EXTREME DECLUTTER - 3 Month Minimalist Journey | Before and After | House Tour | Beginner Minimalist

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2019
  • It's been a busy 3 month journey from hoarder to minimalist. Minimalism has been such an eye opening experience - a lifestyle change, really. We have shared many extreme declutter rooms and piles, and this video shows you a how our messy house looks today! Take the messy house tour of our Before and After! I'm a beginner minimalist, so it's been quite a learning curve.
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    I didn't know that our family would be on an extreme declutter journey when we first started doing this. A recognition of habits, tendencies and our lifestyle has showed us the way towards minimalism.
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    EXTREME DECLUTTER - 3 Month Journey from Hoarder to Minimalist || Messy House Tour
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  • @RachelStrickland
    @RachelStrickland 4 роки тому +280

    When you said "minimal-ish" I felt like we should be friends. 😂

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +15

      Rachel Strickland it’s a real thing! That awkward phase between too much and just enough. I am loving this phase.

    • @rondadepenbusch8152
      @rondadepenbusch8152 4 роки тому +2

      Erica Lucas great job !! Looks great !! Keep it going !!

    • @roxanaconception
      @roxanaconception 4 роки тому

      Rachel Strickland ,lol. Yes. 😊

    • @trinket_x6392
      @trinket_x6392 4 роки тому +4

      Right?! 19 seconds in, and I'm like "I feel that in my soul"

    • @lisamorice4701
      @lisamorice4701 4 роки тому +1

      That's me - striving to be minimal-ish. That will be my perfect sweet spot.

  • @queernarwhal
    @queernarwhal 4 роки тому +304

    As the daughter of a hoarder, I wish my mum had cared enough about us to do what you have done for yourself and your children. Congratulations on real self-reflection, putting in the hard work of change and growth. You are giving your children more than you know.

    • @mssuezee6178
      @mssuezee6178 4 роки тому +7

      You my dear are amazing 🙏 and your mom was not well, like my sis,she adores her kids. I love your soul because you see the miracle. Blessings to you🙏🙋

    • @kaitlyne1870
      @kaitlyne1870 4 роки тому +14

      That's so heartbreaking that you grew up feeling that way. I'm sure your mom truly did love you. My aunt is also a hoarder, which has always put a huge strain on her's and he'd daughter's relationship. But, from the outside looking in we could tell that my aunt really did love her daughter, she just didn't (and still doesn't) know how to let go of things. She's so terrified that if she gets rid of an item she'll lose the memory attached to it. I'm not saying this to tell you you're wrong to feel the way you do. I just hope it can make you feel better knowing that it wasn't that you weren't loved or that she didn't care. She just didn't know how to do what you needed from her. ❤️

    • @gypsypath1
      @gypsypath1 4 роки тому +3

      Katie Rosa This is perfect!

    • @lenabruening5942
      @lenabruening5942 4 роки тому +21

      I am the child of a hoarder as well, it took me so much work to get to the point I have to make sure I wouldn’t be like my mom, and she still is unwilling to change her lifestyle despite the way it negatively affects our family. I used to hoard as a kid and I’m so grateful I was able to get help. My mom refuses to.

    • @km-lw2uc
      @km-lw2uc 4 роки тому +3

      Have mercy on your mom

  • @sarahjones5425
    @sarahjones5425 4 роки тому +284

    The Messy Minimalist uses the term clutter blindness. It's hard to see the mess if you've been around it for so long. You are doing such a great job!!!!!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +10

      Sarah Jones oh I like that! I watch her but hadn’t heard her say that.

    • @andrewbrendan1579
      @andrewbrendan1579 4 роки тому +17

      I'm going to remember that about not seeing the mess after a while. Sometimes I look at my living space and imagine I'm seeing it for the first time, as if I was a visitor. That motivates me to clean and clear out.

    • @forgivenandredeemed9460
      @forgivenandredeemed9460 4 роки тому +1

      So true!!!!

    • @edennis3202
      @edennis3202 4 роки тому +9

      @@andrewbrendan1579 It helps to take a photo. I have clutter blindness in the worst way, but taking a photo shows me the undeniable truth.

  • @katienutt3576
    @katienutt3576 4 роки тому +296

    I don’t even know you, but I’m like so freaking proud of you!!!!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +2

      Katie Nutt thank you!!

    • @lexysweet2780
      @lexysweet2780 4 роки тому +7

      ^^ what she said! Just found your channel and I’m excited to see your journey!

    • @kaitlyne1870
      @kaitlyne1870 4 роки тому +2

      @@lexysweet2780 same! That is a huge project you tacked! I'm so proud of all the hard work you did!

    • @lisamorice4701
      @lisamorice4701 4 роки тому +1

      Me too! Well done you. This was my first video here but I'm pretty impressed. I'm going to watch more that's for sure.

    • @jordanwilliams9300
      @jordanwilliams9300 4 роки тому +1

      Me too. I've never seen this channel before, and I'm already amazed!

