I cant believe she put their entire wedding on the internet like that. She got attached to everyone very quickly, and it shows in the breakdown she had. Boundaries feel like an attack to people like her.
This was my thought as well. Why is she taking so much footage? It feltblike she was inserting herself too much. And I remember the bride saying that the groom didn't like being on social media and she still filmed quite a bit. 😊
That’s what I thought !! I was uncomfortable watching this. I would’ve been annoyed at her and asked her to leave time ago. She’s weird. You are a makeup artist ! Do what you were paid to do, take a few pictures /videos and leave! TF?!
Im not gonna diagnose her but I couldn't help thinking of untreated borderline personality disorder or perhaps even histrionic. All I know if she's way too full of herself and there's definitely something off.
She is so self absorbed. She couldn't read the room or the mood. You were there to work,those people were not your friends and once you get paid for your services the job is done.
Exactly. She’s going on and on about how she’s doing so much for them and making sure they get everything they need as if it’s out of the goodness of heart. Like ma’am. You’re getting paid to do that. I sure hope you’re doing your best 😂 these people aren’t your friends. They are your clients. Her lines were way too blurred.
@@spicymayo623 and it was for her social media/vendor at that. She’s exploiting someone wedding and filming so much content that wasn’t in her job description when they already had hired content creator, videographer, and photographer. She only wanted to stay and overstayed her welcome to make content for her page. She j gross to me because she’s putting a veil pretending that it was from the goodness of her heart. She really thought anyone that was being nice and cordial to her really wanted her there..like no people are nice and cordial because they simply have manners to do so. Doesn’t mean you should take advantage of that and then be overbearing and crossing basic boundaries. That woman has no lick of common sense nor sense of basic manners.
@@naimamorgan6209 The self absorption and the amount of attention she demanded was excessive & disturbing to watch. Cackling in the golf cart, returning to the reception after giving herself a pep talk, directing #cough INTERFERING with the paid videographer & telling the bridesmaids *”it’s enough”* when they saw their friend for the first time? Whaaaatttt!!!??? Excuse me lady? Pack and leave. Thank you for your services.
Omg! This MUA is so dense. You were NOT invited to the wedding, girl. You were hired to provide a service. Once service was provided, you WERE to LEAVE!!!! 😮
She sounds narcissistic, how can you center yourself on someone's wedding day, and feel entitled to be in company of people you don't know, like finish the makeup and go
Transference. She probably felt like a lost puppy following her break up and wanted belonging and external attention and validation. Was trying to feel a void through other people's experiences. She comes across as a right pain in the arse
In my opinion the bride was super sweet and felt bad the MUA’s feelings were hurt. The groom was just very protective of the bride and her bridal party. He was just truthful in saying she overstayed her welcome and overstepped
She came to TikTok, thinking people would sit with her. But she was shocked when she got the exact opposite. Not only did she ruin her reputation, but also her career. People going to look back on this viral TikTok video and see that she is a liability. And people do not want to hire liabilities. she really messed up.
You are right. That’s also the sad part. She tainted this woman’s day all over social media. The reposting from others changes this couples day of happiness.
No matter what is going on in your personal life, business is business. No woman should have to tend to your personal issues on THEIR WEDDING DAY. Read the room sis.. Collect your funds and go cry in the Benz. Be professional.. That's your bread and butter ❤ wish her the very best
This woman over stayed her welcome. She is not a friend or a member of the family. This woman was unprofessional. Why is she confused by what happened and playing the victim. The priest, the caters, the makeup artist, the DJ/Musician is not part of the wedding party. I would be angry if some random woman was filming my wedding and guests. She is the one that should be apologizing to the bride.
I don’t think she was right to bring this issue to TikTok. You were hired to be a MUA, not a videographer. I feel like she was in the wrong. She comes across as a victim painting the client as “mean” but clearly she was doing too much, and they had every right to send her home. This was a learning lesson to come to work and do your job, nothing else (especially if the bride and groom didn’t hire her or give her PERMISSION to film “content” for her personal portfolio). While she may have been hurt by being told to leave, she should have quietly kept it moving. This was the bride and grooms day, and her breaking down crying at work was totally unprofessional and selfish. The bride should not have been consoling her on HER day. She’s selfish!
I lost sympathy for her when she decided to leave AND THEN chose to COME RIGHT BACK TO THE VENUE LIKE HUHH. That was when I knew it was her ego that’s the issue, to be that entitled and antagonistic is wild. She should know that she’s starting back drama all over again doing that. Didn’t care about the feelings of the bride and how she would feel challenging her husband in her wedding. Then she complains about being treated like she was begging to be there like GIRL - you kinda were tho one asked you to tether yourself to those people for THAT long. And just bc the pride gave the offer doesn’t mean they meant it, some people say and do things to be kind and polite she still should’ve had the common sense to say no and go about her day. Latching on to the event exceeding her work hours made her look like she had nothing better to do.
Her judgment was definitely off. I think the alcohol plus heartbreak was a bad combination for a wedding. especially if you want to be married yourself.
Just trifling. Now I know why she rubbed the groom the wrong way. She’s like those annoying needy family members that don’t know when to leave when overstaying their welcome/visit.
Yes, she was wasting time and doing too much. Hire models to do your wedding content with but not at an actual wedding when time is already ticking. The only person filming should be the bride. Besides, if you are going to stay at least be incognito 😅 I’d be a ghost as vendor. I’d eat, drink, and leave so quietly they wouldn’t even know I stayed. lol
She is the problem. She stayed after the husband told her to leave. She was willfully clueless and tried to steal the attention away from the couple by bursting into tears twice. She was very inconsiderate and imposed herself in them against their will. How annoying! She deserves all of the ridicule that comes with this.
