’ve discussed real life topics and did it with so much power! Well done!
facts this is an underrated tweet
Most relatable show!
Yup, one of the best Nigerian tv shows ever
You are right dear 🙏🙏
@@hannahbamwerinde9629 tweet ke 😅😅😅😅
MAMA TIWA TOLD MIDE TO RUB THE ANOINTING OIL ON HIS SHINY HEAD...SHINY HEAD + OIL= MIRROR REFLECTION
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Lmao
😂
Ori e ti o n dan kola kola 😂😂😂..That statement got me laughing real hard
there is no space oooo there is no space my dear. Go back to your husband's house. Thats a good mother!
That's my mum right there!
The term "husband's house" is very misogynistic...
A good mother would comfort you
@@abigailmarughu3403 She can comfort you, ask you what's wrong still, ask you to go back. That's a typical African mum right there
@@edithnwagwu2423 but it's not "her husband's house"
*THAT'S 👏🏿A 👏🏿VERY 👏🏿STUPID 👏🏿AND👏🏿 MISOGYNISTIC 👏🏿 STATEMENT*
I really love how shalewa’s character has been developed through out the entire show. It’s funny how she used to be so irresponsible and dated people’s husbands only to stay with one guy for all this trouble. Any girl in her situation is right to end the relationship
By far the best episode
Please, how many people's husband. Isn't it just one person? Easy oo, easy oo
"There is no space o, go back to your husband's house." 😂😂I can totally relate with Tiwa's problem. Running away or ignoring the problem does not solve the problem. Communication is important.
GiftWogu lol! Asin! Their mom is the realist! After using a calm voice ,she concluded with there is no space in my house o!
@@elohorgordon6694 You know this!
She is truly running away rather than speak and cry with her hubby
Yes ooo, I 2nd dat....🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's not running, she needed space
I legit cried when Tiwa was crying.😢
Sending love and light to everyone that has ever gone/is going through what Tiwa is going through.🙏🏽💚
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 for Shalewa, Tiwa and Mide. This episode had me remember when I lost my first pregnancy with twin after marriage, it was a horrible time for hubby and I but after the rain comes our beautiful Princess. My prayer for anyone in this situation is PEACE BE STILL in your heart 💔💔
Love Zion Oronsaye 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Nothing prepares you for a miscarriage. After 2 miscarriages within 4 months, I realized that you will need help. You start second guessing yourself. So you need someone to be with you to remind you of God’s love
See the way Shalewa broke up with Muhammed,
that’s how it’s done ladies.
Ahh abeg leave pehsin!!
Very apt. Better to flee!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💃💯
Mabo Duke 🤨
Shalewa is a whole vibe
Ah so now that Mohammed has slept with Farida, Shalewa can now go to Kano. The same Kano that she couldn't go before.....ah Mohammed is wicked
Felicia Andorful very wicked o!
VERY WICKED
Ikr!! I was so angry with him
Yeye boyfriend
..don't mind him... rubbish 🙄🙄😬😬😬in fact I'm vexing now
When a woman shouts she’s still in love, when she’s quiet she is done. Tiwa as for you, you get cap you no get head o.
I love Mama Tiwa here
"Which room"
After marriage ur room is taken biko😂
This episode got my emotions everywhere. Having lost two babies myself , it felt so real. I'm grateful I had a great support system. Man like Mide 🙌🏽🙌🏽.
Remi Tidemma You is strong! You is amazing! GOD Bless you
God is with you
Remi Tidemma I felt it real also, d pain d emotional trauma , I lost two babies too😭😭😭🙏
So strong!
My wife & I lost 2 babies also within the space of 3 months. I can't tell you half the pain I exoerienced. My wife? That is a whole other story. We've got 2 kids now, and grateful every day for every moment we have with them.
And yeah, we talk about meeting our 2 boys in heaven too...someday.
Couples should have heartfelt conversations when going through trying time....Shalewa is the definition of growth "Go home" is the way abeg
Shalewa = darling
Tiwalade = self-centred
Mide = mature
Tiwa's mother = iya rere
Didi = fun
Wosi = funny
Mohammed = confusion.
