How Dating ACTUALLY Works for NORMIES
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2024
- Someone needed to break down exactly how dating actually works for average looking men. We often talk about is "it over, or is it not?", but just knowing that many Normies can get girlfriends is not enough. We have to ask ourselves how they do it and how do their relationships actually function. Luckily, this video answers just that. ENJOY!
▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬
0:00 Introduction
1:10 Direction of Interest
3:01 What WON'T Work
4:01 Dating Process for CHAD
5:07 NORMIE'S Dating Process
9:34 CHAD vs NORMIE Comparison
12:06 Autistic NORMIES
16:43 ONLY THESE WORK FOR AUTISTIC NORMIES:
17:17 Religion/Islam NIECHEMAXXING
19:31 Arranged Marriage
19:58 Pay for Play
20:39 Golddiggermaxxing
22:11 GEOMAXXING
23:04 Hijrahmaxxing
24:25 Conclusion
Maybe you have trouble with women because you look at people and immediately start rating them out of 10
"Just stop rating people bro". Man, do you think I go around telling women they are a 3/10? Imagine women being so sensitive they can sense your negative thoughts, but they cannot sense the way you look.
@@zgblackpill2866 That's not what I'm saying. Your perspective on people is so rotten that it likely manifests itself in an odd demeanor that puts people off. You can very often tell what people are thinking by how they look at you
@@arch_dornan6066 And what better knowledge about what I say in this video do you have to offer? Just don't care/think about these things? Ignorance is bliss.
@@zgblackpill2866 It sure is buddy, it sure is. Ignorance of your silly little parameters is needed to see people as authentic and human. This is key to a social flow state
You can definitely teach this community a lot on how to be ignorant, that's for sure. You have already given a very good example.
“If you’re on this channel, you’re not a chad”. Ouch 😣
That was actually pretty funny ngl 😂 brutal but funny
here is where i belong
The problem with Geomaxxing is that you would probably have to stay in that country permanently or you wouldn't be mogging other men. As soon as you go back to the west and she gets a citizenship then she would probably divorce you for half your money and possibly for another man.
LTR Problems
Facts. This is why passport bros say to never bring them back. When she sees Chads dating women on her level or even worse looking, she will realize she can easily monkeybranch to a better looking guy.
The chad status is quite relative. For a 4 /10 woman a 6-7 guy is a chad, but only for a short time, until she meets a more attractive guy ("be the first" theory applies) OR a guy has higher social status with more money and power etc. At the time when I had my first (and probably last) girlfriend I was between 6 and 7 by terms of looks, she was maybe a 5 but if I want to be truely honest, she was below 5. When we first met, she dragged me away from my friend group (she was a bit drunk) and wanted to kiss me for some reason... Now I know the reason: I was much more attractive than her. On that summer we met ocassionally, but eventually somehow we end up together and we were together for almost 3 years. During those years I started balding, after a while quite seriously. The funny thing is the more bald I got the less she was devoted towards me... brutal. Eventually she cheated on me with her childhood love who wasn't really more attractive than me, but had (and probably still has) higher status and more money.
This is more accurate. Depending on who I'm around, I can be the center of women's attention, or I can be completely invisible.
@@trevorjohnson4236 Exactly. Online dating makes some difference, but let's be honest, a chad 100km away from the girl won't deal with her. She will be too much energy investment because of the distance. My hometown has about 30k inhabitants that's where I met my exgirlfriend, but at that time I was attending to university in the capitol city, where 1,7 million people live. There I was completely invisible, no matter how much more young girl live there.
You give too much logical credit to women.
All roads lead back to looks . As your look’s declined the black pill came to collect
@@keylanoslokj1806 you underestimate the intelligence of zoomer girls, or you're a high level normie/chad and that beauty you possess dumbs the girls you know down to manipulated vulnerable states.
This guy is spot on. I'm a normie with above average height, relatively fit physique and making money more than the average guy. Online dating options are non existent. Haven't tried cold approach or clubbing but I could bet it won't be any good either. The main thing I lack is a proper social circle, for that reason alone I can't seem to get a gf. Just because even if there might be girls i could potentially date, just don't have an opportunity to meet them.Being shy growing up didn't help whatsoever either. Man life is truly fucked when you got no friends and you ain't a chad.
It was over before I clicked.
Thank you, now I fully understand why I have no girlfriend. I don`t even know what`s worse, getting married to a woman who hates you or staying single for life. Anyway, we`re fucked.
We are *NOT！* What the hell?? 🤦🏻♂️...
Socrates said either you get wifes or not, you are still gonna have good and miserable moments
there is a secret third option other than marrying someone who hates you, or being forever alone.
I can tell you how it works for an otaku Chad. It's like being in a harem anime where, as the main character, you know exactly why the women are behaving that way towards you because you read the genre and see all the same things happening around you. Sometimes it gets downright surreal.
it amuses me how low libido chads are. i think giga chad or 9/10s border of asexual territory, amazing stuff.
