Today we decided to do a much overdue Q&A with Allie and myself. This time around we answered your more serious questions and took time to really evaluate and communicate properly our thoughts through this Q&A with many of those more intense questions that have been asked in the past. Please be respectful of one another in the comment section, of us, and of everyone on the internet. Remember we are all family, We love you guys and appreciate the constant love and support after all of these years. Without you all I don't know what I would have done through some of the roughest times in my life and I am so glad I was able to share some of the most incredible moments with you as well. There will never be enough words to describe the appreciation I have for those who have always been there for the entire CTFxC family. I am forever thankful for you all. We hope this brings ease to a lot of your unanswered questions. We love you.
CTFxC love this video so much, it's great to hear all of your amazing answers for these hard questions! I arrived on holiday 5 days ago and after being here for about 2 hours my dad had his first ever seizure 😔it was the scariest thing in the world! Now seeing that happen I really know what you and Allie go through and I'm so so sorry for that! Love you guys so much ❤️been watching you for about 4 years 💕
I've said this multiple times since Allie became a part of the vlogs, but she really is the most incredible woman. Her answers about Alli Speed and the whole marriage and all of that seemed so genuine and totally honest, which is very appreciated by us. If people don't really understand, it was like your parents getting a divorce and then one of them seeing someone else, so it's never nice to hear the new partner shitting over your mother or father. Your opinions make total sense without making people who wouldn't react the same way you have feel stupid or ridiculous. The amount of respect Allie has for everyone involved, even us, is truly amazing. Thank you, both of you, for doing this for us and not being afraid to answer the questions that a lot of us had in mind but were trying to be respectful and not ask x
Linda Cundiff I can't quite tell the tone of your comment, I'm sorry if I've misinterpreted and you can ignore this if I have haha. If the mentioning ex part was at me because I mentioned her in my comment then I only mentioned her the one time in a positive way, there were multiple shes in my comment and it got confusing so I wanted to use their names for ease of reading. I'm fully aware and totally support the fact that bringing her up from now on needs to stop but in a video where she is brought up multiple times I felt that this time it was appropriate and done in a tasteful and respectful way. I never ever bring anything to do with that up in any normal comment on a video and I'm always respectful and positive towards them. Also I don't fully understand "She is happier without him." Is that referring to Alli being happier without Charles? Again, apologies if I totally got the wrong idea:').
Disney Gamer I thought her comment didn't relate to mine in the slightest, how ridiculous! even when questioned on it she doesn't explain or make sense... I'm just going to delete her comment because quite frankly she's talking shit for no reason. Thank you for explaining, I didn't take it to heart I was just suuuuuper confused haha. X
Completely unrelated, but Allie, girl you look stupid gorgeous in this video! 😍✨ so glad the people who have been constantly bugging you guys with all these questions will get their answers, love you guys!
Heidi Matthews I'm trans and it's not wrong to or not proper to say transsexual it's just transition after operation which is just another chapter of transition
+MyUploadedLife Well then thanks so much for explaining that to me! 😊 Always willing to learn, and I always heard/was told that transsexual wasn't exactly a good word to use.
Sadly I'm not sure if that'll be enough. Both charles and ALLI have answered this question numerous times, but people keep bagering them about it. I hope they leave it alone now though.
I commend you for answering some tough questions that most vloggers would ignore and not want to answer. That really says a lot about both of you. I can tell your answers were genuine and showed how mature you both are. Thank you for your honesty.
Thank you for your positive outlook on cannabis!! I work for a cannabis physician and we work with many cancer patients, veterans, and pediatric patients who are just not wanting opiates and who would blame them?! One pediatric patient we have is now in school, but we began seeing her a few months into her life - she was on so many crazy prescriptions and had up to 309 seizures a day...her doctors told her parents WITH or without the medicine she wouldn't survive past toddler stages. Now, after being treated with oil based cannabis medicine she is nearly seizure free and her quality of life is so much more than anyone could've ever imagined. Another patient who was in middle stages of cancer just called to let us know he is cancer free, and it's just amazing. So frustrating to see the plant get such a bad rap...I hope things chance soon. ❤️💚
I've stepped away from the ctfxc after the divorce. I could not handle the drama of the comments, and I was just a viewer, man, it was brutal. I saw this video now, and was just going to look at it shortly to see if it was a fun or really genuine. I've now watched the entire video. You are a lovely couple. This is such a genuine video, I applaud you both.
Allie, you are the most understanding woman. This video showed a lot of who you are. Thank you so much for being this amazing person who supports Charles everyday. I am so happy for you two and look up to you both. So excited to see whats to come!!
I admit to disliking Allie and complaining about her presence when Charles and Alli got divorced, but after getting to know her and giving her a chance, I love her. I have learned so much from her and I admire everything about her. I love Allie and Alli so much and I'm glad our CTFxC family expanded.
5:03 - 5:07 -- "Do your research, and make your own decisions." This deserves respect. Whether it is to be believed or not, there are many impressionable minds that follow your daily tales of life. This puts you in a position of power, as it does many others in similar circumstances. There are people, sadly, who would abuse that "power" those circumstances give them--even and especially on UA-cam. They seek to mold minds to fit this agenda or that ideology. I'm happy to see that you, Charles and Allie, are not among that number--you chose the noble path. I hope you continue to.
As a long time CTFXCer I feel as though I need to say something: Charles, over the last 8 years has shown us (his viewers) not only what its like to live with and go through everything he has, but also what it means to be human. He consistently demonstrates positivity and openness on a platform where these elements are not always present. Even though He may have reacted in a less than preferable way to certain situations he has been present with, Charles has made amends and apologized for his actions, whilst continuously providing his community of subscribers with nothing but positivity and light. Therefore I do not believe that he should have to keep apologizing for his past mistakes and deserves the chance to move on. I would like to ask all of CTFXC who agree to send nothing but love and admiration to both Charles and his fiancée Allie, in the comments, in an effort to show them how much we love and support them whole heartedly! Charles, thank you for being a light in the dark for myself and those who need it! Sincerely Alex (CTFXCer since 2010)
It's so sad to see the pain on both of your faces when the past marriage question comes up. So sorry that people keep making you feel sad. So happy for you both heading to the future
Loretta Formes I started crying. Allie was very affected and Charles was very frustrated that people don't believe him. I think people just want a reason (ex. Cheating) so that they can run to the other party and start drama
Not for nothing, but Charles ASKED for these questions. Says so in the video. He even noted people were asking soft and respectful questions, and he wanted harder ones. He went fishing for questions like that.
I know John Bonham but... I have a feeling that he did not expect to get upset. Sometimes you think you are ok to talk about something and then when you start... you realize that the pain is still there
This was incredibly brave - very proud of the two of you because you by no means 'owed' us any of these answers. So great to feel a little bit closer to you both.
I really hope you both read this. I wanted to tell you guys that this video was honestly INCREDIBLE. I have ALWAYS watched your vlogs Charles, however, I have always felt like there was a lot that you guys were hiding and just not being honest about. Being this honest with your viewers is gonna do nothing more than grow your channel and this wonderful family. Love both of you!
My stepmother has been fighting lung cancer for 5 years now, and already lived much longer than anyone every expected she would. Recently she's started taking the prescription cannabinoids, and it's unbelievable the changes we've seen just in a month and a half. Her appetite came roaring back, she's felt better than she has in years, and some of the tumors in her body seem to be shrinking. And the fact that it's not one of those clinical trials that treats the cancer while destroying other organs in your body is amazing. When I found out what was making her feel so much better was a natural plant extract, I sat down on the floor and cried happy tears.
I guess people are waiting for a "juicy" story or some b.s. They can't accept the fact that just because two people grew apart it doesn't have to be a crazy story.
