I seriously was confused and upset when a college boyfriend had the nerve to complain about me not doing his laundry with him.....like bro I don't hold no one's hand!!
If he had to resort to a letter, I'm pretty sure hes tried the talk before. And hiring a maid? Please, just clean up after yourself...not all of us have the luxury of being able to afford someone else to clean up after us.
Adrienne is grossed out that the lady doesn't flush. But she has admitted that she doesn't always wash her hands after using the restroom? 🤔 That's gross too 😖
It's 2020. Let's leave this behind because y'all exaggerated as always. She says sometimes in the middle of the night when she goes to the bathroom she forgets to wash her hands because she's to tired. I'm sure we've all done that. At 3am it happens.
Mel 21 umm no one exaggerated. She literally said she just don’t wash her hands, and then cause they backlash she went and tried to explain it away and not seem as bad by saying the 3am thing. Ain’t no one exaggerating they literally just stating exactly what she said so calm down
I LOVE watching these episodes at work, but the story of Tamera thinking she was getting proposed to? Had me dying😂😂the strength it took to not laugh?! that poor soul. I'm glad everything worked out for her though.
Agree and I think the girl doing some things are nasty. The toilet may not be flushed I it's late af and he sleeping right there that's rude at to wake someone up she probably peed and washed her hands after. Towels on the floor because no one gana Keep buying a rug period.
I feel like Loni’s explanation would mean that everyone is funny, but they’re not. Some people just find it harder to be happy, not because they’re ungrateful, but because they have so much trouble living in the moment. And this does not include those who are clinically depressed or too anxious, those are separate issues.
Had a date with my boyfriend now fiancé at a nice restaurant and God I thought he was gonna propose that day... it’s all the questions he was asking on our way... it’s like he was a little nervous ..? I was SO disappointed when the night passed by and he never got on one knee 🤣🤣🤣
I had many a roommate who wouldn't remove their hair from the drain after showering... After months of dealing with it when i confronted them they would always be shocked like it was a foreign concept... Some people just live differently i guess lol
It's a MUST to remove that extra hair! Also, a woman's background might speak to this. Maybe she never had to clean up after herself, had maids, etc. A plumber is expensive. Draino can be as well.
@@bosslady1973 I think they never had to share a bathroom with someone so it didn't matter if their hair was there or not. Two of the girls were Chinese and from generation of the single child rule. But one was like white and I know she grew up in a tougher environment and low key raised her younger sibling. I'm not a confrontational person so first few times I sucked it up and removed their hair for them... which no lie was disgusting... I told my friends and they told me to confront the people. Some were understanding and like okay while others I had to keep reminding and every time they gave me the "You're crazy look" lol
I had a roommate in college that would do the same!! 😷 It was so disgusting and I did confront her about it. But nothing came about it so I decided to get out of there and get a different roommate lol
Is it just me but Adrienne has a habit of jumping into a conversation way too often to be heard without really processing what's being discussed and just saying anything even when it all doesn't make sense 🤷🏽♀️
Gm edagdwg glad I'm not the only one paying attention to what Miss A. Is doing most of the time no respect and never real and she thinks she's saying something important sad Linda j. Peace
Just have to point out there, I love the complicity friendship between Loni and Tamera at 7:14... for me that's a good example of love, trust and friendship. Love you all girl #keepingitreal
i just could not deal with someone so nasty, i'm very protective of my space and most men are not taught to do basic thing IF YOU'RE A MOM OF A BOY PLS DONT LET HIM GO FROM HOME BEFORE BEING A CLEAN HUMAN THANKS
Y'all be reaching Loni & Tamara. We DO NOT know he hasn't talked to her. I guarantee you he didn't hold it in EVERY day, without ever saying a word, and one day decided to tape a book about it on the mirror. He PROBABLY got sick & tired of ASKING her to change those habits. They say, people tend to LISTEN BETTER when they READ it instead of being told it. On another note, she's disgusting. The "dirty bathroom" issues are a sign of MUCH deeper rooted issues.
