You are too desperate. He's not. You try to change for him because you wanted him. Relationships like that usually never work out. He's pretty extreme in his way, but he has the right to be. There is no compromise. Red flag: He's divorced 2x. There is something wrong with him. Be smart. Your mom is always right. Glad you found your way. Good luck.
Honestly, 5 feet and 150-160 pounds are considered obese. I agree with your boyfriend. You should continue a healthy lifestyle. Love yourself and do good for your body. You only have one life, take care of it.
I agree with your bf on this. When you faint the first time and had your first consult, it was already clear that you were on the borderline for diabetes. Rather than go back to your old ways, you should have continued exercising and eating healthy.
Girl being healthy and eating smart is the key to a longer healthy life. I think with you being only 5feet and weighing more than 150lbs is too much for your body mass index. Please take care of yourself and your health. 😊
nothing wrong with living a healthy life..but it is not worth living if you cant enjoy life too. it is a life style change not just go on a diet and no change of mind and attitude.
Ok let me say this. Diseases are beyond our control when we know it late, but we can definitely try to fix it by exercising and eating healthier but it's no way to just disregard your feelings for not being perfect. No one is born perfect, one day he will have some kind of sickness bc of old age. Honest opinion sis, he doesn't deserve you. If he loved you he would've been patient and taught you bit by bit how to overcome these obstacles in you life before even marrying you, HE IS NOT THE ONE. Your mom is right. Marriage is more than just your health, "to have and to hold...in sickness and in health." This means the couple agrees to stay together and support each other whether they're healthy or ill.
He’s not wrong or a bad person. He’s just not your lifestyle. You will gain more weights when you’re married and have children if you don’t watch your health and diets.
In the US here, there are so many way to live and be healthy. But, watch out, don't get into things too quick without some good understanding. Remember that everyone is unique and different, and some things that work for one, may not necessary work for another. Everything, including eating and physical habits need to be evaluated to make sure that it's right for you. So try it out in small quantities and pay attention to how you react to it. If it works and you respond positive, then continue, otherwise try something else. What's important is that we allow each other respect, and give the opportunity for positive growth and change. Sister, to your concern about weight loss: Our weight is a function of our life style diet. Meaning that it is what you do and eat everyday on average. This is the reason why the general understanding of a "diet" does not work. When you are on the "diet", you do lose the weight, but as soon as you come back to your normal routine, the weight comes right back. So to really change your weight for life, you have to change you life style of eating and exercising. The ex-boyfriend: I think, he is almost OCD(Obsessive-compulsive disorder) - Extreme fear of eating right, exercise, and health(illness). Yes, he is physically fit for a 40-something person, but his mind is not healthy. The compulsion has taken over the sense of reasoning. No person is pure; we all carry some kind of physical, mental, or genetic deficiencies, and looking for the impossible is impossible. I'm sure he'll grow out of this state soon because Father Time is ever watching and ever truthful. Sister, I am sorry that the relationship didn't work out, but at least, it was good learning and you did do better the next time around. Moderation and well envisioned life style is all that you need for good health. Have fun and don't let anything weigh you down.
He never loved her. He saw her as a challenge (a fat person) and wanted to change her (make her lose weight). They are both insecure. He chose her bc he knew he could control her. He knew she liked him more than he liked her bc she's never had a bf before. He manipulated her and told her what to say to her parents if they disagreed with her moving out. I'm glad her parents let her go to figure it out. His exercise routine works for his body but if he really wanted her to be a success, he would've done his research for a women's body. Women gain and lose weight differently from men. It's harder for women to lose weight bc their hormones are constantly changing. No wonder she was light headed so many times. He was never the one for you. But you had to meet him to learn how to love yourself. I'm glad you found someone who truly loves you.
Being someone who have lost weight and gained weight. It’s always easier to lose once you get through the initial hurdle but it is extremely hard to maintain. I’ve lost 30 lbs then gained it all back plus more just a few years later. I have now lost 25 lbs again but it’s very hard to maintain. You cannot go bak to your previous diet, that will put all the weight bak on gradually. Speaking fr experience. Good luck to you.
