Tapping To Break Compliance Patterns In Codependency | Tapping With Renee

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • Tapping can help break compliance patterns in codependency. Compliance is one of the hallmarks of codependency, as well as having boundaries that are too open or no boundaries at all. It is what was learned to survive in a dysfunctional home and is something that can be healed and unlearned.
    Tap along with me to bring these feelings and behaviors to the surface. Tapping allows you to acknowledge, feel and release the feelings and then choose what you want to replace it with. In this tapping session we will also address healing the inner child, giving too much even when you don't want to, feeling resentful of the other person and of yourself, setting healthy boundaries and unhealthy caretaking.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 55

  • @sierrarowe4254
    @sierrarowe4254 2 місяці тому +4

    i’ve tapped on this before but last night i tried it again & i had a huge emotional release, i was not raised or surrounded by loving supportive people, every time i try to express goodness & feel love towards things there’s a block telling me it’s not safe & “im making it up” & it’s not real & authentic & i will be oppressed, hopefully this can really clear that out for me

  • @tahneeskylar8954
    @tahneeskylar8954 2 роки тому +14

    I’ve been doing this for 5 days straight now and it has already made auch a difference!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️ I can’t even begin to thank you for this, Renée, I am beyond grateful!! What a lifesaver for me, literally! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @tahneeskylar8954
    @tahneeskylar8954 3 роки тому +16

    Omg thank you 🙏🏻🥺❤️❤️❤️ This is just what I have been searching for!!! I’m so sick of being codependent and a people pleaser and I am totally determined to finally shift this! So this is invaluable, I am so so grateful I found you right now 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @shanellesanson6028
    @shanellesanson6028 3 роки тому +11

    Renee, thank you! I came across this video today. I have been struggling to articulate this exact pattern of mine for years. I used to wonder when I would ‘feel’ grown up and not like a kid seeking permission all the time. I had no idea what this pattern was and why I would end up being such a subservient doormat in every relationship in my life (personal and professional). I hope this is the start to my healing and taking my power back. Much love ❤️

  • @FireSilver25
    @FireSilver25 18 днів тому

    I soooo needed this!!!! I still automatically comply/fawn/people please/stuff my feelings/etc.

  • @Grungefan2018
    @Grungefan2018 Рік тому +2

    Wow all of your statements resonated. I always wondered wth I couldn't keep personal info to myself. I thought I was a sensitive open person. Which I am but man codependency has wreaked havoc on my life. 60 years. I feel like I've been waiting for my life to start all these years. I hope I can make some progress soon cause 60 years is a looong time . Can you imagine the dysfunction? The bear complete isolation, unable to self care, indecision, no support system, no kids, never married , it goes on and on

  • @silviamadau2013
    @silviamadau2013 2 місяці тому

    Perfect in every word! Thank you. Lot of love 💖🙏🌹🌟

  • @clumsykhaya
    @clumsykhaya 3 роки тому +5

    You make me feel so strong! Thank you for this Renee I am watching my life shift and change through your videos

  • @joannec8717
    @joannec8717 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much Renee, this video is wonderful. The tapping statements are spot on. ....Just what I needed to express. Blessings ♥♥

  • @Dame333
    @Dame333 Рік тому

    1:30
    Commenting this for my playlist. Thank you so much ❤

  • @therealbobbyb
    @therealbobbyb 21 день тому

    This is fantastic! Love the methodology

  • @satyasunshine9737
    @satyasunshine9737 Рік тому

    Thank you so much,sister!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @WezaMind
    @WezaMind Рік тому +1

    One of the most important taps anywhere, and unique. Thank you so much

  • @hanakrahulcova6248
    @hanakrahulcova6248 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you, you are simply amazing Renee🙏.. It's clearing the old stuff very much 😘❤️❤️❤️ Thank you 🦄🦋 😘😘😘

  • @priyacanoosamy1639
    @priyacanoosamy1639 Рік тому

    Thank you Renee. You are doing an excellent job.

  • @sarahlouisetyler1
    @sarahlouisetyler1 6 місяців тому

    Such a great tap-thank you so much!!

  • @maxd5373
    @maxd5373 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for putting this together. It really got to me. So we’ll put together. It hit all the right buttons for me.

  • @v5Clone
    @v5Clone Рік тому

    Renee you're so pretty, thank you for this video

  • @bluntedbb1018
    @bluntedbb1018 Рік тому

    Ughhhh. I’m literally a Compliance Consultant for work. Didn’t realize how far this mindset was affecting me.

  • @Ngalaina
    @Ngalaina 2 роки тому

    Thank you thank you thank you !!!!!

  • @Stardust-xl8nn
    @Stardust-xl8nn Рік тому

    I love this tapping

  • @faithrogers4787
    @faithrogers4787 Рік тому

    Thank you so much!