Nikki B He also said at the beginning of the letter that she mentioned how she was going to change her bathroom habits in the new year because she knew that he was irritated by it. After a year of her not changing is when he wrote the letter. They definitely didn’t actually read the letter, and they’re definitely reaching.
@@along58 ohhhhh, see!!! Now, all them hosts should have been aware of that part!! That changes how they may have reacted to it! Thank you for letting me know. I mean, I was not born YESTERDAY! Clearly this has been an ongoing issue. I cannot imagine. I am so OCD I could NEVER girl!!
She's straight up nasty and disgusting! I cannot believe they are blaming the man smh she is a wife therefore an adult since in US children don't marry! And she doesnt know to flush after using the toilet?
Well said Jeannie the easiest way to live a happy life everyday of your life is learning to be grateful for everything around you from the least to the biggest,you will be truly happy no matter what's going on in your life.
Jay's world she posted on her IG saying just to tune in Jan 6th... because people keep asking if it’s true... all of our important questions will be answered cuz there’s actually been several rumors spread about the show ever since they stopped filming to go on Mid Season Holiday Hiatus... luckily most of its positive but this one rumor about Loni being replaced by Amanda ( which somehow magically ended up on SOME blogs two days later ) is the one that people are dwelling on st the moment
BTaylor TV they would only talk bout it on the older episodes cause they wanted to know her MUA was continually doing her wrong and she deserved better. She’s obviously gotten better and now looks more stunning and amazing and now the comments are positive so idk why you barely mention it as if people are still constantly talking negatively bout her makeup. This is obviously an old episode why don’t some of y’all get that. And I’m sure you have eyes to see that her makeup used to be a mess with too light undereye and not so great eyeshadow etc. but now in the more recent episodes she looks bomb. And it had nothing to do with her being black. I’m the first person to defend against racism even have gotten told to not pull the “race card” which is not even something that exists, and I not only stand up for racism against my fellow Latinos but also against everyone else especially black people cause I know y’all get a lot of bs and racism thrown yalls way for no reason at all and that sucks I hate racism I literally get so fired up about it, but trust me this specific issue has nothing to do with her being black I promise you. Maybe on occasion a racist came and dragged her for being a black woman while also dragging her makeup, but the majority who pointed out her makeup weren’t doing it cause she was a black woman, they were genuinely doing it cause her makeup used to not be so great
You couldnt help but notice someone was doing her makeup very wrong and it made her look funny. I saw some comments and agreed. Because when Loni is beautiful and bad makeup will make any woman look unflattering.
Also if you have fibroids know your iron levels and blood count. My old doctor let me get down to 4 pints of blood and my primary and I kept telling her something was us. I got a new doctor and she read my blood work and after iron IVs and shots I got a hysterectomy. To say all that when my new doctor read my blood work she was like your next period could of given you a heart attack.
Lop Dert thank you and yes it was. By the grace of GOD I’m glad I’m okay too. Hearing the initial was scary. But being told to go and have my hemoglobin check because something could be happen and I not know was even scarier. To know that all this states out being Carrie for by a black female doctor who had the same situation and brush it off. Knowing that Black and Latino women have a higher rate of this happening was heartbreaking.
I have fibroids and tbh I was told that I can't give blood or anything and my white blood cell count is to high. I'm a nurse and I ignored it until it started to bother my health and I'm only 20 so a lot of people including doctors are concerned.
I think the key to happiness is not giving up. Like if some people didn’t like you that doesn’t stop you from going to another place to make friends. Sometimes happiness can’t be achieved because of the environment. So I think it’s ok to be sad or mad a little. But learn to control it and not overdo it. Also it’s ok not to be happy when your done crying. It’s ok to feel neutral. Because I struggle from depression. And sometimes I feel like crying. But then I don’t want to feel happy either after I feel like I’m done crying because I don’t feel like my situation is something to be happy about. But I know if I continue to cry and get mad I’ll just wasting time and energy. So then I try to become neutral. It’s ok to be neutral when you don’t want to be happy. But by not giving up I do hope for happiness in the future.
