Why Middle Class Needs To Have A New Perspective On Nepotism ?

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  • Опубліковано 18 кві 2024
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  • @imrohan97
    @imrohan97 Місяць тому +10

    Learnings from video -
    1. Nepotism is a very natural process wherein you will always want to do your best for your kids with whatever resources you have.
    2. A person who has worked very hard for a lifetime will always want to give all the opportunities, exposure, knowledge and wealth to the next generation.
    3. Middle-class people are jealous of nepotism because they cannot benefit for their kids with their profession
    4. People should understand that the merit of parents is also counted in kids' success.

  • @Manik_4315
    @Manik_4315 Місяць тому +35

    I've been telling this to my parents (govt. job both) that I am going to do something which I can pass to the next generation... And I'll decide my career based on that..
    It took me a long time.. but finally, they understood my point and somewhat helped me😅

    • @sahilkhatak96
      @sahilkhatak96 Місяць тому +2

      Congratulations brother I still couldn't convince them that the Government job is not the only achievement in life.

    • @Manik_4315
      @Manik_4315 Місяць тому +1

      @sahilkhatak96 well bro!! just give them some time but keep in mind that don't waste too much of your life in convincing others...
      If after a lot of attempts, you feel disappointed then try to move on... Conversation is a two way thing.

    • @sahilkhatak96
      @sahilkhatak96 Місяць тому

      ​@@Manik_4315exactly bro they're never going to understand it. that's why I have already learned some skills and am working on a project that I hope will work for me.

  • @seemagambhir2940
    @seemagambhir2940 Місяць тому +22

    Aapne 100%right bola hai but people don't understand

  • @amitachandrakant688
    @amitachandrakant688 Місяць тому +4

    Nepotism is not the issue until powerful families try to sabotage careers of genuine talent so that their own family members can shine.

    • @prathmeshgawde9510
      @prathmeshgawde9510 Місяць тому

      Bro, the world is always unfair, so there is no point in saying this; just do whatever is in your hands.

    • @arabroy6761
      @arabroy6761 Місяць тому

      Go complain to god

    • @ashishmeher5637
      @ashishmeher5637 15 днів тому

      ​@@prathmeshgawde9510are wo to thik hai but ye chacha nepotism ko validation aur izzat bhi dene bol rahe hai , ye kya baat hui.
      Nepotism karne wala to nepotism karega hi ye uska right hai. Aur aam admi unko harshly judge karega eo unka right hai unko free ka izzat nahi de ga ye unka right . Jis admi ko is se faida hoga to wo bhi nepotism ko support karega. Aur jis ko usse nuksan hai wo isko shame karega ye sahi bhi hai aur natural bhi hai.

  • @prabhatbabu7579
    @prabhatbabu7579 Місяць тому +6

    Agar nepotism galat nahi hai, to sahi bhi nahi hai. Nepotism bas hai.

  • @friendeleven5711
    @friendeleven5711 22 дні тому +1

    If Nepotism affects us then that is a problem. PM of country is a very important position. Nepotism must not decide it. Filmstar and actress may not affect anyone.

  • @whitesidehacker7439
    @whitesidehacker7439 Місяць тому +2

    I FULLY AGREE UPON YOUR WORDS 🎉💯✅️

  • @parminderkaurnagra7235
    @parminderkaurnagra7235 Місяць тому +1

    Kamaal ka topic..ek ek baat se sehmat👌👌👍👍

  • @Shreya-ge3jp
    @Shreya-ge3jp Місяць тому +2

    Hi Sir,
    There I this saying called dosti hamesha barabari main karni chahiye, na upar na niche. Is this true? Please share your perspective on this

  • @priyadarshinibhattacharyam1464
    @priyadarshinibhattacharyam1464 Місяць тому

    Very well said....it's true....

  • @Shreya-ge3jp
    @Shreya-ge3jp Місяць тому +2

    Hi Sir, there's a saying that dosti hamesha barabari main karni chahiye, na upar na niche. Is it true? Whats your take on this? Pls do make a video on this.