On another note, the bride’s skin is absolutely flawless, she’s so gorgeous and based what I’ve seen so far, seems to be a really sweet spirit. And her laugh is absolutely adorable! Wishing her all the best in her new marriage!
One of the most important things to remember when working events is to not be a part of the event!! She wasn't hired to bring good vibes, she was hired to do makeup, why was she even there for the ceremony?
There is no way my MUA is centering themself while we're getting ready. They're definitely NOT recording. She is the definition of "if doing too much was a person". Only the hired photographer and videogragher should be directive pictures She was out of line.
Girl, why did I see another video about this and there was a picture of her at another wedding in the middle of the bridal party picture🥴 right next to the bride. This woman needs some help. I can't imagine how she built this business, and she is this unprofessional🤦🏿♀️ And, it was a closed ceremony. No one was allowed to have phones/cameras and she filmed ALL this content, then posted it. Before the bride and groom have even seen their pictures from the day, that they paid for.
She's even videotaping the videographers. People trying to work and sometimes it's nice to be quiet so the bride can reflect on a major transition of her life, a new beginning. The MUA just yapping. Then crying like a child for getting kicked out. Ridiculous!
Vendors are absolutely not there to mingle with the guests. Most wedding caterers charge per guest and are quite expensive. The charge per guest takes into consideration how much each guest may eat. There is not an assumption that vendors will stay and eat unless they were approved to do so beforehand. Helping yourself to food at the reception as a vendor is a huge no no and extremely unprofessional, not to mention that it's helping yourself to an actual invited guest's portion of the menu. These people are not your friends, they are your consumer. And to add to the unprofessionalism, she then posts this TikTok. I hope she isn't surprised when she loses customers.
I wouldve been so annoyed in the 1st 10 minutes cuz the voice, her squeeling like shes one of the wedding party, the constantly recording and taking pictures. They already have a photographer and videographer!
Im just utterly shook that so many people record themselves crying and all their personal info online. Im a young millennial. I post pics on social media once every 3 years so old acquaintances know im alive. I just had a break down at work yesterday but I could never FATHOM recording it and putting it online. Cry in the car like in the old days and keep it pushing 😅 do adults need to start taking digital footprint classes? Are folks not comprehending that this could follow you FOREVER?!? Lol
This is an example of someone who takes up ALL of the oxygen in a room. She probably doesn't even realize it because that would take a level of self-awareness that she doesn't have, but people like her go through life thinking they are the main character of everyone else's story.
She's working me forreal, she's those types you give an inch and they take the mile. They let you do before and after tik toks, fine. Please tell me what their ceremony, reception space, private moments have to do with hair and makeup?? Also, they indulge you with the fiance tik Tok, that did not give you liberty to do more. You already had them running late with your antics, and you were warned the groom is not a big socials person, but keep pushing the envelope. Wedding days are stressful and as a so called professional she should know this!!!
She was fake crying. 😂 Why was she acting like a part of the family the whole time. I would have been annoyed af, too. The actual trained videographers and photographers were not acting anything like she was. How she did not realize she was in the wrong as just the MUA is absolutely unhinged. She has no tact. I don't have any social media, and I would be highly annoyed if a rando was filming everything for her own content. So weird! No tact.
1. Her heartbreak started surfacing. 2. Dont drink on the job. 3. Recognize when ppl are just being nice when asking you to stay. She shouldn't have taken this to tiktok. To blast them; she blasted herself.
I get the impression she thinks they owe her ‘content’. Once they’ve paid you lady, they don’t owe you anything else. I’m sorry to say she seems to lack self awareness. That day was about the bride and groom, not her and her content.
I watched all her videos. I wasn’t paying attention and was doing something else and wasn’t looking at the screen. From just the sound, I thought it was a relative or a friend vlogging the wedding. Then when I got back to the video…realized this whole time it was the Make up Artist…💀
The groomsmen were making fun of her and she didn't realize. They said "TikTok bat signal!" when her notification went off as she filmed them walking, then talked about how she was still holding her phone up while talking to her mom. It reminds me of those kids at school who didn't realize they were the butt of the joke. 😞
@@tashibalampkin8555 it’s more than they didn’t want her company, she was going overboard with filming and it sounds to me the bride and groom didn’t get her license to do that. They hired a videographer to capture their special moments. I can see how it would make the bridal party uncomfortable. She was out of line for over staying her welcome and forcing herself on those people. Do your job and when it’s done, GO HOME
@@Fire_Moon_Tarot Why wouldn’t they be nice, respectful, and cordial regardless in a fancy event like this even if they were tolerating and dealing with the insufferable mooch. No one, especially a bunch of strangers is going to be blunt with you or tell you how they really feel about you to your face. People always do and say things to be nice and cordial, most people are pleasant to those they meet for the first time - that doesn’t mean you can’t rub them off some kind of way or they could just be simply tolerating you in order to not start any drama or be rude. The only person who didn’t gaf about being blunt was the strong man, the groom. He was pleasant and cordial at first towards her but time and time again kept being unbearable asking to film content until he had to be blunt. It’s his event he had that right, all the other members had to play it nice bc it’s not their event to do that. I don’t blame the man.
She did entirely too much. Filming everyone with the makeup, even that was too much. Finish your job, then get film or a picture of the best two faces, and go home. The guy could of approach it differently and I hate that she feels hurt and is dealing with a lot... but girl, you should have been gone a long time ago. That camera in people's faces and filming should have never left the makeup room. I'd of been annoyed too. You were already warned about the man not liking tiktoks etc. Just watching everything, all I could think was child enoughhhh, what are you doing? Go homeeee. With all that filming in people's faces on an initmate day is not giving what you think, especially when you don't know them and weren't hired to be a camerman.