damn imagine telling a guy you thought he was gonna propose after 4 years and he still doesn’t after a year and even then y’all still break up? 5-6 years is a little too long. Made me see Adam a little differently. Glad they’re happy now though
this whole I'm in my shape for myself is bs, if I wanted to lose weight for my wedding it's for the photos that I will take for myself and will show my grandsons on the most important day of my life lol
I hope loni isn’t leaving because she is essential to the show. She also gives a unique point of view as an older, plus-size, darker black woman. I like the bond between the 4 women, they give off a real positive family vibe. I think Amanda coming in will ruin the vibe between the ladies. No shade to Amanda. I think she’s amazing but not for the show. Edit: i think when Amanda was on the show it was awkward. She talked a lot over others. But idk
If this situation was the other way around and she wrote him that note; they would all be cheering her on. This would've been a whole other conversation. FACT
I’m not sure about anybody else... but homeboy is BUGGING ! I understand his frustration with his wife... but umm there’s no need to make a list of “ rules “ for your wife to follow... having a simple conversation about how it upsets you and how u want to make sure that the bathroom stays clean could’ve been the best option to use
I just finished reading the letter. I pause and zoomed in, and it definitely has been mentioned that they've spoken about this many times in their 8 year long relationship. The letter seemed kinda quirky/funny, not overtly rude and toxic as this conversation is suggesting. it just seems like a man who is very tidy and at his wits end with a somewhat spoiled wife😂
Hey @therealdaytime. Please talk about the infradian rhythm. Have Alissa Vitti as a guest. The talk about cardiovascular disease made me think of her and the information she has could help lots of women
This is why I probably couldn't exist in a relationship. I just don't have the patience to tolerate adults who cannot clean up after themselves. Furthermore, immature enough to blast their significant other.
I completely understand the man- how hard is it to pick up after yourself. He clearly does the majority of the cleaning and then she just comes in and ruins it. And how out of touch to say just hire a maid?
I think there’s something we’re not addressing because one that man met you at a certain weight and decided to stay with you when u were at the weight... if u think losing weight is gonna guarantee a proposal... idk it just feels weird to me ! Ladies love yourself just as much as that man loves you... if he isn’t complaining you shouldn’t either... should he push you to be the best you that you can be... yes but he’s not expecting u to lose weight for him !
See I know I can be messy but I ain't nasty 😝 lol I tried to read the letter up close, it also said her promising that she's gonna try to change haha. Also it said that they've together for 8 years. I doubt if she will ever change her nasty habits 😂
I share the bathroom w. my sister and her boyfriend + anyone who comes to the apartment.. I have been communicating w the parental on me cleaning Saturdays and she and him could take Tuesdays so the bathroom could be spotless! :) NOPE. It’s been 3+ months and I haven’t seen either ONE clean nor pick up their hair... )-: I love to see a clean and fresh bathroom so I stick to my days but I am sad.. why do parentals and siblings get upset when you tell them/remind them of something... lel
You don't know how many times he has talked to he about it. So, yes, it seems passive-aggressive, but maybe nothing else has worked. He shouldn't have to flush the toilet after her or tell her to flush it. He is not her father or maid and shouldn't have to constantly pick up after her or flush the toilet after her. Although, I have trouble believing that he didn't know about this before they got married, and if it bothers him that much he shouldn't have married her... it should have been a deal breaker. Unless, they married young and have been married for many years before the issue showed up and if she has depression and it is undiagnosed or has gotten worse. Maybe, he could suggest they could go to counselling. They both need help.
I get looking good for a special occasion. I’m about to fly myself and first for the time. And I wish I was lighter for a pic to mark the occasion. But just because I’m not my ideal weight I’m not gonna let that stop me from taking a pic.
Honestly... I judge women more harshly than men if they have dirty bathroom habits. I notice it A LOT at work, and I'm always confused at how you reach 20/30/40/50 etc and not know how to clean up after yourself.
It's not about being single or compatible you have to be considerate of others in a relationship or not. This is just rude what she's doing so unfortunately he's being nasty back.
Tsmera treat your husband as ur son and respect, not always complaints than no man leave. Is good to stay stronger relationship once than a lot of men. Try to respecy people privacy none of your businesses.