  • @poodlegirl55
    @poodlegirl55 4 роки тому +430

    The way I painlessly got rid of a ton of paper clutter a couple years ago was to buy a small, flat basket at Dollar Tree and every evening I would open the big cabinet full of crap and randomly pull out enough to fill the basket. I would sort through it on the couch in the evening and in the morning put what wasn't garbage into my new filing system. I actually started looking forward to the chore!!! Yard by yard life is hard, inch by inch it's a cinch.

  • @vic70ria
    @vic70ria 4 роки тому +240

    “It takes the amount of time it needs to take!” Thank you for sharing that message.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +11

      vic70ria indeed! I feel too pressured with a timeline. It takes time to process emotions that come up.

    • @MadameMinima
      @MadameMinima 4 роки тому +10

      Yes, it really takes time, decluttering is a marathon and not a sprint. I have been on my minimalist journey for almost 4 years now and I am still not done. But I don't give up, every little step brings me nearer to my goal.

    • @terrigb8436
      @terrigb8436 4 роки тому +1

      Oh, do not make your bed ever, it needs to dry out as we perspire in bed with our woman hormones, that’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it and suggest everyone does.

    • @terrigb8436
      @terrigb8436 4 роки тому +2

      Just also forgot to mention, I am starting my decluttering today, I’m in Australia and it is 2.50am now so I will start my path later today and I will take my time yet try and be a bit speedy when I can be, love your honesty

    • @MythOfMe
      @MythOfMe 4 роки тому

      Terri G B hi Terry, I’m in Australia too and yes, I’ve been on this journey for over a year as it takes time when everyday activities need doing...with a toddler etc 😀🇦🇺🌷

  • @jennys9043
    @jennys9043 4 роки тому +57

    A lot of minimalism “transformation” videos start with homes that are already less cluttered than mine. THANK YOU for keeping it REAL!!!!! Subscribed 😊🙏🏼

  • @cindys4548
    @cindys4548 4 роки тому +77

    Wow you are doing this by yourself without a "Certified Professional Organizer" and I personally am Soooooo proud of you!!! You go girl!!!

  • @TiaMat99
    @TiaMat99 4 роки тому +166

    tip for the Lego's: give the boys a sheet they can play on. After they're done playing, they can just pull up the corners, tip everything back into the box.

    • @staceykersting705
      @staceykersting705 4 роки тому +6

      Wow! that's very cool!

    • @erickanyc8907
      @erickanyc8907 4 роки тому +2

      Wow! That is such a cool idea! I'm going to pass this one on to friends and family. Thank you Smart Lady.👏👏💛

    • @braileinrose333
      @braileinrose333 4 роки тому +11

      I was just about to comment the exact same thing! Stepping on Legos is the WORST!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +18

      ta vh I’ve decided to take this advice. I’m going to try this!

    • @joanklaczek4009
      @joanklaczek4009 4 роки тому +8

      If the boys play LEGO on top of the sheet, it’s really fun for them to each grab two corners, get all the LEGO in the middle, and then put the whole sheet in a Large Tote. Easy to play again ,they just open the tote and stretch out the blanket.

  • @kathy3178
    @kathy3178 4 роки тому +131

    You have made a lot of progress in only 3 months! It is a long road but so worth it.

    • @staceykersting705
      @staceykersting705 4 роки тому +7

      Yes! 3 months is SO quick! I keep removing layers, filling 1 or 2 shopping bags per week still...was a leaf bag a week at first!

  • @stephaniebryantryan2783
    @stephaniebryantryan2783 4 роки тому +123

    I love your sincerity. It’s a refreshing change from those staging their life. This is real life! Kudos to you and your family.

  • @theretiredlife7185
    @theretiredlife7185 4 роки тому +90

    When you realised you had two of that game, my heart broke for you and I wanted to givenyou the biggest hug. Thank you for showing us your inspiring jouney. I really appreate it.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +15

      Susan B it’s hard to be vulnerable and I’m so glad to have the support.

    • @astgoddess
      @astgoddess 4 роки тому +1

      When there's two, gift one away!

    • @pegasusquilts
      @pegasusquilts 4 роки тому +1

      I've found quite a few duplicates at my house. Spices, books, sewing patterns, kitchen tools. Even things that I was sad that I'd thought I had given away and was contemplating replacing--again--which would have meant three-- and my friends didn't think I was a clutter bug.

    • @TracyAkamine
      @TracyAkamine 2 роки тому

      I have duplicates of lots of things😞

  • @paulaboynton8299
    @paulaboynton8299 4 роки тому +67

    I love “minimalish”. I’m right there with you. When I started my declutter, I went to two places every week. The landfill and the Salvation Army. That lasted for a year. Then my trips were less often. That was my progress. Slow and steady. It felt so good. I smiled all the way home.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Paula Boynton wonderful!! I’m proud of you!

