I know right! My sister stayed in an abusive marriage for years even after he played russian roulette with her. That would have been the 1st and last time I peed on myself!@@dwilliams5700
So many times that I finally realized that if they get on the defensive, they are up to no good and walk away! Cut your losses! I have seen that movie too many times and don't need to stay to see how it ends! I'm an overthinker and Empathic, not a Victim.
I was told I was crazy for accusing him for things that ended up being true. Even with proof he will still deny it. I became a jealous and controlling person. I take full responsibility for my changed behavior and chose to stay single.
I’m in that situation every single day! He always accuses me of being crazy, and that I have things twisted in my head when he’s the one that keeps putting it in my head
Yep!!!!!!! I found his ex and reached out to her. Turns out he had the SAME anger, jealousy, insecurities, control issues with her. With the door slamming and temper tantrums taboot!
The 3 C’s- Communication, clarity, compassion always welcomed. ❤ I would add: Consistency ✅ (say one thing and do another= inconsistent ❌ Now that I’m the runner 🏃♀️ I am being called crazy/bipolar… ⚖️🗽🦋 I’m forwarding them your videos. You should have a seminar for men. They can learn a lot from you. Ty 🙏🙌👏🏻❤️
Yes, he said she is just a friend & he's like a big brother to her. Just to find out, after going through his phone, she said I love you, no, I really love you."" That destroyed our relationship.. Along with other things took place. But I love you is what really changed me about the way I use to feel about him.
Thanks again Jaxn for everything. The icing on the cake for me, was him exchanging phone 📱 numbers which someone's fiance and going to work with his zipper opened.
Definitely,because the last one was always defensive and made me suspicious because of that. Someone who calms me down allows me to get perspective and then speak from my heart.
We were together for 8 years; I suspected he was hiding something & was very uncomfortable! He told me I was being difficult & paranoid; gaslighting me & wanted to break up with me & I later realised he had a yr old child with another woman!!….😢😢😢
Hey Sis, sounds like He just wanted to avoid the question. So He called You crazy. Did He ever answer the question? If not you have your answer. Nothing! Just trying to help. Please don't be offended best wishes
Men and Women please WORK ON SELF !!!! BEFORE RELATIONSHIPS !!! I Not or have I been in sexual relationships FOR LONG TIME CAUSE THAT'S WHEN I WORKED ON ME !!! Search My soul get ALL MESS OUT I WORKED ON ME !!! THIS IS WHY I CAN SPEAK MY TRUTH !!! GET RID OF PAST !!! MEANS HIGH VIBRATIONS= GOOD ATTITUDE, HAPPY , MANIFEST WANTS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T LET ANY PERSN F WITH ENERGY !!!
Derick? I really don’t want to ask for help but can you help me? What do I do in my situation? Do I just move on cause that’s what I really want to do I don’t feel like I’m my best self for anyone right now. I’m getting used to being by myself it’s been like this since 2016 I’ve just been working and going to strip clubs but those women don’t want me no woman wants me right now. I don’t know if it’s because I have too many soul ties which I just learned about not too long ago. But does that mean I have to go back and make things right? I moved from my past far away. I really don’t wanna have to do that. I just want to move on with my life. I’ll be alright by myself. What should I do?
I'm sorry you're going through that sweetheart but let me give you a little bit perspective from a woman I don't know if you currently or most recently when you wrote this were with other one that you truly really did love out of anybody you've ever been with it I mean that by saying that if that was the case it wasn't that I know a you know she didn't get away it was that you just had definitely soul ties with a lot of you may need to start doing is going for a little while which I understand can be hard but definitely you need to be going a little bit that way you could save yourself for the right woman and that way you can get clarity because let me tell you when you were sleeping and creating more soul ties and energy swapping with women who are just as toxic and who have issues it can cause a real problem and you can be searching for that very you know solution to your problem the rest of your life my suggestion is go celebrate for a little bit and see how you feel in your perspective and where your mind takes you as far as the women thing but definitely build and work on yourself I wish you nothing but the best take care
he tone is aggressive when he responds to me but when someone like his childs mother is a result of his son being put in jail, nothing, crickets. says he cares more about our situation
If they tell you their ex was crazy, you can guarantee THEY are a crazy maker !
I so agree I have seen this.
Facts!
He was playing me all along
@@user-oj6ev5el8ri got played 😢
I let all know when they call me CRAZY yes I AM. CRAZY enough to walk the hell away from foolishness!!!
You are not crazy You are wise. love your peace
Amen Sis 🙏🏼❤ ... Keep your Peace because to stay is CRAZY !!!