It's the world we're growing up in. Everything should be bitchy and two faced and dramatic, if a relationship just ended without drama and the two became good friends there would 100% be people there trying to stir up problems and get fights out of it, it's stupid and I hate it, it's everything, not just relationships, it's as if people don't want stuff a simple life anymore
Because people fell in love with their story/relationship over the course of 5 years, they felt betrayed. It wasn't that Charles found another girl it's because it was so fast. As far as the vlogs were concerned they were happily married, then a few weeks later Charles is with another girl. To them it looked like he didn't value the marriage and ctfxc. I agree though I think people need to realise there's so much that happens off camera and the relationship had probably been unhappy a long time before the the separation video.
Allie - I'm not one who ever comments on vlogs, however seeing today's Q&A I've seen a person who is beautiful, understanding, empathetic, supportive, thoughtful, caring, respectful and a genuinely awesome person. Thank you x
@CTFxC to see how supportive Alli Wes is of you Charles while talking about your previous marriage and how emotionally she got for you is beyond sweet and heart warming to see the love she has for you is heart melting, You are truly a blessed man to have such a loving and supportive fiance I truly wish you both the best marriage ever. Love you both😉
I found out a few minutes ago I have renal failure due to my seizure meds. All I want to do is cry but seeing your strength in the vlogs kept me going and your positivity today will keep me going. Thank you Charles.
Deco_great right? I was on vimpat and actually talked to Charles about it. one of my eyes wouldn't focus, I sounded drunk all the time, could barely stay awake, and I couldn't do anything. If I were to smoke I'd probably just want pizza. like cmon
i normally never comment on videos but is just wanted to say something i have been thinking about for a while.. lately i have been watching old vlog.. i was just thinking while watching that that charles always looked happy in his marriage.. until i was watching the new vlogs and he just took happy to another level.. with alli i think he really found his soulmate.. that is al i wanted to say.. ( im sorry if my english is bad.. not my first language.) i love you guys!! and allis beautiful smile 😀
Amy McPherson I agree. There was pain on both sides but it's over; they've both moved on. They're both doing awesome things with their separate lives. I wish people could just let it go.
Thank you for being so open and honest, and for actually answering the really personal or hard questions. That takes some guts, but I really appreciated the realness of both of you.
Honestly I stopped watching these vlogs after the divorce when Charles was being nasty and it was messy- and this popped up on my recommendations today, I'm glad I watched, she seems very mature and grounded in herself and her own being. She seems to have a lot of confidence and transparency and they seem to make each other happy. Cheers, guys. X
I deeply respect Allie in who she is and who you've matured into Charles. I have been watching since day one and like you my life mine has gone through so many changes. I'm proud of everything the CTFXC has become. Much love you guys thank you for being so upfront and truthful with us
I'm so glad Allie hung in there. Most CTFXCers grew to know and love her. And you have become a great vlogger girl! Thanks guys, for putting yourselves out there and answering these questions. Love you both!
I've watched Charles for years, he's been through a lot and give him a lot of credit to always try to keep a goofy attitude. I'm glad you guys are happy and I appreciate the honest and genuine answers in this video!
I haven't watched any CTFxC for a long time! This vid got randomly recommended on my home page. I am glad to see Charles looking so well and both of them looking happy. :)
I've been watching for four+ years, so around half the time of the daily vlogs. I have loved seeing Charles' life at the best points, and felt sad for the low times. All in all, the CTFxC has been and continues to be an AMAZING journey. These two creatures bring so much happiness, even if it's just 10 minutes a day, to my life. Charles and Allie, and Alli Speed, along with their friends and family have brought joy and many life lessons. I never will regret first clicking on this channel, funny enough, I only found them because of Jesse and Jeana. I love you guys so much and wish you ALL the happiness in the world
I am so glad you answered the question on marijuana. It is a medicine..I've had surgeries since i was 10 and have 2 steel rods and 24 screws in my back. I was addicted to pain pills since about age 15 along with all the other meds doctors push. I made the choice to smoke medical marijuana and it is the best decision I have ever made. To feel normal after all these years and be pain free without ruining my liver and stomach..It is truly amazing what cannabis can do for people's way of life!
I've been subscribed to you for 4 years now, what made me start watching your videos was watching the proposal video with previous Alli, and I watched you guys grow and I was there when you guys went on your separate ways and it sucker for me and it definitely was a big transition for the entire CTFxC family and I couldn't watch them for a while but then I started watching them again and I'm so happy for you and this new relationship you've been in for a while and I absolutely love her and I hope the very best for you two and I will continue to always watch your vlogs and I love you guys!
I absolutely agree on the medical marihuana. It helps with so many diseases and helps so many people in general. For me, living in the Netherlands, there are so many people that are addicted to it, driving and causing accidents, experimenting with other drugs after starting with weed, it still feels a bit 50/50 for me. If it's only legalized for medical reasons I 125.000% agree lol. So please don't get me wrong. I've seen the good and the bad side of it unfortunately:) I love this Q&A btw! So many different questions! Thanks for being so honest and personal! X
I want to say I'm sorry for the people still questioning your honesty with your previous marriage. People need to let go. I just cringe a bit that you seem to have a hard time saying her name.
have you ever personally used cannabis? if you haven't, I don't think you should have an opinion in it. I used to think it was a crazy drug too, but once you experience it you'll find that it really just calms your mind and body and makes you a little happier and in less pain... I am a cannabis user and I have never tried any harmful drugs, so people who say that it's a gateway drug to harmful substances are full of shit. also, if you're too high, most people are completely aware of that and they simply won't drive.. as opposed to alcohol where that level of decision making is impaired.
lavieemily oh please stop. Don't say 'most people' like you know most of the cannabis users. There are a LOT of people still driving while high, because they think they feel fine. That's the same with alcohol. And no, I haven't used cannabis myself, ever. If I need to calm down I listen to music, draw or do something else. If you really think cannabis isn't a gateway to other drugs for a lot of people you need to get your head out of your ass. I can have an opinion whether I used it myself or I haven't. I've seen it happen with close friends, family and colleagues, so I KNOW what it can make you feel. Because, just for your information, not all people react to cannabis the way you do. Some react completely different and it's not all chilled out and giggles for example. I also have a friend that has ptsd and he smokes it. It helps him relax and for the people who helps it relax, I am absolutely not against it. But hey, if you'd like to think that everyone should take cannabis when they're stressed out, it's your opinion and you are entitled to have that opinion. Just as I am entitled to have mine. Just to clarify: I 100% agree with what Charles and Allie said.
For the past 2 years I've been battling depression as a result of the very unexpected death of my Mom. Being born and raised in Florida and now living in Pennsylvania, watching your vlogs make me miss being there but also allow me to thing back to growing up there and the good memories I have. Even on my worst days when I've been too down to even get off the couch y'all manage to put a small smile on my face. Your smiles and positivity are infectious and wonderful. thank you.
This was different and unexpected but respectful you guys did this. It's builds a stronger connection and you both are brace for doing so! Love you both!
That guy will probably still complain about you not sharing what happened with your previous marriage,although you shared more than enough and you don't need to answer to anyone.It's your life and we're really grateful that you get to show it to us everyday.Thanks for everything Charles,you got me through a lot of stuff and i hope i can meet you someday.Thanks for answering all those personal questions,love you both !
I like this talk of children.... *pokes at Challie like an old granny* haha. This video truly made me smile and warmed my heart tonight. Love you guys!
Seriously respect you guys so, so much. There are so many other people who are not able to respect and be thankful for their past. It was a great time in your life, but it's so good to see you also moving on with your life. Allie has shown so much respect for his past relationship (s) and she seems to genuine. Thanks for being who you guys are. You Rock.
this is so beautiful. I appreciate the rawness. I have been watching since year 2 but I have gone back to watch them all. Once you got together with Allie W I saw how happy and good you were together. I am happy you are moved on and happy and secure. keep doing you!
Allie you are a cool, laid back lady! Your attitude and mindset regarding Charles's previous relationships are refreshing. It takes a very secure woman to be so understanding about a part of his life that happened, that can't be changed, that you wouldn't want to change. You can clearly see that you support him, you accept him and you're proud of him. It's nice to see such honesty but also openness to situations that cannot be changed.