I need a man like that in my life. I'm trying to get my husband to be healthier. It is a challenge to make someone see that their lifestyle is not healthy for them. When they get sick, we are the ones who have to take care of them and that affects our own healthy in the long run. I wish people care more about their health.
Peb ua neeg nyob yeej yog li koj tus boy friend hais thiab yus txoj kev healthy yog yus txoj sia thiab mas yuav tau hlub yus tiag! Hais ncaj tias peb hmoob mas tsis kam yoo mov kiag li! koj tsis kam yoo mov xwb qhov tiag yeej muaj lwm yam los replace tau tiamsis koj tsis yeem xwb.. kuv yeej yoo mov tau 20xyoo no os..
Health is important with priorities at different times but girl, you DO need to take care of yourself and lose some weight. You can do it one day at a time but food and exercise is a way to live quality life as he says. Both hubby and I do this in our 40s and it’s benefitted us a lot and impacts our health. It’s great to be with someone who understands health, nutrition and living. If you lose weight both your diabetes and high blood pressure will go away. Care for yourself and educate yourself, there’s tons of resources.
That’s why he didn’t want to get married. He got all the benefits without the commitment, so why would he need to go further? I always thought it was funny how people can live in the same house, sleep on the same bed, make a baby together, but when it comes to a marriage certificate or money, no,..that’s too personal lol
You can go on a diet without totally cutting rice out of your daily diet. You can have rice one meal and skip the other two meals without rice. I would prefer to eat rice in the afternoon for lunch and skip morning and dinner without rice.
Your ex bf acts like no humans can get sick. Even very healthy ones can get sick and succumb to their illnesses. I know some healthy people who has high blood pressure because it runs in their family or who is diabetic. He basically doesn't have the love for women but only wany to have full control over them. When he knows he no longer is holding onto the handle of the knife, he throws them out of his life. He is definitely not the type of husband to love his wife "til death do us part" and to "love even in sick or poor". Look at his 2 ex wives whom he divorced. He said it himself because of the way he likes to eat and take care of himself. As for you, consider yourself lucky that you weren't married to him because he would have divorced you, too because he didn't love you for you. However, I do have to say self-love is extremely important. Work on yourself and get off of those pills. It will benefit you in the long run. Good luck!
Tus mentxhais hom tib neeg xaiv zaub mov, xaiv tus tsi muaj mob li koj tus hluas nraug no ces qhia meej tias yuav tsi muaj ib tus phooj yws los sis tus hlub nrog nws nyob tau li nawv, nws pheej nyob ib leeg li no txog hnub tsi pom nws tawm ces tub tsw2 lwj lawm ces ua dab zov apartment li xwb hov.
You are better of without this man. He may not want to be with someone that he needs to take care of due to health issues but God always have a plan for everyone. I know some people that are very healthy and fit but have other health issues when they age. My husband is heathy and fit but he loves me and support me. People that loves you do not leave you because of your weight, health or finance.
That’s why peb hmoob cov laus tsis nyiam lub idea los nyob ua ke ua ntej yus sib yuav los yog hais kiag tias yus tsis txhob muab yus lub cev rau txiv neej siv ua ntej luag yuav yus. Luag siv2 yus txaus ces luag paub yus lub siab lub cev tag ces luag dhuav yus Tus cwj pwm lawm ces luag tsis kam yuav yus li no es peb hmoob cov laus tsis muaj Tus cai los nyob ua ke sib haum mam sib yuav. No. Peb hmoob tsis nyob ua ke mam sib yuav, tsuas yog miskas xwb.
Can't blame the boyfriend. He really pushed you towards a healthy lifestyle. Better now that you part than later in marriage that he doesn't want to commit to a marriage anymore and you got kids.
It's is both fault..his fault for can't except who u r. it's her fault for blind love she know exactly that she can't except the way he is she still choose to love him n ne with him..but to my believe I believe that some who really love you they will except who u r not just by beauty n healthy..cuz I have seen some couple the husband was blind the wife is not the wife still except him tell the end of their life apart
Different lifestyle not gonna work. Better to find someone who's compatible with u. Hey at least u desperately tried. And he still doesn't accept u so just go on ur way.