    • @annetnedelec9453
      @annetnedelec9453 4 роки тому +2

      Great thing, giving them away! It breaks my heart to see people dumping good stuff in the bin. So bad this consumerist society.

  • @rachaelt3294
    @rachaelt3294 4 роки тому +64

    Hi I'm Rachael and I'm a hoarder. Glad I found you. I need to start getting rid of stuff now....

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +4

      WithMyHandsAndHeart RachaelTelakowicz hi Rachael!

    • @rachaelt3294
      @rachaelt3294 4 роки тому +8

      @@EricaLucasLoves I'm the same way that I sometimes find 2 of things. I would buy them and save them for when they were older. Not anymore...
      We recently cleaned out the entire basement because we had to get all the pipes changed. I realized there was a problem and I've started cleaning and getting rid of so many things. Anything still useful is getting donated. We threw away 10 garbage bags worth of junk...
      Glad I found your channel to join you on your journey as well. ♡

  • @ruthg5116
    @ruthg5116 4 роки тому +39

    The Lego problem easy fix. I put down an old tablecloth and the grand kids play on that, when it's to clean up you simply pick up the table cloth and pour the lego in the storage box. A one minute clean up.

  • @JennyT101
    @JennyT101 4 роки тому +54

    Not all hoarders look the same. I do think you qualified as a hoarder, but what is important is that you are getting better!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +4

      Jenny Jen1010 thank you for the support!

    • @amac1153
      @amac1153 4 роки тому +4

      Absolutely agree. Seeing all that stuff gave me anxiety, but the sad fact is that so many people live that way and don't see a problem

  • @SouthernMama2five
    @SouthernMama2five 4 роки тому +15

    So glad you showed up on my home screen. Many people show the results of minimalism. This is minimalism IN PROGRESS...exactly where I am right now. Some days it feels too hard, some days I hear a message like yours and am encouraged to press on. Thanks for sharing your story. 😊

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Beth Caron hi Beth! Welcome!! Minimalism is progress is such a fuzzy phase. I took a bit to settle into that minimalish phase but I’m liking it! What are you working on currently to find your minimalism?

    • @lauraflood3573
      @lauraflood3573 10 місяців тому

      Thank-you so much for sharing the real life stuff!!! So inspiring! Congratulations you’ve done an amazing job!

  • @beachcruising4607
    @beachcruising4607 4 роки тому +40

    I love how real you are and how strong minded you were to just say I’m sick of this and I’m doing something about it and then sharing it with the world. Amazing job!!!

  • @99Georgette
    @99Georgette 4 роки тому +57

    I have been following you on your decluttering journey. While I don’t think that i will ever reach minimalism, i have been encouraged by you to declutter as I was just stressed by all the stuff. I started with my closet, my daughter helped. I immediately halved the amount of clothes and donated them. I think that in 2020 I will reduce again by half. I am moving on to various areas of my house, albeit at a slower pace than you. I did my cookbooks last night, and again, halved immediately. I allowed myself a certain space(small shelf) for cookbooks. If more come in, some have to leave. Thx for sharing your efforts in a honest, real manner.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +9

      99Georgette me too. The idea of minimalism can be subjective. I can’t see myself without tv but I can live with less bowls. Does that make sense? I’m minimalish. 😂

    • @robynw6307
      @robynw6307 4 роки тому +9

      If you only have a couple of recipes in a book that interest you, photocopy those and donate the book. You could get a binder to store the copies in, thus creating one book from many. Much less to find a home for.

    • @sandrajohnson9926
      @sandrajohnson9926 4 роки тому +2

      That's a great tip...buy something new, something old has to go!

  • @s.eckert2682
    @s.eckert2682 4 роки тому +88

    I really like your honesty about your feelings and the state of your house! This is so much more helpful than a "quick" declutter and pretending that that was all one had to do. Life's ups and downs will reflect in the state of a home. But you show how much easier it is to regain order, when there is no clutter and everything has a home. Thank you for sharing your journey and inspiring others to follow. Merry Christmas and a great start into the New Year!

  • @edenhouse75
    @edenhouse75 4 роки тому +47

    I love how you're just chatting with a cup of coffee and it's real and not staged x hope you had a fab christmas and I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos in the new year xxx

  • @robynw6307
    @robynw6307 4 роки тому +55

    Hi Erica. It's Christmas Eve evening here in Australia, and today I've binge watched all 11 of your declutter/minimalish videos, even though I've seen all of them before. Intermittently, I've been decluttering and cleaning my kitchen. I find I can't keep at it continuously - the stress and anxiety gets too much. So I pop back to my desktop, unpause, and continue watching you for motivation. You are amazing. I hope you have a fabulous Christmas with your family and I look forward to more motivation in 2020. Cheers.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +8

      Robyn Webster oh darling!! It IS overwhelming and stressful. I’m so glad you are taking steps. Your timeline is your timeline. So proud of you!!

