You're the first sensible person I've came across on UA-cam in an extremely long time. You realize that it's not an actual abduction, but a lesson on how to handle the situation. You're going to be the first person that I'm going to follow, if you don't mind. ( UA-camrs are becoming more like TikTokers)
I worked at a convenient store one time. A lady came in shaking and just seemed different. She was paying for gas and very lightly whispered "help please". So I took her to the back room and asked her what was going on. Come to find out the guy she was with was beating her and wouldn't let her go home to her family. I called the cops and the guy flipped out cause he couldn't find her and was pissed. Thankfully the cops weren't to far away and they took care of the situation. She came back to the store a few months after that and you could see a major change in her. She was so happy and couldn't stop thanking me for saving her.
@@curiouscanuck protections and securities that's all we need the most. And the major problems are anti-citizens. Don't be afraid to help someone if you see anything like that around you. They have a big racket and they must be in custody.
I was in a store once and a young girl was holding hands with an older guy and he wouldn't let her alone. The young girl looked like she was very distressed. I made up a story and asked the young girl if she was related to a person I knew. She didn't look at me and the guy said she wasn't. It just didn't feel right so I went up to a salesperson and told them I needed to talk to the manager. I told the manager what was going on and she went over to the guy and said she saw him stealing something and the police would be called. The guy went ballistic, started yelling and cursing and tried to run out of the store dragging the girl with him. I grabbed the guy and another guy in the store helped me subdue him and kept him from leaving the store with the girl. The young girl started crying and we pulled her free from the guy. She was shaking uncontrollably and passed out. The cops arrived and took the guy into custody and the girl was questioned by a female police officer. It turned out the girl had been kidnapped in South Carolina and the guy was on his way to the west coast with the girl. The young girl couldn't stop thanking the store manager and the other guy and myself for helping her. Moral of this story: Keep alert of your surroundings folks. Child kidnapping and sex trafficking are real and more widespread than people think. God Bless this young girl and protect her and others from these predators. Amen
@@Shroomy6223 Thank you for the too kind words. I did the right thing and helped somebody who needed help. I don't need or want to be famous. Helping a fellow human being is the best reward. Thanks again and stay safe. God Bless.
I remember working in a fast food place and a girl with her father came in. When I served her I noticed a black circle on the palm of her hand. Something seemed real off about her and him. I called my mom and she told me that circle was a call for help so I called the police. Turns out he kidnapped her from her mom as he was not allowed to see her. The girl said she read it in a book about the black circle and hoped someone would know what it meant as he threatened her if she tried to run or call for help. She was so thankful and still stays in touch with us to this day. Her father was in prison for fifteen years where he died of a massive heart attack a week before his parole. Sometimes justice does work out.
I had no idea about the black circle. Thank you for informing many of us who didn't know. I'm sure we will all pass that along to our friends and family. 👏
A good thing to say as to why the captain needs to see her...her seat number was a chosen winner, something we do on every flight...lol!?!? Only one person is allowed...lol! Very good message!
Merci c'est vraiment super ce que vous faites. Je prêterai plus d'attention à ce signe que je ne connaissais pas du tout. Toutes les idées aussi discrètes doivent être transmises si ça sauve des vies de femmes, hommes et enfants battues et ou maltraités .Merci beaucoup et bonne continuation.
I don’t get it it may be fake but it’s a great message to those in trouble and yet you try to make this funny despite it may help a lot of people in trouble
I remember when I worked at McDonald’s and a girl and her boyfriend came through the drive through, she did seem a little of to me she was trembling and her mascara was smudged around her eyes. I told her the total and she handed me a couple dollars but then the one on the top said help on it. I wanted to help her so I told her her food was taking longer than expected and I would need her to come inside to grab it. Surprisingly her boyfriend didn’t care about her going in by herself. We called the cops and after a while they told us that that was not the girl’s boyfriend it was her ex who she had a restraining order against him.
Good on you for your quick thinking and finding a way to separate the girl from her abuser! I hope that if I ever find myself in this type of situation I can come up with something just as clever. Sometimes I worry I might too emotional and panic ;-;
As a flight attendant this is NOT how we would go about it. Itll be more discreet; less noticeable for other passengers and the abuser. All in all this is just good for both crew and passengers on SITUATIONAL AWARENESS ❤
I was cabin crew for 10 years. Witnessed a couple going on honeymoon sat opposite me. When husband went to the lav she told me he had beat her the night before....on wedding night. Been together 2 years before marriage. Never violent before with her. She said she terrified. I got her seat in another cabin. Not allowed husband to enter other cabin. Told him police will arrest him on landing if he didn't comply with what he was told to do. I spoke to Captain and he came out spoke to her and we brought her back to u.k on our return flight. Left him alone in Cyprus. Wife was going home to get a divorce rolling,she not want to press charges. Sad to see the bruises he gave her.
Yes I knew my husband three years and two children later we got married he was verbally abusive in wedding day. And I was beaten up three days later he dislocated my daughters shoulder on wedding night by yanking on her arm the day after my wedding I was in a children’s hospital getting her shoulder fixed. I was beaten at least twice a week sometimes more n there were no rescues centre for abused woman in those days. No one would give me a place to rent and my mother refused to help me and wouldn’t hear a thing against him. 12 years later I found out he’d been done by police for grevious bodily harm against his first wife.
