You're the first sensible person I've came across on UA-cam in an extremely long time. You realize that it's not an actual abduction, but a lesson on how to handle the situation. You're going to be the first person that I'm going to follow, if you don't mind. ( UA-camrs are becoming more like TikTokers)
I worked at a convenient store one time. A lady came in shaking and just seemed different. She was paying for gas and very lightly whispered "help please". So I took her to the back room and asked her what was going on. Come to find out the guy she was with was beating her and wouldn't let her go home to her family. I called the cops and the guy flipped out cause he couldn't find her and was pissed. Thankfully the cops weren't to far away and they took care of the situation. She came back to the store a few months after that and you could see a major change in her. She was so happy and couldn't stop thanking me for saving her.
TSA once stopped a 22 yr old girl that was taken out of her 4th year in a US college by her uncles. They were forcing her to go back to the middle east to get married and she didn't want to go.
@@phantomjosh2148 They stopped her because she was very agitated. They took her aside for a private screening because they thought she might have been forced to carry explosives or contraband. She told them what was going on, that she didn't want to leave America so they told her uncles she wasn't going anywhere. 😎
I remembered when i was 19, i worked at a restaurant and i just got out of a very serious domestic abuse relationship and as an employee i had to park my car in the back and only my boss knew about my situation. One friday night, i was getting off late and i was walking to my car and my ex pulled up in his car and he grabbed my by my hair and he shook me like a rag doll and started to choke me and hurt me more. He tried to drag me into his car but i put up a big fight. In the midst of fighting him my coworkers younger brother heard me screaming from inside and he came outaide to see what was happening and thats what he came out and seen. He ended up calling the others outside and he grabbed him and fought him off of me. Police were called and i received medical help and support from my coworkers and they all learned about my relationship with him. My coworkers younger brother is in the military. Hes sucha. Sweet guy and i thank him everyday for saving me.
thank God for decent , helpful people who care and choose not to ignore a obvious situation ........ more ppl. should be like this and give a damn , it could. be them one day that needs help with something
I was in a store once and a young girl was holding hands with an older guy and he wouldn't let her alone. The young girl looked like she was very distressed. I made up a story and asked the young girl if she was related to a person I knew. She didn't look at me and the guy said she wasn't. It just didn't feel right so I went up to a salesperson and told them I needed to talk to the manager. I told the manager what was going on and she went over to the guy and said she saw him stealing something and the police would be called. The guy went ballistic, started yelling and cursing and tried to run out of the store dragging the girl with him. I grabbed the guy and another guy in the store helped me subdue him and kept him from leaving the store with the girl. The young girl started crying and we pulled her free from the guy. She was shaking uncontrollably and passed out. The cops arrived and took the guy into custody and the girl was questioned by a female police officer. It turned out the girl had been kidnapped in South Carolina and the guy was on his way to the west coast with the girl. The young girl couldn't stop thanking the store manager and the other guy and myself for helping her. Moral of this story: Keep alert of your surroundings folks. Child kidnapping and sex trafficking are real and more widespread than people think. God Bless this young girl and protect her and others from these predators. Amen
@@Shroomy6223 Thank you for the too kind words. I did the right thing and helped somebody who needed help. I don't need or want to be famous. Helping a fellow human being is the best reward. Thanks again and stay safe. God Bless.
I remember working in a fast food place and a girl with her father came in. When I served her I noticed a black circle on the palm of her hand. Something seemed real off about her and him. I called my mom and she told me that circle was a call for help so I called the police. Turns out he kidnapped her from her mom as he was not allowed to see her. The girl said she read it in a book about the black circle and hoped someone would know what it meant as he threatened her if she tried to run or call for help. She was so thankful and still stays in touch with us to this day. Her father was in prison for fifteen years where he died of a massive heart attack a week before his parole. Sometimes justice does work out.
I had no idea about the black circle. Thank you for informing many of us who didn't know. I'm sure we will all pass that along to our friends and family. 👏
As a flight attendant this is NOT how we would go about it. Itll be more discreet; less noticeable for other passengers and the abuser. All in all this is just good for both crew and passengers on SITUATIONAL AWARENESS ❤
I was cabin crew for 10 years. Witnessed a couple going on honeymoon sat opposite me. When husband went to the lav she told me he had beat her the night before....on wedding night. Been together 2 years before marriage. Never violent before with her. She said she terrified. I got her seat in another cabin. Not allowed husband to enter other cabin. Told him police will arrest him on landing if he didn't comply with what he was told to do. I spoke to Captain and he came out spoke to her and we brought her back to u.k on our return flight. Left him alone in Cyprus. Wife was going home to get a divorce rolling,she not want to press charges. Sad to see the bruises he gave her.
Yes I knew my husband three years and two children later we got married he was verbally abusive in wedding day. And I was beaten up three days later he dislocated my daughters shoulder on wedding night by yanking on her arm the day after my wedding I was in a children’s hospital getting her shoulder fixed. I was beaten at least twice a week sometimes more n there were no rescues centre for abused woman in those days. No one would give me a place to rent and my mother refused to help me and wouldn’t hear a thing against him. 12 years later I found out he’d been done by police for grevious bodily harm against his first wife.
@@Bille62 I am so sorry for your pain! I hope you got away and I am so sorry for your daughter. I pray you got to remarry a very kind man father to your children
@@shirleycrook4610 I got my ducks in a row n went for third divorce try because my children were showing signs c of distress I met a rally kind man when I was done with men. It just happened we talked for hours. We ve been together now forty years. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night my children excelled at school and run their own businesses etc. I remarried but my ex has been a shadow all that time he shows me he’s never going away. But I live every day trying to get in with my life I no longer cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t cry in this relationship please please do not settle in this life for second best get organised lose weight if you feel better n more confident and save for when you need to break free. Make contingencies for a safe house to escape to a family members key temporarily. Stay on focus DO not weaken no matter what happens. For years he challenged my new husband I told him not to engage it takes two to fight. We made it thru. My ghost still won’t leave but we live our lives happily without engaging him as best we can. But it was still worth it all. I live with a kind man who makes me laugh and my children laugh. Please women stay focused and do it for your children if you’re to broken yourself your strength will grow and you will never want that pain in your lives agajn. And if you meet someone you’ve always felt you knew and he makes you smile and your children smile take it slow but let a good person in good luck stay strong x
I don’t get it it may be fake but it’s a great message to those in trouble and yet you try to make this funny despite it may help a lot of people in trouble
Several years ago, I was inside a convenience store at night, when the only other customer asked me to go with him to help him out with something (forget what it was). Anyway, the clerk very very subtly shook his head, thus making it much easier for me to decline. Only I noticed this. Sometime later, I later met that clerk and confirmed with him that I was not imagining his giving me a warning not to go out with that guy. He may have saved my life!
I remember when I worked at McDonald’s and a girl and her boyfriend came through the drive through, she did seem a little of to me she was trembling and her mascara was smudged around her eyes. I told her the total and she handed me a couple dollars but then the one on the top said help on it. I wanted to help her so I told her her food was taking longer than expected and I would need her to come inside to grab it. Surprisingly her boyfriend didn’t care about her going in by herself. We called the cops and after a while they told us that that was not the girl’s boyfriend it was her ex who she had a restraining order against him.
Good on you for your quick thinking and finding a way to separate the girl from her abuser! I hope that if I ever find myself in this type of situation I can come up with something just as clever. Sometimes I worry I might too emotional and panic ;-;
One time I was flying alone from Spain to Puerto Rico, and then Miami. Getting on the plane in Puerto Rico. This guy in a military uniform, followed me on the plane and ended up sitting next to me I could feel something was not right, so I was able to communicate with the stewardess, and she checked his seating and sure enough, his seat was way in the back. Before we took off, the police came and escorted him off the plane. That was really scary. Pay attention to your gut feeling and watch your surroundings always. Pay attention.
@@Yagirl73 nothing but when somethings wrong, you get a gut feeling. He followed me from the terminal out on the tarmac and into the plane, went to the back of the plane and then came back to me. Something just told me he was not right. Trust your gut.
Over the course of 8 yrs as a flight attendant w a major carrier, I can tell you I had the Police meet the plane on at least 5 occasions. These are very serious scenarios when so many things can go wrong, so it is imperative to use an authoritative, take charge tone. This FA was Spot On with her Actions
I don’t know what airline you worked for… But that is the LAST thing they tell you to do! is to confront, especially when you’re in flight! Unless you have an air marshal aboard to cuff this fool !!! So he dont try to open doors !! Common sense people.
very true.. just the other day I saw this headline "Local Woman Saved When Her Coffee Was Inexplicably Served In A Clear Plastic Cup And Then She Found Some Sort Of Way To Write A Message On It Hoping Against Hope The Flight Attendant Would Have A Giant Jug Of Creamer Rather Than The Tiny Little Cups Everyone Has And Then The Flight Attendant Over-Served The Creamer Revealing The Message And Then The Flight Attendant Took Her Away From Her Seat"
This is not a social experiment. It's not even a real fucking plane. There's no one in the other seats and also I think All of them would figure out that the person filming was filming.
