Starting Over And Improving Your Finances! | Clever Girl Finance

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  • In today’s video, we are going to dive into how to make changes to your mindset, relationships, and finances if you feel like you need to start over.
    Starting a new life by improving your finances is changing the way you think, establishing relationships that are supportive and like-minded, forgiving yourself and learning from your mistakes, and taking ownership of your life, and creating a financial plan for that lifestyle.
    Are you starting over? What steps are you taking? Share in the comments below!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 127

  • @Clevergirlfinance
    @Clevergirlfinance  2 роки тому +23

    What steps are you taking to improve your finances? Share in the comments and thanks for tuning in!!

    • @wonder219
      @wonder219 2 роки тому +1

      I have registered on your free course : transform your money mindset. I'm done and i have received my certificate of completion. this of one of my best decisions so far this year. God bless you. I'm summarizing the lesson to share with my husband.

    • @shanikawood7332
      @shanikawood7332 2 роки тому

      I increased my TSP account 2% more!

    • @sonofroderick4255
      @sonofroderick4255 2 роки тому

      After listening to the nine steps you have suggested I believe I'm doing at least 5 of them. What your advice does secures me in that I'm doing the right thing. Just in a month and a half I put a substantial amount into my saving. Where I was behind on my bills I'm now 1 to 2 weeks ahead, but it took approximately 5 months to get there (especially in times as these.) As of today I have reached my emergency fund. At 60 you are wiser learning from the past not purchasing anything and/or everything you want. Be appreciative with what you have and growing from there. You don't necessarily have to work harder, but you definitely have to work smarter. At 60 there isn't a lot of time left, so focus on your health and your finances. Doesn't mean you have to become a hermit or a scrouge. Thanks for your teachings. I'm thinking of doing "weather Wednesday" seems challenging.

    • @opasiverahopasiverah4009
      @opasiverahopasiverah4009 2 роки тому

      P

    • @laurencenjamburi1693
      @laurencenjamburi1693 2 роки тому

      Awesome

  • @simplyjean9188
    @simplyjean9188 2 роки тому +64

    I hit rock bottom..I had no car, no place, no savings, and no job. I have a job now, still sleeping on a couch, no car, $1000 in savings, $ 700 in 401k. I just take it one day at a time.

    • @denisejulien4841
      @denisejulien4841 2 роки тому +11

      You will make it you are working don't give up, baby steps one day at a time stay focus ,not having a car will help you save more, no insurance and car maintenance but when the time is right you will get there so proud of you !!🥰

    • @user-ib7it2li8f
      @user-ib7it2li8f 2 роки тому +5

      Progress is progress! And you wil motivated the people around you :) trust me!

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  2 роки тому +9

      One day at a time is how to do it! You are making PROGRESS!

    • @maureentakach3065
      @maureentakach3065 2 роки тому +1

      Don't give up. You're making progress!

  • @leinaalam133
    @leinaalam133 2 роки тому +76

    The hardest part is to forgive yourself when your poor decisions and actions have hurt those closest to you.Thank you… these are great tips!

  • @sonofroderick4255
    @sonofroderick4255 2 роки тому +29

    I am so glad I've found a recent vlog. I'm a 60 year old male literally starting over. I've made comments on a couple of your videos and have found them not just inspiring but do-able. My goal for 2022 is to save $10,000. I have already started with restarting my 401-k, and getting debt relief from FDR (Freedom Debt Relief), which is working beautifully. My car payment and utilities are all in check. I make approx. $35,000/yr. just recently I was able to save $600 to apply to an emergency fund. I'm going to be using your instructions as a baseline for my financial goals. For some reason you make me feel accountable (in a good way). Thank you so much and keep doing what you're doing. God Bless!

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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    • @maricarmenf1546
      @maricarmenf1546 2 роки тому +2

      That's awesome, keep up the great work!

    • @holamissmusica
      @holamissmusica 2 роки тому +2

      Keep going! 🙌🏾

    • @kimberlycoltrainrsrccr2626
      @kimberlycoltrainrsrccr2626 7 місяців тому +1

