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A very famous actor in India also committed suicide on 15 june due to mental health issues...his name was Sushant Singh Rajput....if you can make video on that
@@JD-kp6pt The absence of value and purpose does not imply suicide as a consequent response. Understand some To make the bandwagon fallacy generalizing the experience of the poor is condescending and works against your posit on nihilism, because if all experience is senseless then even suffering shouldn't make a difference, no? The illogical leap to assisted suicide is an ode to uncritical thought. I support the right of anyone to end their life but this is not the intellectual argument for it.
Sometime the famous one are more stress then the normal people. Just let it go and don't think so much and you think also won't change anything might as well don't think right.
His parents divorced when he was young. He only met his biological father a few times. His mother is part of a cult and has immensely large debts. He has been forced to pay off his crazy mother's debt. What's worse, is his agency takes 60% of all of his salary. He said on articles and shows "even though I work so hard, why don't I have any money." He lived in a 1DK tiny apartment. He wanted to quit the disgusting Japanese entertainment industry when he was in his young 20s, and went abroad to London to study English. But his agency AMUSE called him saying "come back to Japan and work. Studying English is a waste of time." He seemed like such a good person and pure. It's so so sad that he was crushed by awful people.
Similar happens in my country Sushant Singh is great actor as Haruma Muira Some say it was sucide but there is no sucide letter to prove that. Some speculated that it is murder by someone from Bollywood industry Where there is only one problem? It is Nepotism and it means those who parents have been great or famous actors they will get respect in film industry while others who are newcomer to films industry and have no experience with film industry they will have the same respect as them get But Sushant Singh was talented and great actor some are envy of him from actor and actress of the same industry. Rest in peace Sushant Singh and you will get justice.
@@Afternoonsun-c9y Japan has many religious groups that are cult. They lure people to join them so they can take advantage of you like money for example. So be aware of strangers approaching you on the street in Japan cause they might be part of a cult. They even come to your house and want to have a chit chat with you at your home.
I would've of told him that we we're in this SHIII hole together... until we die old and not soon but it's to late fo me to save soul like someone saved mine😔
It's stupid actually, what makes them any less human? Just because people have never met them and know their names and nothing else? I think people should stop being referred to as idols or celebrities, they are simply people known by many for their line of work, it's just that, nothing more, they are as much strangers as anyone else we walk past on the street.
yep and part of it is because the celebs are always "on" when they are knowingly in public. Always looking good, talking good, etc. They spend so much time brightening up other folks day yet who is brightening theirs?
Few months ago, Kimura Hana who starred in Terrace House(famous Japanese Netflix reality show) also committed suicide because of hate comments and threats on her social media.
Soooo true, the STRESS OF MEETING EVERYONE'S EXPECTATION AND THEN TO BE ATTACKED BY THE VERY PEOPLE WHO ARE SUPPOSE TO BE FANS...CELEBRITIES ARE BULLIED CONSTANTLY AND ITS NOT FAIR...😭 ACTING, SINGING, MODELING ETC., IS THEIR JOB, NOT THEIR LIFE! THEY HAVE LIVES OUTSIDE IF THEIR JOB AND LIKE US THEY ARE NOT PERFECT...THEY'RE HUMAN LIKE US
@UCEP-ZPtov2_kE1VwOqa_XzQ not just japan and Korea, twitter especially is toxic everywhere for any kind of celebrity or famous person, this is why some celebrities from around the world refuse to use it or deleted it their accounts after getting unwarranted hate, it sucks really
"I think people should simply understand that 10 people have 10 different ways of life". I love that lady's comment. My heart still aches for Haruma, some days I think about it and still can't completely process that its real, he's gone, it really happened. He was so beautiful and the most talented actor, he was my favourite actor. He always will be. I wish he had the help he obviously needed. We won't forget you Haruma.
the wasp woman what the hell is wrong with you? Just because he was beautiful doesn’t make his death more upsetting. People loved him for his talent! People loved him for being the kind-hearted man he was. Of course, he had a handsome face, but his looks were nothing compared to him himself. I’m honestly upset that you had to even ask that.
@@pagethreemodel the term beautiful here doesn't necessarily mean his look. I think the writer want to say that Haruma as a person is beautiful, as in inner beauty.
Japanese people are so focused on 'to not cause trouble to others' that they end up neglecting their own self. Too much humbleness can be fatal as well.
@@hsun7997 What they said is very true. You don't have to be Japanese to observe a very obvious trend. If you do even a little bit of research into Japanese culture, you'll see that they often go overboard when trying not to inconvenience or say no to others. Overtime is an actual cause of death for office workers for this very reason. Japan, as a country, uses less paid vacation than most other countries in the world, again, for the same reason. It's definitely a problem.
dude, if ur not japanese or lived in japan how tf u know dumbas. In the video clearly said he was getting hate comments so not to "to not cause trouble to others'"
It’s great to hear her story. She reminds us that people do care, even if many others do not know how to show it. Suicide is never the answer. I hope she’s doing well and is happy.
The woman sharing the story of her friend who ended up leaving this world at only 19 broke my heart. And you can see how much this young woman cared about that friend and still is affected by this until today. For everyone going through a hard time, there is someone out there who will listen to you, who will care for you. You are loved and appreciated. Don't ever think otherwise.
She knew she was blessed with a good friend but I also think she knew she could no longer suppress her stress and was at her limit. She came to see her good friend for the last time.
@LosN Found That's probably true. I had similar experience. My classmate committed suicide. He's not close friend with me but he reached out to me and I felt I hadn't been patient and nice enough for him, and felt slightly guilty of his death.
My friend committed suicide two years ago. I tried to be there for her. She always had my support. She used to be the one who always brightened my mood. She had so many wise things to say. I carry them with me. ❤️ I tried to be the same for her. I told her how special she was. It broke my heart when she decided to leave this world and her two young daughters. She was the same age as Haruma Miura. 😢
The woman, dressing up in all black and wearing the necklace, is very smart. She knows it won't stop if its on TV. A lot of her answers are very open-minded and gives good advice.
As a haruma's international fan i realy want to thank asian boss for doing this interview. We don't know anything about his real character or his real life for surely .but he seemd like unassuming person & i really liked to see his smile.haruma's & shinee's jonghyun's deaths really convulsed me.
As a fan from Canada, I first saw Haruma-san in Gokusen 3. I instantly became a fan. My favorite was Bloody Monday, but there was a few of my favorite actors in that show. I am very saddened by his passing. My only hope is that this may open the door further to address mental health in Japan. ❤
Yeah Japanese people need balance in their life. Working really hard for what? If there is no enjoyment in life, why work so hard? Right? There should be a balance not too lazy like poor countries but not to ahead of your well-being
@@rodrozil6544 In India, one of the most beloved young actor also committed suicide. I don't know why young, talented actors are committing suicide in Asia only.
@@rodrozil6544 But he was struggling with mental health for long. People knew about it. In the east, these young actors die suddenly. They look happy and pristine with no record of any drug, alcohol abuse or detachment from any family members or friends. Also, I was 17 when Chester died. I was traumatized for a whole month. I cried a lot. He meant a lot to me growing up.
I've been binge watching everything related to Haruma Miura. He was ridiculously handsome, but still so humble. He worked hard at his profession and even acted in stage plays. He had such a beautiful smile. May he rest in peace.
When they talked about how they don't talk about their mental health and problems it reminded me of a very old video. This American guy went to Japan and he worked or just went to an English Cafe. It was for Japanese to practice their English. He said that the hardest part was that many Japanese would share their deepest struggles and problems to him. That many would go there to have someone to talk to, not specifically to practice their English. Because Japanese knew that Americans are more open about talking about those things. The guy had a good heart because he was concerned that he couldn't help them because he is not a therapist. I don't remember the blogger, and the video is probably more than 10 years old. But things haven't changed in 10 yrs. I am sad that my fav Japanese actor and celebrity crush suffered a lot.
That guy was worried that he couldn't help because he is not a therapist. I think that he helped more than he believed, simply by being willing to listen to them. Sometimes the hardest thing is simply telling someone how you feel, and once you've managed to open up to one person it then becomes easier to change how you're viewing your problems, and it becomes easier to open up to someone else.
@@katiegittins2566 That's why it's soo unhealthy to have a culture where you don't talk about your problems, as you said, when you do talk to someone, you can almost hear your problems a little differently when you say them out loud to someone than when they're just rolling around in your head, so it often doesn't even matter if you get good advice or not.
This is so true. I worked at an English Cafe few years back in South Korea. Some of them came there to indeed practice their English, brought their homework with them and so on. However, I found a lot of 'students' mostly the older ones are there to talk about their family, their work, and just a day to day life in general. One of them who really left impression on me is a lady in her 50s, she has two daughter and both of them currently in the US to study. Her husband is a CEO of a big company in Korea and although she seems very sweet, it is clear that she is lonely and needed someone to talk to.
" _To myself 10 years from now, are u spending your day happily? Are you holding onto your precious thing? If you turn out to be a person accomplished everything in the best way, i will be happy for you. Please be a great person_ " *Haruma Miura*
@@cherrybanilla "Dear everyone 10 years in the future, How are you all doing? Are you still friends ten years from now? Do you still laugh together? Do you have fun everyday? What am I doing at the moment, 10 years from now? Am I still playing soccer? Am I married to Naho? Am I truly living every single day?" This is from an anime, Orange, in 2016. It's about a boy about to commit suicide. That just reminded me of an anime
@@cherrybanilla Haruma Miura's parentds were divorced just like the main character of this anime, Orange. They look similar too but this is years before his death
That women who’s friend died probably thought her death would be forgotten. Maybe she said things to herself like “I’m such a burden for making her worry about me. She lets me borrow her notes but I don’t do anything for her. She’d be better off without me.” Yet all these years later, you can see the effect losing her friend has had. If you have these kinds of thoughts, please remember that the pain of your passing won’t go away with time, and choose to ask for help instead.
I never thought about lending a book could make it even worst. But after i read this i realized that someone that has depression really could think differently.
As someone who has depression, I can tell you that the way we think is different. I am haunted by the thoughts that when I die, the burden on my family will be lessen, or that no one cares whether I live or die. I just feel like except my parents, no one cares about me. I don't have friend and I can't share my thought with anyone since my parents don't believe in mental illness.
@@miyako1909 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. This sounds so hard to do, especially alone. I hope you'll please remember that whatever you're feeling is valid and that you are not a burden. Sometimes we can argue w/ ourselves and convince ourselves of things that are barely even real. Don't give in please ❤️
@@miyako1909 Hi Miyako. No, you never be a burden to parent or anyone else. I used to have that kind of thought. It s a struggle to change this kind of mindset. Really. But I want to live a good live, I have to do something. What I did? Among other things : 1. Reduce my time on social media. 2. Whenever on social media, I avoid from reading negative news such divorce, break up, etc 3. I try to get close to God. I am a Muslim. So I tried to read more of the Quran and perform the solah (the 5 times obligatory prayers). I think this is the main thing that help keep me calm and control my temper. May Allah bless you, Miyako.
@@miyako1909 I can completely understand. I am on the same boat. I'm a caretaker for my disabled father and I do the same thing over and over again year after years with barely anyone to help. It's not an ideal situation to make friends or to have a job or to even have a partner but I keep on because I know that my father needs my help and I care deeply for ppl in general. Obviously, at times I can feel sad and depressed when I'm dealing with verbal punches from critical ppl on top of the daily care I provide.. but I always think, if I'm planning to die I mine as well use my energy to try to do something to improve myself even when I feel so stuck in life. At least if I can work on improving myself, eventually, I can position myself somehow in the future to help others when I become stronger in whatever way I think I can be. These are very lonely times for many ppl so my positive plans keep me going. Ppl set up negative plans for themselves because they feel so trapped. Write. Journal. Blog. Clear the mind and keep learning.
As a fan, it's truly heartbreaking that I can't do anything to stop him or make him feel better. I miss him but I just hope he's in a better place now. May he rest in peace.
His death is similar to Indian actor "Sushant Singh Rajput " .He too died on june14,2020 . Both of them have most beautiful smile.😭 I wish both of them get justice🙏❤️.