Charles I've watched this channel since 2009-2010 and I've always respected you, and yet this video just made me respect you 100x more. you and Alli both. keep it up, guys. Much love
CTFxC No thank you. Not just from me, from everyone. You give everyone who watches your videos 10-15 minuets of relief from our everyday lives. In those short minuets of the day, you help each and every one of us a little bit more. I've had my fair share of problems, hell I'm going through a huge one now, but watching your videos helps a lot. I'm happy to have seen you mature, and I'm also happy a lot of me maturing was thanks to you.
You know what, good on you guys. Taking the questions you get head on is the absolute right thing to do, avoiding them would only make them more common questions. You'll earn a lot of respect for this from me and the rest of the community. Not often you get a raw 100% honest video like this. I rate that. It'll also to some extent put to bed any underlying negativity that's been lingering for the past couple years I think. But yeah, totally the right thing to do this video, and it's also going to reconnect what was becoming a worryingly disconnected audience/community.
I've been watching since year 1 and quit watching for almost 3-4 months after the initial separation. You both are so clearly meant for each other, change was hard but you both seem so bright and glowy and I am so so so happy for the both of you. Also, so so brave and proud of you guys for doing this Q&A. :)
I've been watching CTFxC for probably 5 years or so, stopping for a while when the divorce happened, and it's so nice to see you two able to be so open with your audience. I cannot wait to see the wedding and everything else your future holds
This was incredible to watch. The way you guys work as a team, the way you look at each other with such admiration. Your openness, while some will take it for granted.. I appreciate this so much. I've been watching the CTFxC for years. I stuck with you through everything and took a very short break from the channel. It wasn't out of anger or sadness or whatever, the vlogs were just in a different place because Charles was really off character. And I came back because I missed you guys so much because you're such positive people! I feel like I'm just rambling, and I don't comment much but I just want to say thank you. I know you work so hard and I know your channel lost some volume, but know that we love you so much and all the assholes who left don't even deserve to see a love as beautiful as the love you share. Thanks for everything you guys.❤️
Charles and Allie. I have been watching you for years now. Idk how long but since before your brain surgery. But I love both of you. I love watching your relationship grow. It makes me hopeful for a new relationship in my life. You both are so genuine in everything you do. And I want to thank you for being who you are and bringing so much happiness into mine and the rest of the CTFxC's life. Also Allie thank you for making Charles happy. He's been the "father" of all of us it's amazing to see us happy.
I just want to say the way Charles and Allie handled some of these questions, AMAZING!! You guys handled it with so much grace and honesty. Now let's leave these questions behind and move on to the new and exciting adventures that are planned for the future. Much love xxx
I've been watching for three years now, and watching through everything that's happened in the last three years has made me grow as a person, as strange as that sounds. This channel has been such an important thing in my life, and I'll never be able to thank you enough for that. So much love for you two. 💙
Thank you both for being honest with us. You are absolutely right Charles, you have told us the truth and that's all you can say. Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us. That must have been very difficult. I admit, I made HUGE mistakes with you guys and said things I regret so much now. I was unfair to you and Allie and to be honest, I don't have a reason why because there is absolutely no excuse for how I acted or how others acted or unfortunately continuing to act. I just thank you guys for allowing me to stay and I'm so excited for your wedding ☺️❤️ You guys deserve to be happy.
It feels like forever since I've heard the first marriage question of what happened, especially since Charles have already answered it a long time ago. But I agree with you. We all make mistakes everywhere in our lives. But we can learn from it and make sure we don't make the same mistakes twice. Charles you have been awesome for the past 6 years I've watched you, and no matter what decisions you and Allie makes, I will be one of those behind you. If either of you are reading this, stay awesome, have fun, and enjoy the rest of your day!
This was so well done. Thank you guys for being so open and honest. I've been watching since Day 25 of the vlogs and seeing a new video pop up on my screen every single day is and always has been something to look forward to. Watching Charles and Alli Speed got me through a lot of tough times in my life by bringing me a daily dose of laughter and fun and now seeing his happiness with Allie Wes is a reminder that while things change, it's what you take away from an experience that really matters. I think it is safe to say that we all have taken a lot of great things away from these vlogs over the years. Allie, your enthusiasm and love for Charles has revitalized these vlogs in my personal opinion and I think you've done an amazing job! The CTFXC is a community unlike any other and I am so happy to see all the positive responses to this video. Great job Charles and Allie! We love you guys!
why can't people let go of the past I cried listening to him speak it was so long ago a it sad for him to answer something he's all ready told us. some of you are really mean with telling alli to remove her make up why should she I think she looks beautiful and it make me sad with all the negativity out their and the thing that can be said online it hurt it's happened to me before we need to spread more love. these guys put I smile on my face for a few minutes out of the day and even though I don't know them in real life I have so much respect and love for the both of them and wish the all the happiness in the world.
I definitely teared up a little. I know this was probably hard for you guys to be so open like this. but it makes me love you both even more! and oh my goodness your so Beautiful Allie!
This video has brought me to the brink of tears...You have gone through so much in your life that the problems I have seem minuscule in comparison. Y'all are an inspiration to me, and have impacted me greatly. Not so long ago I admitted myself to the hospital because I was seriously contemplating suicide, but your videos have helped pull me from the edge, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that.
Life goes on. Both my husband and myself had previous serious relationships. He was married before and I was engaged. We've been together 28 years and happily married 26 and still treasure memories from our 'previous lives'. What we experience in life makes us who we are. Not every relationship works out and sometimes it is just as simple as people growing apart. You owe us no further explanation, Charles. Just live your life. It's a shame that some people just don't get it.
I have anxiety and my dad is totally against me being put on medication because I have such a high tolerance to medication, which means that my dosage would be high and I would be all doped up 24/7, so having Marijuana legalized would help so much. I'm not a fan of smoking it, so any other form of it would help me. I am definitely going to be voting yes on legalizing it.
When I say "doped up" I mean that since the medication dosage would have to be so high, I would probably be unable to function properly while I am on it.
+Selena Guillen as someone who has anxiety and takes medication. Unless you're on a Valium which I would not think they would put you on. You would be most likely on an ssri drug. You can be on a very high dose and you don't get a sensation. You just feel like your normal self less the anxiety
it's been 4 years that I kept quiet but here in cali we believe that is an excellent alternative. finally you woke up and lived for YOURSELF charles this is great. keep blowing trees
Hey! this was really interesting to watch. Thanks for opening up, Charles and Allie. All the questions were, I feel like, questions we all had. You answered them gracefully and honestly. Regardless if some people think otherwise, I really felt like you both answered them honestly and sincerely. ❤
I was diagnosed with epilepsy my freshman year of high school, and Charles, you have really inspired me to keep going. You have gone through life with nothing but happiness and love for others. I have had such awful times, and have ended up in the ER a few times. I'm a senior now, and I know that even though I have to deal with it, I have a lot more going for me. I just want to thank you for inspiring me to keep on going with life❤️
There's screenshots of Ally liking stuff on Charles Instagram while he was still married, which means she knew he was a vlogger. When she says things like she didn't know vlogging was a thing, it makes me trust her less because I just don't think that's the full story. I wish she'd just be a bit more forthcoming. There's no shame in having watched old vlogs before or after you started dating!
+Clisare Allie here. I know it seems strange but I swear I never watched his vlogs nor did I realize he was apart of this thing called "UA-cam". Yes pictures were liked but honestly as silly as this sounds sometimes I just liked pictures because, well, I just did. I'll like pictures of my friends without even really paying attention to what's being posted just because. I know I sound idiotic but it's the truth. I know I'm being defensive right now but I just get so frustrated that people just can't believe the simplest of truths being told. I have no reason to lie about anything regarding watching his videos before we met. That's stupid. I never even knew there was a UA-cam community before I met him. I apologize if upsets prople but I don't know what else you would like me to say. I hope this answers your questions.
