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50% of moms in the US are single moms. Don't do the crime if you can't do the time, boys.
The sad thing is that most boys never actually grow up to be men.. The metrics they use to determine 'manliness' couldn't be further from the truth--A real man is not tall, or strong, or aggressive--a real MAN is gentle, caring and honest, and accepts the consequences of his actions without making excuses. If I had a dime for every time I met a REAL man I would only have one dime, and it certainly was not my father.
yes!! this was so well put. thank you for this ❤️
Same it was not my father it was my husband who is a better father to a child that is not his one then both are farther’s and my baby daddy combined.:to my husband George - love your caring wife Tayla
What about the single dads? I know that men leave there girlfriends but what about the women who leave there boyfriends because of a child?
Hey! This isnt all guys those! 😁😁
My mother was pregnant with me at 16, my father had doubts, but he stayed. He wasn't the best husband, but he was the best father. He loved and cherished me and my soon sisters at the time. He still here with me, he loves my two sisters and I. Works hard everyday and makes sure were happy. He still isnt the best lover to my mother, but I love him so much.
@@2gramsofgold815 this isn't about single dads, this is about absent ones
the worst thing is that your father broke your heart before anyone else could, damnit
I know😕😠😡
@@mercyariho4156 same 😔
Yeah that was the first betrayal I had ever felt he left when I was 1-2 years old after he left I was scared to let anyone leave because I didn’t want them to leave me behind
Ik
trueeeee
"How come he don't want me man ??" *I felt that*
*"You're job was to stay"*
My dads job was to stay not walk away but he walked away 🥺
@@skyswann7943 mine did too. it's okay love
Xharia Anderson 💞
"Your job was to stay" " you gave me a lot of angry feelings inside " felt that 😤🤧
S A M E
It’s ok to be angry
Same 😭😭😭
Me: **sees the title** yeah man they sure do
Felt that
Ye
yeah
yeah
Man, I mean, yes, yes they do
"How come he don't want me" that hitted me in the guts.
I didn’t need him then and I sure don’t need him now. Strong truth. Very relatable.
Well my dear friend my dad...my dad is everything that l have and l could never ask for better than him ❤
My mom is more of a dad then my dad will ever be
Austin Smith i wish it was that easy
Even though I had my real dad for 8 years of my life it felt life he wasn't there most of the time, unless he wanted to talk down to me or hit me because of a simple mistake on a math problem that's, technically, for people 2 years above my grade
@@Hara-Jz that's why there is something called POLICEEEEE
“I had fourteen great birthday without him.”
I had twelve. All of a sudden he decided to come back into my life and I let him, because I ‘missed him’.
I didn’t miss *him*.
I missed a man in my life.
I missed the man that he could never be.
And I regret it.
this just helped me to realise that i NEED to cut him out of my life completely, because he keeps coming back every 6 or 9 months. Thank you. Hope you’re ok. We don’t need a man like this in our lives.
I had 5 without my dad. He left me when I was 7. I'm. 12 now. I still just- I don't know man.
I had 7. He came back because my mom got really sick. He meets women who hate me and in return he hates me with them. I'm 14 and every birthday I still feel like he's not there
I had 0 birthdays without him
Jalanie Im 40 & I just realized this myself so I understand you. He’s my father but nothing like the dad I imagine him to be so now I keep my distance and try my best to not have my kids feel the pain of not having a father although they were taken away from me.
Stay strong Jalanie
“how come he don’t want me”
that hit home too hard 😪😩💔
Same..
Same had me crying
That's how I felt for 9 years of my life, and I had my blood father for eight years of my life
Chickling well I haven’t seen mine since I was 6 and have had my step dad for like 8 years so we can kinda relate
@@wokkstarbek yeah, I also have a step-dad he makes me feel much more loved 😊
Its fathers day today
Its heart breaking seeing everyone post on their stories about it .
And then theres me , who posts nothing and always gets asked "Why don't talk about your dad as much as you talk about your mom"
It hurts
SAME SAME SAME SAME
Getting asked this... hurts so bad. I never know how to reply without balling into tears.... I appreciate my mum, but why did he have to do me like this..
I feel you with this one.
I dread the father daughter dance because I know I will be dancing by myself
@Paris Hardin I think I might ask my friend she doesn't have her dad either
It’s just honestly hard because you are gonna realize you are never gonna actually feel what it’s like to have a father You see all these happy kids with their dads and I cry inside because I wanna feel that but I never will.