6 months to get a kiss...bruh lmao
It's a bit absurd in Western countries but there are cultures like this
Not culture, this is what most normies go through. You only see the good side of their oofy doofy relationships. Should come as no surprise, judging by how many normies can't even get a gf at all.
This is not that uncommon especially for borderline normies. They don't get relationships normally they often have to grind and chase for them.
Chad is 6 breaths away from removing her wet (FOR Him only) panties.... .
Barring EXTREME extenuating circumstances if it takes more than two dates to get a kiss she doesn’t like you and you should move on
LOL Waiting 6 months for the kiss, that is insane?!?! You go for a kiss on the first date, and if she refuses than you already know that she has ZERO romantic interest in you, then cut your losses and don't waist your time, cut her from your life completely. It wont be better in the future for sure. From my experience those who did not get the kiss on the first or in the second date just stay in the friend zone and they play some utility role for the girl (and get nothing in return, off course). I don't accept the friend zone, that is the most pathetic place to be, also having female friends is completely pointless, those vampires call you only when they need you.
This video is not about me, nor is it advice on what to do. Just pointing out what the average normie goes through today.
@@zgblackpill2866 I disagree, that is not the life for the average normie. Who accepts to wait 6 months for a kiss is a complete loser, period. Most average normies, just get the friend zone (no kiss ever), but it is their choice to accept that or not. You know that she knows in the first second is she attracted to you or not, so if she gives you the cheek on the first date you already know that it is over. But sadly normies accept this and stay in the friend zone to be her terapist/driver/atm/fixer of things/gay male girlfriend etc... I have friends who waited for years for that kiss, but they never get it. One even lived as a roommate with a girl he was crazy in love, and still did not get any (but he got blue balls for sure).
@@yudzin88 They won't tell you. Normies will be like "I'm not sure what to do with this girl bro", when they are actually meeting with her hoping to move things forward. After she lets him kiss, he will tell his friends "yo, I started dating this girl I knew". After another few months, when she starts coming over (still no s*x), he'll be like "Bro, I'm in a relationship with her now." He will not discuss that there's no s*x yet.
@@zgblackpill2866 I think that women return to the normies after they shoot all of their shots with the attractive guys. And I see that in their thirties especially. They suddenly appear from nowhere, "Yo remember me from the elementary school?" LOL. After she is run through by 100 c*cks. I don't know what is now in your generation, but 15 years ago when I was 20, normies were frienzoned left and right (with no kiss ever). But even though it is much more difficult now to get a gf, ad least you have all of this information. When I was 20 we did not have anything. We were clueless like isolated islands, believing that crazy s*it happens only to us, only if you dig you would find just PUA scammers. You are lucky to find the blackpill as a teen. But I told you before, you have a chance as a normie, it will be hard as hell but it is not over for you 100%.
Shit getting serious in Zagreb 😅
18:00 "Hamudi's looksmatch." 😂😂😂😂
"At any point she can change her mind". So true. That´s explain why I has many relations, even in my BodyCount, where she treat me like a stranger now, but I´m still emotionally hooked.
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What amazes is how you know all of this, I live in an arabic country and what you said about marrying a muslim women is very accurate, I see those things in a daily basis, and the traditions are turning to transactions that favors women especially the point that you should pay everything but even if she works it's shameful and unacceptable to discuss her paying anything.
And if you would like, could you make a video about the last point you have mentioned, why it's almost impossible for normies to see the truth no matter how much evidence they see, I tried with a lot of them even the smartest ones, and it's really impossible, it's not that they don't see the facts, but it seems like there is some mental or intellectual barrier that they can't get through, you could get them almost to the conclusion but instead of admitting they start speaking void speech, just putting words next to each other without any meaning that I can understand, and I think even they couldn't.
Normal people have psychological defense mechanisms that protect them from understanding things that will be too harmful to their ability to operate on a day to day basis. It is literally as you describe it. You talk them through the basic of whatever outsider topic you are trying to convey, but when you get close to putting it all together, their brains flash a warning sign and either shut down, or a sign you the "bad person" tag, whatever that is in your society. It's not a matter of pure intelligence either. They're just prohibited from having certain dangerous thoughts. I think there is a strong genetic factor involved the governs what kind of thoughts a person can have.
It is social programing, that is why. They also saw 100 red flags and still decided to ignore them all. You can not save them, they don't want to be saved...
"Mental or Intellectual Barrier"
Reminds me a lot of how in HxH one of the main protagonists named Killua has a needle placed deep into the center of his skull/brain. The needle prevents him from facing opponents greater in power than he is, detouring the risk of death.
So to tie this analogy together, the Needle is the BlкР1LL avoidance mechanism used to avoid harsh truths of reality.