It hurts every time I hear that someone has taken their life. Maybe he didn't know it but he made a big positive impact on a lot of international fans and he will be missed. I just hope his loved ones and the people who were closest to him eventually find peace.
I hope Japan and other Countries who suffer from high suicide rates and depression will take this issue more seriously. It's saddening to see such young people result to taking their lives when they didn't even get to live fully. It's been a recurring issue for way too long now..
Dizzy 396 I sadly don’t think his death will be very impactful at spreading awareness on mental health. It’s something that has been happening for too long which is why it seems people deem it as normal when it isn’t. I can see the situation getting better in 10+ years but not now.
Same here. Haruma has always been one of my favorite actors. After I found out the news, I feel like a little piece of me broke inside. I think about him everyday ever since his passing. :(
Please, I know it's hard, but there are people out there who will listen and help you. If you feel that way, reach out and talk to someone. You are perfect, unique, and special, there is only one of you in the whole of the universe and you're precious. Treat yourself as though you are an irreplaceable treasure. Be kind to yourself and get help when you need it.
We Asians should start giving more attention to people with depression and stop acting like it’s not there. So many lives can be saved. Rest in peace Haruma Miura, from a Pakistani fan.
I'm Brazilian, sadly depression is a stigma anywhere, along with other mental conditions and even disabilities. I have suffered from mental health issues since childhood due to bullying and a less than ideal home life and I am disabled to boot. It's astonishing that people don't know that you can develop suicidal ideation even as a kid or teenager, and people don't take things seriously, they think it's either a cry for attention or even emotional manipulation when you tell them that you want to die.
Suicide is a huge issue that needs to be addressed within asain communities. Lots of celebrities and normal people are bullied daily. And no one speaks up, The stigma of everyone needing to look like a pop idol"if they don't measure up they are thrown to the wolves. STOP BULLYING
@@lalavio7031 I'm an Asian living in England, I went through a phase where I suffered from stress and depression, I had constant thought of killing myself. You know what the response was by the Asian community? 'It's all in your head' In the end I ignored their comments and went to see counselling, it helped me so much as I could finally tell someone how I was feeling.
@@larahennacroft I live in Ireland and thankfully we have mental health support that is being pushed heavily by our government even in schools we have classes that help us with mental health and other programs in school , I'm wondering if it's the same in England since we are not to far from there , and I hope that you you feel better now
@@Buccallmann456 Thank you :) honestly felt so much better because I bottled everything up, the fact I could tell a random person how I was feeling felt like a huge burden was off! Sometimes talking to someone helps more than taking medication. We do have mental health help but it's just not enough, everyone goes silent for a while till someone kills themselves cause they couldn't find help. More money needs to be pumped into mental health than anything else especially in schools. There needs to be more information out there for everyone no matter what your age or background is :( This year sucks for many people, mental health should be top priority! I'm a millennial but this is a message to the youngsters, do not give up, there is always hope, even if you flop an exam there are opportunities out there, don't hold anything inside. Live your life cause as you become older, you'll realise that all the things you worried about when you were a teenager was for no reason. I've been through it. I have hope for the next generation, we have some fantastic and brilliant kids. You guys are the future :)
Haruma Miura is my first Japanese actor crush. I like him since 2009. I cried when I heard the news about the suicide. And I don't even know about his scandal or anything! And I don't even know he get hate comments from Japanese people. His international fans love him a lot though, this is sad.
@@kavi1501 most actors and idols get scouted .. they go into it for the money and opportunity .. many are burden by it if they became famous and can't quit
@@kavi1501 I don't support them financially at all .. if I ever want to support idol I do it in non financial way like vote for them on awards and send them positive comments on their social media etc but I never spend any money on idols I know all money will go to their company not the artist .
I am Japanese and his fan. I have read almost all Japanese media articles about him. The information in this UA-cam comment contains just rumors, exaggerations, and fake news, so please don't believe everything. He didn't leave clear reason for suicide, and no one knows the reason, so various rumors are flowing. besides some information about his daily life is not true.
Agreed! There is this Japanese name "Mimi Desu" person commented as if she already knew everything and accusing his agency while even no one yet could figure it out. She is a Korean girl who is trying to become idol singing in Japanese. Did she failed their audition or what???
I was a fan of him since i was 14, now i'm 22 and the day i found out about his death i really can't believe it, i was so shocked and i cried so much, that day was rough And it was hard for me to accept the truth, I couldn't believe it. I couldn't stop watching all the news about him.... It is so sad that a beautiful person like him ends with his life like this... My beautiful boy, you gave your fans so much joy and happines and i really really wish that you now are happy and free. I'm sorry so much, your fans will remember you in his hearts. Love from Spain ❤
8:00 "So just like how you learn from when you were a child to not hurt others when talking to them in person, we should also learn not to hurt others online. I think unless everyone learns etiquette from childhood, people won't behave themselves online." I think this was underrated statement. People in the internet said mean thing and bully others online because they only brave enough to say those mean things online and hide themselves behind the phone or computer afterwards. They don't care, they're indifferent, and they basically forgot everything about respect and manners which they learn as a child from their parents and teachers. This is so unfortunate that internet has such system where we can hide from real world
People only reveal their true face on internet cause they know they don't have to deal with consequences of the effect of bullying they cause to others . In Real Life, if we bully other people, people would point their finger at the bully, you have to apologize, and even after that, the victim and the people you know, may change their view of you. That's why we learn etiquette, not saying brutally honest about our opinion in real life because it will damage the relationship, but it does not change the fact we individually have our own opinion that we keep to ourselves.
@@Elwen-xs7gr there is a difference between bullying and stating your opinion. You can state your opinion in a respectful way. Bullying is another matter. It is just being mean and disrespectful to another person. Actually this shows who you are as a person. A good person never bullies.
@@xhdhhdhdhd7136 nah, who cares about anyone life in internet, same as I don't do anything to your life and you don't know anything about me. most people is behaving like that on internet, just pay attention, from time to time observation, on différent social media, so before you point your fingers at me, remember there are possibly among 8 billions human out there who do the same. Go ahead think whatever you want, anything that makes you happy. It is none of my concern.
Please don't commit suicide. I survived seven attempts and I can proudly say I am glad I'm still alive, watching this with you all, and writing a book about my story... suicide is an evil impulse. Distract yourself, talk to a stranger if you have nobody. Strangers saved my life when my friends abandoned me when I became homeless... but now, I can't believe it, I finally live in a room of my own. Make others happy to feel happy yourself. Happiness is a big great contagious energy. Put yourself in their shoes, listen to them, try to help out, even just honest words do HELP... trust me.
exactly, best quote: if someone criticizes you, it's their opinion, not your fault/problem imp. note! remember that the biggest critic of yourself is you.
It depends on the criticism. If it's the constructive kind, one which asks you to reflect on your actions or words, then you will have to take responsibility to be better. But if it's the hateful kind of criticism--an insulting one, especially--then that's the only type that you must ignore.
@@amapiria true. problem is though, sometimes it's hard to tell if it's constructive or judgemental. everyone had a different perspective. that's why the most important step we must take FIRSTLY, is to KNOW ourselves and be HONEST with ourslves. the truth is what liberates us and brings inner peace and the right kind of confidence. beliefs are what take us to the path of conflict.
@@iolohammer how much time is needed to know ourselves? Especially if you suffer dépression From overthinking of your peer's opinion of you? Or you feel pressures because you don't even have the same path of life with your peer group?
@@Elwen-xs7gr knowing yourself really is like looking in the mirror, it's that easy to do. but if you're not used to it, or if you're afraid of what you may find, it may feel impossible. all I can say is that what you will find is beautiful in it's own way, doesn't matter how strange it seems at first, important thing is that when you are THAT, you finally feel like you're back in your own skin, and it's the most wonderful, fulfilling, inner-peace bringing feeling. (you probably felt like that sometimes in your life, you might've just not identified that with being you) when you are/stay in that spot, there will be a solution and a way for every problem. when you operate at your real level, life becomes... feasible, doable, nothing that seems too hard to do, because your motivation is ultimate. (it's usually outside opinions that dissuade us from being us, that's why it's important to be honest with oneself, that way, your confidence in yourself won't be shaken by anyone.) just remember that only you can understand you, because only you had the exact life path of you, so you are/have literally the solution to all your problems. That's why I say, outside opinion is only relevant to an extent (many times not at all) to you. It's important because then you have something to relate to, so you don't feel alone, floating in space, but you will do that for some time, until you find people that vibe with you 😊 make no mistake, the people in your life NOW, vibe with how you are NOW. when you become yourself, there's always gonna be loss. it is what it is. we have to learn to walk our path. it's ours to walk, and where we may go, some will not follow. so expect to lose friends maybe even family members. but you have to make a choice: you have this life, don't worry whether there's another before, another after.. you are here now. this is your life. do you live it for yourself or for others? 😊 answers will come when you expect them least, don't worry if you don't understand something right away. and remember, for every space in your life that becomes vacant, life finds a way to fill it again😉
Well, I would argue that this is rather circumstantial. If my best friend critized me for certain things I might have said or done wrong, I would of course listen and try to take 'respsonsibility' and think twice about doing the same thing in the future, for instance. If it's a stranger on the internet, it's an entirely different situation -- but again, that also depends on the context and on the behaviour of each party.
Koizora was his first movie that I watched and it has always been the most beautiful Japanese movie I’ve ever watched. His acting was extraordinary, I will never forget Miura Haruma, he’s the reason I have a dream to go to Japan and he’s always been the reason why I believe dream comes true. I studied Japanese for a while, went to Japan for a cultural exchange program and to think that I was living under the same sky with him was magical. ♥️Rest in Peace.
It completely exited my mind that Haruma Miura is no longer alive and I suddenly realized just now. Feels like when I first found out when it happened. His movies were my comfort zone during my difficult childhood. I always wished for someone to care for me like his characters did. I know that was just a role he played but how he played it helped me a lot. It hurts to know that this person who unknowingly helped me was hurting himself. Rest in Peace Haruma Miura. I'm sorry you were hurting.
Seeing actors who are talented, humble, popular and living with all the comforts taking their own lives is really shocking. Its is happening everywhere in hollywood, bollywood, K-industry, J-industry and etc. You know depression is a big problem when people who have all the things than anyone go this way. Edit:- I know materialistic pleasure is not everything. All I want to say is that behind glamour and light there is a dark and horrific world we dont know.
The unfortunate part is just because someone, anyone is successful doesn’t mean they’re happy. Insecurities exist in all of us, and talented people have It the hardest because they are their own critics compounded by their peers and society. People hurt people and that’s the unfortunate part of humanity.
He was so precious but, the light and sparkle in his eyes slowly faded away as years passed. Lately in his interviews, he looked really tired and stressed. May his beautiful soul rest in peace. 😭😭😭😭🙏
A week after his death, I still couldn't process that he's gone. I wish he was saved or someone could at least noticed what he has been through all this time. Haruma was one of my fave and the first japanese actor that I knew. Thanks to koizora, it lead me to the jdrama world. He was such a world class talent, no wonder why his popularity reach not just in Japan but all over the world. Sometimes, people tend to forget the celebrities are also fragile. I hope its an eye opener for everyone to actively talk about mental health. Its really sad that it took someone's death to realize how serious our mental health is.
I was heartbroken when I heard of his passing, he was the first Japanese actor I ever had a crush on and he was such a sweet and talented person. I can't imagine how much life had broken him down that he would take his own life. He deserved nothing but happiness. I'm still devastated over it.
Haruma Miura did not commit suicide! Because his management company announced there was no suicide note a month after he died. In Japan, if there was no suicide note, it would be treated as a suspicious death, and the mass media reported it as if there was a suicide note, but in the end it turned out to be a lie. And even though there was no suicide note, no autopsy was performed, and it was reported that he committed suicide 50 minutes after his death. His death is mysterious and his fans are working to request a reinvestigation to protect his honor and dignity. #Justice for Miura Haruma
got the notification, reads the title I'm not ready for this 😔 His death is so sudden. Those who were introduced to J-drama/movie thru Haruma and became his fans know how showcking and painful this is.
