Tom has Separation Anxiety Disorder

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  • @livbrierley4279
    @livbrierley4279 5 років тому +43

    I’m 13 but that thing the mum said about how it’s not your worries it’s the dragons, that really helped me

  • @sabrina_thegeekmanson1331
    @sabrina_thegeekmanson1331 7 років тому +61

    Dragon: school is death, school is death oh geez
    Tom: I’m too young to die
    I lost it 😂😂😂

    • @moedeluca4715
      @moedeluca4715 5 років тому +3

      How l sleep alone l turn on all the lights to sleep

  • @Robot-qn4ih
    @Robot-qn4ih 8 років тому +50

    Kid:"Hey come play"
    Dragon:"He will laugh at you!"
    *stands there not saying a word*
    Lost it 😂😂😂

    • @jhovsuico8533
      @jhovsuico8533 7 років тому

      Hi! Nice video you have there! Very Infomative clip you have; have you ever tried " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (do a google search)? My sister had some transactions with them and was impressed by their great treatment when the anxiety attack was completely cured !

    • @taissiritorleb6467
      @taissiritorleb6467 7 років тому

      +Robot777 Oh hey! Nice video you have there! By the way; have you done business with " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (just google it)? My colleague had some transactions with them and was impressed by their great treatment when the Kids Anxiety was completely healed !

    • @crimcram
      @crimcram 5 років тому

      Or don’t

  • @morgancloutier5908
    @morgancloutier5908 5 років тому +36

    This was me in first grade. I’d make myself sick many of the days just so I could go home. I refused to eat at school. I lost all my appetite. I lost all muscle tone and weighed 45 pounds at age 7. I was terrified to be away from my mom. It’s so heartbreaking now to see how sick I was. I still battle anxiety and now with me being a senior, college is getting closer and my separation anxiety is bound to come back, but now I know how to tame my own worry dragon after doing it in first grade.

    • @stvrgaze
      @stvrgaze 2 роки тому

      same, I don't miss my mom when I'm at school. but from 4 pm to 9 pm okay that's WAY TOO LONG. I would cry bc i miss her. then i stayed with my sister one day with my niece and nephew. refused to go to my house. wanted to stay with her. i have a fear of being alone

  • @yahsararelhebrewagency4977
    @yahsararelhebrewagency4977 8 років тому +33

    the dragon scares me more than the "thought representation" of the actual Anxiety .

    • @Sharon_Hocutt
      @Sharon_Hocutt 5 років тому +1

      the dragon is a pure boy! 👏 don't say mean things about him! 👏 he's going through bad times! 👏

  • @hitmanhart670
    @hitmanhart670 2 роки тому +19

    I had this so bad as a child, even into my teen years. God I wish I had gotten it treated early back then, my life would’ve been so different

    • @durkisssss
      @durkisssss 2 роки тому +3

      i’m 12 years old man you got any tips ? every time i leave my mom my anxitey rises .

    • @hitmanhart670
      @hitmanhart670 2 роки тому +3

      @@durkisssss sorry to hear that, it is very tough to deal with. The best thing you can do is if a negative thought comes in your head while your mom is away, instead of letting it take over and make you feel worried, you should question whether something like that can really happen. I used to worry that something bad could happen to my mom (like get into a bad car accident) or that if she was gone for too long that meant she left me forever. If I really thought about I would have realized that fatal car accidents are rare and that the idea that my mom would run away is preposterous. But I know you’re young and it’s hard to really confront fears that way. For me as I got older I started thinking more rationally. If your school has a psychologist or social worker I would recommend trying to talk to that person about your fears. They may be able to help you deal with the negative thoughts and fears. Hope things get better for you

    • @D4YST4R
      @D4YST4R 2 роки тому +2

      @@hitmanhart670 I'm going to take this advice, thank you.

  • @amalie8608
    @amalie8608 5 років тому +37

    I have seperation anxiety.. Ever since childhood I always had a hard time going to birthdays and events... I would often skip sleepovers because I would just lay there crying and wanting to go home. In fourth grade I skipped scool a lot because I couldn't handel the anxiaty.. Now I'm 14 and I go to scool everyday and attend sleepovers... I still get anxiety but not as ofen as I used to... Trust me, it gets better.

    • @tpwk7953
      @tpwk7953 Рік тому +1

      I'm very glad that you are doing better, you are 17 now and i hope that you've been able to overcome it. Please stay strong and be well friend, if it is still there i hope that it doesn't take any long now for it to leave you, take care mate. Wish you the best! :)

  • @fringolm
    @fringolm 8 років тому +9

    I don't know if this approach would have worked when I was 5, but certainly not at 14.

  • @Sharon_Hocutt
    @Sharon_Hocutt 5 років тому +9

    these guys tried to make a video about separation anxiety disorder
    but instead they made a lil dragon character who is just so adorable i love him

    • @Sharon_Hocutt
      @Sharon_Hocutt 5 років тому +1

      the red one is cool, he's also nice
      (but is he an angry boy?)