  • @Adesh0108
    @Adesh0108 Місяць тому +1

    Thanking you sir 🙏

  • @PARVEENKUMAR-oy1np
    @PARVEENKUMAR-oy1np Місяць тому +2

    जब जानवर भी अपने बच्चों को दिल से प्यार करते है और उनकी रक्षा व पोषण करते है तो एक इन्सान क्या नही करेगा अपने दिल के टुकड़े के लिये। हर इंसान की अपनी किस्मत है और मेहनत है जिससे वह आगे बढ़ता है। आप ग्रेट हो सर जी आपकी बातों से प्रेरणा मिलती है। मैं तो ये सोचता हुं कि आपके बच्चे कितने सौभाग्य शाली हैं जो आपके जैसा पिता मिला जो बगैर लाग लपेट के ज्ञान देता है।😅😮❤

  • @sunainadutt1905
    @sunainadutt1905 Місяць тому +4

    4:50, ground reality in society
    genuine words .

  • @pawanbhagat8036
    @pawanbhagat8036 Місяць тому

    Wow super,Bahut hi acchaa Explain kiya aapne.

  • @RetailGangaReal
    @RetailGangaReal Місяць тому +2

    Same logic goes for reservations. It takes 2-3 generations for people to create that mindset of cunningness of the general public. There's no point in shouting "why give reservation to more than one generation". Giving reservation for just one generation will be a waste of resources and they will again fall down to where the general caste people want them to be.

    • @feelbetter2481
      @feelbetter2481 15 днів тому

      They will again fall Down mean? You are given reservation in the first place because you are backward, after giving you that opportunity you are no longer backward, you are expected to give all the amenities to your children that u didn’t receive in the first place, even then if he isn’t talented, that’s not govt’s problem, instead that reservation should be given to other backward man who can uplift his family from backwardness, people doing nepotism in private sector, that’s not your money, but govt is run by people money and it’s not a private entity

  • @sarvjeetkaur2329
    @sarvjeetkaur2329 Місяць тому

    Well said

  • @IamRahul_007
    @IamRahul_007 Місяць тому +1

    Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 🔥🔥🔥

  • @sancharimukherjee9231
    @sancharimukherjee9231 Місяць тому

    Nepotism gives immediate push, also it gives an ecosystem to the next generation

  • @Kidszone046
    @Kidszone046 Місяць тому

    I agree sir with your all words ❤️

  • @logicyahahai
    @logicyahahai Місяць тому

    Sir how to contact you for Astrology consulting ??

  • @allaboutgames00
    @allaboutgames00 Місяць тому

    Wah guru ji waha! Dhaaga khol diya 😂😂

  • @gyaneshwaram99
    @gyaneshwaram99 Місяць тому +8

    I m in government job but I will try to make a business for children
    because my job is not transferable to next generation

    • @shilpatalwelkar4595
      @shilpatalwelkar4595 Місяць тому +1

      If you use your learnings from your job, that's what you are giving your child. Fair enough!!

    • @gyaneshwaram99
      @gyaneshwaram99 Місяць тому +1

      @@shilpatalwelkar4595 what kind of learning
      Clark job me yesa kya hai jo me next generation ko transfer kar sakta hu.
      Or baap ka gyan kaun leta hai
      Gyan bas gyan hota hai paisa nhi

    • @Vishal_Raghuwanshii
      @Vishal_Raghuwanshii Місяць тому

      well said ​@@gyaneshwaram99

  • @piyushmittal3659
    @piyushmittal3659 Місяць тому

    Nice

  • @MyVikram30
    @MyVikram30 Місяць тому

    Correct Sir

  • @ramadevi4549
    @ramadevi4549 Місяць тому

    Great

  • @rjk7919
    @rjk7919 Місяць тому

    True

  • @urvbu27sh864
    @urvbu27sh864 Місяць тому

    And that line..... thare mai jor ho to tum bano Raja.....na ho to wo kro jo hoye😂

  • @rizwansiddiqui9608
    @rizwansiddiqui9608 Місяць тому

    Sir, Apologies requesting off the topic subject, can you please make video over office politics. 0:06

  • @aravindarao9523
    @aravindarao9523 Місяць тому +1

    When we say nepotism it doesn't mean a son should not become the next leader when the product is like Rahul Gandhi or annaya Pandey who after 3 to 4 chances is still being projected has the rightful heir then we have a problem 😂

