So sad for the kids. The horror that came over their faces hearing the judge order parenting time with dad speaks VOLUMES about mom. Emotional damage is far beyond disturbing.
The mom's insistence that she's not alienating her children against the dad is completely negated when you see that she has one of the daughters SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO HER during this hearing. This should NEVER have been allowed.
My mom was great at this. Never saw my dad or meet him. I have a picture of him now. He looks like a nice gentleman. But I’ll never know. Thank you mom. All is forgiven Blessings Be
Well done mommy you have successfully raised two daughters who will spend the rest of their lives, screaming that they are "triggered", and they will never cope in the big wide world while they live with the egg donor!.
This is what shocked me too. Why are the kids allowed in there. You can see and hear when mom wants to talk, judge doesn't acknowledge her and then she is unmuting the mic so everyone can hear the girls screaming and making noise...it is beyond manipulative using the kids.
Hell yes!!! Finally a judge that sees just exactly what is up and is not afraid to say it clearly and hold the pos parent responsible!! A day in jail for each missed visit, fantastic!!! 👏 👏 👏
It's nice to see a mother's feet being held to the fire. I have friends who divorced and they have no problem working together for the kids and not even needing a court order. I don't know why it has to be so difficult for some women to allow the children time with dad.
This can happen to anyone. The biggest mistake I ever made was letting my daughter go live with her Dad. Parental alienation is REAL. The absolute worst part is not the agony it's caused me but the psychological destruction it's done to my child. She is an adult and the damage done to her because of parental alienation has tainted every relationship she has. IT IS CHILD ABUSE. It is criminal
Thanks for sharing your experience here with everyone. It can happen to everyone, and the help available is still really rare inside the system. Do you think it would have helped you back then, to have somebody help you with useful advice that you could actually apply?
@allifly7873 I haven't seen my children since their mom took off to another state with them. They were really young and she was a pathological liar so I can only imagine what she told them. 😢 That was 1992.
You are currently committing parental alienation right now and can't even see the hypocrisy in your statement. I think there is a reason why you were alienated.
My parents divorced when I was 6, my dad was a cheater and he asked for a divorce. I was angry with my dad for years because he left and why he left. He left my mom heart broken so there were times when I didn’t want to see him or talk to him or have anything to do with him but my mom always encouraged me to have a relationship with him because she also had parents who divorced and her dad was never around. So despite how shifty my dad treated my mom throughout their whole relationship and marriage, she still always encouraged me to forgive him. We still have our issues but it’s a lot better now, especially now that he’s no longer with a jealous witch who didn’t want him to spend time with his kids. He’s got a new girlfriend and she’s a MAJOR upgrade.
Thank you for sharing this with us. Good for your mom, she was graceful enough to help you forgive. And good for you, seeing where certain problems came from.
This scenario is absolutely imposible here in Spain. Saying the words "parental alienation" in a court is against the law. Parental alienation is a succesfull strategy here and the state/goverment makes sure it continues so.
The judge should not allow those children to be in the room with the mother while she's in court she deliberately called them in so that they would be a part of it and hear everything that's going on they shouldn't be involved in that
Unfortunately I never had this opportunity in court. But I do disagree with his belief in saying that a father hasn't loved the child enough if he didn't fight enough because I'm one of those fathers that did fight and hard as I could to be in my child's life but when you have an uneducated and racist as well as biased joke of a family court system in Lake George NY what are you supposed to do especially when it's costing you financially. Still till this day I continue to try and reach out to my child but still get nothing back.
The fact that the children are listening to all of this is disgusting on so many levels! Could she have been any more obvious by hitting that unmute button! Gross! I hope she lost custody of them!! They are going to end up so damaged from her! Is there a full video of this court hearing!
I’m so blown away that a parent would allow a child to sit right next to her during the court, hearing first of all. She should be held in contempt for that. The only reason that mother had that child with her in the room was to instill more fear in the child. That mother should be in jail for that.
"Well, the mom has demonstrably alienated her kids from their dad, and denied him visits. I guess we'll move *eventually* towards regular visits with the dad" Dear Lord in Heaven. Everyone in these comments saying this is fair and praising the judge. But i guess if youre a man, it's the best you can hope for.