CTFxC That's totally fair enough Allie! I am 100% with you, I think some people are way too hard on you and I believe that a) everything happened the way you say it did and b) it's time for everyone to move on! I suppose it's hard for people who were so ingrained in the UA-cam community to realise there were people who weren't always! Hope my flippant remark hasn't upset you
Lol myself as well as my friends watch youtube for music videos and funny pups and babies. I know about vlogging only last year from CTFxC. I don't even watch other people's vlogs. It's hard for vloggers to realize that people have no idea what their "career" is about, but you'd be surprised to know so many people know youtube only for music and pups.
I'm so sorry you were given such a hard time at the beginning. I immediately saw how much of a happier person Charles was and still is since you became a part of his life. I have been a follower for over 3 years now. I found you just after my best friend was diagnosed with Cancer. You were so inspirational for me at a time that I needed it most. Now I 'm along to share the journey. Love you guys lots.
This!! This is what I grew to love a few years back. I've been watching since around day 500 and the last year have only watched on and off bc I felt that somethings needed to be addressed. I applaud Charles for apologizing about the way certain situations were handled. I love that he and Allie sat down and got real and weren't afraid to tell their feelings. Thank you for being what I've missed in the past year from you guys. I really hope the best is yet to come!
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how brilliant Allie is in this video. There were so many questions that could have been so hard for her and she handled the whole thing, and indeed the whole situation since she came into Charles life, with such class and dignity. She is never given enough credit for how fantastic she has been in the face of some horrific situations, she is such an incredible person!
Smoking weed whilst watching this personally thought they were going to be against it but here I am smiling to myself like a weirdo wanting to pass this shit through the monitor
Quickly? They both expressed being unhappy months before divorce. lol some people move on fast, and some don't. I got out of my almost 2 year relationship and went into the next one about 2 weeks later (which is now going on 6 years). People are too quick to judge and be nasty.
Chandler Cooper Quickly from your point of view doesn't necessarily mean it was the same for him. From his point of view, that relationship had been over for quite a while before they told us. Making a conclusion based on speculations, assumptions and guesses due to lack of proper knowledge is only going to make yourself look foolish in the end.
I started watching right after your diagnosis in Idaho thanks to Shay's videos. Over the years I have grown to love your vlogs just as much as the shaytards but for a completely different reason. Charles you have always brought something new to vlogging that I have yet to find in another youtuber. And it's this. This video right here shows EXACTLY what it is. I have no doubt other youtubers love their audiences, but to many I feel like we are just that- an audience. You have always called the CTFXC your family and you treat us as such. Yes, I agree that in order to stay true to yourself you have to keep part of your life separate from UA-cam, I mean it's incredible and crazy and extraordinary but it's still a job. Everybody deserves to be able to separate their personal life from their work life. But what you do with this channel, even though you do hold back parts of your life in order to maintain some sort of personal separation, you still are honest with us. You still want to get deep with us. You still want to have a connection with not just the camera and an audience but with a group of people who watch you and enjoy you and your life. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate watching somebody who clearly so appreciates me. What you have created with the CTFXC is truly remarkable. Where media and entertainment has become so faked and forced and drama fueled, you shine a light showing real people living a real life, making real relationships, and just plain loving it. That to me is what makes you different than any other entertainer in the industry. As long as you make videos, I will watch. Thank you Charles (and Allie!!).
CTFxC your comment means the world to me! You are very welcome! And believe me, I hope to meet one day too! I keep on the lookout for NC dates whenever they come up. Eventually it'll work out to make it to one!
This took a lot of balls to make this video. They put themselves out there and this is what UA-cam is about. The truth and the love we that we as humans have for each other. This is why l keep watching these people. They are real and honest and are just great human beings. This video made me believe that there are still good people out there. CTFxC FTW!
You guys are a very respectable and kind couple. I've been watching CTFxC on and off since before day 100 and there was never a time when I thought you guys wanted to intentionally hurt anyone. I absolutely love your relationship and who you guys are, kind, humble, respectful, thoughtful, the list goes on. I will forever cherish the memories with Alli, but I absoluetly love the new and exciting adventures with you, Allie. May you guys have a happy, blessed, love filled marriage!
I'm so happy you did this. I haven't been watching lately and I feel like you actually answering all these questions is just what was missing. Thank you both for being so honest! I'll be watching...... til I die 😜
omg so like... I've been hella inconsisent with the vlogs this year and most of last year, so I apologize. But I am so glad that you two are still so real and honest! I appreciate yall, even from afar! Always will!
You guys used my question! I screamed when I saw my name lol I've been around since Day 1 so it was very exciting for me haha I've also been able to meet Charles a couple times and hope to meet Allie some day too! I'm sure it was hard to answer some of those questions since there is always someone that will read into everything you say. Thank you both!
I have never respected two people more in my life. You two have found the perfect balance of being completely mature, while also holding onto a carefree nature that allows you to love life for what it is and accept things as they come and go.
Man what a serious question and answer video this was and I liked it but at times it bothered me a little cause of some of the questions that were asked to Charles by some people and it was like a reopened memory that didn't need to be brought back up again but I understood when Charles had said on Twitter to not hold back on the serious questions for him and Allie but overall I liked a lot of the questions that were asked and I was surprised at how some people really dig very deep into asking those questions and it was a more close in counter and having a more intimate relationship which was great to have:) Overall I love everyone in this community as friends and youtubers on here weather you show your videos or family and just watch I still lvoe everyone here no matter what :)
ssshlow I understand and it was good that it was more intimate and deeper questions which was good but like I said some of them just bothered me a little bit since it was already talked about from what Charles said :)
Today we decided to do a much overdue Q&A with Allie and myself. This time around we answered your more serious questions and took time to really evaluate and communicate properly our thoughts through this Q&A with many of those more intense questions that have been asked in the past. Please be respectful of one another in the comment section, of us, and of everyone on the internet. Remember we are all family,
We love you guys and appreciate the constant love and support after all of these years. Without you all I don't know what I would have done through some of the roughest times in my life and I am so glad I was able to share some of the most incredible moments with you as well. There will never be enough words to describe the appreciation I have for those who have always been there for the entire CTFxC family. I am forever thankful for you all.
We hope this brings ease to a lot of your unanswered questions. We love you.
Great lighting 😉 You look so pretty Allie! you look handsome too Char 😊
CTFxC Alli you are stunning! Have an awesome day!😘
Hope certain people read this. Everyone needs to respect peoples opinions.
CTFxC Allie has such a beautiful soul. I wish I could meet her some day.
CTFxC love this video so much, it's great to hear all of your amazing answers for these hard questions! I arrived on holiday 5 days ago and after being here for about 2 hours my dad had his first ever seizure 😔it was the scariest thing in the world! Now seeing that happen I really know what you and Allie go through and I'm so so sorry for that! Love you guys so much ❤️been watching you for about 4 years 💕
I've said this multiple times since Allie became a part of the vlogs, but she really is the most incredible woman. Her answers about Alli Speed and the whole marriage and all of that seemed so genuine and totally honest, which is very appreciated by us. If people don't really understand, it was like your parents getting a divorce and then one of them seeing someone else, so it's never nice to hear the new partner shitting over your mother or father.
Your opinions make total sense without making people who wouldn't react the same way you have feel stupid or ridiculous. The amount of respect Allie has for everyone involved, even us, is truly amazing.
Thank you, both of you, for doing this for us and not being afraid to answer the questions that a lot of us had in mind but were trying to be respectful and not ask x
"Your opinions" being Allie's opinions on the previous vlogs, the marriage etc.
Linda Cundiff I can't quite tell the tone of your comment, I'm sorry if I've misinterpreted and you can ignore this if I have haha. If the mentioning ex part was at me because I mentioned her in my comment then I only mentioned her the one time in a positive way, there were multiple shes in my comment and it got confusing so I wanted to use their names for ease of reading. I'm fully aware and totally support the fact that bringing her up from now on needs to stop but in a video where she is brought up multiple times I felt that this time it was appropriate and done in a tasteful and respectful way. I never ever bring anything to do with that up in any normal comment on a video and I'm always respectful and positive towards them.
