GIRL CHAT VAULT: How To Give Advice to Love Ones who Won’t Take It

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @kirkxavier777
    @kirkxavier777 4 роки тому +172

    Great point that Jeannie made. I’ve struggled with drug use and my family pushed me to get help but I still ended up in the same positions until I decided MYSELF that I wanted a different life. Sometimes you have to fall hard in order to look at things in an objective perspective.

    • @licks3962
      @licks3962 4 роки тому +4

      I Pray for your recovery and just Now god loves you and every1 else who is struggling w drug abuse.you will see the light at the end of the tunel.keep trying you get there your love ones don't love you less.they Just care for you that's why they keep praying for you!!🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @chelsea5595
      @chelsea5595 3 роки тому

      That’s awesome. I have a family member dealing with addiction. I can’t just act like it’s fine, so my only options are to keep trying to get them to get help and have them get angry at me and feel like I am pushing them, or just ignore them and have them mad at me for that. Do you have an opinion on which is better?

  • @Zumzizeroo17
    @Zumzizeroo17 4 роки тому +110

    I agree with Adrienne. Unless it’s a choice that I feel I need to intervene because someone’s safety is in jeopardy, I’ll let them see the decisions they are making are not good ones.

  • @mor9820
    @mor9820 4 роки тому +30

    that was sooo cute when adrienne whispered and then loni told Jeannie and they were giggling

  • @longlivekingjames806
    @longlivekingjames806 4 роки тому +181

    So sad tam is leaving the show but SISTER SISTER WILL BE ON NETFLIX SEPTEMBER 1ST 😊

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 4 роки тому +19

      I want the real to be on netflix so Ican watch full episodes

    • @indigobeauty1
      @indigobeauty1 4 роки тому +5

      Omg!! Im so happy!

    • @lovebuglenise904
      @lovebuglenise904 4 роки тому +4

      Heyyyy I didn’t know

    • @malumbesyatwinda8094
      @malumbesyatwinda8094 4 роки тому +4

      I’m so made at UK Netflix 😭😭😭. We won’t be getting any of the great old school shows

    • @Kimbrly_xo
      @Kimbrly_xo 4 роки тому +1

      Malumbe Syatwinda ikr😢

  • @itsjacquelynambeau
    @itsjacquelynambeau 4 роки тому +135

    They are all looking so good on here!

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 4 роки тому +1

      I admire the goodyear blimp as well

    • @SoshiStars
      @SoshiStars 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah this was the season where they were styled the best

  • @crem2121
    @crem2121 4 роки тому +16

    I live for the girl chats! So much more relaxed and they seem more relatable and it really feels like girlfriends all chatting in the room together lol

  • @veronicalopez6187
    @veronicalopez6187 4 роки тому +38

    I agree with Loni ! Even if it’s going to hurt my feelings or if I’m wrong TELL ME. If you love me help me grow.

    • @mube8885
      @mube8885 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +59

    It feels so good to not have Instagram, Twitter, etc. UA-cam is all I use.

    • @MaleahsDiary
      @MaleahsDiary 3 роки тому +4

      Same here

    • @wonderwoman1199
      @wonderwoman1199 3 роки тому +1

      Yup true

    • @nyahjohnson7126
      @nyahjohnson7126 3 роки тому +2

      Same but I was UA-cam so much now that it takes up the same time as all the other applications I had.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 роки тому

      @@nyahjohnson7126 I understand what you mean.

  • @kamissadiarra5074
    @kamissadiarra5074 4 роки тому +77

    I'm gonna miss tamera :(

  • @jennifercamille16
    @jennifercamille16 4 роки тому +42

    Aww, loved this conversation! I'm gonna miss Tam on here SO much!

  • @jennamartin5913
    @jennamartin5913 4 роки тому +25

    I agree with Adrienne.... if I don’t actually ask, don’t give me advice. Go talk to the wall if you must talk.

  • @angellll357
    @angellll357 4 роки тому +22

    Tamera talking about how her kids won't leave her alone when she goes to the bathroom 😂😂❤️. Ugh I'm gonna miss her sm 😣😭

    • @richardvargus7443
      @richardvargus7443 4 роки тому

      Yea like she ever spends time with her kids anyway. Those strong independent women raising weak fatherless children. Go society!

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +2

      Richard Vargus You just wrote endless bitter comments on the channel. Find something better to do.

