The Hoover Boys - The TRUTH on WTF Happened?

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  • Опубліковано 19 гру 2024

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  • @marquestreasures
    @marquestreasures 2 місяці тому +134

    Dude, I get it. 20 year combat vet myself. Twice divorced. Suicidal, PTSD, alcohol abuse. Part of my recovery has been coin roll hunting and metal detecting, and your channel has been a huge part of that. You were there for me, so let me return the favor. Take all the time you need brother. This recovery process isn't easy, but it is worth it. We will still be here when you come back. Love ya bro.

    • @mdwayne741
      @mdwayne741 2 місяці тому +3

      Be strong, brother.

    • @SSGSINCLAIR
      @SSGSINCLAIR 2 місяці тому +2

      You stay strong as well my Veteran Brother.

    • @threefortytwo23
      @threefortytwo23 2 місяці тому +3

      Thanks for serving my friend. I owe you BIG time.

    • @barrygeorge1350
      @barrygeorge1350 Місяць тому +1

      24 years I don’t know why my wife is still here. Talking to other vets helped me.

    • @edfindstreasure
      @edfindstreasure Місяць тому

      Take care of yourself. Thanks for the message, big time.

  • @waltnakonechny4548
    @waltnakonechny4548 2 місяці тому +143

    I’ve been watching your videos silently since the very beginning and I have never commented once. I’ve never missed an episode. Hell, I don’t even metal detect. Watching your videos helped me through some very difficult times and filled me with hope and optimism. Simply put, you, and all the Hoover Boys, kept me going. I am so glad to hear that you are finally getting the help you need. You deserve the very best. I can’t help but think that the treasure you’ve been looking for all these years was there with you all along. You thought you were chasing gold in the ground, but really it was the gold in your heart you were after. I’m so glad you have finally found it. Love and best wishes, Walt from CT.

    • @jillseaman5079
      @jillseaman5079 2 місяці тому +1

    • @threefortytwo23
      @threefortytwo23 2 місяці тому

      What a comment, thank you ❤

    • @vkinkela
      @vkinkela 2 місяці тому

      Look at all the people in this group that love you … I have a detector… have yet to go out and use it … it’s all your fault ;)… get well and come back stronger !

    • @Bemvers1
      @Bemvers1 2 місяці тому

      Love you Kurt!

    • @justaeryn
      @justaeryn Місяць тому

  • @dmcjr1375
    @dmcjr1375 2 місяці тому +60

    You Sir are stronger than you know. We are all here to support you. Stay Strong, Brother!

  • @OhioMetalMaven
    @OhioMetalMaven 2 місяці тому +38

    Kurt!! Thank you for speaking up and thank you for checking into a center. Huge damn accomplishments for your life story. I have PTSD from a lifetime of bullshit- and during one trip back up from the rabbit hole I found THB channel and @Stefdigs . I wasn’t sure I’d make it out alive. Like you, my family is my life and they wouldn’t let me fall behind. I spent hours alone watching you guys and Stef. I am a loner by nature but watching you all made me feel like I was part of a group of people who liked the random things I do. So, thank you for being there when I needed a “friend”. My sons had me start my channel because they knew it would help. And it totally did. Now I’m starting a nonprofit called Put The Sound Down (PTSD). I want to help people find this hobby and other amazing ones that help quiet the demons. So, again thank you for being a powerful force that you don’t even know you are. If you’re ever in western Ohio you all are welcome to dig with me. No videos, just dirt. Keep f’n going!! ✌🏼❤️😊🍀 Love to you and your family - Nicole

  • @lidymaehoward6726
    @lidymaehoward6726 2 місяці тому +6

    I am 83 and was wondering where you have been for the past two Wednesdays. I am so glad you have the courage to take care of yourself. I love your videos and have been a faithful watcher from day one. I think we will all be here when you decide to come back. Just take care of yourself.

  • @Amy-zr9pb
    @Amy-zr9pb 2 місяці тому +67

    This is all we needed to hear!! Your health is the most important thing right now. I hope it helps your heart to know that you were missed. Take your time coming back and know that we will be here waiting to see you and the guys out there saving history soon. Hugs from Pittsburgh!!

  • @StefDigs
    @StefDigs 2 місяці тому +309

    That must have been very tough to film and share with everybody, but it was SO brave of you to do it. Your mental health and your family come first, always. I’m pulling for you, Kurt - hope things continue down a positive path and that you heal a bit more each day. Stay strong when you can, lean on your amazing family when you can’t. ❤

    • @ChristianThomas-wf5dl
      @ChristianThomas-wf5dl 2 місяці тому +6

      Well said Stef. Luv ya young lady.

    • @pawpawthebeagle9442
      @pawpawthebeagle9442 2 місяці тому +4

      Firstly I apologize for piggybacking off the original poster’s comment. It has the most likes, so it shows up at the top of the list (this first short paragraph is contextual/the set up, and I’m late to the comment part). Therefore, I’m hoping Curt see’s this, and I wanted to add my two cents.
      As a follower of THB Channel since almost the beginning, one video particularly sticks out in my mind: “Treasure Hunting Surface Finds | Dirty
      Money (New Orleans)” from 9 years ago. I haven’t watched it in almost that long, but it was a very dark representation of you. One of, if not the only glimpse we’ve gotten to view for that side of you. After watching this video, I encourage folks to go back and watch it, to truly understand what I’m getting on about. It’s an actual, visually-tangible example of how long you’ve been battling your demons (and points out that it goes back even further than that…as you say to the beginnings of your career as a volunteer F.F./First Responder).
      As a former alcoholic, now sober for 3+ years, and living with/fighting against liver cirrhosis, I know the mental anguish you’re dealing with, it’s just a Zebra with different stripes. Although it doesn’t always help my racing mind (particularly when we’re speaking of going to bed), I always remind myself that whatever happens in our lives, it happens for a reason…it’s God’s plan. His plan isn’t there for us to question. It is a pathway that we must do our best to follow by choosing to make the right decisions in life. It’s a mix of His predetermined existence for us, and our free will.
      By: sharing your experience with us, opening up to those in your REAL life, mending fences, confronting your personal issues with others, and seeking professional help, you’re choosing the correct directions that will get you back closer to God’s path. As The Mandalorian’s say in Star Wars cannon “This is the way.” God bless you Curt, and yours…you got this Brother From Another Mother!! We BeFAM 💪🏼🙏🏼✝️🫡

    • @davechumbley7239
      @davechumbley7239 2 місяці тому +6

      I fight the battle every day, good for you for getting help. We have a mutual friend that has helped me immensely just by listening. Very proud of you 👏👏👏👏

    • @craziedigging4590
      @craziedigging4590 2 місяці тому +2

      Stef your amazing Take Care

    • @kurtbayson6240
      @kurtbayson6240 2 місяці тому +3

      You da man!