  • @rabczanska
    @rabczanska 4 роки тому +11

    You committed to do a paper declutter next year. I used 2019 to purge from my very eclectic boho style home of things I did not need, love, or use. I want to make 2020 the year of Paper. That means filing cabinets, boxes of cards, kids art work, photos... then onto the high point of order....a binder with everything for emergency’s death, illness. The step by step binder of life insurance, health insurance, house insurance, bank accounts....Join me and we will do this too. My father at 84 has this “if-then” binder and it would bring me real peace to know that if something happened to me, it’s easy to figure out what to do next. Not being morbid, it’s that feeling of order and peace I want in drawers, shelves and financial papers too.

  • @ResourcefulMama
    @ResourcefulMama 4 роки тому +22

    I could feel the heaviness when you returned home. I have similar feelings about my house.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      The Rex Fam heaviness is the right word. Are you thinking about changing it?

    • @ResourcefulMama
      @ResourcefulMama 4 роки тому +4

      @@EricaLucasLoves Yes! I NEED to for my sanity. It makes me tired and miserable. That's no way to live. I hold onto stuff that serves no purpose. I'm tired of not wanting to have anyone over.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      The Rex Fam you sound like me! Just fed up! A new year is in front of us. How are you going to start? I’m starting with a paper declutter and a linen closet organization.

    • @ResourcefulMama
      @ResourcefulMama 4 роки тому

      @@EricaLucasLoves I think I might tackle the linen closet first. It's not super terrible but I know there is stuff shoved in there that we don't use or need. I really should do accountability videos on my channel but eek, it's so hard to be vulnerable.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      The Rex Fam it really is. Are you on IG? Send me pics. I will help keep you accountable! If you do want to start a channel, I’ve started a Facebook support group for new channels in 2020. Let me know.

  • @sarahsuero
    @sarahsuero 4 роки тому +33

    You, my dear, are a powerful woman! I love seeing your courage to deal with your life and what you all co-created. You took yourself on with force ✊🏻. Keep going!

  • @pinkmagicali
    @pinkmagicali 4 роки тому +20

    Crap. That definition you showed applies to me as well. It’s a daily struggle to keep on top of stuff. With the levels I’m likely only level 1 but have to work not to get to level 2 or higher. The idea of going higher terrifies me.
    The issue is that consumerism is such a focus now. In Australia we have a TV called Gruen and another called the Checkout which look into advertising tricks and frankly it’s creepy manipulation. I found a $100+ barbie set next to trash bins today. Took it, cleaned it, and it’s going to charity. Literally nothing wrong with it. Next to it was a working kids cash register. A plastic coin jammed the drawer. I removed the coin, cleaned, also going to charity as I have no kids. I was stunned at the waste. So glad to see you finding the joy that is your library. Maybe donate toys back to them?

    • @lindam7518
      @lindam7518 4 роки тому +2

      I am thankful for those like you who find a good place for the good stuff others would waste. Some child will be happy you cleaned up and donated. I expect they put it beside the trash instead of in it hoping someone who could use it would take it.

    • @pinkmagicali
      @pinkmagicali 4 роки тому

      I hope so but I live in an area full of apartments and have seen almost brand new kids clothes in the trash. This area sadly doesn't go for the culture of re-use/re-purpose. It's so sad and I think it's partially a cultural thing around here. I try because it makes me sad and I know I can be a bit wasteful sometimes too. It's wonderful vids like these that draw my attention to what I'm doing that I need to adjust.

  • @ENOUSSOU
    @ENOUSSOU 4 роки тому +24

    Clutter house means clutter minds the reason it was so peaceful living in a minimalist house ur mind automatically declutters when there is no distractions

  • @moonglow7710
    @moonglow7710 4 роки тому +16

    It's amazing how the definition of messy house changes when we get rid of all the stuff! The house isn't actually messy; it's just lived in. The "messes" can be dealt with in the course of living in the house throughout the day, and with continuing the process of developing habits and systems which is always ongoing due to the progression of life seasons. Great video! Fun to observe your process, progress, thoughts concerning it all.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Moon Glow so right!! It feels messy now that I’ve been intentional for 3 months!

  • @private15
    @private15 4 роки тому +75

    Whoever gets out of bed last should make the bed.!!!! Husbands get with it!!!

    • @joycegaylord6472
      @joycegaylord6472 4 роки тому +12

      We started our marriage with this agreement. Has worked for 31 years. A beautiful bed makes me so relaxed and peaceful.

    • @denisetaylor3332
      @denisetaylor3332 4 роки тому +4

      My husband does it! - not perfect but it gets done! 🤣🤣🙈

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +7

      Diane Patt he makes the bed more often than I do. 😂

    • @private15
      @private15 4 роки тому +1

      Denise Taylor perfect is not required. We have to let some stuff ride!

    • @private15
      @private15 4 роки тому +1

      Erica Lucas that’s good. But it should not be a competition just not noticeable as the one out last just does it. You are making such great progress. You should be proud!!