@@Bille62 I am so sorry for your pain! I hope you got away and I am so sorry for your daughter. I pray you got to remarry a very kind man father to your children
@@shirleycrook4610 I got my ducks in a row n went for third divorce try because my children were showing signs c of distress I met a rally kind man when I was done with men. It just happened we talked for hours. We ve been together now forty years. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night my children excelled at school and run their own businesses etc. I remarried but my ex has been a shadow all that time he shows me he’s never going away. But I live every day trying to get in with my life I no longer cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t cry in this relationship please please do not settle in this life for second best get organised lose weight if you feel better n more confident and save for when you need to break free. Make contingencies for a safe house to escape to a family members key temporarily. Stay on focus DO not weaken no matter what happens. For years he challenged my new husband I told him not to engage it takes two to fight. We made it thru. My ghost still won’t leave but we live our lives happily without engaging him as best we can. But it was still worth it all. I live with a kind man who makes me laugh and my children laugh. Please women stay focused and do it for your children if you’re to broken yourself your strength will grow and you will never want that pain in your lives agajn. And if you meet someone you’ve always felt you knew and he makes you smile and your children smile take it slow but let a good person in good luck stay strong x
very true.. just the other day I saw this headline "Local Woman Saved When Her Coffee Was Inexplicably Served In A Clear Plastic Cup And Then She Found Some Sort Of Way To Write A Message On It Hoping Against Hope The Flight Attendant Would Have A Giant Jug Of Creamer Rather Than The Tiny Little Cups Everyone Has And Then The Flight Attendant Over-Served The Creamer Revealing The Message And Then The Flight Attendant Took Her Away From Her Seat"
@@payton3673 that is why I told that probably not the best storyline but it is best to ask for help when in trouble instead of staying shut trying to fund a way is what to learn
Mas aquele que beber da água que eu lhe der nunca terá sede, porque a água que eu lhe der se fará nele uma fonte de água que salte para a vida eterna. João 4:14 .
Over the years as a bartender you learn a few things that could possibly help save someone's life. If your ever in need of getting out of a bad situation, ask your bartender or even server for an Angel shot. They will immediately take action and do what they can to help you. If for some reason they don't know what your talking about, politely ask them to look up the ingredients, tell em its your favorite. Upon looking it up they will see exactly what you mean and can at that point help you. Please stay safe, this is a crazy world we live in 🙏💕
Staged yes. Unfortunately she set off red flags. First with the gasp. Then instead of stupid lie of a seat that was loose she should have spilled the coffee and escorted her to the station to clean up. Then lock her in the cabin or where she'd be safe. Bad acting. BTW, where did the girl get a sharpie and a true trafficker or abuser, she would not have been allowed on the aisle. Duh
WOW that flight attendant was an angel in disguise. Glad she was able to help the lady in danger. Hope authorities were called upon to fixate this fine gentleman right where he belongeth! Behind BARŞ!!
@@DenfordAshmeade that’s what I’m wondering also did she just ask for a cup but to fill after writing on it but they would’ve saw the writing unless she covered it or something
Over the course of 8 yrs as a flight attendant w a major carrier, I can tell you I had the Police meet the plane on at least 5 occasions. These are very serious scenarios when so many things can go wrong, so it is imperative to use an authoritative, take charge tone. This FA was Spot On with her Actions
I don’t know what airline you worked for… But that is the LAST thing they tell you to do! is to confront, especially when you’re in flight! Unless you have an air marshal aboard to cuff this fool !!! So he dont try to open doors !! Common sense people.
You thought this was real? I’m really not trying to badmouth you here but it genuinely scares me that there are so many people who can’t tell they’re just acting. I mean, it wasn’t even very good acting
When I worked in a xray department we used to get women coming in who had swallowed razor blades and batteries. They had to be kept in for a few days until they had passed through them. That kept them away from their abusive partners for a few days. It is hard to imagine what they go through to take such drastic measures.
@@ntandosekay I Love YOUR MESSAGE Too!!❤❤❤ So many people lost in their own worlds, gadgets usually just as you said. Most of them miss the world that's happening around them. It has made our world so disengaged however I think that is changing. I hope it is, I hope people see all the need for companionship. They tried to take that away from us with the lockdowns, the masks, the fear of being near another. Let's not let their awful attempts at separating us from each other continue, we are so much more than that. ☮💜💡
@@mistybollinger3312 I made the comment based on the video. Just like I would say if I were watching my favorite actress in a movie. We know they aren’t real.
I remember my first solo International flight from New York to Stockholm. I was sitting next to a Finnish guy who asked if I had ever been to Stockholm before. He invited me to tour Stockholm with him before traveling to my final destination in Sweden. I didn't feel good about that and politely refused. Always follow your gut. Better safe than sorry! No regrets
I had a similar experience with Germany 🇩🇪 where he offered to drop me off my destination cos he had a car at the airport, I accepted and he did drop me off without any funny biz.. some honest people still exists.. just follow your heart with fingers crossed 🤞 😂
Was talking on the phone with this chick earlier today and she told me that she likes a guy who’s willing to beat her and put her in her place, later she told me that she had daddy issues and I was like “Yeah fuck that” ✌🏽 Never stay in an abusive relationship ‼️
One time I was flying alone from Spain to Puerto Rico, and then Miami. Getting on the plane in Puerto Rico. This guy in a military uniform, followed me on the plane and ended up sitting next to me I could feel something was not right, so I was able to communicate with the stewardess, and she checked his seating and sure enough, his seat was way in the back. Before we took off, the police came and escorted him off the plane. That was really scary. Pay attention to your gut feeling and watch your surroundings always. Pay attention.
@@Yagirl73 nothing but when somethings wrong, you get a gut feeling. He followed me from the terminal out on the tarmac and into the plane, went to the back of the plane and then came back to me. Something just told me he was not right. Trust your gut.
Flight attendants, this is so NOT the way to handle this situation. DO NOT create a confrontation! Alert the captain. He will alert authorities. Your job is to make sure the kid knows her message is received without alerting the bad guy.
My doctors office has red and black markers in the restroom. If you are in need of help, you can write a message in red and leave it in the urine specimen nook. They will help you.
