When you met a girl who’s been through hell! "Morgan Freeman Relationship Advice"

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  • @baijalneha
    @baijalneha Місяць тому +1759

    Only a real man will ever be able to honor a woman who has been through hell. Women of character are rarely understood and more often than not misunderstood.

    • @sayanmazumder1914
      @sayanmazumder1914 29 днів тому +10

      Where are they?
      How to find them?

    • @lolong5976
      @lolong5976 29 днів тому +105

      ​@@sayanmazumder1914 by stopping asking questions on social media and interacting and socialising in real life. The hatred towards women and men is always exaggerated on the internet. But in reality it's very different. There are good women and good men in abundance only if you keep your predetermined perspective that you formed from internet aside

    • @lettinggrace
      @lettinggrace 29 днів тому +29

      ​@@sayanmazumder1914 When someone cares for you so much or loves you, don't take it for granted. That's where you find those kind of women or people.

    • @NicoleBeepath
      @NicoleBeepath 29 днів тому +49

      ​@@sayanmazumder1914To find a woman of character one must be a man of character so you don't get distracted by corrupt or false things. There are deceitful women that will try to appeal to your desires to trap you and the woman of character will speak the truth even if it is a risk or unpopular.

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 28 днів тому +40

      ​@@sayanmazumder1914They live low key lives.

  • @rhondacox8289
    @rhondacox8289 Місяць тому +1073

    I'm that girl and I finally found that man who loves me fault and all. 🥰

    • @user-qb1oh6er6u
      @user-qb1oh6er6u 29 днів тому +48

      I'm so happy to read this. Congratulations ! I trust I'll be saying the same thing too.

    • @user-zw4qz2et2o
      @user-zw4qz2et2o 29 днів тому +21

      Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉 I pray that Jesus takes you both higher ❤❤❤

    • @BitterMoonEmpress
      @BitterMoonEmpress 29 днів тому +10

      I am very sure that such a woman would never type in the comments here: "I am that girl". 🙄

    • @iliafigueroa4820
      @iliafigueroa4820 28 днів тому +8

      I did ALL this and more and still got screwed in the end.

    • @Melinda8162
      @Melinda8162 28 днів тому

      @@iliafigueroa4820Same . Three times. I never learn….

  • @lede1810
    @lede1810 24 дні тому +425

    Most men take such a woman for granted

    • @sukayna7026
      @sukayna7026 20 днів тому +4

      A big question for them... why?

    • @lede1810
      @lede1810 20 днів тому +33

      @@sukayna7026 Maybe because men are biologically hunters and when a good woman is in their life they still follow their sense of adventure and go in search of a challenge. Unfortunately with age they regret letting a good woman go. Too bad

    • @jessIe76468
      @jessIe76468 19 днів тому +16

      Most men want things their way. They're selfish and "bored" bc they need to take care their partner. They want adventure, fun, freedom and a no responsibilities. Immature people, as fun as it sounds, will always choose unhealthy relationships over healthy ones bc it suits them more. With more mature people that don't fulfill their partner's needs and don't let them shine, @lede1810 did a great job at explaining why.

    • @Liza-Loves-You
      @Liza-Loves-You 17 днів тому +3

      If she's smart she won't let him

    • @amethystrosemaclaren5853
      @amethystrosemaclaren5853 15 днів тому +1

      Always.

  • @MetalDeathMusic
    @MetalDeathMusic Місяць тому +836

    This goes for anyone. Often, the most damnaged, alone people will love the hardest because they know what it's like to be without love.

    • @andromeda3780
      @andromeda3780 28 днів тому

      Yes, or they know how is it to get stuck a whole life with people who know nothing about love but they only know how to prey on the love you have and trash you. Today I feel spiteful about all females in this universe although I'm a female myself. I used to defend women but I'm quite convinced now their evil is venomous one, paralyzing and extremely painful.
      The woman spoken about in this video can be anyone, man or woman whose their heart shines like a gold and never rust and like steel can bear the unbearable and yet never bent.

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 27 днів тому +28

      No, men who go through hardships are automatically honored and empathized with by all women, not just the ones they are in a relationship with, while men rarely empathize with women’s hardships, even with their own mothers, daughters, girlfriends, and wives, because most of them don’t regard women as people, and therefore, don’t care about our feelings.

    • @jessicamishler8504
      @jessicamishler8504 26 днів тому +4

      True

    • @viktoriavichkutkina9147
      @viktoriavichkutkina9147 25 днів тому +7

      @@winxclubstellamusasad truth

    • @Ambiphonic
      @Ambiphonic 24 дні тому +7

      @@winxclubstellamusa That's not true, it's just a trait of a weak people

  • @janewasson4845
    @janewasson4845 27 днів тому +386

    Only 2 men in 100 would be worth this woman. The rest would be too childish, stupid,, controlling, or weak. ❤️

    • @sikakofi
      @sikakofi 27 днів тому +5

      You rightly said it.. Only 2 out of 100 men will be good for you in your lifetime.. I hope you haven’t missed them already 😂😂

    • @SD-MA
      @SD-MA 27 днів тому +27

      @@sikakofiyou won’t know what she meant. You are still in 98 of them.😂

    • @seekeroftruth1484
      @seekeroftruth1484 26 днів тому +24

      💯The majority want a stepford wife, a mistress, a sole provider or no wife at all lol

    • @janewasson4845
      @janewasson4845 26 днів тому +26

      Or a Mommy they can sleep with.