@@PringlezCanits a mock-scenario dont be a dick, Jesus, its to help people understand that this could happen and what to do if it does, idk who pissed in your fruitloops
I remember my first solo International flight from New York to Stockholm. I was sitting next to a Finnish guy who asked if I had ever been to Stockholm before. He invited me to tour Stockholm with him before traveling to my final destination in Sweden. I didn't feel good about that and politely refused. Always follow your gut. Better safe than sorry! No regrets
I had a similar experience with Germany 🇩🇪 where he offered to drop me off my destination cos he had a car at the airport, I accepted and he did drop me off without any funny biz.. some honest people still exists.. just follow your heart with fingers crossed 🤞 😂
Staged yes. Unfortunately she set off red flags. First with the gasp. Then instead of stupid lie of a seat that was loose she should have spilled the coffee and escorted her to the station to clean up. Then lock her in the cabin or where she'd be safe. Bad acting. BTW, where did the girl get a sharpie and a true trafficker or abuser, she would not have been allowed on the aisle. Duh
This actually happened once where a guy was clenching a girls arm and walking around the park and I didn't think much but then I looked at them and the guy got mad and started walking towards me and threatening me. I pulled my gun out and said back away. As I called the cops and she was safe. But buddy on the other hand got some sweet jail time. She looked like she still had hope in her eyes when she saw me stand up in front of him. Truly a sad moment.
@@payton3673 that is why I told that probably not the best storyline but it is best to ask for help when in trouble instead of staying shut trying to fund a way is what to learn
@@DenfordAshmeade that’s what I’m wondering also did she just ask for a cup but to fill after writing on it but they would’ve saw the writing unless she covered it or something
Jesus loves us and died for us In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light. Genesis 1:1-3 ✝🌅 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. John 8:12 ✝🌅
No matter what… Always help someone… Use body language, shivers or just stares can go a long way. You don’t know the half of the abuse. You don’t know their struggles. Even if their your enemy, HELP! You could stop murders or r@pes
Or she crazy not like he going into the womens bathroom with her in a public place she could litterally just ask anyone verbaly, even tsa agent as they are getting scanned in.
I've been through those struggles my mom died of cancer when I was 4 and my stepmother I'd so mean she yells at me and hits me for no reason my sister died of cancer too my dogs Buster and Bella died My stepmom makes me hide it from my dad now my Dad's my only loving parent
@@rstubbs23 we are aware its fake only people actually believe it and think that women do end up in these situations with torturers. In reality people do have falling outs and people snap and in the process people get hurt sometimes(both women and men!) but the theory crafting bitchen want to spin tales of signs and voodoo and psychologist chime in aproval to justify their cake ass existance.
@anitahossain2207 it's totally a training video. Notice that the plane is silent. All of the windows are closed because there's no view because it's a set. The wall of the plane is coming apart (wait... could be a Boeing plane. Lol)
I seem to recall incident not too long ago where something similar to this happened, but they didn't say anything, the pilot returned the plane to the airport and then the police came on board.
Some years ago I encountered a young woman that was being held by a man she met working at a club, he would make his young son stay w her so she couldn't get away the boy followed her to the bus stop she tried to get help from others and they told her to get away. She came to me and told me what was happening and begged me to act like a family friend she just came upon til her rescue ride came. I asked her to give me her mom's info so I could call her and let her know she made it to her ride. This man seriously was trying to keep her I told that lil boy to go home. She would be right there I would watch her. A blue car came and that baby ran for her life. The boy and his daddy came running but they were too late and because there were so many out there he got scared and left. I called her mother as soon as I got to work. The girl called the next day. The man was her family lawyer and flew her back to New York. She was safe thank God. That was in 1999. In Louisville KY. Please keep your young people close and safe. This stuff happens everyday.
The idea is real but this particular situation is acting. I've seen this video many times before used for multiple other things. The cup trick (along with these same actors) has been used for "Will you marry me", "#1 Mom" and "Guess Who" when a soldier came home.
This is a training film. If you look in the background, they aren't even on a plane. Still, it's good information to know. One wonders how she obtained a magic marker and when she had the privacy to write on a cup.
Even if you’re not a flight attendant and you see someone at the airport, looking down, look depressed, and a walking with a man or a woman or with multiple people you get help immediately get attention to them real quick if you’re on a plane and the stewardess has not noticed them yet, and you see something wrong, even if it’s just a hunch get the stewardess attention to them because kidnapping and child trafficking is real and if there’s nobody there to help you then let’s roll. I’m putting him down plain and simple.
@@mikehunnilingus1195 you sound like you’re trafficker of children little girls and or a little boys or young girls or young boys in the way that you have given a negative reply to my statement in protecting young people and little children and being trafficking, or active being trafficking, I’m going to send your statement of reply to UA-cam and Facebook. And the F.B.I. You need to be investigated and that’s no joke. This is not fake news. I’m gonna put you on the radar Mr. just a word of note as a former Marine, nobody gonna traffic me, I will definitely notify your statement TO UA-cam and to Facebook, and including the FBI and that’s not fake news mr. yes you definitely need to be investigated. Now say no to that Mr.
This is a great lesson to learn. Stewardesses & flight attendants will not do what she did because it would put not only the girl but everyone on that flight in Jeopardy. What she would do is immediately give the girl some sense of we got this and then immediately notify the captain and the captain will notify the airport control where ever they are landing and when they land, he will announce to please be patient we’re waiting to be told to Park at whatever door and while he is saying all that he is already parked and the police would immediately board that plane. It happened to me and my family on a flight to Dallas, and no one on the flight new anything was happening until 4 Dallas police officers in full bulletproof gear came aboard.
Can someone please explain better what the guys intentions were ‘cause it looks to like he was disappointed over a plan that I am not getting right. ❤.
Flight attendants, this is so NOT the way to handle this situation. DO NOT create a confrontation! Alert the captain. He will alert authorities. Your job is to make sure the kid knows her message is received without alerting the bad guy.
My doctors office has red and black markers in the restroom. If you are in need of help, you can write a message in red and leave it in the urine specimen nook. They will help you.
When I worked in a xray department we used to get women coming in who had swallowed razor blades and batteries. They had to be kept in for a few days until they had passed through them. That kept them away from their abusive partners for a few days. It is hard to imagine what they go through to take such drastic measures.
The man needs to get off the plane and be questioned by the airport security for one whole day until they find his real identity. Human trafficking should be put to stop now!!!
@Krissy Randolph. You have perfectly fine started your sentence by saying that this man must have got off the plane. But not to be heard by the authorities... He must have got out of the plane through the cargo door and in full flight. This is what he deserves! No Jail for Kidnappers Rapists!! This f will save $80,000 per year to society and taxpayers!
@@stpbasss3773 This happens everyday all over the world. This video may have been staged but it does not mean human trafficking is not a real bad problem.
as a real flight attendant we are trained to notify the captain as well as proper authorities on the ground in order not to escalate the situation in the air or make it seem like we know what’s going on so that the perpetrator doesn’t react violently.
But now the world knows because you said something. You should delete your comment. I doubt you’re a real flight attendant. If you are, you ought to know better than to elaborate on security procedures.
Over the years as a bartender you learn a few things that could possibly help save someone's life. If your ever in need of getting out of a bad situation, ask your bartender or even server for an Angel shot. They will immediately take action and do what they can to help you. If for some reason they don't know what your talking about, politely ask them to look up the ingredients, tell em its your favorite. Upon looking it up they will see exactly what you mean and can at that point help you. Please stay safe, this is a crazy world we live in 🙏💕
It boggles my mind that people think flight attendants are just there to serve beverages and make sure you have on your seatbelt. Thank you for taking your training seriously and for being there for the passengers in so many crazy situations! ❤️❤️
@M F Thank you for that. There is so much more to working for the airlines than people realize. Most people are fine with whatever happens as long as they are informed. It's the Karens that think they're entitled to receive v.i.p. service no matter the distress to "others".
@@chickadeetle you are so right!!! I'm a former teacher ( mom now) and people have lots of misconceptions about us, as well. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all just honor and respect each other's gifts, abilities and dang hard work?? ❤️❤️❤️
Now, ladies and gentlemen, if you’re ever in a bad situation like this, all you need is a clear plastic cup a waterproof, black sharpie, super black coffee and hope that the stewardess travels with a gallon of cream instead of a the little individual creamers. Also remember the stewardess must poured it for you, and she must pay attention.
@@mistybollinger3312 I made the comment based on the video. Just like I would say if I were watching my favorite actress in a movie. We know they aren’t real.
@@johnbumpus7138 Well, you just helped boost the algorithm by your comment so there’s that lol. Btw, who hurt you, causing you to be so rude to people? Regardless of the acting, the message was and is important for people in abusive relationships seeking help.