  • @scrproductions9435
    @scrproductions9435 5 років тому +20

    I have separation anxiety and my friends think I'm some 3 year old. Its not fun. I need somebody who I can relate too, because the only videos on it are about 'Oh its fine just get over it'. You cant get over it.

    • @danield888
      @danield888 5 років тому +3

      I'm 12, and I have it. I hate that it's litterally only associated with dogs and little kids.

  • @takweshanoli32
    @takweshanoli32 11 років тому +28

    The #1 reason regular panic cures don't succeed is because they never educate the individual how to stop the fear of fear, instead they teach you to ‘cope’ with the problem. For stopping panic and anxiety attack completely, you must stop the fear of fear.

    • @vasumatilapre337
      @vasumatilapre337 11 років тому +1

      Please provide me that solution. Thanks for your time.

    • @takweshanoli32
      @takweshanoli32 11 років тому +1

      Vasumati Lapre Look into the following site to find out more:
      fine4.info/panic-attacks-cure

    • @HugsFromJesus
      @HugsFromJesus 9 років тому

      Vasumati Lapre Hi friend! I agree with Takwesha! It's true! panic attacks are a big joke and should not be feared! :) Did you know panic attacks has a weakness? A weak spot? Like a boss in a video game! And once you learn what that weak spot is, then silly mr panic attack loses all his powers! We recently uploaded a video that shares how you can overcome anxiety and panic attacks naturally and forever! We hope it helps! God Bless!

  • @tyradenine
    @tyradenine 10 років тому +1

    That dragon friend of his is a bad effluence... Proves that fears are not innate. Too funny!

  • @mrholm68
    @mrholm68 7 років тому +8

    tom, ur not alone

  • @MyOwnBummer
    @MyOwnBummer 3 роки тому +3

    Now I know I for sure had separation anxiety as a kid. Very rarely does it pop up again but it does

  • @dodobrain2620
    @dodobrain2620 9 років тому +7

    that dragon scares the shit out of me

  • @AmandaWspoon
    @AmandaWspoon 6 років тому +5

    I probably would've had seperation anxiety if my mother didn't work at my preschool. I've always worried if I got in trouble shed love me less so when I did anything needing correction I would cry for hours.

  • @priyakumari6073
    @priyakumari6073 2 роки тому +3

    This is so cute 🥺

  • @oumaymaderbeli8163
    @oumaymaderbeli8163 3 роки тому +1

    my worry dragon is gonna catch these hands fr

  • @princessmeme5727
    @princessmeme5727 3 роки тому +2

    this really helped me a lot

  • @theregulararkandsonicfan5005
    @theregulararkandsonicfan5005 2 роки тому +2

    This is so funny 😂 lol

  • @adrianaadnan9958
    @adrianaadnan9958 Рік тому +1

    Omg I'm tom! 😅

  • @sydneypitts355
    @sydneypitts355 8 років тому +11

    I have separation anxiety.

    • @emmaslife3610
      @emmaslife3610 8 років тому +2

      I was diagnosed with a severe case of this at 2 and a half. They just let me keep my security blanket with me all the time at school and even now I have found ways to cope. I'm 14 now and although I made adjustments it's really not that big a deal. However, sometimes it's difficult for me in school. Leaving teachers I trust for a new grade can cause me a lot of anxiety and sadness. But in the end, it's not so bad once you find your way to cope

    • @kendra6154
      @kendra6154 6 років тому

      Sydney Pitts me too I worry about my mom

    • @greatooglymoogly
      @greatooglymoogly 5 років тому

      Same ;I

  • @MaryLawler-h4r
    @MaryLawler-h4r Рік тому

    Every kid has anxiety about being alone because they don’t care about what their parents say and when I called her she said that she could tell me what ever she wanted because she’s my mom

  • @MaryLawler-h4r
    @MaryLawler-h4r Рік тому

    She said she would like it if I didn’t tell her what to do

  • @niftyniff1
    @niftyniff1 9 років тому +4

    if some of your feelings belong to 'a worry dragon' from an early age, it's called dissociation and may lead to schizophrenia or at least some serious emotional issues..

    • @LoveSeren
      @LoveSeren 6 років тому

      blahblah blahblahblah its not schizophrenia -_- its probaley anxiety

  • @theforestero
    @theforestero 10 років тому +1

    Many peoples family IS UA-cam and the internet, much fear is produced when these things are taken away, or seemingly threatened with loss of association...

  • @theforestero
    @theforestero 10 років тому +3

    Separation anxiety from capitalism,,Separation anxiety from The Star wars franchise.Separation anxiety from National pride, after traveling over a few continents...

  • @katherinemorris6689
    @katherinemorris6689 Рік тому

    Even though I am older, I have separation anxiety disorder. I also have severe anxiety. I have a hard time leaving my mom because I never know where she is, if she is well or what is happening to her in that moment. My dad dying is the cause of this, and I am extremely clingy to my mom because I do not want to become an orphan and I never know what is going to happen to her I also never know if I will see her again like the kid in the video. It is a horrible disorder and I know what it feels like to have it so I will always be sympathetic to those with SAD and anxiety.

