The Narcissist Makes This Fatal Mistake About You, And It Will Backfire On Him

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  • @JenHope118
    @JenHope118 10 місяців тому +32

    Yes! One narc scolded me for not brushing my teeth the proper way, told me not to use Listerine he said cause cancer. I didn't comment, just grin and walked away.
    Guess what, 20 years down the road, his teeth decayed and he got the gum disease. Now, i didn't comment about his misfortune because it is not necessary to do so as he already suffering. At age 65, my teeth are still intact, and pristine except for some overgrown ones , and i am still keeping my appointment with my dentist. Seriously, narcs always overrate themselves , they think they are the experts in every field 😂

  • @rhondacooper7957
    @rhondacooper7957 11 місяців тому +37

    Yes that narc underestimated me after a year of narc abuse, I successfully ended that toxic hell

    • @leandraroos4106
      @leandraroos4106 9 місяців тому

      They overestimate themselves and their toxic manipulation tactics to go unnoticed while they under-estimate others.

  • @lourdesgaffarena638
    @lourdesgaffarena638 10 місяців тому +12

    You have described the true character of my narcicistic manipulator husband .For many years he had control over me and I now know he never had any respect for me.i finally found the courage to stand up for myself and report the abuse and hope finally to get a separation soon.Thank you for the videos.

  • @judydarretta4100
    @judydarretta4100 10 місяців тому +15

    Talk about sleeping with the enemy. I was sleeping with Demons and I do mean literally demons when I realize what it was happening. What I was dealing with that changed the game to Jesus so fast that’s the thing he can’t handle that he can’t handle truth he can’t handletruth I am such a better person for this because I ranted Jesus

  • @shelliemathews1043
    @shelliemathews1043 10 місяців тому +17

    My narc husband of over 33 yrs, has and still believes it. However, since Jul 25th, 2023...he no longer has a hold on me. I'm still residing on the same property but am no longer living under the same roof as him. Soon, I'll be moving in with my sister who lives in another county. I am FINALLY done, I'll ne filing for a divorce very soon.

    • @lilaj1543
      @lilaj1543 10 місяців тому +2

      man I am there as well. My mother put my name on the deed of this home I live in while I cared for her the last three years of life. i fear my divorce will entitle him to half of this estate. I cannot afford an attorney and i do not want to give him anymore of my possessions or my soul. He threatens to take half but has no port to piss in. i dumped him off at his Mothers home 90 min away and have not heard the end of it. I have restraining order and intend to keep it.

  • @janm9610
    @janm9610 10 місяців тому +17

    These terrible people leave damage in their wake even though we get out.

    • @houstjo
      @houstjo 9 місяців тому +1

      They only leave damage if you don't heal. It should be a strength and a lesson you don't need to relearn

    • @leandraroos4106
      @leandraroos4106 9 місяців тому

      They inflict brutal and cruel harm especially if you escape them and expose them for who they truly are behind that false facade mask

  • @denisewilloughby5398
    @denisewilloughby5398 10 місяців тому +6

    Totally agree with videos, it has truly helped me to realize the mental abuse of a convert narcissist and how to deal with him in silence , being crudely honest and standing my ground with calmness few words and no emotions when communicating with him.
    Thanks

  • @catwashere413
    @catwashere413 10 місяців тому +2

    THAT'S IT! I knew I was living with a narcissist, but I didn't realize this depth. He is a covert introvert

  • @jeanfrantz2788
    @jeanfrantz2788 10 місяців тому +5

    This video is completely for me. Thank you.😮

  • @tmrsfitz1967
    @tmrsfitz1967 10 місяців тому +11

    Moving because we can’t deal with the low frequency ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽💯✊🏽🙌36 years now free

  • @mariahernadez9702
    @mariahernadez9702 10 місяців тому +4

    You’ve explained my Ex-Narc to the exact person he was 😢towards me, I just never perceived it until 7 years after I was with him & once we lived together he showed his true colors, he blames me for all the failures of our relationship & is sarcastic when he says, okay it’s all my fault, like you say!” I’m grateful to God for opening my eyes & guided me out of that fake relationship ❤I cut all contact with the Narc & now am working on my recovery ❤️‍🩹 Thank you for your channel, please keep giving knowledge power to the world! 🙏🏼

  • @superchick4994
    @superchick4994 10 місяців тому +6

    My Narc showed up at my job after 13 years of no contact. I was not surprised and showed no interest. I almost didn’t recognize him, but that appearance didn’t shake me one ounce. I was not impressed.