  • @batmandigs
    @batmandigs 2 місяці тому +42

    Kurt, thank you, brother, for sharing. As an ex first responder myself, I myself know what you are going through. I've been there. It's not easy and yes it hurts. I started watching THB way before I ever started detecting. It was because of you guys that got me into it to help me deal with my mental health. You all helped me in my time of need and kicked started my road to recovery. It's been 10 years of dealing with the dark side and I'm now in a happier place and 99% better. So Kurt you have got this brother. We all have your back. We stand as one but we all fight together. Love Peace Respect

    • @Diggindurt
      @Diggindurt 2 місяці тому +1

      They got me hooked on the hobby as well. Id end a tour of duty and hit the dirt just to clear my mind of the noise.

  • @coltuncampos628
    @coltuncampos628 2 місяці тому +11

    Kurt, man you are a true role model. So glad to hear that you’re taking care of yourself and getting help when you needed it. I’ll keep you in my prayers every day brother. Stay strong. Just know that every single person on here even though we’re all strangers behind a camera/screen we’re here for you if there is anything one of us can do, do not hesitate to ask or let us know. We love you brother.

  • @kyledillard1063
    @kyledillard1063 2 місяці тому +16

    Love you brother. I'm an Ex AEMT here in Georgia. I feel you entirely. I quit because of the evil ongoing in EMS in my town. My supervisor that wanted me to stay in, lost her battle to that dark feeling from all the poor management in our area and the reports of wrong doing going on deaf ears. I struggle from time to time with my own emotions from the 6 years I did that job full time. I can empathize with you in this. I wanted to let you know that you are so much more to so many people. You've been a great help in keeping my spirits alive over the last few years especially when I lost my grandmother. Now my mom who has cancer is weighing heavy on my heart. I don't want that to worry you, or to make you want to do more videos. I've enjoyed so much already, and everything you've given up until now has been a blessing. The light shines through! I don't want to take The Watch for you my friend, I want to be there by your side, and support in whatever way I can. May you take this time now to be with your family, not just be around them. May you see the blessings you have, and may they provide you with all the love and support that you deserve. I'll pray for you and your family, as well as our fallen brothers and sisters. Much love from Augusta, GA.

    • @mdwayne741
      @mdwayne741 Місяць тому

      I am from Augusta, myself.... Lived in Hephzibah and Evans. Sorry to hear about your struggles... I really hope that your mother will beat Cancer.
      I also hope that you made it through the storm unscathed. I live near Asheville, NC and our area got hammered pretty hard as well. Fortunately, we were spared any damage to our home.
      Thanks for sharing your situation... Take care of yourself, my friend.

  • @phatzilias1075
    @phatzilias1075 2 місяці тому +36

    Kurt, thanks for the update.. I think it’s fair to say we all have been worried about you. Take your time, I can’t imagine being a first responder and honestly saying thank you for doing that isn’t enough. I can’t imagine the weight it causes but I am glad you are working on you. I am in Florida and we were just hit by two hurricanes so I only have a small picture of a small part of what you do and only have total appreciation for first responders. They are true life savers and risk everything for others. Again thank you for what you do, work on yourself and we will be here when you are ready. No rush just get the help you need.

  • @jabx23
    @jabx23 2 місяці тому +14

    Kurt, I am SO PROUD of you for recognizing your needs and taking care of the most important thing between your two ears. It sounds like you have a great support system and we all are cheering for more positivity in the coming days. Thank you for being open and transparent.
    We need more voices, like yours, to share experiences.
    Your videos (both THB and Mental Health Day) have helped me rediscover my passion of the outdoors (fishing and detecting) and has allowed me to get through some tough years. So, thank YOU!
    Heal well, brother.

  • @empiremetaldetecting2771
    @empiremetaldetecting2771 2 місяці тому +22

    Kurt, You are one of the first UA-camrs I ever followed. I suspect you know that we (your watchers) consider you a friend. I know that’s odd since you don’t know us. But please trust that to be true. I’m in Ohio but so wish I could drive over and give you a big hug. Thank you for taking care of you. Thank you for allowing your loved ones to coax you into the environment you needed. Thank you for being vulnerable with us and sharing these details. I love you man! “We can’t anticipate but we can adapt”. (A quote from a dear friend of mine). Keep taking care of you.

  • @gailoursler2750
    @gailoursler2750 2 місяці тому +7

    Kurt, that took a lot of courage to share what you have been hauling around in your head. I am sure your wife knew before you did, that you needed help. Nurses are use to the traumas that life throws at them via their patients and families . I am glad that you decided to enter a place that knows what you have held in for years. I thank God you took those steps for your mental health and for the sake of your beautiful family. I pray that this video helps someone else who is living the life of a first responder! Depression I know about first hand, but you have given your life to help others in their worst moments in life. Please know that I will be adding you and your family to my prayer list. There is no shame in a man crying, especially when he is letting out years of repressed emotions! I love my Hoover Boys and have held you all to me like family, because that is how you made each video, sharing the fun of metal detecting but of the friendships made because of a much loved healthy hobby. Come back when you are ready to share your laughter and metal detecting life! Your mental health is more important to me! Hugs to you, your wife and the kids! 🙏❤️g 7:17

    • @douglassmith5414
      @douglassmith5414 Місяць тому

      X 2 Kurt, you've done the right thing. Explaining it to all of us and the Wellness Group is a good first step. I'm sure you've got all of your fans support too. Rest will help...and if you like crystals and gemstones, you might carry a piece of Black Tourmaline in your pocket and one on your night stand. It works for me to fend off the negativity and calm me down. It helps me sleep and feel safe. You do a lot for us, now it's time to take care of yourself. You're on the mend I feel. Good luck Bud