What were the daughters doing in this hearing? Did you see them going crazy and crying after the judge said Mom was alienating them against Dad. I don't know if it'll ever be ok for the older girl. I wish more Judges would recognize that Mom's do this. How many Fathers just give up seeing their children because of this behavior? As far as I'm concerned this is one of the top abuses of children and should be treated as such.
I have seen this happen and sadly the father said fuck it I don't care. He's your son just like you want. The child lost mother lied about the father and the father doesn't care.
Some fathers don't know how to deal with a high conflict ex who poisons the kids against them. They have no assistance, or help from somebody who can help them understand what is actually going on with his kids. It is not ok to walk out on your kids, but some fathers or mothers, don't know how to deal with a child who will tell them "I hate you" every day, and refuse to spend time with them.
All mothers are not the best for their children…I’ve watched this woman…I’ll always believe that the mother here tried her best to crucify the dad…even though he probably didn’t do everything right…but still think he’s a whole lot better than her. She was going to destroy him no matter what. She’s very harmful to her children. I bet she’s involved them in everything.
What a sad thing to do to your own children. Doesn't this woman understand how important a healthy father and daughter relationship is? I speak as a Mom and just feel so badly for those girls.
I find it ridiculous how so many just grab content that belongs to others and just repost this same content. I wish they would go hide under a rock. Have you no shame just taking clicks away from the real provider?
I have given the credit in the description, mentioning where I found the video. People share my content on social media all the time without me knowing, as long as they don't claim it's theirs, it's ok. If the original creator of the video wants to give me for information about this case, I will be very grateful because I have a few clients who actually asked me about it but I could not find it. There is no intention in stealing content, but in sharing it here. Many fathers and mothers need examples and to see with their own eyes, that actually some judges understand the problem.
I have re-posted it, and I have stated that in the description. If he wants me to remove it, I will. It's not stealing, people share my posts all the time.
Most of the stuff you see on good old UA-cam is shared around! You shouldn't care who's content it is, it's about getting the content out there so people can realize that this stuff is happening! Everyone should be sharing this stuff honestly!!
I don't know who Ben is, but this is actually my video. Those are all my edits and that's my dog in the lower right corner. My channel has a playlist for this case.
@@kay_el_eff Thank you for commenting and letting me know. If you want me to delete this video I will. I just wanted to share it because this content is much needed, specially for parents going through parental alienation.
Jesus why can't more family courts hire Judges like this.
Straight forward, cares and direct.
Agree
So sad for the kids. The horror that came over their faces hearing the judge order parenting time with dad speaks VOLUMES about mom. Emotional damage is far beyond disturbing.
The mom's insistence that she's not alienating her children against the dad is completely negated when you see that she has one of the daughters SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO HER during this hearing. This should NEVER have been allowed.
I agree.
Exactly. But hopefully they know the truth now.
Is there a longer version of this i can watch? @@janahcoaching
My mom was great at this. Never saw my dad or meet him. I have a picture of him now. He looks like a nice gentleman. But I’ll never know. Thank you mom. All is forgiven Blessings Be
I'm sorry to know that you did not know your father. Never met him? Have you tried finding him?
Look at her whipping the kids up in the background. Getting them to perform for the judge. She's the worst kind of mother.
Yes, I actually would have liked the judge to also punish the mother for that. Why are the girls even there?
@@janahcoaching Yeah. That was pretty grimy. Reminded me of the power plays my ex wife would pull with our kids.
Well done mommy you have successfully raised two daughters who will spend the rest of their lives, screaming that they are "triggered", and they will never cope in the big wide world while they live with the egg donor!.
If the alienator doesn’t follow the rules she’s getting a day in jail, that just brought tears to my eyes! Awesome! Alienation should be a felony!
Why is that child in the room listening to this result. The mother in back ground pulling her hair out.
This is what shocked me too. Why are the kids allowed in there. You can see and hear when mom wants to talk, judge doesn't acknowledge her and then she is unmuting the mic so everyone can hear the girls screaming and making noise...it is beyond manipulative using the kids.
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Hell yes!!! Finally a judge that sees just exactly what is up and is not afraid to say it clearly and hold the pos parent responsible!! A day in jail for each missed visit, fantastic!!! 👏 👏 👏
Yes, that is awesome.
I would love an update on this case.
It's nice to see a mother's feet being held to the fire. I have friends who divorced and they have no problem working together for the kids and not even needing a court order. I don't know why it has to be so difficult for some women to allow the children time with dad.