Jesus loves us and died for us In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light. Genesis 1:1-3 ✝🌅 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. John 8:12 ✝🌅
This is a great lesson to learn. Stewardesses & flight attendants will not do what she did because it would put not only the girl but everyone on that flight in Jeopardy. What she would do is immediately give the girl some sense of we got this and then immediately notify the captain and the captain will notify the airport control where ever they are landing and when they land, he will announce to please be patient we’re waiting to be told to Park at whatever door and while he is saying all that he is already parked and the police would immediately board that plane. It happened to me and my family on a flight to Dallas, and no one on the flight new anything was happening until 4 Dallas police officers in full bulletproof gear came aboard.
Can someone please explain better what the guys intentions were ‘cause it looks to like he was disappointed over a plan that I am not getting right. ❤.
Even if you’re not a flight attendant and you see someone at the airport, looking down, look depressed, and a walking with a man or a woman or with multiple people you get help immediately get attention to them real quick if you’re on a plane and the stewardess has not noticed them yet, and you see something wrong, even if it’s just a hunch get the stewardess attention to them because kidnapping and child trafficking is real and if there’s nobody there to help you then let’s roll. I’m putting him down plain and simple.
@@mikehunnilingus1195 you sound like you’re trafficker of children little girls and or a little boys or young girls or young boys in the way that you have given a negative reply to my statement in protecting young people and little children and being trafficking, or active being trafficking, I’m going to send your statement of reply to UA-cam and Facebook. And the F.B.I. You need to be investigated and that’s no joke. This is not fake news. I’m gonna put you on the radar Mr. just a word of note as a former Marine, nobody gonna traffic me, I will definitely notify your statement TO UA-cam and to Facebook, and including the FBI and that’s not fake news mr. yes you definitely need to be investigated. Now say no to that Mr.
This is not a social experiment. It's not even a real fucking plane. There's no one in the other seats and also I think All of them would figure out that the person filming was filming.
@@PringlezCanits a mock-scenario dont be a dick, Jesus, its to help people understand that this could happen and what to do if it does, idk who pissed in your fruitloops
TSA once stopped a 22 yr old girl that was taken out of her 4th year in a US college by her uncles. They were forcing her to go back to the middle east to get married and she didn't want to go.
We do but this wouldn’t be the correct interaction while we’re flying in the air. We stay calm try not to cause an altercation in the aircraft to keep the integrity of the flight and all passengers safe.. if possible reassure victim that they will be helped and to stay calm.. call the captain and have authorities meet us when we land.
Maybe imply theyre TAKING Her to the bathroom because she looks like shes gonna be iLLl instead? Instead of the agressive lie about the seat... Makes the man more suspicious
Some years ago I encountered a young woman that was being held by a man she met working at a club, he would make his young son stay w her so she couldn't get away the boy followed her to the bus stop she tried to get help from others and they told her to get away. She came to me and told me what was happening and begged me to act like a family friend she just came upon til her rescue ride came. I asked her to give me her mom's info so I could call her and let her know she made it to her ride. This man seriously was trying to keep her I told that lil boy to go home. She would be right there I would watch her. A blue car came and that baby ran for her life. The boy and his daddy came running but they were too late and because there were so many out there he got scared and left. I called her mother as soon as I got to work. The girl called the next day. The man was her family lawyer and flew her back to New York. She was safe thank God. That was in 1999. In Louisville KY. Please keep your young people close and safe. This stuff happens everyday.
No matter what… Always help someone… Use body language, shivers or just stares can go a long way. You don’t know the half of the abuse. You don’t know their struggles. Even if their your enemy, HELP! You could stop murders or r@pes
Or she crazy not like he going into the womens bathroom with her in a public place she could litterally just ask anyone verbaly, even tsa agent as they are getting scanned in.
I've been through those struggles my mom died of cancer when I was 4 and my stepmother I'd so mean she yells at me and hits me for no reason my sister died of cancer too my dogs Buster and Bella died My stepmom makes me hide it from my dad now my Dad's my only loving parent
@@rstubbs23 we are aware its fake only people actually believe it and think that women do end up in these situations with torturers. In reality people do have falling outs and people snap and in the process people get hurt sometimes(both women and men!) but the theory crafting bitchen want to spin tales of signs and voodoo and psychologist chime in aproval to justify their cake ass existance.
Just was mentioning this to my husband. I said we really need to start paying attention. Too much going on. Make eye contact people. Someone might need it desperately. 💔🙏🏻
This is a training film. If you look in the background, they aren't even on a plane. Still, it's good information to know. One wonders how she obtained a magic marker and when she had the privacy to write on a cup.
There are so many young girls and boys and women that could get help if they were to just be a little brave and let someone know,I pray for all, just a simple hand sign.
Forget the acting it's a great lesson to teach those being abused how to reach for help and also for the person their reaching out to what to do in this situation . There are people going through abuse that feel trapped and need to see this .
A great lesson? 😂 Yeah I'm sure that message was real easy to write on the inside of a plastic cup without him realising 🤦🏻♂️ your intellect matches the level of their acting
I am someone who was abused almost my whole life and recently got out of that situation just a few months ago and trust me it’s not this easy to get out first off a lot of people who are being abused and this is based off of my own personal experience and people Ik personal experience that a lot of people in abusive situations either don’t have access to things like the internet or that it is all very monitored and if they get caught looking up this stuff it could put their lives in danger and not to mention they will notice you writing on a cup there are other ways to get out but it will never be easy or completely safe but it is possible
Not great acting but a great message for those in trouble!!
You're the first sensible person I've came across on UA-cam in an extremely long time.
You realize that it's not an actual abduction, but a lesson on how to handle the situation. You're going to be the first person that I'm going to follow, if you don't mind.
( UA-camrs are becoming more like TikTokers)
it is giving you a lesson on what could happen and how to handle the situation when it arises. same with marker on hand with lettering saying help
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Yes indeed
It is a training video for flight attendants😉
I worked at a convenient store one time. A lady came in shaking and just seemed different. She was paying for gas and very lightly whispered "help please". So I took her to the back room and asked her what was going on. Come to find out the guy she was with was beating her and wouldn't let her go home to her family. I called the cops and the guy flipped out cause he couldn't find her and was pissed. Thankfully the cops weren't to far away and they took care of the situation. She came back to the store a few months after that and you could see a major change in her. She was so happy and couldn't stop thanking me for saving her.