A word description 😊
👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
You are the best
I don't think we can call Tiwa's actions as selfish. Those of us who's had a miscarriage or two will know how Tiwa feels. Asin you tend to blame everything and everyone and lastly yourself.
Tiwalade = grieving
You are right 🤣🤣
Don't nobody wanna meet your parents Mo...I never liked his lack of backbone, mama Tiwa raised strong daughters who need strong men! Go home Mohammed, loved the pat on the shoulder before the grand exit...that's how we should do it women...act and walk like you know your worth. Woman! thy presence brings favor.
Hannah Kalu right ??? Don’t no body wanna meet your parents in KANU😂😂😂😂
Isn’t it interesting that when Mide’s dad died, Tiwa was criticizing Mide for doing what she’s doing right now? Mourning is hard. I feel like it’s weird to get mad at someone because they’re not doing it ‘the right way’
Amanda A not to justify any mourning as more impartant than the other....
Mide’s dad was sick for a bit of time and Mide had a stronger emotional attachment because this was his father, it’s possible that Tiwa did not understand how much pain.
But now this time it’s the loss of their child both felt with no expectation of it happening.
Good point!
U this Amanda . It is your type that your guy will piss off and you will remind him of that thing he did to you on the 30th of December 2008 by 11pm. 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
@@brokeyoutubers 😂😂😂 while drinking tea
@@brokeyoutubers lol
Kaiii the SGIT team deserves an oscar award. This series is relatable 100% of the time to real life happenings
My mum in-love who is 67 is stuck on SGIT. Its so bad that she's the first to inform me once a new episode is released
PRAISE IGWE absolutely
Who else is loving this short look on Shalewa?? 😍😍
No one should have to marry anyone who makes them afraid to speak their minds. Love how this episode ended. This marriage is so real to us ooo.
Tiwa's scene in the mirror had me crying real tears. The blame women feeling when losing a baby is immense. She captured that moment so well! Well done Tiwalade!
It's so surreal to me. Just lost my baby 5 days ago. Still trying to heal.
Try Over so sorry for your loss
@@youandi9244
Oh my!! Sorry for your loss dear. It will get better with time. I lost pregnancy also on Jan 1st 2019, can never forget it but got preggy 3 months later and baby is fine.
I pray you get your joy soon
God is ur strength dear.
Be strong
More babies on d way dear
Try Over sorry for your lost, God will heal your heart and replace with another
Team Ghana 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 waiting like🥳🥳🥳🥳🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please you should bring nkosua ne moko 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yaba 🤣🤣🤣
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Independence Day gift my people 🇬🇭
Whenever mide calls her name "tiwa" I melt . He calls her name like an Angel, kilode!!!
I'm going through Tiwa's phase! I hope this episode helps me grow through it....😪😭😭😭😭
How are you now?
Hope you're fine, sis?
Omg how are you mama❤️ love & light 🤗🤗
The Lord strengthen you, Sis
Prayer is the key
Tiwa's pain while talking to herself in front of the mirror is so real. I'm in tears😭
Yes... I felt that!
Lol abeg what was real? Stop lying
@@fayyyy___ haba that's her own way of expressing the pain biko
I almost cried😭
She never cried though. Was a bit awkward for me to watch.
Mide should have worn that hairnet over his beard not on his head. There's nothing on his head.
Hahahahaaa
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Savage!!!
Lmaooo 🤣
Was actually tearing up till i saw your comment.....
You are mean🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm happy that this show addresses issues like this. Miscarriage is not a funny experience at all and it seems to be quite common but people don't talk about it so much. I remember my first miscarriage like it just happened. I was already 5months gone, it was the most devastating period of my life, I could already feel his kicks, we had already connected and I was just looking forward to holding him-I blamed myself for so long, and oh, I cried! Then it happened a second time. I still wonder how I survived those periods but like they say "you don't know how strong you are until being strong is the only option you have".