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Jeannie always has inspirational & reflective moments such as what she shared about her friend passing
College taught me that not everyone was raised the same. You wouldn’t believe how many people struggle with cleaning and hygiene
Yeah. Sometimes, even public restroom teaches me a lot.
Exactly
I seriously was confused and upset when a college boyfriend had the nerve to complain about me not doing his laundry with him.....like bro I don't hold no one's hand!!
No one:
Loni: and that’s why I’m single!!!
😂
Agree with her
Yo Jeanie is a gem she needs to be protected at all costs!!
I love Tameras honesty. It’s awesome, beautiful and real. A great example for so many!
Every episode: Loni "thats why im not married
Tamera: Adam and I...
J: heres the thing
A: outraged as a New Yorker
😝😝😝😝😝😝
If he had to resort to a letter, I'm pretty sure hes tried the talk before. And hiring a maid? Please, just clean up after yourself...not all of us have the luxury of being able to afford someone else to clean up after us.
right and he don't need to hire a maid to flush the damn toilet lol
@@noflex7403 i cane to say exactly this! Like wtf?? 1st world problems... like seriously, flush your damn toilet.
Thats nasty, period.
Im 100% sure he spoke to her before writing the note... Come on, common sense ppl.
u know there's this quote: "Common sense is like deodorant, the people who need it most never use it." It's funny because its true. Lol
Jeannie really needs to write a book
She's too loud for tv
On what?
Tamara is very brave, I could never tell him why I was crying. I would just tell him I miss my grandma
😂😂😂😂
Adrienne is grossed out that the lady doesn't flush. But she has admitted that she doesn't always wash her hands after using the restroom? 🤔 That's gross too 😖
It's 2020. Let's leave this behind because y'all exaggerated as always. She says sometimes in the middle of the night when she goes to the bathroom she forgets to wash her hands because she's to tired. I'm sure we've all done that. At 3am it happens.
@@Mel__21 its still as gross as not flushing, if not more. You wipe and have bacteria on your hands, hands should always be washed.
@@KarSol21 that's why u make sure to wash your hands in the morning once you wake up. There u go problem solved.
Mel 21 mo cuz you’re like touching your face in your sleep and stuff.
Mel 21 umm no one exaggerated. She literally said she just don’t wash her hands, and then cause they backlash she went and tried to explain it away and not seem as bad by saying the 3am thing. Ain’t no one exaggerating they literally just stating exactly what she said so calm down
I LOVE watching these episodes at work, but the story of Tamera thinking she was getting proposed to? Had me dying😂😂the strength it took to not laugh?! that poor soul. I'm glad everything worked out for her though.
if you read the beginning of the letter, it stated that she "promised to change her bathroom habits" and that she broke HER promise to him.
brunom72 I must be blind how do you read that
I’m with Tamara, stop doing things for validation from others. Do it for yourself!
I love how Loni and Tamera joked and ended it with I love you...
The way Adrienne called her out for being nasty 😂😂😂😂 I died
They’re tripping. That woman is trifling. I agree with Adrian!
That not how you spell Adrienne's name. A-d-r-i-e-n-n-e
What chew know bout trifling 😉🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
Adrienne 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 well you'll be in shape for the next guy! I can't breathe 😂🤣
I thought the letter was hilarious and wasn’t toxic at all. The tone of the letter was sarcastic
Agree and I think the girl doing some things are nasty. The toilet may not be flushed I it's late af and he sleeping right there that's rude at to wake someone up she probably peed and washed her hands after. Towels on the floor because no one gana Keep buying a rug period.
To write a letter like that to someone who is supposed to be your equal, not your child, is passive aggressive.
Elle Plow Plow you have to actually read the letter. The contents of the letter were clearly a joke.
I feel like Loni’s explanation would mean that everyone is funny, but they’re not. Some people just find it harder to be happy, not because they’re ungrateful, but because they have so much trouble living in the moment. And this does not include those who are clinically depressed or too anxious, those are separate issues.
I'm with Tamera and Jeannie on this one.Just happy to be alive.It could be worst so I'm grateful
Had a date with my boyfriend now fiancé at a nice restaurant and God I thought he was gonna propose that day... it’s all the questions he was asking on our way... it’s like he was a little nervous ..? I was SO disappointed when the night passed by and he never got on one knee 🤣🤣🤣
This is why we have 2 bathrooms in my house. I deal with my mess and my hubby deals with his...one less problem for us to deal with.