She wanted to be the main character so damn badly. I wasn’t even a guest or in the wedding party but I was getting annoyed with her. You aren’t on the guest list, do your job and leave.
She doesn't understand her role, overstepped her boundaries and thinks she has to do something to somebody for them to not wanting her intruding on their special day. It's not her day, and she's taking over every moment for her social media content. Staff is for the background, why is she always centering herself.
Exactly. All of the feelings she described seemed like they stemmed from the stuff she was already dealing with and she’s now projecting. I know what it feels like to feel so down that good vibes just make you forget but you gotta be self aware in social situations and she is the perfect example of why. The filming was too much as well. On my wedding day, if we’re still filming AFTER the ceremony and it’s not just shots & clips of the rest of the night’s events & moments as they happen, I would feel some type of way too
The audacity of this MAU...I don't understand why some folks can't read the room and don't have home training, do your job and leave! If I was the bride I'd be PISSED seeing her hanging around and then she stands in the middle of the aisle to film? She's gonna catch these hands.
She talks a lot of nonsense. The woman is not “your” bride. She was your client and you overstayed your welcome. Crying, acting like an invited guest & broadcasting their venue (vows & guests) was crazy, unacceptable and disrespectful. She just needs to apologise & put the footage on private. Nobody cared. that you were tired, emotional and heartbroken. When the groomsmen said “you look tired” that was code for *It’s time for you to go”*
When non confrontational people have an unwelcomed guest this is how much people will try to get away with!!she was kicked out the night before GIRLLLL she needs a hug and a course on social etiquette!
23:02 it sounds like she needs to change her profession to wedding planner - so she can control the event 🫣🥹🥹😅😅😅 she sounds UNHINGED - like, girl, LEAVE! These are not your friends!!! Hurt , for what?? Did you get paid?? Like, what??? Crying??!!
She’s literally having a mental breakdown on camera. She seems unstable. Even with her talking after the situation in the blue stripes. She sounds unhinged. I hope no one books her again.
It’s like when a hype man becomes the focal point when they should be more in the background. I think maybe she threw herself into her work as a means to divert her thoughts away from her own personal heartbreak. She tried so hard to not be depressive that she became manic. She needs to set boundaries with herself concerning her business and ask her staff to help enforce those boundaries until it becomes an unconscious habit. One of her stylists could have pulled her aside to tell her to tone it down. The bride has the bridesmaids and mother to be her support and to hype her up. The stylist is not responsible for making sure everyone is having a good time. She is responsible for providing a service while remaining friendly and professional. The photographer and videographer are responsible for capturing every second of pre-wedding preparations through to the end of the reception. All business owners make mistakes and I hope she learns from hers
Unless I know the couple or invited personally I wouldn’t want to stay it would be awkward to be at a stranger event I would leave after the work was done and satisfactory.
This is a little cringe. She really thinks she’s the life of the party. If she wants to be that, she needs to go be a hype-man or a personal assistant to a musician or something, not a MUA at WEDDINGS 😬 ETA I’m around @19:00 and this is A LOT cringe. 🤦🏽♀️
I'm a jeweler. This would be like me crashing someone's wedding because I set their diamonds and sized their rings. Obviously I should be included, RiGhT?!
This lady had started off bad , my parents have always told me that if I’m not feeling well emotionally for me not to work or have someone else cover for me , they have always told me that it’s weird and unprofessional to be that emotionally unwell in front of the clients .
I kept watching because I was waiting to hear about how everyone turned on her and made it impossible to work or that she wasn't compensated or something, just realize she overstayed her welcome and got in her feelings. Can't even finish the video. Next time I hope she knows not to use gigs as personal therapy and leaves when the job is over.
If everyone else is always the problem - you're the problem. She said she has been treated poorly at weddings by clients and vendors. Everyone is not rude.
Never heard of a MUA being this involved, that's jobs of other people like stylists, videographers, etc. ...BIG weirdo clinger vibes from her! Bride and Groom look fabulous, though.
In the beginning, I thought that it was the wedding of her friend or family member that she offered to do hair and makeup for and got kicked out of. After hearing/seeing the whole story, that's when I realized that she didn't truly know them and they didn't truly know her. That's when I got a bit confused as to why she was so upset about being asked to leave after she did her job. I can understand that she was having a tough time, especially after that situation with her boyfriend, but she probably should have just gone home and taken some time to herself. Maybe she felt lonely and vulnerable and thought making friends with them would help her cope... 😓
20:28 Melissa (photographer) was not inviting her along. She was basically saying “I’m going to go do my job now” and this woman said “don’t mind if I do”
I love how everyone in the comments keeps telling her to read the room when everyone and the bride said they loved her energy and told her to stay for the wedding.
Yup, i was on a different comment section. And thinking the same danm thing!! It can't be that hard to speak up at your own wedding, unless you're cosigning all the shits 🤷♀️
The GROOM told her to leave and the wife didn't dispute it when it was actually time for her to be removed or else she would have said as much to her husband. But she DIDN'T which means that she was ready for her to leave too. Please stop
Loud, obnoxious, and lacking self awareness. If she was unaware before, coming back after the groom told her to leave only confirmed she could not read the room to save her life.
24:08 OK I understand you vibing with everybody but you weren't a guest. This seems to be a lesson in reading the room. I think here is where you overstepped the boundary..
She tried to set the scene for sympathy. Noone cares about your break up!! Be professional or stay home and wallow in self-pity and don't cope on my special day like that. You're a make-up artist. Do that and leave.
