so you want to be an au pair? my honest experience as an au pair in Germany 🇩🇪
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Hey everyone! In this video, I will be sharing my personal experience as an au pair. disclaimer: this video isn't meant to paint anyone in a negative light or make anyone look bad. I'm simply sharing my perspective in the hope that is helps someone. I hope you enjoy the video :)
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my name is Nsuku and I'm 24 years old (4 Jan 1999). I'm Tsonga, currently living in Germany. MSc Physiology (neurophysiology) candidate at Stellenbosch University. This video was filmed on an iPhone 14.
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I literally don't understand where some of these families get the AUDACITY to say some of these things to their Au pairs. I don't like it when a family says something like they are disappointed or you are wasting your potential etc. Like who gives them the right to say that to their Au pair? 😅 Glad to hear you got out of that situation girl!
i really don't get it either. it's like they don't realise that you're a young person in a foreign country, it can really mess with you. and it's really weird behaviour considering that you came all the way from your country to watch THEIR children!! I thank God every day that i'm not in that situation anymore 😅
These people look for young people who have no experience to exploit them. I’m so happy I didn’t go as an au pair after high school because I wasn’t prepare to deal with abusive people like them
so true! i don’t know about other people but i wouldn’t recommend being an au pair at 18 or 19. you’re so young and it’s easier to be taken advantage of
Wow girl you are really strong! Kind, nice and good personality. I know you try to make the host family sounds good, but i think she gaslight you.. just such a bad host family. Hope everything's fine for you now, good luck in the future ❤
thank you for your comment! things are much better now ❤️
Sniffed your underwear???
Oh my word, I can't process that.
I can't even imagine how your feeling. Like!!!!
it was insane! i still get emotional when i talk about it
@@heyitsNsuku Yoh I can't even imagine. And Incase they see this I have one question for them: "What the actually Fu*k!!!??"
Rehearing these stories makes me soooo mad! I am glad you got out babes 💌❣
The underwear story is so creepy. Glad you got out of that
I am so sorry you had to go through that glad you came out
Hai Nsuku
Can you please share the list of questions you asked your host family during the interview 🙏
hey! i shared the questions in this video ua-cam.com/video/BE5AiSLSe7E/v-deo.htmlsi=SEECS_bFMy7EJqXE
hope it helps 😊
Hey nsuku
I really loved your story.
Im also planning to come there with au pair visa.
Im getting alot of information with you🖤
Glad you could get something out of the videos, best of luck with the application!
Are you still in Germany or you went back this was horrific sorry for those bad days ❤❤
i'm still in germany. thank you ❤️❤️
Disown? I are just and employer .they shoukd pay you well if you take care of their children or at leasg be very nice to you
1st view.... Yayyyyy 🤸
Probs to you for trying to stay decent and nice while talking about your experience. This familiy sounds extremely racist, creepy and rude. Dropping that comment about black people having too many relatives anyways to a black persons face? Let alone somebody who has just lost someone? That is just evil! I hope that you are now able to see in all clarity how disrespectfully you were treated and recover from being trapped in those horrible people's house.
a part of me feels like they didn't realize or at least want to acknowledge that they were slightly problematic, they felt like they were doing me a favour. it took me a while to be able to talk about without crying. i just hope that my experience will help someone out there
please in the next video work for the volume I can't hear good and I can't wear headphones ❤😢 I'm sorry
i’ll try my best, i’m also working on getting a mic 🙏🏿
@@heyitsNsuku ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️I love u
They sound TOXIC! The husband/dad sounds like he has no respect for boundaries at all and is lowkey weird for the underwear thing and the comments💀💀…. Guurl uyakwazi ukubekezela😭 I respect that. Glad to hear your new family is treating you better. All the best!
dude, i bekezelad longer than i should've! really happy to be out of there
Are you schooling there?Why do you decide to go there?
no i'm not studying here. I came as an au pair, with hopes that I can one day work here as well
The family went too far. Personally I would have been shattered if I were the one that was told that I was wasting my potential.I love the fact that you didn't exaggerate things and made it look like you are the victim ( though you were) . I am sure she would watch this video and know where she is at fault.
i really was heartbroken! even though i'd make jokes about it with friends, it really hurt me a lot and it's still something i'm processing 🥲. i can only hope, especially if they get another au pair in the future
I wish there was an app to leave a review on host families (and also Au Pairs) just so the next Au pair or family know what they're getting into....but I guess it's part of the experience
The Rice part got me😂 What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I am sorry to hear about your experience. Love from Germany ❤
for sure! we move 💪🏿 which part of germany are you in?
I am near Frankfurt.
Wow this family were gaslighting you …
Hi nsuku happy to see you again if you don’t mind asking please be more consistency here we miss you so much
hey! thank you for the feedback, i will try my best to be more consistent 🤭
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This is so sad bathong. I'm so sorry you had to go through this.
thank you 🫶🏿
@@heyitsNsuku ♥️
I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, God always has a plan.
thank you, i believe God has a plan too! 😊
Looking into Au Pair work so my sister can travel really.. she has experience taking care of children newborn to 11 so thats cool .. but she doesn’t travel out of our state .. this type of work would get her far from her norm and if she doesn’t like it she can come back home .. but she will learn..
i think it's a really great opportunity to get out of your comfort zone and learn new things. i hope your sister can find a great host family
You are a very strong person❤ i am really thinking if i should be an au pair now 😅😅
i think you should still do it, it's not all bad :)
@@heyitsNsuku thanks :)