True I'm about to cry bc I've never seen my dad ever and my mum "forgot" about him
Same it hurts like hell😭
Now I literally had to cry
My dad wants to come to my graduation and he’s SO hyped about it.
He didn’t teach me how to read or write.
He left me for years.
He’s taking so much credit for a long journey that he hasn’t helped me throughout.
Tell him about it then. Be honest and straight fwd love!❤️
My dad tried to do the same thing, except he was trying to do it while him and my mother we're getting divorced so he could keep me.
He guilt tripped me, and bribed me into going with him.. it's _your_ life, so don't let anything he says change your mind and tell it to him straight
I felt this hard
Same. He left when I was a baby because he didn’t feel the connection with me and said he never loved me, now he wants to take credit for my accomplishments when all he’s taught me is how to be angry.
Same, my "dad" wanted to come at our new house and brag about how I graduated highschool after kicking us 4 years before and threatening to kill us if we came back and never paying for child support.
"that's because it never happened" same...I'm sending this to my dad. he hates me
thank you for 3 likes! it means a lot to me
I wish I could send this to my dad but he blocked my number all of my familys numbers 😭
ZoeVlogging I also sent it to my father and all my siblings that relate to this
ZoeVlogging what happened?
Same my dad hates me bc i get in there bissnes when my mim fight
NO, YOU CAN'T PUT THE FRESH PRINCE OF BELAIR IN HERE THAT TOO MUCH I'M GONNA CRYY
yinu delva the part where he says “how come he don’t want me man” makes me loose it and I burst out crying every time
I felt this, you felt this, we all felt this.
yeah
when you haven't seen your dad in years and tell everyone your fine without him but you breakdown every night because you lost him forever and you'll never meet ur baby sister because of him
I feel the same except not the baby sister part
I feel that
@@PistolgodzOG hope you're all doing okay 💙
Wow felt that exactly
Literally my life, except the little sister part
I actually cried bc I never seen my father and I see my friends happy to see their dad when school is finished, and I just wonder why can’t I have that?
Tyrone Smith idk I feel that way to the exact way so there’s no need to be alone my bad for being 8 months late stay up
Same
Same
i don't know wat that feels like to have a father
@@deondrex18k same!
i’ll
never
understand
why
i
wasn’t
good
enough
for
him.
Neither will I idk why he would have me if he wasn’t gonna stay like wtf
you were good enough for him and don’t ever think different,, he didn’t deserve you, i don’t know you but your beautiful and your get though it. i’m sorry you think like that and are going though that love. i’m always here for anyone that needs it whenever
baby ^^
Gabi Lewis thank you 🥺🥺🥺
baby if you need anyone to talk to i’m here and i’ll listen @ftw.gabii
It’s sad knowing that everyone has there fathers leave, but I still have my dad, it was my mum that walked out on me and left me from birth.
Im sorry
I’m sorry that that happened to you. I wish parents could see that their children need them.
My dad left when i was 3. I am 15. I don’t remember. NOTHING. He never existed. My mom is enough mother and father. I love her with all my heart and i am willing to give up my life for her. I don’t need him.
my mom ooverdosed when I was little and died...I have depression and I dont know how to tell my dad...
Jazmin Saucedo yes you don’t need him❤️you’re soo strong. I feel you so much bc my mother left me when I was 3& my dad is everything to me❣️
"the storm happened, but you didn't"
I was not emotionally prepared for that.
same here girl. im here if you need to talk
You matter thank you for existing
“HE HAS A FAMILY NOW”
What my mom said when I realized that he was just a stranger that made me one of the most heartbreaking things I’ve ever heard my mother say to me
I hate my Dad..
I miss my Dad..
I don't want to know my Dad..
I want him to come back..
My dad left me.. and I can't decide whether I miss him or hate him..
XuMidnight X this is exactly how i feel but no one understands :( hope youre ok xx
XuMidnight X This brought me to tears....it’s how I feel all the time. I need help, no one knows but me. Not my mom, grandparents,stepmom,teacher,crush,friends. No one gets me...I wanna die my depression says to kill myself. But my anxiety says I’m scared to do it.
#relatable 😂😅😔
Same... I really miss him but I hate him and I never wanna see him again but then again I wanna see his face and hear his voice...