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awesome person!
Need more Samaritans
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Proud of you👍
"ArE yOu ReCoRdInG🤨"
"No Nah-😊"
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The raised eyebrow was it for me 😭
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The way he yelled💀💀💀💀
It's not a joke. These things are often happening around nowadays. We must do something about it.
Thank God she had courage to think and write on her cup iam proud of her ❤🎉
@@user-xb9gx2xz4ithis is fake it’s staged it’s just acting but this is a good thing to do if your in trouble
Myworld, any suggestions on what we must do about it?
@@curiouscanuck protections and securities that's all we need the most. And the major problems are anti-citizens. Don't be afraid to help someone if you see anything like that around you. They have a big racket and they must be in custody.
@@2378jpj Yesss it's a drama. But it's not just a drama. It's a message to the society we live in. Wake up before it's too late.
I was in a store once and a young girl was holding hands with an older guy and he wouldn't let her alone. The young girl looked like she was very distressed.
I made up a story and asked the young girl if she was related to a person I knew. She didn't look at me and the guy said she wasn't.
It just didn't feel right so I went up to a salesperson and told them I needed to talk to the manager.
I told the manager what was going on and she went over to the guy and said she saw him stealing something and the police would be called.
The guy went ballistic, started yelling and cursing and tried to run out of the store dragging the girl with him.
I grabbed the guy and another guy in the store helped me subdue him and kept him from leaving the store with the girl.
The young girl started crying and we pulled her free from the guy.
She was shaking uncontrollably and passed out.
The cops arrived and took the guy into custody and the girl was questioned by a female police officer.
It turned out the girl had been kidnapped in South Carolina and the guy was on his way to the west coast with the girl.
The young girl couldn't stop thanking the store manager and the other guy and myself for helping her.
Moral of this story:
Keep alert of your surroundings folks.
Child kidnapping and sex trafficking are real and more widespread than people think.
God Bless this young girl and protect her and others from these predators.
Amen
Why does this have no replies? You saved someone’s life and deserve to be famous
@@Shroomy6223
Thank you for the too kind words.
I did the right thing and helped somebody who needed help.
I don't need or want to be famous.
Helping a fellow human being is the best reward.
Thanks again and stay safe.
God Bless.
Yeah you did this and other people get famous for dancing... just don't make sense.
God bless you!!
@@danasingleton4864
Thank you and God Bless you too.
Stay safe.
I remember working in a fast food place and a girl with her father came in. When I served her I noticed a black circle on the palm of her hand. Something seemed real off about her and him. I called my mom and she told me that circle was a call for help so I called the police. Turns out he kidnapped her from her mom as he was not allowed to see her. The girl said she read it in a book about the black circle and hoped someone would know what it meant as he threatened her if she tried to run or call for help. She was so thankful and still stays in touch with us to this day. Her father was in prison for fifteen years where he died of a massive heart attack a week before his parole. Sometimes justice does work out.
Thxs 4 info & story ❤
Wow you are a hero.....😍
And that worked out very well.
Instant karma! I didn't know about the black circle thank you
I had no idea about the black circle. Thank you for informing many of us who didn't know. I'm sure we will all pass that along to our friends and family. 👏
“uNhAnD hEr NoW SiR”💀
Thankful for lady she was able to help her Amen
Its not real, its an example for people who might need help
Poor cameraman’s invisibility potion just finished 😂
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yeah man "invincibility"
“Ermm… No man (under his breath) shit i thought my Invincibilty potion lasts longer than that!” 😂😂
Don’t you mean invisibility?
@@eeeeee3719 its just a mistake chill
Great message. Hope this helps someone.
Also, doesn't matter if acting is good or bad. I promise, someone out there needs to see this.
Granny
A good thing to say as to why the captain needs to see her...her seat number was a chosen winner, something we do on every flight...lol!?!? Only one person is allowed...lol! Very good message!
Merci c'est vraiment super ce que vous faites.
Je prêterai plus d'attention à ce signe que je ne connaissais pas du tout.
Toutes les idées aussi discrètes doivent être transmises si ça sauve des vies de femmes, hommes et enfants battues et ou maltraités .Merci beaucoup et bonne continuation.
Croissant man
Always carry a marker everywhere you go❤
I thought as much
I’m like fr going to keep one on me at all times, because who would be suspicious of it.
That's not fair to me bc I'm not going on
I don’t get it it may be fake but it’s a great message to those in trouble and yet you try to make this funny despite it may help a lot of people in trouble
More girls need to know about the marker
The cameraman during the act:
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More like
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"Are you fucking recording?! 👺"
Great message to those who need help
It's good that people make videos like this to help others in this situation.
I remember when I worked at McDonald’s and a girl and her boyfriend came through the drive through, she did seem a little of to me she was trembling and her mascara was smudged around her eyes. I told her the total and she handed me a couple dollars but then the one on the top said help on it. I wanted to help her so I told her her food was taking longer than expected and I would need her to come inside to grab it. Surprisingly her boyfriend didn’t care about her going in by herself. We called the cops and after a while they told us that that was not the girl’s boyfriend it was her ex who she had a restraining order against him.