Because looking at reality through a "black pill" lense. Isnt looking at reality. You are the ones who are detached. Categorization based on assumptions about the way people will be perceived by society is a silly thing. Good luck deconstructing
@@De_Selby it is difficult to argue that people are not influenced by looks when treating each other, especially when it comes to dating and relationship, I wish it wasn't like this.but unfortunately no solid arguments was given against it, just gaslighting and "you should work on yourself bro .."
Theres no really way to win for sub 6 males, good vid.
And even if a sub 6 manages to get into a relationship, its only a matter of time until she leaves him for a better looking guy
As a 5-6/10 balding autistic normie i agree.
7:00 My classmate sees his “girlfriend” every day, just getting close to his first kiss... After 6+ months
He's young, so hopefully he'll learn.
@@DavidW-ng5zv 19...
Geomaxxing it's basically jbwmaxxing"" facts
Another quality video ZG
Nice! A new video!
Well made and thorough video, the best thing is, you can see stuff like this on a daily basis. I still don't understand how normies (bluepillers) can be so blind when the evidence is always right in front of their eyes.
because as soon as they lose their virginity even with a 3.5/10 girl, they are happy with themself
@@ueue123 I've seen things like that, literal 5/10 guys dating subhuman women and thinking they own the world. Brother, if that women was born a man, she'd be rotting on incels.is.
Their bluepill parents fed them lies for their whole childhood. It's very difficult to undo all the programming
This channel is pure gold.
BASED I beat the 0.0005625% odds 😀
Marxist analysis of the dating market😂
Especially with social media and capitalism young women cannot Not be shallow. Superficial stuff
Hamudis looksmatch😂😂😂
"Just marry Hamudi's looksmatch bro." LMAOOOOOOOO
wonder what a sub 5 diagram would look like. I tried for about 15 years to meet women. did go on some dates but mostly 1st dates. Sometimes I had sex on the 3rd date but I couldn't climax and was rejected after that. Feels hopeless when things fall apart easily and it very difficult to get that far
The sub5 diagram would be like that of normies, except most of them don't have that chance to begin with. Most sub5s don't have a diagram.
@@zgblackpill2866 brutal
This is so brutal.
The normies process is so pathetic, how do they cope? Especially cos it’s the most common case
they are happy with it apparently
With extreme and ungrounded self confidence. Average man out there is as delusional as the women
@@ueue123 and they yell at us for saying an alternative is there.
there is still hope everyone
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I do not believe in the ''there is a someone for everyone'' but I believe in being able to accept things as they are and improve oneself, not by force but by introspection, learning about one self and striving to be better without the spite or neediness of obtaining a woman. Of course it is natural to want a relationship but humans in itself always want something from someone and even if as the video portrays the ''normie'' man as having good intentions he still wants something from her (sex, motherly feminine traits supportive etc).
But I will not deny that the dating market is easier for women as most of them can use make-up to doll themselves up to look better than they actually are (people who say looks aren't everything are partially true but we still are sexually attracted to what looks good and that's the first thing we see, self confidence in addition makes oneself look even better but is often accompanied with the looks). From what I've heard women has the capability to be more manipulative as they are biologically better at social cues compared to guys, this is why in my opinion this is one of the reasons I think autism seems to be more prominent with men. (But I am no expert these are all just theories)
Considering all this, even if dating might be easier for a woman it does not mean it will be easier for her in the long run if she goes by the woe's of the new age feminism. There is a lot of denial and self sabotage going around as well.
Propaganda, Social Media, Narcissism is rampant nowadays and I would highly suggest rather than spending too much time on stuff like this is to focus on oneself and accept things as they are. Not because you want it to be like this but rather because you can't brute-force change nor can you brute-force nature.
To sum it up, I don't have hate for women nor men but rather see that how we interact are different. But one thing I'm very sure is just like men likes feminine women, women also like masculine guys.
This video says nothing about not improving.
@@zgblackpill2866 I didn't watch the video in it's entirety and for the most part read the comments. It was mostly to try to make people think more neutral instead of spiteful (not saying you are but it's easy to fall in the trap as I've been there as well.)
Women only like masculine guys that they find attractive. All road lead back to looks . Ugly masculine guys will always struggle. Just Focus on making yourself as attractive as possible .
What about the autistic chad? what's his % chance?
It's over
I'm a medium tier, neurodivergent, Normie. Dating IS POSSIBLE for normies like me (I get offers for sex a couple times a year) but it all feels totally unnatural. I always fumble the ball and eventually the girls thinks I'm weird and moves on. Is anyone else like this? What have you done to obtain sex if you're in my position?? Thx.
Ur either lying or ur not mtn
corin your shyness is not neurodivergent, you are adhd at best, but adhd people are practically neurotypical with hyperactive tendencies. nothing compares to pure autism.