    • @angellll357
      @angellll357 4 роки тому

      @@richardvargus7443 how would you know she barely spends time with her kids. She actually even mentions that she does spend every moment she can with them so take your hate elsewhere

    • @Justbu45
      @Justbu45 4 роки тому

      She better enjoy it. They grow up quickly.

  • @gabrielaferraz7401
    @gabrielaferraz7401 4 роки тому +6

    I love your words Jeannie. I wish you would tell us the books you’re reading! That was so true

  • @thisiskayleemarie9042
    @thisiskayleemarie9042 4 роки тому +31

    Can we get a video on the topic of toxic parents even when their children are adults.

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr 4 роки тому +23

    I found out an ex was cheating via going in the bathroom texting.

  • @tamerilee
    @tamerilee 4 роки тому +6

    Obsessed with this cinnamon lewk from Jeannie!!! That lip and hair combo 🤤

  • @rorosung1026
    @rorosung1026 4 роки тому +2

    Giving advice or solutions doesn't do much for a person until they feel like they're willing to change, and sometimes you don't have to try to fix it but just a good listener

  • @bakangmlangeni
    @bakangmlangeni 4 роки тому +6

    Jeanie looks beautiful and Tamera looks like a bridesmaid 😍

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 4 роки тому +16

    It's only best to give advice to loved ones when *THEY ASK YOU FOR ADVICE* think about it this way. You wouldn't take advice from someone when you never asked. Especially in the areas of dating and relationships and life in general. Especially if you think the ones giving you advice ain't doing better than you...True or correct?

  • @ericamlca
    @ericamlca 4 роки тому +9

    Lonis Winnie the Pooh laughs are so funny 😭

  • @xlilchowchowx
    @xlilchowchowx 4 роки тому +4

    lol adrienne at 8:45 YESSSS

  • @elisabetholiveira1772
    @elisabetholiveira1772 2 роки тому +1

    I love you Lonnie Love y'all looks and expressions on your face are priceless you always have me in stitches

  • @ManiB_4
    @ManiB_4 4 роки тому +9

    You guys are so amazing and hilarious

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +3

    I hated it so much when people would insist on posting photos with me that I didn’t like. If someone doesn’t like a photo, don’t post it. It’s that simple.

  • @MJ-vb7un
    @MJ-vb7un 4 роки тому +60

    Adrienne wants to come off as if she’s always minding her business but actually these girls chats have shown she’s the most judgmental and nosy. She spent this entire segment judging everything..

    • @ramonaflowers7613
      @ramonaflowers7613 4 роки тому +12

      I agree that A seems more nosey than a lot of the other girls but i never got the impression that she seems imposing or controlling like I used to get from Tamar

    • @MJ-vb7un
      @MJ-vb7un 4 роки тому +5

      Ramona Real no me too.. but whatever type of ‘girl’ she says she is.. when she talks she’s actually the opposite.

    • @BigbossBonita
      @BigbossBonita 4 роки тому +2

      Now that's is keeping it real.

  • @Saffire1990
    @Saffire1990 4 роки тому

    Fast forward to Tam being absolutely snatched now. What an inspiration 👏👏👏

  • @ClipzILike1
    @ClipzILike1 3 роки тому

    My grandma lives with us but during the day she goes to a senior independence center, they pick them up, do activities, help them make and take them to their doctors appointment. It’s the best thing evvvvver.

  • @Whereisnicolenow
    @Whereisnicolenow 4 роки тому +11

    going to miss tamera so much 😭

  • @abcdefghijimin3248
    @abcdefghijimin3248 4 роки тому

    i agree ! i will help of course but there’s a certain point where if you’re not willing to make improvements then i’m letting you decide when you DO want to make a decision

  • @jessc99
    @jessc99 4 роки тому +4

    2:53 This is life lesson!

  • @ScatheMinx
    @ScatheMinx 4 роки тому +9

    I want to be their bestfriend :( Thank you for this. Your wisdom, humor, intelligence and confidence is empowering. I'm happy to be a subscriber. You're all beautiful and sexy as well. Stay safe.

  • @greciamedero2808
    @greciamedero2808 4 роки тому +3

    Agree with Adrienne 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @rosebudd7170
    @rosebudd7170 4 роки тому +1

    My mother lives in adult community; community bus transport shopping, doctors apartments. Each buildings has informal dinning area, kitchen, gym, movie threater and Ballard. Form friends have the same interests; bingo, board games. Family can have small parties. Loni, smart move for your mom. They meet new people.