Also I don't fully understand "She is happier without him." Is that referring to Alli being happier without Charles?
Again, apologies if I totally got the wrong idea:').
Disney Gamer I'm really confused about her comments, is she mad at me for my comment?
beinglauren
Disney Gamer I thought her comment didn't relate to mine in the slightest, how ridiculous! even when questioned on it she doesn't explain or make sense... I'm just going to delete her comment because quite frankly she's talking shit for no reason. Thank you for explaining, I didn't take it to heart I was just suuuuuper confused haha. X
Allie, that red lipstick is KILLER on you. You are so absolutely gorgeous!!
Kristen Schupska it looks great with her shirt! I was thinking the same thing!
Kristen Schupska right
Kristen Schupska yes! Allie - which brand???
I need to know this too!! She's looks hot!!
Kerry Ann
I've lost track of CTFxC for the past year or two. Really need to get back into it. I really enjoy these two.
+Troy Garza we would love to have you back
You should come back daily!
Troy Garza I totally did the same. But I'm subscribed again and I'm going back to where I left of and catch up.
Completely unrelated, but Allie, girl you look stupid gorgeous in this video! 😍✨ so glad the people who have been constantly bugging you guys with all these questions will get their answers, love you guys!
Heidi Matthews I'm trans and it's not wrong to or not proper to say transsexual it's just transition after operation which is just another chapter of transition
+MyUploadedLife Well then thanks so much for explaining that to me! 😊 Always willing to learn, and I always heard/was told that transsexual wasn't exactly a good word to use.
Heidi Matthews Its a totally fine word to use the only trouble with it is that it doesnt include everyone who identifies as transgender
+MyUploadedLife Yeah, that's what I thought and I think where a lot of the confusion comes into it! Thanks again!
Sadly I'm not sure if that'll be enough. Both charles and ALLI have answered this question numerous times, but people keep bagering them about it. I hope they leave it alone now though.
Allie has walked a very difficult path with such grace and understanding, I respect her a lot for that.
I commend you for answering some tough questions that most vloggers would ignore and not want to answer. That really says a lot about both of you. I can tell your answers were genuine and showed how mature you both are. Thank you for your honesty.
+Gigi Lulu thank you
Thank you for your positive outlook on cannabis!! I work for a cannabis physician and we work with many cancer patients, veterans, and pediatric patients who are just not wanting opiates and who would blame them?! One pediatric patient we have is now in school, but we began seeing her a few months into her life - she was on so many crazy prescriptions and had up to 309 seizures a day...her doctors told her parents WITH or without the medicine she wouldn't survive past toddler stages. Now, after being treated with oil based cannabis medicine she is nearly seizure free and her quality of life is so much more than anyone could've ever imagined. Another patient who was in middle stages of cancer just called to let us know he is cancer free, and it's just amazing. So frustrating to see the plant get such a bad rap...I hope things chance soon. ❤️💚
Change* dang it!
my two favorite people ever on youtube, besides roman and britt
Johnny Perrone.
he started dating her when she was 17 and he was like 25
which is legal in a bunch of states.
I've stepped away from the ctfxc after the divorce. I could not handle the drama of the comments, and I was just a viewer, man, it was brutal.
I saw this video now, and was just going to look at it shortly to see if it was a fun or really genuine.
I've now watched the entire video. You are a lovely couple. This is such a genuine video, I applaud you both.
Allie, you are the most understanding woman. This video showed a lot of who you are. Thank you so much for being this amazing person who supports Charles everyday. I am so happy for you two and look up to you both. So excited to see whats to come!!
I admit to disliking Allie and complaining about her presence when Charles and Alli got divorced, but after getting to know her and giving her a chance, I love her. I have learned so much from her and I admire everything about her. I love Allie and Alli so much and I'm glad our CTFxC family expanded.
5:03 - 5:07 -- "Do your research, and make your own decisions."
This deserves respect. Whether it is to be believed or not, there are many impressionable minds that follow your daily tales of life. This puts you in a position of power, as it does many others in similar circumstances.
There are people, sadly, who would abuse that "power" those circumstances give them--even and especially on UA-cam. They seek to mold minds to fit this agenda or that ideology. I'm happy to see that you, Charles and Allie, are not among that number--you chose the noble path.
I hope you continue to.
As a long time CTFXCer I feel as though I need to say something:
Charles, over the last 8 years has shown us (his viewers) not only what its like to live with and go through everything he has, but also what it means to be human. He consistently demonstrates positivity and openness on a platform where these elements are not always present. Even though He may have reacted in a less than preferable way to certain situations he has been present with, Charles has made amends and apologized for his actions, whilst continuously providing his community of subscribers with nothing but positivity and light. Therefore I do not believe that he should have to keep apologizing for his past mistakes and deserves the chance to move on.
I would like to ask all of CTFXC who agree to send nothing but love and admiration to both Charles and his fiancée Allie, in the comments, in an effort to show them how much we love and support them whole heartedly!
Charles, thank you for being a light in the dark for myself and those who need it!
Sincerely
Alex
(CTFXCer since 2010)
It's so sad to see the pain on both of your faces when the past marriage question comes up. So sorry that people keep making you feel sad. So happy for you both heading to the future
Loretta Formes I started crying. Allie was very affected and Charles was very frustrated that people don't believe him. I think people just want a reason (ex. Cheating) so that they can run to the other party and start drama
I agree... and I was tearing up myself
Not for nothing, but Charles ASKED for these questions. Says so in the video. He even noted people were asking soft and respectful questions, and he wanted harder ones. He went fishing for questions like that.
Samantha Pratt Why do you have to bring up Cheating when you know he did not
I know John Bonham but... I have a feeling that he did not expect to get upset. Sometimes you think you are ok to talk about something and then when you start... you realize that the pain is still there
This was incredibly brave - very proud of the two of you because you by no means 'owed' us any of these answers. So great to feel a little bit closer to you both.
+bluesandhaikus ❤️
I really hope you both read this. I wanted to tell you guys that this video was honestly INCREDIBLE. I have ALWAYS watched your vlogs Charles, however, I have always felt like there was a lot that you guys were hiding and just not being honest about. Being this honest with your viewers is gonna do nothing more than grow your channel and this wonderful family. Love both of you!
My stepmother has been fighting lung cancer for 5 years now, and already lived much longer than anyone every expected she would. Recently she's started taking the prescription cannabinoids, and it's unbelievable the changes we've seen just in a month and a half. Her appetite came roaring back, she's felt better than she has in years, and some of the tumors in her body seem to be shrinking. And the fact that it's not one of those clinical trials that treats the cancer while destroying other organs in your body is amazing. When I found out what was making her feel so much better was a natural plant extract, I sat down on the floor and cried happy tears.
I love you guys! I don't always watch but every time I tune in it's always great to see you both being genuine.
+loveblooom thank you
why can't people leave the past where it is.
I guess people are waiting for a "juicy" story or some b.s. They can't accept the fact that just because two people grew apart it doesn't have to be a crazy story.
It's the world we're growing up in. Everything should be bitchy and two faced and dramatic, if a relationship just ended without drama and the two became good friends there would 100% be people there trying to stir up problems and get fights out of it, it's stupid and I hate it, it's everything, not just relationships, it's as if people don't want stuff a simple life anymore
Because they Dwell on it.
Because people fell in love with their story/relationship over the course of 5 years, they felt betrayed. It wasn't that Charles found another girl it's because it was so fast. As far as the vlogs were concerned they were happily married, then a few weeks later Charles is with another girl. To them it looked like he didn't value the marriage and ctfxc. I agree though I think people need to realise there's so much that happens off camera and the relationship had probably been unhappy a long time before the the separation video.
he only filmed positive stuff so that's why there is prob a lot we missed because he chose not to show that part online
Allie is so kind hearted! You can tell by just looking at her, I don't get how people could not like her honestly.
Allie - I'm not one who ever comments on vlogs, however seeing today's Q&A I've seen a person who is beautiful, understanding, empathetic, supportive, thoughtful, caring, respectful and a genuinely awesome person.