Good on you for your quick thinking and finding a way to separate the girl from her abuser! I hope that if I ever find myself in this type of situation I can come up with something just as clever. Sometimes I worry I might too emotional and panic ;-;
thank God you saved her 🙏 🙌
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Thank you for helping her
As a flight attendant this is NOT how we would go about it. Itll be more discreet; less noticeable for other passengers and the abuser. All in all this is just good for both crew and passengers on SITUATIONAL AWARENESS ❤
Exactly what i was thinking they made it so obvious
Yea you can tell this is fake lol
@@Earth-qe7jg THE ONE AND ONLY EARTH
How would you handle this? I’m genuinely curious
@@evacobabe6966 yea haha 😂
That flight attendant almost looks like my teacher
LOL I WASS ROLLING WHEN HE SAID “hEy! ArE YoU ReCoRdInG?!! “No Nahh 😅😁”
I was cabin crew for 10 years. Witnessed a couple going on honeymoon sat opposite me. When husband went to the lav she told me he had beat her the night before....on wedding night. Been together 2 years before marriage. Never violent before with her. She said she terrified. I got her seat in another cabin. Not allowed husband to enter other cabin. Told him police will arrest him on landing if he didn't comply with what he was told to do. I spoke to Captain and he came out spoke to her and we brought her back to u.k on our return flight. Left him alone in Cyprus. Wife was going home to get a divorce rolling,she not want to press charges. Sad to see the bruises he gave her.
Wow! Well done. 👏
You and the captains actions probably saved her life. Or at least made a life-changing impact on her life.
Be proud of yourself. 👍
I am so happy you and the captain helped her . I hope every captain 👩✈️ has stepped in when needed.!
Yes I knew my husband three years and two children later we got married he was verbally abusive in wedding day. And I was beaten up three days later he dislocated my daughters shoulder on wedding night by yanking on her arm the day after my wedding I was in a children’s hospital getting her shoulder fixed. I was beaten at least twice a week sometimes more n there were no rescues centre for abused woman in those days. No one would give me a place to rent and my mother refused to help me and wouldn’t hear a thing against him. 12 years later I found out he’d been done by police for grevious bodily harm against his first wife.
@@Bille62 I am so sorry for your pain! I hope you got away and I am so sorry for your daughter. I pray you got to remarry a very kind man father to your children
@@shirleycrook4610 I got my ducks in a row n went for third divorce try because my children were showing signs c of distress I met a rally kind man when I was done with men. It just happened we talked for hours. We ve been together now forty years. I no longer cry myself to sleep every night my children excelled at school and run their own businesses etc. I remarried but my ex has been a shadow all that time he shows me he’s never going away. But I live every day trying to get in with my life I no longer cry myself to sleep every night. I don’t cry in this relationship please please do not settle in this life for second best get organised lose weight if you feel better n more confident and save for when you need to break free. Make contingencies for a safe house to escape to a family members key temporarily. Stay on focus DO not weaken no matter what happens. For years he challenged my new husband I told him not to engage it takes two to fight. We made it thru. My ghost still won’t leave but we live our lives happily without engaging him as best we can. But it was still worth it all. I live with a kind man who makes me laugh and my children laugh. Please women stay focused and do it for your children if you’re to broken yourself your strength will grow and you will never want that pain in your lives agajn. And if you meet someone you’ve always felt you knew and he makes you smile and your children smile take it slow but let a good person in good luck stay strong x
Usually the abuser sits on the end so you cant talk to anyone.
Trust me,I know.
Mmhmmm
Ok
And so she's trapped and can't get out and if she wants to she has to ask for permission... I know his type
Yeah you know that because you watched red eye
İ suggest you stop abusing people then. 😂
“ArE yOu ReCoRdInG!?” 😂😂😂
I fricking DIED when he said "aRe YoU rEcOrDiNg??"
I hope she will get better❤
Hopefully with time their acting will improve
Things like this can happen. We need to take care of each other!
I have been taught that it is every man for themselves... 😔
Bro was recording
bruh this is goofy
very true.. just the other day I saw this headline "Local Woman Saved When Her Coffee Was Inexplicably Served In A Clear Plastic Cup And Then She Found Some Sort Of Way To Write A Message On It Hoping Against Hope The Flight Attendant Would Have A Giant Jug Of Creamer Rather Than The Tiny Little Cups Everyone Has And Then The Flight Attendant Over-Served The Creamer Revealing The Message And Then The Flight Attendant Took Her Away From Her Seat"
Nope your not my problem
That "UNHAND HER, NOW SIR" deserves an oscar
😊
lol ur rite. It was bold. Out there
The "UNHAND HER NOW, SIR" is an immediate and appropriate response to this. I do not agree it deserves an oscar simply because it doesn't.
💀💀💀💀
It was truly bold ❤😊
Im So Very Happy Ppl ArE More Proactive in Saving Victims.. Saving More Victims.
This Is Social Media at its Best
That was a smart move for the stewardess to help her from getting away from the abusive man
I know probably not the best acting and best storyline but still I love how it actually can help a person if he/she is in danger.❤
When they gon write on their cup?? 😂
@@payton3673 that is why I told that probably not the best storyline but it is best to ask for help when in trouble instead of staying shut trying to fund a way is what to learn
Ya
So fake
@@payton3673😂😂😂
It’s important to let the flight attendants know that if you are not ok.
Mas aquele que beber da água que eu lhe der nunca terá sede, porque a água que eu lhe der se fará nele uma fonte de água que salte para a vida eterna.
João 4:14
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Yeah it is
The fact he was talking his hat off and not hen you was like “HEY ARE YOU RECORDING “ got me falling down the stairs 😂😂😂
What a great message for those who are in trouble.
The “are you recording?” At the end made it feel real
Yeah
Most definitely
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It really did
nah
camera mans invisibility potion ran out
😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
So true
😂😂😂
Yes great message let’s let the abusers know she getting help camera giving everything away
"Are you recording?!"
*"Yup"* 🤠
if more people stepped up like the flight attendant, we could all be safer, hats off to her!
ITS FAKE ALL THESE IDIOTS VIDS ARE FAKE
It's a reenactment.
They are trained to look for people who being trafficed
Its a fake video genius! Its very rare to have a phone on in a plane and have a person videotape you at the right time and place like you see here!