When the lady talked about her friend that passed away, I teared up because I myself was having a really bad night and I was just thinking really negatively of myself and wishing that I was gone because I felt like I was such an inconvenience but seeing how that woman was genuinely impacted by the loss of her friend really made me extremely emotional. Rest in Peace to Hamura Miurma and To that woman's friend.
Whatever happens, it's important to remember that our lives matter. I think the film 'It's A Wonderful Life' taught me this lesson better than anything else. We may think ourselves to be worthless and insignificant, however we don't really know what impact our lives have on others and what it would be like if we weren't here. It is excruciatingly painful to hear of these lethal decisions people make. We should all look carefully around us to see the beauty of this world and this life and take pleasure in small joys such as a walk with a friend, a day out in the nature... We should appreciate small pleasures and our lives in general. Let us all take care of ourselves, people close to us and those who we encounter.
Please stay strong. Don't wish for yourself to be gone but think that if you really had then what impact it would have on everything and everyone around you. Because you may know this or not *but you are loved and you matter* Stay strong, friend 💪
I study science, if you search depression brain, you will see that depression is a chemical unbalance in the brain. It is not your fault. It's like a sickness that needs to be treated by verbal therapy with a psychologist or medical treatment with a psychiatrist to restore the chemical balance in the brain. Please get the help that you need, you are amazing and needed.
Please stay strong and reach some help if you need it. You're worth the life, you'll be better. It's always heart breaking to hear someone took his/her life, even when I don't know them. Please remember you're loved, we love you
Thank you very much for covering this news: I’ve been a fan of Miura Haruma since my teenage years, as we are practically the same age it felt like I watch him grew through his series/movies and always find his work to be of comfort, he had such a honest and warm smile. I’ve also struggled with depression/anxiety so the fact that he committed suicide felt even more personal and upsetting for me. If anyone reading this is struggling with mental health issues please, please there’s help out there you just have to reach out and I promise it will get better, you are never alone. Rest in peace, Miura Haruma you’ll be dearly missed.
Genuinely upset by his passing. He was a phenomenal actor, and from what I've heard a genuine and kind human being. Yet mental health is a major issue many people overlook, especially in the entertainment industry, and we'll never really know what demons plague others beneath the surface. This is especially true for all those actors and entertainers whose lives have been cut short. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.
the resilt of most of us killing ourself each time i feel like it's because people refuses to tie our hands together, it's far beyond repair tbh. we see humanity crumble each day, it's about time tbh. even in trying times, most of us only think about ourself, and i'm also guilty for it too. BUT we can do something about it, but only by our own self for our own self, is to : take care of ourself, love ourself more, and find friends we can relate with till we die, it's about quality NOT quantity
This is so sad. I remember in college watching all his Jdramas and thinking how cool it would be to meet him someday. He always appeared laid back and dreamy. He’s only a year younger than myself. May he Rip
Just having bad parents can make your world turn up-side-down, their supposed to be the closest person that can support you on your hard times. Being them the reason of the problem gets it harder to face it. Home itself can be a place for healing, if not it can be one that is your heaviest problem. People need to strengthen their family ties first especially parents to their children.
13:56 I cried too. To every single soul whos suffering from mental health, my thoughts with you guys. You're not alone & theres always someone who care deeply about you. Stay strong, embrace yourself & lets spread positivity & love
It's the way you speak about it that shows how far Japan has to go. If you can't feel empathy and think "I feel terrible when someone does that to me, so I will not do that to anyone else" you will never ever sort this Your comment shows what a stretch it is for Japanese people to put them selves in others shoes. You talk about it like the rest of the world talks about COVID 19, as if it were "other" rather than something that is inherent in your society.
Sometimes when we offer help people just push us away, lol how can i take this seriously, i do my best to listen and just listen i don't even give a shot to advise them afraid that it'd make it worse. But when I offer my ear, they just pushed me away like that, i've given up on helping🤷
I’m still in shock over his death. He was one of the few actors who I followed closely and it hurts knowing he was suffering so much. The opinion on seeing a therapist around the 11:00 is good to hear. Where I live it used to be pretty stigmatized, and still is a little bit, but it’s much better now than before. So there is hope! Hopefully everyone can treat each other kinder and those who need help can get it.
fck i still feel like crying reading this news. I’m truly gonna miss his beautiful smile. He’s one of the reasons i watched dorama in the first place 😭😭😭
@@Elwen-xs7gr I know life must go on but for some of his fans is really hard to overcome his death, I still cry and I can't stop no matter how hard I try.
I was shocked and devastated when I first found out about his died, then I looked up it was suicide. I can't believe that he would leave the world by that way. He was my favourite actor , his smile was such a heart warming. I miss him so much, Rest in peace.
I remember him as an underrated child actor. He superbly portrayed the 15 years old teenager, dealing with adult' s ignorance and hypocisy: wanting a boy to act like a man but denied every opportunity to be one, was told to study and lambasted for not dealing with hardships. He became a good actor, rared one who can portrayed strong internal feelings without excessiveness physical reactions. Sad to hear him killed himself, it made looking back at his characters in a new sadder light.
Fruity Juditty the thing is..he didn’t want to...his trap was that image of success and being handsome..- a person you wouldn’t expect to be so trapped..it’s really sad.
same, he’s really passionated about acting, he even played a female role in a musical. I’m not a huge fan, but from years of following him on ins, I feel he’s always try to improve himself even after all the awards he got. He also posted food pics and other pics about his daily life, seems like a warm person. So I couldn’t believe he chose to end his own life...I knew him when I was a sophomore in high school from the drama bloody Monday. It’s been 10 years...Please Rest In Peace Haruma kun
Him and Takeru Satoh were pretty much the darlings of Amuse (their talent agency). I used to watch the annual Super Handsome Live events with both of them. Haruma just seemed like a happy person. But his death goes to show that people with depression can put on a happy facade.
"It seemed like he had the perfect life." --- only shows that we can and will never know what a person is going through with just the interior that we see or believe to see. We're all humans after all. I still cry every time I'm reminded Miura is gone... I pray that nobody will have to go through this ever again in their own life... there is more to life.
A lot of times, the warning signs of poor mental health can be invisible or hidden. It's important for us to take steps to destigmatize mental illness so people can get the help they need, because it is real, it is present, and it needs to be addressed and treated accordingly. Though I don't know much about him, Miura must have been a great man. I hope he rests in peace.
This is so devastating :( I'm a fan of his and met him in person at a restaurant I worked at one year, about 3 years ago. He was very affable, and had a relaxed energy about him without pretenses. I read that he was hindered by personal issues and displayed depressive thoughts even in his letter from ten years ago. Wish he had help and pursued interests he really wanted to. I think his professionalism and tatemae hindered him from expressing his burdens. Hope you're more free in another life..
man, i swear asian mentalities are the most toxic to one's self. i say this because as a chinese-american, i was raised in a very "rational" household. i suffered from depression in my early teens lasting until just recently. the idea of talking to others about their problems are often looked with disregard or belittling. the only thing we get from sharing our problems is shame. i remember the first time i tried to share my problems, my older brother immediately said "why are you sad though? you live in a house, you have a loving family. there's absolutely no reason for you to feel this way." almost as if i've offended him by saying i was depressed. so i'm not surprised when a few people from the video said they felt like they were bothering others if they ever had the chance to share their emotions. japan is only nice at face value, but underneath, they're just like any other human being.
Your brother's telling you that, probably because he wants you to feel grateful. Be cautious, when you're sad. Your mind becomes really pessimistic it kills every happiness you could ever grasped.
I can feel you... i used to share my problems with my family but 99% of their answers don't help comforting me and make me more depressed until i closed my heart completely from my family and my friends because no one understand my feelings... i'm struggling in this war alone and i hope i can be strong until the end.
What your brother said is honest and true. It's exactly why we always suggest people to talk to others when they're depressed. It opens your mind and widen your eyes. You may not like what you hear but that's what you need to learn, ie. that's a lotta version of the world, only you can decide which one you live in. He was just reminding you to focus on what you have already and not what you want to have. People can say tons of things to comfort you, but that's for the ears only, it means nothing. You feel good in this moment, nice, but what about tomorrow? next week? next month? Comforting doesn't help you get out of depression. Honest opinion does. I don't know what's the issue that's troubling you. NO ONE can help you but yourself. Get up, pin point the issue, get a solution. Every problem has a solution. Solution means nothing if you don't act. I spent 20+ years change my life. I failed, fell back in the hole, many times, got back up, then tried again. It still suck in a way, but I'm in a much better place than before, and I'm proud of myself coz I did this all by myself. Like in the video, 10 people has 10 different life. Don't expect others to understand you, no matter how good they're as a listener, how compassionate they are, they can empathize, but they don't feel or understand your struggles. And most of all, it has nothing to do with your family is Asian or not. They don't say something you like to hear, so they're evil? Your brother's opinion is truly gold. You owe him a thank you actually.
This spoke volume! ✊🏻👍🏻 It's either "you should be thankful for having a roof on your head and 3 meals to eat" or " it's just a phase, you'll get over it" or " What didn't we give you for you to feel like this?" I don't understand how others could belittle others' emotions so simply. ☹️ I wish people would understand that it's not that we're not grateful or we're greedy or we're going thru a phase. I hope they'd understand that we're not always in control of what we feel. And it's almost inevitable to stop whatever it is you're feeling once it hits you. Praying that God keep us all safe, from this virus, and from our own bad thoughts.
What they don't realize by saying "you should be grateful" is that we really truly are grateful even to the point of thinking ourselves to be undeserving of everything. We feel like we are even wasting the little air we are breathing. Depression makes us feel like trash on the surface of the earth. A failure, burdening even God with our very meaningless existence. Thats how dark it is but the horrible part is that no one understands.
It seems to me that in parts of Asia like South Korea and Japan, young and big name celebrity actors and singers seem to commit suicide, while in the U.S. it seems more like those who commit suicide are social media 'celebrities (UA-cam, Instagram, etc.).
Brenda s a agree with you. Sometimes people being ignorant. Like everyone is different they are them not you. Sadly i still hear this comment to . Sadly....
Last year I lost a friend to suicide and let me say it is one of the most hardest things that I ever had to to experience in my life. I'll never forget him cuz he was a dear friend. When he died a piece of my heart died too.
This is why it’s so important to speak up about mental health and the impact of social media especially now while most of us work from home and are online most of the time. I really hope haruma miura finds peace and may we never forget him. Stay strong everyone ❤️
11:19 Believe me, as an American, in the United States there still is very much a stigma if it’s known you’re seeing a therapist and/or seeing a psychiatrist for anti-depressants. People can be so dismissive of another person’s pain that they personally haven’t experienced. If there are any cultures that make it easy to openly talk about struggles with depression without judgment, I haven’t heard of them.
多分外国人のオーデｨエンストに教えたかったら、英語使ったほうが良いと思います。大体のAsia Bossのオーデイエンストは日本語が分からないかもしれないです！ 翻訳: (translation of the above comment) Please do not assume that the cause of suicide was online bullying, since there is no source that reports that information. There’s a lot of times where you can’t trust this channel because of incidents like this video.
His passing REALLY saddened me... he was the only Japanese actor I truly admired. No ones life is perfect, and everyone is struggling w something inside 😔💔 Please be kind to one another. We’re all just trying to make it day by day.
It's so sad, really. Miura is such a talented and sweet person. But this is how life is, unfair. Rest in peace, Miura-san, thank you for everything you have given us until now.
I think it's stretching it a bit when the girl said that he killed himself after he defended Higashide. There's something more personal that happened and only the dead knows what it is
@@kayann3 apparently a group of people misunderstood and took one of his tweets back then in January 2020 as defending Higashide. He was attacked mostly now due to his appearance as main in NHK Taiyouko and his eagerness to promote Japan per its prefecture through his Made In Japan book. People accuse him being neo-left wing nationalist and that also hurts him.