On top of everything else she did wrong, she annoyed the heck out of me by putting most of this in writing!!! At least with Ressa Tessa you could just listen while doing other things. But here, all this pausing and making the screen bigger to *read* stuff was almost as annoying as her behavior on their wedding day! 🤨
Shes loud and abnoxious. Probably a narcissist that sees the bride as her product, like an artist would see their work of art. She felt entitled enough to claim her as "hers". Like the classic "thats my baby" soccer mum. She overstepped boundaries and got way too chummy and familiar with the guests. If she felt bad because of her breakup she should have been surrounded by friends and family, not strangers. A wedding is probably the last place she should have been to heal her open wounds
The bride especially shouldn't have been so... what's the word like too nice. The couple seem like they will have problems like this later on but anyway the makeup artist sounded scary from the beginning like just chill and leave after you are done
I'm not going to lie i had to watch this content at 2x speed just to get to Destiny's commentary. THAT BEING SAID.... this woman was doing too much. She was inserting herself too much in this wedding. I could understand to a small degree that you stick around in case of a malfunction to touch up the brides makeup. But aside from that she should have just called it a day. Not all this filming and footage of some strangers day?!? The heck?!
She absolutely overstay her welcome. I’m had to fast-forward through most of the clips because it was cringe and awkward. I don’t even know why it needed to be uploading. And I feel bad for the bride that she had to comfort you because you versus tears on her day, I would be stressed out if I had to do emotional work for somebody else on my special day
I wish somebody would tell me to leave their wedding. I would’ve been like you ain’t said nothing but a word 😂. She acting like it was a celeb wedding or something. This look like it took place in nyc. I would’ve been back in Jersey b4 the ceremony started. Bish take your azz home .
She wanted to do everything she could to make sure they had the best day? That wasn’t her job she was hired for make up. I cant believe how the wife still had energy to console her. I would have been completely burnt out from the constant engagement. It was like she needed to be involved, heard and seen throughout. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but the truth is the truth we can’t grow or heal with out it. You were looking to that community for comfort when in fact you were only scheduled to do a job. I hope she can get the help she needs ❤❤ sincerely 😢 Edit: after all the poor behavior on her part she still didn’t deserve to be treated the way he did. He is responsible for himself just like she is. The family should have told her the truth or asked her to leave earlier.
I KNEW she was gonna play the race card at the end! OMG! Girl stop! People can’t take you because you’re doing too much! You were not a guest at that wedding. Do your job and leave !
I will say this one thing I've noticed is that with bw/wm couples is, the wm spouse will speak up and defend his wife. This lady was an emotional and physical threat to his bride and he stood his ground.
Honey don't you have friends or family to lean on 😢 these are not your friends. You are here for a job, touch her up for the ceremony, cocktail hour whatever and bounce. Wtf is the bride consoling you on HER WEDDING DAY. Girl be fr
She’s delusional! Crying at these people’s wedding! Lady this was not your day! Imagine a bride having to console you on her day! You were paid to do a job why were you there for 12 hours! You need therapy! Embarrassing! 🤦🏾♀️
I cant believe she put their entire wedding on the internet like that. She got attached to everyone very quickly, and it shows in the breakdown she had. Boundaries feel like an attack to people like her.
This was my thought as well. Why is she taking so much footage? It feltblike she was inserting herself too much. And I remember the bride saying that the groom didn't like being on social media and she still filmed quite a bit. 😊
That’s what I thought !! I was uncomfortable watching this. I would’ve been annoyed at her and asked her to leave time ago. She’s weird. You are a makeup artist ! Do what you were paid to do, take a few pictures /videos and leave! TF?!
Im not gonna diagnose her but I couldn't help thinking of untreated borderline personality disorder or perhaps even histrionic. All I know if she's way too full of herself and there's definitely something off.
She is so self absorbed. She couldn't read the room or the mood. You were there to work,those people were not your friends and once you get paid for your services the job is done.
Exactly. She’s going on and on about how she’s doing so much for them and making sure they get everything they need as if it’s out of the goodness of heart. Like ma’am. You’re getting paid to do that. I sure hope you’re doing your best 😂 these people aren’t your friends. They are your clients. Her lines were way too blurred.
Exactly
Ty class dismissed! That’s it that’s all.
@@spicymayo623 and it was for her social media/vendor at that. She’s exploiting someone wedding and filming so much content that wasn’t in her job description when they already had hired content creator, videographer, and photographer. She only wanted to stay and overstayed her welcome to make content for her page. She j gross to me because she’s putting a veil pretending that it was from the goodness of her heart. She really thought anyone that was being nice and cordial to her really wanted her there..like no people are nice and cordial because they simply have manners to do so. Doesn’t mean you should take advantage of that and then be overbearing and crossing basic boundaries. That woman has no lick of common sense nor sense of basic manners.
@@naimamorgan6209 The self absorption and the amount of attention she demanded was excessive & disturbing to watch. Cackling in the golf cart, returning to the reception after giving herself a pep talk, directing #cough INTERFERING with the paid videographer & telling the bridesmaids *”it’s enough”* when they saw their friend for the first time? Whaaaatttt!!!???
Excuse me lady? Pack and leave. Thank you for your services.
Omg! This MUA is so dense. You were NOT invited to the wedding, girl. You were hired to provide a service. Once service was provided, you WERE to LEAVE!!!! 😮
It’s literally simple! Lmaooo
She sounds narcissistic, how can you center yourself on someone's wedding day, and feel entitled to be in company of people you don't know, like finish the makeup and go
Transference.
She probably felt like a lost puppy following her break up and wanted belonging and external attention and validation. Was trying to feel a void through other people's experiences.
She comes across as a right pain in the arse
I'm so sick with second hand embarrassment.
Then SHE wants to call THEM disrespectful 🤦♀️
You are not owed a single thing beyond money.