I had many a roommate who wouldn't remove their hair from the drain after showering... After months of dealing with it when i confronted them they would always be shocked like it was a foreign concept... Some people just live differently i guess lol
lipsohlips97 That's disgusting.
@@animebabe539 Yes, it was very disgusting to live with, but even more frustrating when they made me feel like the crazy one LOL
It's a MUST to remove that extra hair! Also, a woman's background might speak to this. Maybe she never had to clean up after herself, had maids, etc. A plumber is expensive. Draino can be as well.
@@bosslady1973 I think they never had to share a bathroom with someone so it didn't matter if their hair was there or not. Two of the girls were Chinese and from generation of the single child rule. But one was like white and I know she grew up in a tougher environment and low key raised her younger sibling. I'm not a confrontational person so first few times I sucked it up and removed their hair for them... which no lie was disgusting... I told my friends and they told me to confront the people. Some were understanding and like okay while others I had to keep reminding and every time they gave me the "You're crazy look" lol
I had a roommate in college that would do the same!! 😷 It was so disgusting and I did confront her about it. But nothing came about it so I decided to get out of there and get a different roommate lol
If I was an audience member I would be wishing I could get a cocktail too
Is it just me but Adrienne has a habit of jumping into a conversation way too often to be heard without really processing what's being discussed and just saying anything even when it all doesn't make sense 🤷🏽♀️
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Gm edagdwg glad I'm not the only one paying attention to what Miss A. Is doing most of the time no respect and never real and she thinks she's saying something important sad Linda j. Peace
Just have to point out there, I love the complicity friendship between Loni and Tamera at 7:14... for me that's a good example of love, trust and friendship. Love you all girl #keepingitreal
😂😂😂 *Love their connection, especially when Tam and Loni pick on each other*
i just could not deal with someone so nasty, i'm very protective of my space and most men are not taught to do basic thing IF YOU'RE A MOM OF A BOY PLS DONT LET HIM GO FROM HOME BEFORE BEING A CLEAN HUMAN THANKS
adrienne is missing loni's point ! maybe he knew she is nasty but married her for other attributes she has !
Y'all be reaching Loni & Tamara. We DO NOT know he hasn't talked to her. I guarantee you he didn't hold it in EVERY day, without ever saying a word, and one day decided to tape a book about it on the mirror. He PROBABLY got sick & tired of ASKING her to change those habits. They say, people tend to LISTEN BETTER when they READ it instead of being told it. On another note, she's disgusting. The "dirty bathroom" issues are a sign of MUCH deeper rooted issues.
Nikki B He also said at the beginning of the letter that she mentioned how she was going to change her bathroom habits in the new year because she knew that he was irritated by it. After a year of her not changing is when he wrote the letter. They definitely didn’t actually read the letter, and they’re definitely reaching.
@@along58 ohhhhh, see!!! Now, all them hosts should have been aware of that part!! That changes how they may have reacted to it! Thank you for letting me know. I mean, I was not born YESTERDAY! Clearly this has been an ongoing issue. I cannot imagine. I am so OCD I could NEVER girl!!
She's straight up nasty and disgusting! I cannot believe they are blaming the man smh she is a wife therefore an adult since in US children don't marry!
And she doesnt know to flush after using the toilet?
Watching old The Real videos during quarantine to feel like I'm hanging with my friends! :P
Well said Jeannie the easiest way to live a happy life everyday of your life is learning to be grateful for everything around you from the least to the biggest,you will be truly happy no matter what's going on in your life.
Chileee i hope these rumors about loni leaving isn't true cause she cannot be replaced 😭
Jay's world yeah, she keeps the ladies grounded and I need uncle James to make another appearance on the show :(
This is a long time ago though. She has become really shady lately and just doesn't care.