  • @ButchSavage
    @ButchSavage 2 місяці тому +9

    Thank you brother! I retired recently after 50 plus years of service. I live in the New Orleans area and after Katrina I realized that something was not working right as much as I loved the fire service. I also checked myself into a behavior modification unit. Best thing I ever done for myself, As first responders we see and do so much stuff that our brains cannot deal with it. I am an advocate of mental health for everyone in the fire service no matter the size of the department, Every member should go CIST before they ever go to an incident. As a trained and certified Fire Service Chaplain, I thank you for going public. You will never know how many lives you have touched.
    I watch you every week and love you shows. Take care of your self! You have many, many who care about you!
    Be Blessed in all you do!
    Butch

  • @jerrywarren9736
    @jerrywarren9736 2 місяці тому +24

    I'm a 44 year old from Ontario Canada and you inspired me to get this guy off his butt and do some hunting. You helped me in a dark spot and thank you. You will over come this. I KNOW YOU WILL

  • @Greasy_caveman
    @Greasy_caveman 2 місяці тому +18

    You hit the nail on the head on so many topics. Godspeed my friend.

  • @jeanettedeblois7878
    @jeanettedeblois7878 2 місяці тому +15

    I am 78 and have been down the hole for many years. I take each day as a chance to get better. Life eases into too many ways of losing touch with yourself.
    So, I am going to say many people love and respect you. You make us happy and you have earned so much respect from your followers. Please keep up with the help you are receiving. ❤

  • @scotford8164
    @scotford8164 2 місяці тому +5

    Hey Kurt, I have followed you for years. I am a pastor and minister to folks who deal with trauma, depression and painful memories. You certainly have the right foundation going by having a loving and supportive family and have now been counseling with a group specific to your traumatic experiences. Know that I am praying for you! You can and will get through this. Your identity is NOT bound up in what has abused you or traumatized you, but your identity is a man of God who has been appointed for this time and has been given a place as a husband and father with friends and family that love you and because of your trials, will now have a voice you did not have before…

  • @Impact-vj4up
    @Impact-vj4up Місяць тому +1

    Kurt, It’s huge relief seeing a new post from you , thank you for checking in and sharing.
    Keep up the fight.

  • @dangreenwood7275
    @dangreenwood7275 2 місяці тому +67

    Hey Brother, you're not alone in your struggles. I'm a combat Vet with severe PTSD and can relate I think. You're channel and content has been a relief for me as a distraction from my issues and I want to thank you and the guys for that. I've been treated through the VA and I've come to realize that there is no shame in seeking help, you should feel very proud of that. Hang in there, you will prevail! I'll be here when you return to see your adventures.

    • @marksadventurechannel8471
      @marksadventurechannel8471 2 місяці тому +3

      You are not alone Dan. I am a vet too. However, I am one lucky SOB because I was only officially deployed one time and we got recalled before we got anywhere. I understand that I had that bullet whiz by my head 6 or 7 more times and only knew of one time. You do not have to go to combat to end up with PTSD. I know this well. I have Army, abuse growing up, and work related PTSD and know how it feels. I have seen some terrible shit. Once again, you are not alone. I would bet that you have also woke up at o dot 30 and said "Well, I guess this fucking night is over." Not getting any more sleep tonight." Then everyone wonders why you are crabby and tired and don't want to deal with BS that day.

  • @haroldmcelwain1604
    @haroldmcelwain1604 2 місяці тому +18

    I had a 25 year career as an EMT across the line in York and Lancaster County PA and a lot years as a volunteer. I and my fellow first responders have seen a lot of up close and personal ugliness in that time. I've always hoped those ghosts would stay buried in my mind. Some of those calls have have come back to haunt me. You do what's right for you and may God Bless you on your journey to healing. I've always felt metal detecting was a great therapy for me. I thoroughly enjoy your videos and your finds and I cheer with you when you make your discoveries! I am currently unable to dig courtesy of back issues. But, I look forward to getting back out there and finding history again. You, Brad and the rest of the Hoover Boys keep me going! Please take care and know you are well thought of in this community!

    • @kartracer5g229
      @kartracer5g229 2 місяці тому +1

      23+ plus here in central pa .. 20 min south of state college... I've been watching hoover boys for 2 years and want to so badly get into the hobby but unfortunately finances don't allow it but hope to some day be able to. Stay safe out there

    • @cdoggyish
      @cdoggyish 2 місяці тому +2

      Hi, I'm a fellow back sufferer like you. I had lower back surgery last year to get a metal "structure" built around my spine. Been a really slow process from there. I have had to rely on higher powered pain medication for the last 15 years or so, and from the start have always wanted to get off of those meds. Two weeks ago last Monday I had a "stimulator" with a battery put into my back just below my ribs. Attatched to the stimulator is a longish copper wire, fairly thick. It goes up my spine and is held in place permanently. The stimulator actually tricks blocks the pain signals from going to your brain, and believe me, it works! Since that day I have felt little to no pain in my lower back. I'm weaning myself off of the two pain killers I've been on for so long, and am looking forward to building up my leg and back muscles again. I live close to Harrisburg, so I thought you might be interested in this. In my case, it's been (so far) life changing. I advised a couple of friends to look into it, and I thought I'd throw out this random message to you as you are so close to my area. If it's interesting to you, I advise you to talk to your doctor, and look into it. Cheers!

  • @mollyfritz-beckers6821
    @mollyfritz-beckers6821 2 місяці тому +13

    Hugs to you. You are absolutely correct that you are not alone. As a mental health provider, I have witnessed so many clients "who had everything" descend into a dark mental dungeon of hopelessness and could not find the ladder out on their own. You are dear to your loved ones and you had the courage to listen and get help finding that ladder. By sharing the difficult choices you made to seek recovery others may identify with your experience and seek help. Saving their lives. Im sure John would welcome a future visit from all the Hoover Boys. May you find joy in being.

  • @roberthess3939
    @roberthess3939 2 місяці тому +2

    Kurt, I too want to add my voice to the previous commenters: I have enjoyed watching you guys -- your banter and fun with each other is contagious. Your videos also helped me during the dark days of the pandemic. I am so sorry that you have been going through rough times, but I am glad for you that you are identifying the issues causing depression and getting the help you deserve and need. You are a man loved by many (your family, friends, and channel followers). Please know that there are many in your corner rooting for you. That includes me! God bless you brother!

