My dad told me when I was younger he said ::: a women is never (y)ours) the Y is always silent when you understand that you’ll never take them to serious on your priority list R.I.P. pops I got the message smdh
Sadly...until you realize that EVERY woman may not cheat but they are capable...you will end up being that guy that ends up being crushed. It happens to us all because you want to believe it can't happen, we all have been there. The earlier you learn that lesson the better off you will be!
Keisha only wants Pookie. This is true for most Black women. They dont really want Good Men but they will use them. To be a Stepdad or to be the reliable provider. They want it both ways to have the provider and her Pookie on the side. That's the truth. This is why men are done with dating. Keisha chase your Pookie and leave the Good Men alone.
When I was young I use to be faithful to fault until I realized giving a woman your all means nothing She can sleep with multiple men She can break up with you for any reason Her taste in men changed every ten years Her personality changes every 7 years You can be the best man, best love, give your all. New chapter, new life new me. I don't trust women. At all they could be good for 20 years and flip the script on you.
Rico lost his WOLF. He needs to hang out with some wild animals to get his WOLF back. He too delusional and polished. I see too much weakness in that dude. He needs to go in the wilderness for a while and get some war scars. smh
So I guess people,in the comments,are going to say that these 2 guys are lying because they are INSECURE, JADED, BROKE DUSTYS, WACK, LAME, HAVE MOMMY ISSUES, HAVE TRUST ISSUES, & BOTH ARE ICELS!🤔🤔🤔…….OR ARE THEY JUST TELLING THE TRUTH AND PEOPLE CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH! THATS REDPILL PHILOSOPHY!
That woman has some issues. Men dont never spend their last dollar on a woman, we make sure we always have money for that woman and children. Men make money to support other people. Women make money to leave men and be independent. The dynamic is different so the hurt is different. Even if you investing 50/50 with a shorty that is never really the case. And that 50 could have been used to form a foundation for yourself instead of putting it with someone who will leave.
Being a side guy is torture and draining especially if you truly love her. It breaks and drains you mentally and emotionally, i won't want it for my enemy
I'm a bit off. Deleting her is easy, and deleting myself isn't an option either, so personally, depending on how much I've given, and how much you've hurt me by your actions, will decide whether I just leave you, or if I snap and hurt you. Again deletion gets you off the hook, I'd hurt you in a way wherein, you'd have to live with what I did, every day when you look in the mirror, there would be a scar on your face that surgery can't fix. Good luck finding someone who will love you for you. That can look past the scars or your face. In fact, go back to that man you just had to have, maybe he'll still want you, help you pick up the pieces. Sounds messed up doesn't it? But it's one of many results if you fu*k around on folks. Be careful, and you better make it worth it, cause it just might be the last thing you ever do.✌️
It sounds nasty and even piggish but sadly it’s the reality in more situations than people think. The maturity piece of it is recognizing it and turning it down. As a person, you dont want the karma from it and the trauma piece that was mentioned is very real. Once you open that door you cant close it again. If there was ever anything I would go back and change it was cheating or being the willing participant in my younger years. You really can spot the signs from a distance
SMH I hit that depression and that shit f*cked me up so bad I ain’t the same no more honestly and I know for sure if I’d be in prison if I didn’t talk myself through it
She is so right. I disagree with Rico. He speaks of the exception not the rule. I agree with the woman on the panel. Many woman are immature and want act immaturely. Building a relationship on trust requires maturity on both sides. Sacrifices must be made on both sides. Everyone has their comeuppance so as we all age please focus on maturity and trust because one day all this random pointless philandering distracts you from every reaching your goal of a solid relationship..
I just could never do that. Im sure I've had sex with a few women who had a boyfriend, pretty sure never with a married one, but im not getting in that convo and if i find out you have a man mostly likely I'm not gonna keep that shit going.
I disagree with Rico on it being fir "elite men" I was a decent money making dude in my 20s and was donkey dicking successful women as the side dude... it was crazy because their dude was everything they wanted... I was young with a Nissan Maxima SE getting hella cooch from taken women.
Me and my friend from high school said if we didn’t find someone by the time we were 30, we’d marry each other. It wasn’t a plan set in stone and at the end of the day, neither of us ever married. Unfortunately, he passed away when we were 42.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
Your words make a lot of sense, and I genuinely hope my thoughts align similarly. Despite our current separation, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is immense. I yearn to have her back, and I'm willing to do anything to make that happen. We've explored various avenues, including therapy, in our efforts to reconcile.
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Way too much double Talk with these women bro... They require all these things from men. Now apparently its "men shouldn't fully invest in a woman", but then start looking crazy when a man mentions 50/50.
The side guy thinks it’s all about how he is in bed and never thinks how much danger he actually could be in. The wife AND husband could have an understanding that she can have sex with whom she chooses, and when she is done, he “eliminates” the side guy. It’s not always about sex for the woman because we can really satisfy ourselves. Men, on the other hand, (no pun intended), cannot. I personally know two guys that were killed behind women and the perpetrators in both cases did only six years because it was deemed a crime of passion. So to all side guys, all that glitters ain’t gold.