    • @kikiwe
      @kikiwe 24 дні тому

      98 of them are weak men raised in toxic environments

  • @porshaj2702
    @porshaj2702 18 днів тому +177

    Ladies, there are men out there like this too! Appreciate him and never take him for granted

    • @doortjezainal8080
      @doortjezainal8080 16 днів тому +1

    • @slickb2467
      @slickb2467 11 днів тому

      Thank you Queen may God continue to Bless you.

    • @jennifermaker7764
      @jennifermaker7764 10 днів тому +1

    • @naeemsafdar1983
      @naeemsafdar1983 9 днів тому +1

      Now this is the only positive and heart feels comment I have read so far and truly appreciate you ❤ thank you

    • @porshaj2702
      @porshaj2702 9 днів тому +1

      @@slickb2467🫡 for I know the importance of man’s purpose.

  • @lindajennings5953
    @lindajennings5953 28 днів тому +389

    I used to be that girl. Now I’m that woman❤

    • @mariannell
      @mariannell 27 днів тому +20

      I wish you to find real love.

    • @CorporationSKY
      @CorporationSKY 26 днів тому

      Women really think theyve "gone through" stuff, when most just share the trauma from stories theyve heard.
      Its call life, we all have struggles.
      Theyre suppose to make you stronger, wiser and more resilient...not a complaining "woe is me" baby who cant function without a psych support team and drugs.
      On the other hand...we have dehumanized society...A lot. Full of apathetic, heartless, robot zombies and attention seeking wolf crying sychophants just looking for that next "hit".

    • @megwenger8756
      @megwenger8756 23 дні тому +13

      Same 😢 A lifetime of hurts.

    • @M.Natasha
      @M.Natasha 10 днів тому +2

      Amen! 💛

  • @JesusisKing27
    @JesusisKing27 27 днів тому +244

    My Wife!!! Thank God for my wife!!! She has helped stand me back up when I felt I couldn't. God sent her to me I know He did!!!

    • @sameekshasemwal5636
      @sameekshasemwal5636 20 днів тому +6

      Ohh my goodness!
      My dear child ...I am seriously blessed to see how much u love ur wife. I can feel it in my bones. God bless u both! Keep loving urself and her for both of u are precious 💖 my children......May God bless u both.

    • @TiTi-pm4my
      @TiTi-pm4my 20 днів тому +4

      That's beautiful. God bless you both ❤

    • @sandyhowell164
      @sandyhowell164 19 днів тому +1

    • @JesusisKing27
      @JesusisKing27 19 днів тому

      @@sameekshasemwal5636 thank you and God Bless

    • @JesusisKing27
      @JesusisKing27 19 днів тому +2

      @@TiTi-pm4my thank you and God Bless

  • @karenbasinger5706
    @karenbasinger5706 28 днів тому +232

    I'm also that girl. Only God has kept me loving others.

  • @keturaequalizer
    @keturaequalizer 18 днів тому +61

    In todays world, men will call this type of woman damaged goods. Its a pity. But the man who steps forward and embraces her will forever be grateful. 🙂🙃

    • @larkop6504
      @larkop6504 9 днів тому +4

      It depends on how a woman presents herself emotionally, got talking to a woman online, she spoke in a way I had never encountered before, no facade, no ego, no presumption just sincerity. Got to know her emotionally over 6 months because of long distance. Found out her life was full of pain and things I couldn't even imagine. She chose to follow a different path, she turned to God for strength, happily married 7 years and honestly I have to stop myself every day and say don't take her kindness for granted. All the women at work were like how did you land a woman like that she is so kind and beautiful. I think men find it hard to be vulnerable but you have to in order to love deeply. My wife has strength and moral fiber in ways I can only dream of. I completely agree I'm forever grateful.

    • @keturaequalizer
      @keturaequalizer 8 днів тому

      @@larkop6504 May the Almighty Father continue to bless your unity! I wish you all the happiness in this world. 🙏🏽💯

    • @larkop6504
      @larkop6504 8 днів тому

      @@keturaequalizer Thank you, I wish you and your family peace and happiness. God bless.

  • @lucielao960
    @lucielao960 23 дні тому +88

    to all my sisters here

  • @debrajorgensen2730
    @debrajorgensen2730 23 дні тому +86

    I’m that girl and had several loves but they have never worked out. I’m 70 years old and hope that I can find someone that sees me and appreciates me for who I am 🥰🙏🏽

    • @judithfurler3993
      @judithfurler3993 18 днів тому +10

      Hang in there. I am 80 and have recently found a man who deserves me.