Jay's world she posted on her IG saying just to tune in Jan 6th... because people keep asking if it’s true... all of our important questions will be answered cuz there’s actually been several rumors spread about the show ever since they stopped filming to go on Mid Season Holiday Hiatus... luckily most of its positive but this one rumor about Loni being replaced by Amanda ( which somehow magically ended up on SOME blogs two days later ) is the one that people are dwelling on st the moment
Myronn Coleman wow I didn’t even know about Loni’s (unconfirmed) removal, I thought Amanda was going to be the 5th host, not a replacement
That letter was so passive aggressive. Gotta learn to communicate directly
10 hours of crying!?! Wow
Loni looks great and hair is so cute 🥰
Loni’s makeup artist needs to be fired today!!!!!!
This is an old clip; I believe she changed the makeup artist a really long time ago. That or the MUA improved quite a lot over the seasons...
FACTS!
You are a bully!!!
Sarah Issa I said the same thing girl, I said the same thing
Hayley Davis I mean why?
I'm working out for my Wedding.. i was not thinking about the proposal...lol buuuut I will use my proposal pic as a before and after..LOL!
Y’all always talking about Loni’s makeup, especially black women. Like, y’all always trying to find something wrong. Smh
BTaylor TV they would only talk bout it on the older episodes cause they wanted to know her MUA was continually doing her wrong and she deserved better. She’s obviously gotten better and now looks more stunning and amazing and now the comments are positive so idk why you barely mention it as if people are still constantly talking negatively bout her makeup. This is obviously an old episode why don’t some of y’all get that. And I’m sure you have eyes to see that her makeup used to be a mess with too light undereye and not so great eyeshadow etc. but now in the more recent episodes she looks bomb. And it had nothing to do with her being black. I’m the first person to defend against racism even have gotten told to not pull the “race card” which is not even something that exists, and I not only stand up for racism against my fellow Latinos but also against everyone else especially black people cause I know y’all get a lot of bs and racism thrown yalls way for no reason at all and that sucks I hate racism I literally get so fired up about it, but trust me this specific issue has nothing to do with her being black I promise you. Maybe on occasion a racist came and dragged her for being a black woman while also dragging her makeup, but the majority who pointed out her makeup weren’t doing it cause she was a black woman, they were genuinely doing it cause her makeup used to not be so great
You couldnt help but notice someone was doing her makeup very wrong and it made her look funny. I saw some comments and agreed. Because when Loni is beautiful and bad makeup will make any woman look unflattering.
Yales course, The Science of Well being is amazing...and FREE if you don't want the certificate... Love it!
Loni's makeup is worrying me, who's her makeup artist?
Yes yes I’m gonna need these girl chat vault videos to be thrown at us if I’m gonna survive the holiday break
Also if you have fibroids know your iron levels and blood count. My old doctor let me get down to 4 pints of blood and my primary and I kept telling her something was us. I got a new doctor and she read my blood work and after iron IVs and shots I got a hysterectomy. To say all that when my new doctor read my blood work she was like your next period could of given you a heart attack.
You said something I never knew
Dang sis that's scary, glad you're ok!
Lop Dert thank you and yes it was. By the grace of GOD I’m glad I’m okay too. Hearing the initial was scary. But being told to go and have my hemoglobin check because something could be happen and I not know was even scarier. To know that all this states out being Carrie for by a black female doctor who had the same situation and brush it off. Knowing that Black and Latino women have a higher rate of this happening was heartbreaking.
I have fibroids and tbh I was told that I can't give blood or anything and my white blood cell count is to high. I'm a nurse and I ignored it until it started to bother my health and I'm only 20 so a lot of people including doctors are concerned.
Christen Gardner please take care of yourself and make sure you have a team of good doctors.
Y'all look gorgeous!!!
P.S.: Don't leave Loni!!
I think the key to happiness is not giving up. Like if some people didn’t like you that doesn’t stop you from going to another place to make friends. Sometimes happiness can’t be achieved because of the environment. So I think it’s ok to be sad or mad a little. But learn to control it and not overdo it. Also it’s ok not to be happy when your done crying. It’s ok to feel neutral. Because I struggle from depression. And sometimes I feel like crying. But then I don’t want to feel happy either after I feel like I’m done crying because I don’t feel like my situation is something to be happy about. But I know if I continue to cry and get mad I’ll just wasting time and energy. So then I try to become neutral. It’s ok to be neutral when you don’t want to be happy. But by not giving up I do hope for happiness in the future.