I was pregnant with my first baby in 1989. I was in a shopping mall by myself and about 8 months along. I was riding the escalator and in front of me going up was a man in a suit with a baby stroller. He was alone. We got to the floor above and he stopped and adjusted his glasses, looked around, and I saw CRAZY eyes and I glanced into the stroller and there was a DOLL in it! I got chills, found a security guard nearby miraculously, told him that creepy guy over there has a doll in that carriage and I think he’s gonna switch it out for a REAL baby while a new mom isn’t paying attention! The security guard took me seriously and went over to the pedo and I high-tailed it outta that mall ! I just had a horrible gut feeling about that guy and I never forgot it. I can still see his gray jacket and crazy eyes and that doll after 33+ years. If something doesn’t look or feel right, trust your gut. You have God in your side and together you just might save a life! 🙏❤️
Good for you for alerting security. So many people fail to listen to their gut instincts but r don't want to get into involved. Also smart to leave the mall.
SMART THINKING ! ! ! In cases where somebody's safety is at stake it's far better to make a mistake and embarrass yourself or others than it is to err in the other direction. By protecting ourself from embarrassment we could be allowing somebody to be seriously hurt or worse. Not very well said but I hope people understand. Never hesitate to help if there might be danger.
@@dancingfirefly7761 I thought he would hold me captive and steal my baby when it was born! This was 1989! God only knows if he was caught/stopped. I pray...
@@ntandosekay I Love YOUR MESSAGE Too!!❤❤❤ So many people lost in their own worlds, gadgets usually just as you said. Most of them miss the world that's happening around them. It has made our world so disengaged however I think that is changing. I hope it is, I hope people see all the need for companionship. They tried to take that away from us with the lockdowns, the masks, the fear of being near another. Let's not let their awful attempts at separating us from each other continue, we are so much more than that. ☮💜💡
if i were the flight attendant, I would "accidentally" spill the drink on her, and help her to the bathroom while apologizing profusely. That would be a much safer way to get her away from this guy than screaming "UNHAND HER, NOW SIR"
Sounds like it would work better however, if the coffee were to be dumped into her lap, the cup would be empty and that would allow anyone to see what was written on it
But this would never happen on an airplane because as soon as go to check in looking scared like that or anyting they're going to start questioning and all the person would have to say is the guy behind me is going to hurt me and boom they would have him. They would never get on the plane
Yeah except no one saves them. Not like this. This is so unreal. Traffickers don't take you single handed on a plane. It's nice a PR though be aware always of your surroundings and of others. If more people were aware...
Just was mentioning this to my husband. I said we really need to start paying attention. Too much going on. Make eye contact people. Someone might need it desperately. 💔🙏🏻
We do but this wouldn’t be the correct interaction while we’re flying in the air. We stay calm try not to cause an altercation in the aircraft to keep the integrity of the flight and all passengers safe.. if possible reassure victim that they will be helped and to stay calm.. call the captain and have authorities meet us when we land.
Maybe imply theyre TAKING Her to the bathroom because she looks like shes gonna be iLLl instead? Instead of the agressive lie about the seat... Makes the man more suspicious
In this situation, the flight attendant can purposely spill the creamer or coffee (drink) on the victim, so that the flight attendant can give an excuse to remove the girl from the seat.
If a flight attendant reacted this way, passengers’ lives would be on the line. The flight attendant has to notify the captain first and the captain notifies the officials on land to arrest the kidnapper and protect the victim. All done very discretely so that everything runs smoothly.
Wow....thats what happend one Time back in 1996 when i was 17!!... We fly from London to Netherlands for our swimming contest ( i am greek) ..WE didnt understand literally anything until WE landing ..police came in and all screaming ...and me i was liké this:😳thank god they arrest him 🙏! I Hope no one have this expérience again
@Sandra Walker thank goodness, finally somebody with sense and a brain to see that this was totally fake, I can't believe some people thought it was real! And you're absolutely right they would never handle it this way! TSA actually have code words for these type of situations. And one of them is the flight attendant telling the pilot that the plane is overweight. And the pilot so there's no suspicion to anybody and nobody gets hurt, says that we are landing at this airport because we have found out there is more weight on the plane and suspected. Or they make up the "we are running low on fuel" reason. 👏👏👏👏
@@angelnwaiting34 It's my understanding that the plane had not left the ground yet. And that police boarded the plane before it left and arrested the man. Some will say that drinks aren't passed out while on the ground. I've been on plane awaiting takeoff and have had attendants give out drinks. It has to do with a plane awaiting some person or parcel that's running late. Likely from another plane that's running late.
I personally think this is a really good video that makes it clear to people that this is happening I have seen this up close for example there was a little girl who looked very sad but then you think it probably won't be anything bad but when she passed a sign came she wrote help while pretending to trip so that the man who held her the whole time couldn't see it and then I called the police together with my father and pretended to ask the man something so that we would have time could stretch and eventually the police came and they arrested the man and the girl turned out to be missing but she is now back with her family but this doesn't happen often usually people just let it pass but this shouldn't happen again
Das Kind hat dir viel zu verdanken. Gut, dass du so aufmerksam bist. Du hättest auch ununterbrochen in dein Handy schauen können und hättest die wichtige Botschaft verpasst. 👏🏻👍🏻🙏🏻💫
Yes instead of phones in their faces 24/7 the world is going crazy and NO ONE talks or takes notice anymore, their phones are in the way ….no life just their phone ….crazy !
Great ideas and great suggestions for those who've been kidnapped. I hope no one ever needs this advice, but I pray for their safety if they ever do. 🙏
More then once I've had to call the police to help a neighbor in apartments I've lived in over the years being abused. Some thank me and some would get made at me. I now have a better understanding of why cause at least back then police rarely actually did much to the abuser and even if they went to jail it was only for a day or two and were worse when they got back. One time though there was this lady at a gas station asking for help. I told the attendant and he and I helped her disappear into the bathroom. The attendant kept the man's attention while I guided her to the bathroom. I stood in front of the door blocking it telling him I was waiting for a friend to come out when he tried to get past me once the attendant went to go to the backroom to call the police. Before that I had already called the police because of what the guy was doing to her outside before they went in. So the police arrived pretty quickly...plus the station wasn't that far away either. The man ran away while the lady police chased him down. I kinda thought that was some justice that he was tackled to the ground by a lady cop
I was thinking of telling my daughter to take her 1 year old son for a walk outside. Even just around the block. Then I started to think that if someone was going to kidnap the baby she would have to fight real hard against a grown ass man. She's only 5'1 and she would give all her strength to try and save her baby Then I thought that. That's a bad idea with good intentions because she could easily get overcome by him trying to steal her child. So now I tell her to wait until her strong ass and kind boyfriend gets home from work for safety reasons. The perpetrator will not attempt a kidnapping when there are 2 able body adults there to fight like hell to protect their child. Great job flight attendant DEMANDING THAT THE MAN LET GO OF HER AND HER STRENGTH AND KNOWLEDGE OF THE PLANE AND SHE'S GOT THE BALLS TO DEMAND THAT MAN TO LET GO OF HER. God bless all. You really have to be on your toes watching every little thing because it may be a really big deal. Don't know if this is acting or not but it is sooo important to watch out for yourself and your neighbors 😢 it takes a village remember to watch out for others as well as yourself ❤
I was at Walmart one night in May Landing NJ. My ex husband was very abusive. I ran away from him and Walmart, running down the street, hiding in the trees and behind buildings until I got to a house that always had a huge beautiful Christmas tree. Thankfully, they let me use their phone to get a ride. I went back a few weeks later with a bunch of Easter directions. (They decorated every holiday) was super grateful they saved me from another beating!
Great message! But I was asking myself, when and how did she write "Help Me" on the cup,without him seeing her? Besides that, very much needed video! 🙏🏽💜💜
Does not matter. It's possible that it could happen. Most times they would not have a Marker let's pray they would have one. If it were me I would pretend to be sick and need help
On a crowded flight why can't she stand up and state that she's being held against her will? Or create any disturbance. A much more helpful video would be to recognize the signs of someone who is afraid for whatever reason to try to notify anyone.
Without the training would the flight attendant have yelled at her for writing on the cup or something. Maybe she would have said that she already helped by putting creamer in your coffee. Edit: removal immediately from seat instead of walking of and telling a coworker or something is important
Seen a story where, at a bar, they had posters in the women's bathroom where if they ordered certain named drink than the bartender would know if they needed assistant or was in distress. Very helpful in this day in time! People are scarily sneaky and my friend dealt with something during a girl's night out. Didn't find out till years later and I still feel the guilt.
It wasn't your fault, it was the offenders' fault. I never blamed my friends for not realizing I had been drugged. I understand why you'd feel that way, but something like that is hard to catch especially when you're intoxicated yourself. Much love and I hope your friend is doing well.
Make a plan for your safety. A stupid really short guy tried to force his ugly self in to my life at a free food pantry. I reported him and he backed away from me. I begged him to get away from me, he came to my table and sat all close and got personal. Talking about his sex life. I never saw him in my life. He was really stupid. Thank God I was able to go in the building as a volunteer.