  • @AGI101
    @AGI101 2 місяці тому +7

    Thanks for sharing. As a first responder for the last 24 years I understand the ups and WAY downs. You've spent your entire career taking care of others, now is the time to focus on taking care of yourself.

  • @detectnician
    @detectnician 2 місяці тому +14

    This is THE MOST powerful thing I'v seen on here in quite a while! I did ask john on one of the videos where you were and the fact I hadnt seen a video in a few weeks made me worry a little bit. I didnt here/see any rumor's . But lad, I do know a little bit of what you are going through. Though maybe not to the same extent. EVERYTHING you said about how the world is, is exactly how I'm feeling about it also. I really hope this video goes a long way to help you recover and get back to that happy guy I've been watching for the last 5/6 years!
    I am sending prayers, positive vibes and the very best of Irish luck to you and your family for over here in soggy Ireland!
    BTW there's an old Irish proverb that came to mind as I was watching your video, (Like many Irish people my grasp of our native language is sketchy at best so I had to google it to get it right.) But here it is..
    Ní dhéanfaidh smaoineamh an treabhadh duit.
    It means roughly: You can't plough a field by turning it over in your mind.
    I'm not sure this will help you but the fact there's a proverb for it means YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
    Slainté!

  • @elizdavidson
    @elizdavidson 2 місяці тому +10

    Kurt- as someone who's been there with depression and anxiety myself- THANK YOU for taking care of yourself. I hope you continue to progress and find your peace with everything. It doesn't happen overnight sadly, but it does get better. We're all here for whenever you return and I'm going to check out your other channel now. You're not alone in this struggle and thank you for sharing- hopefully it'll prompt others to get the help they need too.

  • @michaelmartin4816
    @michaelmartin4816 2 місяці тому +14

    Preaching to the choir! I'm a retired Sheriff's Deputy & went out on early disability retirement because I pushed myself way too hard & thought I could handle it. Sleep deprivation does indeed take a toll on one's mental & physical health & meds don't always work either. Hope that you're able to work through your demons & refresh yourself. I learned the hard way that you have to take care of yourself because no one else will except for your spouse if you're lucky & even then they can't do but so much. Take all the time you need to heal & don't worry about UA-cam until you're ready to return. Take care & stay safe!

  • @CJSmithGuitar
    @CJSmithGuitar 2 місяці тому +5

    Man, this was such a great video. I have to tell you I have been a regular viewer since the beginning, watched every episode at least 2 times, some as much as 10. It's the only show I regularly look forward to, and noticed the unannounced break. I am so sorry you are where you are, but so thankful you made the right decisions! Take as much time as you need man. We will still be here to support you 100%!!

  • @alexkupisz6427
    @alexkupisz6427 2 місяці тому +2

    Kurt, You are so loved my friend. The content you have created is therapy for so many of us, for years!! You have helped me get through some tough times. Your consistency has been nothing short of amazing. Thank you for your bravery in what you do every day for others as a first responder. Thank you for your bravery in sharing your therapy sessions with us every week when you take us with you on these adventures. Thank you for your bravery to openly share with us the struggles you are going through. You didnt have to do that. That only makes us love you more! You are such an incredible and unique person to give so much to others. We are with you-wether you're making an incredible discovery in the ground, or within yourself, we are with you. You mean so much to us, it is imperative that you take the time and space you need. We are out here thinking of you and praying for you. We love you Kurt.

  • @joshmontgomery4040
    @joshmontgomery4040 2 місяці тому +27

    I feel your pain… hang in there it will get better bro.

  • @nancykielian9227
    @nancykielian9227 2 місяці тому +28

    Prayers and hugs to you Kurt.

  • @GENOBURRITO1
    @GENOBURRITO1 2 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for opening up about your depression and what has been going on with you. So sorry you are dealing with those issues but also remember that your happiness truly starts from within and by recognizing that and acting on it, you are on your way to lifting yourself up and out of the pits. I agree with you about all the b.s. we deal with in today’s world. From smart phones to politics, if you are not depressed, those things will surely get you moving in that direction. Society is all about what you have or have not. “This phone will make you popular or that car will make you happy”. No, it won’t. Family, friends and love will though. Too much emphasis on materialistic things and not enough on goodwill towards others. I truly hope you continue moving forward in your health and I will surely keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I have always enjoyed your content and always look forward to seeing you and the boys. God bless and stay strong!!

  • @KidDig
    @KidDig 2 місяці тому +5

    ❤ to Kurt and all suffering from depression & anxiety. The world can be a difficult place and we all need help from time to time. Your videos bring a lot of joy to folks... myself included. Thank you for the update even though it was obviously a very emotional message to share.

  • @georginarandolphgirl66
    @georginarandolphgirl66 9 днів тому +1

    I have been watching your channel for a long time and I want to say how courageous it is to speak on a very hard trauma that you are going through. It is tough but you will get through this with the love and support from your family, friends and therapy. I will keep you all in my prayers.

  • @cridgeway666
    @cridgeway666 2 місяці тому +6

    Kurt, I know that was an extremely difficult video for you to make & thank you for giving an update on what you have been going through. Please take your time on coming back to UA-cam and please know your true fans and family will be right here waiting for you and the rest of the Hoover Boys, when you feel that you are ready to return to UA-cam.
    With great respect for you and honest appreciation for your courage in letting us all know what has been going on with your mental health, good luck and love on your journey to mental wellness.

  • @Peppersfirst
    @Peppersfirst 2 місяці тому +7

    I could never do your job Kurt. I'm grateful for you and the others that put yourselves through so much for other people. On top of that you've created this channel which has helped so many others.
    I started watching you guys years ago when I moved from Louisiana to New Jersey. I was experiencing seasonal depression during the winters and on top of that we had black mold in our house but we didn't realize what was happening until about 5 years into it.
    Your channel and your personality specifically put me in a better mood. I really appreciate you Kurt.
    Sending love from South Carolina brother.