    • @johnsmith-ds5yt
      @johnsmith-ds5yt 17 днів тому +5

      I hope that for you too!

    • @debrajorgensen2730
      @debrajorgensen2730 17 днів тому +3

      @@johnsmith-ds5yt Thank you ❤️‍🔥🙏🏽

    • @ie5761
      @ie5761 14 днів тому +3

      In Jesus name you have received it already!

    • @vanessarenee1018
      @vanessarenee1018 6 днів тому

      My mom’s turning 69 in November & she’s getting married next month, you’re up next❣️💛

  • @lomax6996
    @lomax6996 27 днів тому +113

    Great advice! I married just such a woman 40 years ago. We're still together and I am truly blessed.

  • @Kiki-jx6by
    @Kiki-jx6by 26 днів тому +78

    Many men of today are trifling when it comes to women, but whoever has a good man you are truly blessed!

  • @bananarae9207
    @bananarae9207 Місяць тому +194

    I'm her. This nearly made me cry, because he did just what shouldn't have been done - took me for granted 😔

    • @user-fx4mn5qk5z
      @user-fx4mn5qk5z 29 днів тому +2

      Seems like you never learned.

    • @saltlake80116
      @saltlake80116 28 днів тому +4

      Amen sis

    • @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT
      @InT3graTi-Of-Pur3InH3arT 28 днів тому +18

      Because he wasn't meant to be. Forgive him. For your sake. You won't forget, but in time it will no longer hurt you, So God can bless you with the one He chose for you 💖

    • @clarissegomez9275
      @clarissegomez9275 27 днів тому +4

      I just posted a similar comment until I saw yours I feel you

    • @jessicalichter7254
      @jessicalichter7254 27 днів тому

      Good for you taking advice from a pedophile 😊

  • @MGongopadhyay
    @MGongopadhyay 27 днів тому +80

    I wish there were actually men who could cherish such love.

    • @joyflavell7385
      @joyflavell7385 26 днів тому +16

      There are. The jerks are just get more attention .

    • @JoDo777
      @JoDo777 25 днів тому +6

      There are❤

    • @hollybarnes842
      @hollybarnes842 24 дні тому +5

      I found one

    • @mrfox7776
      @mrfox7776 23 дні тому +1

      Just by possibility,there can be. There are this type of men.

    • @Cc07
      @Cc07 23 дні тому +5

      most just see it as baggage.. they talk about how shallow women are but are notorious of this all the time. All i wish for damaged women is peace and you don’t need a man for that. If you find one? Hallelujah but if not? I hope they find stability and peace no matter what🙏

  • @2710TK
    @2710TK 27 днів тому +46

    This video popped up on feed and made me cry my eyes out. I feel as if I am that girl. I have endured more hardships for two or three lifetimes and have just been rejected by someone so dear to me. I still remain hopeful that I find true love and someone who is kind and compassionate.

    • @judierenfrow8073
      @judierenfrow8073 25 днів тому +5

      Jesus will listen. Turn to Him.

    • @hiddenexit1027
      @hiddenexit1027 2 дні тому +1

      I like how you worded it, you feel as if you're that girl. That doesn't come off overly confident or so sure of yourself. I like it. It sounds humble. Still thinking, learning, changing, feeling, and growing.
      Wish you the best!

  • @ruthdorius2831
    @ruthdorius2831 27 днів тому +16

    I had a man like that. Just sent him off to the Spirit world. What a blessing he was & is to my life.

    • @Lunathewolf-x2c
      @Lunathewolf-x2c 25 днів тому +2

      It takes a strong man to have this type of woman.

    • @MaryDunford
      @MaryDunford 12 днів тому +2

      I'm truly sorry for your loss.

  • @xheartiiz
    @xheartiiz Місяць тому +148

    Might as well be telling this to a brick wall. Guys will treat a woman like this like poop on their shoe. I'd rather pour love into my own life at this point. Be to myself what I've always been to others. Watch my own life transform beautifully. Maybe one day God will send me a man capable of receiving and reciprocating the love I AM! Until then... I'll fly solo and appreciate each day I am allowed to see!💙💙💙

    • @lettinggrace
      @lettinggrace 29 днів тому +43

      Sadly this seems to be true, the better you treat a man, the more they will disrespect you and take you for granted. It's like you have to be willing to walk away at the first sign of disrespect. People can have such amazing love and care from someone only to take it for granted but yet complaining about why women don't treat them right or not being able to find someone kind or who cares. It's like they were right in front of you and you treated them disrespectfully and took them for granted.

    • @lalagardenia6500
      @lalagardenia6500 29 днів тому +11

      Yup - discarded like a bag of rotting dog poop.