Same I’ve felt like this since I was five
my dad didn’t leave
and sometimes i wish he did
right now, this sounds true and believable.
but, i know tomorrow will be different.
i know tomorrow i’ll think i’m talking crazy.
Wym?
Mine cheated and still thinks that we don't know jack shit.
Trust me no matter how hard things are with him don’t let him go.
Same my dad only started acting like dad when I didn’t need him anymore
@@georgiarosalie9182 yeah they do that... 🤷♀️
I mean why have kids if you aren’t gonna treat them right 🤡
me stalking my dads Facebook seeing him with his new kids and wife all happy:👁️💧👄💧👁️
It's sad that people can relate to me but it's also comforting that I'm not the only one=/
Same. I feel you.
I get to but mine is with my brothers it compalcated and there not even realted
Bruhh, I feel u
I get you
When you have your own family. Your father will no longer be important. That love you never had, you will gain from your own child. My daughter sure as heck healed my broken heart. Stay strong, and I do not believe for one minute that you are no one important. Find out what you are good at, and never give up. Good luck!
as much as my miss my dad... do i even want him back?
after all he’s done to me... do i?
no.
Will i ever forgive my dad
No
Daddy issues 😂😂😂
I will never forgive my dad he has done so many bad things to me and my mom and when he had his fun he got up left and never came back he scarred me I now have anxiety high functioning depression and every body laughs like it's a joke when I say that DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY ARE NOT A JOKE my friends ask me is I am ok and I lie and say yes I am great what about you and go on letting them talk so I don't have to talk about how I feel because it sucks having the one person you loved the most and that you were so much like leave and I cannot forgive that
@@sevenprism4610 sounds like you have daddy issues
@@Galleria-91 you should be more considering
I used to get bullied for my nonexistent father, now the same girls say they wish their dads left because they didn’t get them a new phone
They dont understand the pain people without dads feel.
Exactly what happened to me they didn’t understand the pain of your father leaving I myself don’t much memory of my dad since he died when I was at such young age
There not living your life so they have no room to make fun of you
That's way to true
My dad left and when people bring it up i joke to hide the pain and when I go home that's when everything happens I brake down
Lea Fields I feel you there
I know the feeling
Hahah same🙃
Sameeeeeeee
holy crap. why does this have to be so frikin relatable. 😭💔
lana howard ikr!
Idk I guess we all went through the same thing cause the people who leave are all alike in a way idk if that makes sense but I rarely cry and this had me going
"i had 14 great birthdays without him"
i had 13 and i dont need him in my life. no matter how long he tries
EDIT:im now 15 , hes still not around by my choice
My brother has had 20, my sister has had 17, my other sister has had 15, and I’ve had 11 so far. Almost 12
mine's trying to come back in my life . im confused and just hurt.
@@amiii7410 the same shit is happening to me I don't even know what to do he acts like he did anything wrong and it hurts like shit
@@user-mf4ez7vy3u sameee here , i have visitation days with him and i wanna ask why he left and why he came back like nothing ever happened but im not sure im ready for his answer
I had 11 without him
"Daddy your job was to stay with me,to protect me,to teach me,And all you did was leave me!I was a daddy's girl,but now I'm just a broken hearted girl.......😢
I miss you
I love you
I need you
But I can't have you
It's almost father's day,And I'm so tired of people talking about there dad's!they say there dad's are perfect!That's all I want.....❤️😢
I remember my father just arguing with my mom everyday. I was so young back then and I have no fun memories of me and him.
He left me when I was really young and then stepped back into my life acting as if nothing ever happened.
I can't even tell my dad I love him and can't even tell him I miss him... I don't even know how I feel about him anymore..
But life goes on but the scar he left won't ever heal. At least I learnt a good lesson from it... is that no matter how tough those times are I have to fight back and move on. Now that's something my father never taught me and never will.
You can do it without him I know you can 😊❤️
My dad left today. And, I always thought he would and I couldn't wait for it to happen but...but now I just.....
I know why he left, and he's gonna get better. I know it's selfish of me but I realized that he practically made me the person I am today.
And I love him. His jokes, his advice, his love for me and my siblings....I forgive him. I forgive him for all the yelling and fighting. I know how he grew up, and I know it was hard. I understand it isn't easy trying to raise 6 kids when three of them don't even want anything to do with you. He's a good dad, but his mind isn't in the right place and now that he left I....I want him back.... I miss him...