Not great acting but a great message for those in trouble!!
You're the first sensible person I've came across on UA-cam in an extremely long time.
You realize that it's not an actual abduction, but a lesson on how to handle the situation. You're going to be the first person that I'm going to follow, if you don't mind.
( UA-camrs are becoming more like TikTokers)
it is giving you a lesson on what could happen and how to handle the situation when it arises. same with marker on hand with lettering saying help
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Yes indeed
It is a training video for flight attendants😉
I worked at a convenient store one time. A lady came in shaking and just seemed different. She was paying for gas and very lightly whispered "help please". So I took her to the back room and asked her what was going on. Come to find out the guy she was with was beating her and wouldn't let her go home to her family. I called the cops and the guy flipped out cause he couldn't find her and was pissed. Thankfully the cops weren't to far away and they took care of the situation. She came back to the store a few months after that and you could see a major change in her. She was so happy and couldn't stop thanking me for saving her.
❤❤
awesome person!
Need more Samaritans
❤❤❤❤🎉❤❤❤
Proud of you👍
TSA once stopped a 22 yr old girl that was taken out of her 4th year in a US college by her uncles. They were forcing her to go back to the middle east to get married and she didn't want to go.
What did TSA do I about it and why did they stop her?
@@phantomjosh2148
They stopped her because she was very agitated. They took her aside for a private screening because they thought she might have been forced to carry explosives or contraband. She told them what was going on, that she didn't want to leave America so they told her uncles she wasn't going anywhere. 😎
Good.
Animals
@@phantomjosh2148cuz she's in college so obviously over 18
I remembered when i was 19, i worked at a restaurant and i just got out of a very serious domestic abuse relationship and as an employee i had to park my car in the back and only my boss knew about my situation. One friday night, i was getting off late and i was walking to my car and my ex pulled up in his car and he grabbed my by my hair and he shook me like a rag doll and started to choke me and hurt me more. He tried to drag me into his car but i put up a big fight. In the midst of fighting him my coworkers younger brother heard me screaming from inside and he came outaide to see what was happening and thats what he came out and seen. He ended up calling the others outside and he grabbed him and fought him off of me. Police were called and i received medical help and support from my coworkers and they all learned about my relationship with him. My coworkers younger brother is in the military. Hes sucha. Sweet guy and i thank him everyday for saving me.
Oh my
thank God for decent , helpful people who care and choose not to ignore a obvious situation ........ more ppl. should be like this and give a damn , it could. be them one day that needs help with something
I was in a store once and a young girl was holding hands with an older guy and he wouldn't let her alone. The young girl looked like she was very distressed.
I made up a story and asked the young girl if she was related to a person I knew. She didn't look at me and the guy said she wasn't.
It just didn't feel right so I went up to a salesperson and told them I needed to talk to the manager.
I told the manager what was going on and she went over to the guy and said she saw him stealing something and the police would be called.
The guy went ballistic, started yelling and cursing and tried to run out of the store dragging the girl with him.
I grabbed the guy and another guy in the store helped me subdue him and kept him from leaving the store with the girl.
The young girl started crying and we pulled her free from the guy.
She was shaking uncontrollably and passed out.
The cops arrived and took the guy into custody and the girl was questioned by a female police officer.
It turned out the girl had been kidnapped in South Carolina and the guy was on his way to the west coast with the girl.
The young girl couldn't stop thanking the store manager and the other guy and myself for helping her.
Moral of this story:
Keep alert of your surroundings folks.
Child kidnapping and sex trafficking are real and more widespread than people think.
God Bless this young girl and protect her and others from these predators.
Amen
Why does this have no replies? You saved someone’s life and deserve to be famous
@@Shroomy6223
Thank you for the too kind words.
I did the right thing and helped somebody who needed help.
I don't need or want to be famous.
Helping a fellow human being is the best reward.
Thanks again and stay safe.
God Bless.
Yeah you did this and other people get famous for dancing... just don't make sense.
God bless you!!
@@danasingleton4864
Thank you and God Bless you too.
Stay safe.
I remember working in a fast food place and a girl with her father came in. When I served her I noticed a black circle on the palm of her hand. Something seemed real off about her and him. I called my mom and she told me that circle was a call for help so I called the police. Turns out he kidnapped her from her mom as he was not allowed to see her. The girl said she read it in a book about the black circle and hoped someone would know what it meant as he threatened her if she tried to run or call for help. She was so thankful and still stays in touch with us to this day. Her father was in prison for fifteen years where he died of a massive heart attack a week before his parole. Sometimes justice does work out.
Thxs 4 info & story ❤
Wow you are a hero.....😍
And that worked out very well.
Instant karma! I didn't know about the black circle thank you
I had no idea about the black circle. Thank you for informing many of us who didn't know. I'm sure we will all pass that along to our friends and family. 👏
The cameraman during the act:
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😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
More like
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"Are you fucking recording?! 👺"
🤯🤣
I won't ruin the 666 likes
“Are you recording” got me laughing😂
Same
Poor cameraman’s invisibility potion just finished 😂
😂
yeah man "invincibility"
“Ermm… No man (under his breath) shit i thought my Invincibilty potion lasts longer than that!” 😂😂
Don’t you mean invisibility?
@@eeeeee3719 its just a mistake chill
Great message. Hope this helps someone.
Also, doesn't matter if acting is good or bad. I promise, someone out there needs to see this.
Granny
What do you mean is granny OK you have problem¿
@Alexis N. Real or not, you're absolutely right. People need to see this ! 😮😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes. Hope this helps anyone in need of assistance.
As a flight attendant this is NOT how we would go about it. Itll be more discreet; less noticeable for other passengers and the abuser. All in all this is just good for both crew and passengers on SITUATIONAL AWARENESS ❤
Exactly what i was thinking they made it so obvious
Yea you can tell this is fake lol
@@Earth-qe7jg THE ONE AND ONLY EARTH
How would you handle this? I’m genuinely curious
@@evacobabe6966 yea haha 😂
Imagine if the cup was facing the wrong way... 💀
Omg 😂😂
Than he would have said *"BABE WE HAVE TO GET OFF THIS PLANE RIGHT NOW, WERE GOOD ON THE COFFEE MAM NOW STEP OUT OF OUR WAY!"*
You idiots actually think this was real? 🤣
Omg imagine
😂
I was cabin crew for 10 years. Witnessed a couple going on honeymoon sat opposite me. When husband went to the lav she told me he had beat her the night before....on wedding night. Been together 2 years before marriage. Never violent before with her. She said she terrified. I got her seat in another cabin. Not allowed husband to enter other cabin. Told him police will arrest him on landing if he didn't comply with what he was told to do. I spoke to Captain and he came out spoke to her and we brought her back to u.k on our return flight. Left him alone in Cyprus. Wife was going home to get a divorce rolling,she not want to press charges. Sad to see the bruises he gave her.
Wow! Well done. 👏
You and the captains actions probably saved her life. Or at least made a life-changing impact on her life.
Be proud of yourself. 👍
I am so happy you and the captain helped her . I hope every captain 👩✈️ has stepped in when needed.!
Yes I knew my husband three years and two children later we got married he was verbally abusive in wedding day. And I was beaten up three days later he dislocated my daughters shoulder on wedding night by yanking on her arm the day after my wedding I was in a children’s hospital getting her shoulder fixed. I was beaten at least twice a week sometimes more n there were no rescues centre for abused woman in those days. No one would give me a place to rent and my mother refused to help me and wouldn’t hear a thing against him. 12 years later I found out he’d been done by police for grevious bodily harm against his first wife.
@@Bille62 I am so sorry for your pain! I hope you got away and I am so sorry for your daughter. I pray you got to remarry a very kind man father to your children
@@shirleycrook4610 I got my ducks in a row n went for third divorce try because my children were showing signs c of distress I met a rally kind man when I was done with men. It just happened we talked for hours. We ve been together now forty years. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night my children excelled at school and run their own businesses etc. I remarried but my ex has been a shadow all that time he shows me he’s never going away. But I live every day trying to get in with my life I no longer cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t cry in this relationship please please do not settle in this life for second best get organised lose weight if you feel better n more confident and save for when you need to break free. Make contingencies for a safe house to escape to a family members key temporarily. Stay on focus DO not weaken no matter what happens. For years he challenged my new husband I told him not to engage it takes two to fight. We made it thru. My ghost still won’t leave but we live our lives happily without engaging him as best we can. But it was still worth it all. I live with a kind man who makes me laugh and my children laugh. Please women stay focused and do it for your children if you’re to broken yourself your strength will grow and you will never want that pain in your lives agajn. And if you meet someone you’ve always felt you knew and he makes you smile and your children smile take it slow but let a good person in good luck stay strong x
Usually the abuser sits on the end so you cant talk to anyone.
Trust me,I know.