It’s ok. You each go your own way. He needs to find someone who has more in common in him. It was already a red flag when he was trying to change you when you were dating and not living together. You gave him a pass every time just because he’s good looking. You didn’t like him for who he is. You liked him bc he’s good looking only. He didn’t like you because you are a fun and gregarious person, he liked you because he thought he could change you. You are too different and just weren’t meant to be.
I don’t know if I will want to take care of an ailing partner before we’re even married and have a family. I want to marry someone starting out with good health. As we age and he gets sick then I don’t mind.
LMFAO, sister, your boyfriend is a health nut. There are many folks who are like this. I myself am a health nut but not to this extreme. I hit the gym three times a week. I jog/run every morning. I do yoga and meditation every evening. Except on Sunday because that is my lazy and rest day. On Sunday, I stay in bed until after 12 pm. Or whenever I decide to get out of bed. I do not do any chores, and I diffinately do not cook. I'll either eat out or order out. It is my cheat day...my reward for myself. I have a routine with everything in my life, from food, eating, exercising, health, work, entertainment, and travel, including my family and friends. We each have our own plan and outlook and wants in life. You can't force anyone to do anything, and you diffinately can not change someone if they do not want to change.
Dieting and cutting caloric intake for prolong periods slow down your metabolism. Once you're off diet, people tend to gain all the weight back plus some more. Dieting is not suggested unless it becomes a life style change.
Mi ntxhais, koj txhob muab yoo too much ma? You eat meat and salad and cut down your portion thiab koj txhob noj mov dawb lawm. Noj mov daj ( brown rice) but noj just one cup. Start to eat less and less on rice then go down to no rice.
It's nice that he takes care of his health, but he think he not going to die because he is healthy then he is wrong. Healthy people can still get cancer and other diseases. He can also die from an accident. Who knows. Better get that life insurance.
Tseem yog nkauj xwb? No, nkauj xwb yog tus ntxhais tsis tau nrog txiv neej pw ua ke. Koj tsis tau muaj txiv dua, tiam sis koj tsis yog nkauj xwb lawm. Nej cov ntxhais leej twg ntshaw lub npe nkauj xwb, yuav tau xav zoo zoo mam kam mus nrog hluas nraug nyob ua ke li twb yog txij nkawm lawm. Zej zog tsis tau noj tshoob tias yog txij nkawm, tiam sis twb pws ua ke ib yam li txij nkawm lawm, ces tsis yog nkauj xwb lawm. Nej cov ntxhais yuav tau luj koj zoo. Txiv neej yeej xav kom muaj ib tug hluas nkauj siv txhua hmo, tiam sis tsis tau xav yuav ua pojniam.
Haub yau koj yog niag POG ROG es pheej yuav ntshaw cov txiv neej sexy ces yoog kom tau luag yog yoog tsis tau ces mus nrhiav cov thaub ROG ROG LI KOJ TUS POG ROG thiaj sib phim Maa POG ROG aw
33:42 you gained all that weight back really fast because you messed up your metabolism. When you cut calories, you slowed down your metabolism, which is why you gained the weight all back. You should do research on healthy “dieting” and talk to a dietician, not him. It is a lifestyle change, not a temporary fix.
At 5ft for 150lb is overweight and 160lb is considered obese. For your height you need to be under 127lb. Lol people always make excuse for being overweight.
Tus neeg muaj ntshav qab zib ces koj ntsia tib plia xwb koj twb twm tau zoo heev lawm. Tus neeg muaj ntshav siab los yog cholesterol mas tus neeg ntawv yauv tau ntsib Dr. thiaj paub vim yuav tau sim ntshav thiaj paub.
Yog leejtwg mob ntshav qab zib ces mus yuav cov supplement Liver Health by Purehealth coj los noj. Koj noj li 1 hlis ce koj cov ntshav qabzib zoo lawm.
Tus niam tais, hnov koj hais tub yeeg ntau ntau zaus lawm koj hu li ntawd los? Peb hu ua tub yees( meej meej ces hais tias tub yin(tou yin) no os. Thank you
There is no love connection here. Your bf is more obsessed toward a living lifestyle rather building a life around you. It's good that you guys don't get married.