  • @MoniqueeeeJ
    @MoniqueeeeJ 2 роки тому +1

    I’m 24 and I have severe separation anxiety

  • @ladybugbee
    @ladybugbee 2 роки тому

    Wow tom, join the party.

  • @evilspirit786
    @evilspirit786 Рік тому

    s
    eparation anxiety is also can be known as overthinking about are close ones death,like nightmares about my parents gone for some party after that party,they can held an accident and die

  • @taylorraffle5419
    @taylorraffle5419 10 років тому +4

    Can anyone help? This video certainly did not. I want to know how to stop separation anxiety. I am 11, and every time I go to school, I cry when I get on the bus and in school. My mom was the only one who raised me when me and my brother was little. Nobody understands it, though. Someone please help! School starts at the end of next month, and I am going into 6th grade in the middle school. So of course, a new school is scary! Help!!!!

    • @JoseHernandez-zh5tu
      @JoseHernandez-zh5tu 10 років тому

      shutup!

    • @savanimay
      @savanimay 9 років тому

      I was the same way. I had separation anxiety and social anxiety since I was a child. I'm still afraid to talk to strangers at 18 years of age. I had no help or treatment from psychologists with mine. My mom knew something was wrong with me because I would cry every single day at school with no apparent reason. It does get better though if you realize your own strengths and slowly make some friends. It's never too late. I didn't even BEGIN to overcome mine until I was 11. I've come a long way since then.

    • @HugsFromJesus
      @HugsFromJesus 9 років тому

      Taylor Raffle Hi. We recently uploaded a video about overcoming anxiety. Perhaps it can help! :)

    • @HugsFromJesus
      @HugsFromJesus 9 років тому +1

      Sav-Chan Hi. We recently uploaded a video about overcoming anxiety. Perhaps it can help! :)

  • @julialegge6064
    @julialegge6064 9 років тому +16

    I believe this is actually called schizophrenia

    • @thebuddet6552
      @thebuddet6552 9 років тому +1

      Schizophrenia isn't this

    • @ahliaa
      @ahliaa 8 років тому +4

      Nah schizophrenia involves multiple voices, those are just regular thoughts a person with anxiety has

    • @smirror196
      @smirror196 5 років тому

      Yea I agree with Mahalia, plus this is a little boy so he’s likely to have imaginary “friends” (I put friends in quotes cuz Worry Dragon ain’t helping him at all)

  • @kavitaparasram727
    @kavitaparasram727 6 років тому

    Hi my son can't be away from me when ever I leave him n go anywhere he don't sleep in the night he scread I leave him and go away what I can't do to help him he is 2 years 7 months

  • @0omindless0o
    @0omindless0o 7 років тому +3

    soccer baseball? its called kick ball

  • @kami4309
    @kami4309 7 років тому +2

    What’s a primary school is that like elementary school

  • @Pravindaswani74
    @Pravindaswani74 10 років тому

    Cool!!!!

  • @armandochourio4369
    @armandochourio4369 7 років тому

    Hey there! Nice video you have there! Since you are on the topic of Child Anxiety; have you thought about " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (should be on google...have a look)? My sister had some transactions with them and was impressed by their unbelivable treatment when the Kids Anxiety was completely healed !

  • @thebuddet6552
    @thebuddet6552 9 років тому +2

    Does that guy have a black eye?

    • @christinab.2864
      @christinab.2864 9 років тому

      They all got black if you think about it

  • @theregulararkandsonicfan5005
    @theregulararkandsonicfan5005 2 роки тому

    Yea

  • @Funstun-yk7oo
    @Funstun-yk7oo 5 років тому +1

    wanna play some soccer baseball?

  • @MakingLifeA180
    @MakingLifeA180 7 років тому

    not bad personification

  • @emiri1863
    @emiri1863 3 роки тому

    I respect this topic but school is death school i cant

  • @amanifaraj8718
    @amanifaraj8718 Рік тому

    What the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 0:52

  • @ItsMoriashkiBitches
    @ItsMoriashkiBitches 12 років тому +2

    that was funny

  • @furyynight4947
    @furyynight4947 7 років тому +1

    Hello! Nice video you have there! Since you are on the topic of Child Anxiety; have you heard about " Vidadsmedia Child Anxiety Treatment " (do a google search)? My colleague had some transactions with them and was impressed by their amazing treatment when the childs anxiety symptom was completely remedied

  • @1221rnd
    @1221rnd 6 років тому

    This video is ridiculous! For someone with real SAD like my 9 y.o. son, a brief logical conversation like that with him would only make things worse. That’s the problem- the rational part of your brain is not in control when you’re about to separate. To call what this boy has SAD is not correct. He may have an anxiety issue or separation issues, but not true SAD.

  • @char11290
    @char11290 8 років тому

    eyud

  • @eatdetergent
    @eatdetergent 7 років тому +1

    Guess I used to have this when I was in like
    Nursery