  • @julies9997
    @julies9997 4 роки тому +20

    I'm glad you're trying. It's hard with small kids. Mine are all moved out and I ended up being the storage unit. So, I # the boxes and layed out all the idems out of that # box and took a picture and sent it to the one child and said " what should I get rid of? " then I'd put the keep in boxes. They got rid of lots of things that they didn't know that they still had. LOL

  • @TourPace
    @TourPace 4 роки тому +5

    When you spend more time dealing with your mess than the ones who are supposed to benefit from it. Well done on figuring this out before it was too late.

  • @saraann7901
    @saraann7901 4 роки тому +14

    Amazing progress, don't laugh about what you've done! 3 months is a short amount of time to sort and purge!

  • @TanjaHermann
    @TanjaHermann 4 роки тому +34

    I'm grateful for your honest take on decluttering and showing the pains of the process openly and without staging anything. I started this journey about 14 months ago and while our home is not obviously cluttered, every item I take out and donate seems to bring more peace to our space. I don't miss anything I have gotten rid of, in fact I can't remember the majority of items that I have taken out. I've learned many valuable lessons along the way and your videos had some very good messages also that I took to heart! I wish you a Merry Christmas and all the best for your continued minimalishm journey in 2020.

  • @michelleelizabeth5268
    @michelleelizabeth5268 4 роки тому +19

    You've done an incredible job! You are making a huge impact on how your kids will grow up and what their own relationship to stuff will be. Basement looks amazing!

  • @staceykersting705
    @staceykersting705 4 роки тому +7

    A huge ah ha moment for me was not bringing more stuff in,,,seems so obvious now! I've been on a financial diet...all I bought in December was dog food, t. paper and food. I even went thru my fridge and meal planned first and went thru my 'pantry cupboard' and made plans to use some of that stuff. Mt grocery bill was surprisingly low!

  • @deb8190
    @deb8190 4 роки тому +25

    I'd say you're more of an impulse shopper (the 'hoarder' comes from guilt of throwing out something you spent money on) plus as you said the family not having a culture of cleaning up. 3 children make a lot of mess and it can definitely get overwhelming if not dealt with daily. You teaching them that a natural part of play is cleaning up after is excellent!

    • @priscillafrye2951
      @priscillafrye2951 4 роки тому +3

      I was thinking the same thing. I've only watched part of this one video but so far, I don't see a person freaking out over letting go of things. I think this lady is someone who has fun shopping for stuff (who doesn't?) and doesn't always get around to putting it away (me me me!) but she's taking steps to really improve her life and create a better situation for her kids.

  • @strwbryzrule6894
    @strwbryzrule6894 4 роки тому +11

    Wow, the clips of definitions you put in the video are eye-openers and describe some of my life. I call myself an "organized" messy person. I HAVE to have access to rooms and my house looks "clean" to a point, but it's doing the cleaning I have problems with. Motivation is my problem. You are a great inspiration!

  • @karlaeabryant
    @karlaeabryant 4 роки тому +19

    Walking into your own bedroom with a made bed feels lovely. It took me years to be able to do it! I like to leave the bed to air for a bit so I throw the covers back when getting up but I have made it a rule to make my bed the next time I walk into the room, no excuses. It took a while to become a habit but I now really appreciate walking into a calm space at the end of the day.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +3

      karlaeabryant I do love that feeling when I actually make my bed.

  • @jackceli1684
    @jackceli1684 4 роки тому +10

    I'm loving the realness of this channel. I have been trying to declutter for a while now and this video made me feel so much better about myself that I'm not alone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @erickanyc8907
    @erickanyc8907 4 роки тому +17

    Wow! you really are doing an incredible job, your home school room is looking really good. Talk about motivational!!!😊 👌

  • @pennsylvaniapatti1835
    @pennsylvaniapatti1835 4 роки тому +9

    You should be so proud of yourself! To have such self awareness of your problem and to do something about it shows how strong a woman you are. Well done!

  • @helenr.2184
    @helenr.2184 4 роки тому +14

    Helpful hint from Helen: The last one out of bed has to make the bed. I was always up before my husband, so he made the bed. It takes about three minutes to do this!

    • @AMcDub0708
      @AMcDub0708 2 роки тому

      I just make my side and when my husband gets up he makes his side.

  • @nurseraine1059
    @nurseraine1059 4 роки тому +8

    Very brave...thank you for allowing us to participate in your journey.

  • @jackieedwards-henry8315
    @jackieedwards-henry8315 4 роки тому +7

    You’re my new hero, brava! My father was a true hoarder, and his hoarding was accompanied by obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. I had to do an intervention late in his life to prevent his earlier demise (he couldn’t get to the window air conditioners and couldn’t open any windows in the summer and was in danger of having a heat stroke). I am so impressed that you were able to come to this AND turn it around on your own. The difference you have made in your own life and the lives of your family are obvious and inspirational. Thank you for sharing and giving others hope and a beautiful, authentic model.