  • @trishanuray3833
    @trishanuray3833 Місяць тому +5

    My father is a doctor. I am not. But those kids that grew up me, who studied medicine are good practitioners today. Doesn't matter how good they were in studies.
    Infact I often see those who worked hard to get into med school are not as competent

    • @keshabroy6094
      @keshabroy6094 Місяць тому +4

      Bolna kya chahte ho

    • @neerajmittal6060
      @neerajmittal6060 Місяць тому +1

      Kuch samajh nahi aaya bhai

    • @trishanuray3833
      @trishanuray3833 Місяць тому +1

      Agar baap / maa doctor ho, aur baccha donation se doctry kia ho, toh bhi NEET clear wale baccho se jyada accha doctor ban jaate hai. Aisa maine bohot dekha hai.

    • @AditiSingh-ho2eu
      @AditiSingh-ho2eu Місяць тому +1

      Ji ha kyon ki doctory chalane ke liye inteligency nahi practicality lagti Hai Jo doctor ke baccho ne bachpan se dekha hota Hai unhe zero se sikhna nahi padta staff handling,patients ke sath conversation, patients ko kaise Bana ke rakhna ye sab unko unke ghar se sikhaya jata hai

    • @kbshrivastav8539
      @kbshrivastav8539 Місяць тому

      Ye baat badjaat nahi samjheinge

  • @parikalpgupta4082
    @parikalpgupta4082 Місяць тому

    Agreed

  • @feelbetter2481
    @feelbetter2481 15 днів тому

    People hv option not to watch whatever movies created by industry with nepo kids, but just because I hv seen my father since childhood practising law doesn’t make me a judge inherently, same with doctors,collegium should be stopped immediately because that’s a government sector aur Kisika baap ka jagir nhi hain Indian judiciary, like judicial exam in the lower level of judiciary, higher judiciary also should hv proper method and accountability to recruit judges in high court and supreme court.

  • @allaboutgames00
    @allaboutgames00 Місяць тому

    Ab mere papa furniture ke line me 25 saal se contractor hain ab main bhi furniture ke line main jaane ki rich rha hu iska matlab yeh bhi nepotism hain😂😂😂

  • @aslam7262
    @aslam7262 Місяць тому +1

    Love all ur videos
    Give clarity on
    Overthinking
    maintaining relationship with people
    Social skills
    Setting goals

  • @kbshrivastav8539
    @kbshrivastav8539 Місяць тому

    Low class chahte hai ki bache bank ssc dein😂 sabke 😅😅.

  • @ScienceTutorialPatna
    @ScienceTutorialPatna Місяць тому +3

    Nepotism is the outcome of love for ones own and his war against survival crisis and once great thinker said everything is fair in love and war.

  • @marychristinejoy9524
    @marychristinejoy9524 Місяць тому

    Sir, jealousy is killing india not nepotism

  • @kishoremirchandani8671
    @kishoremirchandani8671 Місяць тому +3

    Thanks Sir 🙏

  • @hrishikeshdongre8502
    @hrishikeshdongre8502 Місяць тому +1

    Society ka aysa behuda system ban chuka film aur cricketers ko km mehnat ke dher sara pysa aur prasiddhi milati hy. Jbki ye log society ke liye koi real ya thos kaam nahi krte hy😂😂😂 like doctors fauji kisaani teachers

  • @omprakash-oh2jb
    @omprakash-oh2jb Місяць тому +1

    ऐसे तो जाती वाद और आरक्षण भी nepotism hai. .om shanti 🙏

  • @prarthanak8326
    @prarthanak8326 Місяць тому

    1:18 par jo aapne kaha ki , tu nahi ...tu to bilkul nahi.... nepotism ke isi part se pareshaani hoti h
    Rest : mehnat, kismat aur talent ka loha to sabhi (aam taur) mante hi h

  • @sharadhabharat901
    @sharadhabharat901 Місяць тому

    Agree 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @oklife2183
    @oklife2183 Місяць тому

