You Become Powerful When You Stop Caring

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  • @nischa
    @nischa  19 днів тому +33

    🎨 Reserve your spot - My FREE 'Design Your 2025' Workshop: nischa.me/design-your-2025

    • @jessrandomlens
      @jessrandomlens 18 днів тому +2

      Hi Nischa, I tried to reserve a spot for this workshop, but the 'Reserve Your Spot' button didn't work for me. Tried it multiple times in multiple browsers. Does it simply mean no more spots available? Thank you.

    • @themreerste
      @themreerste 18 днів тому

      @@jessrandomlens Yes, same for me.

    • @fy9526
      @fy9526 18 днів тому

      Same here

    • @EdgarMarquez-j3o
      @EdgarMarquez-j3o 18 днів тому

      I have the same problem 😢

    • @WealthMindset-99
      @WealthMindset-99 17 днів тому +2

      Often, we care too much because we fear losing approval and affection from others. The need to be liked and accepted is natural, but it can lead to excessive anxiety and a gradual loss of our authentic selves. Additionally, social media amplifies this issue, where every comment or “like” seems more significant than our true worth. To manage this, we need to pinpoint the root of our concern: is it loneliness, fear of failure, or a desire to prove ourselves? Whenever that worry surfaces, ask: “Is the person or situation I’m worried about truly important?” “If I don’t receive that validation, can I still be me?” Maintaining a balance between wanting connection and preserving personal values is key to escaping the trap of unnecessary over-concern.

  • @SJNoorman
    @SJNoorman 19 днів тому +416

    "We suffer more in imagination than in reality." Most of the things we worry too much about don't even happen. Focus on what matters, ignore what doesn't matter.

    • @nischa
      @nischa  19 днів тому +33

      Love this quote!

    • @colingraham9281
      @colingraham9281 18 днів тому +7

      “Most things I worry about,never happen anyway” lyrics by Tom Petty from the song crawling back to you

    • @suprafan246
      @suprafan246 18 днів тому +1

      Strong and simple point.

    • @prebenfoss1
      @prebenfoss1 18 днів тому +8

      Mark Twain's:"I have been through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened." isn't to bad either..

    • @Silvy-l2k
      @Silvy-l2k 15 днів тому

      That's so true.

  • @fredsmith6725
    @fredsmith6725 19 днів тому +124

    A lot of good sense in this video folks. I have never cared about what others thought of the way my wife and I have built our life. Certain family members and friends have misunderstood us over the years, but we bought a house without a mortgage in our mid thirties by working and saving and not wasting money. No flash cars, clothes, fixing and making do as much as much as possible by learning practical skills. It works folks. Stop being led by fear of missing out and others opinions. If they really cared about you they wouldnt spend time belittling you. You can also continue being kind and caring at the same time. Thanks for the upload Nischa.👌

    • @john.jai.sullivan
      @john.jai.sullivan 19 днів тому +5

      I appreciate this comment man

    • @DixieDaydreamer
      @DixieDaydreamer 15 днів тому +2

      My extended family even sounds like yours! Ha ha! My sister-in-law retired at 64 a few years back and everyone was just in shock, she and her husband had always seem to be struggling but my wife knew many years ago what her sister and husband were up to as my wife is the youngest and her sister the eldest of 7 siblings. My wife's sister had been saving her whole life since she and her husband were in their early 20s, putting money away no matter what happned. They'd bought their council house and sold it 20 years later for 10 times what they paid, moved out a very nice house in the country. 7 siblings and no one could believe the eldest sister had all this wealth, one of her brothers even said, "If I knew you were this loaded I'd have been round to see you earlier!", just about sums him up perfectly. The best part my sister-in-law simply said, "Ah, it's all just down to saving a few pennies here and there, nothing more.".
      My wife and I are the exact same as her sister as we've been saving 20%-25% of our take home for over 30 years now without fail. Not had a foreign holiday in 25 years, UK camping holidays, second hand phones and cars. I worked my guts out to pay the mortgage off 10 years ago when i was in my 40s but no one in my family knows this. Some nice fat pensions I've overpaid into all thee yeras while "looking poor". Shoud be fun when I get to 56 in a few years time and tell them I'm retiring early!

