How To Break The P*rn Addiction Cycle

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  • @mc0335
    @mc0335 9 місяців тому +564

    My goals,
    1. I want to be more masculine
    2. I want to be free from porn
    3. I want to get closer to god
    4. I want to build more muscle than I have right now
    5. Get a better body
    6. Be more productive
    7. Marry a woman who believes and has faith in god and share the same morals as me
    8. Provide for her and my family and future family as well
    9. Make sure my sons are levels ahead and can be as masculine as they can be
    10. Make my family proud and happy and my future family as well
    11. Die with rest knowing I was free from my addiction lead my family and they believe in god and have faith in him and are in good hands

    • @instantrameng0d36
      @instantrameng0d36 9 місяців тому +24

      Me too and I believe in you, just picture the better version of yourself. Chase that reward of everlasting love from god too. You're not alone even when it seems like it,

    • @remithefirst
      @remithefirst 9 місяців тому +13

      Hey bro. We have similar goals. Since we don't know each other, can we be anonymous accountability partners? What's your name?

    • @samvoolivredev9021
      @samvoolivredev9021 9 місяців тому +2

      you will do it bro! I know u can, i want to be just like your goals!

    • @ggleonel5173
      @ggleonel5173 9 місяців тому +2

      i am with you my brother

    • @darkwrld966
      @darkwrld966 9 місяців тому +3

      I pray you reach this bro

  • @K4mui2152
    @K4mui2152 9 місяців тому +106

    Dawg, I just wanted to thank you so much. I've been really feeling shit about myself. I'm 16 and just relapsed after 3 months. I've been the most down I've been possibly in the past year, but this has given me the motivation and the support I need to start back up my journey. As such, imma do what you said and put a list of things I want to work up to, a set load of goals and a mindset I wanna fall to.
    1) I want to be a happier person, just in general, I want to go through my day to day life proud of myself and content with my life.
    2) I want to resist my desires of lust and gluttony, I'm not the most degenerate person or gluttonous person, only doing it once a week and eating crap food once every few days, but that isn't enough for me to feel accomplished.
    3) I want to get through my college with good grades. My stuff has been lacking lately 'cause I've been at home sick, but I desperately need to fix that.
    4) I need to fix my attention span. It's not the worst, but I think most people would agree that a lot of people have a shortened attention span due to social media, I need to up my discipline to be able to just go for longer.
    5) I want to be able to create a list about a list that holds 10 good things about me. I know that for me, and quite a lot of other people, negativity clouds my head and makes me think bad about myself, so I wanna be able to get to a point where I can name 10 things I value as good about me without having to think hard about it.
    6) I want to thank all those around me and supporting me, including you man, who's helping me so much right now. I want to be a better man and come back and tell you about my progress.
    Thank you, I appreciate the cold hard facts that you lay down that can help those around you, you truly are doing good work, bless you.

    • @hmzls4
      @hmzls4 9 місяців тому +1

      im 16 too and i was soo adicted months ago and now im living better

    • @reflectionz7705
      @reflectionz7705 9 місяців тому +3

      Im 16 also, we gonna get through this together bro stay focused ❤

    • @subsv7883
      @subsv7883 9 місяців тому

      Im also 16, getting off every sometime, together we will all take back control, love to all of you in this battle

    • @FortuneEtuk-h3p
      @FortuneEtuk-h3p 6 місяців тому

      im 17, we gonna get through this together dawg

  • @dennisgacheru1557
    @dennisgacheru1557 7 місяців тому +16

    My goal list:
    1. I want to be a better vision of my self
    2. I want to be happy again with my self
    3. I want to get closer with my family
    4. I want to stop running away from people
    5. I want to stop feeling alone
    6. I want to quit watching porn forever even if i know it is a struggle
    7. I want to connect with people
    8. I want to want to get my old self back together whom i have really missed
    9. I want work on my confidence
    10. I want to find meaningful connections
    I PROMISE TO MYSELF THAT AM GOING TO START A NEW LIFE A LIFE FREE FROM PORN