@@LJBSullivan Its a fake video you fool! Lol
Over the years as a bartender you learn a few things that could possibly help save someone's life. If your ever in need of getting out of a bad situation, ask your bartender or even server for an Angel shot. They will immediately take action and do what they can to help you. If for some reason they don't know what your talking about, politely ask them to look up the ingredients, tell em its your favorite. Upon looking it up they will see exactly what you mean and can at that point help you. Please stay safe, this is a crazy world we live in 🙏💕
Wow, very helpful information!
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I will tell my daughter this. She was nearly abducted in a popular bar where college liked to visit.
Do u really think shots is the right move
Ex bartender thanks because I have never heard of THAT
Great save from a creep 😊
The ways you set that message up was so clever
I like this stewardess. She didn't waste any time in helping the girl.
FLIGHT ATTENDANT
This was staged...SURELY you can see that?
She should have waited before engaging like that. Take the drink, leave and get help before confrontation.
FLIGHT ATTENDANT ❗️❗️
Staged yes. Unfortunately she set off red flags. First with the gasp. Then instead of stupid lie of a seat that was loose she should have spilled the coffee and escorted her to the station to clean up. Then lock her in the cabin or where she'd be safe. Bad acting. BTW, where did the girl get a sharpie and a true trafficker or abuser, she would not have been allowed on the aisle. Duh
The most important lesson is to ask for and get help when needed. Whatever it takes, do it to get out of a bad situation.
that is basically saying: if ur homeless just buy a house
Sometimes it's NOT that easy
Thanks for reporting the crime i hope it doesnt happen to people anymore.
Those who make those crimes better stop.
WOW that flight attendant was an angel in disguise. Glad she was able to help the lady in danger. Hope authorities were called upon to fixate this fine gentleman right where he belongeth! Behind BARŞ!!
You realize this is fake, right? Just to spread awareness.
We do need people like this, may God bless her
It’s fake
No entiendo
All any woman on a plane has to do is stand up and say help, and the police will get involved at the end of the flight
Whether this was real or not the lady was smart the way she alerted the flight attendant. And the flight attendant handled that very well.
And your point is what should come to mind!!❤
Rose”You really show your age with this comment
How did she get the marker?When was she able to write message?
@@DenfordAshmeade I was wondering the same thing.
@@DenfordAshmeade that’s what I’m wondering also did she just ask for a cup but to fill after writing on it but they would’ve saw the writing unless she covered it or something
ARE YOU RECCORDING?!!
Him : No (chill)
YALL SEND SUPPORT TO THE GIRL WHO WAS WITH THE MAN❤❤
Over the course of 8 yrs as a flight attendant w a major carrier, I can tell you I had the Police meet the plane on at least 5 occasions. These are very serious scenarios when so many things can go wrong, so it is imperative to use an authoritative, take charge tone. This FA was Spot On with her Actions
Thank you for your service!
Lots of brave wonderful heroes out there special child trafficking so sad
It's fake tho
Thank you for your comment ! Thank you for being a flight attendant who caried enough to get envoled and save lives
I don’t know what airline you worked for… But that is the LAST thing they tell you to do!
is to confront, especially when you’re in flight!
Unless you have an air marshal aboard to cuff this fool !!! So he dont try to open doors !!
Common sense people.
I'm just curious how she was able to write on the cup without him seeing?
He was sleeping
It was fake 😂
@@JoaquinOlmedoNo @paigewood9685 was sleeping 😂
She probably waited for him to fall asleep
@Sunflower lol I guess so cause I didn't realize that until yall said something
The stewardess was on point ❤.
She handled that so well
You thought this was real?
I’m really not trying to badmouth you here but it genuinely scares me that there are so many people who can’t tell they’re just acting. I mean, it wasn’t even very good acting
@@timm6892 I didn't say I thought it was real. I said it was handled well. There's a difference.
When I worked in a xray department we used to get women coming in who had swallowed razor blades and batteries. They had to be kept in for a few days until they had passed through them. That kept them away from their abusive partners for a few days. It is hard to imagine what they go through to take such drastic measures.
That's horrible 😔😔
OMG😢
Still see this to this day.😢😢😢
We should all be alert to people's cries for help.
👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾♥️ your message. People need to stop focusing on their gadgets, rather be more aware of their surroundings.
@@ntandosekay 😊😊😊😊
@@ntandosekay I Love YOUR MESSAGE Too!!❤❤❤ So many people lost in their own worlds, gadgets usually just as you said. Most of them miss the world that's happening around them. It has made our world so disengaged however I think that is changing. I hope it is, I hope people see all the need for companionship. They tried to take that away from us with the lockdowns, the masks, the fear of being near another. Let's not let their awful attempts at separating us from each other continue, we are so much more than that. ☮💜💡
Even fake ones for youtube views?
The "r u recording" part creeped me out hope the filmer's ok 😢
They are acting. Just show us what happens around us sometimes
Good thinking on her part!
The flight attendant is a hero. So happy she paid attention.
They were actors.
It’s. Not. Real
Omg please tell me you don't think this video is real?!
@@mistybollinger3312 I made the comment based on the video. Just like I would say if I were watching my favorite actress in a movie. We know they aren’t real.
When the guy asked was he recording the pass pinked out
This probably wasn't real but a great message on how to get away from a person who's abusive.
This is definitely not real .
Yeah, let me use a permanent marker ans color those words in without being caught!
Yes....I agree with you
Maybe in z pinch it gets across fir help..where would he go mid flight.
it would be worth the risk of discovery on a plane in flight...no where to go.
Yeah on a plane is the perfect place huh? 🤔
That man is trying to kidnap her but someone saved her
I have seen this done by different people 5 or 6 times. The message is good
Finally caught the cameraman 😳
Caught?? By a dangerous assh0le
He forgot to put creative mode
Fr
@@starr038fr
His 8m onvisible Option rund out
I remember my first solo International flight from New York to Stockholm. I was sitting next to a Finnish guy who asked if I had ever been to Stockholm before. He invited me to tour Stockholm with him before traveling to my final destination in Sweden. I didn't feel good about that and politely refused. Always follow your gut. Better safe than sorry! No regrets
I believe that God gave each of us that gut instinct and we need to learn to listen to that small voice inside.