5’ 150-160 is over weight. The most you should be is 120. In my opinion, you tried to lose weight too fast. If it’s not your natural weight, you have to completely changed your lifestyle which most people can’t do. It’s better to let go sooner than later if you two don’t think alike
Both you and your ex-bf went around this whole thing the wrong way. The reason you gained so much weight back is because you went in too hard. You were dieting when you should've been slowly changing your eating habits. Dieting and restricting too much will cause you to binge eat. But slowly changing your food consumption will build a normal eating habit. For example, you can still eat rice but change to brown rice and limit your consumption. Eat stir-fry but limit meat portion and seasonings, and add a lot of veggies. Use the plate method, 1/2 of the plate is veggie/fruit, 1/4 grains/starch, 1/4 protein. There's so much more I can go on, but hopefully this gives you an idea. 😊
Ib tus neeg noj mov twb tsis muaj limite ces thaum yuav ces yuav dhau thaum rog ces rog dhau Xwb mos ,noj mov los yeej noj tau kawg tab sis yuav tau noj kom tsawg zog Xwb yeej tau kawg mas ,peb tej no yeej tsis rog tsis yuav yeej noj mov txhua zaus ,peb yeej tsis ua Maiv puv tau 20 tawm lub xyoo los lawm as !!!
Tus txiv dev no los hais cuav li. Nws taws teeb ua neej es nws yuav tsis muaj mob ib sim neej no os yom? Tus txiv dev phem awd! Kev mob kev nkeeg kev ploj kev tuag tsis leej twg thiab lub sij hawm twg li nawb.
Oh gosh....how did you decided to move in with him once you didn't even know who he really is. You're so desperate and leading you to the wrong person.
Oh my gah....koj tus nraug nrauj ko ces ntxov tso ntxov zoo os sister. Txhob khuv xim ib tus neeg ua nws tsuas hlub nws tus kheej nkaus xwb that's why nws raug ua nraug nrauj 2X
Very beautiful story
Hey, at least he was honest with you. Gotta respect that. Good luck to you sis. Hope you find what you’re looking for ❤
5 feet and 160 pounds is obese.
I'm 5'1 and 137 pounds and I'm overweight.
Healthy lifestyle is very important.
Right! I was thinking the same when I first heard her height and weight.
Agree, I’m 5’2 and 115 lbs still watch what I eat.
I’m 5’2’, 145 but I’m all muscle and workout and lift weights. Size 6.
You are too desperate. He's not. You try to change for him because you wanted him. Relationships like that usually never work out. He's pretty extreme in his way, but he has the right to be. There is no compromise. Red flag: He's divorced 2x. There is something wrong with him. Be smart. Your mom is always right. Glad you found your way. Good luck.
Honestly, 5 feet and 150-160 pounds are considered obese. I agree with your boyfriend. You should continue a healthy lifestyle. Love yourself and do good for your body. You only have one life, take care of it.
You deserve better. Happiness comes from within, not from how much a person weighs. IMHO nothing wrong with 150-160 or even higher on the scale.
This guy behaves as if he will never get sick. We all will in old age the reason we need each others. We love someone in good and bad health.
Hais rau tus txiv dev no yuav mob yuav tuag tsis matter li nawb txoj caij mob ces mob yuav tuag ces tuag xwb nawb.
Niam Neej Vam, you are so beautiful. I love this picture and background.
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I agree with your bf on this. When you faint the first time and had your first consult, it was already clear that you were on the borderline for diabetes. Rather than go back to your old ways, you should have continued exercising and eating healthy.
Girl being healthy and eating smart is the key to a longer healthy life. I think with you being only 5feet and weighing more than 150lbs is too much for your body mass index. Please take care of yourself and your health. 😊
nothing wrong with living a healthy life..but it is not worth living if you cant enjoy life too. it is a life style change not just go on a diet and no change of mind and attitude.