Mmhmmm
Ok
And so she's trapped and can't get out and if she wants to she has to ask for permission... I know his type
Yeah you know that because you watched red eye
İ suggest you stop abusing people then. 😂
Always carry a marker everywhere you go❤
I thought as much
I’m like fr going to keep one on me at all times, because who would be suspicious of it.
That's not fair to me bc I'm not going on
I don’t get it it may be fake but it’s a great message to those in trouble and yet you try to make this funny despite it may help a lot of people in trouble
More girls need to know about the marker
Several years ago, I was inside a convenience store at night, when the only other customer asked me to go with him to help him out with something (forget what it was). Anyway, the clerk very very subtly shook his head, thus making it much easier for me to decline. Only I noticed this. Sometime later, I later met that clerk and confirmed with him that I was not imagining his giving me a warning not to go out with that guy. He may have saved my life!
I remember when I worked at McDonald’s and a girl and her boyfriend came through the drive through, she did seem a little of to me she was trembling and her mascara was smudged around her eyes. I told her the total and she handed me a couple dollars but then the one on the top said help on it. I wanted to help her so I told her her food was taking longer than expected and I would need her to come inside to grab it. Surprisingly her boyfriend didn’t care about her going in by herself. We called the cops and after a while they told us that that was not the girl’s boyfriend it was her ex who she had a restraining order against him.
Good on you for your quick thinking and finding a way to separate the girl from her abuser! I hope that if I ever find myself in this type of situation I can come up with something just as clever. Sometimes I worry I might too emotional and panic ;-;
thank God you saved her 🙏 🙌
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Thank you for helping her
I love the firmness in her voice well done ❤
Would you like to buy some snake oil?
@@memphisdaniels3218🙄🙄
She did awsome job!!
This is fake! Duh!
Mom
Zuhdhxhdhdhufusysdmmmmmmmmmm
One time I was flying alone from Spain to Puerto Rico, and then Miami. Getting on the plane in Puerto Rico. This guy in a military uniform, followed me on the plane and ended up sitting next to me I could feel something was not right, so I was able to communicate with the stewardess, and she checked his seating and sure enough, his seat was way in the back. Before we took off, the police came and escorted him off the plane. That was really scary. Pay attention to your gut feeling and watch your surroundings always. Pay attention.
Flight Àttendants are trained for these situations!
What did he do? Besides, sit next to you
@@Yagirl73 nothing but when somethings wrong, you get a gut feeling. He followed me from the terminal out on the tarmac and into the plane, went to the back of the plane and then came back to me. Something just told me he was not right. Trust your gut.
@Bonnie Sheplar That's scary I been in a position like that as well. Always pay attention. I'm glad you're alright.
Dont everrrrrrrr ignore a gut feeling.....its better to be wrong.......then end up hostage victim...l...
I love her move thank you for saving her God bless you for helping her 🙏❤❤❤❤❤
camera mans invisibility potion ran out
😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
So true
😂😂😂
Over the course of 8 yrs as a flight attendant w a major carrier, I can tell you I had the Police meet the plane on at least 5 occasions. These are very serious scenarios when so many things can go wrong, so it is imperative to use an authoritative, take charge tone. This FA was Spot On with her Actions
Thank you for your service!
Lots of brave wonderful heroes out there special child trafficking so sad
It's fake tho
Thank you for your comment ! Thank you for being a flight attendant who caried enough to get envoled and save lives
I don’t know what airline you worked for… But that is the LAST thing they tell you to do!
is to confront, especially when you’re in flight!
Unless you have an air marshal aboard to cuff this fool !!! So he dont try to open doors !!
Common sense people.
The “are you recording?” At the end made it feel real
Yeah
Most definitely
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It really did
nah
The actors and actresses did a really good job.Huge respect
literally
Ooo
Sarcasm 100%
😂yeah
Cap
Things like this can happen. We need to take care of each other!
I have been taught that it is every man for themselves... 😔
Bro was recording
bruh this is goofy
very true.. just the other day I saw this headline "Local Woman Saved When Her Coffee Was Inexplicably Served In A Clear Plastic Cup And Then She Found Some Sort Of Way To Write A Message On It Hoping Against Hope The Flight Attendant Would Have A Giant Jug Of Creamer Rather Than The Tiny Little Cups Everyone Has And Then The Flight Attendant Over-Served The Creamer Revealing The Message And Then The Flight Attendant Took Her Away From Her Seat"
Nope your not my problem
It’s just a social experiment but this could happen irl
This is not a social experiment. It's not even a real fucking plane. There's no one in the other seats and also I think All of them would figure out that the person filming was filming.
Fr
Fr
@@PringlezCanwhy tf would they care
@@PringlezCanits a mock-scenario dont be a dick, Jesus, its to help people understand that this could happen and what to do if it does, idk who pissed in your fruitloops
Finally caught the cameraman 😳
Caught?? By a dangerous assh0le
He forgot to put creative mode
Fr
@@itsmestardustfr
His 8m onvisible Option rund out
Woooooow scary....the stewardess is better than the rest!!! Very good and empathic to resque her!
VERY GOOD AIR HOSTESS
Ikr ❤
Actually, I thought, of the THREE actors, she was the worst...lol
Haven't heard that word in decades. "Air hostess". Those were the days. 🖖👍
@@alexgutierrez5123 I still get asked if I want to go back to “Stewardessing” (Covid caused redundancy)
Both women could have been hurt speaking up . He could have flipped out. You have to be brave.
I remember my first solo International flight from New York to Stockholm. I was sitting next to a Finnish guy who asked if I had ever been to Stockholm before. He invited me to tour Stockholm with him before traveling to my final destination in Sweden. I didn't feel good about that and politely refused. Always follow your gut. Better safe than sorry! No regrets
I believe that God gave each of us that gut instinct and we need to learn to listen to that small voice inside.
I had a similar experience with Germany 🇩🇪 where he offered to drop me off my destination cos he had a car at the airport, I accepted and he did drop me off without any funny biz.. some honest people still exists.. just follow your heart with fingers crossed 🤞 😂
Most finnish People are honest and sincere. I have lived here in Finland for 23 years. Love my mom's country! 🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮
Look at him as though he's crazy with a real mean look on your face and very coldly and very loudly say
WHAT? WHAT? WHAT?
WHAT?
A total stranger, just keep your senses on alert,
I like this stewardess. She didn't waste any time in helping the girl.
FLIGHT ATTENDANT
This was staged...SURELY you can see that?
She should have waited before engaging like that. Take the drink, leave and get help before confrontation.
FLIGHT ATTENDANT ❗️❗️
Staged yes. Unfortunately she set off red flags. First with the gasp. Then instead of stupid lie of a seat that was loose she should have spilled the coffee and escorted her to the station to clean up. Then lock her in the cabin or where she'd be safe. Bad acting. BTW, where did the girl get a sharpie and a true trafficker or abuser, she would not have been allowed on the aisle. Duh
This actually happened once where a guy was clenching a girls arm and walking around the park and I didn't think much but then I looked at them and the guy got mad and started walking towards me and threatening me. I pulled my gun out and said back away. As I called the cops and she was safe. But buddy on the other hand got some sweet jail time. She looked like she still had hope in her eyes when she saw me stand up in front of him. Truly a sad moment.
I dont believe that 💀
You carry a gun around? Your the one needing jail time💀💀💀💀💀
And then you woke up
@@bIuecap This was the whole point 😭 and 18 people fell for it
@@Roboseal2 💀 it takes a cap to know a cap
I know probably not the best acting and best storyline but still I love how it actually can help a person if he/she is in danger.❤
When they gon write on their cup?? 😂
@@payton3673 that is why I told that probably not the best storyline but it is best to ask for help when in trouble instead of staying shut trying to fund a way is what to learn
Ya
So fake
@@payton3673😂😂😂
Whether this was real or not the lady was smart the way she alerted the flight attendant. And the flight attendant handled that very well.
And your point is what should come to mind!!❤
Rose”You really show your age with this comment
How did she get the marker?When was she able to write message?
@@DenfordAshmeade I was wondering the same thing.
@@DenfordAshmeade that’s what I’m wondering also did she just ask for a cup but to fill after writing on it but they would’ve saw the writing unless she covered it or something
The cup of coffee deserves an Oscar
Jesus loves us and died for us
In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light. Genesis 1:1-3 ✝🌅
Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. John 8:12 ✝🌅
What's the need to tell this over here
He was much better than that Starbucks cup in Game of Thrones
@@joab124 Amen my brother/sister in Christ🙏🙌
How did she get to write that on the cup without him noticing it .
Even if it was only a joke “ I see it as a message for people who can possibly be in such situations.” IDEAS ON HOW TO SAVE YOUR LIFE AND SEEK HELP
Dam that phrasing implies that males can’t be in this situation which tbh is kinda fucked up
@@dinnerlord65 males are also victims of sexual and domestic abuse… Should’ve said “people” and not “ladies” ? 😅
@@preciouswilliams686 yeah?
@@dinnerlord65 imma change it just for you. 😊
@@preciouswilliams686 thank you how actually nice of you😊
Moral of the story :There is no power of invisibility for every cameramen.
