I know right! My sister stayed in an abusive marriage for years even after he played russian roulette with her. That would have been the 1st and last time I peed on myself!@@dwilliams5700
So many times that I finally realized that if they get on the defensive, they are up to no good and walk away! Cut your losses! I have seen that movie too many times and don't need to stay to see how it ends! I'm an overthinker and Empathic, not a Victim.
I was told I was crazy for accusing him for things that ended up being true. Even with proof he will still deny it. I became a jealous and controlling person. I take full responsibility for my changed behavior and chose to stay single.
I’m in that situation every single day! He always accuses me of being crazy, and that I have things twisted in my head when he’s the one that keeps putting it in my head
Yes, he said she is just a friend & he's like a big brother to her. Just to find out, after going through his phone, she said I love you, no, I really love you."" That destroyed our relationship.. Along with other things took place. But I love you is what really changed me about the way I use to feel about him.
The 3 C’s- Communication, clarity, compassion always welcomed. ❤ I would add: Consistency ✅ (say one thing and do another= inconsistent ❌ Now that I’m the runner 🏃♀️ I am being called crazy/bipolar… ⚖️🗽🦋 I’m forwarding them your videos. You should have a seminar for men. They can learn a lot from you. Ty 🙏🙌👏🏻❤️
Men and Women please WORK ON SELF !!!! BEFORE RELATIONSHIPS !!! I Not or have I been in sexual relationships FOR LONG TIME CAUSE THAT'S WHEN I WORKED ON ME !!! Search My soul get ALL MESS OUT I WORKED ON ME !!! THIS IS WHY I CAN SPEAK MY TRUTH !!! GET RID OF PAST !!! MEANS HIGH VIBRATIONS= GOOD ATTITUDE, HAPPY , MANIFEST WANTS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T LET ANY PERSN F WITH ENERGY !!!
Yep!!!!!!! I found his ex and reached out to her. Turns out he had the SAME anger, jealousy, insecurities, control issues with her. With the door slamming and temper tantrums taboot!
Thanks again Jaxn for everything. The icing on the cake for me, was him exchanging phone 📱 numbers which someone's fiance and going to work with his zipper opened.
Definitely,because the last one was always defensive and made me suspicious because of that. Someone who calms me down allows me to get perspective and then speak from my heart.
We were together for 8 years; I suspected he was hiding something & was very uncomfortable! He told me I was being difficult & paranoid; gaslighting me & wanted to break up with me & I later realised he had a yr old child with another woman!!….😢😢😢
If they tell you their ex was crazy, you can guarantee THEY are a crazy maker !
I so agree I have seen this.
Facts!
He was playing me all along
@@MarthaGargiulo-c1ii got played 😢
EXACTLY
I let all know when they call me CRAZY yes I AM. CRAZY enough to walk the hell away from foolishness!!!
You are not crazy You are wise. love your peace
Amen Sis 🙏🏼❤ ... Keep your Peace because to stay is CRAZY !!!
I know right! My sister stayed in an abusive marriage for years even after he played russian roulette with her. That would have been the 1st and last time I peed on myself!@@dwilliams5700
Called sick and accusing of having psychological issues too.. thank you 🙏
So many times that I finally realized that if they get on the defensive, they are up to no good and walk away! Cut your losses! I have seen that movie too many times and don't need to stay to see how it ends! I'm an overthinker and Empathic, not a Victim.
👏👏👏👏👏Well said ❤
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I did the work, I was healed but now have horrible anxiety since I've been with him
Breathe, go outside, and breathe through your nose.
Go do you… get rid of that anxiety, it him
I pray you find peace again❤
@@dwilliams5700 thank you ❤️
I really needed to hear this. Peace and Blessings.
Peace and Blessing to you as well. Your time and peace of mind is valuable.
Yes, I have experienced this for the 9 years of the relationship I was in.
Glad you removed yourself from a bad situation.
9 years here as well Sis...Good For Us!
9 year's must be the magic number
I was told I was crazy for accusing him for things that ended up being true. Even with proof he will still deny it. I became a jealous and controlling person. I take full responsibility for my changed behavior and chose to stay single.
I hear that. What a mess the dating market is.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
@@sherriflemming3218 I was married to this person.
Crazy, definitely yes. Here’s a frequent one: “something is wrong with you, you know.” It didn’t work with me. I began to plan my exit.
Not called crazy but told that I was taking away his peace. "We were having a good day " until you said this
I'm right with you ... Planning my exit too!!
I wish you all the very best ❤
If men could only do this ! There would be so many happy women out here
I know he gaslighting me. So I leave them alone cause I don’t like nobody playing me like I’m slow
Speak it baby Speak it your speeches are on point....you haven’t missed a beat....🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾
This is the TRUTH 🕊️
The good relationship, communication and love you are describing sounds amazing, but I’ve never seen it.
❤
He tells everyone I'm crazy but never tells anyone what he did or said to make me act crazy.
Thank you for the knowledge King 🙏🏾
I’m in that situation every single day! He always accuses me of being crazy, and that I have things twisted in my head when he’s the one that keeps putting it in my head
Yes, he said she is just a friend & he's like a big brother to her. Just to find out, after going through his phone, she said I love you, no, I really love you."" That destroyed our relationship.. Along with other things took place. But I love you is what really changed me about the way I use to feel about him.
I like this. I watch Derrick's segments and his wise words reminds me where I need to be. My self-esteem continues to rise each day.