      That's wonderful! Glad the name (Clever GIRL finance) didn't deter you!
      When hubs and I started seeing each other, the first thing we asked each other was for financial habits. It wasn't to compare what both of us had gotten out of, but to ensure we were on the same page and that we weren't getting the same issues in different packaging 😂.
      We have bi-weekly money dates (aside from regular dates), revamp personal and couple goals, and have no issue w laying out any shortcomings.
      We have had more debt free vacays & staycays, paid off debts, bought & paid OFF vehicles & home in our brief union (close to 7 yrs now/known each other for 39) than either of us had in the 20+ yrs of either of our marriages 😮
      I've been called so many names it used to hurt my feelings so bad (El Cheapa The CheapQueen, Ms. ScroogeMiser, SkinnyFlint, Nickledean, you name it)
      But Frugal and cheap are different though. I buy quality at the lowest price and make sure it's made to last.
      Right before my Exodus, I finally said the one thing NO ONE could call me was broke👊🏾
      Packed up & haven't regretted a thing.
      ~Best to you on your journey!🎉

  • @royalblue6747
    @royalblue6747 2 роки тому +10

    I’m starting over, I’m excited. I had to show the most high gratitude first, forgive myself for the mistakes and claim my 2022 as a great financial year!😊❤️

  • @Anita-tf3ve
    @Anita-tf3ve 2 роки тому +29

    Quitters don't win and winners don't quit.
    No matter what you do, keep moving and know that starting investment earlier in life is the key to building wealth. Always invest with the right approach and opportunity.

    • @vivianpaul7759
      @vivianpaul7759 2 роки тому +2

      Good words.

    • @vivianpaul7759
      @vivianpaul7759 2 роки тому +2

      There's no two ways about this information.

    • @philchege7155
      @philchege7155 2 роки тому +4

      Anita you are right, some people remain poor due to ignorance.

    • @savannabills2625
      @savannabills2625 2 роки тому +4

      Crypto is currently one of the best and profitable market to invest in but I prefer to diversify my portfolio which i think is wise, my opinion and understanding though.

    • @tinamanuel2305
      @tinamanuel2305 2 роки тому +4

      I know I'm blessed to have a mentor like expert Jeffrey Matthew. My outcome from fx has been lucrative courtesy of his system.

  • @waleadebayo3846
    @waleadebayo3846 2 роки тому +12

    I've experienced a great deal of heartache and embarrassment for my financial mistakes. I have no one to blame, and you've encouraged me start over. That's what I must do. I'm sure I can draw more strength from your works. Thanks a lot.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
      Feel free to Text✍️ I have something profitable for You..!!

  • @MsChristianr
    @MsChristianr 2 роки тому +26

    Yes I had to start over on my saving account. So emergencies happened and I bought a lot of courses that ai wish I wouldn't have bought. So I learned that I was impulsive and I have to pause before I buy

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  2 роки тому +5

      You can do it! Thanks for sharing and tuning in!

    • @adamarlem9863
      @adamarlem9863 2 роки тому +4

      Yes, my mom used to say the price of the lesson learned will save you much in the future :)

    • @MsChristianr
      @MsChristianr 2 роки тому +1

      @@adamarlem9863 yes it sure will. Learned definitely learned

    • @adamarlem9863
      @adamarlem9863 2 роки тому +1

      @@MsChristianr the tough lessons stick :)

  • @marlac7235
    @marlac7235 2 роки тому +18

    I need to learn how to budget and sticking with. I really don't like the feeling of living paycheck to paycheck

    • @keairacolbert4835
      @keairacolbert4835 2 роки тому +3

      Yes it’s a trap and I’m desperate to find away out

    • @barbarafallin2038
      @barbarafallin2038 2 роки тому

      Start with her baby steps and cut back on unnecessary spending, I paid off 10,000 credit card in 17 months

  • @briannadau
    @briannadau 2 роки тому +5

    Not starting over but in starting this new year definitely revisiting my immediate, short term and long goals after getting a small raise! I will be creating a budget, putting my goals on my vision board that I see every day for daily reminders and yearly goals, as well as consistently checking my bank account weekly and setting several "No Spend" challenges this year.
    While a lot of terrible things have happened during the pandemic, one good outlook for me is that I spend a lot less since I am at home so much more often! No more expensive Uber/Lyfts to dinner or drinks with friends, and eating out $20-$30 for one meal, or happy hour drinks a few times a month! All that adds up. Putting all that money into my savings, and Facetiming with a glass of wine, reading, or watching movies in a watch party instead.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
      Feel free to Text✍️ I have something profitable for You..!!

  • @olalee1927
    @olalee1927 2 роки тому +4

    I'm 65 years young 🌱 saving is one of the most challenging thing for me. With a limited fits income, getting a part time job is one of my goals. Yes I'm starting over please help me.

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  2 роки тому

      Its ok to start over! Stop by clevergirlfinance.com / we have tons of free resources to support you!