  • @carolynhiscock9457
    @carolynhiscock9457 4 роки тому +14

    As soon as I get out of bed ,I make it .Done in two minutes and the room looks tidy and complete.Last one in bed gets to handle that chore.It becomes automatic and painless .

    • @tporters1
      @tporters1 4 роки тому

      Erica, could your husband do this chore? My husband and I make the bed depending on who gets up last.

  • @simplejoyfilledliving
    @simplejoyfilledliving 4 роки тому +9

    Erica, your house looks amazing! You’ve done a fantastic job! And it seems to have made you so happy! ❤️ Your kids are precious!

  • @karenfisher5274
    @karenfisher5274 4 роки тому +2

    This is the best example of a hoarding/decluttering documentary I have ever seen, before and after. The dispersed video with commentary truly chronicles your journey as an aspiring minimalist. Other channels need to follow your direction. Please continue your decluttering sessions with us. 👍🏻

  • @koala2464
    @koala2464 11 місяців тому +1

    Erica, you deserve so many more than 42000 subs. You have been honest, realistic, raw and motivating to all of us who have been following you along the way. Love watching your ‘non-staged’ home. Hopefully the subs will come. Thank you. I’m off to declutter! You and others are changing lives with these informative videos.
    P.S. I love the change in your voice when you hit the attic and the lock and key. 😂 We all have an ‘attic’, that place you get that sinking feeling, avoid like the plague and never quite get there as it still remains as a dumping ground. That’s where I’m off to. The ‘dark hole’. 😮

  • @MR-rw3vc
    @MR-rw3vc 4 роки тому +5

    I am so happy for you! It was good for me when you said that decluttering takes the amount of time that it is supposed to.

  • @kellylestrange7753
    @kellylestrange7753 4 роки тому +9

    What a great transformation in just 3 months! Well done!

  • @jennygibbons1258
    @jennygibbons1258 4 роки тому

    Yes this is yet another re - watch 😃 Thanks

  • @erinvelasquez3316
    @erinvelasquez3316 4 роки тому

    Thank you for your honesty! It’s good to know I’m not alone!

  • @marieskee22
    @marieskee22 4 роки тому +13

    First time watcher, and I'm amazed at the progress you have made in only 3 months!!!! You've got a new subscriber!!!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      marieskee22 welcome!!!

    • @weeepsalotts723
      @weeepsalotts723 4 роки тому +1

      I agree, you did a great job and i love how you were real with the mess and your feelings about it. Your kids are cute too. I also subscribed just now.

  • @reesieleebunch
    @reesieleebunch 4 роки тому +21

    Great job! You have inspired me to declutter and minimalize my home. My daughter loves legos and we play build on top of a quilt, sheet, or banket. It makes it so much easier to clean up because you pull up the corners and just pour the legos back into their bucket. I also have put a general rule that if I step on a lego then I get to keep it. I put it in a small bucket in my closet (where all the other toys are in timeout) then after a while i put it back in the big bucket. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +4

      Teresa Bunch I laughed! If I step on a lego I get to keep it. 😂

    • @denisecarter5117
      @denisecarter5117 4 роки тому +3

      Teresa Bunch Good idea playing on a sheet.

  • @alicegarcia-yoursoulsage
    @alicegarcia-yoursoulsage 4 роки тому

    Thank you for this!!! So appreciate your being REAL and also shedding light on what it takes to get to where you are. And all those good feelings when after three months you are where you are. Cause the anxiety is real. You Rock!!!

  • @praiseHim1962
    @praiseHim1962 4 роки тому +1

    So transparent and sweet of you to share and be real. Great job pushing through!! Officially Inspired!

  • @Picalilli28
    @Picalilli28 4 роки тому +7

    Love seeing your house. You’ve had quite a journey, it’s been an inspiring series.

  • @nyc1cafe246
    @nyc1cafe246 4 роки тому +3

    Her personality is pretty fun. YOU GO GIRLLL!

  • @revondawatkins644
    @revondawatkins644 4 роки тому

    Thanks! I needed to see that. Awesome for you and your accomplishments.😉

  • @miriambolton773
    @miriambolton773 4 роки тому +1

    Lego idea from years of 3 boys playing with Legos. Put out a small blanket to dump the pieces on. They can dump and play in any space. When it's time to pick up, shake the blanket back into the bin or ball up the blanket. No little Legos on the floor to step on in the night. It was wonderful and that is how they played!

  • @okorolina
    @okorolina 4 роки тому +8

    I absolutely love this video, from start to finish. I want to do this for the next three months. I relate and identity with all this

  • @catfish9539
    @catfish9539 4 роки тому +7

    Feel like I've just found my new favourite UA-camr. I guess I must be a hoarder too!! Will definitely be watching more of your videos. Just one thing I would say and I am by no means tidy there is something very satisfying about making your bed if you can and then coming to get in a made bed at night.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Catfish welcome! I want to be the person that makes her bed. 😂

  • @sheryllynnjones6292
    @sheryllynnjones6292 4 роки тому

    Oh my gosh! You have shown me that there is hope for me! Thank you for your honesty and showing use the before and after! I am truly inspired.