I finally got my rainbow baby this January and he's the most beautiful soul. I still hurt when I think about the losses, there are still triggers here and there. I don't think women completely forget the pain of miscarriage though it may not cut so deep as time passes. I pray everyone who has gone through miscarriages or going through a miscarriage gets the strength they need to heal and also get their heart's desires.
olanike timothy congrats dear
When Mohammed said “we can act like this never happened” I was like what 😡
But can we clap for Shalewa 👏🏾👏🏾
Namesake
Mama Tiwa plays her character so well --- such a mother.
“ I don’t want to walk on eggshells “ ... the saddest episode yet a lot to learn. Have a relationship that you won’t be afraid of speaking your mind or being judged. Sigh 💔
Now mide feels the same way Tiwa felt when he shut her off after his father's death. And Tiwa is doing the same she didn't like mide doing.
I just loved the realness of this episode. As much as I was rooting for MoSha, I'm glad that Shalewa let it be known that she wasn't taking any bs. Her growth in this series has been amazing! I also loved the candid heart to heart Mide had with Tiwa... I couldn't hold the tears in by the end of the episode. Well done, Ndani 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
OMG, this made me remember the beginning of my practice, I was working as a medical Officer in gynae emergency. The first few cases I saw were miscarriages. I remember how insensitive I was. It was a couple, barely months into their marriage, I think that was the 3rd month. She started crying during consultation after an ultrasound scan reported a missed miscarriage. In my mind I felt like it's just few weeks. Thank God you're not so far into the pregnancy before it happened. I mean it could have been worse. Then I think later that week, we had a seminar, concerning recurrent miscarriage or so. And then I began to wonder, do you know how long she's been planning this? Probably before she decided her wedding dress, or wedding theme among others. What every woman looks forward to in marriage is usually this fruit. I haven't experienced it, but it's really tough. As tough as it is, not as tough as a couple who has had inability to conceive for several years, only to painstakingly go through financially draining, time, emotion, and energy consuming Assisted reproductive Techniques like IVF, and still end up having miscarriage. Husbands, in-laws, family members, please support your women, concerning any form of hardship regarding this.
And fellow medical practitioners, empathy is key. Even if you've seen a million cases just like this one, this is always an index case to the patient. Even though the society and work condition isn't favorable for us, these patients do not deserve to be maltreated. TABLES CAN ALWAYS TURN.
EXCELLENT ACTING AS ALWAYS
Empathy comes easier with experience (not as a doctor but as person who has lost a pregnancy)...miscarriage or the death of one's child is the toughest pain you can ever imagine. It so hard to get over.
There are no right words to say to someone who lost a baby.
Let them take their time and grieve for as long as they want..it's really ok.
Empathy also comes with putting yourself in other people's shoes
If I didn't read any other comment, yours was in caplocks in my heart. Thanks for this. If only people knew...hmmmm
nkjv12 thanks.... that’s exactly the actual meaning of empathy. If you feel it because you have been through it, it is no longer empathy. It becomes experience
Well said o...as a Medical Practitioner, I always ,always, feel my patients pain..I think its cuz am too sensitive but it has helped me help my patients and take life easy
This episode is so real. Mide was right for telling Tiwa that their relationship should not be one that they would be afraid to speak their mind.
Everyone's just talking about how Shalewa has grown so much and that's true👏🏿
But no one's talking about Tiwa's glowth (yes I said glowth)
See Abimbola Craig na😩she has lost so much weight she looked good before and she looks even better now👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 like I'm so proud of her she works out a lot and it paid off 😩😭😭😭😭😭👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Lol glowth that was hilarious
It's funny how the same people who blamed Tiwa when Mide lost his dad "give him space blah blah blah.." are the ones people blaming Tiwa now.
I mean this is practically the same thing Mide did when he lost his dad, the both couple are one and the same they both shutdown and shut people out during a loss, they both need Affirmations from the other person to be sure that the other person genuinely there for them.
Tiwa gets blamed no matter which side of the court she is in(signed by fellow women association) sigh.....
Thank you for this comment. I'll buy malt for you. Women are their own enemies.
Abeg explain! What type of affirmation?
100%
Mide told Tiwa, "show me how to love you".... That is the best phrase of today for me... What an emotional episode, Ndani TV great job!
I hate she is so hard on herself. Man this so
heartbreaking.