    • @wannabecompounder
      @wannabecompounder 14 днів тому

      Yep. On the friends mocking, that will happen and not going to lie...I do it all the time 😂 However, I don't mock people when they are being real and that's the question only you can answer. The number of hits you have shows that you are smashing it. I also saw the American indian dude review your videos and he was positive so you're obviously doing well - public praise from fellow desis is always a great sign.
      On the general part about looking rich, that's deffo a tricky one to shake off for people. The reality is that people just need to go back to basics and assess their resources and whether that is appropriately allocated.

  • @BrentCowan-b3u
    @BrentCowan-b3u 4 дні тому +35

    Last year I was working full time, budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids. Now I learned how to make money online. Now am a SAHM, homeschooling, and making profits every week.

    • @ArshbyJushua
      @ArshbyJushua 4 дні тому +1

      You are absolutely right ✅️

    • @ArshbyJushua
      @ArshbyJushua 4 дні тому +2

      Investing in alternate income streams should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment.

    • @NatalieDormer-or4jj
      @NatalieDormer-or4jj 4 дні тому +1

      Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should do?

    • @BrentCowan-b3u
      @BrentCowan-b3u 4 дні тому +3

      Cryptocurrency/stock investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.

    • @BrentCowan-b3u
      @BrentCowan-b3u 4 дні тому +3

      Facebook 👇

  • @tomtrotman42
    @tomtrotman42 19 днів тому +30

    This landed at such the perfect timing. Always lived in fear of other people’s opinions until now and realised that the only person holding me back is myself, hope this can help others as well!

  • @robwaz1547
    @robwaz1547 18 днів тому +18

    I became wealthy ( not in the monetary sense yet) but the day I stumbled upon Nischa first video ( way back then)the stars had aligned . Very smart woman who has made complex subject seems so simple easy on the eyes, and true to what she says. I have never Regretted clicking on the like button and watching this amazing person rocket to Stardom. And dragging me along kicking and screaming am I out of my mind, but I gave in and I’m happy she kick me around. You’re truly amazing and like I said before the people in your inner circle are so fortunate to have such a beautiful, smart, wonderful, caring individual as yourself. Thanks once again 💐

  • @christianrodriguez5346
    @christianrodriguez5346 18 днів тому +37

    I never thought my parents built wealth we just lived a normal comfortable life with no luxuries. We had a comfortable home in a decent neighborhood. We were always wearing simple clothes. Only way I learned we had wealth was cause of university and I may have gotten curious and asked my parents about a few things and they told me everything. I appreciate the lessons they taught me cause I learned that living on less of what you make and not caring about opinions of others is really what builds wealth. That builds discipline. Whenever we wanted to treat ourselves we did but it was with moderation and nothing extremely lavish. Plus they told me that really people with wealth don’t want others to know cause it attracts the wrong people. Wealth whispers and doesn’t want to be seen, the rich however are loud and want attention. Wealthy people tend to be extremely humble at least our few people we call friends similar to us are like that. Very under the radar people.

    • @DixieDaydreamer
      @DixieDaydreamer 15 днів тому +2

      You sound just like my daughter! ha ha! She's just got back after finishing uni and we happen to be coming out of TESCO the other week and getting back in the car and she said, "I never knew how good we had it when I was a kid, I just thought that's how everyone lived. We never went without anything, we had food and clothes and I had amzing birthdays and Xmases. I never realised how hard you worked to make sure we had a wage and how you and mum saved our money carefully, I never understood the huge amount of discipline that took."
      You think your kids are going to be morons forever but they always surprise you! She's 22 and looking for work but asked me to spend some time explaining ISAs and pensions to her a few weeks back, sometimes you wonder if you're getting through but then you suddenly make a breakthrough.

    • @christianrodriguez5346
      @christianrodriguez5346 15 днів тому

      @ omg I am 22 and looking for work as well! Small world haha. By the way the breakthrough message you said is so true

  • @AniketDohare-444
    @AniketDohare-444 8 днів тому +77

    so there was this period in my life when i kept attracting the wrong people, wrong opportunities, everything just felt…off. i couldn’t figure out why it kept happening. then one day, a friend mentioned a book called Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane, saying it helped them see the patterns they didn’t even realize they had. i decided to give it a read, and wow, it opened my eyes to how much my own energy was shaping my life. seriously, this book is something else.