Thank you x
@CTFxC to see how supportive Alli Wes is of you Charles while talking about your previous marriage and how emotionally she got for you is beyond sweet and heart warming to see the love she has for you is heart melting, You are truly a blessed man to have such a loving and supportive fiance I truly wish you both the best marriage ever. Love you both😉
I found out a few minutes ago I have renal failure due to my seizure meds. All I want to do is cry but seeing your strength in the vlogs kept me going and your positivity today will keep me going. Thank you Charles.
I am literally on so many medications and i'm 23, weed is probably the least harmful thing for my body
Deco_great right? I was on vimpat and actually talked to Charles about it. one of my eyes wouldn't focus, I sounded drunk all the time, could barely stay awake, and I couldn't do anything. If I were to smoke I'd probably just want pizza. like cmon
i normally never comment on videos but is just wanted to say something i have been thinking about for a while.. lately i have been watching old vlog.. i was just thinking while watching that that charles always looked happy in his marriage.. until i was watching the new vlogs and he just took happy to another level.. with alli i think he really found his soulmate.. that is al i wanted to say.. ( im sorry if my english is bad.. not my first language.) i love you guys!! and allis beautiful smile 😀
I hate how they still get asked questions about the divorce. They are both clearly happy now so why always bring it up over and over again.
Amy McPherson I agree. There was pain on both sides but it's over; they've both moved on. They're both doing awesome things with their separate lives. I wish people could just let it go.
Thank you for being so open and honest, and for actually answering the really personal or hard questions. That takes some guts, but I really appreciated the realness of both of you.
Amazingly honest, I love how open you two are in this video. Much love and respect to both of you!
Honestly I stopped watching these vlogs after the divorce when Charles was being nasty and it was messy- and this popped up on my recommendations today, I'm glad I watched, she seems very mature and grounded in herself and her own being. She seems to have a lot of confidence and transparency and they seem to make each other happy. Cheers, guys. X
I deeply respect Allie in who she is and who you've matured into Charles. I have been watching since day one and like you my life mine has gone through so many changes. I'm proud of everything the CTFXC has become. Much love you guys thank you for being so upfront and truthful with us
I'm so glad Allie hung in there. Most CTFXCers grew to know and love her. And you have become a great vlogger girl! Thanks guys, for putting yourselves out there and answering these questions. Love you both!
That red lipstick looks really good on Allie❤️
I've watched Charles for years, he's been through a lot and give him a lot of credit to always try to keep a goofy attitude. I'm glad you guys are happy and I appreciate the honest and genuine answers in this video!
I haven't watched any CTFxC for a long time! This vid got randomly recommended on my home page. I am glad to see Charles looking so well and both of them looking happy. :)
I've been watching for four+ years, so around half the time of the daily vlogs. I have loved seeing Charles' life at the best points, and felt sad for the low times. All in all, the CTFxC has been and continues to be an AMAZING journey. These two creatures bring so much happiness, even if it's just 10 minutes a day, to my life. Charles and Allie, and Alli Speed, along with their friends and family have brought joy and many life lessons. I never will regret first clicking on this channel, funny enough, I only found them because of Jesse and Jeana. I love you guys so much and wish you ALL the happiness in the world
I am so glad you answered the question on marijuana. It is a medicine..I've had surgeries since i was 10 and have 2 steel rods and 24 screws in my back. I was addicted to pain pills since about age 15 along with all the other meds doctors push. I made the choice to smoke medical marijuana and it is the best decision I have ever made. To feel normal after all these years and be pain free without ruining my liver and stomach..It is truly amazing what cannabis can do for people's way of life!
I've been subscribed to you for 4 years now, what made me start watching your videos was watching the proposal video with previous Alli, and I watched you guys grow and I was there when you guys went on your separate ways and it sucker for me and it definitely was a big transition for the entire CTFxC family and I couldn't watch them for a while but then I started watching them again and I'm so happy for you and this new relationship you've been in for a while and I absolutely love her and I hope the very best for you two and I will continue to always watch your vlogs and I love you guys!
I absolutely agree on the medical marihuana. It helps with so many diseases and helps so many people in general.
For me, living in the Netherlands, there are so many people that are addicted to it, driving and causing accidents, experimenting with other drugs after starting with weed, it still feels a bit 50/50 for me. If it's only legalized for medical reasons I 125.000% agree lol. So please don't get me wrong. I've seen the good and the bad side of it unfortunately:)
I love this Q&A btw! So many different questions! Thanks for being so honest and personal! X
I want to say I'm sorry for the people still questioning your honesty with your previous marriage. People need to let go. I just cringe a bit that you seem to have a hard time saying her name.
have you ever personally used cannabis? if you haven't, I don't think you should have an opinion in it. I used to think it was a crazy drug too, but once you experience it you'll find that it really just calms your mind and body and makes you a little happier and in less pain... I am a cannabis user and I have never tried any harmful drugs, so people who say that it's a gateway drug to harmful substances are full of shit. also, if you're too high, most people are completely aware of that and they simply won't drive.. as opposed to alcohol where that level of decision making is impaired.
lavieemily oh please stop. Don't say 'most people' like you know most of the cannabis users. There are a LOT of people still driving while high, because they think they feel fine. That's the same with alcohol.
And no, I haven't used cannabis myself, ever. If I need to calm down I listen to music, draw or do something else. If you really think cannabis isn't a gateway to other drugs for a lot of people you need to get your head out of your ass.
I can have an opinion whether I used it myself or I haven't. I've seen it happen with close friends, family and colleagues, so I KNOW what it can make you feel. Because, just for your information, not all people react to cannabis the way you do. Some react completely different and it's not all chilled out and giggles for example.
I also have a friend that has ptsd and he smokes it. It helps him relax and for the people who helps it relax, I am absolutely not against it.
But hey, if you'd like to think that everyone should take cannabis when they're stressed out, it's your opinion and you are entitled to have that opinion. Just as I am entitled to have mine.
Just to clarify: I 100% agree with what Charles and Allie said.
For the past 2 years I've been battling depression as a result of the very unexpected death of my Mom. Being born and raised in Florida and now living in Pennsylvania, watching your vlogs make me miss being there but also allow me to thing back to growing up there and the good memories I have. Even on my worst days when I've been too down to even get off the couch y'all manage to put a small smile on my face. Your smiles and positivity are infectious and wonderful.
thank you.
This was different and unexpected but respectful you guys did this. It's builds a stronger connection and you both are brace for doing so! Love you both!
That guy will probably still complain about you not sharing what happened with your previous marriage,although you shared more than enough and you don't need to answer to anyone.It's your life and we're really grateful that you get to show it to us everyday.Thanks for everything Charles,you got me through a lot of stuff and i hope i can meet you someday.Thanks for answering all those personal questions,love you both !
I like this talk of children.... *pokes at Challie like an old granny* haha. This video truly made me smile and warmed my heart tonight. Love you guys!
Seriously respect you guys so, so much. There are so many other people who are not able to respect and be thankful for their past. It was a great time in your life, but it's so good to see you also moving on with your life. Allie has shown so much respect for his past relationship (s) and she seems to genuine. Thanks for being who you guys are. You Rock.
this is so beautiful. I appreciate the rawness. I have been watching since year 2 but I have gone back to watch them all. Once you got together with Allie W I saw how happy and good you were together. I am happy you are moved on and happy and secure. keep doing you!
Allie you are a cool, laid back lady! Your attitude and mindset regarding Charles's previous relationships are refreshing. It takes a very secure woman to be so understanding about a part of his life that happened, that can't be changed, that you wouldn't want to change. You can clearly see that you support him, you accept him and you're proud of him. It's nice to see such honesty but also openness to situations that cannot be changed.
Charles I've watched this channel since 2009-2010 and I've always respected you, and yet this video just made me respect you 100x more. you and Alli both. keep it up, guys. Much love
+Josh Tucker thank you dude so much
CTFxC No thank you. Not just from me, from everyone. You give everyone who watches your videos 10-15 minuets of relief from our everyday lives. In those short minuets of the day, you help each and every one of us a little bit more. I've had my fair share of problems, hell I'm going through a huge one now, but watching your videos helps a lot. I'm happy to have seen you mature, and I'm also happy a lot of me maturing was thanks to you.