Show me how to you love you. Now that is beautiful.
Hadijat Kubrat exactly she is really so hard on herself sometimes I wonder why all the Shell she is using to cover her softness and all. She literally builds a wall so it’s difficult. And that kind of thing is not when you are already married;why she wants to protect herself from wat exactly ???
Rosine-audrey Mbongo i guess she protect herself from being hurt in being vulnerable. So many layers. Idk
Sometimes Tiwa is my least favorite person on this show. She’s so difficult
she's not difficult she's real. human beings are complex and confusing beings. I like that no character on this show is perfect it makes it more real
I sometimes feel so, like 'wetin dey do this babe sef' so rigid
Yeah, most times she’s not my fave at all.
She's annoying jo, what does she even feel like. Because Mide is nice to her, she just walks out anyhow. She likes attention jare, would she have done that with her first Boyfriend that left her with no explanation. Mtschew
She is acting by the script
Mide o. The emotions you portray, my God, I could feel it to my bones, I see it in your eyes. Great acting bro. I was literally in tears when u begged Tiwa to show you how to love her. ..... shivers are running down my spine. 👌.... i need a mide in my life. Please mide me somebody😂😂😂. Come to think of it, this should be a new slogan ‘ Have you been Mide’d ? 😂😂😂😂
Hahaha I want to be Mided ooo
henrietta metieh 😂. no sister, I have not o
Amaka Vlogs 😀😀
Vivian Okoro 😂
Lol
So much to unpack in this episode... memories... thank God for strength
Why is everybody expecting mide to be strong, didn’t he also loose a child ? I’m confused why is he masking his grief
I was thinking the EXACT SAME THING.
I believe this is going to be an issue later on
A woman would grief more than Co's she is the one with the pain and the one pple are likely to laugh at
Joy Chinemerem you are right but I just think mide shouldn’t be told to be strong he is a human being too and should be allowed to grief🤷🏽♀️
Yeah. It’s sad that men are asked to man up and pretend all is fine
When Tiwa said "It's your fault" I thought she was talking to us. I was like B...?
But that scene, is devastating. It's not your fault Tiwa, YOUR BODY IS A GOOD BODY, A CAPABLE BODY!
"Teach me how to love you"😭😭😭😭😭I wish someone could genuinely tell me that 😢Mide is a gentleman ✌
If you've watched "Assistant Madams" here and you are absolutely joyous watching this, come and mark attendance!
Wolexis present oo
The way I abandoned AM ehn... I lowkey feel bad
Assistant madam ❤️❤️❤️❤️
😂😂😂 I’m only there for the checheche intro song
@@NiellaObijiaku 🎶Lara you dey che che che, badt girl Chioma you dey che che che, Tamara you dey che che che, assistant madams ooo 🎶🎶🎶 🤣🤣🤣
Don't know why pple find pleasure in disliking such beautiful n educating series like this...Anyways Happy 63rd Independence Day everyone.
awwww Tiwa
Shalewa now grown up babe❤
This is what I call maturity
Thank you
Bridget is this you?
@@giftyntikonadu7760 yes dear pls who is this?
As in Friday suddenly feels like eternity.😐
Sadists exists my dear
JEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE! SEASON 6 IS A BANGER!
Olumide took this entire episode for me! ♥️ Even though his pain concerning the miscarriage is also very valid...he exemplified the true meaning of unconditional love and marital solidarity, in how he pursued Tiwa as she struggled to begin the healing process. That's EXACTLY how a husband should be - not just a lover and a provider - but an actual best friend and an ally. Tiwa is definitely being emotionally challenged as their marriage matures - and it will be interesting to see how addressing her own personal wounds will help her blossom. WELL DONE on this episode, team!
Tiwa is so beautiful that even when she’s angry it seems like she’s smiling
This episode shows exactly what happens in relationships, families and marriages every day. It's all undiluted and relatable.