People have absolutely men and women no idea what "Tha SUPREME CREATOR GOD" purpose is for us. if we did this debaucherous treachery infidelity in marriage wouldn't be happening !!!!
The real issue with men that think like Rico is that they have no integrity why deal with a cheating woman why lower yourself to her level why because you are just as bad as her so when karma comes around don't get mad take that L
This is so cynical. Broke men and rich men get cheated on its a lack of integrity on both parts. It's also a dangerous game because some men will crash out when they find out.
I don't advise anyone to involved with a woman that has a man providing for her, at all. But if you are going to do that, please make sure the woman knows that the man providing for her is first priority, period. You got a lot of dumb chicks out there thinking it's cute to bite the hand that feeds them and ends up being kicked to the curb. Then they gonna look at you like you messed up their bag.
I agree so we can see how common it is for women to cheat, because the narrative is it's more men when the numbers and openess from women show it's about the same.
My dad told me when I was younger he said ::: a women is never (y)ours) the Y is always silent when you understand that you’ll never take them to serious on your priority list R.I.P. pops I got the message smdh
He was right
Just listening to this conversation, society is down bad spiritually 🙁
Every generation is worse than the last in the ways that matter lol
No, it’s literally this podcast
Tanks for saying it
Then dude you are very late to the party. But come on in, there is plenty of room for a woman's nature . If you can catch my pass.
Sadly...until you realize that EVERY woman may not cheat but they are capable...you will end up being that guy that ends up being crushed. It happens to us all because you want to believe it can't happen, we all have been there. The earlier you learn that lesson the better off you will be!
Being a "good man" these days is a net negative.
You never FULLY have any of them. It's just your turn. Someone else was in that hotel room a year prior!
The culture is broken.
The Devil is real…. Stealing, Killing, and Destroying ( John 10:10)
It's because our women are broken.
Rico is just not believing in love at all🤣.This is actually sad he on here giving advice ,he is not believing none of it himself.
I agree.. I really don’t trust women no matter how much she ‘love’ me either. Just too risky
Keisha only wants Pookie.
This is true for most Black women. They dont really want Good Men but they will use them. To be a Stepdad or to be the reliable provider. They want it both ways to have the provider and her Pookie on the side. That's the truth.
This is why men are done with dating. Keisha chase your Pookie and leave the Good Men alone.
It's women..BW are just a easy scapegoat in America basically pawns of feminism movement
@mr.dccomics9018 I couldn't of said it any better 🫡
When I was young I use to be faithful to fault until I realized giving a woman your all means nothing
She can sleep with multiple men
She can break up with you for any reason
Her taste in men changed every ten years
Her personality changes every 7 years
You can be the best man, best love, give your all.
New chapter, new life new me.
I don't trust women. At all they could be good for 20 years and flip the script on you.
I will never knowingly be a side piece. Ain’t about to put that karma on myself.
Riiiight that will save you.
Rico lost his WOLF. He needs to hang out with some wild animals to get his WOLF back. He too delusional and polished. I see too much weakness in that dude. He needs to go in the wilderness for a while and get some war scars. smh
I've been in both situations and you feel like crap in both situations, it's a cold world 🌎, if you find something genuine cherish it cause it's rare
Aim Up is ALWAYS the answer.
It's a reason why red pill exist
So I guess people,in the comments,are going to say that these 2 guys are lying because they are INSECURE, JADED, BROKE DUSTYS, WACK, LAME, HAVE MOMMY ISSUES, HAVE TRUST ISSUES, & BOTH ARE ICELS!🤔🤔🤔…….OR ARE THEY JUST TELLING THE TRUTH AND PEOPLE CAN HANDLE THE TRUTH! THATS REDPILL PHILOSOPHY!
It sucks how much women can be bought.
Y’all ever looked into the eyes of the women on this show? Like this comment if you see what I see. IYKYK
The eyes are the mirror to their fucked up soul
I see it.
The most important moments that shows women don't know everything
That woman has some issues. Men dont never spend their last dollar on a woman, we make sure we always have money for that woman and children. Men make money to support other people. Women make money to leave men and be independent. The dynamic is different so the hurt is different. Even if you investing 50/50 with a shorty that is never really the case. And that 50 could have been used to form a foundation for yourself instead of putting it with someone who will leave.
Being a side guy is torture and draining especially if you truly love her. It breaks and drains you mentally and emotionally, i won't want it for my enemy
Respect to these brothers for keeping it 💯
Yall chopped it up 4sho on this one. Best one yet in my opinion. I'll subscribe 4more like this. Keep it up. 💯 ❤ & BLESSINGS
Yet more reasons for men to avoid Modern Women altogether! 😳🙄😞👎
This is toxic. A lot of people live trash lives.