I’m Irish and yes Ireland is beautiful the weather kinda sucks buts is such a pretty country 🇮🇪💚💚💚
Mhmm🤔a lol strawberry puree twist up that kiwi😂😂😂😁 #strawberrykiwiyes!
damn imagine telling a guy you thought he was gonna propose after 4 years and he still doesn’t after a year and even then y’all still break up? 5-6 years is a little too long. Made me see Adam a little differently. Glad they’re happy now though
ikr he was weird for that
I think she said they broke up for a year then they got back together after. A grown ass man went 6 years without sex? 🤨🤨🤔🤔
KU4EVER100 Tamera didn’t wait until marriage for sex though
4 years is too damn long one year,two years tops life is too short to be wasting years for people that don’t value you
Cristinita really??
I cant wait to see you guys in 2020
Adrienne is just talking about not flushing the toilet. Lol.
this whole I'm in my shape for myself is bs, if I wanted to lose weight for my wedding it's for the photos that I will take for myself and will show my grandsons on the most important day of my life lol
Who did loni’s makeup ? I have questions 🤦🏽♀️
Bully...how do you think these comments make Loni feel???
So we gone act like the DIDNT finish lonies makeup
Omg, I truly don't see anything wrong with Loni's makeup... i love her whole look
Tam your story is so cuteeeee
HOLLUPPPP! Tam was with Adam SIX YEARS before marriage? What you doin for 6 years?!
I agree with Adrienne
I hope loni isn’t leaving because she is essential to the show. She also gives a unique point of view as an older, plus-size, darker black woman. I like the bond between the 4 women, they give off a real positive family vibe. I think Amanda coming in will ruin the vibe between the ladies. No shade to Amanda. I think she’s amazing but not for the show.
Edit: i think when Amanda was on the show it was awkward. She talked a lot over others. But idk
Replace her with another Plus Size Dark Skin Black Woman. || She's a hater; but I get it: Big and Lesser Attractive isn't easy.
Zainab Diouf I said the same thing. I have a feeling the vibe isn’t going to be the same.
@@ryanLeKing She s a hater? She is on national tv saying hat s feels - fair but you on the other hand are hating for free from the couch in anonymity.
Colleen Jones. I’m weak 😂
Tobias Orion | rFitz Another Dark skin female would be great like Remy ma, Amara, naturi but that might be awkward. There are so many different kinds.
I can’t give up eating Krispy Kreme donuts not even for my heart. 😁😌
If this situation was the other way around and she wrote him that note; they would all be cheering her on. This would've been a whole other conversation. FACT
She is nasty! The man shouldnt have to tell you to flush my God
they’re all so good looking😭
Imagine what a woman like that would be when she is in a committed relationship?
I’m not sure about anybody else... but homeboy is BUGGING ! I understand his frustration with his wife... but umm there’s no need to make a list of “ rules “ for your wife to follow... having a simple conversation about how it upsets you and how u want to make sure that the bathroom stays clean could’ve been the best option to use
I just finished reading the letter. I pause and zoomed in, and it definitely has been mentioned that they've spoken about this many times in their 8 year long relationship. The letter seemed kinda quirky/funny, not overtly rude and toxic as this conversation is suggesting. it just seems like a man who is very tidy and at his wits end with a somewhat spoiled wife😂
Hey @therealdaytime. Please talk about the infradian rhythm. Have Alissa Vitti as a guest. The talk about cardiovascular disease made me think of her and the information she has could help lots of women
Happiness is a choice 💕
Its also nasty to use the bathroom and not wash your hands !!!
I'm sorry but Loni's makeup isn't looking good to me. Did they forget to brush away her backing powder under her eyes?
LOL ik this was an old video... they have improved since lol
Lol that’s what I said
That and her lashes on her left eye
And that happens a lot. It has an ash overtone
Bully!!