    • @user-fx4mn5qk5z
      @user-fx4mn5qk5z 29 днів тому

      Yeah. Your dumb self still expects a MAN to keep you happy.

    • @Cos7mos
      @Cos7mos 27 днів тому +13

      I'm just sharing the same journey and single hood is the most lovable feeling one can ever enjoy.

    • @thinking102
      @thinking102 26 днів тому +7

      Closed hearts only hurt you ..sadly your experiencing the opposite of what he's talking about.

  • @shadowysea
    @shadowysea 27 днів тому +17

    I’m that girl/woman.
    Sadly, I kissed many frogs and was even fooled by a couple of toads before I found my sun and stars ✨ We’ve been together over 20 years now, never married, don’t need a contract or vows, our hearts and souls are one, that’s all. We’ll grow old together ❤

  • @Sean-s5o
    @Sean-s5o 24 дні тому +11

    I had a W O M A N like this...but sadly she died due to years of alcoholism resulting from previous horrendous experiences..I miss her every breath I take!!

  • @glam0r0us
    @glam0r0us 19 днів тому +15

    Rejection can change a womans heart. It can make her shut down. You can make her lose her worth. Be kind. 💔

    • @glo913
      @glo913 16 днів тому +2

      If I could ❤ this a million times I would. This is me.

    • @Solutiion18
      @Solutiion18 14 днів тому

      💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜​@@glo913

    • @LoveAndLightForEveryone
      @LoveAndLightForEveryone 7 днів тому

      When you Love God, you know that rejection is His protection (sometimes temporary but sometimes permanently) and maybe he is preparing you for something even greater than that man. Often instead of Loving others we have to give unconditional love to ourselves FIRST, to be able to nurture and grow up joyfully together with our soulmate later, when our own cup is full. If someone doesn’t see your magnificence: LET HIM GO wishing him to find what he is looking for because your worthiness doesn’t depend on him! Someone else will appreciate a precious gift that you are! There are so many things in life to celebrate and to be grateful for other than one person who thinks he does not deserve someone as fabulous as you are! And when you will be head over heels in love with yourself, then you will emanate Light that will captivate THE RIGHT PERSON! Remember, if you exist, then there is YOUR person somewhere in this world who is looking for you, but because someone else has dimmed your light, he cannot find you! Shine your astonishing Light brighter ☀️ and don’t mind those who are irritated by your rays of love because God has created you only for one man💞 and one man only & he will absolutely adore you for exactly who you are! Be authentic self and that person will find its way to you!🐦‍🔥

  • @pupp5092
    @pupp5092 27 днів тому +17

    I’m that woman, too. To watch this video was Wonderful. It was like watching The King of Judah telling all the women like me that HE LOVES and APPRECIATES US. It filled my heart with JOY.

  • @robchristensen1274
    @robchristensen1274 28 днів тому +15

    I love a lady like that. Her shining personality and her strength of character are like no other and enable her to rise above all challenges. Her heart is as big as the whole outdoors. The way she loves me is so pure and beautiful. She is my greatest earthly treasure. She is my angel and I love her forever.

  • @eltonron1558
    @eltonron1558 Місяць тому +53

    Hindsight, is a cruel teacher. For a 5 minute window in the span of life, I was loved by the lady he spoke of. If you ever come to my door, Melody, my gratitude is yours forever.

  • @ShriJi05
    @ShriJi05 Місяць тому +95

    This is true, but people will always take such love for granted. But the hope never dies. And in these type of people, their heart never gets filthy.

    • @lorireed8046
      @lorireed8046 29 днів тому +7

      Actually it does . Sometimes you gotta let go, stay alone and even burn some bridges to get your strength back . Many people walk away when she's no longer loving and kind .

    • @GameLorePage
      @GameLorePage 24 дні тому +1

      Wondering why BPD is so rampant among young women…?

    • @Cc07
      @Cc07 23 дні тому

      @@GameLorePagewonder why so many men are homicidal maniacs?

    • @ShriJi05
      @ShriJi05 23 дні тому

      @@GameLorePage may be because they are built emotional and what they go through in daily life it sum ups or unhealthy livelihood in terms of food and mental food. Also, sometimes validation is require for them. One should encourage everyone with good words. It takes effort to nurture strong human being. Especially women previously go through a lot cause they don't want to trouble their parents and give them tension. And that's how they end up being unstable

    • @Cc07
      @Cc07 22 дні тому

      @@GameLorePagewonder why so many men are homicidal maniacs?