Yes, it is good to see that a judge will clearly say what happens.
That mom is possessed by demons of anger & deceit -the owners manual
Jealousy and loss of control.
Why does the judge allow the children to be present during this hearing? Outrageous. This makes the judge appear to be quite ignorant.
I would have called her out on that too. Why the heck are the kids in there listening?
Her reaction when the judge says, “I can see that Mr. Cook dearly loves his children.”, tells you everything you need to know…
As a kid of divorce. Parents have to love their children more than they Hate their ex.
Absolutely right.
Great judge
This can happen to anyone. The biggest mistake I ever made was letting my daughter go live with her Dad. Parental alienation is REAL. The absolute worst part is not the agony it's caused me but the psychological destruction it's done to my child. She is an adult and the damage done to her because of parental alienation has tainted every relationship she has. IT IS CHILD ABUSE. It is criminal
Thanks for sharing your experience here with everyone. It can happen to everyone, and the help available is still really rare inside the system. Do you think it would have helped you back then, to have somebody help you with useful advice that you could actually apply?
I'm crying reading this. I did the same. I thought if I didn't I would lose my son. 6mos later he stopped speaking to me. That was 2019.
@allifly7873 I haven't seen my children since their mom took off to another state with them. They were really young and she was a pathological liar so I can only imagine what she told them. 😢 That was 1992.
You are currently committing parental alienation right now and can't even see the hypocrisy in your statement. I think there is a reason why you were alienated.
That's a long time ago. Do you know where your kids are today?
I want to see the court videos that led up to this final video.
I watched this case and the judge had it right. This woman was using mind control on the kids. Horrible !!!!
Do you know where I can find more information about this case? I would love to know who originally posted this so I can thank them and ask questions.
@janahcoaching I would bet Ontropolis has it on her channel, or kay_el_eff channel!
@@janahcoaching It was kay_el_eff
ua-cam.com/play/PLoAI3VV9pVqe7w3O6Alet_0QE5nfm1phP.html&si=3Gri1jPNxHj0uMLQ
Thank you!!!
Do you have the link to the full case video?!? I am having no luck 😢
So many 👍👍👍 to the judge for calling this out !!! 😮😮😮
Wonderful Judge.
What is the name
Does he have other cases on UA-cam
Why are we looking at a tiny screen of boxes that is smaller than all the words you put up the screen??!!??
God bless this Dad and this Judge.
My parents divorced when I was 6, my dad was a cheater and he asked for a divorce. I was angry with my dad for years because he left and why he left. He left my mom heart broken so there were times when I didn’t want to see him or talk to him or have anything to do with him but my mom always encouraged me to have a relationship with him because she also had parents who divorced and her dad was never around. So despite how shifty my dad treated my mom throughout their whole relationship and marriage, she still always encouraged me to forgive him. We still have our issues but it’s a lot better now, especially now that he’s no longer with a jealous witch who didn’t want him to spend time with his kids. He’s got a new girlfriend and she’s a MAJOR upgrade.
Thank you for sharing this with us. Good for your mom, she was graceful enough to help you forgive. And good for you, seeing where certain problems came from.
What a horrible mother. Her feelings for her ex husband have absolutely nothing to do with the children. ZERO. Children should not be used as a tool.
This scenario is absolutely imposible here in Spain. Saying the words "parental alienation" in a court is against the law. Parental alienation is a succesfull strategy here and the state/goverment makes sure it continues so.
In Spain (I know because I grew up there and many of my friends and family are still there), you have laws that discriminate men in horrible ways.
She should lose custody for parental aliemation. Those are children, not tools to be used for her own benefits.
I agree.
Why are those children a party to that hearing
That's what I asked myself too.
Just give him custody problem solved
There are many kids who would do considerably better if dad had sole custody of them.
Wish I had a fair judge
She signaled to them and then unmutted
The judge should not allow those children to be in the room with the mother while she's in court she deliberately called them in so that they would be a part of it and hear everything that's going on they shouldn't be involved in that
Agree.
Unfortunately I never had this opportunity in court. But I do disagree with his belief in saying that a father hasn't loved the child enough if he didn't fight enough because I'm one of those fathers that did fight and hard as I could to be in my child's life but when you have an uneducated and racist as well as biased joke of a family court system in Lake George NY what are you supposed to do especially when it's costing you financially. Still till this day I continue to try and reach out to my child but still get nothing back.