Ok let me say this. Diseases are beyond our control when we know it late, but we can definitely try to fix it by exercising and eating healthier but it's no way to just disregard your feelings for not being perfect. No one is born perfect, one day he will have some kind of sickness bc of old age. Honest opinion sis, he doesn't deserve you. If he loved you he would've been patient and taught you bit by bit how to overcome these obstacles in you life before even marrying you, HE IS NOT THE ONE. Your mom is right. Marriage is more than just your health, "to have and to hold...in sickness and in health." This means the couple agrees to stay together and support each other whether they're healthy or ill.
I love the beautiful background of NYC.
He’s not wrong or a bad person. He’s just not your lifestyle. You will gain more weights when you’re married and have children if you don’t watch your health and diets.
Txhob noj mov nplaum thiab mov txua dawb , tsis noj fawm tsis noj khaub poob
Noj tau mov xim brown...
Txob noj french fries.
Red flags all over, no matter what, marriage is a commitment, he doesn't want that.
In the US here, there are so many way to live and be healthy. But, watch out, don't get into things too quick without some good understanding. Remember that everyone is unique and different, and some things that work for one, may not necessary work for another. Everything, including eating and physical habits need to be evaluated to make sure that it's right for you. So try it out in small quantities and pay attention to how you react to it. If it works and you respond positive, then continue, otherwise try something else. What's important is that we allow each other respect, and give the opportunity for positive growth and change.
Sister, to your concern about weight loss: Our weight is a function of our life style diet. Meaning that it is what you do and eat everyday on average. This is the reason why the general understanding of a "diet" does not work. When you are on the "diet", you do lose the weight, but as soon as you come back to your normal routine, the weight comes right back. So to really change your weight for life, you have to change you life style of eating and exercising.
The ex-boyfriend: I think, he is almost OCD(Obsessive-compulsive disorder) - Extreme fear of eating right, exercise, and health(illness). Yes, he is physically fit for a 40-something person, but his mind is not healthy. The compulsion has taken over the sense of reasoning. No person is pure; we all carry some kind of physical, mental, or genetic deficiencies, and looking for the impossible is impossible. I'm sure he'll grow out of this state soon because Father Time is ever watching and ever truthful.
Sister, I am sorry that the relationship didn't work out, but at least, it was good learning and you did do better the next time around. Moderation and well envisioned life style is all that you need for good health. Have fun and don't let anything weigh you down.
He never loved her. He saw her as a challenge (a fat person) and wanted to change her (make her lose weight). They are both insecure. He chose her bc he knew he could control her. He knew she liked him more than he liked her bc she's never had a bf before. He manipulated her and told her what to say to her parents if they disagreed with her moving out. I'm glad her parents let her go to figure it out. His exercise routine works for his body but if he really wanted her to be a success, he would've done his research for a women's body. Women gain and lose weight differently from men. It's harder for women to lose weight bc their hormones are constantly changing. No wonder she was light headed so many times. He was never the one for you. But you had to meet him to learn how to love yourself. I'm glad you found someone who truly loves you.
Nws tsis hlub koj tiag .yog nws hlub koj tiag ntshav siab thiab ntshav qab zib mas nriam tshuaj haus yeej paub zoo kawg .tus txiv neej coj li ko .koj tsis yuav los zoo twb nrauj txog ob tug poj niam tseem hais tias nws zoo no nono
Being someone who have lost weight and gained weight. It’s always easier to lose once you get through the initial hurdle but it is extremely hard to maintain. I’ve lost 30 lbs then gained it all back plus more just a few years later. I have now lost 25 lbs again but it’s very hard to maintain. You cannot go bak to your previous diet, that will put all the weight bak on gradually. Speaking fr experience. Good luck to you.
As cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os Ntuj aw Peb cov muaj mob ntshav tsis zoo no ces nim tu2 siab li os hmoob aw
He's right. Don't eat rice, noodles, and carbs. They are the causes of our diseases.
I need a man like that in my life. I'm trying to get my husband to be healthier. It is a challenge to make someone see that their lifestyle is not healthy for them. When they get sick, we are the ones who have to take care of them and that affects our own healthy in the long run. I wish people care more about their health.
Wishful?
I'm in your boat
I feel same way like you, I like a man who healthy like that in my life!