  • @Ariswandewi917
    @Ariswandewi917 26 днів тому +13

    I am one of those girls, even since I was in my mom's womb, problems have arisen. She once said that it was a miracle that I was born without any deficiencies. But I was hurt, over an incident that I don't even remember. The wound seemed to be stored in my subconscious, because the pain was familiar. Then I grew up with bullying. Being rejected, shunned, insulted, ignored, harassed, physically hurt are normal things for me. All of that kept me closed, to protect me from the bad treatment out there. I have lived for 23 years, and I am proud to say that my process to get to this point was full of struggle. I'm still trying to heal myself. And deep in my heart, I want someone to spend my life with. I want to share love bravely, and be loved bravely. I know it takes time to make it happen. But I patiently waited for that man. Thank you so much for this. ❤

    • @lisakobar7439
      @lisakobar7439 26 днів тому

      Are you a Pisces by any chance? We are the only zodiac sign that experiences shit like this. All the others get a free ride in life with all the benefits.

    • @Ariswandewi917
      @Ariswandewi917 26 днів тому +1

      @@lisakobar7439 no, I'm Aries sun sign. But my moon sign is in Scorpio. It's also water sign like Pisces. I heard that Scorpio, especially the moon in Scorpio, will go through a lot of transformation processes. Maybe that's why I experienced so many bad things. I don't really know much about Pisces. But I think they are intuitive and sensitive people, have big hearts.

  • @angels1495
    @angels1495 27 днів тому +25

    I once had broken wings, and now I am ready to fly! 😇

    • @NathanWilson-vj7cd
      @NathanWilson-vj7cd 12 днів тому

      Broken wings by Altar Bridge. You need to hear this. Let me know if it helps you it may because of the way you described things in the comments. Angels fall by Breaking Benjamin too. Like I relate to both song artist. So I thought it sounded like you may too. 🔅🔆🔅

    • @angels1495
      @angels1495 12 днів тому

      @NathanWilson-vj7cd Thank you! I can relate to both songs. I am surprised I have never heard them before 😇

    • @NathanWilson-vj7cd
      @NathanWilson-vj7cd 12 днів тому

      @@angels1495 That's so cool. You actually did it. I'm glad you liked them. 👍

  • @ANITHAANITHA-wu4qf
    @ANITHAANITHA-wu4qf 29 днів тому +49

    True lines... Really it makes tears in my eyes... in the morning

  • @felipeduque6437
    @felipeduque6437 26 днів тому +12

    Hey Morgan, thank you so much for writing such beautiful things about my wife👊🏼

  • @cruisingsounds1442
    @cruisingsounds1442 Місяць тому +26

    Your talking about my daughter, Rebecca, God has truly blessed her beyond words

  • @trixVK
    @trixVK 29 днів тому +27

    Thank you. For a moment I felt my tears were understood. 😔💔

    • @jessicalichter7254
      @jessicalichter7254 27 днів тому +1

      Yeah!!! Thank you Mr. PEDOPHILE!!!! giving speeches about young ladies.

    • @Solutiion18
      @Solutiion18 14 днів тому +1

      What an amazing feeling 💜💜💜

  • @alishademmery3581
    @alishademmery3581 26 днів тому +8

    Thank you Morgan freeman

  • @alexames4951
    @alexames4951 Місяць тому +21

    I definitely do she is the best woman ever I'm so happy lucky and blessed to have her in my life (thanks for caring about me babe Catherine) I love you

  • @Kawika.
    @Kawika. 26 днів тому +27

    This applies to men, too.

  • @lanalou2749
    @lanalou2749 28 днів тому +32

    Not for dumb men!
    Only those with a capacity to understand things beyond their limited scope!

    • @ay-tj7pj
      @ay-tj7pj 4 дні тому

      Are you being sarcastic?

  • @SisterGoldenHair111
    @SisterGoldenHair111 25 днів тому +8

    That’s Me !! Still praying for that man ❤ thank you 🙏

  • @tontoschwartz6916
    @tontoschwartz6916 24 дні тому +3

    Absolutely. We found each other later in life. Our love holds us together.

  • @mrfox7776
    @mrfox7776 23 дні тому +12

    And viceversa, men who have had a tough time.

  • @robertelliott8133
    @robertelliott8133 29 днів тому +48

    This is SO TRUE , my Angel add I reunited after. 40 years, She's the Most Wonderful, Amazing woman ,I'V MET EVER , Truly Absolutely, All My Love, God Bless You Beautifully, Life

    • @angelaox20
      @angelaox20 29 днів тому +9

      Oh, my Love, you are the most incredible man and my LOVE for you has and will continue until my last breath. I love you with all my being ❤

    • @donna-michellechetwood8702
      @donna-michellechetwood8702 26 днів тому +1

      Love is the strongest vibration a human can hold. It is more powerful than life itself. Don’t ever waiver.

    • @electricgodchild5505
      @electricgodchild5505 26 днів тому +1

      You were seperated for 40 years? What happened?

    • @angelaox20
      @angelaox20 25 днів тому +4

      We went our separate ways after high school. We were just best friends and didn't tell each other how we felt. We were kids and didn't realize what we felt. I searched for 40 years for him with no luck. Then, one day, BAM, there he was, and we reconnected. We've been together ever since, and it's the most loved, cared for, and respected I've ever felt. I've never experienced a love so strong and true. Our love for each other is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️

  • @AdinaShoshanaSturman-os6tk
    @AdinaShoshanaSturman-os6tk 22 дні тому +6

    Yes.
    Same goes for both woman AND man.