I had a similar experience with Germany 🇩🇪 where he offered to drop me off my destination cos he had a car at the airport, I accepted and he did drop me off without any funny biz.. some honest people still exists.. just follow your heart with fingers crossed 🤞 😂
Most finnish People are honest and sincere. I have lived here in Finland for 23 years. Love my mom's country! 🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮🇫🇮
Look at him as though he's crazy with a real mean look on your face and very coldly and very loudly say
WHAT? WHAT? WHAT?
WHAT?
A total stranger, just keep your senses on alert,
❤❤❤ that man is literally Croatian
This is truly amazing!
I love the firmness in her voice well done ❤
Would you like to buy some snake oil?
@@memphisdaniels3218🙄🙄
She did awsome job!!
This is fake! Duh!
Mom
Zuhdhxhdhdhufusysdmmmmmmmmmm
People need to keep their eyes open in society as this happens and the victims struggle to ask for help. Keep eyes open people...😢
Correct 💯😢
Bro 😂😂😂 holi ka😂😂😂😂😂
@@ayesharileyrivera1662 whats funny?
Was talking on the phone with this chick earlier today and she told me that she likes a guy who’s willing to beat her and put her in her place, later she told me that she had daddy issues and I was like “Yeah fuck that” ✌🏽
Never stay in an abusive relationship ‼️
Bro is gonna have insane Mum lore 💀💀💀
One time I was flying alone from Spain to Puerto Rico, and then Miami. Getting on the plane in Puerto Rico. This guy in a military uniform, followed me on the plane and ended up sitting next to me I could feel something was not right, so I was able to communicate with the stewardess, and she checked his seating and sure enough, his seat was way in the back. Before we took off, the police came and escorted him off the plane. That was really scary. Pay attention to your gut feeling and watch your surroundings always. Pay attention.
Flight Àttendants are trained for these situations!
What did he do? Besides, sit next to you
@@Yagirl73 nothing but when somethings wrong, you get a gut feeling. He followed me from the terminal out on the tarmac and into the plane, went to the back of the plane and then came back to me. Something just told me he was not right. Trust your gut.
@Bonnie Sheplar That's scary I been in a position like that as well. Always pay attention. I'm glad you're alright.
Dont everrrrrrrr ignore a gut feeling.....its better to be wrong.......then end up hostage victim...l...
Flight attendants, this is so NOT the way to handle this situation. DO NOT create a confrontation! Alert the captain. He will alert authorities. Your job is to make sure the kid knows her message is received without alerting the bad guy.
Your reply makes total sense. The situation can escalate, especially on a long flight
I thought the same
Yes
Yes I agree.
My doctors office has red and black markers in the restroom. If you are in need of help, you can write a message in red and leave it in the urine specimen nook.
They will help you.
She saved the lady.. good job👏
Literally saw this exact video with the same premise and place yesterday just with different people 😭😭
The cup of coffee deserves an Oscar
Jesus loves us and died for us
In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light. Genesis 1:1-3 ✝🌅
Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life. John 8:12 ✝🌅
What's the need to tell this over here
He was much better than that Starbucks cup in Game of Thrones
@@joab124 Amen my brother/sister in Christ🙏🙌
How did she get to write that on the cup without him noticing it .
"Unhand her Now Sir" - Righteousness extreme. It's good she's on our side. Namaste
That guy was making Mr Bombastic face😂😂
This is a great lesson to learn. Stewardesses & flight attendants will not do what she did because it would put not only the girl but everyone on that flight in Jeopardy. What she would do is immediately give the girl some sense of we got this and then immediately notify the captain and the captain will notify the airport control where ever they are landing and when they land, he will announce to please be patient we’re waiting to be told to Park at whatever door and while he is saying all that he is already parked and the police would immediately board that plane. It happened to me and my family on a flight to Dallas, and no one on the flight new anything was happening until 4 Dallas police officers in full bulletproof gear came aboard.
Yeah. That's a better move.
Oh wow, very discreet and professional!
HUYYYY KÉ FÁCILLLL
Can someone please explain better what the guys intentions were ‘cause it looks to like he was disappointed over a plan that I am not getting right. ❤.
That makes sense. What a blessing that you and your family made it through the situation.
Moral of the story :There is no power of invisibility for every cameramen.
😂😂😂
Has not invisibly is crazy
😂
Invisibility potion has wore off!!!
Skill issues
She was so smart and brave and allso the women helping her.
Okay ik i should'nt be laughing but this was funny " ArE yOu rECoRdINg!?" "No nO"
Even if you’re not a flight attendant and you see someone at the airport, looking down, look depressed, and a walking with a man or a woman or with multiple people you get help immediately get attention to them real quick if you’re on a plane and the stewardess has not noticed them yet, and you see something wrong, even if it’s just a hunch get the stewardess attention to them because kidnapping and child trafficking is real and if there’s nobody there to help you then let’s roll. I’m putting him down plain and simple.
@Carey What happened
@@sinahazar3238 ... They had...
Wait for it...
BIG MACS!!
Traducción
No you're not, he'd traffic you immediately and you'd be sitting there with a cup of coffee next to him.
@@mikehunnilingus1195 you sound like you’re trafficker of children little girls and or a little boys or young girls or young boys in the way that you have given a negative reply to my statement in protecting young people and little children and being trafficking, or active being trafficking, I’m going to send your statement of reply to UA-cam and Facebook. And the F.B.I. You need to be investigated and that’s no joke. This is not fake news. I’m gonna put you on the radar Mr. just a word of note as a former Marine, nobody gonna traffic me, I will definitely notify your statement TO UA-cam and to Facebook, and including the FBI and that’s not fake news mr. yes you definitely need to be investigated. Now say no to that Mr.