Cov zoo y nraug no zoo saib xwb tsis zoo yuav tej laus Tia's zoo soj tsis zoo naib
Peb ua neeg nyob yeej yog li koj tus boy friend hais thiab yus txoj kev healthy yog yus txoj sia thiab mas yuav tau hlub yus tiag! Hais ncaj tias peb hmoob mas tsis kam yoo mov kiag li! koj tsis kam yoo mov xwb qhov tiag yeej muaj lwm yam los replace tau tiamsis koj tsis yeem xwb.. kuv yeej yoo mov tau 20xyoo no os..
Health is important with priorities at different times but girl, you DO need to take care of yourself and lose some weight. You can do it one day at a time but food and exercise is a way to live quality life as he says. Both hubby and I do this in our 40s and it’s benefitted us a lot and impacts our health. It’s great to be with someone who understands health, nutrition and living. If you lose weight both your diabetes and high blood pressure will go away. Care for yourself and educate yourself, there’s tons of resources.
That’s why he didn’t want to get married. He got all the benefits without the commitment, so why would he need to go further? I always thought it was funny how people can live in the same house, sleep on the same bed, make a baby together, but when it comes to a marriage certificate or money, no,..that’s too personal lol
Not worth for that dude he has his own life style…. Love yourself too but don’t starve
I somewhat agree with your boyfriend too. Carbs are really scary. Try doing keto, it takes time for your body to adjust
You can go on a diet without totally cutting rice out of your daily diet. You can have rice one meal and skip the other two meals without rice. I would prefer to eat rice in the afternoon for lunch and skip morning and dinner without rice.
Your ex bf acts like no humans can get sick. Even very healthy ones can get sick and succumb to their illnesses. I know some healthy people who has high blood pressure because it runs in their family or who is diabetic.
He basically doesn't have the love for women but only wany to have full control over them. When he knows he no longer is holding onto the handle of the knife, he throws them out of his life. He is definitely not the type of husband to love his wife "til death do us part" and to "love even in sick or poor". Look at his 2 ex wives whom he divorced. He said it himself because of the way he likes to eat and take care of himself.
As for you, consider yourself lucky that you weren't married to him because he would have divorced you, too because he didn't love you for you.
However, I do have to say self-love is extremely important. Work on yourself and get off of those pills. It will benefit you in the long run. Good luck!
Tus mentxhais hom tib neeg xaiv zaub mov, xaiv tus tsi muaj mob li koj tus hluas nraug no ces qhia meej tias yuav tsi muaj ib tus phooj yws los sis tus hlub nrog nws nyob tau li nawv, nws pheej nyob ib leeg li no txog hnub tsi pom nws tawm ces tub tsw2 lwj lawm ces ua dab zov apartment li xwb hov.
You are better of without this man. He may not want to be with someone that he needs to take care of due to health issues but God always have a plan for everyone. I know some people that are very healthy and fit but have other health issues when they age. My husband is heathy and fit but he loves me and support me. People that loves you do not leave you because of your weight, health or finance.
That’s why peb hmoob cov laus tsis nyiam lub idea los nyob ua ke ua ntej yus sib yuav los yog hais kiag tias yus tsis txhob muab yus lub cev rau txiv neej siv ua ntej luag yuav yus. Luag siv2 yus txaus ces luag paub yus lub siab lub cev tag ces luag dhuav yus Tus cwj pwm lawm ces luag tsis kam yuav yus li no es peb hmoob cov laus tsis muaj Tus cai los nyob ua ke sib haum mam sib yuav. No. Peb hmoob tsis nyob ua ke mam sib yuav, tsuas yog miskas xwb.
Can't blame the boyfriend. He really pushed you towards a healthy lifestyle. Better now that you part than later in marriage that he doesn't want to commit to a marriage anymore and you got kids.
I agree with you. Nobody wants tarry someone that might have a stroke. Yes, he doesn't love her, yet. That was the point of living together.
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It's is both fault..his fault for can't except who u r. it's her fault for blind love she know exactly that she can't except the way he is she still choose to love him n ne with him..but to my believe I believe that some who really love you they will except who u r not just by beauty n healthy..cuz I have seen some couple the husband was blind the wife is not the wife still except him tell the end of their life apart
Different lifestyle not gonna work. Better to find someone who's compatible with u. Hey at least u desperately tried. And he still doesn't accept u so just go on ur way.