    • @NathanWilson-vj7cd
      @NathanWilson-vj7cd 12 днів тому

      I'm that man and I'm proud of that woman. Just know I do relate. You're not alone. I hope when you read this you feel comforted❤

  • @tinabeamer4681
    @tinabeamer4681 26 днів тому +12

    This is wonderful i have been through hell for years and I am still very kind.

  • @sofarsogod
    @sofarsogod 28 днів тому +15

    Too late, I broke her heart, I broke us.. but life continues. I will always love her and be grateful that Ive had the chance to meet her, I trully hope she can find someone who can make her feel happy everyday and loved forever

  • @fionaschiffl8065
    @fionaschiffl8065 19 днів тому +6

    This is me. Still healing, still growing and coming out the other side of hell. One step at a time. ❤

  • @Empress-og5st
    @Empress-og5st 28 днів тому +25

    Ain’t no man ready for a woman like that like me

    • @anastasiabeaverhausen2660
      @anastasiabeaverhausen2660 26 днів тому

      @@ericstandefer9138they are around. Only the best of men will find them.

    • @seekeroftruth1484
      @seekeroftruth1484 26 днів тому

      I’m 47, educated, have a government career, attractive and I have lots of experience with men (not all sexual experiences so don’t try me). I should have lots of experience/wisdom at my age and I expect/prefer men my age to as well(with women)! So don’t try to shame me for my opportunities because I know how males do.
      Lots of men don’t want a commitment and we see this with the many red pill men on social media who claim marriage is a sham and only benefits women. That’s false but that’s a whole nother subject. Or they think they’re supposed to rule over you even if they can’t afford to fully support you financially. Even if they are the sole breadwinner, they should not want to rule over their women.
      Males are too worried about what other males, friends, family, coworkers etc think about their women/relationships instead of keeping people out their relationships so those people know their place! Tell everybody to mind their business and stay out your relationships. Do not discuss your relationship with anyone but your partner. You have to decide what’s best for y’all and your relationship.
      There are still good men and women. Y’all have to change your mindsets and words to attract them. See your comments…Just know they come with issues just like you and you have to both have self accountability, listen, communicate and work thru the issues, recognize outside interferences/people and cut them off if possible.
      Me and my hubby cut off most/all of our family/friends because they were jealous and interfering in our relationship. These same people need us more than we need them but they had us effed up.
      It can get lonely because people always hating on other’s relationships even if they have someone. Make at least 1 weekday for y’all to have fun every week to keep each other going. Relationships are not for the weak. It takes work and maintenance.

    • @joyflavell7385
      @joyflavell7385 26 днів тому +1

      They’re there but the kind of men who’ll won’t focus on her inner beauty and strength and so they miss her true inner beauty. Just need to pay attention .

  • @slavis2968
    @slavis2968 27 днів тому +4

    Miss Shaunte for me. I have had to learn a lot about her struggles and the love she still gives and the space that she needs. It's hard, but when you finally realize what kind of beautiful person she is, it is amazing. Hope everyone finds someone like her.

  • @renawalker7774
    @renawalker7774 20 днів тому +16

    I am also that girl. Grew up with narcasistic father, married to narcasist for 20 years. Love Jesus more every day. My ex husband wouldnt recognize those traiits in any woman. Tried to save my marriage but he cheated and asked for divorce. That was a blessing. I will never settle again.

  • @shannondustinthewind3799
    @shannondustinthewind3799 28 днів тому +11

    Her Love became Unconditional. Which is more rare than reaching the peak of Mount Everest. It is tough to be able toexplain it to anyone because it's, well....Miraculous. 😊

  • @penelopeasberry5968
    @penelopeasberry5968 25 днів тому +4

    Invaluable when you recognize the cost.

  • @doreensmith6793
    @doreensmith6793 26 днів тому +4

    A girl who offers all the love she has after a broken heart.....will love to the depths and widths of her being. As has been said, dont lose her. You will not find that kind of love but once in a very blessed lifetime. Aaawww, yes, that kind of love.

  • @RoysMyBoy
    @RoysMyBoy 19 днів тому +3

    This recently happened to me, and I can really tell the difference with her compared to my past relationships! She is genuine and doesn't feel the need to put up a front around me! If things keep going the way they are now, I'll have to pop a certain question if/when we make it a few years down the road...☺️

  • @Camille-it8zo
    @Camille-it8zo 28 днів тому +14

    This is me. I love hard and am patient to a fault. But, I'm trying to redirect this to me. Whoever comes along, hopefully they see it too.

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 27 днів тому +8

    I am that girl, and I can’t wait to find a man who isn’t overwhelmed and put off by how heavy and intense my past is!!