In my opinion the bride was super sweet and felt bad the MUA’s feelings were hurt. The groom was just very protective of the bride and her bridal party. He was just truthful in saying she overstayed her welcome and overstepped
She went there for a job. Just because they are super friendly doesnt mean she is part of the guests or entitled to stay for the weding. My two cents.
Exactly. Just bc someone is friendly it doesn’t mean they’re your friend. Wow. 😭
She came to TikTok, thinking people would sit with her. But she was shocked when she got the exact opposite. Not only did she ruin her reputation, but also her career. People going to look back on this viral TikTok video and see that she is a liability. And people do not want to hire liabilities. she really messed up.
She is too familiar with her client. Familiarity breeds contempt. Do your job and go home.
If doing too much was a person, that was hard too watch. 🤦🏾♀️
If doing too much was a person, place, or thing. That girl was out to lunch
Frfrrrr I was Cringing the WHOLE time! 😳😬😬😳
You are right. That’s also the sad part. She tainted this woman’s day all over social media. The reposting from others changes this couples day of happiness.
No matter what is going on in your personal life, business is business. No woman should have to tend to your personal issues on THEIR WEDDING DAY. Read the room sis.. Collect your funds and go cry in the Benz. Be professional.. That's your bread and butter ❤ wish her the very best
This woman over stayed her welcome. She is not a friend or a member of the family. This woman was unprofessional. Why is she confused by what happened and playing the victim. The priest, the caters, the makeup artist, the DJ/Musician is not part of the wedding party. I would be angry if some random woman was filming my wedding and guests. She is the one that should be apologizing to the bride.
Too involved, doing too much, annoying noises, extra, just too damn involved and nuff
lol are you Jamaican ? I asked bc you said she’s too nuff
@@tashahall1855 😂😂😂 riiight?! I came right here to comment. Nuff indeed. She passed her place!! She was 100% delusional!!
🤭🤣🤣🤣 I am 🇯🇲 and as mommy would say "she inna everyting just like water🤣🤣🤣🤣
Very nuff she’s a bully low 🔑
@@BlackBerryJuice82mix up mix up like blenda 😆 🇯🇲
I don’t think she was right to bring this issue to TikTok. You were hired to be a MUA, not a videographer. I feel like she was in the wrong. She comes across as a victim painting the client as “mean” but clearly she was doing too much, and they had every right to send her home. This was a learning lesson to come to work and do your job, nothing else (especially if the bride and groom didn’t hire her or give her PERMISSION to film “content” for her personal portfolio). While she may have been hurt by being told to leave, she should have quietly kept it moving. This was the bride and grooms day, and her breaking down crying at work was totally unprofessional and selfish. The bride should not have been consoling her on HER day. She’s selfish!
I lost sympathy for her when she decided to leave AND THEN chose to COME RIGHT BACK TO THE VENUE LIKE HUHH. That was when I knew it was her ego that’s the issue, to be that entitled and antagonistic is wild. She should know that she’s starting back drama all over again doing that. Didn’t care about the feelings of the bride and how she would feel challenging her husband in her wedding. Then she complains about being treated like she was begging to be there like GIRL - you kinda were tho one asked you to tether yourself to those people for THAT long. And just bc the pride gave the offer doesn’t mean they meant it, some people say and do things to be kind and polite she still should’ve had the common sense to say no and go about her day. Latching on to the event exceeding her work hours made her look like she had nothing better to do.
She is breathing down the videographer's neck! 😂
Same thing I was thinking!
Her going back to the venue for cocktail hour 😂😂😂 she went back in for a drink
Her judgment was definitely off. I think the alcohol plus heartbreak was a bad combination for a wedding. especially if you want to be married yourself.
Just trifling. Now I know why she rubbed the groom the wrong way. She’s like those annoying needy family members that don’t know when to leave when overstaying their welcome/visit.
Lol
Yes, she was wasting time and doing too much. Hire models to do your wedding content with but not at an actual wedding when time is already ticking. The only person filming should be the bride. Besides, if you are going to stay at least be incognito 😅 I’d be a ghost as vendor. I’d eat, drink, and leave so quietly they wouldn’t even know I stayed. lol
Yes to your last part, I’d have a plate a drink and bounce
Why is she DRIVING while crying SO hard AND filming at the SAME TIME?? Stop being a DANGER to those on the road! Pull up!
Reading the room correctly goes a long way in life.
The MUA is a hot mess. She's blocking her blessings with this unhinged behavior. She seriously needs therapy.
Yeaaaaah I think she has some issues she needs to resolve.
@@amandaford8730 I honestly hope she's able to reflect on her behavior.
Exactly! Who is going to hire her now? No one wants this drama on their special day or any other day for that matter.
@@jjm8224 Especially since she's got a track record of inserting herself into people's weddings.
Glorified wedding crasher.
She is the problem. She stayed after the husband told her to leave. She was willfully clueless and tried to steal the attention away from the couple by bursting into tears twice. She was very inconsiderate and imposed herself in them against their will. How annoying! She deserves all of the ridicule that comes with this.
On another note, the bride’s skin is absolutely flawless, she’s so gorgeous and based what I’ve seen so far, seems to be a really sweet spirit. And her laugh is absolutely adorable! Wishing her all the best in her new marriage!
I'm getting second-hand embarrassed just watching her own content she filmed of them getting ready, oooft
One of the most important things to remember when working events is to not be a part of the event!! She wasn't hired to bring good vibes, she was hired to do makeup, why was she even there for the ceremony?
There is no way my MUA is centering themself while we're getting ready. They're definitely NOT recording.
She is the definition of "if doing too much was a person".
Only the hired photographer and videogragher should be directive pictures
She was out of line.