    Sir video on unemployment

  • @rahulgolikeri1187
    @rahulgolikeri1187 Місяць тому

    👌👍🙏

  • @kbshrivastav8539
    @kbshrivastav8539 Місяць тому

    Sir also talk about iit nepotism only iitans apply ye india me hi hota hai. USA me nahi

  • @vikasmalhotra9953
    @vikasmalhotra9953 2 дні тому

    Waah Guruji

  • @user-mt2ux7hn7k
    @user-mt2ux7hn7k Місяць тому

    Kuch logo ko sach sun kar mirchi lag tahi hai lol

  • @yashsingh09
    @yashsingh09 Місяць тому +4

    Mr. Sangwan plz. try to understand, society don't have problem with nepotism till people use it to promote their Heirship,, problem is when people use nepotism to block talented people when they find their Heirs less capable compared to other talented person. And this is the maximum case happens worldwide. Because of this world & national development suffers. Do you know, globally governments are filled with nepotism & that's the reason world don't even has healthcare support for 10% of the global population, in covid that's why global health care suffered. This nepotistic class kills billions of dollars in nuke & weapons just to get brokerages but don't use state budget to support citizens. Nepotism is the only reason for the global wars - fights to gain money & power. From top to bottom nepotism is problematic when it kills talents, misuse powers for blocking welfare, development, growth in society for personal gains. ✌️✌️

  • @msmb11807
    @msmb11807 Місяць тому

    Mere 70 percent the 12 me .

  • @vineetbhojwani8241
    @vineetbhojwani8241 Місяць тому

    By definition
    "Nepotism is the UNFAIR USE OF POWER in order to get jobs or other benefits for your family or friends."
    Middle class parents paying tuition fee for IIT coaching is not an unfair use of power.
    Many examples given by you didn't hold good.
    I have been watching your videos from quite some time. I enjoy your content and have respect for you Sir.
    You didn't speak about Amit Shah and his son (BCCI president) in positive light. If Nepotism is actually good then you could have spoken about it.
    You infact have mentioned that in a video that it is not fair. (If I'm not wrong.)
    Lately most of your videos are plotting against one side of the political scale for whatever reasons and that's fine. I respect your perspective. However you only have taught us to look through the layers and take only that is useful for us!
    Higher order thinking!
    So you have made your audience smart enough to not be swayed against one political party.

    • @kbshrivastav8539
      @kbshrivastav8539 Місяць тому

      Still son of a strategic father like satya nadella will have a better career than iitans

  • @sagardhotre7222
    @sagardhotre7222 Місяць тому +39

    Lalu ka Beta Rjd mein koi bhi talented leader ko agge Anne nahi dega. BJP nahi hoti toh Modi kabhi PM nahi ban sakte. Congress Mein hote toh Rahul Gandhi zindabad zindabad kehte rehte.

    • @sg042
      @sg042 Місяць тому +4

      Uncle ko khud maje bhi lena hai nepotism ke aur chahte hai ki log judge bhi nahi kare. Arrey talent rahta hai to koi nepotism ki baat waise bhi nahi karta. Koi bolta hai kya ki mukesh ambani ke baare mai, unke bachhe ke baare mai bolte hai. Log talent and hard work ki isliye baat karte hai kyuki log usiki respect karte hai, baap ke paise se respect nahi milti hai, aur ye koi jalan nahi hai.

    • @bee24uandi
      @bee24uandi Місяць тому +4

      Kisne bola ki baap k paise se respect nahi milta hai? Lagta hai duniya ghuma nahi hai abhi tak

    • @sg042
      @sg042 Місяць тому +3

      @@bee24uandi majboori mai dete hai log. Abhishek Bachchan, Rahul Gandhi, Ambani ke bete ko koi itna respect nahi deta. Of course paise denge to log tareef sb karenge , but even bachhe ko bhi pata chal hi jata hai ki genuine nahi hai.

    • @EduShaman
      @EduShaman Місяць тому +1

      Jay shah amit shah ka beta hei na

    • @uditjain07
      @uditjain07 Місяць тому

      Toh bhai Jai Shah ko hatwa k muje BCCI President banwa de fir

  • @AnilSahu-qh4uo
    @AnilSahu-qh4uo Місяць тому

    Maj

  • @brijendrayaaddav7869
    @brijendrayaaddav7869 Місяць тому

    Are you saying people should vote for these netas and their bache?