Men who are good and fit fathers should not have to fight to see their kids.
@@janahcoaching💯 thank you definitely shouldn't have to and my child will know.
Your child will end up seeing things for what they are.
The fact that the children are listening to all of this is disgusting on so many levels! Could she have been any more obvious by hitting that unmute button! Gross!
I hope she lost custody of them!! They are going to end up so damaged from her!
Is there a full video of this court hearing!
She does it on purpose.
This is so sad for so many reasons.
I’m so blown away that a parent would allow a child to sit right next to her during the court, hearing first of all. She should be held in contempt for that. The only reason that mother had that child with her in the room was to instill more fear in the child. That mother should be in jail for that.
I think she should be in jail.
"Well, the mom has demonstrably alienated her kids from their dad, and denied him visits. I guess we'll move *eventually* towards regular visits with the dad"
Dear Lord in Heaven. Everyone in these comments saying this is fair and praising the judge.
But i guess if youre a man, it's the best you can hope for.
Why are the girls hearing this and their mother’s responses? They have no idea what she is saying/screaming and the girls are highly upset.
What were the daughters doing in this hearing? Did you see them going crazy and crying after the judge said Mom was alienating them against Dad. I don't know if it'll ever be ok for the older girl. I wish more Judges would recognize that Mom's do this. How many Fathers just give up seeing their children because of this behavior? As far as I'm concerned this is one of the top abuses of children and should be treated as such.
The children were there bc the mother wanted to garner more sympathy by parading sad and frightened children in front of the court.
Agreed.
Love this judge
This mother needs to be in prison
I have seen this happen and sadly the father said fuck it I don't care. He's your son just like you want. The child lost mother lied about the father and the father doesn't care.
Some fathers don't know how to deal with a high conflict ex who poisons the kids against them. They have no assistance, or help from somebody who can help them understand what is actually going on with his kids. It is not ok to walk out on your kids, but some fathers or mothers, don't know how to deal with a child who will tell them "I hate you" every day, and refuse to spend time with them.
My brother's ex destroyed our relationship with our niece she hates us. It's horrible.
That's terrible, also for her.
Notice that she has allowed the girls into the courtroom. 😡
Teaching them to be man haters. Good job, Mom.
All mothers are not the best for their children…I’ve watched this woman…I’ll always believe that the mother here tried her best to crucify the dad…even though he probably didn’t do everything right…but still think he’s a whole lot better than her. She was going to destroy him no matter what. She’s very harmful to her children. I bet she’s involved them in everything.
Of course, involving the kids in these matters is a typical strategy alienating parents use.
@@janahcoaching this is so true…it’s sad it has to happen.
Why the H*?# are the children present at this hearing???
I asked myself the same.
What a sad thing to do to your own children. Doesn't this woman understand how important a healthy father and daughter relationship is? I speak as a Mom and just feel so badly for those girls.
She could have a personality disorder.
I find it ridiculous how so many just grab content that belongs to others and just repost this same content. I wish they would go hide under a rock. Have you no shame just taking clicks away from the real provider?
I have given the credit in the description, mentioning where I found the video. People share my content on social media all the time without me knowing, as long as they don't claim it's theirs, it's ok. If the original creator of the video wants to give me for information about this case, I will be very grateful because I have a few clients who actually asked me about it but I could not find it. There is no intention in stealing content, but in sharing it here. Many fathers and mothers need examples and to see with their own eyes, that actually some judges understand the problem.
Whyd you steal bens content?
I have re-posted it, and I have stated that in the description. If he wants me to remove it, I will. It's not stealing, people share my posts all the time.
Most of the stuff you see on good old UA-cam is shared around!
You shouldn't care who's content it is, it's about getting the content out there so people can realize that this stuff is happening!
Everyone should be sharing this stuff honestly!!
I don't know who Ben is, but this is actually my video. Those are all my edits and that's my dog in the lower right corner. My channel has a playlist for this case.
It's not Ben's content. He credited the content creator (@kay_el_eff) in his video description.
@@kay_el_eff Thank you for commenting and letting me know. If you want me to delete this video I will. I just wanted to share it because this content is much needed, specially for parents going through parental alienation.