@@cassiopeiajakarta Thanks for responding. I tried googling about him allegedly defending Higashide last week but I couldn't find any related article. So it was just speculation? What's Taiyouko? I was aware of that book because I follow him on IG. I honestly thought good about it cos he was promoting Japan??? Can you expound on it further please? Thank you
Dallas Texas here...Even tho I'm 62 years old I watch asian dramas 24/7...Jdramas Kdramas..Taiwanese dramas and mainland Chinese dramas. I've watched so many of his dramas that I feel like I've watched him grow up on screen. When it popped up as breaking news on you-tube...My heart sank. I follow him on Instagram as my favorite Jdrama actor and noticed lately he looked a little tired looking in the eyes. I was waiting to hear news of him marrying some day...but I never expected to hear something like this. He was really just a baby to me. Younger than both my girls. Looking over his shows and movie list..I don't see a break..since he was a kid. Could he have been over worked?
@@pamelabustos8693 Everybody noticed that he has been tired.. the actors are always over worked..he also had an album release in July and he had to promote it...I am reading comments that he wanted to quit acting at 20 but his mother wanted him to continue acting ..He wanted to live in a village and do farming
@@kavi1501 wow really? I imagine Haruma living simply in a village, farming and genuinely happy. Then that made me like him even more because he was a simple person.
@@rusukebordones Haruma would have been a handsome,smiling , kind farmer isn't it? Yes,he mentioned about farming and didn't like media attention..In 2017 he went to study English at London , but his agency called him back saying it was a waste of time and his roommate saw him crying..He studied only for 3 months and talked about a lot with his Chinese roommate......He wanted a simple life which he couldn't have..
I used to watch his movies when i was just a child, i just thought of checking up who are the top actors in Japan in 2023, on not finding his name on the list i was confused. Is disheartening i am just finding it now, he was such a good actor, i remember the dialogues he said, they were touching. Hope he is resting in peace now ❤
11:18 Even as an American, I still feel embarrassed to talk about seeing a therapist or taking medication for depression. If I told my family members they would tell me "it's all in my head", "just deal with it" or something like that. In general, the world has dealt with mental illness poorly and more needs to be done to address these issues. Also, if you're struggling with mental health issues, I just want to tell you that I also struggle and I understand your pain and I can't guarantee that everything will be better, but I can confidently say that life will get better for you
He's probably not living the life he wants, but it would cost too much (mostly other people's expectations) for him to break free, and he ran out of hope. It's sad. Let's pray for his beautiful soul to find the happiness he truly deserves.💗
His death was a big punch in the gut for me. I cried the week straight, I'm not even exaggerating. To think about in how much pain he was in breaks my heart. Now I'm trying to distract myself by studying mental health. I want to be able to help my loved ones if they ever be in the same place.
This is so unexpected, Miura's one of my favorite Japanese actors. I know how suffocating the Japanese entertainment industry can be but Miura just had this bright personality... Hopefully this incident will make fans remember how idols are human too, and that the heads will reevaluate their strict rules. This is why I haven't been keeping up with interviews cuz' it hurts to hear about fan letters and management problems.
I talked to a random Japanese person on twt 1 yr ago after finding the same interest on a twt post. We talked for hours until we talked about the plans you want to do in the future but strangely his/her plans stopped after working a year in a company. When I asked him/her why she/he just plans to work for a year.. I thought that person is just planning to have a vacation that's why but he/she told me she just wanted to live only until 32 years old. I didn't know a certain people think like that. When I asked why she/he said he/she just wanted to finish education and work for a year then take his/her own life. Never in my life did I know someone who talks so casually when talking about taking their lives, so I was stunned. I tried talking and persuading him/her but he/she said that's what he/she really wants. As a Asian myself, suicide is really common nowadays and I always take it very seriously. So I tried talking to him/her about it everyday until one day he/she deactivated his/her account. I wonder where that person is or if that person's doing good. I hope that person's still striving tho..
I am impressed with the questions asked by the interviewer, very thoughtful and relevant and important. I agree that you need to talk to someone about your struggles, but don't just talk to anyone. It has to be someone compassionate, trustworthy and caring. So PLEASE make one or more friends or mentors like that if you can't count on your family.
I cannot believe this. I remember the first time I watched Koizora, "Sky of Love", 5 years ago. I remember thinking, "Omg, this is just a movie. This beautiful human being did not actually die." Fast forward to Godforsaken 2020. This is just heartbreaking. I love you, Haruma Miura. Rest in peace, beautiful soul. ❤️
@@hshahahah2819 Even if the suicide methods were different, suicide is still suicide and mental health issue is still mental health issue and that was the point.
When I heard the news from a friend I cried on and off for 3 days. He was on of my favorite actors. I just keep thinking about his powerful performance in the drama The Hours of My Life. It's deeply sad to lose him. It's heart breaking.
Thank you for making such a beautiful video about such a difficult issue. It's inspired me to do something to help people who have mental health issues here in Japan. Thank you Asian Boss! ♡
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Suicide rates In Japan just keep increasing each day.
Similar thing happened in India, a famous actor in Bollywood killed himself, google sushant Singh rajput. The whole nation was shocked.
A very famous actor in India also committed suicide on 15 june due to mental health issues...his name was Sushant Singh Rajput....if you can make video on that
@@JD-kp6pt The absence of value and purpose does not imply suicide as a consequent response. Understand some To make the bandwagon fallacy generalizing the experience of the poor is condescending and works against your posit on nihilism, because if all experience is senseless then even suffering shouldn't make a difference, no? The illogical leap to assisted suicide is an ode to uncritical thought. I support the right of anyone to end their life but this is not the intellectual argument for it.
Sometime the famous one are more stress then the normal people. Just let it go and don't think so much and you think also won't change anything might as well don't think right.
His parents divorced when he was young. He only met his biological father a few times. His mother is part of a cult and has immensely large debts. He has been forced to pay off his crazy mother's debt. What's worse, is his agency takes 60% of all of his salary. He said on articles and shows "even though I work so hard, why don't I have any money." He lived in a 1DK tiny apartment. He wanted to quit the disgusting Japanese entertainment industry when he was in his young 20s, and went abroad to London to study English. But his agency AMUSE called him saying "come back to Japan and work. Studying English is a waste of time."
He seemed like such a good person and pure. It's so so sad that he was crushed by awful people.
Yeah I did see that as well...really sad...😞😞😞😭😭😭
Similar happens in my country
Sushant Singh is great actor as Haruma Muira
Some say it was sucide but there is no sucide letter to prove that.
Some speculated that it is murder by someone from Bollywood industry
Where there is only one problem? It is Nepotism and it means those who parents have been great or famous actors they will get respect in film industry while others who are newcomer to films industry and have no experience with film industry they will have the same respect as them get
But Sushant Singh was talented and great actor some are envy of him from actor and actress of the same industry.
Rest in peace Sushant Singh and you will get justice.
What cult? Can you elaborate please?
@@Afternoonsun-c9y Japan has many religious groups that are cult. They lure people to join them so they can take advantage of you like money for example. So be aware of strangers approaching you on the street in Japan cause they might be part of a cult. They even come to your house and want to have a chit chat with you at your home.
This is so sad omg😭
He was so sweet and talented, his smile is the most beautifully I've seen, May he rest in peace.
I would've of told him that we we're in this SHIII hole together... until we die old and not soon but it's to late fo me to save soul like someone saved mine😔
Totally agree hes was so nice
Let's remembering his beautiful smile forever
Mr. Spy I think that wouldn’t have helped...he wanted a regular life that wasn’t under a microscope..he wanted to be a farmer from what I heard..
Yes. I will always remember his beautiful smile.
It's sad that many people fail to see that celebrities are humans too.
It's stupid actually, what makes them any less human? Just because people have never met them and know their names and nothing else? I think people should stop being referred to as idols or celebrities, they are simply people known by many for their line of work, it's just that, nothing more, they are as much strangers as anyone else we walk past on the street.
yep and part of it is because the celebs are always "on" when they are knowingly in public. Always looking good, talking good, etc. They spend so much time brightening up other folks day yet who is brightening theirs?
Few months ago, Kimura Hana who starred in Terrace House(famous Japanese Netflix reality show) also committed suicide because of hate comments and threats on her social media.
Soooo true, the STRESS OF MEETING EVERYONE'S EXPECTATION AND THEN TO BE ATTACKED BY THE VERY PEOPLE WHO ARE SUPPOSE TO BE FANS...CELEBRITIES ARE BULLIED CONSTANTLY AND ITS NOT FAIR...😭 ACTING, SINGING, MODELING ETC., IS THEIR JOB, NOT THEIR LIFE! THEY HAVE LIVES OUTSIDE IF THEIR JOB AND LIKE US THEY ARE NOT PERFECT...THEY'RE HUMAN LIKE US
@UCEP-ZPtov2_kE1VwOqa_XzQ not just japan and Korea, twitter especially is toxic everywhere for any kind of celebrity or famous person, this is why some celebrities from around the world refuse to use it or deleted it their accounts after getting unwarranted hate, it sucks really
"I think people should simply understand that 10 people have 10 different ways of life". I love that lady's comment. My heart still aches for Haruma, some days I think about it and still can't completely process that its real, he's gone, it really happened. He was so beautiful and the most talented actor, he was my favourite actor. He always will be. I wish he had the help he obviously needed. We won't forget you Haruma.
What does his beauty have to do with anything? If he were ugly would his suicide be less sad? 🙄🙄
the wasp woman what the hell is wrong with you? Just because he was beautiful doesn’t make his death more upsetting. People loved him for his talent! People loved him for being the kind-hearted man he was. Of course, he had a handsome face, but his looks were nothing compared to him himself. I’m honestly upset that you had to even ask that.
@@pagethreemodel the term beautiful here doesn't necessarily mean his look. I think the writer want to say that Haruma as a person is beautiful, as in inner beauty.
You took those words out of my mouth. I’m still so upset 😢😢😢 poor Haruma
she was about to cry after she spoke in that fragment...
Japanese people are so focused on 'to not cause trouble to others' that they end up neglecting their own self. Too much humbleness can be fatal as well.
such a stereotype
If you’re not Japanese you cannot say this
@@hsun7997 What they said is very true. You don't have to be Japanese to observe a very obvious trend. If you do even a little bit of research into Japanese culture, you'll see that they often go overboard when trying not to inconvenience or say no to others. Overtime is an actual cause of death for office workers for this very reason. Japan, as a country, uses less paid vacation than most other countries in the world, again, for the same reason. It's definitely a problem.
dude, if ur not japanese or lived in japan how tf u know dumbas. In the video clearly said he was getting hate comments so not to "to not cause trouble to others'"
@@seraph4463, you may be right
The lady who talked about how her friend died is so cool and brave like you can see that her friend's death changed her.
that sounds mess up but I know its not....."about her friend died is so cool"
@@thetallcroaky Yes, sorry my english is not the best. I wanted people to know who I was referring to and that was the only way I found, my bad.
could hear the pain in her voice, I don’t even speak Japanese
L Y N X she’s crying too
It’s great to hear her story. She reminds us that people do care, even if many others do not know how to show it. Suicide is never the answer. I hope she’s doing well and is happy.
The woman sharing the story of her friend who ended up leaving this world at only 19 broke my heart. And you can see how much this young woman cared about that friend and still is affected by this until today. For everyone going through a hard time, there is someone out there who will listen to you, who will care for you. You are loved and appreciated. Don't ever think otherwise.
She knew she was blessed with a good friend but I also think she knew she could no longer suppress her stress and was at her limit. She came to see her good friend for the last time.
@LosN Found That's probably true. I had similar experience. My classmate committed suicide. He's not close friend with me but he reached out to me and I felt I hadn't been patient and nice enough for him, and felt slightly guilty of his death.
@@mangos1346 ❤❤❤🙏
My friend committed suicide two years ago. I tried to be there for her. She always had my support. She used to be the one who always brightened my mood. She had so many wise things to say. I carry them with me. ❤️ I tried to be the same for her. I told her how special she was. It broke my heart when she decided to leave this world and her two young daughters. She was the same age as Haruma Miura. 😢
@@Legendgirl76 omg!! 😞😞😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
The woman, dressing up in all black and wearing the necklace, is very smart. She knows it won't stop if its on TV. A lot of her answers are very open-minded and gives good advice.