You know what, good on you guys. Taking the questions you get head on is the absolute right thing to do, avoiding them would only make them more common questions. You'll earn a lot of respect for this from me and the rest of the community. Not often you get a raw 100% honest video like this. I rate that. It'll also to some extent put to bed any underlying negativity that's been lingering for the past couple years I think. But yeah, totally the right thing to do this video, and it's also going to reconnect what was becoming a worryingly disconnected audience/community.
It still floors me how people could not like Allie! I think she's the sweetest!!!
I've been watching since year 1 and quit watching for almost 3-4 months after the initial separation. You both are so clearly meant for each other, change was hard but you both seem so bright and glowy and I am so so so happy for the both of you. Also, so so brave and proud of you guys for doing this Q&A. :)
How can people not love Allie?! I love watching you both xo
I've been watching CTFxC for probably 5 years or so, stopping for a while when the divorce happened, and it's so nice to see you two able to be so open with your audience. I cannot wait to see the wedding and everything else your future holds
People are still so stuck in the past, it's ridiculous. You guys handled all the really intense questions with class, kudos to y'all 😊
This was incredible to watch. The way you guys work as a team, the way you look at each other with such admiration. Your openness, while some will take it for granted.. I appreciate this so much. I've been watching the CTFxC for years. I stuck with you through everything and took a very short break from the channel. It wasn't out of anger or sadness or whatever, the vlogs were just in a different place because Charles was really off character. And I came back because I missed you guys so much because you're such positive people! I feel like I'm just rambling, and I don't comment much but I just want to say thank you. I know you work so hard and I know your channel lost some volume, but know that we love you so much and all the assholes who left don't even deserve to see a love as beautiful as the love you share. Thanks for everything you guys.❤️
Thanks for answering tough questions. I really admired how respectful you spoke of your previous marriage.
Charles and Allie. I have been watching you for years now. Idk how long but since before your brain surgery. But I love both of you. I love watching your relationship grow. It makes me hopeful for a new relationship in my life. You both are so genuine in everything you do. And I want to thank you for being who you are and bringing so much happiness into mine and the rest of the CTFxC's life. Also Allie thank you for making Charles happy. He's been the "father" of all of us it's amazing to see us happy.
Been a long time watcher, (2010), really appreciate getting to know you guys better!
I just want to say the way Charles and Allie handled some of these questions, AMAZING!! You guys handled it with so much grace and honesty. Now let's leave these questions behind and move on to the new and exciting adventures that are planned for the future. Much love xxx
that's a lie Charles you know you will still vlog after you die you would be the first ghost 👻 vlogger
***** 👻😊
Thank you Charles and Allie for doing this video! The CTFXC Channel was one of the first channels I subbed to back in 2010.
I vote for you two as the couple with the best eyelashes on UA-cam.
I've been watching for three years now, and watching through everything that's happened in the last three years has made me grow as a person, as strange as that sounds. This channel has been such an important thing in my life, and I'll never be able to thank you enough for that. So much love for you two. 💙
+FolieASkyce thank you❤️
Thank you both for being honest with us. You are absolutely right Charles, you have told us the truth and that's all you can say. Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us. That must have been very difficult. I admit, I made HUGE mistakes with you guys and said things I regret so much now. I was unfair to you and Allie and to be honest, I don't have a reason why because there is absolutely no excuse for how I acted or how others acted or unfortunately continuing to act. I just thank you guys for allowing me to stay and I'm so excited for your wedding ☺️❤️ You guys deserve to be happy.
This Allie is genuinely nice. I'm not a big vlog watcher but I can see how happy you both are now.
Allie girl, red is your color. You look so beautiful.
It feels like forever since I've heard the first marriage question of what happened, especially since Charles have already answered it a long time ago. But I agree with you. We all make mistakes everywhere in our lives. But we can learn from it and make sure we don't make the same mistakes twice. Charles you have been awesome for the past 6 years I've watched you, and no matter what decisions you and Allie makes, I will be one of those behind you.
If either of you are reading this, stay awesome, have fun, and enjoy the rest of your day!
This showed your maturity and I give you both so much respect 😊 Here's to moving on!
This was so well done. Thank you guys for being so open and honest. I've been watching since Day 25 of the vlogs and seeing a new video pop up on my screen every single day is and always has been something to look forward to. Watching Charles and Alli Speed got me through a lot of tough times in my life by bringing me a daily dose of laughter and fun and now seeing his happiness with Allie Wes is a reminder that while things change, it's what you take away from an experience that really matters. I think it is safe to say that we all have taken a lot of great things away from these vlogs over the years. Allie, your enthusiasm and love for Charles has revitalized these vlogs in my personal opinion and I think you've done an amazing job! The CTFXC is a community unlike any other and I am so happy to see all the positive responses to this video. Great job Charles and Allie! We love you guys!
why can't people let go of the past I cried listening to him speak it was so long ago a it sad for him to answer something he's all ready told us. some of you are really mean with telling alli to remove her make up why should she I think she looks beautiful and it make me sad with all the negativity out their and the thing that can be said online it hurt it's happened to me before we need to spread more love. these guys put I smile on my face for a few minutes out of the day and even though I don't know them in real life I have so much respect and love for the both of them and wish the all the happiness in the world.
Allie is honestly just a ray of light and I love her so much
I definitely teared up a little. I know this was probably hard for you guys to be so open like this. but it makes me love you both even more! and oh my goodness your so Beautiful Allie!
This video has brought me to the brink of tears...You have gone through so much in your life that the problems I have seem minuscule in comparison. Y'all are an inspiration to me, and have impacted me greatly. Not so long ago I admitted myself to the hospital because I was seriously contemplating suicide, but your videos have helped pull me from the edge, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that.
I feel like some of these questions are disrespectful. But they have balls for this. Love them!
Life goes on. Both my husband and myself had previous serious relationships. He was married before and I was engaged. We've been together 28 years and happily married 26 and still treasure memories from our 'previous lives'. What we experience in life makes us who we are. Not every relationship works out and sometimes it is just as simple as people growing apart. You owe us no further explanation, Charles. Just live your life. It's a shame that some people just don't get it.
I have anxiety and my dad is totally against me being put on medication because I have such a high tolerance to medication, which means that my dosage would be high and I would be all doped up 24/7, so having Marijuana legalized would help so much. I'm not a fan of smoking it, so any other form of it would help me. I am definitely going to be voting yes on legalizing it.
When I say "doped up" I mean that since the medication dosage would have to be so high, I would probably be unable to function properly while I am on it.
+Selena Guillen as someone who has anxiety and takes medication. Unless you're on a Valium which I would not think they would put you on. You would be most likely on an ssri drug. You can be on a very high dose and you don't get a sensation. You just feel like your normal self less the anxiety
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Selena Guillen there are also other ways to deal with anxiety.
it's been 4 years that I kept quiet but here in cali we believe that is an excellent alternative. finally you woke up and lived for YOURSELF charles this is great. keep blowing trees
Hey! this was really interesting to watch. Thanks for opening up, Charles and Allie. All the questions were, I feel like, questions we all had. You answered them gracefully and honestly. Regardless if some people think otherwise, I really felt like you both answered them honestly and sincerely. ❤
I was diagnosed with epilepsy my freshman year of high school, and Charles, you have really inspired me to keep going. You have gone through life with nothing but happiness and love for others. I have had such awful times, and have ended up in the ER a few times. I'm a senior now, and I know that even though I have to deal with it, I have a lot more going for me. I just want to thank you for inspiring me to keep on going with life❤️
There's screenshots of Ally liking stuff on Charles Instagram while he was still married, which means she knew he was a vlogger. When she says things like she didn't know vlogging was a thing, it makes me trust her less because I just don't think that's the full story. I wish she'd just be a bit more forthcoming. There's no shame in having watched old vlogs before or after you started dating!