    • @geraldb8856
      @geraldb8856 2 місяці тому +1

      My heart goes out to anyone who has dealt with black mold in their home. My wife and I had it in our home as you did. It went undiscovered for years, but finally found behind the kitchen sink back panel. The syptoms like coughing, itching, and feeling like you're being bitten by unseen insects and sleep loss were horrendous. I told my wife one day that I wouldn't wish this torment on my worst enemy, and I meant it. It's been 10 years now, and we're both so sensitized by it that we're still dealing with the odd item in the house that we thought was cleaned well, that is still covered in spores, and you find out by handling it. It's the gift that keeps on giving. I'll bet we threw away 15 thousand dollars in items from our home. Some we're very sentimental to my wife especially, because cleaning them would have destroyed the items or our finances. The only thing that kept us going was our faith in Jesus. Otherwise, I don't think we would have made it through. God Bless

    • @geraldb8856
      @geraldb8856 2 місяці тому +1

      I forgot to mention that my wife and I have a place in Conway, Sc.
      I plan on hoovering the beach this winter, maybe find some bling.

    • @Peppersfirst
      @Peppersfirst 2 місяці тому

      @@geraldb8856 Wow Gerald, only mold survivors can appreciate each other. I’m sorry you’ve had to experience it. My wife and I know that sensitivity you’re talking about. She can’t even handle fragrances or any chemicals now. It just completely zaps her brain. I’m not so sensitive to fragrances and stuff but I know when I’ve come into contact with mold. I start feeling drunk and dizzy. Our mold in NJ was so bad that the lady at the test lab called us and wanted to know if we were living in the building that the test came from. She wasn’t supposed to get involved in personal info just report the findings and answer questions but she said it was one of the highest numbers she’d ever seen. One specific mold was over 5 million. And it was a top 5. We also had black mold. I think there were about 30 different varieties. By the end of the 5 years in that house I was hallucinating on the way to work some days. I was paranoid. I had days where I felt like something was wrong and I couldn’t figure out what it was. It almost felt like a bad trip but the visual hallucinations were so vague I could barely catch it. We ordered a large commercial dumpster and threw away pretty much everything we owned. We walked away from that house and chose living in hotels and air BnBs with the help of some family members until we could find another place. Which also had mold. So we ended up being homeless and living in multiple hotels for the next year until we found a place in another state. And after all that, and I’ve left out a ton of the trials and tribulations that we went through, we came to Jesus and the turbulent seas that had become our lives for years suddenly calmed. That was when we finally found a home even though we had no money left, no credit, nothing left. We just prayed constantly and everything fell into place. Since then life has gotten even better and we’ve just gotten closer to God. I’m about to start a new job making more than I’ve ever made and we’re about to check out a church we just found around the corner. We’ve been in SC since May and we absolutely love it. God is good. I’m going to pray for you and your family Gerald. I hope your life improves and only gets better with time. I’ve spent years learning about supplements that help with mold so if that’s something you’re interested in I’d gladly elaborate. God bless you Brother.

  • @zebrathing69
    @zebrathing69 2 місяці тому +34

    Praying for you!!! I’m 27 years old and have been suffering through the worst mental health battle I’ve ever had for the past three years. It’s hard to be a man, and hard to be a human. Thank you for being transparent and letting us all know we are in it together. Love you brother. Thank you for saving us all through your videos.

  • @emcasting2603
    @emcasting2603 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for being a first responder and for taking care of yourself. Rushing toward what others run from for a long time definitely requires seeking helpful coping skills. You will be better for it and staying away from the bs that surrounds us is important. I hope making and posting this has lifted some of the heaviness off your mind and heart. Glad to hear you’re on better ground - where you matter

  • @lancenewman4899
    @lancenewman4899 2 місяці тому +1

    It was so good to put to rest the wondering. Thanks for being open and honest. Know that we love you, and our prayers are with you.

  • @NewEnglandRelicHunting-dq1ru
    @NewEnglandRelicHunting-dq1ru 2 місяці тому +10

    Missed seeing you. Happy to hear you are focusing on your needs. You'll get through this! Sending virtual hugs...

  • @tomyat3474
    @tomyat3474 2 місяці тому +29

    Take all the time you need, brother. Your mental health is more important than putting out video content. I'll be right here waiting for your return. Love your videos and looking forward to more of your awesome finds.

  • @sherir4462
    @sherir4462 2 місяці тому +35

    Hi, Kurt! I know you’ll have a ton of comments so I’ll try to be brief…I’m a 57 year old female and I’ve been battling depression privately for four years now. It hasn’t gotten me anywhere good so I finally went to my local Veteran’s Hospital for help. I am finally sorting things out and trying to manage my chronic pain without Swiss cake rolls and Coke a Cola. YOU have been there for me with your videos for a long time. YOU have been filling my cup for history and doing what I cannot do. I am praying for you and you take care of you for however long you need. Hugs to you and your family!

    • @amybly6191
      @amybly6191 2 місяці тому

      Hi Kurt, I'm adding you to the prayer list. It never hurts to pray. So glad you got yourself some help. There are many people out there that need to do the same. Hopefully this video will get them in the right direction so thank you very much!. You truly are a blessing with your channel. It's a highlight of my week when we get to see a video of yours! Take care. See you soon

  • @64CHEVL
    @64CHEVL 2 місяці тому +2

    We love you buddy! I've been a first responder for 28 years, and I recently went through a 10 week PTSD course, because of many of the same things you're talking about. I've got your back.

  • @ducks31
    @ducks31 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for putting yourself out there by sharing this. Take care of yourself, there is no shame in showing you are human. Your UA-cam family loves and cares about you.

  • @randymccrea1355
    @randymccrea1355 2 місяці тому +4

    Hey love man thanks for opening up. I hit the depression hard after finding out I have cancer

  • @5.56Media
    @5.56Media 2 місяці тому +5

    Best fact: "Smart phones have made the world dumb." TRUTH! From a retired 30 year cop + concurrent 15 years vollie fire-rescue/EMS, wishing you and yours the best!

  • @kbee6078
    @kbee6078 2 місяці тому +8

    We were worried! I agree with and totally understand what you are saying. I am so sorry for everything you have been going through. Take good care of yourself, please. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

  • @Rooskie283
    @Rooskie283 2 місяці тому +1

    God bless you and your family. Depression is a tough battle. Keep fighting, the best is yet to come!