I thought the same, she’s great at wording her opinion with an open mind and wide view of things. I liked her 👍🏻
I felt the same.
It's really attractive when a woman is open-minded and articulate
there are at least 3 women in the video dressed in all black
@@turbo6266 confused too ahaha
That woman who's her college friend took suicide, is really kind hearted woman.. she really is.. and she sincerely care about this issue too
lol
@@mefirst7285 ?
@@mefirst7285 what's so funny?
@@mefirst7285 Um excuse me, but do you know what lol means? Cause it means laughing out loud.. And this isn't something to laugh about y'know.
She made me burst into tears...
"10 different persons would have 10 different ways of life, others have to understand that." greatest advice ever !!!
As a haruma's international fan i realy want to thank asian boss for doing this interview.
We don't know anything about his real character or his real life for surely .but he seemd like unassuming person & i really liked to see his smile.haruma's & shinee's jonghyun's deaths really convulsed me.
Same. These two were the only time I cried for a celebrity's death as an adult. Especially knowing how bad their pain must had been to commit suicide.
@Munia Sulli too, she was killed by Korean netizens. People need to put themselves in other people's shoes.
As a fan from Canada, I first saw Haruma-san in Gokusen 3. I instantly became a fan. My favorite was Bloody Monday, but there was a few of my favorite actors in that show.
I am very saddened by his passing. My only hope is that this may open the door further to address mental health in Japan. ❤
@@ouroboros1895 omg bloody monday. He looks so young and innocent there.
I think he was just too pure and fragile to survive in that industry. I really wish he is in a better place now....
The "don't worry about your mental health" mentality really needs to change
Yeah Japanese people need balance in their life. Working really hard for what? If there is no enjoyment in life, why work so hard? Right? There should be a balance not too lazy like poor countries but not to ahead of your well-being
@@rodrozil6544 In India, one of the most beloved young actor also committed suicide. I don't know why young, talented actors are committing suicide in Asia only.
@@litzadey1482 it's been happening long ago in west then east began to catch up. Linkin park member Chester sucide was shock for fans
@@rodrozil6544 But he was struggling with mental health for long. People knew about it. In the east, these young actors die suddenly. They look happy and pristine with no record of any drug, alcohol abuse or detachment from any family members or friends.
Also, I was 17 when Chester died. I was traumatized for a whole month. I cried a lot. He meant a lot to me growing up.
It will take time for them to really evolve
I've been binge watching everything related to Haruma Miura. He was ridiculously handsome, but still so humble. He worked hard at his profession and even acted in stage plays. He had such a beautiful smile. May he rest in peace.
This case is similar to the passing away of Indian actor Sushant Singh Rajput.
RIP 🙏
ऊँ शांति
@@Tanya-ob5tb Yes, I know about Susant Singh. I have watched his movies. It was very sad that we lost two great actors at such a young age to suicide.
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@@Tanya-ob5tb Omg.. I didn't know. Why are we losing so much people this year..... SOCIETY needs to change... This is awful😶😑😐
@@हानासुगिसाकी sushant was murdered. Not officially declared but the evidence say so.
When they talked about how they don't talk about their mental health and problems it reminded me of a very old video. This American guy went to Japan and he worked or just went to an English Cafe. It was for Japanese to practice their English. He said that the hardest part was that many Japanese would share their deepest struggles and problems to him. That many would go there to have someone to talk to, not specifically to practice their English. Because Japanese knew that Americans are more open about talking about those things. The guy had a good heart because he was concerned that he couldn't help them because he is not a therapist. I don't remember the blogger, and the video is probably more than 10 years old. But things haven't changed in 10 yrs. I am sad that my fav Japanese actor and celebrity crush suffered a lot.
It's even worst in Korea were image is everything.
@@harryroger1739 i don;t think its a competition I think it is equally horrible: both unnecessary: image fades, opinions are intangible.
That guy was worried that he couldn't help because he is not a therapist.
I think that he helped more than he believed, simply by being willing to listen to them. Sometimes the hardest thing is simply telling someone how you feel, and once you've managed to open up to one person it then becomes easier to change how you're viewing your problems, and it becomes easier to open up to someone else.
@@katiegittins2566 That's why it's soo unhealthy to have a culture where you don't talk about your problems, as you said, when you do talk to someone, you can almost hear your problems a little differently when you say them out loud to someone than when they're just rolling around in your head, so it often doesn't even matter if you get good advice or not.
This is so true. I worked at an English Cafe few years back in South Korea. Some of them came there to indeed practice their English, brought their homework with them and so on. However, I found a lot of 'students' mostly the older ones are there to talk about their family, their work, and just a day to day life in general. One of them who really left impression on me is a lady in her 50s, she has two daughter and both of them currently in the US to study. Her husband is a CEO of a big company in Korea and although she seems very sweet, it is clear that she is lonely and needed someone to talk to.
" _To myself 10 years from now, are u spending your day happily? Are you holding onto your precious thing? If you turn out to be a person accomplished everything in the best way, i will be happy for you. Please be a great person_ "
*Haruma Miura*
Did he really write this? Or was it a dialogue from one of his films? 😞
@@cherrybanilla he really wrote it when he was 20, he took his life at 30
@@HIMHIM_0 damn... T.T
@@cherrybanilla "Dear everyone 10 years in the future,
How are you all doing? Are you still friends ten years from now? Do you still laugh together?
Do you have fun everyday? What am I doing at the moment, 10 years from now?
Am I still playing soccer? Am I married to Naho?
Am I truly living every single day?"
This is from an anime, Orange, in 2016. It's about a boy about to commit suicide. That just reminded me of an anime
@@cherrybanilla Haruma Miura's parentds were divorced just like the main character of this anime, Orange. They look similar too but this is years before his death
That women who’s friend died probably thought her death would be forgotten. Maybe she said things to herself like “I’m such a burden for making her worry about me. She lets me borrow her notes but I don’t do anything for her. She’d be better off without me.” Yet all these years later, you can see the effect losing her friend has had. If you have these kinds of thoughts, please remember that the pain of your passing won’t go away with time, and choose to ask for help instead.
I never thought about lending a book could make it even worst. But after i read this i realized that someone that has depression really could think differently.
As someone who has depression, I can tell you that the way we think is different. I am haunted by the thoughts that when I die, the burden on my family will be lessen, or that no one cares whether I live or die. I just feel like except my parents, no one cares about me. I don't have friend and I can't share my thought with anyone since my parents don't believe in mental illness.
@@miyako1909 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. This sounds so hard to do, especially alone. I hope you'll please remember that whatever you're feeling is valid and that you are not a burden. Sometimes we can argue w/ ourselves and convince ourselves of things that are barely even real. Don't give in please ❤️
@@miyako1909 Hi Miyako. No, you never be a burden to parent or anyone else. I used to have that kind of thought. It s a struggle to change this kind of mindset. Really. But I want to live a good live, I have to do something. What I did? Among other things :
1. Reduce my time on social media.
2. Whenever on social media, I avoid from reading negative news such divorce, break up, etc
3. I try to get close to God. I am a Muslim. So I tried to read more of the Quran and perform the solah (the 5 times obligatory prayers). I think this is the main thing that help keep me calm and control my temper.
May Allah bless you, Miyako.
@@miyako1909 I can completely understand. I am on the same boat. I'm a caretaker for my disabled father and I do the same thing over and over again year after years with barely anyone to help. It's not an ideal situation to make friends or to have a job or to even have a partner but I keep on because I know that my father needs my help and I care deeply for ppl in general. Obviously, at times I can feel sad and depressed when I'm dealing with verbal punches from critical ppl on top of the daily care I provide.. but I always think, if I'm planning to die I mine as well use my energy to try to do something to improve myself even when I feel so stuck in life. At least if I can work on improving myself, eventually, I can position myself somehow in the future to help others when I become stronger in whatever way I think I can be. These are very lonely times for many ppl so my positive plans keep me going. Ppl set up negative plans for themselves because they feel so trapped. Write. Journal. Blog. Clear the mind and keep learning.
As a fan, it's truly heartbreaking that I can't do anything to stop him or make him feel better. I miss him but I just hope he's in a better place now. May he rest in peace.
It was said that it's not actually suicide, is that true?
Es segar well apparently he hung himself :(
The women in the black dresses / black clothing, I really appreciated the way they responded.
Mohammad Muslim Bin Al-Fajar ok lol
Agreed, she really knew what she was talking about
3 girls wearing black clothing in this video which one are u Talking about ???
@@vitadude5004 I believe that they meant the ones who were being interviewed together
@@vitadude5004 lol, was going to comment that
This is very sad. He was at his peak of his career.
@@ThefattestCatOnMars He was. He had so many project lined up. A new tv show, a movie, a new song AND a musical.
@@ThefattestCatOnMars his latest song is an absolute banger.
he was already famous wayy too famous
He was at the peak of his LIFE.
Screw his career, it probably threw him over the edge
thats not why its sad
His death is similar to Indian actor "Sushant Singh Rajput " .He too died on june14,2020 . Both of them have most beautiful smile.😭 I wish both of them get justice🙏❤️.
😢
@POONAM PAWAR the fact that he did a movie to say that no one should commit suicide and do the same thing in a few months is something weird too,
It hurts every time I hear that someone has taken their life. Maybe he didn't know it but he made a big positive impact on a lot of international fans and he will be missed. I just hope his loved ones and the people who were closest to him eventually find peace.
I hope Japan and other Countries who suffer from high suicide rates and depression will take this issue more seriously. It's saddening to see such young people result to taking their lives when they didn't even get to live fully. It's been a recurring issue for way too long now..
Dizzy 396 I sadly don’t think his death will be very impactful at spreading awareness on mental health. It’s something that has been happening for too long which is why it seems people deem it as normal when it isn’t. I can see the situation getting better in 10+ years but not now.
No one has a perfect life, especially for people who live with the pressure of living under the spotlight.
His suicide affected me more than I thought it would. This hurts me so bad. RIP beautiful haruma
Me too. Probably, because of I watch most of his drama and movie. I also think he was always breathtakingly handsome.
Same here. Haruma has always been one of my favorite actors. After I found out the news, I feel like a little piece of me broke inside. I think about him everyday ever since his passing. :(
I am a fan and it´s sad that he passed away by this form, I hope we can understand it. Rest in Peace lovely Haruma....
I couldn’t cry when I saw the news. I think I’m still in denial.
It hurts even more when you hear about people taking their own lives when yourself have considered it so many times.
That's empathy my dear. Use that skill set wisely.
Or tried..
Please, I know it's hard, but there are people out there who will listen and help you. If you feel that way, reach out and talk to someone. You are perfect, unique, and special, there is only one of you in the whole of the universe and you're precious. Treat yourself as though you are an irreplaceable treasure. Be kind to yourself and get help when you need it.
Your wrong some people don’t care and end up making the situation worse. That is what has happened to me,
Don't give up hope I know you will find something soon enough!!
We Asians should start giving more attention to people with depression and stop acting like it’s not there. So many lives can be saved. Rest in peace Haruma Miura, from a Pakistani fan.
I'm Brazilian, sadly depression is a stigma anywhere, along with other mental conditions and even disabilities. I have suffered from mental health issues since childhood due to bullying and a less than ideal home life and I am disabled to boot. It's astonishing that people don't know that you can develop suicidal ideation even as a kid or teenager, and people don't take things seriously, they think it's either a cry for attention or even emotional manipulation when you tell them that you want to die.
Suicide is a huge issue that needs to be addressed within asain communities. Lots of celebrities and normal people are bullied daily. And no one speaks up, The stigma of everyone needing to look like a pop idol"if they don't measure up they are thrown to the wolves. STOP BULLYING
@@lalavio7031 I'm an Asian living in England, I went through a phase where I suffered from stress and depression, I had constant thought of killing myself. You know what the response was by the Asian community?
'It's all in your head'
In the end I ignored their comments and went to see counselling, it helped me so much as I could finally tell someone how I was feeling.