Lol she's all in the back of the first look pics and directing the photographers.. I'd be SUPER annoyed!!
Same
Severely lacks self awareness. Yikes!
Girl, why did I see another video about this and there was a picture of her at another wedding in the middle of the bridal party picture🥴 right next to the bride. This woman needs some help. I can't imagine how she built this business, and she is this unprofessional🤦🏿♀️
And, it was a closed ceremony. No one was allowed to have phones/cameras and she filmed ALL this content, then posted it. Before the bride and groom have even seen their pictures from the day, that they paid for.
The wedding was closed 😳. They were extremely kind.
People don’t like being filmed like this. You are not the videographer. They already had one. It’s not about you and YOUR CONTENT!
She's even videotaping the videographers. People trying to work and sometimes it's nice to be quiet so the bride can reflect on a major transition of her life, a new beginning. The MUA just yapping. Then crying like a child for getting kicked out. Ridiculous!
Vendors are absolutely not there to mingle with the guests. Most wedding caterers charge per guest and are quite expensive. The charge per guest takes into consideration how much each guest may eat. There is not an assumption that vendors will stay and eat unless they were approved to do so beforehand. Helping yourself to food at the reception as a vendor is a huge no no and extremely unprofessional, not to mention that it's helping yourself to an actual invited guest's portion of the menu. These people are not your friends, they are your consumer. And to add to the unprofessionalism, she then posts this TikTok. I hope she isn't surprised when she loses customers.
I wouldve been so annoyed in the 1st 10 minutes cuz the voice, her squeeling like shes one of the wedding party, the constantly recording and taking pictures. They already have a photographer and videographer!
Yeah like girl what is your job again 😂
Im just utterly shook that so many people record themselves crying and all their personal info online. Im a young millennial. I post pics on social media once every 3 years so old acquaintances know im alive. I just had a break down at work yesterday but I could never FATHOM recording it and putting it online. Cry in the car like in the old days and keep it pushing 😅 do adults need to start taking digital footprint classes? Are folks not comprehending that this could follow you FOREVER?!? Lol
🤣 When I tell you I stay surprised at this.
This is an example of someone who takes up ALL of the oxygen in a room. She probably doesn't even realize it because that would take a level of self-awareness that she doesn't have, but people like her go through life thinking they are the main character of everyone else's story.
Omg this yes! 😩 They’re so unbearable and setting boundaries genuinely feels like an attack to them..
She's working me forreal, she's those types you give an inch and they take the mile. They let you do before and after tik toks, fine. Please tell me what their ceremony, reception space, private moments have to do with hair and makeup?? Also, they indulge you with the fiance tik Tok, that did not give you liberty to do more. You already had them running late with your antics, and you were warned the groom is not a big socials person, but keep pushing the envelope. Wedding days are stressful and as a so called professional she should know this!!!
She was fake crying. 😂 Why was she acting like a part of the family the whole time. I would have been annoyed af, too. The actual trained videographers and photographers were not acting anything like she was. How she did not realize she was in the wrong as just the MUA is absolutely unhinged. She has no tact. I don't have any social media, and I would be highly annoyed if a rando was filming everything for her own content. So weird! No tact.
1. Her heartbreak started surfacing. 2. Dont drink on the job. 3. Recognize when ppl are just being nice when asking you to stay.
She shouldn't have taken this to tiktok. To blast them; she blasted herself.
I get the impression she thinks they owe her ‘content’. Once they’ve paid you lady, they don’t owe you anything else. I’m sorry to say she seems to lack self awareness. That day was about the bride and groom, not her and her content.
She, a stranger, phone recorded their entire wedding. Id be irritated as fuck too.
I watched all her videos. I wasn’t paying attention and was doing something else and wasn’t looking at the screen.
From just the sound, I thought it was a relative or a friend vlogging the wedding. Then when I got back to the video…realized this whole time it was the Make up Artist…💀
The groomsmen were making fun of her and she didn't realize. They said "TikTok bat signal!" when her notification went off as she filmed them walking, then talked about how she was still holding her phone up while talking to her mom.
It reminds me of those kids at school who didn't realize they were the butt of the joke. 😞
I would have been asked her to leave she was already doing to much when she first stepped in 😮🤦 plus was she the makeup artist or the photographer 🤔
I agree.
Exactly. How does she not see that she was totally out of line?! The audacity!
As long she was paid for all her services, is all that matters. Yeah, it may hurt if people don't want your company, but that's life. 🤷🏿♀️
@@tashibalampkin8555 it’s more than they didn’t want her company, she was going overboard with filming and it sounds to me the bride and groom didn’t get her license to do that. They hired a videographer to capture their special moments. I can see how it would make the bridal party uncomfortable. She was out of line for over staying her welcome and forcing herself on those people. Do your job and when it’s done, GO HOME
@@ceholmes24well they sure were smiling laughing and having a good time
@@Fire_Moon_Tarot Why wouldn’t they be nice, respectful, and cordial regardless in a fancy event like this even if they were tolerating and dealing with the insufferable mooch. No one, especially a bunch of strangers is going to be blunt with you or tell you how they really feel about you to your face. People always do and say things to be nice and cordial, most people are pleasant to those they meet for the first time - that doesn’t mean you can’t rub them off some kind of way or they could just be simply tolerating you in order to not start any drama or be rude. The only person who didn’t gaf about being blunt was the strong man, the groom. He was pleasant and cordial at first towards her but time and time again kept being unbearable asking to film content until he had to be blunt. It’s his event he had that right, all the other members had to play it nice bc it’s not their event to do that. I don’t blame the man.