  • @larrystolle243
    @larrystolle243 2 місяці тому +1

    I just want you to know I feel that you are a very valuable person. Your channel has not only brought me much entertainment about a hobby I love, but has also helped me emotionally. Stay bright! We need people like you to make this world a better place. ❤

  • @xphelanx
    @xphelanx 2 місяці тому +5

    Kurt, we all love you so much. Take all the time you need to help yourself. You have so many people rooting you on. So much love ❤

  • @vacuumtubesinc4828
    @vacuumtubesinc4828 2 місяці тому +22

    Kurt, count me among the many fans who were worried. I had found the videos from Scotland with you missing. I know how corrosive to the soul seeing human tragedy and depravity can be. PTSD is real, and not a character flaw. You are awesome, and I affirm you. All a person can hope to do in this life is contribute in a positive way to make the world around you a better place. You have done this in multiple ways; at the face to face level of a first responder, with your family, and on your youtube channels with us wannabes. Much more than many, you have made an actual positive difference. Just know that you have a wide circle of admirers that will continue to support and pray for you.

  • @blakeflock1930
    @blakeflock1930 2 місяці тому +3

    Work on your self man we will be here when your ready, much love from Wisconsin

  • @scottsamson4318
    @scottsamson4318 2 місяці тому +1

    Take care of you. Kurt! Your followers appreciate your candidness and support your healing! That was not easy, we know, which makes it more powerful to watch and relate to. Thanks for what you do for others. Its time to take care of you

  • @jakebacon8393
    @jakebacon8393 Місяць тому +1

    You are deeply loved and respected by the community that you have built. Thank you for the courage to share your strength in taking care of yourself and letting others help you. You have a huge impact on thousands of people you will never know and this video is like hammered gold. Completely unexpected and of huge value.
    Thank you again.

  • @rogersmith5738
    @rogersmith5738 2 місяці тому +3

    Mate, get where you're coming from. Been a Volunteer FireFighter for over 30 years here in Australia and am fed up being treated as a 2nd class citizen driving round in trucks which are over 30 years old. Seen a lot of nasty stuff over the years and know there are things I can't do anymore as PTSD kicks in quickly. Thanks for the support from the family I'm doing okay, taking myself away from things I don't have to do especially after doing them for several years and getting no support or encouragement. Stay strong mate, keep taking all the help offered and we'll see you in the fields/rivers soon. Roger

  • @cindytabor
    @cindytabor 2 місяці тому +5

    Take it easy. Totally get where you are coming from. We, your fans and avid followers will be here waiting for your return. Your health and well being must come first, thank you for listening to your family. 7:24

  • @markvpinkham
    @markvpinkham 2 місяці тому +30

    Thank you for your honesty and openness. In my Sunday school class I have a friend who is 97. He was in WW2 following General Patton with the 84th Golden Acorns. When he got back to the states he was struggling with anxiety and couldn’t sleep. He told me one night he asked God to give him peace and He did. Obviously a short version of all he told me. There is no shame in struggling. Life is hard when you have seen all you have in your line of work. Prayers for you and your family. May the God of peace give you strength and joy in the days to come.

  • @danball5114
    @danball5114 2 місяці тому +2

    Another combat vet here. Took up the hobby about fifteen years ago to help me unwind and quietly process my experiences. Your channel and a few other detector channels just put me in a calm zone. I love what you do. Thanks from a fan.

  • @mandytx07
    @mandytx07 Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey and I am so proud of you and your family for taking care of you!! I know by sharing your concerns, you will help others. I lost a nephew a year ago due to his battle with demons. I am a RN and worked many years in ICU (through Covid as well) and deal with PTSD myself. Thankfully time and a change of scenery is helping with my healing. Please know that your videos bring so many smiles to so many people. You are truly missed and cared about. We will continue to support you and cheer you on. Just remember that all holes matter and with giving yourself grace all of the holes will be filled in and become more beautiful than ever!

  • @DiggingTimesPast
    @DiggingTimesPast 2 місяці тому +21

    Hi Kurt- I am retired LEO, forced to pension a couple years earlier than planned due to mental health issues from the job. I got help and doing better. I know exactly what you’re going through. Thank God you have a great support system in place with your friends and family and through the first responders support system.
    I admire your courage for coming out and telling everyone what’s been going on. In our line of work, some look at it as weakness, but the real heroes know…. I know. And from reading the comments, a lot of your fans know. Anyone of us would be there for you in a second if you needed to talk or be someone to talk you off the proverbial ledge.
    Take care of you first, we miss you but we get it and we aren’t going anywhere.
    We love you…. Stay strong. ❤❤

  • @tombeck4724
    @tombeck4724 2 місяці тому +3

    God be with you brother

  • @TexasLee-pb2ts
    @TexasLee-pb2ts 2 місяці тому +14

    Take Care. PTSD is a B . I'm a 74 year old Vietnam Veteran. I'm one of the ones asking about you. It has been a big void on Wednesdays. Get Well and Take care, Give Your Wife a BIG hug and kiss the Little ones.

  • @tinamorris5951
    @tinamorris5951 2 місяці тому +1

    Glad you got help! Thanks for sharing. I'll be here watching when you are ready, until then take care.

  • @76Christie
    @76Christie 2 місяці тому

    I’ve watched for years with my hubby and son (who adore to metal detector together). However, I’ve never commented before. So glad you’re taking care of yourself and setting an example to your family about being vulnerable and seeking and accepting support. That’s huge! Hope this work brings you joy and peace and that contentment is around the corner. All the best to you and your family. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @SSGSINCLAIR
    @SSGSINCLAIR 2 місяці тому +3

    This is Bruce from “DiggingTheMitten “. You are a very strong young man! I am proud of this video you made. There are way to many men and women in the same shoes as us. Stay strong brother.

  • @dankinsey3765
    @dankinsey3765 Місяць тому

    You’re a good man. It took strength to post that. The world needs more people like you. Thanks for everything you do!

  • @andynunez9153
    @andynunez9153 2 місяці тому +1

    Man, that was a lot of unpacking! You did the right thing and glad you are starting to come out from under that cloud. I figured something was up when you weren't in the Scottish videos. You've done a lot for this hobby and you deserve to have your privacy and time to work things out and I wouldn't want to do your job for anything in the world, but I am glad you do. Stay strong and be seeing you soon, I hope! Thanks!