I know right! My sister stayed in an abusive marriage for years even after he played russian roulette with her. That would have been the 1st and last time I peed on myself!@@dwilliams5700
Called sick and accusing of having psychological issues too.. thank you 🙏
So many times that I finally realized that if they get on the defensive, they are up to no good and walk away! Cut your losses! I have seen that movie too many times and don't need to stay to see how it ends! I'm an overthinker and Empathic, not a Victim.
👏👏👏👏👏Well said ❤
❤
Crazy, definitely yes. Here’s a frequent one: “something is wrong with you, you know.” It didn’t work with me. I began to plan my exit.
Not called crazy but told that I was taking away his peace. "We were having a good day " until you said this
I'm right with you ... Planning my exit too!!
I wish you all the very best ❤
I did the work, I was healed but now have horrible anxiety since I've been with him
Breathe, go outside, and breathe through your nose.
Go do you… get rid of that anxiety, it him
I pray you find peace again❤
@@dwilliams5700 thank you ❤️
He tells everyone I'm crazy but never tells anyone what he did or said to make me act crazy.
Yep, they want you to be insecure. They want to doubt yourself.
I was told I was crazy for accusing him for things that ended up being true. Even with proof he will still deny it. I became a jealous and controlling person. I take full responsibility for my changed behavior and chose to stay single.
I hear that. What a mess the dating market is.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
@@sherriflemming3218 I was married to this person.
I really needed to hear this. Peace and Blessings.
Peace and Blessing to you as well. Your time and peace of mind is valuable.
I know he gaslighting me. So I leave them alone cause I don’t like nobody playing me like I’m slow
Yes, I have experienced this for the 9 years of the relationship I was in.
Glad you removed yourself from a bad situation.
9 years here as well Sis...Good For Us!
9 year's must be the magic number
Speak it baby Speak it your speeches are on point....you haven’t missed a beat....🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾
This is the TRUTH 🕊️
I’m in that situation every single day! He always accuses me of being crazy, and that I have things twisted in my head when he’s the one that keeps putting it in my head
The good relationship, communication and love you are describing sounds amazing, but I’ve never seen it.
❤
Thank you for the knowledge King 🙏🏾
I like this. I watch Derrick's segments and his wise words reminds me where I need to be. My self-esteem continues to rise each day.
I have not felt protected. Always in survival mode sadly.
I can really relate to this information you are providing!
Your Right I’m not crazy or the problem maybe people just want me to be🤷🏾♀️. Some are just dishonest ……..thx✌🏾
Indeed. Duplicitous.
I needed this tonight. I've been gaslit so badly and he used my empathy against me , blamed me for my response to his blatant disrespect
Whole time🕰💯
I was called delusional 😅
Yep!!!!!!! I found his ex and reached out to her. Turns out he had the SAME anger, jealousy, insecurities, control issues with her. With the door slamming and temper tantrums taboot!
Every time my ex would call me crazy. It always turned out that I was right. I've been one year away from him and it's been very peaceful.
The 3 C’s- Communication, clarity, compassion always welcomed. ❤
I would add:
Consistency ✅ (say one thing and do another= inconsistent ❌
Now that I’m the runner 🏃♀️ I am being called crazy/bipolar…
⚖️🗽🦋
I’m forwarding them your videos.
You should have a seminar for men. They can learn a lot from you. Ty 🙏🙌👏🏻❤️
If men could only do this ! There would be so many happy women out here
Oh yes Derick, thank you I am getting so very much from all of the information you’re giving here .
All I can say it once I cut out all bs whilst working on me etc - I called in that beautiful energy that I hold - I’m very proud and so grateful ❤
I would get called crazy all the time)
Yes, he said she is just a friend & he's like a big brother to her. Just to find out, after going through his phone, she said I love you, no, I really love you."" That destroyed our relationship.. Along with other things took place. But I love you is what really changed me about the way I use to feel about him.
yes he is trying to stall me constantly
I love how you bring up the bible. And you are right about everything you talk about.
Thank you for being here, I so needed this today!
You have an amazing aura.💙
Thank you for your guidance 💛💫💛
Yes and He would have my utmost respect, love and devotion.
Yes im going threw it right now as we speak 💯💯💯💔💔
I've been called crazy, mental, delusional, psycho, some people use to be able to manipulate and sweet talk me to guve them chance after chance.
Wish I could of heard this 20 years ago.
You are thee...thee most right on coaching and mentor.
Thee best. Thank you
Yes, would always call me that, everything I would call him out on was indeed true
This shh hitting to close to home rn, I swear he’s talking to me 😔
Thank you bro ❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks again Jaxn for everything. The icing on the cake for me, was him exchanging phone 📱 numbers which someone's fiance and going to work with his zipper opened.
And has his mother on the phone, and she is asking me why am I being so insecure.
I. That would absolutely calm the situation and make me more receptive to him
Derrick you're on point
Definitely,because the last one was always defensive and made me suspicious because of that. Someone who calms me down allows me to get perspective and then speak from my heart.