  • @mariad4183
    @mariad4183 Місяць тому

    Photo etiquette is everything

  • @rositacortez-guzman6608
    @rositacortez-guzman6608 4 роки тому +1

    Omg when they made those faces 😂

  • @ranitagad7071
    @ranitagad7071 2 роки тому

    If I were ever in that situation I'd wait for them to ask me for my advice about the situation and then politely tell them to ask someone else because their situation is none of my business.

  • @jessicanarcisse673
    @jessicanarcisse673 4 роки тому +2

    Opposite with my husband, I give him his space in the bathroom but baby when I’m in there he wanna come in brush his teeth, talk, brush his hair, change his clothes my gosh

  • @kelseystramel5349
    @kelseystramel5349 3 роки тому

    I'm actually refurnishing and painting my bathroom for this. Thats my escape room.

  • @michelleblosser6701
    @michelleblosser6701 4 роки тому +2

    I try to hide in the bathroom alot but yeah my kids bust in there anyway.🤣 Now i call my bathroom breaks a potty party bc both of my kids, both cats and my dog come in there so its always a party!!

  • @pal8542
    @pal8542 4 роки тому +2

    Only seven hours a year? In this quarantine, I knock that off in 2 days.

  • @bobbiholmes2274
    @bobbiholmes2274 3 роки тому

    I won’t get involved with someone even a family member if I know they are involved with drugs. I can be invested with that. I don’t want the stress, it sounds harsh but unless you have someone in your life that’s struggling with drugs you will never know the stress of worrying about them

  • @krisstinalewis6347
    @krisstinalewis6347 4 роки тому +5

    i love Adrienne lml

  • @titibams
    @titibams 4 роки тому +1

    Mum, mum, mum, ma, ma, ma.. Tamera😂😂

  • @MsAmir-xw1us
    @MsAmir-xw1us 4 роки тому +2

    9:13 i felt that

  • @moimeself1088
    @moimeself1088 4 роки тому +2

    My family is religious. I disagree with their life choices. All of them don't speak to each other, but they speak to me, the athiest! I 😅

  • @Shannonlynn_98
    @Shannonlynn_98 3 роки тому

    Praying!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @hannahwootton6491
    @hannahwootton6491 4 роки тому

    Unless someone has that rock bottom where they know and want and are tired of going round in circles a lot of times you can't do alot

  • @ZuluGirlInNewYork
    @ZuluGirlInNewYork Рік тому

    Adrienne is so gorgeous here❤

  • @Brooklyn_baddiex3
    @Brooklyn_baddiex3 4 роки тому +11

    I just mind my business honestly

  • @millielouise2010
    @millielouise2010 4 роки тому

    I’m like this with my sister she always picks the wrong guys and the one she is with fires off first thing in the morning and comes home late at night I’ve tried to tell her he isnt good for her but it just causes us to argue

  • @LadiiLike5
    @LadiiLike5 4 роки тому +2

    7 hours a year??!?!?!?
    More like 7 hours a week. Its a constant hour in the bathroom DAILY for my man lol

  • @kartert.jefferson6759
    @kartert.jefferson6759 4 роки тому +6

    I’m with with Adrianne all the way.

  • @anciboi
    @anciboi 4 роки тому

    I'll smooth out a forehead...lol....that took me out!!!

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +5

    Adrienne sounds like a shady friend sometimes. I know she’s nonconfrontational, but your job as a friend to keep it real.

  • @xxgizelrixx5480
    @xxgizelrixx5480 3 роки тому

    loni be blowing me sometimes she can be such a hypocrite cuz she be the first one tryna get the tea n be nosy but as soon as the girls do it she gets all defensive n secretive like girl if u going do that then don’t be asking them personal questions either

  • @licks3962
    @licks3962 4 роки тому

    L.O.L i ALSO DO THAT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i go to the bathroom.when i want to be ALONE NO WAY I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY 1 GREAT TO NOW I AM NOT ALONE ON THIS!!!! I was beginning to think i was Weird..

  • @faridahnakayemba1496
    @faridahnakayemba1496 4 роки тому +6

    I go with Adrienne coz u give advice and still do the same things gal

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 4 роки тому +1

    Hilarious😂 but is this the episode today?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +1

      No, this is an old video. The new season starts next month.