@@larahennacroft I live in Ireland and thankfully we have mental health support that is being pushed heavily by our government even in schools we have classes that help us with mental health and other programs in school , I'm wondering if it's the same in England since we are not to far from there , and I hope that you you feel better now
@@Buccallmann456 Thank you :) honestly felt so much better because I bottled everything up, the fact I could tell a random person how I was feeling felt like a huge burden was off! Sometimes talking to someone helps more than taking medication.
We do have mental health help but it's just not enough, everyone goes silent for a while till someone kills themselves cause they couldn't find help. More money needs to be pumped into mental health than anything else especially in schools. There needs to be more information out there for everyone no matter what your age or background is :( This year sucks for many people, mental health should be top priority!
I'm a millennial but this is a message to the youngsters, do not give up, there is always hope, even if you flop an exam there are opportunities out there, don't hold anything inside. Live your life cause as you become older, you'll realise that all the things you worried about when you were a teenager was for no reason. I've been through it. I have hope for the next generation, we have some fantastic and brilliant kids. You guys are the future :)
I admire Asian Boss for keeping it Honest and bringing more awareness/education on a global level.
I am surprised to hear this. He is one of Japanese actors that I recognized as a foreigner. That itself already speaks for how much popular he was.
The only japaneese actor i know
He really is. I’m really sad to hear of his passing.
@@foreverwithme6230 I really want to watch his movies. Can anyone recommend some?
@@foreverwithme6230 is it available on Netflix? Or do you know any platform where I can watch ?
@@rujutatamhankar928 watch his drama the hours of my life. It's really beautiful
Haruma Miura is my first Japanese actor crush. I like him since 2009. I cried when I heard the news about the suicide. And I don't even know about his scandal or anything! And I don't even know he get hate comments from Japanese people. His international fans love him a lot though, this is sad.
Its sad to know that he didn't enjoy acting at all, wanted to quit acting at 20
@@kavi1501 most actors and idols get scouted .. they go into it for the money and opportunity .. many are burden by it if they became famous and can't quit
@@sakurakou2009 Agree...hope the talent agencies will be humane and considerate...but I know they won't be...
@@kavi1501 I don't support them financially at all .. if I ever want to support idol I do it in non financial way like vote for them on awards and send them positive comments on their social media etc but I never spend any money on idols I know all money will go to their company not the artist .
@@sakurakou2009 That's a good way to support..Indeed these artists are paid less for their hardwork
I am Japanese and his fan. I have read almost all Japanese media articles about him.
The information in this UA-cam comment contains just rumors, exaggerations, and fake news, so please don't believe everything.
He didn't leave clear reason for suicide, and no one knows the reason, so various rumors are flowing.
besides some information about his daily life is not true.
And some Japanese believe he and Takeuchi were murdered due to the politicians?
@@cherrybanilla Just a gossip..
Agreed! There is this Japanese name "Mimi Desu" person commented as if she already knew everything and accusing his agency while even no one yet could figure it out. She is a Korean girl who is trying to become idol singing in Japanese. Did she failed their audition or what???
I was a fan of him since i was 14, now i'm 22 and the day i found out about his death i really can't believe it, i was so shocked and i cried so much, that day was rough And it was hard for me to accept the truth, I couldn't believe it. I couldn't stop watching all the news about him.... It is so sad that a beautiful person like him ends with his life like this...
My beautiful boy, you gave your fans so much joy and happines and i really really wish that you now are happy and free.
I'm sorry so much, your fans will remember you in his hearts.
Love from Spain ❤
8:00 "So just like how you learn from when you were a child to not hurt others when talking to them in person, we should also learn not to hurt others online. I think unless everyone learns etiquette from childhood, people won't behave themselves online."
I think this was underrated statement. People in the internet said mean thing and bully others online because they only brave enough to say those mean things online and hide themselves behind the phone or computer afterwards. They don't care, they're indifferent, and they basically forgot everything about respect and manners which they learn as a child from their parents and teachers. This is so unfortunate that internet has such system where we can hide from real world
People only reveal their true face on internet cause they know they don't have to deal with consequences of the effect of bullying they cause to others . In Real Life, if we bully other people, people would point their finger at the bully, you have to apologize, and even after that, the victim and the people you know, may change their view of you. That's why we learn etiquette, not saying brutally honest about our opinion in real life because it will damage the relationship, but it does not change the fact we individually have our own opinion that we keep to ourselves.
@@Elwen-xs7gr there is a difference between bullying and stating your opinion. You can state your opinion in a respectful way. Bullying is another matter. It is just being mean and disrespectful to another person. Actually this shows who you are as a person. A good person never bullies.
@@xhdhhdhdhd7136 nah, who cares about anyone life in internet, same as I don't do anything to your life and you don't know anything about me. most people is behaving like that on internet, just pay attention, from time to time observation, on différent social media, so before you point your fingers at me, remember there are possibly among 8 billions human out there who do the same. Go ahead think whatever you want, anything that makes you happy. It is none of my concern.
Underrated comment
You know, there is a Japanese drama about this subject exactly called "3-nen A-gumi: ima kara mina San was hitojichi desu"
Please don't commit suicide. I survived seven attempts and I can proudly say I am glad I'm still alive, watching this with you all, and writing a book about my story... suicide is an evil impulse. Distract yourself, talk to a stranger if you have nobody. Strangers saved my life when my friends abandoned me when I became homeless... but now, I can't believe it, I finally live in a room of my own. Make others happy to feel happy yourself. Happiness is a big great contagious energy. Put yourself in their shoes, listen to them, try to help out, even just honest words do HELP... trust me.
i'm glad you're in a better place. i hope things are looking up for you now.
Yea. My friend always tells me that the desire to suicide is not because you actually want to die, you just want the pain and suffering to stop.
That sounds more like attention attemp, rather than suicide.
@@patrik3482 why do you have to be like this?
I'm relieved to know that you're still here. Hang on there dude. You got this.
exactly,
best quote: if someone criticizes you, it's their opinion, not your fault/problem
imp. note!
remember that the biggest critic of yourself is you.
It depends on the criticism. If it's the constructive kind, one which asks you to reflect on your actions or words, then you will have to take responsibility to be better. But if it's the hateful kind of criticism--an insulting one, especially--then that's the only type that you must ignore.
@@amapiria true.
problem is though, sometimes it's hard to tell if it's constructive or judgemental. everyone had a different perspective.
that's why the most important step we must take FIRSTLY, is to KNOW ourselves and be HONEST with ourslves.
the truth is what liberates us and brings inner peace and the right kind of confidence.
beliefs are what take us to the path of conflict.
@@iolohammer how much time is needed to know ourselves? Especially if you suffer dépression From overthinking of your peer's opinion of you? Or you feel pressures because you don't even have the same path of life with your peer group?
@@Elwen-xs7gr knowing yourself really is like looking in the mirror, it's that easy to do.
but if you're not used to it, or if you're afraid of what you may find, it may feel impossible.
all I can say is that what you will find is beautiful in it's own way, doesn't matter how strange it seems at first, important thing is that when you are THAT, you finally feel like you're back in your own skin, and it's the most wonderful, fulfilling, inner-peace bringing feeling.
(you probably felt like that sometimes in your life, you might've just not identified that with being you)
when you are/stay in that spot, there will be a solution and a way for every problem.
when you operate at your real level, life becomes... feasible, doable, nothing that seems too hard to do, because your motivation is ultimate.
(it's usually outside opinions that dissuade us from being us, that's why it's important to be honest with oneself, that way, your confidence in yourself won't be shaken by anyone.)
just remember that only you can understand you, because only you had the exact life path of you, so you are/have literally the solution to all your problems.
That's why I say, outside opinion is only relevant to an extent (many times not at all) to you. It's important because then you have something to relate to, so you don't feel alone, floating in space, but you will do that for some time, until you find people that vibe with you 😊
make no mistake, the people in your life NOW, vibe with how you are NOW. when you become yourself, there's always gonna be loss. it is what it is. we have to learn to walk our path. it's ours to walk, and where we may go, some will not follow. so expect to lose friends maybe even family members.
but you have to make a choice:
you have this life, don't worry whether there's another before, another after.. you are here now. this is your life.
do you live it for yourself or for others?
😊 answers will come when you expect them least, don't worry if you don't understand something right away.
and remember, for every space in your life that becomes vacant, life finds a way to fill it again😉
Well, I would argue that this is rather circumstantial. If my best friend critized me for certain things I might have said or done wrong, I would of course listen and try to take 'respsonsibility' and think twice about doing the same thing in the future, for instance. If it's a stranger on the internet, it's an entirely different situation -- but again, that also depends on the context and on the behaviour of each party.
Koizora was his first movie that I watched and it has always been the most beautiful Japanese movie I’ve ever watched. His acting was extraordinary, I will never forget Miura Haruma, he’s the reason I have a dream to go to Japan and he’s always been the reason why I believe dream comes true.
I studied Japanese for a while, went to Japan for a cultural exchange program and to think that I was living under the same sky with him was magical.
♥️Rest in Peace.
Koizora was truly beautiful. It made me cry so bad.
It completely exited my mind that Haruma Miura is no longer alive and I suddenly realized just now. Feels like when I first found out when it happened.
His movies were my comfort zone during my difficult childhood. I always wished for someone to care for me like his characters did. I know that was just a role he played but how he played it helped me a lot. It hurts to know that this person who unknowingly helped me was hurting himself.
Rest in Peace Haruma Miura. I'm sorry you were hurting.
Seeing actors who are talented, humble, popular and living with all the comforts taking their own lives is really shocking. Its is happening everywhere in hollywood, bollywood, K-industry, J-industry and etc. You know depression is a big problem when people who have all the things than anyone go this way.
Edit:- I know materialistic pleasure is not everything. All I want to say is that behind glamour and light there is a dark and horrific world we dont know.
I wasn't over Sushant's death and now this..
@@therealvampirella02 right!
The unfortunate part is just because someone, anyone is successful doesn’t mean they’re happy. Insecurities exist in all of us, and talented people have It the hardest because they are their own critics compounded by their peers and society. People hurt people and that’s the unfortunate part of humanity.
We didn't know what kind of personal problem he had. Another comment mentions it.
SSR didn't commit suicide he was murdered
He was so precious but, the light and sparkle in his eyes slowly faded away as years passed. Lately in his interviews, he looked really tired and stressed. May his beautiful soul rest in peace. 😭😭😭😭🙏
And they didn't care about his tiredness, really cruel world of entertainment
A week after his death, I still couldn't process that he's gone. I wish he was saved or someone could at least noticed what he has been through all this time. Haruma was one of my fave and the first japanese actor that I knew. Thanks to koizora, it lead me to the jdrama world. He was such a world class talent, no wonder why his popularity reach not just in Japan but all over the world. Sometimes, people tend to forget the celebrities are also fragile. I hope its an eye opener for everyone to actively talk about mental health. Its really sad that it took someone's death to realize how serious our mental health is.
Same here😔
I was heartbroken when I heard of his passing, he was the first Japanese actor I ever had a crush on and he was such a sweet and talented person. I can't imagine how much life had broken him down that he would take his own life. He deserved nothing but happiness. I'm still devastated over it.
Haruma Miura did not commit suicide!
Because his management company announced there was no suicide note a month after he died.
In Japan, if there was no suicide note, it would be treated as a suspicious death, and the mass media reported it as if there was a suicide note, but in the end it turned out to be a lie.
And even though there was no suicide note, no autopsy was performed, and it was reported that he committed suicide 50 minutes after his death.
His death is mysterious and his fans are working to request a reinvestigation to protect his honor and dignity.
#Justice for Miura Haruma
got the notification, reads the title
I'm not ready for this 😔
His death is so sudden. Those who were introduced to J-drama/movie thru Haruma and became his fans know how showcking and painful this is.
When the lady talked about her friend that passed away, I teared up because I myself was having a really bad night and I was just thinking really negatively of myself and wishing that I was gone because I felt like I was such an inconvenience but seeing how that woman was genuinely impacted by the loss of her friend really made me extremely emotional. Rest in Peace to Hamura Miurma and To that woman's friend.