  • @escarter5655
    @escarter5655 2 роки тому +3

    I loved the recommendation to forgive myself for past mistakes. That’s my first step. Thank you!

  • @shecanbudget1170
    @shecanbudget1170 2 роки тому +12

    Being able to forgive yourself for poor money choices or habits can be hard but it's ultimately liberating. Having done it, drawn a line & moved on, I've come up with my own financial plan & have taken the massive (for me) step of setting up a UA-cam channel based around cash stuffing, budgeting & debt pay off. Whilst it absolutely terrifies me to do it, I know that it will help me to hold myself accountable & motivate me to succeed.

  • @bfloy1837
    @bfloy1837 2 роки тому +14

    Oh! I'm so glad I found you! Things are desperate here, but I am encouraged by your expertise and forgiveness approach. Thank you! I'll be reading all your helps! Grateful from Elizabeth, Illinois 😃

  • @itztxcagracie6217
    @itztxcagracie6217 2 роки тому +13

    This is a thoughtful piece and I must say that your genuineness has earned some great points. I will put your words to work and see where I can get to by the 1st half of this year. Thank you for all you do.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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  • @lin90210
    @lin90210 2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for your encouraging videos! Happy new year everybody! Wishing you all and your loved ones the bestest of health and happiness! xx

  • @freefamilies5563
    @freefamilies5563 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for offering this advice. Forgiving myself is the perfect lace to start, learn from my mistakes and move forward.
    ** I’m not always sure where I’ve made mistakes “blind spots “. Can you suggest a good way to really understand where I went wrong? **
    I’m also grateful for all of the free courses. It gives me hope just finding you!

  • @dawnscott-gx3kp
    @dawnscott-gx3kp 4 місяці тому +1

    I am startingbover. I have several bills in collections on my credit report and have to rebuild my savings. Thank you for the great advice

  • @kanyanaoliver9678
    @kanyanaoliver9678 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks you so much and be blessed for this

  • @adamarlem9863
    @adamarlem9863 2 роки тому +2

    Love the drop the Self Sabotage-- as personal drama and attention getter. Yes, boring is good, no draining energy.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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  • @veeedgee
    @veeedgee 2 роки тому

    I got a raise & my finances got worse. I began "treating" myself too much. I am starting over now & dropping the shame!

  • @tannikamyers1274
    @tannikamyers1274 2 роки тому +2

    Forgiving yourself myself is hard..I want to move forward but continue you look back and what if myself to death...its exhausting and keeps me stunted.. It's definitely time for a new mindset. I am going to hold on to Gratitude.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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  • @pamelacallaway3922
    @pamelacallaway3922 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice as always! Thanks so much!

  • @nataliakamutati7355
    @nataliakamutati7355 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the point of starting over ♥️♥️♥️

  • @MamaMia-ht3zp
    @MamaMia-ht3zp 2 роки тому +2

    Clever Girl !!
    Yes Yes thank you!!
    I really messed up

  • @marshamarriott994
    @marshamarriott994 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you🙏🏾

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 2 роки тому +4

    Hi Bola, I’m trying to have a positive mindset, curb my spending and stick to my budget 😄. Thanks for this 😍

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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  • @datyogadude
    @datyogadude 2 роки тому +3

    December got me, if you haven’t already a holiday budget would be great.
    I did one but the holiday guilt, and “it’s the end of the year” made me lose focus and self sabotage.
    Thank you

    • @ltgemini1599
      @ltgemini1599 2 роки тому +3

      Maybe pick names and/or set a limit. Good luck.

  • @ritaevans7758
    @ritaevans7758 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for your videos and website. I need to forgive myself and start doing a budget Money Plan and stick to it. I’m a single woman so I need to figure the right budget and I have started a side hustle business because I don’t make enough. I also got to track my spending and set some financial goals. I want to retire in three to five years but working on doing it in three hopefully.

  • @tati0201
    @tati0201 2 роки тому +1

    OMG this spoke volumes to me the self sabotage. I completed real estate school back in July 2021 and have not scheduled my exam due to fear if failure. I'm on it 2022 is my year 🙂!!

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @patiencepaintsil3050
    @patiencepaintsil3050 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you. Happy New Year

  • @marlac7235
    @marlac7235 2 роки тому +1

    Loving ur videos

  • @FoodFavourites
    @FoodFavourites 2 роки тому +1

    I love your videos these are so motivating and so many great tips! I definately want to start implementing these this year ☺️ thanks again!❤️

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @sholabomidelano
    @sholabomidelano 2 роки тому +1

    You are a voice or reason, really grateful your alive. Loved this video, have watched many others but this one really resonated with me. I am going to be a lot more interactive. You have sound principles and the right attitude.