  • @pennyj777
    @pennyj777 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your journey! ❤️

  • @Tayamiz
    @Tayamiz 4 роки тому +6

    I love how authentic this is.. And trust me, I'd like my house to look like yours at any "none_staged" moment.. Like u, I decluttered a lot but still have many problem areas, I hope we can solve it soon

  • @thehappinesstree8089
    @thehappinesstree8089 4 роки тому +5

    You have made a HUGE difference in 3 months. I've been following since the beginning. I love you videos, you're so likeable and authentic :-)

  • @jenniferheidt7294
    @jenniferheidt7294 4 роки тому

    I so appreciate this video, your kindness and realism spoke to me. Thank you for the kind inspiration.

  • @cindyperez5840
    @cindyperez5840 4 роки тому +1

    I’m starting this new year ,I’m excited and looking forward to do this!!!!!!👍

  • @lisab6437
    @lisab6437 4 роки тому +3

    This is truly inspiring, what an amazing transformation!

  • @karenacox8932
    @karenacox8932 4 роки тому +3

    Great job!! A lot more relaxing and peaceful isn’t it!!

  • @claudiaa.1439
    @claudiaa.1439 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for your honesty, great!

  • @kristinaboggs867
    @kristinaboggs867 4 роки тому +1

    WOW! Great job. That basement, that basement, seeing those kids being able to use it. Fantastic, keep up positive changes.

  • @barbarap6851
    @barbarap6851 4 роки тому +3

    Erica, you are doing so well! I have been on my journey for 2 years and still going! It's a process. Keep up your good work!

    • @lalahdz9553
      @lalahdz9553 4 роки тому +2

      Its been a year with alot of resistance from other family that live home with me ☝️👉 means me ,than him...getting to see the effects of decluttering has helped get stuff organized. I clean more because there less to declutter. I cook more because its more organized and clean. My teenagers can clean their rooms in just minutes, without hesitation! They do their own laundry because the laundry room has been cleaned out. My room is a mess. The garage is a mess still. I have let go of some paperwork and I have stopped alot of it from coming in! I sold items, which feels great!

  • @aw3276
    @aw3276 4 роки тому +4

    Wow. You have done a lot of maintaining the change to your space.

  • @RussellsLovingLife
    @RussellsLovingLife 4 роки тому

    You are rocking the journey! I'm so proud of you for being so real and sharing your real life with us!

  • @natashatierney9243
    @natashatierney9243 4 роки тому

    Super great job. You have done a fabulous job for your family and motivated so many along the way xx

  • @Amandahugginkizz
    @Amandahugginkizz 4 роки тому +16

    You were deff a hoarder before... imagine if you lived in a house a few hundred sq ft smaller you literly would have no walking space. We had a 7 bedrooms 3500 sq ft house, we got rid of a 2 car garage full of stuff when we moved to a small 3 bedroom 1100 sq ft house, if we hadn't got rid of the stuff that fit in our 7 bedroom house this 3 bedroom house would be filled to the ceilings.

  • @michelehice8338
    @michelehice8338 4 роки тому +4

    You've done a fantabulous job..lol..Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

  • @craftingwithapurpose6479
    @craftingwithapurpose6479 4 роки тому +1

    I’ve watched you for a while. Your sincerity is refreshing and heartwarming. Thank you for sharing your journey.

  • @rousseautr
    @rousseautr 4 роки тому

    Wow you are awesome thank you for sharing. I so identify with your challenges too. But celebrate your successes!!! Girl your doing so good.

  • @kathrinekerns8398
    @kathrinekerns8398 4 роки тому +3

    Totally awesome.

  • @Zia_Kristin
    @Zia_Kristin 4 роки тому +13

    I am so PROUD of you! Your journey has been so inspiring, and I feel like your definition of minimalism is very realistic! This is the best gift that you could ever give to yourself, your husband, and your children. I hope that you are proud of yourself, and happy about the beautiful home that you’ve made. Happy happy holidays to you and your family! Hugs, from Michigan!

    • @lorettab687
      @lorettab687 4 роки тому +2

      Kristin D, you have echoed my sentiments. This is exactly what I was thinking in my head, but you've actually written it - thank you for letting me ride your coattails. Well done, Erica. Merry Christmas from Melbourne, Australia.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      Loretta B thank you! ❤️

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      Kristin D thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @brendarivas1719
    @brendarivas1719 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing this! We started to declutter and be kinda minimalist this year. It's so nice to see a real video that's relatable.

  • @alexajacques4020
    @alexajacques4020 4 роки тому

    You”re AMAZING,BRAVE and STRONG! Thank you for posting and keep up the great work.🙂

  • @emilierhoads3723
    @emilierhoads3723 4 роки тому +6

    Great job!! You’ve come a long way in a short time!
    I’m a homeschool mom too and I love decluttering and consider myself “minimal-ish” too😜 I enjoy the realness of your videos!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      Emilie Rhoads I juts love that word. Minimalish!!