Not Deku Tell him that, please
Not Deku same...
I wish my father lived for me to be able to say that. I wish I could forgive my father like you forgive yours, I'm legitimately jealous of you. I wish I could have that so, so badly.
This made me cry... Because even though I really don't miss him
A part of me just wants him to come back, and try to be my dad
But I know that will never happen
Do you remeber that
No. I dont
That's because it never happened
The storm happened
But you didnt
Sad thing is... The exact same thing happened to me 😂 funny right? It's always hard to believe such pain when it's on the internet
"How could he not want me man?" That hit me so hard...
“That’s because it never happened” That got me.
"I had 14 birthdays without him and her never even sent me a card" I feel that big time that's my story right there
He's in my life now but I had to start it and it's a one sided relshonship but hey some kids don't even get that
Girl meets world- I miss that show 😍😭💔
Who don't.....
The last words my father told me was “ you’re not worth it anymore”
and I walked away. For once in my life I got to choose myself and be the person I wanted to be. For 13 years I was abused and hurt and i promise anyone who is going though something you are doing your best at dealing with a lot of crap and you can get through this even if you have to crawl, you can get out of the fire.
You're Are worth it! And I kicked my dad when I Was 11 years old. I couldn't deal with the Shit anymore. I said 5 words. And it stopped, and he left. I got No thanks, for getting him out. No thanks, for stopping the Abuse. Nothing. Oh well.
So hey You Are worth it, and you Walked away. You Have no Need to be depressed! You're worth every thing! You were the bigger person! You decided you don't wanna do whatever it was with him. So You left. You did it!
Great job!
You are worth it. You are stronger then him. He is not worth it.
U know when u just have so much anger in u and the only thing u can do is cry and take it out on every body else but it stays there inside of you and u can’t find a way to let it out and u think about the only reason u feel this way is bc your father left you when u was little bc my father left me and that is how I feel no matter what I do I still feel anger in me bc of what a man I thought I could trust left😢
Very relatable
Title: Daddy issues
Me: Yes you called? o.O
Unrelated but I like your taiga pfp
In the end I will always be that little girl that still misses her dad even if he was the person that make me feel that I was nothing
All of yah felt this
Yes
Too much
Alot
Yeah.....I just want to die....
I just want to say , my heart hurts for everyone agreeing , and I hope you find your peace , much love
I have both of my parents and I feel lucky but they both hate each they wish that they never met each other but I’m so sorry for everyone that is going through this
leila _7421 my parents are exactly the same. They argue all the.
I have both of my parents but they are strict and argue all the time even in public and that's why we don't go in public together even if we go outside they'd make a scene and me and my brother would go from them so people wouldn't ask questions...🙏
I just have my mom
We are in same situation but my father didn't even give we a pocket money, i mean he did but the amount is like for one people and i have 5 siblings and we still in school and he didn't care me anyways, my mom was the one who sacrifice for us😢
This makes my heart ache for both my kids. I am a single mom of 2 boys 11 & 13. Its so hard to be both mom n dad at the same time. I get consumed in my own pitty of the hardships that i must go through to provide that i forget to acknowledge the emotional needs, the questions, the doubts n the pain that my kids have felt along the way. Im so sorry damien n Anthony for all the things we have went through n will go through. Just know that mom loves u more than u both will ever realize & everything that i do is done for the both of you. No matter what just know that i will nsver leave ur sides. I am so proud of the young men ur both becoming. I love you both.
You're doing Gods work. Big love
I look back and realize how messed up it is for a 5 year old kid to cry, wondering if they did something wrong and why they're weren't good enough for their father to stay. It was hell, stayed up crying, convincing myself that no man would love me because my father didn't love me enough to stay. No family is perfect, and no family ever will be but the trauma it gives little kids sticks forever
“I had 14 great birthday with out him” yeah I really felt that and then all the sudden he shows up and wants me to forgive him he abandoned me when I was little mad suddenly wants me to forgive him
I hate my dad.
No I don’t
I love him
But he’s not here
What’s to love?
I miss him.
Why’d he leave me
It's hard when Parents leave and you can't decide if you want them to stay or be out of your life for good.
My dumb ass dead beat dad left me and replaced me with 2 fucking children!!