  • @hrishikeshdongre8502
    @hrishikeshdongre8502 Місяць тому +1

    Logo ko chahiye ki apna time pysa aur energy een faltu logo pe waste na kare. Sangu guruji ke tark ache hy pr fir b een dharti ke bojho ko apna pysa na de 😂😂😂 ye saale koi mehnat nahi fir b eenko karodo milate hy ees baat se nafrat hy.

  • @DeepuKumar-mp4hl
    @DeepuKumar-mp4hl Місяць тому +5

    matlab raja k beta he rajkumar bane ga aur jo hakdar hoga wo nahi just like Rahul Gandhi and Tejpratap Yadav (lalu's son)

    • @shilpatalwelkar4595
      @shilpatalwelkar4595 Місяць тому +4

      They will get entry into politics, but aage to merit chahiye na

    • @nitkbijendra
      @nitkbijendra Місяць тому

      Just like jai Shah also , don't be biased

    • @YV-2000
      @YV-2000 Місяць тому +1

      They'll be blind about the family dynasty in the BJ party

    • @kbshrivastav8539
      @kbshrivastav8539 Місяць тому

      Raja ka beta jo hota nahi wo raja jaise sochta nahi. Raja k bete ko bahut points se sochna hota hai

    • @ashishmeher5637
      @ashishmeher5637 15 днів тому

      Bhai ye uncle bakwas kar rahe hai. Mana nepotism hota hai but usko amm janta validation kyun de jab usko isse nuksan hai to , nepotism ke bacche ko advantage bhi mile , izzat bhi mile aur validation bhi mile samaj se . Ye to normal will of power ke hi khilaf hai. Aam admi ko unko judge karna hi chahiye, ab paisa , advantage aur respect sabkuch thodi free mai de de , ye kesi baat hui.
      Jab koi admi nepotism kar sakta hai to wo to karega hi amm admi to apne faide ka soche ga hi 😂

  • @cloroxbleach2638
    @cloroxbleach2638 Місяць тому +2

    While I agree with most of the points made in your video, I firmly believe that nepotism should have no place in politics, as it can have detrimental effects on society.
    As you explained correctly, In the present Indian context, nepotism is primarily perceived as negative, but this may not always be the case. Nepotism in the film industry, private businesses, and professions such as medicine and law can often benefit society. Children following in their parent's footsteps are more likely to succeed and excel in these fields. This is because these industries demand a high level of skill and competence, and nepotism ensures that individuals are well-prepared and capable of fulfilling their roles effectively. Without such preparation, they may not be able to compete and could face being phased out.
    However, in politics, the stakes are higher. Success in politics requires competence, integrity, and a commitment to serving society. While being successful in other professions despite being a "bad person" may not harm society significantly, the same cannot be said for politics. In politics, even those lacking in moral character can succeed if they are skilled politicians, posing a grave threat to society.
    Therefore, while nepotism may have its place in certain industries, it should be unequivocally condemned in politics, where the consequences of favoritism can be far-reaching and profoundly damaging to the fabric of society.

  • @sonimatrisal5359
    @sonimatrisal5359 Місяць тому

    In the first episode of Mahabharat, Raja Bharat asks a rishi that none of my nine sons is worthy of becoming a king, what should i do,
    It was the first step towards Democracy now please dont take us back to Monarchy
    What did we learn from the story when Pandavas called Karna Sootputra but Duryodhan befriended him just because of his worth.
    Even Shri Krishna was insulted and called a gwala. He became the king of Dwarka but we know what the people of his clan are still called.
    Caste system has been the greatest curse of our country. Only bhramans son could seek knowledge. There was no space for inner talent and liking. Thats why we were left far far behind by Europe in Science and technology. There no one would ask Newton's cast!
    Lastly coming to Bollywood. If you think people will be forced to take mediocrity down their throats by watching Nepokids, i m sorry to tell u that you might be wrong. The modern generation is betteroff watching OTT, Hollywood or anything where they find genuin talent

  • @brijendrayaaddav7869
    @brijendrayaaddav7869 Місяць тому

    Sangwan ji it would be better you should leave topics related to politics.... now it seems like you are misleading people in some way... you should continue with topics which makes people life better...which you were doing earlier...