She did entirely too much. Filming everyone with the makeup, even that was too much. Finish your job, then get film or a picture of the best two faces, and go home. The guy could of approach it differently and I hate that she feels hurt and is dealing with a lot... but girl, you should have been gone a long time ago. That camera in people's faces and filming should have never left the makeup room. I'd of been annoyed too. You were already warned about the man not liking tiktoks etc. Just watching everything, all I could think was child enoughhhh, what are you doing? Go homeeee. With all that filming in people's faces on an initmate day is not giving what you think, especially when you don't know them and weren't hired to be a camerman.
She wanted to be the main character so damn badly. I wasn’t even a guest or in the wedding party but I was getting annoyed with her. You aren’t on the guest list, do your job and leave.
She doesn't understand her role, overstepped her boundaries and thinks she has to do something to somebody for them to not wanting her intruding on their special day. It's not her day, and she's taking over every moment for her social media content. Staff is for the background, why is she always centering herself.
Exactly. All of the feelings she described seemed like they stemmed from the stuff she was already dealing with and she’s now projecting. I know what it feels like to feel so down that good vibes just make you forget but you gotta be self aware in social situations and she is the perfect example of why. The filming was too much as well. On my wedding day, if we’re still filming AFTER the ceremony and it’s not just shots & clips of the rest of the night’s events & moments as they happen, I would feel some type of way too
This was the 2nd wedding she had done this to, there supposedly was another wedding she wouldn't leave.
The wedding party seemed to not get time to be social on their own during getting ready
The audacity of this MAU...I don't understand why some folks can't read the room and don't have home training, do your job and leave! If I was the bride I'd be PISSED seeing her hanging around and then she stands in the middle of the aisle to film? She's gonna catch these hands.
She talks a lot of nonsense. The woman is not “your” bride. She was your client and you overstayed your welcome. Crying, acting like an invited guest & broadcasting their venue (vows & guests) was crazy, unacceptable and disrespectful. She just needs to apologise & put the footage on private. Nobody cared. that you were tired, emotional and heartbroken. When the groomsmen said “you look tired” that was code for *It’s time for you to go”*
When non confrontational people have an unwelcomed guest this is how much people will try to get away with!!she was kicked out the night before GIRLLLL she needs a hug and a course on social etiquette!
She SCREAMS crazy! She left and came back!?!? What the hell was she thinking?? 😮
I’m surprised she didn’t catch the bouquet!!
23:02 it sounds like she needs to change her profession to wedding planner - so she can control the event 🫣🥹🥹😅😅😅 she sounds UNHINGED - like, girl, LEAVE! These are not your friends!!! Hurt , for what?? Did you get paid?? Like, what??? Crying??!!
I hope she recovers from this faux pas and her business thrives. That gave me secondhand embarrassment.
She has done this multiple times
Sometimes you need to read the room. If I'm hired to do a job, I'm going to do my job and go home. Unless they invite me to stay.
She was invited to stay; however, it was evident they were simply being polite. The groom was clear about how he felt, though.
If she wasnt so loud and intrusive she may have gotten away with crashing the wedding🤣🤣🤣
She’s literally having a mental breakdown on camera. She seems unstable. Even with her talking after the situation in the blue stripes. She sounds unhinged. I hope no one books her again.
It’s like when a hype man becomes the focal point when they should be more in the background. I think maybe she threw herself into her work as a means to divert her thoughts away from her own personal heartbreak. She tried so hard to not be depressive that she became manic. She needs to set boundaries with herself concerning her business and ask her staff to help enforce those boundaries until it becomes an unconscious habit. One of her stylists could have pulled her aside to tell her to tone it down. The bride has the bridesmaids and mother to be her support and to hype her up. The stylist is not responsible for making sure everyone is having a good time. She is responsible for providing a service while remaining friendly and professional. The photographer and videographer are responsible for capturing every second of pre-wedding preparations through to the end of the reception. All business owners make mistakes and I hope she learns from hers
She was doing WAY too much!! The bride hired her to do her makeup. She chose to stay and crash out during customer's wedding!!
No, she didn't pull the race card 😂
She sure did
I mean...there was like 3 black people there including the bride 👀, can you blame her? Lol jk
Its ridiculous; the entitlement 😮
Unless I know the couple or invited personally I wouldn’t want to stay it would be awkward to be at a stranger event I would leave after the work was done and satisfactory.
This is a little cringe. She really thinks she’s the life of the party. If she wants to be that, she needs to go be a hype-man or a personal assistant to a musician or something, not a MUA at WEDDINGS 😬
ETA I’m around @19:00 and this is A LOT cringe. 🤦🏽♀️
I'm a jeweler. This would be like me crashing someone's wedding because I set their diamonds and sized their rings. Obviously I should be included, RiGhT?!
This lady had started off bad , my parents have always told me that if I’m not feeling well emotionally for me not to work or have someone else cover for me , they have always told me that it’s weird and unprofessional to be that emotionally unwell in front of the clients .
I kept watching because I was waiting to hear about how everyone turned on her and made it impossible to work or that she wasn't compensated or something, just realize she overstayed her welcome and got in her feelings. Can't even finish the video.
Next time I hope she knows not to use gigs as personal therapy and leaves when the job is over.
If everyone else is always the problem - you're the problem. She said she has been treated poorly at weddings by clients and vendors. Everyone is not rude.
Absolutely clueless!🤦♀️
This is too embarrassing,I don’t understand that she could not understand she should have left as soon as she finished…..she was not a guest!
"i did make up artistry too in my twenties"...... are your early twenties not now??? you're glowing and ageless!!
The way she starts off with her pain ….girlllll
Never heard of a MUA being this involved, that's jobs of other people like stylists, videographers, etc. ...BIG weirdo clinger vibes from her!