I needed this tonight. I've been gaslit so badly and he used my empathy against me , blamed me for my response to his blatant disrespect
I can really relate to this information you are providing!
Your Right I’m not crazy or the problem maybe people just want me to be🤷🏾♀️. Some are just dishonest ……..thx✌🏾
Indeed. Duplicitous.
Whole time🕰💯
All I can say it once I cut out all bs whilst working on me etc - I called in that beautiful energy that I hold - I’m very proud and so grateful ❤
Yep, they want you to be insecure. They want to doubt yourself.
The 3 C’s- Communication, clarity, compassion always welcomed. ❤
I would add:
Consistency ✅ (say one thing and do another= inconsistent ❌
Now that I’m the runner 🏃♀️ I am being called crazy/bipolar…
⚖️🗽🦋
I’m forwarding them your videos.
You should have a seminar for men. They can learn a lot from you. Ty 🙏🙌👏🏻❤️
Thank you bro ❤❤❤❤❤
Oh yes Derick, thank you I am getting so very much from all of the information you’re giving here .
Wish I could of heard this 20 years ago.
You are thee...thee most right on coaching and mentor.
Thee best. Thank you
You have an amazing aura.💙
Thank you for your guidance 💛💫💛
Thank you for being here, I so needed this today!
Yes im going threw it right now as we speak 💯💯💯💔💔
Yes and He would have my utmost respect, love and devotion.
Every time my ex would call me crazy. It always turned out that I was right. I've been one year away from him and it's been very peaceful.
I love how you bring up the bible. And you are right about everything you talk about.
I was called delusional 😅
I would get called crazy all the time)
I have not felt protected. Always in survival mode sadly.
Yes, would always call me that, everything I would call him out on was indeed true
yes he is trying to stall me constantly
Men and Women please WORK ON SELF !!!! BEFORE RELATIONSHIPS !!!
I Not or have I been in sexual relationships FOR LONG TIME CAUSE THAT'S WHEN I WORKED ON ME !!! Search My soul get ALL MESS OUT I WORKED ON ME !!!
THIS IS WHY I CAN SPEAK MY TRUTH !!! GET RID OF PAST !!! MEANS HIGH VIBRATIONS= GOOD ATTITUDE, HAPPY , MANIFEST WANTS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T LET ANY PERSN F WITH ENERGY !!!
You speaking truth 💯
Yep!!!!!!! I found his ex and reached out to her. Turns out he had the SAME anger, jealousy, insecurities, control issues with her. With the door slamming and temper tantrums taboot!
Thankyou, Stephanie💚
God bless you always 🎊 🎉😊❤
You are soooo right!!!❤
True facts my brother ❤️.
I. That would absolutely calm the situation and make me more receptive to him
Yes All The Time 💯💯💯💯 You Are Right
Thank you.
So we’ll put and it’s the truth!
Right here. It has happened to me
Yes Yes Yes thanks again for u being the truth real life message
You are telling the truth
Derrick you're on point
You’re a Do Gooder. Heaven Sent ❤🙏
Thanks again Jaxn for everything. The icing on the cake for me, was him exchanging phone 📱 numbers which someone's fiance and going to work with his zipper opened.
And has his mother on the phone, and she is asking me why am I being so insecure.
If he reacts harshly I done. I would just be gone. Like a ghost 👻
Definitely,because the last one was always defensive and made me suspicious because of that. Someone who calms me down allows me to get perspective and then speak from my heart.
I've been called crazy, mental, delusional, psycho, some people use to be able to manipulate and sweet talk me to guve them chance after chance.
Thank you for informing us. Everything make since now.
That’s the truth
🙏 thank you
Facts brother.
Yes Sir the call me crazy behind my back
I think I’m in love with you! Not Romantically. Hell yes. I’ve been called crazy 🤪 and knew it then
Thank you
You're speaking facts
Yup facts and found out everything
You are spot on!
I know hes a King, because he does these things. I just need things to be better with it being consistent.
Fact's
Your saying it right Big Bro
Yup, going through it!
Yes, that right there! Make me safe!
😌 Validation.. God bless👏
This shh hitting to close to home rn, I swear he’s talking to me 😔
Def he said 'You're crazy' and I agreed whilst chopping veggies.
I've told me the approach that you are saying is what would calm me down, he makes things worse eveytime. I have given up.
Thank you 🙏
Absolutely, "I"!
Tip. Saying “I’ll make sure you won’t see it again “ says to us that you will change sources not stop that conversation
Definitely , for sure
Yes I was told I was crazy turned out I nailed it
Oh Yes, HE DID!!! I WAS TAGGED ME AS jealous!!! HE WISHED
we have been divorced for 6 years now he just now started coming around
Even after 6 years they come back 😅
Close that door.
Yeah I was always told I was crazy
EVERYTIME
Yes
Definitely
We were together for 8 years; I suspected he was hiding something & was very uncomfortable! He told me I was being difficult & paranoid; gaslighting me & wanted to break up with me & I later realised he had a yr old child with another woman!!….😢😢😢
How to spell crazy by my husband the whole time he was spending time with his baby mama and everybody else
Fact💯
Yep!!
The whole time I was RIGHT!!!!!
Agreed 100
Um,YEAH! Every time I've been called crazy, it's just been confirmation I was RIGHT about what I felt was going on.
I have saying I’m tripping and etc. etc. use to get mad back then Now I’m Unbothered.
Truth
Absolutely
I'm not going 💯
He gave me pass code even tho I didn't ask but still was not know how to handle issues or communicate
Every time!