It’s ok. You each go your own way. He needs to find someone who has more in common in him. It was already a red flag when he was trying to change you when you were dating and not living together. You gave him a pass every time just because he’s good looking. You didn’t like him for who he is. You liked him bc he’s good looking only. He didn’t like you because you are a fun and gregarious person, he liked you because he thought he could change you. You are too different and just weren’t meant to be.
When he is done using you, he’ll find any excuse to leave you. People like him will always play victim. You’re just naive to fall into his trap.
I agreed
I don’t know if I will want to take care of an ailing partner before we’re even married and have a family. I want to marry someone starting out with good health. As we age and he gets sick then I don’t mind.
LMFAO, sister, your boyfriend is a health nut. There are many folks who are like this. I myself am a health nut but not to this extreme. I hit the gym three times a week. I jog/run every morning. I do yoga and meditation every evening. Except on Sunday because that is my lazy and rest day. On Sunday, I stay in bed until after 12 pm. Or whenever I decide to get out of bed. I do not do any chores, and I diffinately do not cook. I'll either eat out or order out. It is my cheat day...my reward for myself. I have a routine with everything in my life, from food, eating, exercising, health, work, entertainment, and travel, including my family and friends.
We each have our own plan and outlook and wants in life. You can't force anyone to do anything, and you diffinately can not change someone if they do not want to change.
Divorced twice??? Hmmmm... start thinking deeper and digging deeper before you give him a chance.
This dude is acting like he’s gonna live forever
Twv koj noj zoo thaum kawg yeej yuav mob tuag xwb xwb li os yawg
Dieting and cutting caloric intake for prolong periods slow down your metabolism. Once you're off diet, people tend to gain all the weight back plus some more. Dieting is not suggested unless it becomes a life style change.
Mi ntxhais, koj txhob muab yoo too much ma? You eat meat and salad and cut down your portion thiab koj txhob noj mov dawb lawm. Noj mov daj ( brown rice) but noj just one cup. Start to eat less and less on rice then go down to no rice.
It's nice that he takes care of his health, but he think he not going to die because he is healthy then he is wrong. Healthy people can still get cancer and other diseases. He can also die from an accident. Who knows. Better get that life insurance.
Tseem yog nkauj xwb? No, nkauj xwb yog tus ntxhais tsis tau nrog txiv neej pw ua ke. Koj tsis tau muaj txiv dua, tiam sis koj tsis yog nkauj xwb lawm. Nej cov ntxhais leej twg ntshaw lub npe nkauj xwb, yuav tau xav zoo zoo mam kam mus nrog hluas nraug nyob ua ke li twb yog txij nkawm lawm. Zej zog tsis tau noj tshoob tias yog txij nkawm, tiam sis twb pws ua ke ib yam li txij nkawm lawm, ces tsis yog nkauj xwb lawm. Nej cov ntxhais yuav tau luj koj zoo. Txiv neej yeej xav kom muaj ib tug hluas nkauj siv txhua hmo, tiam sis tsis tau xav yuav ua pojniam.
Haub yau koj yog niag POG ROG es pheej yuav ntshaw cov txiv neej sexy ces yoog kom tau luag yog yoog tsis tau ces mus nrhiav cov thaub ROG ROG LI KOJ TUS POG ROG thiaj sib phim Maa POG ROG aw
Rau qhov koj ib txwm noj loj lawm ces koj cev swm noj ntau2 lawm ces become ntshav qab Pab tsis tau.
33:42 you gained all that weight back really fast because you messed up your metabolism. When you cut calories, you slowed down your metabolism, which is why you gained the weight all back. You should do research on healthy “dieting” and talk to a dietician, not him. It is a lifestyle change, not a temporary fix.
Tsi ntev ces yawg thaub twb yuav muaj mob phem tshaj. Cov thuam2 saib tsi taus lwm tus, thaum npam ces npam tshaj. Tsi muaj ib tug neeg tsi muaj mob.
