When we get tired of being the smartest and most knowledgable in the room, and of being rejected for this reason, we pretend to agree. It's more cynical than fake.
I have certainly been given the bad reputations you mentioned by people who don't know or want to get to know me. One of my best friends told me once she thought I was a snob until she got to know me. This means I'm not a snob, but are given that title. Mych of what gives me a bad reputation is the willingness to have one because I'm not willing to be fake. That's where I think you may have gone south in this video. We hate fake and if we can't be genuine, people are going to think negatively toward us because we didn't cave to the pressure of what was wanted of us But we can feel moody as we're working through issues we're not comfortable with. We always get through it, but can be out of sorts until we do.
Introverts are often accused of being snobs. It may be true, because there are many types of people I just cannot connect with because they are either beligerant, shallow or judgemental of others. I would rather be alone than compromise for popularity.
@te-h4x No, some people are bold enough to say or demonstrate these traits honestly and openly. So, that makes it an observation. As an INFJ, I trust my analysis and my intuition.
@@arlenerivera-gw4st They show their flaws, and you judge them, you should not ! Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
@@arlenerivera-gw4st You say that they are shallow belligerent and judgemental. Those people don't demonstrate it intentionally, that is your supposition ; they may not even be aware of it. Whether it comes from analysis intuition or whatever, you are are clearly judging them.
Spot on with the moodyness. Usually you can definitely tell when I'm in a mood and I don't want to be involved with anything or anyone until I get over what ever was bothering me. Usually I do talk about it afterwards if someone wants to know
ive learned to be an asshole for a good reason. See the holes in my body and slashes on my arms from people trying to murder me because I stood up against evil people.
6:29 Observation doesn’t require a rude demeanor. There’s a difference between appearing disinterested and disrespectful. The latter is what can discourage interaction. At least for some people, being approachable doesn’t require coming off like a golden retriever.
Why are so many listeners on this channel so eager to criticize others? What makes them think they are so smart? Oh, must be that Dunning-Kruger effect.
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When we get tired of being the smartest and most knowledgable in the room, and of being rejected for this reason, we pretend to agree. It's more cynical than fake.
I have certainly been given the bad reputations you mentioned by people who don't know or want to get to know me. One of my best friends told me once she thought I was a snob until she got to know me. This means I'm not a snob, but are given that title.
Mych of what gives me a bad reputation is the willingness to have one because I'm not willing to be fake. That's where I think you may have gone south in this video. We hate fake and if we can't be genuine, people are going to think negatively toward us because we didn't cave to the pressure of what was wanted of us
But we can feel moody as we're working through issues we're not comfortable with. We always get through it, but can be out of sorts until we do.
Introverts are often accused of being snobs. It may be true, because there are many types of people I just cannot connect with because they are either beligerant, shallow or judgemental of others. I would rather be alone than compromise for popularity.
To describe somebody as belligerent, shallow or judgemental, isn't it in itself a judgement.
@te-h4x No, some people are bold enough to say or demonstrate these traits honestly and openly. So, that makes it an observation. As an INFJ, I trust my analysis and my intuition.
@@arlenerivera-gw4st Judgements are merely the results of our observations and analysis anyway.
@@arlenerivera-gw4st They show their flaws, and you judge them, you should not !
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
@@arlenerivera-gw4st You say that they are shallow belligerent and judgemental. Those people don't demonstrate it intentionally, that is your supposition ; they may not even be aware of it. Whether it comes from analysis intuition or whatever, you are are clearly judging them.
Spot on with the moodyness. Usually you can definitely tell when I'm in a mood and I don't want to be involved with anything or anyone until I get over what ever was bothering me. Usually I do talk about it afterwards if someone wants to know
ive learned to be an asshole for a good reason. See the holes in my body and slashes on my arms from people trying to murder me because I stood up against evil people.
As it came to me years ago; Scars enough to last a lifetime, both on the inside and the outside
6:29 Observation doesn’t require a rude demeanor. There’s a difference between appearing disinterested and disrespectful. The latter is what can discourage interaction. At least for some people, being approachable doesn’t require coming off like a golden retriever.
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I agree with all of the above mentioned. I know myself better than anyone. So I know those "dark sides" the video is talking about. 😊
I agree 100%
Why are so many listeners on this channel so eager to criticize others? What makes them think they are so smart? Oh, must be that Dunning-Kruger effect.