  • @glamnglobysherika8811
    @glamnglobysherika8811 2 роки тому +3

    Love it, great advice. I needed a reminder of all this

  • @lashandadaniels6283
    @lashandadaniels6283 2 роки тому

    Great video!!! I really needed this

  • @dinisibiya7493
    @dinisibiya7493 2 роки тому

    I thank GOD for your channel, every advice makes perfect sense,thank you ❤🇿🇦..what an informative channel. forgive and work your plan ..wow

  • @monalisawm
    @monalisawm Рік тому +1

    This is a blessing to me God bless...

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching and for being a part of the community.

  • @annettemiruka5993
    @annettemiruka5993 2 роки тому

    Love all the way from Kenya!! I am learning!! Thanks

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @jmsan3496
    @jmsan3496 2 роки тому

    You go, girl!

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you madam the topic come at the right time thank you for this looking foward to start over without fear and shame

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @tumainimwakisile4855
    @tumainimwakisile4855 2 роки тому

    Thanks for good topic

  • @chidinmaekwe3236
    @chidinmaekwe3236 2 роки тому

    This clever girl has really propped me up in the area of Self sabotage!!

  • @waleadebayo3846
    @waleadebayo3846 2 роки тому

    Thank you very much for this enlightenment. God bless you.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @TurpuiTozay_health
    @TurpuiTozay_health 2 роки тому +2

    Thank u ❤️ do u do personal advice?

  • @thirteenwolfies
    @thirteenwolfies 2 роки тому +1

    Happy new year, Bola! 🥳

  • @dawnscott6578
    @dawnscott6578 2 роки тому

    This is very good advice. I am understanding where I am now. I need to have emergency savings, want to invest in I bonds and increase my credit score. Thanks for the great advice. I will check out more of your videos and website.

  • @sheahdigital1189
    @sheahdigital1189 2 роки тому +1

    Ah-mazing..

  • @graceolawale2144
    @graceolawale2144 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing this Bola

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

      Thanks for the Comments. Much appreciated
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  • @jasintamumba3738
    @jasintamumba3738 2 роки тому +5

    Am looking for a side hustle so that can start earning money saving and invest

  • @daneadixon2331
    @daneadixon2331 2 роки тому +3

    👏

  • @reneapalmer6977
    @reneapalmer6977 2 роки тому +3

    Happy New Year and thanks for your information 😊

  • @mercydavid3877
    @mercydavid3877 2 роки тому +1

    I'm starting all over again

  • @nafeesadamier7592
    @nafeesadamier7592 2 роки тому +1

    👋

  • @TheMsMii
    @TheMsMii 2 роки тому +1

    I've got a part time job but its hard to stay motivated to work, after working my full time job. I'm hard on myself for my mistakes and not feeling competent with my finances.

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @emmanuelnartey4477
    @emmanuelnartey4477 2 роки тому

    Good Bola for newest videos

  • @peacekangye6205
    @peacekangye6205 2 роки тому

    Great content face your fear 😨

  • @amarabenson8450
    @amarabenson8450 2 роки тому

    Hi where would you suggest to start or keep an emergency fund?

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @TM-vw9vd
    @TM-vw9vd 2 роки тому +7

    Hi Bola, thank you for this video and happy new year for 2022. I have $10,000 in disposable income and would like to invest the funds long-term to benefit my 13 year old son. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks again and continue uplifting our community.

  • @jasonphung17
    @jasonphung17 2 роки тому

    What can I do if keep on overspend every month?

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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  • @user-qs7mn8so9v
    @user-qs7mn8so9v Місяць тому

    Start paying bills on time❤😎

  • @gameoflife8066
    @gameoflife8066 2 роки тому +1

    Starting a side income, naming it cfguganda.. i am serious, i am already networking.

  • @kyerastewart5698
    @kyerastewart5698 Рік тому +1

    Should you pay all your debt off before you start over?

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Рік тому +2

      You can start over and have a debt repayment plan in place.

  • @erzsebettoth3495
    @erzsebettoth3495 2 роки тому

    How can you start over on low in come at age 50?🤦‍♀️😒

    • @whatsappme--9735
      @whatsappme--9735 2 роки тому

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    • @chelbella6273
      @chelbella6273 2 роки тому +1

      Start with looking at your income versus your expenses. Write down everything you spent last month and everything that came into your account last month. Then see where you have spent the most unnecessarily and see if you can cut that down in future months. Then try writing a budget x