Ballum Part 8 - Ben & Kathy Open Up About Being Raped!

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  • Опубліковано 20 гру 2024

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  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +70

    I didn’t see Kathy open up about her past years and years ago way back until today!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏, really love to hear her sharing her thoughts and now she can help Ben better, and not let Ben suffer even more like she did back then!! This is really good to watch!!👌👌👏👏

    • @colinwharton
      @colinwharton 2 роки тому +7

      Also Ben's storyline is tackled different because of how different times are compared to how they were when Kathy's storyline came out in 1988

  • @wendydenning5709
    @wendydenning5709 2 роки тому +45

    I'm so proud of the way kathy is handling this she's being his rock and super supportive I have never been prouder of a character on a tv show ever

  • @chenzhou7288
    @chenzhou7288 2 роки тому +55

    We never saw more of this mother son bonding between them that often, for once this trauma might bring them closer together more than ever!! They now both had the similar type of traumatic experience, they understand each other better, and Kathy survived and made it so eventually Ben can do it too!!👌👌💪💪💪💪, fighting!!

  • @geneventide5314
    @geneventide5314 2 роки тому +17

    Kathy is such a good mum and a brave survivor. It’s good she’s being honest with Ben

  • @AC_RDR2_Q
    @AC_RDR2_Q 2 роки тому +21

    I love Kathy, shes such a good mum and she’s been through so much.

    • @kiranjitKaur61
      @kiranjitKaur61 3 місяці тому

      I do rather detest that kathy character. *

    • @kiranjitKaur61
      @kiranjitKaur61 3 місяці тому

      I do rather loathe that kathy character. *

  • @mangababyyuki6964
    @mangababyyuki6964 2 роки тому +41

    No still means no… regardless of who has the power

    • @kiranjitKaur61
      @kiranjitKaur61 3 місяці тому

      I am rightly Anti lbtq. * I am a Real Woman. I do naturally rather Love the MEN ! * Man is naturally rather Dominant. I do not care about other females particularly, rather. I am nicely old fashioned and traditional, rather.

  • @ShadowSoul92
    @ShadowSoul92 2 роки тому +18

    😭 As much as things have changed, by the time we have physical evidence like DNA, the cops aren't always better than the ones the interviewed Kathy years ago...

  • @mohmodmohmod9905
    @mohmodmohmod9905 2 роки тому +13

    Thank you for uploading

    • @zebra5702
      @zebra5702  2 роки тому +5

      You’re very welcome 😊

  • @Js2Jo
    @Js2Jo 2 роки тому +9

    Thanks for upload this!!

    • @zebra5702
      @zebra5702  2 роки тому +3

      You’re very welcome 😊

  • @lindseymitchell1851
    @lindseymitchell1851 2 роки тому +12

    If anyone relates to this storyline, please know that Rape Crisis is there to help

    • @lindseymitchell1851
      @lindseymitchell1851 2 роки тому +2

      Though Rape Crisis is for women but I think Survivors helps men

  • @colinwharton
    @colinwharton 2 роки тому +36

    I like how they refenced The Willmot Brown storyline from 1988

  • @CaitlinMcnabb
    @CaitlinMcnabb 11 місяців тому +1

    You can eventually move on but you bring the truma with you

  • @natashaclarke8853
    @natashaclarke8853 3 місяці тому

    Kathy open up 2 her sons ben its a shame 😢😢

  • @craigwaters1508
    @craigwaters1508 2 роки тому +2

    🤯🤯🤯

  • @ruff1draft
    @ruff1draft 2 роки тому +5

    I forgot Kathy has a daughter

  • @haleytuttle4497
    @haleytuttle4497 2 роки тому +5

    Caption English

    • @bekindrewind9675
      @bekindrewind9675 2 роки тому +6

      Ben: How did you?
      Kathy: I ah ... I just did.
      Ben: Well, it ain’t like what happened to you anyway. You was overpowered. I could take Lewis any day I want.
      Kathy: First time it happened to me I was 14. And yeah, you’re right, I was overpowered. I was too ashamed to tell anyone, but then I started showing with Donna and everyone blamed me. Headmaster called me into his office. He looked at me like I was something he’d trodden in. I’ll never forget what he told me. ‘There are nice girls and there are not-nice girls, and you Katherine Hills are not nice.’ And, in answer to your question, it took me years to realise I wasn’t to blame. And if I’m honest, I never really did deal with it. Not till it happened again. And then at the Dagmar, all them years later. The minute he grabbed me I knew what was gonna happen. And again I was made to feel that it was my fault, you know, staying for a drink after hours with the boss. No, this time I was not gonna let that happen. I went to the police, I told em. No, it was different then, they weren’t as clued up as they are these days. The way they questioned me, it was like being raped all over again. But you know I stuck at it, because it was the right thing to do. And it’s the right thing to do for you too Ben.

  • @kiranjitKaur61
    @kiranjitKaur61 3 місяці тому

    Hmmm.