Whatever happens, it's important to remember that our lives matter. I think the film 'It's A Wonderful Life' taught me this lesson better than anything else. We may think ourselves to be worthless and insignificant, however we don't really know what impact our lives have on others and what it would be like if we weren't here.
It is excruciatingly painful to hear of these lethal decisions people make. We should all look carefully around us to see the beauty of this world and this life and take pleasure in small joys such as a walk with a friend, a day out in the nature... We should appreciate small pleasures and our lives in general.
Let us all take care of ourselves, people close to us and those who we encounter.
Please stay strong. Don't wish for yourself to be gone but think that if you really had then what impact it would have on everything and everyone around you. Because you may know this or not *but you are loved and you matter*
Stay strong, friend 💪
I study science, if you search depression brain, you will see that depression is a chemical unbalance in the brain. It is not your fault. It's like a sickness that needs to be treated by verbal therapy with a psychologist or medical treatment with a psychiatrist to restore the chemical balance in the brain. Please get the help that you need, you are amazing and needed.
Please stay strong and reach some help if you need it. You're worth the life, you'll be better. It's always heart breaking to hear someone took his/her life, even when I don't know them. Please remember you're loved, we love you
@Vivian Foster sounds like Josh Groban - You Are Loved. A truly masterpiece, by the way. It always helps to raise my spirits.
Thank you very much for covering this news: I’ve been a fan of Miura Haruma since my teenage years, as we are practically the same age it felt like I watch him grew through his series/movies and always find his work to be of comfort, he had such a honest and warm smile. I’ve also struggled with depression/anxiety so the fact that he committed suicide felt even more personal and upsetting for me. If anyone reading this is struggling with mental health issues please, please there’s help out there you just have to reach out and I promise it will get better, you are never alone. Rest in peace, Miura Haruma you’ll be dearly missed.
Genuinely upset by his passing. He was a phenomenal actor, and from what I've heard a genuine and kind human being. Yet mental health is a major issue many people overlook, especially in the entertainment industry, and we'll never really know what demons plague others beneath the surface. This is especially true for all those actors and entertainers whose lives have been cut short. My thoughts and prayers are with him and his family.
Its kinda messed up that the idea of "if you're different, you'll just get judge and have to leave", is really there.
True. People think if you're different, you're just not the same level as them and isolate you.
nowadays people died themselves. sad world. We need to tie together in this harsh era and save each other's life. Love for all
the resilt of most of us killing ourself each time i feel like it's because people refuses to tie our hands together, it's far beyond repair tbh.
we see humanity crumble each day, it's about time tbh.
even in trying times, most of us only think about ourself, and i'm also guilty for it too.
BUT we can do something about it, but only by our own self for our own self,
is to : take care of ourself, love ourself more, and find friends we can relate with till we die, it's about quality NOT quantity
@@tobubiify I approve. Its all about quality!
@@tobubiify absolutely true. thx for the genuine comments bro
Sincerely hope that Haruma has found peace. He's a beautiful soul. No one had a smile more beautiful that him. Rest in Power Forever Haruma Miura.
This is so sad. I remember in college watching all his Jdramas and thinking how cool it would be to meet him someday. He always appeared laid back and dreamy. He’s only a year younger than myself. May he Rip
Just having bad parents can make your world turn up-side-down, their supposed to be the closest person that can support you on your hard times. Being them the reason of the problem gets it harder to face it. Home itself can be a place for healing, if not it can be one that is your heaviest problem. People need to strengthen their family ties first especially parents to their children.
So true ! ✨
13:56 I cried too. To every single soul whos suffering from mental health, my thoughts with you guys. You're not alone & theres always someone who care deeply about you. Stay strong, embrace yourself & lets spread positivity & love
Mental health is deadly. We need to take it seriously.
You cant really do anything with other people's mental problems.
it sad how we takes seriously any problem in our body organs, except the one who mostly controls it all, our brain.
Brain scan is important
It's the way you speak about it that shows how far Japan has to go. If you can't feel empathy and think "I feel terrible when someone does that to me, so I will not do that to anyone else" you will never ever sort this Your comment shows what a stretch it is for Japanese people to put them selves in others shoes. You talk about it like the rest of the world talks about COVID 19, as if it were "other" rather than something that is inherent in your society.
Sometimes when we offer help people just push us away, lol how can i take this seriously, i do my best to listen and just listen i don't even give a shot to advise them afraid that it'd make it worse. But when I offer my ear, they just pushed me away like that, i've given up on helping🤷
I’m still in shock over his death. He was one of the few actors who I followed closely and it hurts knowing he was suffering so much.
The opinion on seeing a therapist around the 11:00 is good to hear. Where I live it used to be pretty stigmatized, and still is a little bit, but it’s much better now than before. So there is hope! Hopefully everyone can treat each other kinder and those who need help can get it.
fck i still feel like crying reading this news. I’m truly gonna miss his beautiful smile. He’s one of the reasons i watched dorama in the first place 😭😭😭
Anggi Oktaviani yes he was the sky of love , 😭
It is okay to be sad, but life just go on. I am sure Haruma would be sad in heaven if he knows his fans still mourn over him.
@@Elwen-xs7gr sad but true
I actually only liked two Japanese actors so much, him and Takuya Kimura. I am so heartbroken over this news. Hope he rests now peacefully. T_T
@@Elwen-xs7gr I know life must go on but for some of his fans is really hard to overcome his death, I still cry and I can't stop no matter how hard I try.
I was shocked and devastated when I first found out about his died, then I looked up it was suicide. I can't believe that he would leave the world by that way. He was my favourite actor , his smile was such a heart warming. I miss him so much, Rest in peace.
I remember him as an underrated child actor. He superbly portrayed the 15 years old teenager, dealing with adult' s ignorance and hypocisy: wanting a boy to act like a man but denied every opportunity to be one, was told to study and lambasted for not dealing with hardships. He became a good actor, rared one who can portrayed strong internal feelings without excessiveness physical reactions. Sad to hear him killed himself, it made looking back at his characters in a new sadder light.
He was super famous and had a lot going for him...it's just sad. I remember watching him in Bloody Monday and Koizora. Rest In Peace.
Fruity Juditty the thing is..he didn’t want to...his trap was that image of success and being handsome..- a person you wouldn’t expect to be so trapped..it’s really sad.
same, he’s really passionated about acting, he even played a female role in a musical. I’m not a huge fan, but from years of following him on ins, I feel he’s always try to improve himself even after all the awards he got. He also posted food pics and other pics about his daily life, seems like a warm person. So I couldn’t believe he chose to end his own life...I knew him when I was a sophomore in high school from the drama bloody Monday. It’s been 10 years...Please Rest In Peace Haruma kun
Him and Takeru Satoh were pretty much the darlings of Amuse (their talent agency). I used to watch the annual Super Handsome Live events with both of them. Haruma just seemed like a happy person. But his death goes to show that people with depression can put on a happy facade.
"It seemed like he had the perfect life." --- only shows that we can and will never know what a person is going through with just the interior that we see or believe to see. We're all humans after all.
I still cry every time I'm reminded Miura is gone... I pray that nobody will have to go through this ever again in their own life... there is more to life.
A lot of times, the warning signs of poor mental health can be invisible or hidden. It's important for us to take steps to destigmatize mental illness so people can get the help they need, because it is real, it is present, and it needs to be addressed and treated accordingly.
Though I don't know much about him, Miura must have been a great man. I hope he rests in peace.
This is so devastating :(
I'm a fan of his and met him in person at a restaurant I worked at one year, about 3 years ago. He was very affable, and had a relaxed energy about him without pretenses.
I read that he was hindered by personal issues and displayed depressive thoughts even in his letter from ten years ago. Wish he had help and pursued interests he really wanted to. I think his professionalism and tatemae hindered him from expressing his burdens. Hope you're more free in another life..
man, i swear asian mentalities are the most toxic to one's self. i say this because as a chinese-american, i was raised in a very "rational" household. i suffered from depression in my early teens lasting until just recently. the idea of talking to others about their problems are often looked with disregard or belittling. the only thing we get from sharing our problems is shame. i remember the first time i tried to share my problems, my older brother immediately said "why are you sad though? you live in a house, you have a loving family. there's absolutely no reason for you to feel this way." almost as if i've offended him by saying i was depressed.
so i'm not surprised when a few people from the video said they felt like they were bothering others if they ever had the chance to share their emotions. japan is only nice at face value, but underneath, they're just like any other human being.
Your brother's telling you that, probably because he wants you to feel grateful.
Be cautious, when you're sad. Your mind becomes really pessimistic it kills every happiness you could ever grasped.
I can feel you... i used to share my problems with my family but 99% of their answers don't help comforting me and make me more depressed until i closed my heart completely from my family and my friends because no one understand my feelings... i'm struggling in this war alone and i hope i can be strong until the end.
What your brother said is honest and true. It's exactly why we always suggest people to talk to others when they're depressed. It opens your mind and widen your eyes. You may not like what you hear but that's what you need to learn, ie. that's a lotta version of the world, only you can decide which one you live in. He was just reminding you to focus on what you have already and not what you want to have. People can say tons of things to comfort you, but that's for the ears only, it means nothing. You feel good in this moment, nice, but what about tomorrow? next week? next month? Comforting doesn't help you get out of depression. Honest opinion does. I don't know what's the issue that's troubling you. NO ONE can help you but yourself. Get up, pin point the issue, get a solution. Every problem has a solution. Solution means nothing if you don't act. I spent 20+ years change my life. I failed, fell back in the hole, many times, got back up, then tried again. It still suck in a way, but I'm in a much better place than before, and I'm proud of myself coz I did this all by myself. Like in the video, 10 people has 10 different life. Don't expect others to understand you, no matter how good they're as a listener, how compassionate they are, they can empathize, but they don't feel or understand your struggles. And most of all, it has nothing to do with your family is Asian or not. They don't say something you like to hear, so they're evil? Your brother's opinion is truly gold. You owe him a thank you actually.
This spoke volume! ✊🏻👍🏻 It's either "you should be thankful for having a roof on your head and 3 meals to eat" or " it's just a phase, you'll get over it" or " What didn't we give you for you to feel like this?"
I don't understand how others could belittle others' emotions so simply. ☹️ I wish people would understand that it's not that we're not grateful or we're greedy or we're going thru a phase. I hope they'd understand that we're not always in control of what we feel. And it's almost inevitable to stop whatever it is you're feeling once it hits you.
Praying that God keep us all safe, from this virus, and from our own bad thoughts.
What they don't realize by saying "you should be grateful" is that we really truly are grateful even to the point of thinking ourselves to be undeserving of everything. We feel like we are even wasting the little air we are breathing. Depression makes us feel like trash on the surface of the earth. A failure, burdening even God with our very meaningless existence. Thats how dark it is but the horrible part is that no one understands.
Still can't believe it :(
I watched all his movie and drama. He is an actor who has a wide spectrum of acting.
We lose multitalented actor
T_T
*was*
All these suicide deaths😭😭 at such a young age. What's wrong with our society?
@Brenda s agree lol
Japanese society? Just wondering on context of "our."
It seems to me that in parts of Asia like South Korea and Japan, young and big name celebrity actors and singers seem to commit suicide, while in the U.S. it seems more like those who commit suicide are social media 'celebrities (UA-cam, Instagram, etc.).
Brenda s a agree with you. Sometimes people being ignorant. Like everyone is different they are them not you. Sadly i still hear this comment to . Sadly....
Sarah Harris no humanity as a whole
Last year I lost a friend to suicide and let me say it is one of the most hardest things that I ever had to to experience in my life. I'll never forget him cuz he was a dear friend. When he died a piece of my heart died too.
♥️😢
I understand that feeling. I almost lost my friend to suicide too, I wish I was able to do more..