Clisare I was literally just thinking about that when she said she didn't know anything about the vlogs
+Clisare Allie here. I know it seems strange but I swear I never watched his vlogs nor did I realize he was apart of this thing called "UA-cam". Yes pictures were liked but honestly as silly as this sounds sometimes I just liked pictures because, well, I just did. I'll like pictures of my friends without even really paying attention to what's being posted just because. I know I sound idiotic but it's the truth. I know I'm being defensive right now but I just get so frustrated that people just can't believe the simplest of truths being told. I have no reason to lie about anything regarding watching his videos before we met. That's stupid. I never even knew there was a UA-cam community before I met him. I apologize if upsets prople but I don't know what else you would like me to say. I hope this answers your questions.
CTFxC That's totally fair enough Allie! I am 100% with you, I think some people are way too hard on you and I believe that a) everything happened the way you say it did and b) it's time for everyone to move on! I suppose it's hard for people who were so ingrained in the UA-cam community to realise there were people who weren't always! Hope my flippant remark hasn't upset you
Lol myself as well as my friends watch youtube for music videos and funny pups and babies. I know about vlogging only last year from CTFxC. I don't even watch other people's vlogs. It's hard for vloggers to realize that people have no idea what their "career" is about, but you'd be surprised to know so many people know youtube only for music and pups.
I'm so sorry you were given such a hard time at the beginning. I immediately saw how much of a happier person Charles was and still is since you became a part of his life.
I have been a follower for over 3 years now. I found you just after my best friend was diagnosed with Cancer. You were so inspirational for me at a time that I needed it most. Now I 'm along to share the journey. Love you guys lots.
i love this channel man, so real
This!! This is what I grew to love a few years back. I've been watching since around day 500 and the last year have only watched on and off bc I felt that somethings needed to be addressed. I applaud Charles for apologizing about the way certain situations were handled. I love that he and Allie sat down and got real and weren't afraid to tell their feelings. Thank you for being what I've missed in the past year from you guys. I really hope the best is yet to come!
God what a perfect couple. I'm rooting for you guys, alright?
+Md2011956 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
when did you tell allie about your cancer / about you doing daily vlogs
I really respect the transparency that this video ensues. I've been apart of the ctfxc FOR SO LONG so it really means a lot!
Allie your look in this video literally SLAYS
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how brilliant Allie is in this video. There were so many questions that could have been so hard for her and she handled the whole thing, and indeed the whole situation since she came into Charles life, with such class and dignity. She is never given enough credit for how fantastic she has been in the face of some horrific situations, she is such an incredible person!
+Thomas Goodall she's a strong woman
Smoking weed whilst watching this personally thought they were going to be against it but here I am smiling to myself like a weirdo wanting to pass this shit through the monitor
+MagmaFTW lol
Allie, your in vlogumentary because youre the other half of the CTFXC and your part of our family
I think the divorce would have been better perceived had you not moved on so quickly. That was very suspicious and suggested cheating was involved.
Quickly? They both expressed being unhappy months before divorce. lol some people move on fast, and some don't. I got out of my almost 2 year relationship and went into the next one about 2 weeks later (which is now going on 6 years). People are too quick to judge and be nasty.
Chandler Cooper Quickly from your point of view doesn't necessarily mean it was the same for him. From his point of view, that relationship had been over for quite a while before they told us. Making a conclusion based on speculations, assumptions and guesses due to lack of proper knowledge is only going to make yourself look foolish in the end.
Totally agree.
I guess you have to honor your commitments even if you have brain cancer. But ah..
"Expect things to magically work out"? LOL
I started watching right after your diagnosis in Idaho thanks to Shay's videos. Over the years I have grown to love your vlogs just as much as the shaytards but for a completely different reason. Charles you have always brought something new to vlogging that I have yet to find in another youtuber. And it's this. This video right here shows EXACTLY what it is. I have no doubt other youtubers love their audiences, but to many I feel like we are just that- an audience. You have always called the CTFXC your family and you treat us as such. Yes, I agree that in order to stay true to yourself you have to keep part of your life separate from UA-cam, I mean it's incredible and crazy and extraordinary but it's still a job. Everybody deserves to be able to separate their personal life from their work life. But what you do with this channel, even though you do hold back parts of your life in order to maintain some sort of personal separation, you still are honest with us. You still want to get deep with us. You still want to have a connection with not just the camera and an audience but with a group of people who watch you and enjoy you and your life. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate watching somebody who clearly so appreciates me. What you have created with the CTFXC is truly remarkable. Where media and entertainment has become so faked and forced and drama fueled, you shine a light showing real people living a real life, making real relationships, and just plain loving it. That to me is what makes you different than any other entertainer in the industry. As long as you make videos, I will watch. Thank you Charles (and Allie!!).
+Beka Danielle thank you very much for that Beka. It was very kind and heartfelt to read. Hope to meet one day!
CTFxC your comment means the world to me! You are very welcome! And believe me, I hope to meet one day too! I keep on the lookout for NC dates whenever they come up. Eventually it'll work out to make it to one!
He didn't have to say it but I know Charles is taking those CBD's. fuck yes!
RedConejo I was gonna say that, seems like he hasn't had a seizure in ages now
RedConejo I don't think he is because it's not legal in Florida plus I've talked to him about a medication (vimpat) we are both on.
Lanacupcake damn. I guess your right. Hope it becomes legal there. The way he was talking about it seemed like he tried it though.
Medical marijuana is legal in FL.
I hope he is!
This took a lot of balls to make this video. They put themselves out there and this is what UA-cam is about. The truth and the love we that we as humans have for each other. This is why l keep watching these people. They are real and honest and are just great human beings. This video made me believe that there are still good people out there. CTFxC FTW!
this video made me feel like I'm your kid and we are having a family meeting...and it made me love ctfxc more
You guys are a very respectable and kind couple. I've been watching CTFxC on and off since before day 100 and there was never a time when I thought you guys wanted to intentionally hurt anyone. I absolutely love your relationship and who you guys are, kind, humble, respectful, thoughtful, the list goes on. I will forever cherish the memories with Alli, but I absoluetly love the new and exciting adventures with you, Allie. May you guys have a happy, blessed, love filled marriage!
I'm so happy you did this. I haven't been watching lately and I feel like you actually answering all these questions is just what was missing. Thank you both for being so honest! I'll be watching...... til I die 😜
omg so like... I've been hella inconsisent with the vlogs this year and most of last year, so I apologize. But I am so glad that you two are still so real and honest! I appreciate yall, even from afar! Always will!
You guys used my question! I screamed when I saw my name lol I've been around since Day 1 so it was very exciting for me haha I've also been able to meet Charles a couple times and hope to meet Allie some day too! I'm sure it was hard to answer some of those questions since there is always someone that will read into everything you say. Thank you both!
I have never respected two people more in my life. You two have found the perfect balance of being completely mature, while also holding onto a carefree nature that allows you to love life for what it is and accept things as they come and go.
Man what a serious question and answer video this was and I liked it but at times it bothered me a little cause of some of the questions that were asked to Charles by some people and it was like a reopened memory that didn't need to be brought back up again but I understood when Charles had said on Twitter to not hold back on the serious questions for him and Allie but overall I liked a lot of the questions that were asked and I was surprised at how some people really dig very deep into asking those questions and it was a more close in counter and having a more intimate relationship which was great to have:) Overall I love everyone in this community as friends and youtubers on here weather you show your videos or family and just watch I still lvoe everyone here no matter what :)
LivinForChrist90 well they chose the questions 💸
ssshlow I understand and it was good that it was more intimate and deeper questions which was good but like I said some of them just bothered me a little bit since it was already talked about from what Charles said :)
LivinForChrist90 i understand, i appreciate your well articulated reply :)
ssshlow I am glad you understand and I am happy you appreciate my well articulated reply :)
i've been watching ctfxc since i was 14!!! now I'm 20 and its so crazy how time flies!