My father never told me goodbye
But, im sad
Why?
Because he never told me anything...
damn... deep
@@atlimosia9029 thanks😅😔
... i never met my dad he left while i was in my mother’s stomach... I miss him even though i never met him i really miss him... My birth was planned my mother and father wanted a baby but my father changed his mind to early and left...
Same😔
He said “I’ll see you later”but how long has it been it’s been 7 years
why am i crying so damn much? It's just so hard knowing that he left us because he found a woman without kids... That he didn't want me... That he never cared... And i had to watch my friends having the perfect familys i never had. Waiting by the window on ever birthday I had because I thought that if am going to be a good girl dad will come back... but he never did...
I am Matt - my friends have perfect families. Siblings, two parents. No mental health. Perfect life.
- my best friends. Alone. Depression. Anxiety. Therapists. Single mum. Not terrible lives because we can relate
I am Matt my dad left for another woman too, I’m one of 11, he left right before Christmas. After he left he blamed it on my mum for not “satisfying him sexually” even tho she had just given birth and my bby sis was very sick, after that he started body shaming my mum and she ended up starving herself. It’s been hard to trust men since. Ify and if u ever wanna talk I gotchu
@@anonymouslyes7187 thanks
"How come he don't want me" 😔hits hard😣
To my dad,
I made it through life
I learned to ride a bike
I learned to get on the school bus
I learned how to get through heartbreak
I learned how to get through bad times
I learned that life isn’t always fair
I learned that I deserve more than what you gave me
To my stepdad,
You are my father
You taught me everything
You are my rock
I don’t know where I would be without you
You are the light in my darkness
You didn’t give up on me
You didn’t leave when it got tough
You stayed through the ups and downs
Thank you,
For being my father
This hurt. This hurt a lot.
I miss my dad, but he hurt me every time he got drunk.
For nine years I was afraid to go home, and for the past seven years I've been avoiding school because of the anxiety and anger he taught me to feel.
I hate him for the person he forced me to be.
And the irony is that his father was the exact same, he put up with the same abuse until he was sixteen, he left his father with a broken nose and a cold glare before leaving that house for the final time.
I don't know if he would've changed, he never got the chance to.. it's been seven years since he died, and I still don't know how to feel..
I don't have a dad and i am still growing up 😔
Same ur not alone 💯
Same...
Same
Same 💖
Same here and its hurts alot :(
My dad was never there for me so this hits really really hard 💔
Same
Not a single birthday, holiday, school thing, big game, recital, show, ceremony, concert my dad has shown up to, not even my first birthday
But you know who was there for every single thing.....
My step dad
mines too :(
Same here ✊
Its the opposite for me
Same, except my steph dad left us too
" Who need him? " yes I don't want him and I don't need him I'm gonna grow up without him and I will make my mom proud so soon. Enshallah❤️
Mhmm we can do it without them💜
inshallah, we will teach them a lesson
Sometimes its easier not to have any memories than have all the happy ones turn into pain, misery, screams and tears
I agree
Yes
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Hi I am have trouble in life I don't know where I am , i don't know who i am no more,i hate my self i need help
I'm sorry for you all who didn't know their dad. I have to say this woke me up, I been angry at my dad for passing away now I have heard this I realize I was lucky because when the storm came my dad was there , he was always there for me and I miss him..I love him now and forever I'm daddy,s girl
gmw fandoms it’s been fourteen years...FOURTEEN fucking years of knowing I was and accident and unwanted by a man who was supposed to be my father but no drugs were more important then my own well-being he just left me when I was one I’m so ducking over him but I need to see him just so he can see how hurt I am and what he has done
got a great parents, but they don't longer love each other... they're just staying, for us. Because they're both came from broken and unstable home
Hi I'm Sadness my parents are divorced, but i haven’t seen my dad in years and i don’t think i want to.
simply maddie ify now he’s back and I wish he stayed away.
Don’t know if I hate him or love him, want him to stay or want him to go, stay with him till the end or part ways until one of are paths ends.
I speak more about my mom then my dad because he neglect me, he hated me, he didn't support me, he didn't listen to me , and he never was there at any of my graduations.
“How come he don’t want me man?!”