The Kissing stage beign 6 months is mental, don't take your friends experience as the norm. Wayyyyyy shorter than that, your friend prolly is just a slow learner
Hopefully, the numbers often vary, but the general process applies.
ZG Rebpill what if the beta man befriends Chad and Chad recommends him to a girl?
ZG are there any Eastern Europe countries that are traditional?
I live in a country that would be considered Eastern Europe and believe me it's almost the same as anywhere else, sure, there might be more religious people for example, but it's still an immoral society for the most part. Many people, especially westerners, fall for the "Oh the East is more trad" meme, I don't get why, Eastern Europe is economically a shithole and it's morally a shithole. Now you might say "oh but don't you guys dislike the lgbt?", and yeah, we do so more than the West, but it's still slowly getting accepted, we are morally broken societies but not in a "western gay way".
wdym traditional
@@andrija1764 The Eastern Europe Cope from my follow Westerners is hard for me to take.
@@andrija1764 ok, yeah, I may be cringe, but I was hoping that maybe Hungary or Slovakia might still be in good shape.
@@andrija1764 I disagree, to an extent. Yes there are traditional women in Eastern Europe. BUT these traditional women will never marry a foreigner! That is the catch. And what is dangerous is that women that go for foreigners (and there are plenty of them) will act like they are traditional, but they are the most demanding ones with extreme hypergamy! Dont fall for that. I also disagree that we are immoral people, we just live way harder life. It is easy to live "moral" in abundance, but if you live on the edge, your morality will be on the test. Pozdrav brate.
listening to this felt like an aneurysm
Not one lie
this seems to complex
Very well made video. Could you produce the evidence for all these claims? Do you get this data from other you tube channels or is there some source that actually proves that this happening? I see lots of examples of what you're saying, but also lots of examples to the contrary. So for me it all balances out. I'm just curious how much of this stuff is grifting and how much is based on what's actually happening outside of these red pill/ black pill communities. Thanks.
The fact that relationships of very good looking men happen faster is a reality that can be seen. What I mean is Chad doesn't have to wait 6 months for anything. They are both attracted to each other from the beginning, whereas for a Normie has to wait and do a lot more for her before there is intimacy.
You can take the two processes analogy as an example. No, I don't have direct evidence that suggests exactly the average man has to wait 6 months for kissing. But the fact of the matter is the average man will always have to wait more than Chad. Sure, maybe for many normies they get laid the moment she starts coming over. Even is that is the case, the message of this video remains unharmed. I believe my example is still a good representation of romantic development for Normie relationships.
@@zgblackpill2866 Yes, Definitely, Not every girl will sleep with Chad right away, but Chad can always have access to women that will if he so chooses. Looks may not be the only factor though. I don't think a guy needs to be a 7 to get laid quickly if that's what he wants. He can't be a 4, but a 5 or a 6 can still get it done if his approach is on point and he is not socially awkward and inept, and also doesn't put women on some sort of pedestal. It will never be as easy as it is for Chad, but that's obvious. Also, Chad likely has way more experience in what women want to hear and how they want you to act. But yea, Looks will always open the door way faster. Those are just my anecdotal experiences though, so I was just wondering if there were studies being done on the other phenomena you touched on as you had fairly specific numbers for them or if these were anecdotal personal experiences, or if you got them from other videos, especially the one where guys are getting into sexless relationships and being made to wait months and months. I've had a feeling about this from many relationships I've seen over the past several years. They just felt off. There was no intimacy between them, yet they had been together for several months. And of course, the looks did not match up. Is this something that you've done some research on or is it more of experiences you've seen in every day life? Thanks for the fast response.
@@Sean-fi3ks I'm not aware of any studies on the topic of how long it takes to get laid based on looks level. There are many studies that assess the importance of looks in dating, but not this particular topic.
Blackpillers y’all just over fixating too much on all this stuff. If you don’t get laid just do something else bro; life is not just women, sex, and kids. Why to care? I personally, never even wanted to marry or have kids as long as I remember myself.
I have said before that wanting to know the objective truth is not typical. Most people will ignore uncomfortable realities, but that doesn't mean said realities will ignore you.
@@zgblackpill2866 calling your imagination reality doesn't make it reality.
@@De_SelbyThere is stats and data conducted on this subject. It isn't fantasy dude.
imagine telling autistic people to under fixate, it is impossible, which is why all our comments are 100% grammatical while your normie comments have to be '(edited)' because you're on weed or havin a good time, us autistic people cannot have a good time. and you will never understand this.
Damn apparently I'm a chad 😂
How?
@@youlooklikeagoodjoeyoulooklone because I don’t take women on dates and still get laid
im a sub5
If women's height was so much taller than oneself(over 2cm higher), he thinks she is standing on something.
do you agree me?①yes➁no