  • @JakobeSullivan47
    @JakobeSullivan47 9 місяців тому +7

    man you genuinely have just saved me bro every time I comeback to this comment, imma edit it and say where its going to show you how much its changed me and how much you have helped me

  • @Chris_978
    @Chris_978 9 місяців тому +10

    Bro! Thank you so much for your testimony and sharing what u did to quit P*rn.
    I’m on the Journey where I no I’m addicted even tho I had denied it for a bit that I wasn’t because I’d do it once or twice a week.
    But I realized I am because of not resisting when it comes. I have built lies and justified it but have a note book with all the lies and knocking em down by self awareness.
    After watching this video I realized to start today and not look back. Your details really helped me find what I need to do and idk how much to thank u for because u kept it real not like most UA-camrs. I Can feel your authenticity and if u can do it so can I.
    New subscriber here!! I’m looking forward to watching all your videos to take action after seeing this im put down a big note on what I want which I have an idea because I have thought of it but this time is really to super charge that progress and to continue I’m all set with this lust feeling , having to feel h*rny from time to time like nah I gotta get that control back before I started indulging into this.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +3

      I appreciate you for the support❤️and I’m proud of you my g, keep progressing

  • @ross15minbarries74
    @ross15minbarries74 9 місяців тому +2

    Bro looks so young yet acts years older with this level of understanding and wisdom this level of awareness is rare.Your growth is amazing
    I also cried when watching because it is true it felt like someone finally understands me and can therefor reach out to me and change me so deeply.I thank you so much.I needed this and did not even know......so....really...thank you

  • @kennethbsrrios2727
    @kennethbsrrios2727 5 місяців тому +4

    goals:
    I want to quit porn, I want to stop masturbating, I want to gain muscles, I want to be successful, I want a girlfriend who loves me and values me, I want to have confidence in myself
    I thank God that this video appeared to me from today I am going to change
    I will come back in 4 months

  • @huyquoc1973
    @huyquoc1973 Місяць тому

    Man, you are the most useful youtube channel i have ever watch. I hope you keep doing content like this, it so heplful.

  • @stormcloud-yt
    @stormcloud-yt 29 днів тому

    Thanks bro. This shit is really messing me around and now its my journey to be better man, be a better version of myself

  • @AKAWalker
    @AKAWalker 9 місяців тому +6

    December 23rd, 2023. See you again in due time!

  • @danielchraska5653
    @danielchraska5653 9 місяців тому +2

    Goals:
    1. Be with God every day, have Him on mind
    2. Manage my time better, try to plan what im doing
    3. Try to think about non arousing things
    4. I want to talk to more people, be more open to them
    5. Want to get better and more productive in school
    6. Spend less time on my phone
    Thanks Shimon, ur a real blessing!!!

  • @tubeshooter2546
    @tubeshooter2546 7 місяців тому +1

    Honestly I always feel so disgusting for having this addiction from a very young age, but I'm really glad that I'm not the only one and that those people who had it early, are making progress to stop their addiction.
    It really makes me feel like I can do it, and that it's possible. I hate how smart humans' brains have become to be able to have such complex problems. But thank you sm for this video.

  • @miquel6583
    @miquel6583 9 місяців тому +4

    I just found out this video, and all I'm gonna say is that in exactly 2 weeks, I'll come back, changed and improved. You made me notice man. There's someone I wanna be like, and I need to start right now to accept reality and change it. I promise I'm gonna give all I have to fullfil this objective, and make it the beginning of my glow. So, goodbye and see you in 2 weeks.
    And to my old self, It was great while it lasted, but it is time to say goodbye, I will change, I promise.