I ask myself that everyday. Why me and brother weren’t good enough for him, but my step- sister and brother was. It’s fine though because I’m GREAT without him. I don’t need a toxic relationship with him anyways 😪😪
I’ve been there girl, it’s good to realize that men who can walk out on you aren’t worth your time. You got this
Its weird...everyone has dad issues...my mother left instead..I was so scared..She just yelled at me FOR LIVING.
People say that they hate their father's but when I say I hate my mum Im wrong?No, she didn't leave yet, but she was never there. For her money was more important than raising her daughter.
@@weirdoxd-9234 I WANT TO HUG YOU RN!
@@zanderdraws5500 gurll sameee
im blessed i don't have just mom issues
Weirdo XD ;-; I'm quite late to your comment but the same happened to me. My mom left when I was 13 because she was caught cheating. But my dad became depressed and began drinking to forget and soon it was drinking to die. So he gave us up to our mom who didn't want us, just so we wouldn't get out in foster homes. In ninth grade I told my friends I hated my mom. And my one friend did not have it. She said "that's your mom bro". Yeah and moms don't tell their kids to kill themselves when they're 13... lmao... but I'm 17 now. I barely see my dad but he's so much better now. My mom stopped drinking as much and actually listens to us and respects us now. Moms can be just as bad as dad's leaving. Most people are hypocritical don't worry
Man, this hits me hard
I guess I'll share my dad story, which some [if not most] will relate to:
My dad left my mom when she was six months pregnant with me.
Something about it "not working out."
When I was 4, I had a stepdad
Mind you, I didn't even know about my parental situation, so I though my stepdad...was my real dad.
When I was 8, they seperated. He was a good guy, honestly, but throw smoking and alcohol into the mix and...you're just left with an entire mess.
I found out about my actual dad when I was around 9 or 10 years old. My mom made me promise not to get mad at her, and I agreed. She then told me about how "my dad wasn't my real dad", and "my real dad is someone different."
Yes, I made that promise, but I could feel so much anger in me, that it scared me.
How was this woman, my own MOTHER, now just telling me this?!
She also told me I had 2 half brothers, which just...messed with me?
Did he leave them too? Were they as angry I was when they found out?
When I was 12, my uncle Jimmy, my dad's brother came to visit.
I was in my room for most of the visit, but afterward, my mom told me that I was the 2nd oldest of my dad's 6 children.
I....didn't know how to feel. Angry? Upset?
Two months later, they [my mom and aunt who I live with] dropped the bomb on me.
Apparently, my dad wanted to contact me for my birthday that same year, but couldn't because....
He _died_ the month prior.
I broke down, this man who was supposed to be a important parental figure in my life, died.
And I never even got the chance to get to know him, the person that he once was.
My mom showed me some pictures of him cradling me when I was 5 or 6 months old. He must of cared for me, to visit me....right?
I really want to meet my half siblings. I want to see the rest of my dad's family. I want to see the graveyard where he was buried, but that's in another country. [Honduras.]
Honestly, I really wished to have met the man who helped bring me into this world, but I still feel sort of angry that he never really bother to contact me much.
Anyways, that's my story. There's some more information about it, but it's kinda fuzzy.
I feel you and understand you ❤️ I hope you meet your siblings
"I have fourteen great birthday's without him"
It's true.. I did.. and he didn't even say "Happy Birthday"...
When youtube is the only one who listens to you and who understands u
My dad left, I love him but hate him. I miss him but don't want him to come back in my life for him to hurt me over, over again 💜😭
Cat Cunnington this is relatable I’m going thru it right now he didn’t believe something serious and he chose his wife (my technical step mom) and step kids over me his own child 😭😭
I'm going through this now and all I can think is it was because of me I wasn't the perfect little girl he wanted
Everyone can at least remember one good memory with their father....
I never had one to even remember good memories with
Why?
Some father's just leave when you are too young so you wouldn't feel such pain in the end. But it didn't work bc I'm here wishing I had one to even begin with! And then it gives you even greater pain :')
@@m_mysterious8091 the only memories i have of is pain...hopelessness and weak infront of him
felt..
Same. My dad left me at 6 weeks old. Never met him. Our first "meeting" was when I went to his funeral at 17.