God bless you always 🎊 🎉😊❤
Tip. Saying “I’ll make sure you won’t see it again “ says to us that you will change sources not stop that conversation
Thankyou, Stephanie💚
😌 Validation.. God bless👏
Thank you.
So we’ll put and it’s the truth!
Yes Yes Yes thanks again for u being the truth real life message
You’re a Do Gooder. Heaven Sent ❤🙏
Right here. It has happened to me
Def he said 'You're crazy' and I agreed whilst chopping veggies.
Absolutely, "I"!
Yes Sir the call me crazy behind my back
Thank you for informing us. Everything make since now.
Yes I was told I was crazy turned out I nailed it
True facts my brother ❤️.
You are soooo right!!!❤
If he reacts harshly I done. I would just be gone. Like a ghost 👻
We were together for 8 years; I suspected he was hiding something & was very uncomfortable! He told me I was being difficult & paranoid; gaslighting me & wanted to break up with me & I later realised he had a yr old child with another woman!!….😢😢😢
Yup facts and found out everything
You are telling the truth
Was called negative because I called him out on his mess
I hear that.
Yes All The Time 💯💯💯💯 You Are Right
I've told me the approach that you are saying is what would calm me down, he makes things worse eveytime. I have given up.
I was called crazy yesterday because i wanted to know what his intention in our relation
Hey Sis, sounds like He just wanted to avoid the question. So He called You crazy. Did He ever answer the question? If not you have your answer. Nothing! Just trying to help. Please don't be offended best wishes
Definitely , for sure
O wow 😮
Yes, that right there! Make me safe!
That’s the truth
Thank you
I know hes a King, because he does these things. I just need things to be better with it being consistent.
Fact's
Your saying it right Big Bro
Um,YEAH! Every time I've been called crazy, it's just been confirmation I was RIGHT about what I felt was going on.
I think I’m in love with you! Not Romantically. Hell yes. I’ve been called crazy 🤪 and knew it then
🙏 thank you
Yes
Oh yes! I was always right in regards to the idiot that I dated last year!!
Yes i have been called crazy by almost everyone
Agreed 100
we have been divorced for 6 years now he just now started coming around
Even after 6 years they come back 😅
Close that door.
Definitely
EVERYTIME
ugh, he says he hasn't done anything, then gaslights and says I am right all along and that he doesnt know what happens because he is trying
You're speaking facts
You are spot on!
Men and Women please WORK ON SELF !!!! BEFORE RELATIONSHIPS !!!
I Not or have I been in sexual relationships FOR LONG TIME CAUSE THAT'S WHEN I WORKED ON ME !!! Search My soul get ALL MESS OUT I WORKED ON ME !!!
THIS IS WHY I CAN SPEAK MY TRUTH !!! GET RID OF PAST !!! MEANS HIGH VIBRATIONS= GOOD ATTITUDE, HAPPY , MANIFEST WANTS, BY ALL MEANS DON'T LET ANY PERSN F WITH ENERGY !!!
Derick? I really don’t want to ask for help but can you help me? What do I do in my situation? Do I just move on cause that’s what I really want to do I don’t feel like I’m my best self for anyone right now. I’m getting used to being by myself it’s been like this since 2016 I’ve just been working and going to strip clubs but those women don’t want me no woman wants me right now. I don’t know if it’s because I have too many soul ties which I just learned about not too long ago. But does that mean I have to go back and make things right? I moved from my past far away. I really don’t wanna have to do that. I just want to move on with my life. I’ll be alright by myself. What should I do?
I'm sorry you're going through that sweetheart but let me give you a little bit perspective from a woman I don't know if you currently or most recently when you wrote this were with other one that you truly really did love out of anybody you've ever been with it I mean that by saying that if that was the case it wasn't that I know a you know she didn't get away it was that you just had definitely soul ties with a lot of you may need to start doing is going for a little while which I understand can be hard but definitely you need to be going a little bit that way you could save yourself for the right woman and that way you can get clarity because let me tell you when you were sleeping and creating more soul ties and energy swapping with women who are just as toxic and who have issues it can cause a real problem and you can be searching for that very you know solution to your problem the rest of your life my suggestion is go celebrate for a little bit and see how you feel in your perspective and where your mind takes you as far as the women thing but definitely build and work on yourself I wish you nothing but the best take care
Facts brother.
Yep!!
Yes!
he tone is aggressive when he responds to me but when someone like his childs mother is a result of his son being put in jail, nothing, crickets. says he cares more about our situation
How to spell crazy by my husband the whole time he was spending time with his baby mama and everybody else
Fact💯
The whole time I was RIGHT!!!!!
Yup facts
The whole time I was right!