It’s just a social experiment but this could happen irl
This is not a social experiment. It's not even a real fucking plane. There's no one in the other seats and also I think All of them would figure out that the person filming was filming.
Fr
Fr
@@PringlezCanwhy tf would they care
@@PringlezCanits a mock-scenario dont be a dick, Jesus, its to help people understand that this could happen and what to do if it does, idk who pissed in your fruitloops
Videos like these are good examples of what victims can do.
TSA once stopped a 22 yr old girl that was taken out of her 4th year in a US college by her uncles. They were forcing her to go back to the middle east to get married and she didn't want to go.
There needs to be more people to care and get involved. Just like the flight attendant. It is your business when someone is in trouble
This is staged and they're on a fake plane but the Purpose of giving a captive escape ideas is great
YA!! Thank you 🙏 n sorry. Some of us really do need to be told that for different reasons ❤😊 peace
that part 🙌 I'm tired of people saying mind your own when really that does nothing to help a bad situation.
@@pinkrizo3815 😊
A@@arkathborjanzedrag2145
All flight attendants need to be trained like this & especially for trafficking
Exactly
We do but this wouldn’t be the correct interaction while we’re flying in the air. We stay calm try not to cause an altercation in the aircraft to keep the integrity of the flight and all passengers safe.. if possible reassure victim that they will be helped and to stay calm.. call the captain and have authorities meet us when we land.
But how the up
Would display these words ??!
What’s the magic trick
??!
In the midst of us all
Maybe imply theyre TAKING Her to the bathroom because she looks like shes gonna be iLLl instead? Instead of the agressive lie about the seat... Makes the man more suspicious
"ARE YOU RECORDING?!?!"
"..no- nah."
“Are you recording me?! 😡”
“N-Noo! 😳”
It’s a great skit to show you ways to communicate that you’re in distress without actually saying it. Good job 👍🏼
I agree!
Some years ago I encountered a young woman that was being held by a man she met working at a club, he would make his young son stay w her so she couldn't get away the boy followed her to the bus stop she tried to get help from others and they told her to get away. She came to me and told me what was happening and begged me to act like a family friend she just came upon til her rescue ride came. I asked her to give me her mom's info so I could call her and let her know she made it to her ride. This man seriously was trying to keep her I told that lil boy to go home. She would be right there I would watch her. A blue car came and that baby ran for her life. The boy and his daddy came running but they were too late and because there were so many out there he got scared and left. I called her mother as soon as I got to work. The girl called the next day. The man was her family lawyer and flew her back to New York. She was safe thank God. That was in 1999. In Louisville KY. Please keep your young people close and safe. This stuff happens everyday.
Wow goos story
Are you okay
Dam
Dayum😮😢
Woah that's a long story
That's so nice of the airhostic saving that girl
Thank God.
Cameraman never dies just remember that
👇
No matter what… Always help someone… Use body language, shivers or just stares can go a long way. You don’t know the half of the abuse. You don’t know their struggles. Even if their your enemy, HELP! You could stop murders or r@pes
Or she crazy not like he going into the womens bathroom with her in a public place she could litterally just ask anyone verbaly, even tsa agent as they are getting scanned in.
Ya it’s fake
@@rstubbs23still a very real situation
I've been through those struggles my mom died of cancer when I was 4 and my stepmother I'd so mean she yells at me and hits me for no reason my sister died of cancer too my dogs Buster and Bella died My stepmom makes me hide it from my dad now my Dad's my only loving parent
@@rstubbs23 we are aware its fake only people actually believe it and think that women do end up in these situations with torturers. In reality people do have falling outs and people snap and in the process people get hurt sometimes(both women and men!) but the theory crafting bitchen want to spin tales of signs and voodoo and psychologist chime in aproval to justify their cake ass existance.
Every moment in our lives today, we need to be on the alert!
Yes! But there's always that ONE moment when we drop our guard.
... and "ON GUARD!!!" ALLLLLL...
Day EVERY DAYYYYY...
Just was mentioning this to my husband. I said we really need to start paying attention. Too much going on. Make eye contact people. Someone might need it desperately. 💔🙏🏻
que pena que no se ingles😠
She’s so sweet!❤❤❤❤
Very calm and yet direct and
Firm.
I love how the flight attendant handled the situation calmly
it's all acted
Ja Vielleicht Aber kann doch echt sein niemand weiß es😢❤😊
Please don’t tell me you fell for it too😳😳🙄🤦🏽♂️😂
Fake
@@anthonylofton32😮😅 is she OK?
This is a training film. If you look in the background, they aren't even on a plane. Still, it's good information to know. One wonders how she obtained a magic marker and when she had the privacy to write on a cup.
I wondered as well
The background very much looks like on a plane only.
Many people carry a marker or pen in their pocket on a regular basis, & all she would have to do was turn her cup away from him & be discrete .👍
@@alicereeves8987 exactly
@@alicereeves8987 *DISCREET* ☮️
There are so many young girls and boys and women that could get help if they were to just be a little brave and let someone know,I pray for all, just a simple hand sign.
“Are you recording”
Man clearly standing: No.
Forget the acting it's a great lesson to teach those being abused how to reach for help and also for the person their reaching out to what to do in this situation . There are people going through abuse that feel trapped and need to see this .
Some are too scared no matter what
A great lesson? 😂 Yeah I'm sure that message was real easy to write on the inside of a plastic cup without him realising 🤦🏻♂️ your intellect matches the level of their acting
great lesson for life.
Right
I am someone who was abused almost my whole life and recently got out of that situation just a few months ago and trust me it’s not this easy to get out first off a lot of people who are being abused and this is based off of my own personal experience and people Ik personal experience that a lot of people in abusive situations either don’t have access to things like the internet or that it is all very monitored and if they get caught looking up this stuff it could put their lives in danger and not to mention they will notice you writing on a cup there are other ways to get out but it will never be easy or completely safe but it is possible