Even a healthy person has a heart attack.
At 5ft for 150lb is overweight and 160lb is considered obese. For your height you need to be under 127lb. Lol people always make excuse for being overweight.
He probably won’t be able live up to his wedding vows, “in sickness and in health” good thing y’all not married.
Tus neeg muaj ntshav qab zib ces koj ntsia tib plia xwb koj twb twm tau zoo heev lawm. Tus neeg muaj ntshav siab los yog cholesterol mas tus neeg ntawv yauv tau ntsib Dr. thiaj paub vim yuav tau sim ntshav thiaj paub.
Yog leejtwg mob ntshav qab zib ces mus yuav cov supplement Liver Health by Purehealth coj los noj. Koj noj li 1 hlis ce koj cov ntshav qabzib zoo lawm.
Puas yog mas?
Tus niam tais, hnov koj hais tub yeeg ntau ntau zaus lawm koj hu li ntawd los? Peb hu ua tub yees( meej meej ces hais tias tub yin(tou yin) no os. Thank you
There is no love connection here. Your bf is more obsessed toward a living lifestyle rather building a life around you. It's good that you guys don't get married.
Sorry to say this but sister, yes I agreed with your ex-boyfriend's decision. You are are so young, you need to take care of yourself ok.
He's not bullet proof. He's right on many levels but he's also a little control freak.
5’ 150-160 is over weight. The most you should be is 120. In my opinion, you tried to lose weight too fast. If it’s not your natural weight, you have to completely changed your lifestyle which most people can’t do. It’s better to let go sooner than later if you two don’t think alike
Both you and your ex-bf went around this whole thing the wrong way. The reason you gained so much weight back is because you went in too hard. You were dieting when you should've been slowly changing your eating habits. Dieting and restricting too much will cause you to binge eat. But slowly changing your food consumption will build a normal eating habit. For example, you can still eat rice but change to brown rice and limit your consumption. Eat stir-fry but limit meat portion and seasonings, and add a lot of veggies. Use the plate method, 1/2 of the plate is veggie/fruit, 1/4 grains/starch, 1/4 protein. There's so much more I can go on, but hopefully this gives you an idea. 😊
I don't know why you are putting the blame on your family. Take responsibility and change the way you intake food.
Ib tus neeg noj mov twb tsis muaj limite ces thaum yuav ces yuav dhau thaum rog ces rog dhau Xwb mos ,noj mov los yeej noj tau kawg tab sis yuav tau noj kom tsawg zog Xwb yeej tau kawg mas ,peb tej no yeej tsis rog tsis yuav yeej noj mov txhua zaus ,peb yeej tsis ua Maiv puv tau 20 tawm lub xyoo los lawm as !!!
Tus txiv dev no los hais cuav li. Nws taws teeb ua neej es nws yuav tsis muaj mob ib sim neej no os yom? Tus txiv dev phem awd! Kev mob kev nkeeg kev ploj kev tuag tsis leej twg thiab lub sij hawm twg li nawb.
Oh gosh....how did you decided to move in with him once you didn't even know who he really is. You're so desperate and leading you to the wrong person.
Cas ntu no es tsis muaj dab neeg zoo mloog li lawm na niam neej vam?😀.....this story is nonsense to me.
Red flag.he is loser..lam zoo nraug xwb he is a womanizers tsis xav tab cuab
I don't think he is. He was trying to save her health and if she won't then he doesn't want to take care of a sick person. Who does?
Not big bones but thic skyne
He's right. He doesn't want to commit to someone who can't control their health. You wouldn't be sick if you listen to him. Rice and noodles are bad.
Hahaha. Obviously he isn't committed to anyone....look at his 2 ex-wives. He's a narcissistic.
I'm on the dude side you eat too darn much.
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Oh my gah....koj tus nraug nrauj ko ces ntxov tso ntxov zoo os sister. Txhob khuv xim ib tus neeg ua nws tsuas hlub nws tus kheej nkaus xwb
that's why nws raug ua nraug nrauj 2X
Xav kom muaj ib hais li thiab qhia kom Kuv noj qab nyob zoo thiab nrog kuv mus gym tas li xwb