I've never met my dad, throughout my whole life I felt like I was missing something. When it was fathers day at school my teacher would want me to make something for my brother or grandpa, we also had dinner with dad at my school. Every year all my friends went and I stayed at home because my father decided it wasn't important to stay with his wife and her 4 children. He decided to disappear and leave her to care for us herself. On my 9th birthday before we flew back home I had a meltdown because I thought about him and why he never sent me a single card or even reached out to meet me, I thought it was my fault or my mothers. Now I understand it's his loss. Once I slept over my friends house and her dad got home and decided to talk to me about my dad and ask me if he was picking me up. I told him I had never met him and he continued to apologize for the next 5 minutes for assuming, in that moment all I wanted to do is cry and go home because he asked me questions I could never know about him. I continue to feel jealous every time someone brings up the word "dad" or "father" but now I am coping through this and I hope everyone who has dealt with what I have or worse makes it through the hard times. Wow can't believe I just wrote all of this in a youtube comment section 😂
The same thing happen to but i givet to my mom 😭😭
I went through the same thing! It was a bit more painful because something my father said when he and my mom divorced was "you'll see everybody with their dad, and you'll look at yourself and realize, you don't and never will have a dad"
Same.... I never knew or met my dad for my whole life. Every year when it was Father’s Day at school every kid in my class had their dad there. Except me. They were like “where’s you’re dad” I even got Bullied about for not having my dad with me. I needed him for 13 years. Guess I’m not meeting for the rest of my life. 🔪🖤
Aesthetic_Rxse that’s terrible that people bullied you, atleast the people that I knew had the decency not to mention mine bc they knew it upset me. I’m sorry for what ur going through
Chickling that’s terrible! I’m sorry you had to hear and go through that
I am really sorry for everyone whose father/mother abandoned them. Whatever the reason was, remember it wasn't your fault that they abandoned you. You are amazing, brave, awesome for living without them pls don't feel sad.....
As a kid who grew up with parents who were never there, who never acknowledged my existence I can feel your pain. None of my parents ever abandoned me but they were not there emotionally and were abusive towards me. I feel like I grew up without them. I know my situation is completely different than yours, but the point is that I understand how much it hurts you I know some of you may think it was your fault that your parents left you it really isn't.... so pls smile and dont let anythinh bring you down...
this made my cry. i don‘t wanna live anymore. i hate my dad so much but i still love him.
'what you did makes me have a lot of angry feelings inside of me' that hit harf
Damn this hurts
I’m crying now. I lost my dad when I was seven😭...and I told my mom I’m okay but I’m not...
I was 6 when my daddy passed away
I was 6 when my dad left me out of no where and my mom tells me to talk to her about it but I can’t my dad abused women was always on drugs and probably forgot about me and his 5 kids before me idk if he’s dead alive I jus found out I was a mistake I related to this to much
i have learned everything without my dad.. i have trust and anger problems cuz of him.. he couldnt even take me fishing on my 5th birthday.. that was my only present i wanted from him. he was always in jail. i was too uoung to understand. and if your a dad then dont leave your kids. its like u just put a bullet hole through their heart. some kids even kill thrmselves cux of ur lack of careness. be nice to your kids. and guide em throigh life.
The sad thing is he was the first person to betray me I waved bye to as if he’d come back but he didn’t whenever someone left the house I wouldn’t let them go because I was scared... I was scared they would leave and never come back he came back not even staying a goddamn year and left once again... it breaks my heart knowing people go through the same thing I did. He talks to my mom because he wants to talk to me. My mom says only if I want to but I’m scared to i don’t even remember what he looks like I don’t know what the kind of person he is because I am 99% like my mom. I just hope more people don’t go through this. ~Faith
*Be who you needed when you were younger*
Their was one thing I'd say to my father, I would say
I forgive him..
He stopped answering. So I stopped trying. IT HURTS💔
bethzy lopez I FELT THAT SO HARD
mine blocked me but I'm ok
Jocelyn Dlv mine changed his number and location.
My dad has been in and out of jail my entire life. He’s a struggling addict. No matter what his choices will always lead him back to drugs, even if I want him to chose me for once. My mom had struggled too and is now seeking help. I moved out of my moms house at 15 and now I’m with my aunt who is teaching me what a mother and father should be. It’s hard still, to always think about the what ifs. And all I can think is “why am I not good enough to be chosen first?”
It’s actually sad the amount of people have had their dads leave-
Mine did in October 2020, he calls my sister however my brothers don’t want to speak to him and I refuse to speak to him until he make a it up to me. He ran away. He left for another woman and her kids. He put her first and still does. ALL I WANTED WAS A NORMAL CHILDHOOD AND TEENAGE LIFE WITH MY PARENTS BUT NO HE AHD TO RUIN THAT!