This is why it’s so important to speak up about mental health and the impact of social media especially now while most of us work from home and are online most of the time. I really hope haruma miura finds peace and may we never forget him. Stay strong everyone ❤️
2020 has already passed.... but I still haven't gotten over Haruma Miura' s dead 😢😭😭😭😭💔 I miss his beautiful smile 😭
三浦春馬さんが亡くなった経緯を「～だったらしい。」とか一般人の只の憶測に過ぎないのに、世界中で共有されるこのUA-cam上で軽々しく発言できるのが凄いわ。
こんなに再生数いくと思ってなかったんじゃないかなぁ
@@larcenciel777 だとしても人1人が亡くなっているのに配慮とか無いんだ、、ちゃんと考えて発言したら良いのに、、と思ってしまいました
それ言い始めたらなにも言えなくなると思う
@@adjm642 そういうことですよ
I think you are missing the point of the video
11:19
Believe me, as an American, in the United States there still is very much a stigma if it’s known you’re seeing a therapist and/or seeing a psychiatrist for anti-depressants. People can be so dismissive of another person’s pain that they personally haven’t experienced. If there are any cultures that make it easy to openly talk about struggles with depression without judgment, I haven’t heard of them.
The simple usage of "was" (for addressing Miura Haruma) is so heartbreaking. I still can't believe it.
Agree with you
誹謗中傷が原因だなんて、根拠もないのに勝手にそこに論点を置かないで欲しい。
この動画もそうだが、このチャンネルは信用出来ない所が多い。
色々のとこに気を遣いすぎると、意見も中々出せなくなるから、もっと心を開いて、違う人の意見を聞きましょうー
多分外国人のオーデｨエンストに教えたかったら、英語使ったほうが良いと思います。大体のAsia Bossのオーデイエンストは日本語が分からないかもしれないです！
翻訳: (translation of the above comment)
Please do not assume that the cause of suicide was online bullying, since there is no source that reports that information. There’s a lot of times where you can’t trust this channel because of incidents like this video.
His passing REALLY saddened me... he was the only Japanese actor I truly admired. No ones life is perfect, and everyone is struggling w something inside 😔💔 Please be kind to one another. We’re all just trying to make it day by day.
It's so sad, really. Miura is such a talented and sweet person. But this is how life is, unfair. Rest in peace, Miura-san, thank you for everything you have given us until now.
I think it's stretching it a bit when the girl said that he killed himself after he defended Higashide. There's something more personal that happened and only the dead knows what it is
agreed
Did Haruma ever defended Higashide???
@@kayann3 apparently a group of people misunderstood and took one of his tweets back then in January 2020 as defending Higashide. He was attacked mostly now due to his appearance as main in NHK Taiyouko and his eagerness to promote Japan per its prefecture through his Made In Japan book. People accuse him being neo-left wing nationalist and that also hurts him.
@@cassiopeiajakarta Thanks for responding. I tried googling about him allegedly defending Higashide last week but I couldn't find any related article. So it was just speculation?
What's Taiyouko?
I was aware of that book because I follow him on IG. I honestly thought good about it cos he was promoting Japan??? Can you expound on it further please? Thank you
I was wondering about this!
I felt my heart hitch when I heard this news, and I'm from the US. I can't even imagine how his Japanese fans are feeling. May he rest in peace.
Dallas Texas here...Even tho I'm 62 years old I watch asian dramas 24/7...Jdramas Kdramas..Taiwanese dramas and mainland Chinese dramas. I've watched so many of his dramas that I feel like I've watched him grow up on screen. When it popped up as breaking news on you-tube...My heart sank. I follow him on Instagram as my favorite Jdrama actor and noticed lately he looked a little tired looking in the eyes. I was waiting to hear news of him marrying some day...but I never expected to hear something like this. He was really just a baby to me. Younger than both my girls. Looking over his shows and movie list..I don't see a break..since he was a kid. Could he have been over worked?
@@pamelabustos8693 We'll probably never know. He was in the first J-drama I ever watched, and his performance as an actor made me cry.
@@pamelabustos8693 Everybody noticed that he has been tired.. the actors are always over worked..he also had an album release in July and he had to promote it...I am reading comments that he wanted to quit acting at 20 but his mother wanted him to continue acting ..He wanted to live in a village and do farming
@@kavi1501 wow really? I imagine Haruma living simply in a village, farming and genuinely happy. Then that made me like him even more because he was a simple person.
@@rusukebordones Haruma would have been a handsome,smiling , kind farmer isn't it?
Yes,he mentioned about farming and didn't like media attention..In 2017 he went to study English at London , but his agency called him back saying it was a waste of time and his roommate saw him crying..He studied only for 3 months and talked about a lot with his Chinese roommate......He wanted a simple life which he couldn't have..
when the one lady had a tear coming down her face while talking about her classmate broke my heart. i felt her pain and sadness
I used to watch his movies when i was just a child, i just thought of checking up who are the top actors in Japan in 2023, on not finding his name on the list i was confused. Is disheartening i am just finding it now, he was such a good actor, i remember the dialogues he said, they were touching. Hope he is resting in peace now ❤
MY HEART ACHES AGAIN FOR LOOSING SUCH A RAY OF LIGHT😭 My condolences to his family and friends. Truly we will miss this TALENTED AND KIND MAN...😭🙏🇺🇸
He was my childhood crush
When I heard about his death
My heart broke 2020 is such a bad year😭😭
Same here! Heartbroken still....😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Same...
For me it was him and Takeru Satoh.
11:18 Even as an American, I still feel embarrassed to talk about seeing a therapist or taking medication for depression. If I told my family members they would tell me "it's all in my head", "just deal with it" or something like that. In general, the world has dealt with mental illness poorly and more needs to be done to address these issues. Also, if you're struggling with mental health issues, I just want to tell you that I also struggle and I understand your pain and I can't guarantee that everything will be better, but I can confidently say that life will get better for you
He's probably not living the life he wants, but it would cost too much (mostly other people's expectations) for him to break free, and he ran out of hope. It's sad. Let's pray for his beautiful soul to find the happiness he truly deserves.💗
This was heartbreaking. Excellent job bringing light to the issue Asian Boss. 🙏
His death was a big punch in the gut for me. I cried the week straight, I'm not even exaggerating. To think about in how much pain he was in breaks my heart.
Now I'm trying to distract myself by studying mental health. I want to be able to help my loved ones if they ever be in the same place.
This is so unexpected, Miura's one of my favorite Japanese actors. I know how suffocating the Japanese entertainment industry can be but Miura just had this bright personality...
Hopefully this incident will make fans remember how idols are human too, and that the heads will reevaluate their strict rules. This is why I haven't been keeping up with interviews cuz' it hurts to hear about fan letters and management problems.
I talked to a random Japanese person on twt 1 yr ago after finding the same interest on a twt post. We talked for hours until we talked about the plans you want to do in the future but strangely his/her plans stopped after working a year in a company. When I asked him/her why she/he just plans to work for a year.. I thought that person is just planning to have a vacation that's why but he/she told me she just wanted to live only until 32 years old. I didn't know a certain people think like that. When I asked why she/he said he/she just wanted to finish education and work for a year then take his/her own life.
Never in my life did I know someone who talks so casually when talking about taking their lives, so I was stunned. I tried talking and persuading him/her but he/she said that's what he/she really wants.
As a Asian myself, suicide is really common nowadays and I always take it very seriously. So I tried talking to him/her about it everyday until one day he/she deactivated his/her account. I wonder where that person is or if that person's doing good. I hope that person's still striving tho..
There must be a lot of pain behind that perspective on life. I hope they're okay.
😱
use they instead of s/he
It is awfully painful to hear about the suicide of anyone.
I am impressed with the questions asked by the interviewer, very thoughtful and relevant and important.
I agree that you need to talk to someone about your struggles, but don't just talk to anyone. It has to be someone compassionate, trustworthy and caring. So PLEASE make one or more friends or mentors like that if you can't count on your family.
This is similar to the case of Sushant Singh Rajput in India... RIP Haruma Miura
True 😢
but This is more mysterious miura found inside cupboards 😭
I think sushanth's sucide is too much strict to say a sucide ..it was a suspicious one too.
@@yesido5998 thats sus
@@foreverwithme6230 it's not considered suicide anymore as lot of things were uncovered during investigation
Watch his drama "you taught me all the precious things". It's a beautiful drama with a beautiful message.
He's the first japanese actor that introduced me to JMovies... RIP Haruma Miura. 💔
三浦春馬の死をネットバッシングに結びつけすぎ。むしろその線は薄いよ
He had the most precious smile, I can’t believe he’s gone. Rest In Peace Haruma
お疲れさまです 春馬さん💙
I cannot believe this. I remember the first time I watched Koizora, "Sky of Love", 5 years ago. I remember thinking, "Omg, this is just a movie. This beautiful human being did not actually die." Fast forward to Godforsaken 2020. This is just heartbreaking. I love you, Haruma Miura. Rest in peace, beautiful soul. ❤️
Suicide in Japan is a big problem but no one really does anything about it.
@@JD-kp6pt which ones?? (innocent question)
@J D interesting that Asia is always in the spotlight even though European countries have higher suicide rate
J D i’m pretty sure korea has an even higher one as well.
@@mohammadmuslimbinal-fajar7879 you believe in a pervet pedophile who copy pasted most things of Judaism and hated them lol
@@JD-kp6pt well, I didn't knew that. Thanks for making me informed.
This is bringing up Hana Kimura from Terrace House all over again
Hana Kimura is her name.
@@aznmochibunny yes mistake as i was looking at this vid at the same time.
Both suicide is totally a different case tho
@@hshahahah2819 Even if the suicide methods were different, suicide is still suicide and mental health issue is still mental health issue and that was the point.
hshahahah it’s a totally different case caused by the same thing. Online hate comments. People never learn
I STILL CAN'T GET OVER THIS. HE IS STILL SUCH A LEGEND.
遺書の存在だって事務所は否定してるし、あるかないかはっきりしてない状態で色々な憶測が飛び交ってる中で、なんで三浦春馬さんが亡くなった理由を誹謗中傷だけに結び付けて話をしてるの？
この動画は「彼が誹謗中傷で死んでてほしいな」って願って作ってる様にしか見えない。
このインタビュー内容も答えた人も人の死に対する自分の妄想を押し付けてる。
死者への冒涜。今すぐ消すか謝罪してほしいです。
日本ヘイトチャンネルと言われても今まで庇護してましたが、流石にこれは許せません。
He was the first actor who makes me cry while seeing his acting..miss him so sad
When I heard the news from a friend I cried on and off for 3 days. He was on of my favorite actors. I just keep thinking about his powerful performance in the drama The Hours of My Life. It's deeply sad to lose him. It's heart breaking.
Thank you for making such a beautiful video about such a difficult issue. It's inspired me to do something to help people who have mental health issues here in Japan. Thank you Asian Boss! ♡
"Simply understand that 10 people have 10 different ways of life"
I agree
いやこれなんで自殺の原因誹謗中傷みたいにしてるんだよ、一般人の憶測をほんとの原因みたいに作り上げんなよ
最近だと母親？が関わってるとかの報道があるんだからそれだけじゃねえだろ
なんか変ですよね
全ては春馬くんに原因があったみたいな話になってて
嫌です。
しかも簡単に世界に発信されてしまうんですね。
もっと色々な話が出てるのに
私、原因、絶対母親だと思うわ
某不倫騒動に関するツイートへの酷い誹謗中傷も確かにありましたが、彼が育ってきたバックグラウンドや、真面目で完璧主義的な気質、他にも本人にしか分からない何かが様々に重なってしまった結果なのではないかなと思いました。これだけ高みを目指して努力してきた彼が、ちょっとネットで叩かれたからという理由だけで芸能生活を終わらせる訳がありませんよね。
色々な原因が重なっていたんだと私も思えてなりません。
お母さんのこともあったでしょう
ただ
誹謗中傷と同じく
お母さんのことだけが今さら原因だったとも思えないんです。
色々重なっていたところに
最後止めをさす
一気に気力を奪う何かがあった
それはもしかしたら
誰かの心ない言葉だったかもしれないし
今となっては
春馬くんしか分からないことで
だももしかしたら
心当たりのある人間もいるかもしれませんよね。
いじめ、パワハラは
やってる本人は自覚のないことなんでしょう
だから悔しいです