😂😂😂
Has not invisibly is crazy
😂
Invisibility potion has wore off!!!
Skill issues
No matter what… Always help someone… Use body language, shivers or just stares can go a long way. You don’t know the half of the abuse. You don’t know their struggles. Even if their your enemy, HELP! You could stop murders or r@pes
Or she crazy not like he going into the womens bathroom with her in a public place she could litterally just ask anyone verbaly, even tsa agent as they are getting scanned in.
Ya it’s fake
@@rstubbs23still a very real situation
I've been through those struggles my mom died of cancer when I was 4 and my stepmother I'd so mean she yells at me and hits me for no reason my sister died of cancer too my dogs Buster and Bella died My stepmom makes me hide it from my dad now my Dad's my only loving parent
@@rstubbs23 we are aware its fake only people actually believe it and think that women do end up in these situations with torturers. In reality people do have falling outs and people snap and in the process people get hurt sometimes(both women and men!) but the theory crafting bitchen want to spin tales of signs and voodoo and psychologist chime in aproval to justify their cake ass existance.
Excellent presence of mind was shown by the air hostess👍
IT IS A TRAINING VIDEO ... FOR THE
FLIGHT ATTENDANT ✈️
@@jillgibson8550 🤔In my opinion it's not a training video as in the end he was shouting at another passenger for making his video.
@anitahossain2207 it's totally a training video. Notice that the plane is silent. All of the windows are closed because there's no view because it's a set. The wall of the plane is coming apart (wait... could be a Boeing plane. Lol)
Yes. Kudos to her. The right action and the right tone. Hope all is well ❤ with all concerned.
Lol 😂 when he said “wait you recording!?”
I seem to recall incident not too long ago where something similar to this happened, but they didn't say anything, the pilot returned the plane to the airport and then the police came on board.
Wowww that’s crazy
Hey, thanks for trying to be relevant
That's even a better way to handle this. That stewardess was incredible. She showed no emotion, just got that young girl away from that creep.
Yup
Happened at a veterinarian office. The cctv footage is on yt but it was on news for a bit. She had been abducted. Scary
I'm just curious how she was able to write on the cup without him seeing?
He was sleeping
It was fake 😂
@@JoaquinOlmedoNo @paigewood9685 was sleeping 😂
She probably waited for him to fall asleep
@Sunflower lol I guess so cause I didn't realize that until yall said something
Some years ago I encountered a young woman that was being held by a man she met working at a club, he would make his young son stay w her so she couldn't get away the boy followed her to the bus stop she tried to get help from others and they told her to get away. She came to me and told me what was happening and begged me to act like a family friend she just came upon til her rescue ride came. I asked her to give me her mom's info so I could call her and let her know she made it to her ride. This man seriously was trying to keep her I told that lil boy to go home. She would be right there I would watch her. A blue car came and that baby ran for her life. The boy and his daddy came running but they were too late and because there were so many out there he got scared and left. I called her mother as soon as I got to work. The girl called the next day. The man was her family lawyer and flew her back to New York. She was safe thank God. That was in 1999. In Louisville KY. Please keep your young people close and safe. This stuff happens everyday.
Wow goos story
Are you okay
Dam
Dayum😮😢
Woah that's a long story
The idea is real but this particular situation is acting. I've seen this video many times before used for multiple other things. The cup trick (along with these same actors) has been used for "Will you marry me", "#1 Mom" and "Guess Who" when a soldier came home.
FINALLY THEY CAUGHT CAMERAMAN
FR 🗣🗣🗣
FR 🗣🗣🗣
yes
NO no...😅
FR 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️
People need to keep their eyes open in society as this happens and the victims struggle to ask for help. Keep eyes open people...😢
Correct 💯😢
Bro 😂😂😂 holi ka😂😂😂😂😂
@@ayesharileyrivera1662 whats funny?
We do need people like this, may God bless her
It’s fake
No entiendo
All any woman on a plane has to do is stand up and say help, and the police will get involved at the end of the flight
At least ur heart is in the right place ur brain however......... No.
Blessed the man recording😊😊😂
This is a training film. If you look in the background, they aren't even on a plane. Still, it's good information to know. One wonders how she obtained a magic marker and when she had the privacy to write on a cup.
I wondered as well
The background very much looks like on a plane only.
Many people carry a marker or pen in their pocket on a regular basis, & all she would have to do was turn her cup away from him & be discrete .👍
@@alicereeves8987 exactly
@@alicereeves8987 *DISCREET* ☮️
That is the quietest aeroplane ever
Most are I ride jet blue and have had only 2 times where a child was loud
@@lilbabya. yeah but you can still hear like the jets and the air
@@sandwich6626 that’s true I never thought of that I’m used to tuning that out lol
airplane??
Yea i wish a airplane could actually be like that it would be soo good No crying,no coughing no engines noise etc
Even if you’re not a flight attendant and you see someone at the airport, looking down, look depressed, and a walking with a man or a woman or with multiple people you get help immediately get attention to them real quick if you’re on a plane and the stewardess has not noticed them yet, and you see something wrong, even if it’s just a hunch get the stewardess attention to them because kidnapping and child trafficking is real and if there’s nobody there to help you then let’s roll. I’m putting him down plain and simple.
@Carey What happened
@@sinahazar3238 ... They had...
Wait for it...
BIG MACS!!
Traducción
No you're not, he'd traffic you immediately and you'd be sitting there with a cup of coffee next to him.
@@mikehunnilingus1195 you sound like you’re trafficker of children little girls and or a little boys or young girls or young boys in the way that you have given a negative reply to my statement in protecting young people and little children and being trafficking, or active being trafficking, I’m going to send your statement of reply to UA-cam and Facebook. And the F.B.I. You need to be investigated and that’s no joke. This is not fake news. I’m gonna put you on the radar Mr. just a word of note as a former Marine, nobody gonna traffic me, I will definitely notify your statement TO UA-cam and to Facebook, and including the FBI and that’s not fake news mr. yes you definitely need to be investigated. Now say no to that Mr.
This is very informative , didn’t know this was so prevalent!😮
This is a great lesson to learn. Stewardesses & flight attendants will not do what she did because it would put not only the girl but everyone on that flight in Jeopardy. What she would do is immediately give the girl some sense of we got this and then immediately notify the captain and the captain will notify the airport control where ever they are landing and when they land, he will announce to please be patient we’re waiting to be told to Park at whatever door and while he is saying all that he is already parked and the police would immediately board that plane. It happened to me and my family on a flight to Dallas, and no one on the flight new anything was happening until 4 Dallas police officers in full bulletproof gear came aboard.
Yeah. That's a better move.
Oh wow, very discreet and professional!
HUYYYY KÉ FÁCILLLL
Can someone please explain better what the guys intentions were ‘cause it looks to like he was disappointed over a plan that I am not getting right. ❤.
That makes sense. What a blessing that you and your family made it through the situation.
Flight attendants, this is so NOT the way to handle this situation. DO NOT create a confrontation! Alert the captain. He will alert authorities. Your job is to make sure the kid knows her message is received without alerting the bad guy.
Your reply makes total sense. The situation can escalate, especially on a long flight
I thought the same
Yes
Yes I agree.
My doctors office has red and black markers in the restroom. If you are in need of help, you can write a message in red and leave it in the urine specimen nook.
They will help you.
if more people stepped up like the flight attendant, we could all be safer, hats off to her!
ITS FAKE ALL THESE IDIOTS VIDS ARE FAKE
It's a reenactment.
They are trained to look for people who being trafficed
Its a fake video genius! Its very rare to have a phone on in a plane and have a person videotape you at the right time and place like you see here!
@@LJBSullivan Its a fake video you fool! Lol
The " are you recording" i can't 😂 but poor woman 😢❤
This probably wasn't real but a great message on how to get away from a person who's abusive.
This is definitely not real .
Yeah, let me use a permanent marker ans color those words in without being caught!
Yes....I agree with you
Maybe in z pinch it gets across fir help..where would he go mid flight.
it would be worth the risk of discovery on a plane in flight...no where to go.
Yeah on a plane is the perfect place huh? 🤔
When I worked in a xray department we used to get women coming in who had swallowed razor blades and batteries. They had to be kept in for a few days until they had passed through them. That kept them away from their abusive partners for a few days. It is hard to imagine what they go through to take such drastic measures.
That's horrible 😔😔
OMG😢
Still see this to this day.😢😢😢
Why don’t you call the cops instead of giving them a break?
I love how the aircraft is fully quiet like it was off xD. Amazing acting. ;-;
The man needs to get off the plane and be questioned by the airport security for one whole day until they find his real identity. Human trafficking should be put to stop now!!!
Seeing things like this making me question everything I see everyday different places and I'm more hyper-vigilant
Do you people think this is real 🤣😂?? WTF
@Krissy Randolph. You have perfectly fine started your sentence by saying that this man must have got off the plane. But not to be heard by the authorities... He must have got out of the plane through the cargo door and in full flight. This is what he deserves! No Jail for Kidnappers Rapists!! This f will save $80,000 per year to society and taxpayers!