  • @oklife2183
    @oklife2183 Місяць тому

    Mamata ka bhai ke beta the

  • @kavitadilse1207
    @kavitadilse1207 Місяць тому

    Aap baatein achhi karte hain ek dum catchy .. click hone wali, par ghode aur chipkali ko ek hi category mein rakh rahe hain , jabki ek mammal hai aur ek reptile 😅 general people aur film industry ko kyun compare kar rahe hain . Itne sare film industry ke examples de rahe hain just to make your video interesting. Arts and business 2 are different things . Agar ek bade artist ko kuchh bahut achha banana hai to wo apne sabse achhe artist student ko lega , na ki apne average artist bete ko .
    Filmon mein kai artists ne apne bachhon par paise laga kar ganwaye bhi hain . Baat apne khud ke bachhon par paise lagane ki nahi hai, Baat apne fellow artists ke bachhon ko hi bar bar.. yess baar baar promot karne ki hai . Yes isase kisi genuinely effected person ko dard hua aur usne apna darde. Byan Kiya to aap uska kaisa mazak uda rahe hain. Aap thoda classy bhi bol sakte hai..
    Aap hi bataiye . Agar ek doctor ne apne bete ko Jo ki doctor nahi hai apne clinic par baitha Diya to aap jaoge usase apna ilaz karane ? Ya fir apko kisi experienced Surgeon ne kaha ki Mera beta abhi abhi MS karke aaya hai doctor hai , pahali surgery aap hi karalo to aap karayenge ?
    Isliye har cheez ko ek hi tarazu mein nahi tol sakte 😅

  • @nipundelhite1623
    @nipundelhite1623 Місяць тому

    Neoptism in politics and nepotism in other areas are two different things !! Pls dont mix these two. In democracy public service should come before family service ! Elections are underway so vote wisely🙏

  • @ALITASINHA
    @ALITASINHA Місяць тому

    Mamata Banerjee ki Bhai ka beta hai

  • @akshaykumar-fp4ns
    @akshaykumar-fp4ns Місяць тому +1

    GURUJI Nepotism ka mtlb aapne bigaad k rakh dia hai aapka gyaan out of context hai baap apne bache ko sampatti de to wo nepotism nhi hota smjhe aur public oppurtinities ka apne pariwar k liye illegal fayda uthana nepotism hai smjhe

    • @voracious8889
      @voracious8889 Місяць тому +4

      illegal fayda vah Bhai vah😂

    • @rajrox12ka4
      @rajrox12ka4 Місяць тому +3

      Konsa Illegal Faayda diya jaata hai, zara bataana hume

    • @moronicintelligence6761
      @moronicintelligence6761 Місяць тому +3

      Kya foonk rakha hai tune aaj

    • @lightyagami1903
      @lightyagami1903 Місяць тому +1

      Bhai nepotism ki definition dictionary mai dekh lena pehle

  • @mohitzaru83
    @mohitzaru83 Місяць тому

    AAG

  • @Divaykans
    @Divaykans Місяць тому +7

    Donot agree at all

    • @shubhamsahu2809
      @shubhamsahu2809 Місяць тому +6

      So what is your perspective plz share !

    • @MukeshKumar-vv3wd
      @MukeshKumar-vv3wd Місяць тому

      Platinum membership lene se clarity for youth ke videos dikhte hai?

  • @pgenterprise1988
    @pgenterprise1988 10 днів тому +1

    Guru ji ...Rahul Gandhi ko PM bana karhi chorega...😅😅😅

  • @9876585024
    @9876585024 Місяць тому

    You are very wise 👍

  • @Shreya-ge3jp
    @Shreya-ge3jp Місяць тому +1

    Hi Sir, there's a saying that dosti hamesha barabari main karni chahiye, na upar na niche. Is it true? Whats your take on this? Pls do make a video on this.

  • @Shreya-ge3jp
    @Shreya-ge3jp Місяць тому

    Hi Sir, there's a saying that dosti hamesha barabari main karni chahiye, na upar na niche. Is it true? Whats your take on this? Pls do make a video on this.