💯💯💯
I'm a bit off. Deleting her is easy, and deleting myself isn't an option either, so personally, depending on how much I've given, and how much you've hurt me by your actions, will decide whether I just leave you, or if I snap and hurt you. Again deletion gets you off the hook, I'd hurt you in a way wherein, you'd have to live with what I did, every day when you look in the mirror, there would be a scar on your face that surgery can't fix. Good luck finding someone who will love you for you. That can look past the scars or your face. In fact, go back to that man you just had to have, maybe he'll still want you, help you pick up the pieces. Sounds messed up doesn't it? But it's one of many results if you fu*k around on folks. Be careful, and you better make it worth it, cause it just might be the last thing you ever do.✌️
Thats why you don't wanna play " provider" coz the likely hood is that she's only with you for what you got. You want her to want you for you.
Rico be sounding like a girl sometimes
It sounds nasty and even piggish but sadly it’s the reality in more situations than people think. The maturity piece of it is recognizing it and turning it down. As a person, you dont want the karma from it and the trauma piece that was mentioned is very real. Once you open that door you cant close it again. If there was ever anything I would go back and change it was cheating or being the willing participant in my younger years. You really can spot the signs from a distance
SMH I hit that depression and that shit f*cked me up so bad I ain’t the same no more honestly and I know for sure if I’d be in prison if I didn’t talk myself through it
I been a side dude before but my situation was nothing like that lol. I was a side dude to a broke chick 😂
Simple answer is because they love the toxic ones and when they treat them bad, they will want to come back to the nice guy
She is so right. I disagree with Rico. He speaks of the exception not the rule. I agree with the woman on the panel. Many woman are immature and want act immaturely. Building a relationship on trust requires maturity on both sides. Sacrifices must be made on both sides. Everyone has their comeuppance so as we all age please focus on maturity and trust because one day all this random pointless philandering distracts you from every reaching your goal of a solid relationship..
I just could never do that. Im sure I've had sex with a few women who had a boyfriend, pretty sure never with a married one, but im not getting in that convo and if i find out you have a man mostly likely I'm not gonna keep that shit going.
Facts. Cause if the man find out, you might get shot 👀
after hearing this I minds well remain single & have fun responsibly 😂🤷🏾♂️
I disagree with Rico on it being fir "elite men" I was a decent money making dude in my 20s and was donkey dicking successful women as the side dude... it was crazy because their dude was everything they wanted... I was young with a Nissan Maxima SE getting hella cooch from taken women.
He means elite with women not money
I'm here for Romeo
I’m never getting married
Facts
Me and my friend from high school said if we didn’t find someone by the time we were 30, we’d marry each other. It wasn’t a plan set in stone and at the end of the day, neither of us ever married. Unfortunately, he passed away when we were 42.
Wow, deep, R.I.P to him
That is not elite. That is nasty
With dudes like this that’s why the women ask the way they ask.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
Your words make a lot of sense, and I genuinely hope my thoughts align similarly. Despite our current separation, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is immense. I yearn to have her back, and I'm willing to do anything to make that happen. We've explored various avenues, including therapy, in our efforts to reconcile.
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
So if you dont recommend fully investing in a woman what do you truly feel about marriage
Way too much double Talk with these women bro... They require all these things from men. Now apparently its "men shouldn't fully invest in a woman", but then start looking crazy when a man mentions 50/50.
This whole show is just describing hypergamy.
The side guy thinks it’s all about how he is in bed and never thinks how much danger he actually could be in. The wife AND husband could have an understanding that she can have sex with whom she chooses, and when she is done, he “eliminates” the side guy. It’s not always about sex for the woman because we can really satisfy ourselves. Men, on the other hand, (no pun intended), cannot. I personally know two guys that were killed behind women and the perpetrators in both cases did only six years because it was deemed a crime of passion. So to all side guys, all that glitters ain’t gold.
Being a side dude is better than marriage
People have absolutely men and women no idea what "Tha SUPREME CREATOR GOD" purpose is for us. if we did this debaucherous treachery infidelity in marriage wouldn't be happening !!!!
The real issue with men that think like Rico is that they have no integrity why deal with a cheating woman why lower yourself to her level why because you are just as bad as her so when karma comes around don't get mad take that L
This is so cynical. Broke men and rich men get cheated on its a lack of integrity on both parts. It's also a dangerous game because some men will crash out when they find out.
Drop them Gems
Amanda is still believing some little boy's promise to come save her later....WOW!!!
I don't advise anyone to involved with a woman that has a man providing for her, at all. But if you are going to do that, please make sure the woman knows that the man providing for her is first priority, period. You got a lot of dumb chicks out there thinking it's cute to bite the hand that feeds them and ends up being kicked to the curb. Then they gonna look at you like you messed up their bag.
That's how dudes get deleted
This is the reason that most people get deleted...... just saying
This dude outfit is insane
Because they feel sorry for lames. Lol
As a former sideman pool boy fucking cougars it was fun as hell😎
This conversation needed more women on the panel cause this is ………🤦🏽♀️
Please queen. Enlighten us lol we could use a different opinion
I agree so we can see how common it is for women to cheat, because the narrative is it's more men when the numbers and openess from women show it's about the same.
Evil
👀☕️
She likes something about you, just enjoy your turn