Bride and Groom look fabulous, though.
In the beginning, I thought that it was the wedding of her friend or family member that she offered to do hair and makeup for and got kicked out of. After hearing/seeing the whole story, that's when I realized that she didn't truly know them and they didn't truly know her. That's when I got a bit confused as to why she was so upset about being asked to leave after she did her job. I can understand that she was having a tough time, especially after that situation with her boyfriend, but she probably should have just gone home and taken some time to herself. Maybe she felt lonely and vulnerable and thought making friends with them would help her cope... 😓
Sis you got kicked once ....be more professional next time. It's not the end of the world 😐
I’m embarrassed for her. Too much! This needs to go to a comedy movie. This needs to go to TUBI.
20:28 Melissa (photographer) was not inviting her along. She was basically saying “I’m going to go do my job now” and this woman said “don’t mind if I do”
I love how everyone in the comments keeps telling her to read the room when everyone and the bride said they loved her energy and told her to stay for the wedding.
Yup, i was on a different comment section. And thinking the same danm thing!! It can't be that hard to speak up at your own wedding, unless you're cosigning all the shits 🤷♀️
Okay, but thats what SHE said. We dont know if they actually said that.
Read the room doesn’t mean listen to what people are saying, but actually how they are responding to you with non-verbal cues/actions.
The GROOM told her to leave and the wife didn't dispute it when it was actually time for her to be removed or else she would have said as much to her husband. But she DIDN'T which means that she was ready for her to leave too. Please stop
Loud, obnoxious, and lacking self awareness. If she was unaware before, coming back after the groom told her to leave only confirmed she could not read the room to save her life.
24:08 OK I understand you vibing with everybody but you weren't a guest. This seems to be a lesson in reading the room. I think here is where you overstepped the boundary..
Someone crying at my wedding about a breakup sounds like a sitcom lol not for the party tho I’m sure
She tried to set the scene for sympathy. Noone cares about your break up!! Be professional or stay home and wallow in self-pity and don't cope on my special day like that. You're a make-up artist. Do that and leave.
My second-hand embarrassment is off the charts. This woman needs therapy.
She has done this kinda stuff multiple times at different weddings too!
On top of everything else she did wrong, she annoyed the heck out of me by putting most of this in writing!!! At least with Ressa Tessa you could just listen while doing other things. But here, all this pausing and making the screen bigger to *read* stuff was almost as annoying as her behavior on their wedding day! 🤨
Shes loud and abnoxious.
Probably a narcissist that sees the bride as her product, like an artist would see their work of art. She felt entitled enough to claim her as "hers".
Like the classic "thats my baby" soccer mum.
She overstepped boundaries and got way too chummy and familiar with the guests.
If she felt bad because of her breakup she should have been surrounded by friends and family, not strangers. A wedding is probably the last place she should have been to heal her open wounds
Get off social media and seek therapy. Crying to a bride aint it sis!
The bride especially shouldn't have been so... what's the word like too nice. The couple seem like they will have problems like this later on but anyway the makeup artist sounded scary from the beginning like just chill and leave after you are done
I'm not going to lie i had to watch this content at 2x speed just to get to Destiny's commentary.
THAT BEING SAID.... this woman was doing too much. She was inserting herself too much in this wedding. I could understand to a small degree that you stick around in case of a malfunction to touch up the brides makeup. But aside from that she should have just called it a day. Not all this filming and footage of some strangers day?!? The heck?!
She absolutely overstay her welcome. I’m had to fast-forward through most of the clips because it was cringe and awkward. I don’t even know why it needed to be uploading. And I feel bad for the bride that she had to comfort you because you versus tears on her day, I would be stressed out if I had to do emotional work for somebody else on my special day
I wish somebody would tell me to leave their wedding. I would’ve been like you ain’t said nothing but a word 😂. She acting like it was a celeb wedding or something. This look like it took place in nyc. I would’ve been back in Jersey b4 the ceremony started. Bish take your azz home .
"I got kicked out of a wedding for doing nothing wrong"& " every other sentence "I this, I that, I this, I that,".......yep she's a Gemini.
When non confrontational people have an unwelcomed guest this is how much people will try to get away with!!
She wanted to do everything she could to make sure they had the best day? That wasn’t her job she was hired for make up.
I cant believe how the wife still had energy to console her. I would have been completely burnt out from the constant engagement. It was like she needed to be involved, heard and seen throughout. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but the truth is the truth we can’t grow or heal with out it. You were looking to that community for comfort when in fact you were only scheduled to do a job. I hope she can get the help she needs ❤❤ sincerely 😢
Edit: after all the poor behavior on her part she still didn’t deserve to be treated the way he did. He is responsible for himself just like she is. The family should have told her the truth or asked her to leave earlier.
She made someone elses day about her. Emotionally she clearly wasn't ready to work, it happens.
I would be much less polite than the bride & groom were. I'd tell her thanks for coming, I like the makeup, please kindly leave!
I KNEW she was gonna play the race card at the end! OMG! Girl stop! People can’t take you because you’re doing too much! You were not a guest at that wedding. Do your job and leave !
I will say this one thing I've noticed is that with bw/wm couples is, the wm spouse will speak up and defend his wife. This lady was an emotional and physical threat to his bride and he stood his ground.
Honey don't you have friends or family to lean on 😢 these are not your friends. You are here for a job, touch her up for the ceremony, cocktail hour whatever and bounce. Wtf is the bride consoling you on HER WEDDING DAY. Girl be fr
She’s delusional! Crying at these people’s wedding! Lady this was not your day! Imagine a bride having to console you on her day! You were paid to do a job why were you there for 12 hours! You need therapy! Embarrassing! 🤦🏾♀️