  • @swathieprabhakara2539
    @swathieprabhakara2539 9 місяців тому

    I felt it deeply and tears came out with memory, thank you

  • @veronicaj.fabianmswrsw1327
    @veronicaj.fabianmswrsw1327 Рік тому

    THANK YOU !!! 😊

  • @erikafrank7246
    @erikafrank7246 3 роки тому +2

    Reallllly needed this. Thank you!

  • @Alessandra.Rezende
    @Alessandra.Rezende 3 роки тому +1

    Thsnk you, powerful tapping right for me . Blessings , much love and light

  • @melaniedibenedetto3936
    @melaniedibenedetto3936 Рік тому

    WOW this is AMAZING!! I never knew I needed this!! I know that sounds maybe strange but I knew I had these behaviours and I've been working on myself for years with some success but THIS, I cried the whole first time I listened and everything you said resonated and I listened again without crying 😮 OMG seriously POWERFUL! I feel so empowered!! Thank you Renée, what an absolute treasure you are❤ Truly Thank you xx

  • @cherylm5002
    @cherylm5002 Рік тому

    You are the best, came here after sor time, needed a booster to maintaining my boundaries, worked like magic, thanks🙏

  • @criscir
    @criscir 3 роки тому +1

    THANK YOU ❤️

  • @astriutari
    @astriutari 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Renee. Sending love to you 🤗

  • @michelewellington
    @michelewellington 2 роки тому

    Absolutely beautiful❤️❤️ so well held and the script was perfect. Thank you!

  • @cherylm5002
    @cherylm5002 3 роки тому

    The tapping addressed directly to my inner turmoil. Thanks

  • @AH-hc6xb
    @AH-hc6xb 3 роки тому +1

    This is so good, thank you so much! I'll be sharing this

  • @dawnacoxon3111
    @dawnacoxon3111 3 роки тому

    Thank you! So grateful I found your channel!

  • @craigdunning5123
    @craigdunning5123 2 роки тому

    This was Powerful! Thank you so much

  • @coven5803
    @coven5803 2 роки тому

    Thank you! Thank you 🙏🏽 Thank you 🤗

  • @mandaloolux9216
    @mandaloolux9216 2 роки тому

    This is so good and exactly what I needed thank you❤❤❤

  • @meesbijpost4119
    @meesbijpost4119 2 роки тому

    Thanks a lot, this is so empowering 💖

  • @xorqwerty8276
    @xorqwerty8276 2 роки тому

    Amazing!! 🙏

  • @marleenjohannes4261
    @marleenjohannes4261 2 роки тому

    U are so amazing woman 🧡🦋🌾💗🌼💗🌾

  • @nasimaesmaeli
    @nasimaesmaeli 3 роки тому

    Thank you 🌻🌻🥰😘😘

  • @typical_crunch2484
    @typical_crunch2484 2 роки тому +1

    Not me double tapping on UA-cam 😩

  • @evamarie5834
    @evamarie5834 3 роки тому

    Thank you ,it is my problem.

  • @shesanerinafan
    @shesanerinafan 3 роки тому

    Thank you

  • @quikrox16
    @quikrox16 Рік тому +2

    I don’t think I’ve ever yawned more before in my life…😂🥹🙏. Shedding these old limiting beliefs right now and feeling SO much better for it. I’m worthy of feeling good. My wants & needs matter. My feelings matter. All of me has great value. It’s safe to let go, it’s safe to speak up. I am powerful. I am good. I am loved. I am safe. I am secure. I am appreciated. 🙏 And, so it is. 💖

  • @honeymoney23
    @honeymoney23 2 роки тому

    i just want to say WOOOOOW!!!!! i choked up repeating several of these phrases to myself. I feel like if I tap to this every day for teh rest of the year, i will truly be a different person. THANK YOU SO MUCH for this

    • @laylis12
      @laylis12 Рік тому

      Are you still tapping to this?? What has changed? Update us, please 🥰😍

    • @honeymoney23
      @honeymoney23 Рік тому +1

      @Layla Lay I definitely haven't done it in a while but maybe I'll pick it back up again

    • @laylis12
      @laylis12 Рік тому

      @@honeymoney23 thanks! :)

  • @jaemaxx
    @jaemaxx 11 місяців тому

    DAY 1 ✅
    DAY 2 ✅
    DAY3 ✅
    Day 4
    ✅ 19/2/2024
    day 5 27/2/2024
    ✅\
    DAY 6 : 23/5/2024

  • @sonaliparida1044
    @sonaliparida1044 Рік тому

    🙏🙏🙏❤️👍

  • @emmawatson9593
    @emmawatson9593 Рік тому

    Lots of yawning. Thank you 😊

  • @quikrox16
    @quikrox16 2 роки тому

    So spot on! You described things that have been in me, but I couldn’t put words to, like I’ve repressed it. This brought it to the Surface, to move through it! 🥹🙏❤️‍🩹

  • @clumsykhaya
    @clumsykhaya 3 роки тому

    Wow thank you so much.