@@stpbasss3773
This happens everyday all over the world. This video may have been staged but it does not mean human trafficking is not a real bad problem.
This is a show, y'all. Fr shits sake.
as a real flight attendant we are trained to notify the captain as well as proper authorities on the ground in order not to escalate the situation in the air or make it seem like we know what’s going on so that the perpetrator doesn’t react violently.
He is extremely handsome. If I was there and he was about to get violent, I'd just sit on him to calm him down
@@marioluigi9599 bro what 💀
@@The.3.Cockatiels like sit on his lap you know for enjoyment reasons
But now the world knows because you said something. You should delete your comment. I doubt you’re a real flight attendant. If you are, you ought to know better than to elaborate on security procedures.
@@vleak76 Like thats a big secret?? smh
Over the years as a bartender you learn a few things that could possibly help save someone's life. If your ever in need of getting out of a bad situation, ask your bartender or even server for an Angel shot. They will immediately take action and do what they can to help you. If for some reason they don't know what your talking about, politely ask them to look up the ingredients, tell em its your favorite. Upon looking it up they will see exactly what you mean and can at that point help you. Please stay safe, this is a crazy world we live in 🙏💕
Wow, very helpful information!
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I will tell my daughter this. She was nearly abducted in a popular bar where college liked to visit.
Do u really think shots is the right move
Ex bartender thanks because I have never heard of THAT
Bro made the THE ROOK FACE
The most important lesson is to ask for and get help when needed. Whatever it takes, do it to get out of a bad situation.
that is basically saying: if ur homeless just buy a house
Sometimes it's NOT that easy
This happens more than people know. We were trained in various "assisting" methods and what to watch for.
It boggles my mind that people think flight attendants are just there to serve beverages and make sure you have on your seatbelt.
Thank you for taking your training seriously and for being there for the passengers in so many crazy situations! ❤️❤️
@M F Thank you for that. There is so much more to working for the airlines than people realize. Most people are fine with whatever happens as long as they are informed. It's the Karens that think they're entitled to receive v.i.p. service no matter the distress to "others".
@@mf5985 Much respect for flight attendants. People think the same about nurses sometimes, too!
@@chickadeetle you are so right!!!
I'm a former teacher ( mom now) and people have lots of misconceptions about us, as well. Wouldn't it be nice if we could all just honor and respect each other's gifts, abilities and dang hard work?? ❤️❤️❤️
Your response is statistically incorrect!
Simp harder
Now, ladies and gentlemen, if you’re ever in a bad situation like this, all you need is a clear plastic cup a waterproof, black sharpie, super black coffee and hope that the stewardess travels with a gallon of cream instead of a the little individual creamers. Also remember the stewardess must poured it for you, and she must pay attention.
Ok. I'll keep that in mind next time I'm drinking hot coffee in a plastic cup.
@@JeniahJones😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@JeniahJones😂😂😂😂
Why would you make fun of this ? People go through this horrible experience daily . Some loss there life .
@@ladyhooch37because its fake as fu××
SUCH A GOOD WOMAN! GOD BLESS HER ❤❤
The girl pulled a genius stunt. I'm glad the airline stewardess was quick-witted.
I'm glad this was fake
Tell me you don’t believe this is real
It's fake, and stupid.....since when do stewardesses wear those stupid hats? Should have been your first clue
Wait, you do realize this is not real.....right?
I don't believe this was real.
The flight attendant is a hero. So happy she paid attention.
They were actors.
It’s. Not. Real
Omg please tell me you don't think this video is real?!
@@mistybollinger3312 I made the comment based on the video. Just like I would say if I were watching my favorite actress in a movie. We know they aren’t real.
When the guy asked was he recording the pass pinked out
It’s a great skit to show you ways to communicate that you’re in distress without actually saying it. Good job 👍🏼
I agree!
ThEre’S A fLoOd NeAr my LoCaTiOn HeLp💀😭
It's not about the quality of their acting. It's simply a demonstration.
Thaanku.... exactly
A demonstration of how bad acting can get.
Amen.
A demonstration of what? It’s an asinine attempt to Garner views from foolish people.
@@johnbumpus7138
Well, you just helped boost the algorithm by your comment so there’s that lol.
Btw, who hurt you, causing you to be so rude to people? Regardless of the acting, the message was and is important for people in abusive relationships seeking help.
Always attempt to pay attention to one's eyes ,they can tell you something
Like how my eyes tell me this video is fake lol
Dwayne Johnson
Jwuysya
kind😅😅😅😅😅I thinlll
Not my eyes!!! They are constantly twitching, 😖 lol 😂
I was pregnant with my first baby in 1989. I was in a shopping mall by myself and about 8 months along. I was riding the escalator and in front of me going up was a man in a suit with a baby stroller. He was alone. We got to the floor above and he stopped and adjusted his glasses, looked around, and I saw CRAZY eyes and I glanced into the stroller and there was a DOLL in it! I got chills, found a security guard nearby miraculously, told him that creepy guy over there has a doll in that carriage and I think he’s gonna switch it out for a REAL baby while a new mom isn’t paying attention! The security guard took me seriously and went over to the pedo and I high-tailed it outta that mall ! I just had a horrible gut feeling about that guy and I never forgot it. I can still see his gray jacket and crazy eyes and that doll after 33+ years. If something doesn’t look or feel right, trust your gut. You have God in your side and together you just might save a life! 🙏❤️
Good for you for alerting security. So many people fail to listen to their gut instincts but r don't want to get into involved. Also smart to leave the mall.
SMART THINKING ! ! ! In cases where somebody's safety is at stake it's far better to make a mistake and embarrass yourself or others than it is to err in the other direction. By protecting ourself from embarrassment we could be allowing somebody to be seriously hurt or worse.
Not very well said but I hope people understand.
Never hesitate to help if there might be danger.
Reading this gave me chills 😨
@@dancingfirefly7761 I thought he would hold me captive and steal my baby when it was born! This was 1989! God only knows if he was caught/stopped. I pray...
Super reagiert! Ich glaube ich wäre zu dumm gewesen, zu verstehen, dass er die Puppe austauschen würde. Darum hätte ich ihn sogar laufen lassen. 🤔
‘R u recording 😡😡🤨’
*as suspicious as can be no*
Love these informative messages. Gives those in bad situations hope. Love the ones with the children as well . Thank you for sharing this. ❤❤
We should all be alert to people's cries for help.
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾♥️ your message. People need to stop focusing on their gadgets, rather be more aware of their surroundings.
@@ntandosekay 😊😊😊😊
@@ntandosekay I Love YOUR MESSAGE Too!!❤❤❤ So many people lost in their own worlds, gadgets usually just as you said. Most of them miss the world that's happening around them. It has made our world so disengaged however I think that is changing. I hope it is, I hope people see all the need for companionship. They tried to take that away from us with the lockdowns, the masks, the fear of being near another. Let's not let their awful attempts at separating us from each other continue, we are so much more than that. ☮💜💡
Even fake ones for youtube views?
if i were the flight attendant, I would "accidentally" spill the drink on her, and help her to the bathroom while apologizing profusely. That would be a much safer way to get her away from this guy than screaming "UNHAND HER, NOW SIR"
Sounds like it would work better however, if the coffee were to be dumped into her lap, the cup would be empty and that would allow anyone to see what was written on it
agreed
😅😅
I think it was hot coffee, but the milk maybe... yes 👍 😀
Exactly 😂
Great acting skills the actors need to be hired in the next Star Wars Jurassic park world 5 star Gordon Ramsay show rated pg in theateres on July 1st
This really does Happen. The captain would have been the other way though.
But this would never happen on an airplane because as soon as go to check in looking scared like that or anyting they're going to start questioning and all the person would have to say is the guy behind me is going to hurt me and boom they would have him. They would never get on the plane
The cart was in the way. So they had to go the other direction to go around. It's a smart move on their part.
If the captain is in the back, then who's flying the plane? 😱😂😂😂
Right
Yeah except no one saves them. Not like this. This is so unreal. Traffickers don't take you single handed on a plane. It's nice a PR though be aware always of your surroundings and of others. If more people were aware...
Every moment in our lives today, we need to be on the alert!
Yes! But there's always that ONE moment when we drop our guard.
... and "ON GUARD!!!" ALLLLLL...
Day EVERY DAYYYYY...
Just was mentioning this to my husband. I said we really need to start paying attention. Too much going on. Make eye contact people. Someone might need it desperately. 💔🙏🏻
que pena que no se ingles😠
All flight attendants need to be trained like this & especially for trafficking
Exactly
We do but this wouldn’t be the correct interaction while we’re flying in the air. We stay calm try not to cause an altercation in the aircraft to keep the integrity of the flight and all passengers safe.. if possible reassure victim that they will be helped and to stay calm.. call the captain and have authorities meet us when we land.
But how the up
Would display these words ??!