Thank you so much ndanitv and Abimbola Craig
Mide, man like no other, storybook husband - "show me how to love you" Oshey!!! 🙌🏾 Now every single woman in the comments section will be bawling and disturbing God to reveal their own Mide in 3...2...1....This episode sha. Gave me all the feels. I cried along with Tiwa in that bathroom scene. So much to unpack in just one episode. Shalewa all I can do is 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙋🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Major respect for the woman your character has blossomed into.
Na real storybook husband
Hi Somawina, I see you
SisiYemmieTV love you Mama❤️❤️❤️
Been in her shoes, blamed myself, I'm in tears. but what every woman should know is you aren't to blame. some just don't stay. but also never cease praying
I just love the chemistry between Mide and Tiwa,their role interpretation is just magical,topnotch👌💯💯
Tiwa lost her unborn child, Mide is going through heartache, Shalewa and Mohammed are no longer!....What in the wahala is this?! This season the Skinny Girl in transit embraces real issues and I just can't wait to see how our favorite characters of the show navigate their way through the heartbreaks! The actors gave a stellar performance in throughout the whole episode! This shows is lit!♥️👑🙏😊
Frances Jean Louis 👍🏾
You forgot Tiwa's mom😆
Lit lit litty, toooo lit sista!
This is a typical real life situation. We act strong when we are with people, but secretly we wet our pillows with tears. Mide crying secretly and Tiwa hiding how she feel isn't healthy for relationships and that's what a lot of persons do. COMMUNICATION IS KEY!
Me. That's just me
Guys I am so confused. Shocked at Mohammed. I may be wrong but I think this event isn't consistent with the character of Mohammed portrayed in previous seasons. Farida had stayed in his house for sometime in the past, he did not touch her, whether because he is in love with Shalewa or because of religious beliefs, as per Islam holds virginity before marriage in high esteem and I want to believe many of them still practice that. I don't know his reason but he sha behaved himself like the perfect gentleman. After that period when she left his house , he clearly told Shalewa " I choose you". Fast forward, him and Shalewa crossed that mountain, grew stronger in love and then, he travels home for 3 days and....... Or did they get married while he was there and the act was based on that? He doesn't seem to be saying they forced him to marry her. Also Shalewa's statement " you did not practice what you preach", I interpreted it as Shalewa and him have not slept together? If that is true, it even makes it more confusing. If you have been able to resist "that" with the love of your life, how couldn't you resist someone you have no feelings for? Confused. Confusing. Confusion. 🤔
Good point! We need some clarification on what happened in Kano.
Life with Patience hopefully he’s just pulling Shalwe’s legs to see how she still react. Hopefully 🙏🏾
Well, seeing as men are very strange beings, you can’t put anything past them.
@@sweetartgee1100 lol as if women arent strange too. What he did he at Kano has to be clarified before we can point fingers becasue already he loved Shalewa so why then did that happen. You can remember that his brother made him pick up Farida last min which also meant he had no intention of her presence or he travelling with her. He too he should have controlled himself tho at times men break but at least he just should have controlled himself
@@joelamineydawaare1024 This is even more than him controlling himself. if he truly loved and RESPECTED shalewa then he wouldn't have even laid a finger on Farida. what else is to be clarified? theres no excuse for him.
Shalewa has finally learnt that Love isn't enough for her relationship with Mohammed to thrive. No need fighting a lost battle. Let him go!
Love how Shalewa pats him on the shoulder. Classic!
Happy Independence to my Ghanian Folks!🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Meanwhile....one part of me is too scared to watch this Episode, oh mehn, how was Tiwa Able to stand up from that seat without anyone noticing.
this is sad o, I'm in Severe pain, our Baby's baby is gone😭😭😭
Tewan Nyong thank you ooo sissy
Thank you
Me too😭😭😭
Happy independence celebrations
Thank you
The first scene reminded me of when I lost my 2 months old pregnancy, the evacuation process was such a traumatic experience for me. I felt this scene physically and emotionally!!
Couldn't even watch such a traumatising thing to watch
This was a well paced writing.. cldnt take my ears of their words. every line had a bed in my head where they fell on softly. kudos to the writers. The dream is to write for a web series like this. some day, one day. kabaya!
Bro was you speaking in tongues there,??🔥 🔥
@@susannewton6546 LOOOOL