  • @fei_gao
    @fei_gao 8 днів тому +2

    One of the most clear messaged and down-to-earth UA-cam videos I have watched. Cheers to you, Nischa!

  • @goglossy3939
    @goglossy3939 13 днів тому +5

    Glad you carried on with the channel, that’s true strength.

  • @mickwander8582
    @mickwander8582 3 дні тому +3

    I stoped caring the moment you started listing your great achievments :)

  • @PaulinaEmber
    @PaulinaEmber 7 годин тому

    Mindset is everything! It starts from the inside out

  • @MrRmm77
    @MrRmm77 19 днів тому +10

    Thank you Nischa! Always love your helpful videos. Its funny how we are (sometimes unknowingly) surrounded by people who make it their business to prevent our success. I watch these videos to ensure I don't heed their negativity.... Keep up the great work :)

  • @TiagoRamosVideos
    @TiagoRamosVideos 43 хвилини тому

    Great tips 👌 thanks 🙏

  • @lh6843
    @lh6843 18 днів тому +7

    Solid, I stopped giving a damn a long time ago. My favorite response, “I DON’T HAVE IT.” I have more money in my pocket because of it.

  • @trixi69thegamer28
    @trixi69thegamer28 19 днів тому +8

    Need this message today! Makes me wanna cry 😭 Thank you so much for your video, miss Nischa ☺️

  • @j.t.a.i.
    @j.t.a.i. 19 днів тому +7

    One of the most powerful and consice videos you have ever posted Nischa💯
    Extreme gratitude to you and wishing you continued health and prosperity 🙏

  • @jarko2727
    @jarko2727 17 днів тому +2

    Have listened to many channels like this but listening to you has helped me the most. I wish you a very prosperous 2025!

  • @Anandreddybad
    @Anandreddybad 7 днів тому +1

    Thanks

    • @Peerseer
      @Peerseer 6 днів тому +2

      You are rich anna...please give me a job anna...

    • @UsmanAli-bb2oq
      @UsmanAli-bb2oq 6 днів тому +1

      Great !! Very Rich

    • @sanjeevreddy6815
      @sanjeevreddy6815 9 годин тому

      Could you please tell us...what message or information that triggers you in this. Thanks in advance!!

  • @natashamg312
    @natashamg312 18 днів тому +8

    I’m so glad you didn’t listen to the haters! Your channel is field with invaluable information 💕 thank you for continuously sharing!!!

  • @zipporahotaru1704
    @zipporahotaru1704 День тому

    When you mentioned people's opinions, I subscribed without even thinking

  • @cur244
    @cur244 15 днів тому +17

    Getting off social media was key for me other than YT obviously. I couldn't care less what other people have and I've always preferred privacy. The comparison on social media has been a net negative on society.

  • @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel
    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel 19 днів тому +5

    Building something that is completely yours is well worth it the drive to keep going despite fears and doubts is what has lead to your massive success Nisha well done 🎉

  • @sam_gamage
    @sam_gamage 8 днів тому

    Magical Word : Say No to Other People and Its a Yes to Your Future

  • @xenchicken
    @xenchicken 18 днів тому +2

    I'm glad you didn't delete the channel, your content is really helpful

  • @Theother1089
    @Theother1089 14 днів тому +2

    You are intelligent, articulate and beautiful, and obviously very strong, I would take your opinion onboard for all the reasons above, but there are always those who are jealous.
    Keep up the good work.

  • @S.W.Best-Author
    @S.W.Best-Author 11 днів тому

    Probably the best 2-3 minutes of an intro I've seen so far in 2025. You are right. I know a lot of rich people, and when I stopped caring what others thought of me, I grew richer in soul as well as wealth. Spot on Nischa. :)

  • @Ana-xv6tp
    @Ana-xv6tp 17 днів тому +2

    Congrats on your content! Your videos bring great clarity, common sense, contagious enthusiasm, sincerity, and closeness. I definitely will try to join the workshop

  • @pookieadw
    @pookieadw 18 днів тому +1

    I love the story you gave about opinions. Breaking free from the prison of other people's opinion is one of the best things you can do to move forward and achieve the things you want. Good for you, and look at you and all the success you've reached.