  • @lceottk
    @lceottk 10 місяців тому +9

    Thank you for this invaluable information! It is difficult to allow oneself to see the hard and painful truths of this mental state. They became this way from their own abuse and have over entitled themselves to the power they determined to need to protect themselves. This information is coming to me at a much needed time and is cutting through the lies I tell myself as an empath.

    • @lilaj1543
      @lilaj1543 10 місяців тому +2

      I've been married 38 years and 4 children later. I have just had enough and finally had to have him removed from my home via a permanent restraining order. I have a lifetime of healing to do. it is very shakey at times. I am 57 years old and cannot fathom loving again. I have finally given up the hope that our relationship will get better. I have supported him for decades. His traits were evident but I was unaware of what it was and always felt it was me. I never thought things would stay the same. I finally saw the light and am working to re-invent myself all over again. I have lost so many relationships in my family by staying married. All I wanted was to be loved and cared for. I have a long road to go. I am told I still look pretty good for my age and to know me you wouldn't guess my age but I am afraid to find another because I seem to attract needy men or become victim to even females wanting friendships that turn nearly deadly for me as I never see it coming. My empathy gets me into trouble. I don't know what to do.
      I think I need to go back to a therapist or support group in my area. I have no support system at present. My oldest daughter is also an empath but I feel she sides or migrates to her Father and his needs. I feel he has not only her but her younger sister wrapped around his fdinger My husband cannot keep a job, is a sexual addict as well as narcotics. I am lost, just existing trying to keep a roof over my head and all the bills paid while seeking higher self esteem and self love....

    • @LeteciaRamirez-l8j
      @LeteciaRamirez-l8j 10 місяців тому +1

      My prayers are with you. For strength and courage. Jesus is your hope light and soul path. Don't be discouraged you out of the deaeap

  • @Boby2lq
    @Boby2lq 10 місяців тому +4

    Our students Deserted Debasis Sen, when they knew the reality. That's why they are so furious. They had forgotten the proverb:as you sow so shall you reap.

  • @honestpainter
    @honestpainter 10 місяців тому

    My Covid narcissist female friend. Is so easy to control. Using your techniques are priceless. She is baffled!!!

  • @dianeduplessis9535
    @dianeduplessis9535 10 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for this info. So accurate and timely👌👌👍🙏

  • @brar6146
    @brar6146 10 місяців тому +6

    I feel movement I. My bed at night as if harvesting on my energy.

  • @robinchilds7492
    @robinchilds7492 10 місяців тому +5

    He only cared about his dogs and he trusted no one.

  • @superchick4994
    @superchick4994 10 місяців тому +6

    Do you have a video on how to recognize them instantly when we encounter them so we can avoid any BS?

  • @MT-ne6ge
    @MT-ne6ge 10 місяців тому +4

    Exactly 💯👌

  • @ippmoeproject8502
    @ippmoeproject8502 10 місяців тому +10

    I’m absolutely done with this sick deceitful man. After 35 years it’s past time to leave. I stayed for my children but they are grown now and this model of a relationship will affect them negatively I’m sure. He’s gonna lose it when I hit the road. Mistreatment of me will cost him half of his pension. What is so funny to me is how utterly stingy he was with money. Play stupid games win stupid prizes so the saying goes. Yup he played his hand with way too much confidence that I would stick around. I’m sweet and kind but not bucking stupid anymore!!!!!

    • @lilaj1543
      @lilaj1543 10 місяців тому +3

      i totally relate, why did we stay so long to a pathological lying cheating individuals???

    • @ippmoeproject8502
      @ippmoeproject8502 10 місяців тому

      @@lilaj1543 They are wonderful manipulators. I just hope when I do leave I never have to see that slimy bastard ever again !!!

    • @michelletecklenburg5950
      @michelletecklenburg5950 10 місяців тому +3

      sounds like my story. I'm so relieved to be gone after 30 years. Learning about these individuals helped me make this decision. They do get worse as they get older, as they see their life falling apart. Run for the hills.

    • @ippmoeproject8502
      @ippmoeproject8502 10 місяців тому

      @@michelletecklenburg5950 Good for you dear. Happy to see some people make it out.

  • @sillyme2846
    @sillyme2846 10 місяців тому +3

    Listen without interruption: Commercial Proceeds 😄

  • @tyler-y4s
    @tyler-y4s 10 місяців тому +3

    Or her because men are the only ones that c an be a narc you know!!!

  • @pattyrooney1323
    @pattyrooney1323 10 місяців тому

    Thank you again!