This is why I probably couldn't exist in a relationship. I just don't have the patience to tolerate adults who cannot clean up after themselves. Furthermore, immature enough to blast their significant other.
I completely understand the man- how hard is it to pick up after yourself. He clearly does the majority of the cleaning and then she just comes in and ruins it. And how out of touch to say just hire a maid?
complements of the season to the ladies of the real... for real who's always doing this to Loni's? her makeup! hum
Jeanie really be calling me out from minute 8:53-9:04
towels on the floor is one thing, but not flushing EUW
Tamera "heee didn't"????? Lol
I think there’s something we’re not addressing because one that man met you at a certain weight and decided to stay with you when u were at the weight... if u think losing weight is gonna guarantee a proposal... idk it just feels weird to me ! Ladies love yourself just as much as that man loves you... if he isn’t complaining you shouldn’t either... should he push you to be the best you that you can be... yes but he’s not expecting u to lose weight for him !
I don’t want to judge but, a dirty bathroom is sooooo gross to me. I can’t stand it😖
Tam what if he did do it face to face and the letter was the last straw
I feel tension btwn Tamara and Loni!
See I know I can be messy but I ain't nasty 😝 lol I tried to read the letter up close, it also said her promising that she's gonna try to change haha. Also it said that they've together for 8 years. I doubt if she will ever change her nasty habits 😂
We heard tameras story before
They seem to do that a lot. Repeating stories
It's a rerun y'all chill
Don't watch if it bothers you.....bully
Adrienne, I need your top. So pretty
I share the bathroom w. my sister and her boyfriend + anyone who comes to the apartment.. I have been communicating w the parental on me cleaning Saturdays and she and him could take Tuesdays so the bathroom could be spotless! :)
NOPE.
It’s been 3+ months and I haven’t seen either ONE clean nor pick up their hair... )-:
I love to see a clean and fresh bathroom so I stick to my days but I am sad.. why do parentals and siblings get upset when you tell them/remind them of something... lel
You don't know how many times he has talked to he about it. So, yes, it seems passive-aggressive, but maybe nothing else has worked. He shouldn't have to flush the toilet after her or tell her to flush it. He is not her father or maid and shouldn't have to constantly pick up after her or flush the toilet after her. Although, I have trouble believing that he didn't know about this before they got married, and if it bothers him that much he shouldn't have married her... it should have been a deal breaker. Unless, they married young and have been married for many years before the issue showed up and if she has depression and it is undiagnosed or has gotten worse. Maybe, he could suggest they could go to counselling. They both need help.
Damn Tam lol all this to finally get a ring
Loveeee
I get looking good for a special occasion. I’m about to fly myself and first for the time. And I wish I was lighter for a pic to mark the occasion. But just because I’m not my ideal weight I’m not gonna let that stop me from taking a pic.
Lord be with whoever did Loni’s make up😢
Tam would be me crying on the plane home from Ireland without a ring... I'm a Cancer so that how I operate
You should be working out all the time not just for a damn certain time
Honestly... I judge women more harshly than men if they have dirty bathroom habits. I notice it A LOT at work, and I'm always confused at how you reach 20/30/40/50 etc and not know how to clean up after yourself.
Preach!
Some people out in public don't care about restroom etiquette...but go to their home it's a different story...ijs
Everyone talking bout Loni makeup? Someone please inform me what’s wrong with it? Causeeee .. I don’t see it
Lonnie 's makeup is hectic
Stop talking about loni's makeup
You don't control the UA-cam. Mind your own.
@@theeladystacyaustin5005 you control no one but yourself so move around.
It's not about being single or compatible you have to be considerate of others in a relationship or not. This is just rude what she's doing so unfortunately he's being nasty back.
Tamara which part of Ireland did you go to😑
Ireland is not all that.. 🇮🇪🍀😂🤣
lonnie👏👏👏
Tsmera treat your husband as ur son and respect, not always complaints than no man leave. Is good to stay stronger relationship once than a lot of men. Try to respecy people privacy none of your businesses.
I thought Loni was with what's his name? Isn't she in a relationship
ADRIENNE WAOUH !!!
Why the heck dont they play these in order
1:28 am I hearing things or did some of the audience booed her??