  • @aitulegendvt8494
    @aitulegendvt8494 9 днів тому

    Such an inspiration to us all nischa. I’ve implemented a few things you recommended and it’s been going real well for over a year now. Thank you god bless you

  • @JoshuaBHendo
    @JoshuaBHendo 11 днів тому

    This video come have been the first 2 minutes.
    Thank you Nischa for sharing your story about almost giving up! Your message is empowering

  • @liannevalle
    @liannevalle 12 днів тому

    This is my favorite video of yours, Nischa. Honest, authentic, and vulnerable advice always wins out in the end.
    And so timely for me because I said 'no' to attending an annual friends dinner simply because I didn't want to go and I need some recharging me-time from my kids, especially after the holidays. I intended to relax and do nothing but I ended up spending the time creating and posting a bunch of content, and I enjoyed it 100%. That would not have happened if I went to the party.

  • @ben1singh
    @ben1singh 13 днів тому

    Damn , just came across your channel , have lived through the 5 points you highlighted , gave up a flying career to build wealth in real estate , being of Asian back ground , i have experienced all the 5 above . Thanks for setting up the channel .

  • @shoboyjr
    @shoboyjr 15 днів тому +1

    Keep doing what you do! It's helping me more than you can imagine.

  • @melodygardner
    @melodygardner 19 днів тому +2

    It's amazing the perspective you get when you realize that all the things you're supposedly "doing right" which make you miserable are actually *abundance on someone else's terms*. This applies to being in debt, being overweight, over-giving to others, pushing too hard in an endeavor you don't enjoy, pursuing a path that doesn't resonate with you. It all puts you upside-down with money, energy, time, emotions, mental bandwidth, etc.
    Basically, as soon as you dispense with giving a f*ck about things that you can't actually control, all the noise falls away and you can hear yourself think. The running/chasing pattern stops and you get what you align with. "The day you stop racing is the day you win the race." - Bob Marley

  • @nikhildongre394
    @nikhildongre394 18 днів тому +2

    I like the “sand” quote. It really represents the real life dilemma that we’re all living in and experiencing it in different ways whether it be being in a relationship, job, family, business etc.

  • @EddieBasilio-g2y
    @EddieBasilio-g2y 2 дні тому

    Great clip! Love the positivity! Twenty Twenty Thrive this year!

  • @alexanderlyon
    @alexanderlyon 16 днів тому +1

    *_Yes to #1_* (opinions of others). When I started posting videos, I heard a lot of opinions (from people I respected) that said I shouldn't be doing it. It was a rough phase to get through, but I'm glad I didn't listen to the naysayers.

  • @andreasandor8165
    @andreasandor8165 16 днів тому

    I love your videos. Your strength of not caring about the negative opinion of those people you talked about at the beginning is our luck. Your videos add a lot of value to people's lives. Thank you.

  • @financialmonk3044
    @financialmonk3044 13 днів тому +2

    This is really helpful Nischa

  • @ideatell
    @ideatell 11 днів тому +2

    Stop caring or thinking isn't the ultimate solution of any matters. It's all depends on the personal circumstances.

  • @danielyamoah642
    @danielyamoah642 16 днів тому +2

    Well done for not giving up!

  • @jeppymayombe4503
    @jeppymayombe4503 4 дні тому

    One of the best video I ever watch. You just nailed it.

  • @alastairwl
    @alastairwl 17 днів тому +2

    Great video, really resonated with this one, the people pleasing section in particular, definitely one for me to work on in 2025.

  • @itsleana2014
    @itsleana2014 2 дні тому

    I needed to hear this today!

  • @MartyMac-qx1xn
    @MartyMac-qx1xn 17 днів тому +1

    Truly, Thank you for this. I wish you a prosperous New Year!