I’m sorry for anyone that’s going through the same :/ 😓
Ever just sit in bed and watch this at 1:10 am bc you feel like your step mom took your dad away 😭😭
No just me...ok
honestly same. i feel that 100%
That’s what I do l it’s ok
yes. my dad changed when she came. he has never been the same..
1:48 feel ya
It's not just you😭
My mum has always been a strong woman for me, she bought me everything I wanted so I wouldn’t be sad
I cry every time I hear this!
I pray my kids won’t feel like this and remember the good times we had. This father didn’t leave, they were taken away and put in place that I would never be able to see or talk to them and I did everything I could stop it from happening, but because I’m just a father who was made out to be the bad guy.
I LOVE & MISS MY BOYS! Jacob & Andrew I pray that things will change.
My father left me @ age of 1 so I feel the pain in this and I feel for every child and adult that suffers because fathers leave.....
*I read the title and I started crying..*
Dear dad:
Stay tf away from me and never come back.
Cps, mom and dad left, brother got shot but still alive, faught my guardian out of anger and nobody cares but I smile to hide the pain 💔
I F E L T THIS😩
VIXX Starlight _ K.A.R.D _ FNC_ stan same
Bro this hit me hard
I tried to be a good daughter for *8 years*
I tried to make my father love me for *8 years*
I hided my pain for *8 years*
I pretended to be happy for *8 years*
I hided my bruises for *8 years*
I cried myself to sleep for *8 years*
I said I was fine for *8 years*
I let myself being hurt for *8 years*
I let myself be scared for *8 years*
I let my family get hurt for *8 years*
I gave up after *8 years*
I should have never tried for *8 years*
It wasn’t worth *8 years*
I’ve cried so much in those *8 years* that I don’t have tears left
I’ve been disappointed for *8 years* that I don’t have any disappointment left
I’ve wasted all my energy for *8 years* that I don’t have any energy left
But I’m -fine-
“Your story may not have such a happy beginning but that doesn’t make you who you are it is the rest of your story... so, who are you?...”
-Disney
Who still have the rest of your life ahead of you use it wisely
YOU decide how to live your life YOU decide if your happy or not and YOU decide how it ends so, how are you gonna live your life? ❤️ btw you don’t have to answer me ❤️❤️❤️❤️
The worst thing is. My dad broke my heart before any other guy could. My dad was my first heartbreak. He was supposed to be the one to mend my broken heart when a boy broke mine. But no. He wasn’t there.
Its 2 am on a school night
This hurts
I miss him so much
I know it really does hurt but the way I see it we can either let them see us cry or we can prove to them that we can do anything without them because we don’t need them and even though it will hurt from time to time you will get through it trust me there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel ❤️❤️❤️
Parents always warn us because boys will break our hearts, but my dad broke my heart before I even knew what love and heartbreak was 💔💔💔
I just hate to see how much he disappoints mom
Father’s Day just past and seeing everyone post about how great their days are just broke my heart
But I don’t know how I feel about him it’s so hard without a dad
its so weird how you can hate someone so much and somehow still just want a hug from them one last time
My dad left me when I was 7.. I’m now 18 and still balling my eyes out because I wish he’d want me in his life..
It’s funny how my dad claimed that “he wasn’t ready to be a dad” and then got a relationship with a woman with 3 kids and then have one of their own
So now I’m always sad and depressed because I always thought it was my fault that he left... and I still think that
It is not your fault.
It’s not your fault if he wasn’t ready for a family he should have never started one in the first place you deserve a happy childhood and a not so complicated life everyone does
"why were mom and I not good enough?" feels like something I would say to my dad just for him to yell at me-
My high school was celebrating it’s 25th anniversary and there was suppose to be a programme in a theatre and my teachers told me to take part and I said I will ask my dad and I went home and he said ‘no’ but next day I told the teachers that I will do it no matter what. After 2 months it was the big day i was nervous as hell as I had never it before and I was a shy kid at school. My dad kept saying you won’t be able to do it. I performed and all my class teachers were shocked and so were my parents. At the end of the programme my older brother asked me “how did you do that?” I told him “ just because dad said I can’t doesn’t mean I am not capable of doing it, for once I had to prove him wrong”