    • @NathanWilson-vj7cd
      @NathanWilson-vj7cd 13 днів тому

      @@winxclubstellamusa You have hope and love well hope +love=A strong, caring,and compassionate person who wouldn't want to be with someone like that.

  • @gargiss919
    @gargiss919 Місяць тому +23

    I'm that lady. But still struggling. Anyways I won't fail

  • @TaneeshaKunnel
    @TaneeshaKunnel 24 дні тому +2

    Only a true kind hearted understanding person can recognise it.

  • @emmasnotes9629
    @emmasnotes9629 Місяць тому +19

    That's my friend Dorothy for me....❤

  • @Herpropheticministry
    @Herpropheticministry 28 днів тому +60

    Proverbs 31:31 ❤♥️

    • @annelizebritnor6715
      @annelizebritnor6715 28 днів тому +8

      I want to start reading Proverbs thank you God bless 🙏 🙌🙌🙏

    • @suzettewoolley5397
      @suzettewoolley5397 23 дні тому

      Proverbs 31:10 "If you can find a good wife, she is worth more than precious gems! Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs. She will not hinder him, but will help him all her life. She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She buys imported foods, brought by ships from distant ports. She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household, and plans the day's work for her servant girls. She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard. She is energetic, a hard worker, and watches for bargains. She works far into the night! She sews for the poor, and generously gives to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household, for she has made warm clothes for all of them. She also upholsters with finest tapestry; her own clothing is beautifully made - a purple gown of pure linen. Her husband is well known, for he sits in the council chamber with the other civic leaders. She makes belted linen garments to sell to the merchants. She is a woman of strength and dignity, and has no fear of old age. When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. She watches carefully all that goes on throughout her household, and is never lazy. Her children stand and bless her; so does her husband. He praises her with these words:" There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all!" Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesn't last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised. Praise her for the many fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from even the leaders of the nations".
      A beautiful scripture passage of the characteristics of a godly woman.🙏

    • @Solutiion18
      @Solutiion18 14 днів тому +2

      ​@@annelizebritnor6715Proverbs 31:10 - 31 💜

  • @aleasecreates
    @aleasecreates 23 дні тому +3

    TEAR FILLED THAT GIRL IS ME HE JUST READ MY WHOLE EXISTENCE

  • @keepmyexpectationsongodnot4039
    @keepmyexpectationsongodnot4039 25 днів тому +4

    She is a girl with a mind,woman with attitude and a mysterious lady with class thanks to GOD ❤
    ❤Grateful to God today,tomorrow and forever
    With love from a timeless and gracefully ,bellissima lady full of class and elegance and finesse
    Many thanks ❤️

  • @idanad.
    @idanad. 27 днів тому +4

    This is truly me .
    May God bless my whole being with an honorable and compassionate man.

  • @cowgirl4christprayerwarrior
    @cowgirl4christprayerwarrior 26 днів тому +3

    I am she, she is me. This is beautifully said.

  • @vampgrrl
    @vampgrrl 25 днів тому +3

    This is wonderful. My soon to be husband always says I'm so sweet. He's my future,the past is full of ptsd

  • @luthandomolefe3063
    @luthandomolefe3063 23 дні тому +1

    One day I pray I meet someone like that 🙏

  • @user-fi7rf8nk7z
    @user-fi7rf8nk7z 12 днів тому +1

    My late wife was one of those women. Married for 52 years. She died of cancer but I still love her and miss her.

  • @IrmaQP-zk1ni
    @IrmaQP-zk1ni 29 днів тому +11

    AMEN! Thank you, JESUS!

  • @smilingbright981
    @smilingbright981 25 днів тому +4

    I been through hell . So many scars , so much stress but i still love hard . I have alot of love to give just so afraid of being hurt again. I isolate myself until im ready to trust. Dont have trust you wont have love itll be a waste of time. Healing has to take place first

    • @fionaschiffl8065
      @fionaschiffl8065 19 днів тому

      Me too. I just need my voice in my head at the moment and for the hyper vigilence to go. People say to get out there and socialise but I know I need quiet for now. Trust your instincts. I learnt all about narcissism and looking for red flags so I think that will be of great value when getting to know people. Sending you hugs and wishing you all the best in life. 😊

  • @johniversen7067
    @johniversen7067 20 днів тому +1

    I have a friend like this. I am so blessed to be her friend.

  • @Reema_Chaudhary
    @Reema_Chaudhary 6 днів тому +1

    There was a girl who'd been through hell and what not to speak of but still maintained her dignity, character, resilience and love for others... She tried to confide in so many people who seemed trustworthy but as soon as they saw her vulnerabilities, tried to exploit her. At last she gave up on trusting them but never ever lost the good she had in herself...
    I believe that's life.

  • @EdelweisSusie
    @EdelweisSusie 9 днів тому +3

    I am such a woman, yet every man I’ve ever loved has abandoned me after many years together. Men like women who treat them like crap: good women end up lonely and alone.