  • @DellaHeil
    @DellaHeil 4 роки тому +6

    So inspiring, I to struggle with where to start. My husband throws nothing away which stems from his grandmother, I have to catch him away from his desk just to throw away junk mail.

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +4

      Della Heil that’s a real thing. When one half wants less and one half isn’t ready.

  • @rosariotrujillo4361
    @rosariotrujillo4361 4 роки тому

    I love your approach to the clutter. Thanks so much for sharing this video and your experience.

  • @billiejeanne2715
    @billiejeanne2715 4 роки тому +1

    This is so awesome! I’m happy for you. And it was super satisfying to watch. Thanks for being so authentic.

  • @roxanaconception
    @roxanaconception 4 роки тому +4

    You’re just so darn awesome.
    You did have quite a lot of stuff.
    Regardless whether it was “hoarding” or not, I really felt your breakdown anguish when you saw you had the 2 of the same when going through board games.
    Very much enjoyed this update and pieces previous videos along with the sound that captured the chaos 😄 the cluttered mind, as you put it. But I must say you have come so far. Enjoyed your mood improve, even though you have always been in high spirits throughout it all.
    You are such an analytical person. You take everything in stride.
    Love how you got committed to doing such a positive change while your children are still young and they will also be able to learn how to live in this new and improved type of environment that I could see will continue to do so as they get older.
    Nevertheless, I can see you have been a great example not only in change, but influential in the most positive way to them. Home schooling I feel will be wonderful memories they will have with mom when they are older because of the time that was spent together.
    Well done!
    God bless. 🙂💖✝️

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Roxana Concepcion I am analytical! This was an amazing comment. I read it twice!!

  • @lenarobins2480
    @lenarobins2480 4 роки тому +9

    My son likes to use those cross stitching thread containers I buy at michaels for $2 each ish for sorting his legos into type for tinier pieces and he likes the sandwich size Tupperware containers u can get at dollar tree for 2 a pack for some slightly bigger that way u can use the tubs for specifically bigger pieces makes their building a little easier and that was an organizing system my son discovered in his own that worked for him. Btw amazing job on your journey you truly are inspiring me to be more pro active on decluttering even more!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Lena Robins great ideas! Legos are so tough to organize.

    • @lauraann7816
      @lauraann7816 4 роки тому

      Thumbs up to your son! Whoot Whoot 😁

  • @katymason1222
    @katymason1222 4 роки тому +1

    Wow! Great work! I appreciate your authenticity and self awareness!

  • @sharipotter6137
    @sharipotter6137 4 роки тому

    You are very inspiring because I am starting where you are! And you show the PROCESS - hard work!!

  • @Nini51963
    @Nini51963 4 роки тому +3

    I really appreciate you , just discovered your channel. I too am a hoarder trying to minimize its very hard. Been doing for years . I’m going to watch all your videos thank you .

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      Chanel Crane thank you! Welcome! What is a project you are working on to declutter?

    • @Nini51963
      @Nini51963 4 роки тому

      I’m starting again with my clothes but moving them to a spare room /sewing room . I have a son with Autism so I declutter around him . I have to go slow . I love to sew and honestly have a weight fluctuating issue since going through menopause so I hope to loose weight and take pieces in . I have decluttered before but have struggled to find joy . I think that’s why I gathered / hoarded. I also create mentally lol . I’m learning I can still do that without having to own every thing lol. Kon mari helped me dig deep into the why I want to keep things .

  • @julianeelter8159
    @julianeelter8159 4 роки тому +5

    You've accomplished so many great things! Have a peaceful and happy holiday with your loved ones! :)
    Also: I looooove that hairstyle on you! It looks like a cute bow?! :)

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому

      Juliane elter it’s actually a piece of my hair!

  • @katherinestarr5434
    @katherinestarr5434 4 роки тому

    I really appreciate your courage to share this. I identify with a lot of the same issues you did and it’s really helpful and hopeful to see someone come out on the other side happier for it.

  • @rachelwallace8399
    @rachelwallace8399 4 роки тому

    that kitchen transformation though. way to go!! fabulous.

  • @martaescobar7625
    @martaescobar7625 4 роки тому +7

    Sweetie if you lighten the color of the walls, it will feel fresh and less cluttered too. Same color on ceiling and walls throughout even makes it bigger:) Great job!

    • @EricaLucasLoves
      @EricaLucasLoves  4 роки тому +1

      Marta Escobar this was the awful color when we bought. You are right. Lighter is brighter!! Sounds like a fun project for my hubby this spring.

  • @madhatter909
    @madhatter909 4 роки тому +12

    beds have to have time to dry out, they are full of sweat, just pull the cover down and let it air out

  • @brendanbang6636
    @brendanbang6636 3 роки тому

    I love videos looking back at your progress… the authenticity of attitude and how ruthless you are now with declutter. Bravo and so motivational.