  • @dariamitchell9293
    @dariamitchell9293 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for loving and listening to your family. I have been a RN for 20++ years and the BS is real. I LOVE your videos, but am beyond happy that you are working on you! I wish you continued healing. Making good memories with your family and spending time with them is priceless. We will benefit from in due time also!
    God bless you,
    Daria,
    in Oregon/Washington state.

  • @davidcriswell6219
    @davidcriswell6219 2 місяці тому

    I know that was extremely hard for you. Shows how strong your heart is. I’ve always looked forward to your shows and was worried when I haven’t seen anything in a while. Your love and passion for this hobby shows in every piece y’all unearth. And it shows how good of a person you are to come forward and share your story. Thank you for all your stories you keep me going every day.

  • @iancollins4721
    @iancollins4721 Місяць тому

    Kurt, thanks for having the courage to share your story. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! So many of us feel the same way. I’m nearing 20 years in the U.S. military, and I hit an absolute mental wall a few years back. The first time I’ve ever experienced depression - the deepest, darkest time of my life. I couldn’t rationalize my way out of it, my wife couldn’t shake me out of it, my own children’s smiles couldn’t help me out of it. It just take time and help. Love you brother, we’re with you!

  • @johngannon9226
    @johngannon9226 2 місяці тому

    Hi Kurt even though I have never and most likely will never meet you I feel like I know you after following you and the boys on all your adventures for so long. I lost half a leg in a motorcycle accident 25 years ago and metal detecting has been my happy place many years. I am so blown away by your honesty and integrity and you will always be my favourite U tuber. Glad to hear you have got the help you deserve and I’m sure you will only move forward from here. Much love to you and your family and thinking of you all down here in Australia.
    Regards John Gannon

  • @PhilipAdamson-q2g
    @PhilipAdamson-q2g 24 дні тому

    Dude, know that you’re the best and we appreciate everything you do. Without you and people just like you, this country would be doomed. Take a big breath, exaggerating the exhale! Now let’s go detecting! God bless!

  • @davesublette7447
    @davesublette7447 24 дні тому

    I am almost 83 and I wouldn't be here if it weren't for EMT folks. You are in my prayers. This video has prompted me to subscribe. I'm sure that will make you feel better. ;-) You are in the right place. Keep it up. See you when you get back.

  • @treasurearth
    @treasurearth 2 місяці тому +1

    We are with you my friend. I have always respected your character, and this is a great example of the strength and bravery you have. All of us, and the treasure will always be here. Thank you for sharing with much love.

  • @JackieBarefoot
    @JackieBarefoot 2 місяці тому

    You are brave and should be very proud of yourself for getting the help you need!!!!My son is a 20 yro first responder so I appreciate this raw honesty! Keep healing and keep digging!! You have a huge community cheering for you!

  • @samsonian
    @samsonian 2 місяці тому +1

    Kurt-
    We’re all here for you. You’re a good guy, a great dad and husband and we also suspect an exceptionally competent first responder. Mental health needs are just as important as any other health concern and have been ignored/shoved into the corner for all too long in our modern world that focuses all too often on surface-level concerns/materialistic BS. For you and your family along with your large group of friends’ sake, hopefully I speak for a strong majority of us when I say *_our needs are unimportant…your family and your personal health are concerns 1 and 1a while ours rank somewhere near the middle to bottom of the page_*
    Cheers and may your family enjoy a more complete, happier you soon!
    🖖😎👍

  • @drakedasteak9130
    @drakedasteak9130 2 місяці тому +2

    I completely understand your situation, man. Don’t be too overly concerned about posting if you feel like you might not have the energy for it. We love you but your mental health comes first before your channel. Stay strong and be safe man!!!

  • @lisaevansthefam2425
    @lisaevansthefam2425 2 місяці тому +1

    I love that you are telling us what's going on and I will still be here when you return. ❤ you take care of yourself first!

  • @BrentEnterlineDeadeye
    @BrentEnterlineDeadeye 2 місяці тому

    Much love back at you and yours Kurt.

  • @gpac2843
    @gpac2843 2 місяці тому

    You are a strong man coming forward with this. You have also reached out to others providing education to those who struggle. Going through this trial you have done a great service through awareness. I promise, you have already saved additional lives by this post. You are an amazing man as well as a healthcare provider to your community and through UA-cam.

  • @annestickland8620
    @annestickland8620 2 місяці тому

    💗💗💗Thank you for sharing this. My heart goes out to you. I have been watching THB since the beginning and it has helped me through some tough times whilst I have been sitting a home alone through sickness. Kurt my love goes out to you and your family and take all the time you need and we will all be looking out for the day you return. Health is more important than anything. From Western Australia

  • @abigailalcock2967
    @abigailalcock2967 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh Kurt..... I was worried about you! Right now I could give you a huge hug and tell you you're not alone! WELL DONE for getting help, and what a brilliant family you have! I won't say you'll "get over it" like it doesn't matter, but you can learn to live with your past as part of who you are. THANK YOU for you service as a first responder, THANK YOU for making this video, and remember that if you ever cross the pond to the UK again, you'd be more than welcome to come back to Shropshire! (I live in a 1790s house - just sayin'😊)

  • @jlj209
    @jlj209 Місяць тому

    Thank you, brother, for having the courage to make this video and open up as you have. I am moved by your honesty and I can relate in more ways than one. Two months ago my cousin lost his battle with depression and or effects of his 27 year career as a corrections officer. He was 51 years old and only a year and a half into his retirement. Any way. Looking forward to seeing your return to UA-cam, but in your own time my friend. Thank you for this. I needed it.

  • @Digs1218
    @Digs1218 2 місяці тому +1

    Ive been watching The Scottish Dectectorist for quite some time now & was thrilled when i saw the collaboration with THB (another of my long favorites), but also was puzzled when i didn't see you amongst them. I appreciate your difficult explanation and applaud your revelation and voluntary hiatus. So many things you said struck deeply. I pray you find the peace you and joy back in your life. Don't be concerned for your fans. We aren't going anywhere. We will be here when you feel healthy and happy enough to continue entertaining us with your fantastic finds. Thanks for all you do.

