Why are so Many People Emotionally Immature ? | Dr. David Hawkins
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2024
- There are many different reasons for relationship conflict and dysfunction, but one of the big ones that we hear about and see is emotional immaturity. This is the reason so many people can’t resolve conflict or misunderstandings without flipping out, saying and doing hurtful things, and damaging or even severing their relationships. In this clip from the latest Mad.In.Love podcast, Dr. Hawkins and his colleagues talk about the epidemic of emotional immaturity that they are seeing, and what we can do to become more emotionally mature and gain the skills to handle conflict in a healthy way. You can listen to the full podcast on any of your listening platforms. Search for Mad.In.Love
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I had emotional immature parents where hurtful, sarcastic, cuss words flew and healthy, respectful conflict with necessary empathy never happened. Learning this is challenging and takes A LOT of work, but worth it to me. I wish there were groups/classes in my area to practice, role play, that help develop emotional maturity by having an increase of self-awareness, self-regulation, with knowing how to have direct respectful communication so both individuals feel seen & heard. No one wins and problems never get resolved if people only verbally attack each other. Sad but true. 😔
You may be able to find some free resources on DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) online or at your local library. You can also contact our office to ask about our online DBT offerings. info@marriagerecoverycenter.com or (206) 219-0145
First time I hear someone speak about this topic!
I thought it was just me thinking that, but I'm glad to hear that more of you are thinking the same thing.
I always say " I was born in the wrong generation because most people don't understand my way of thought. I believe in courtship and respecting each others opinions. Not breaking promises and now a days that doesn't seem to matter anymore.
5:25 great question!!! My marriage has as much importance to be an example for my children as it is for my growth as a wife.
It takes a few days to be yourself after you have a conflict with this people.
I was raised not to yell back at my mother when she gets angry at me. It will only make things worse. I was also raised to control my frustration which can be hard to do still to this day, but I’ve managed to get better at it.
I’ll admit, I do have times when I do act a bit emotional immature, but I look at myself and say I’m not perfect.
Jonathan quotes the 4 pillars of emotional health from the book EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE 2.0. Excellent book and very helpful to me personally.
Traffic stops there are many emotional immaturity and booze and drugs does not help
it definitely exacerbates the problem
Great topic and something I've been focusing on over past few years. I've learned to recognize it not only in others but in myself as well. I know I struggle with this. While I have no control over what others do..I can work on my own behavior. It's not easy changing behavior, but I know it's possible. As a side note I have stopped dating for awhile as I was encountering a lot of what I can only call "red pill" mentality with what I consider extremely immature terminology which directly, in my opinion, reglects how these people think.
Thank you.
Watching from Trinidad
Based on my personal experience the culture as a whole are tolerating bad behavior and attitudes by not addressing it when it happens. Back in the day, everyone corrected one another in family and extended family, the entire culture had the same standard and requirement to respect others. That has been done away with in the "self-esteem" teaching that trained the last couple of generations that they are the most important and no one else really matters except in how they enhance themselves.
My friend I always speak about talked too her spouse's sister and Wow their parents did it wrong. And my friends spouse is in denial of it all. He won't listen and he still says it's her and there are reasons why he does what hex does it sounds unbearable to me. 😕😕
Is there self awareness there in any given situation
This doesn't have to be complicated. If you are honest, trustworthy, responsible, respectful, ethical, hardworking then none of this would be happening. I believe the way people have chosen to raise their kids in the past few decades has had a devastating effect on how people function in today's society. They've been catered to, everything handed to them for free (free cars, free educations, free homes, etc), bailed out of trouble, never made to work, never told no, parents and teachers not allowed to correct them. Entitled, weak minded, lazy brats and look what our society has become. Irretrievably broken. We had jobs, chores, were told no 99% of the time, spanked, called down, not allowed to boss our parents around that's for damn sure. Too much mollycoddling going on. It's really very simple. Teach people to be decent human beings not spoiled brats
Examples?
This was clipped from the our Mad.In.Love podcast "Unraveling Family Boundaries" you can listen to the full podcast with real life examples here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dr-hawkins-reacts-unraveling-family-boundaries/id1618828831?i=1000644354072
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