  • @damoncarter425
    @damoncarter425 4 дні тому

    Thanks for the video, it enforced some of the things that i have learned in my financial journey as well as some new ones.

  • @RacquelRichardson-g6n
    @RacquelRichardson-g6n 13 днів тому +1

    Treasures! Thank you for your pearls of wisdom.

  • @patwilkinson2182
    @patwilkinson2182 3 дні тому

    Great tips. Happy New Year!

  • @Mazzie2022
    @Mazzie2022 18 днів тому +1

    Brilliant words of advice, I definitely resonate with most of them. I shall be working towards changing my outlook for a more productive 2025.

  • @saimbroo
    @saimbroo 2 дні тому

    I was feeling so low and your video made my day.
    thanks.

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x 15 днів тому +8

    The party who cares less in a relationship has more leverage.

  • @karinefrommontreal
    @karinefrommontreal 19 днів тому +5

    Thanks Nischa for your helpful video, I registered for your 2025 class, looking forward to set goal/plan actions🎉💰

  • @mikehardcastle8618
    @mikehardcastle8618 14 днів тому

    Good selection, I would add one other, which is be prepared to loose the battle or almost every battle, because you’re focused on winning the war.
    A good example of this is birds fighting for nuts at a bird feeder. If they fight until their is a winner, they both loose, one more than another. A clever bird will run away from the fight (loose) and come back to feed later.
    A really clever bird will watch two other birds fighting, and go in to feed while the battle is taking place.

  • @DarksecretsConfessions
    @DarksecretsConfessions День тому

    The key is not to compete but to escape the competition

  • @PH-md8xp
    @PH-md8xp 14 днів тому +1

    Brilliant points.
    Happy 2025 Nischa! 🎆
    New subscriber.

  • @wahidabegum9545
    @wahidabegum9545 14 днів тому +1

    Excellent video, thank you

  • @alihosseini5715
    @alihosseini5715 12 днів тому +2

    I love your concept of being rich. I should also add one more thing which is, having a freedom to make mistakes and bad choices and being able to get back on your feet with more experience.

  • @garys7828
    @garys7828 16 днів тому +1

    Wishing you well for the New Year

  • @mikemaresca4999
    @mikemaresca4999 14 днів тому +16

    At 0:16, the audio says "over caring", but the mouth appears to say "over thinking".

  • @marckdrums93
    @marckdrums93 День тому

    Such a master class! 👌

  • @masterphotog4131
    @masterphotog4131 7 днів тому

    As always, great video. Keep up the good work!

  • @GoneSailing78
    @GoneSailing78 13 днів тому

    Great advice as always. As a freelancer number 4 resonated in particular with me.

  • @trevor828nc
    @trevor828nc 19 днів тому +2

    Great video sometimes all we need is a reminder great content!

  • @peterlloyd6337
    @peterlloyd6337 17 днів тому +2

    I've changed career entirely after 47 years full time within Corporate life. Now, very happy as my job in no way seems like a job having combined my passion for cars into effectively a paid pass time involving cars. Yes, forget others expectations - live your life for you!
    In Corporate life it's all about promotions and dancing to your bosses fiddle....Working for yourself and not relying on the Corporate structure is mind-blowing.

  • @onyekaokonkwo
    @onyekaokonkwo 11 днів тому

    Phew. I needed this video because my mind feels trapped in a few places. Thank you.

  • @DavidKnicks
    @DavidKnicks 19 днів тому +2

    Great video Nischa! Really liked the sand analogy

  • @funkydisciple
    @funkydisciple 11 днів тому

    Thanks for making this awesome video.

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 13 днів тому +1

    Wow, thanks Nischa 😀

  • @willlsmith8063
    @willlsmith8063 18 днів тому +2

    This was a good one gal xx all the best fro 2025

  • @normidwest1316
    @normidwest1316 18 днів тому

    I am so glad that you continued with you tube videos - Your videos are so helpful

  • @VashTheTyphonicStampede
    @VashTheTyphonicStampede 12 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing this, I learned a lot of good insights from you

  • @ntdfmaverick
    @ntdfmaverick 12 днів тому

    Nicely put as always. Thanks.