  • @cbeanish
    @cbeanish Місяць тому

    Hey man. I'm glad you got the help and support to do what you need to do to get better. It takes a lot of strength and courage to do that. Thank you for sharing and allowing yourself to be open about your struggles and being vulnerable. It helps others tremendously. You really fanned the flames of metal detecting for me. The energy you and your friends brought to the videos always made me feel good. Thank you for that. You make a difference in the world bro! I'm glad to see you're taking the time to do what's best for you! Much love, brother!

  • @georgenimmo8940
    @georgenimmo8940 2 місяці тому

    Your videos have been therapy for this First Responder/Treasure Hunter for a lot of years. Thanks for what you do. Take care of you.

  • @toddmarvin2360
    @toddmarvin2360 2 місяці тому +1

    Take care of yourself...much more important than entertaining the masses. Your community here has nothing but love and support for you, man.

  • @LadyDunans931Jones-sx6nk
    @LadyDunans931Jones-sx6nk Місяць тому

    I hear you. You are not alone in the struggle with depression. I've been a full-time member of the Invisible Illness Club since 1994. I'm so glad you were able to find help with people who can relate to your life experiences. Anxiety and PTSD are my constant companions. It's taken me 30 years to stop bottling up my feelings and to put me first. Keep up the good fight. Big hugs.

  • @thomasallen3818
    @thomasallen3818 2 місяці тому +2

    Kurt, we have been missing you. You have brought an army of like minded people into the world of metal detecting. Even though you don’t know us, nor ever met the vast majority of us, we’re still like family through your videos of detecting and fishing. I definitely understand what you’ve been going through, seeing the unimaginable and trying to save lives at every turn. I started out at the age of 17, as a volunteer firefighter with my county fire department, and when I was 21, became a sheriff’s deputy for the same county. After 5 years of seeing people diy or so badly mangled you’d wonder how and why they were still living, I got out of it all and went to work for the world’s largest oil company. I admire every first responder, because I know what you have to deal with.
    I’m glad you got help! You need you, your family needs you, and buddy, we need you, but only when YOU are ready. We, your UA-cam family, will be here when you are well and ready to make what ever you feel like making, detecting or fishing, or just sitting in front of your camera and letting us know how you’re doing. May God always be with you, your family, friends and all of The Hoover Boys everywhere. I pray that God wraps you in The Holy Spirit, and takes the pain away. Thank you for letting us know what you’ve been through, and know that you’re loved and appreciated. God’s blessings always.

  • @philipwagner7929
    @philipwagner7929 2 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the update Big Guy !

  • @janetgrahamtheberge4772
    @janetgrahamtheberge4772 2 місяці тому +1

    This may well be the most honest video I have ever watched. I’m praying for you, Bud. Hang tough, and keep taking care of yourself. Your family, friends, and fans (FFF) need you.

  • @scorpiouk5914
    @scorpiouk5914 Місяць тому

    Kurt, you are not alone. Although life and circumstances may be different for all of us, you are far from alone. I love you as a brother for being strong enough to post this about your struggles. Our country and the world at large is hard, fricking hard to deal with. Thank you for reaching out for help! Your family loves and needs you, as do your friends.

  • @lekker2096
    @lekker2096 Місяць тому

    Dude!! We all love and care about you so much! Im so gald you have done this for yourself and for your family. I hope it inspires many others to do the same. Especially men! Its ok to have feelings, its ok to talk and its ok to show love!
    thank you for being you Kurt and I for one (and Im sure thousands of others) who have been faithfully watching for so many years now will continue to laugh and get immense joy from the hope and inspiration you and the other hoover boys have brought us over all the years. Cheers to you!

  • @deenavinzant6540
    @deenavinzant6540 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Kurt for updating us. I was worried about you! I give you mad props for stating what you were dealing with for the UA-cam masses to see. That takes guts. You take care of yourself first: we will wait!

  • @w5cdt
    @w5cdt 2 місяці тому +1

    Kurt, hang in there man! (I'm sure you've already been told that) you are a wonderful character and we all love you. I absolutely LOVE your metal detecting videos! You have added so much to my life enjoyment of the hobby. You are a shining point of light! I truly appreciate your video creations and you do a wonderful job making them. We are ALL pulling for you....take your time to rest up....consider a new career path...and we look forward to more THB videos!

  • @bronwynjohnson2636
    @bronwynjohnson2636 2 місяці тому

    Kurt you are not alone. I see your strength and you have realized one of the most important truths in this life. Take time to care for yourself. You are not alone and I am cheering for you man! I have enjoyed watching your videos since the first time I saw them. A little Mason-Dixon love coming your way from PA. You hit some really key points about this era that we live in and it can be daunting with all the B.S. and drama that takes us away from our roots and our compassion. Keep fighting the good fight and see a little “shiney “ in all this. You and THB make me smile and dig and look down a whole hell of a lot, and dredge the waterways for cool stuff and look down a whole lot more. Take some time to look up brother.

  • @markschultz3401
    @markschultz3401 2 місяці тому

    So glad to hear that you are getting some help. I, as well as many others, love your channel and content. Please take time to get into a better place and spend time with your friends and family. We, your online family, are pulling for you. Thank you for taking the time to explain your absence. Look forward to hearing you laugh again and pulling shiny from the soil. Best wishes from a fan in Maine.

  • @CanadianPennyQueen
    @CanadianPennyQueen Місяць тому

    Oh, Kurt, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Thank goodness you have found some help, and have the support of a loving family and friends. I have learned so much about metal detecting from watching your videos, and I feel as though the Hoover Boys are my friends! God Bless, and much love!

  • @duane-gailfuller7067
    @duane-gailfuller7067 2 місяці тому

    Oh man, you are a hero Kurt!❤️👍I have been watching for a long while now, never commenting, just enjoying what you and your friends are doing. I am old enough to be your Mom, maybe older😂, and the courage, wisdom and grace you just shared probably saved some lives! There are so many people who are lost and struggling to surface once again…you, young man, took the bull by the horns and began to fight your way back! Such strength of character, such love for your family and those you hold dear, thank you for producing such a powerful and healing message. I am praying for you dear friend.🙏👍Gail