  • @ariahblack6043
    @ariahblack6043 4 роки тому +3

    First comment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! First view

  • @moadekunle2458
    @moadekunle2458 4 роки тому +2

    Second comment 🤸‍♀️

  • @SSBMA1994
    @SSBMA1994 4 роки тому

    I do it at work sometimes...🤫🤫

  • @TruePathLiving
    @TruePathLiving 4 роки тому +1

    How about don't ? Don't give advice unless someone asks unless their life or the life of someone else is at risk. Other people's lives are nor our buisness. Less judgement more listening please.

  • @kd-xp6eg
    @kd-xp6eg 4 роки тому +9

    Adrienne baby uon gotta speak on everything

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 3 роки тому

    I do way more then my husband. Spend time in the my bathroom.

  • @Mike-ri3ub
    @Mike-ri3ub 4 роки тому

    @11:10 she asked Tamera, not the audience

  • @CocoAde
    @CocoAde 4 роки тому

    Loni and James aren't together anymore? Sorry if I'm late I can't keep up with all the relationships lol

    • @overjoyced
      @overjoyced 4 роки тому

      This is an old girl chat, don't worry

    • @CocoAde
      @CocoAde 4 роки тому

      @@overjoyced phew

  • @lisaharris1469
    @lisaharris1469 4 роки тому

    Don't that's the best advice

  • @Bantandiaye1993
    @Bantandiaye1993 4 роки тому

    I like dhis girle

  • @natalieraeann
    @natalieraeann 3 роки тому +1

    Only 7 hours??????

  • @heroncabo3756
    @heroncabo3756 4 роки тому

    Good 😷🙏🙏🕊️🙏 abençoado por Deus 🙏🕊️🙏 e paz amor saúde amar o próximo ok 🇺🇸 respeito educação e beruti...Deus abençoe todos com muito amor...ok

  • @setarehmotazedi2804
    @setarehmotazedi2804 3 роки тому

    I think Jeannie and Adrienne were talking about tamar... :0

    • @jazziesworld103
      @jazziesworld103 3 роки тому +2

      They haven’t hung up with her in years

  • @ChellesShell
    @ChellesShell 2 роки тому

    Men have man caves so they go there..the bathroom is the hiding place for men with no man cave..my husband doesn't hide but I do. I escape my responsibilities by hiding in the bathroom.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 4 роки тому +3

    I can’t believe Jeannie had never heard of diastasis recti.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Рік тому +1

    Gm edagdwg Miss. A . is soooooo extra out of love I would tell you not to make you feel bad because I really care some people do it because they enjoy hurting your feelings sad not a friend pay attention Linda j peace

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 3 роки тому

    But he got his man cave.

  • @Victoria-gv3qh
    @Victoria-gv3qh 4 роки тому +2

    Loni is the shadiest person smh. I don't know how they can handle her

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 4 роки тому +2

      Wtf?? Shes not shady. There All friends. U just don't like her. Loni is very good for this show. Stop hating. Tf?!

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 4 роки тому +3

      @@laragirly3522 she is a frenemy. always making fun of the others, rolling her eyes, attitude, she has negative vibes allll the time period.

    • @laragirly3522
      @laragirly3522 4 роки тому +1

      @@Victoria-gv3qh No tf she doesn't. She's good friends with All of them. She's not a frenemy. Loni is a great co host along with those women. U are taking it so wrong. Shes good friends with All the co host. Ur looking too deep into it honey. Its really not like that. No she Doesn't has negative vibes all the time, thats just how u take it but she doesn't. Bye hunny.

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 4 роки тому +1

      @@laragirly3522 you have your opinion, i have mine. Every episode I've seen she's making fun of one of the girls or being a HATER for no reason or giving attitude or rolling her eyes if other people's opinions are different than hers - especially to Tamera. It gets OLD real fast.

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 Рік тому

    5:28 8:36

  • @55556666ish
    @55556666ish 4 роки тому +1

    Just a guess but mutual friend... Malika Haqq?

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому

      What makes you think they were talking about her?

    • @55556666ish
      @55556666ish 4 роки тому +1

      @@gaila.9852 she is a socialite and may be concerned with her image, they are also both friends with her

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 4 роки тому

      poodle fan Gotcha!

    • @MsMak03
      @MsMak03 4 роки тому +3

      You were right sis, she said it was her in another episode