  • @tikojeff
    @tikojeff 19 днів тому +1

    Another spot on video Nischa. Happy Holidays - Cheers !

  • @NawazKhan-ve2vb
    @NawazKhan-ve2vb 8 днів тому

    Thanks a lot for this super video 🙏

  • @KingNorda
    @KingNorda 15 днів тому

    that 0:54 said it all, and well done by believing in yourself 🙌

  • @TrevP-w3b
    @TrevP-w3b 12 днів тому

    Loved it. I really needed this

  • @Bobafe77a
    @Bobafe77a 18 днів тому +2

    I'm 54. Other people's opinions have steered my life to a certain extent. I often missed opportunities because of this. But I've also forged ahead with a vision to create my reality which lead to success.
    At some point you have to believe that you are on the path that is best for you. Sometimes it seems like the wrong path but you can turn lemons into lemonade.
    Also, don't confuse throwaway opinions for time tested wisdom.

  • @13ankur
    @13ankur 19 днів тому +2

    Love you Nischa!!💞

  • @ditseayella4524
    @ditseayella4524 18 днів тому

    thankyou, Nisha😊😊

  • @maheshmayur9123
    @maheshmayur9123 5 днів тому

    Very good advice

  • @devindemond1972
    @devindemond1972 9 днів тому

    Brilliant!!🖤🖤

  • @SpinningSandwich
    @SpinningSandwich 12 днів тому

    I was such a people pleaser early in life. Eventually I found myself in a position where everyone had nasty opinions (the best kind, the kind earned from jealousy) and it was very freeing to stop giving a fuck what they thought.

  • @pecelirovucago7149
    @pecelirovucago7149 15 днів тому

    Strong and to the point…. I have learned the hard way, thanks Nischa.

  • @chidambaryadappanavar9669
    @chidambaryadappanavar9669 14 днів тому

    Thank you Nischa. Let me try practising

  • @cellarton
    @cellarton 15 днів тому

    Well done. You are an inspiration. Thank you so much

  • @DAILYINSPIRATION-xm5xw
    @DAILYINSPIRATION-xm5xw 18 днів тому

    Thank you for all the value you provide with your content appreciate you

  • @GeorgeZoto
    @GeorgeZoto 4 дні тому

    Well structured content with lots of truths...

  • @seantormey3531
    @seantormey3531 19 днів тому

    Happy New Year to you and your family. Thanks for all the useful advise and information during 2024.

  •  16 днів тому +1

    Form today You have one more subscriber. Thank You for all valuable info. Regards from Croatia 😊

  • @parvejislam10
    @parvejislam10 14 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this video. Very insightful. 🙏

  • @Kaursander
    @Kaursander 7 днів тому

    Great videos ✨🙌🏼💫

  • @hassosigbjoernson5738
    @hassosigbjoernson5738 18 днів тому

    What you say makes a lot of sense and sometimes even hits hard! Especially that "stop worrying" about what others may think or see is very, very hard ... because we often fight against a habit that has been built for like years or decades in our minds.
    Since you talk quite fast and make good points some kind of b-roll to let stuff think in in between the points or a summary at the end of the video would be nice. Or maybe it's just because im not a native Englisch speaker, idk.
    Otherwise very important video, I think! Such a shift in mindset could leet to a very big butterfly effect.

  • @wellajooj
    @wellajooj 18 днів тому +1

    Sooo need this… it’s like you know my brain

  • @adamcecil4121
    @adamcecil4121 19 днів тому

    Great work Nischa. You really made this simple to follow, understand and implement.

  • @yuriajones
    @yuriajones 12 днів тому

    Solid tips, as usual!

  • @justinstewart7344
    @justinstewart7344 6 днів тому

    Great tips

  • @Moderating2025
    @Moderating2025 3 дні тому

    Yeah this happen forget other people and create your life you want just be safe and wise

  • @lifeofconfidence
    @lifeofconfidence 15 днів тому

    Very True 🎉🎉🎉 keep sharing with us . This life is all about focusing on your individual growth by making the right choices .🎉🎉🎉

  • @Fasthebaker
    @Fasthebaker 18 днів тому

    I’ve really missed this channel , thank you so much