What’s the magic trick
??!
In the midst of us all
Maybe imply theyre TAKING Her to the bathroom because she looks like shes gonna be iLLl instead? Instead of the agressive lie about the seat... Makes the man more suspicious
ARE YOU RECORDING? killed me😂😂😂😂
In this situation, the flight attendant can purposely spill the creamer or coffee (drink) on the victim, so that the flight attendant can give an excuse to remove the girl from the seat.
Yeah, you should have written the script.
I agree. Spill the creamer.
Genius!!
Burn her at same time yea ok no problem omg
Good thinking!
If a flight attendant reacted this way, passengers’ lives would be on the line. The flight attendant has to notify the captain first and the captain notifies the officials on land to arrest the kidnapper and protect the victim. All done very discretely so that everything runs smoothly.
Wow....thats what happend one Time back in 1996 when i was 17!!... We fly from London to Netherlands for our swimming contest ( i am greek) ..WE didnt understand literally anything until WE landing ..police came in and all screaming ...and me i was liké this:😳thank god they arrest him 🙏! I Hope no one have this expérience again
@Sandra Walker thank goodness, finally somebody with sense and a brain to see that this was totally fake, I can't believe some people thought it was real! And you're absolutely right they would never handle it this way! TSA actually have code words for these type of situations. And one of them is the flight attendant telling the pilot that the plane is overweight. And the pilot so there's no suspicion to anybody and nobody gets hurt, says that we are landing at this airport because we have found out there is more weight on the plane and suspected. Or they make up the "we are running low on fuel" reason. 👏👏👏👏
@@angelnwaiting34 It's my understanding that the plane had not left the ground yet. And that police boarded the plane before it left and arrested the man.
Some will say that drinks aren't passed out while on the ground. I've been on plane awaiting takeoff and have had attendants give out drinks. It has to do with a plane awaiting some person or parcel that's running late. Likely from another plane that's running late.
Don’t be beating upon the flight attendant too much. She’s not trained to deal with this situation. She did the best she could.
Exactly! She wouldn't just grab the girl and take her to the captain!
I personally think this is a really good video that makes it clear to people that this is happening I have seen this up close for example there was a little girl who looked very sad but then you think it probably won't be anything bad but when she passed a sign came she wrote help while pretending to trip so that the man who held her the whole time couldn't see it and then I called the police together with my father and pretended to ask the man something so that we would have time could stretch and eventually the police came and they arrested the man and the girl turned out to be missing but she is now back with her family but this doesn't happen often usually people just let it pass but this shouldn't happen again
Das Kind hat dir viel zu verdanken. Gut, dass du so aufmerksam bist. Du hättest auch ununterbrochen in dein Handy schauen können und hättest die wichtige Botschaft verpasst. 👏🏻👍🏻🙏🏻💫
Thank you so much for taking action. Often people won't get involved.
Did i just read a lesson on conjunctions?
your awesome thank you you were her Angel!!!
@@anneboynton7477 thank you this is sooo nice it really touches me
at first i thought it was fine until i saw help me on the cup
This is why people need to walk with eyes up.
Yes instead of phones in their faces 24/7 the world is going crazy and NO ONE talks or takes notice anymore, their phones are in the way ….no life just their phone ….crazy !
I love how the flight attendant handled the situation calmly
it's all acted
Ja Vielleicht Aber kann doch echt sein niemand weiß es😢❤😊
Please don’t tell me you fell for it too😳😳🙄🤦🏽♂️😂
Fake
@@anthonylofton32😮😅 is she OK?
There needs to be more people to care and get involved. Just like the flight attendant. It is your business when someone is in trouble
This is staged and they're on a fake plane but the Purpose of giving a captive escape ideas is great
YA!! Thank you 🙏 n sorry. Some of us really do need to be told that for different reasons ❤😊 peace
that part 🙌 I'm tired of people saying mind your own when really that does nothing to help a bad situation.
@@pinkrizo3815 😊
A@@arkathborjanzedrag2145
bro did the sigma face when she left💀
Great ideas and great suggestions for those who've been kidnapped. I hope no one ever needs this advice, but I pray for their safety if they ever do. 🙏
Those of us who have not experienced physical fear in a relationship take that comfort for granted. Sadly abuse goes on way more than we realize.
Yes it does
I'm trapped
@@allieelectra23 what do you mean? Trapped in a relationship?
@@crmay72 he won't let me leave
@@allieelectra23 that's not good. Do you have any sources out there that could help you work on an escape plan?
Well, this is very educational tbh.
More then once I've had to call the police to help a neighbor in apartments I've lived in over the years being abused. Some thank me and some would get made at me. I now have a better understanding of why cause at least back then police rarely actually did much to the abuser and even if they went to jail it was only for a day or two and were worse when they got back. One time though there was this lady at a gas station asking for help. I told the attendant and he and I helped her disappear into the bathroom. The attendant kept the man's attention while I guided her to the bathroom. I stood in front of the door blocking it telling him I was waiting for a friend to come out when he tried to get past me once the attendant went to go to the backroom to call the police. Before that I had already called the police because of what the guy was doing to her outside before they went in. So the police arrived pretty quickly...plus the station wasn't that far away either. The man ran away while the lady police chased him down. I kinda thought that was some justice that he was tackled to the ground by a lady cop
I was thinking of telling my daughter to take her 1 year old son for a walk outside. Even just around the block. Then I started to think that if someone was going to kidnap the baby she would have to fight real hard against a grown ass man. She's only 5'1 and she would give all her strength to try and save her baby
Then I thought that. That's a bad idea with good intentions because she could easily get overcome by him trying to steal her child. So now I tell her to wait until her strong ass and kind boyfriend gets home from work for safety reasons. The perpetrator will not attempt a kidnapping when there are 2 able body adults there to fight like hell to protect their child. Great job flight attendant DEMANDING THAT THE MAN LET GO OF HER AND HER STRENGTH AND KNOWLEDGE OF THE PLANE AND SHE'S GOT THE BALLS TO DEMAND THAT MAN TO LET GO OF HER. God bless all. You really have to be on your toes watching every little thing because it may be a really big deal. Don't know if this is acting or not but it is sooo important to watch out for yourself and your neighbors 😢 it takes a village remember to watch out for others as well as yourself ❤
I've been abused for years and I still am being abused
@@emmaocarroll2599 lol and making a random post on a random video is probably the best way to handle that 🙄
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You almost made me read an essay
I was at Walmart one night in May Landing NJ. My ex husband was very abusive. I ran away from him and Walmart, running down the street, hiding in the trees and behind buildings until I got to a house that always had a huge beautiful Christmas tree. Thankfully, they let me use their phone to get a ride. I went back a few weeks later with a bunch of Easter directions. (They decorated every holiday) was super grateful they saved me from another beating!
My name is Dorothy
Bless you Dorothy, I hope you find peace, happiness,comfort,shelter, and a better way.
God bless you I hope your doing ok !!
I am happy uou safe wow 🙏 to lord ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
I believe they are trying to show people the different ways you can ask for help without the person knowing. Not a bad idea
Where did she get a marker from
How would you write this on the cup without him seeing? And if you could, why not just write it on a note? Lol
It kind of is because you can’t buy a coffee cup without coffee in it and write help
@@juanrodriguezcepeda331 from Pharmacy ...Cabron
Not real people. But a good lesson to use all resources and to be aware.
Great message! But I was asking myself, when and how did she write "Help Me" on the cup,without him seeing her? Besides that, very much needed video! 🙏🏽💜💜
Does not matter. It's possible that it could happen. Most times they would not have a Marker let's pray they would have one. If it were me I would pretend to be sick and need help
They all did great acting
EXACTLY
On a crowded flight why can't she stand up and state that she's being held against her will? Or create any disturbance. A much more helpful video would be to recognize the signs of someone who is afraid for whatever reason to try to notify anyone.
Without the training would the flight attendant have yelled at her for writing on the cup or something. Maybe she would have said that she already helped by putting creamer in your coffee.
Edit: removal immediately from seat instead of walking of and telling a coworker or something is important
Seen a story where, at a bar, they had posters in the women's bathroom where if they ordered certain named drink than the bartender would know if they needed assistant or was in distress. Very helpful in this day in time! People are scarily sneaky and my friend dealt with something during a girl's night out. Didn't find out till years later and I still feel the guilt.
It wasn't your fault, it was the offenders' fault. I never blamed my friends for not realizing I had been drugged. I understand why you'd feel that way, but something like that is hard to catch especially when you're intoxicated yourself. Much love and I hope your friend is doing well.
Make a plan for your safety. A stupid really short guy tried to force his ugly self in to my life at a free food pantry. I reported him and he backed away from me. I begged him to get away from me, he came to my table and sat all close and got personal. Talking about his sex life. I never saw him in my life. He was really stupid. Thank God I was able to go in the building as a volunteer.
I don't go to bars anymore but i have heard about this and it is a very good idea.
Angel shot
People? Sad excuses for MEN I would say