  • @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk
    @LouisRUFFIN-gm1nk 28 днів тому +5

    I was never blessed to have a woman like that, all I got was games, hurt and mistreatment. If ever I do find a woman like that, well... it's too late for me. Whatever.

    • @hmack3900
      @hmack3900 26 днів тому +3

      It's never too late....

    • @MaryDunford
      @MaryDunford 12 днів тому

      I'm sorry you've given up. 😔

  • @z3r0fox67
    @z3r0fox67 25 днів тому +2

    The wrong ppl find there way to you sometimes

  • @royalgoddess3284
    @royalgoddess3284 23 дні тому +2

    This made me cry 🥲 he spoke nothing but facts ❣️ it’s a shame that most men can’t see that . They rather add to the pain 😔

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc Місяць тому +4

    Like how to block someone with no explanation. True love right there. ❤

  • @serenedione
    @serenedione Місяць тому +4

    Living witness ‼️🫴🏽✝️❤️🛐🙌🏽

  • @ritakunnunmal4226
    @ritakunnunmal4226 21 годину тому

    I have been through hell but God fought all battles for me .Thank you 😊

  • @Jesussaveme85
    @Jesussaveme85 21 день тому +2

    I pray the man I was supposed to marry and spend my life is ready for me when he finds me.

  • @bharetiedhorai4652
    @bharetiedhorai4652 29 днів тому +4

    Rarity is real. First one must address one own's. Then you'd see.
    🙏🏽.

  • @Kellie_stars
    @Kellie_stars 29 днів тому +3

    Are there any true men out there though?? I hear you Morgan Freeman, bless you dear

  • @sukayna7026
    @sukayna7026 20 днів тому +1

    Beautifully said. A good girl/a good woman goes through a lot of struggles in her life and love is her biggest gift for someone. Also with love she honours those whom she loves and appreciates in her life. Never take it for granted. I agree. 😊❤

  • @tehranrussell521
    @tehranrussell521 24 дні тому +1

    Tamisha Turner shows me about true and real love every day. That's why I love her so much

  • @bluesky777ish
    @bluesky777ish 27 днів тому +5

    Beautiful wise words

  • @JacquesChevon
    @JacquesChevon 19 днів тому +3

    True ❤️ I refuse to spread the darkness I’ve been through. I will always be love and share love. 💕

  • @SavedbyGrace19
    @SavedbyGrace19 19 днів тому +1

    Still I stand ..blessed ...beautiful inside...and out...Glory be to God I have to SHOUT

  • @deannebendt8678
    @deannebendt8678 26 днів тому +2

    That is SOOO TRUE💓🙏🦋

  • @silly673
    @silly673 Місяць тому +6

    My mom❤

  • @user-td4dp7bh1z
    @user-td4dp7bh1z Місяць тому +3

    Love you for posting this Mr.Chicago!❤🙌

  • @absilabadi5121
    @absilabadi5121 10 днів тому +1

    Rose, I will always remember you, taught me there is more in life worth living for.

  • @jasonconrad7494
    @jasonconrad7494 23 дні тому +1

    May our heavenly father bless all the woman that doesn't refuse his love and way of life ❤

  • @saraastrotarot11
    @saraastrotarot11 Місяць тому +6

    ❤very beautiful❤

  • @user-bl3ye7gv9n
    @user-bl3ye7gv9n Місяць тому +3

    Myself and my mom

  • @HijadeDiosS.____..
    @HijadeDiosS.____.. 13 днів тому

    May God Bless every Man who endure a women of God like this🙏

  • @TheMetamorphosisEffect
    @TheMetamorphosisEffect 26 днів тому +1

    I also feel that, The way a man sees a woman’s father love her encourages him to either be his best or give the least he can.
    #FathersMatter

  • @alex-ander-13
    @alex-ander-13 Місяць тому +3

    @Clara 🤍
    Thank you so much!

  • @ruthwells3990
    @ruthwells3990 29 днів тому +8

    I have had an ugly life but I remained a beautiful woman!!!

  • @dandylion2837
    @dandylion2837 26 днів тому +2

    some wounds only time can heal

  • @shagwaaone1432
    @shagwaaone1432 16 днів тому +1

    I met this girl ❤ I will now go to join her on the other side of this planet and spend the rest of my days with her!! I will try and make up for the trouble years she has endured while she teaches me to be stronger and better!

  • @user-vi6dk9mq6p
    @user-vi6dk9mq6p Місяць тому +4

    Karen is that girl ❤ ❤❤❤❤!!!

  • @slime361
    @slime361 Місяць тому +3

    🙏

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 8 днів тому

    Ladies there are men out there to like this appreciate him don't take him for granted

  • @alphaomegalovesu1017
    @alphaomegalovesu1017 13 днів тому

    now I understand why chosen ones endure, their resilience shows their kindness. choosing to be kind after facing hardships while others show their bad side in face of troubles.