  • @Siddharth2004-to1pp
    @Siddharth2004-to1pp 4 місяці тому

    My goal list
    1. I am having the self confident but I have to execute it I'm gonna do it at any cost
    2.not believing the fake ,unrealistic dream...
    3. I should be that damm good that nobody should come to my mind and ruin my life
    4. I should be more communicable guy ..
    I BELIEVE IN MY SELF
    thanks man just got some valuable video ❤❤❤
    Appreciate that dude

  • @LeanDros-w9w
    @LeanDros-w9w 2 місяці тому

    You have talked so many times about porn addiction.I have watched every video and you have really helped me Thank you bro🙏

  • @sonicfan2745
    @sonicfan2745 18 днів тому

    porn has been just been completely breaking me mentally making me question alot of things i did it nonstop i cant even remember how long ago i started...i think at 16 everyday day at least 1 time a day, somedays i couldn't even remember how many times i did it in one day, made me realize how utterly disgusting and ashamed of myself i feel and i felt so scared of what my own family would think of me, it made me stop and avoiding socialism, i'd even feel uncomfortable and awkward around my own family because of it...for the longest time i made an excuse that i was autistic and my disabilities just makes me that way where i'm just akward. The thought pissed me off being like that. i'm tired of being pathetic, i'm tired of excuses, porn has crossed a line and i'm so sick of it, I dont want it to control me anymore i'm 19 years old and I want to be better. I want to be safe, happy and confident around my friends and loved ones. I want to be the best version of myself i can be. I'm going to list and start my goals today. I feel obligated to write this so i can push myself

  • @pqnda_
    @pqnda_ 6 місяців тому

    my goals
    1. be confident
    2. stop overthinking
    3. dont be scared of the risk
    4. love
    5. be clean of porn
    6. be well kept and clean
    7. be tougher
    8. be sucsesfull
    9. have fun
    10. enjoy life
    11. god is king
    12. be happy all the time
    fuck porn i relapsed a few times but i realized how fucking bad it is and that im gross and it is gross all i want is to get better and beat it so im putting blockers on my devices and im commiting thanks for the reality check man i am disapointed in myself and am wanting to commit to this

  • @susana-esq69
    @susana-esq69 7 місяців тому +1

    My goals: are too achieve college, beat my porn addiction at the age of 11, get out of my safety bubble, do daily activities, spend time with my family even more, get a therapist, con graduate college and high school, be healthy, focus more in school, and achieve happiness. Finally, get closer to people even more, and beat depression.

  • @NayshonNigo
    @NayshonNigo Місяць тому +1

    My Goals : 1. Have a healthy body
    : 2. More confidence.
    : 3. Closer and have a better. relationship with god.
    : 4. interest of being Focus.
    : 5. Make new opportunities for myself.
    : And Have better social skills. 12:22

  • @cooldaniel4391
    @cooldaniel4391 9 місяців тому +1

    My Goals
    1. To Focus on Soccor More than just Beating
    2. Get Closer to God.
    3. Achieve my Goal of Ending this temptation and focus on the things that will benefit me more.
    I will Keep Updating my Days.

    • @cooldaniel4391
      @cooldaniel4391 9 місяців тому

      Day 1. For the Pass Mins I've been Writing about one paragraph on google docs about what I want to Achieve and stuff their is not alot of temptations I also am trying to get closer to God.

  • @barizah2748
    @barizah2748 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm gonna change and get over this✊🏻 It's time to build confidence and have more self-esteem, make more connections, find genuine friends, lose weight, manage my time, stop procrastinating and building a better me day by day, and to stop being a people pleaser and take control of my emotions and control myself overall, being a better and healthier person mentally, physically and spiritually 💪🏻💪🏻 manifesting!!

  • @julianchicas85
    @julianchicas85 9 місяців тому

    Aye man I just found this account in my recommended after i thought to my self last night and prayed to god to help me through this and this is a sign from him that i can get through this. I appreciate all you are doing man, much love!

  • @slideonnatfye
    @slideonnatfye 7 місяців тому +1

    My goals/perfect self would be:
    1. Be free from porn
    2. Have more meaningful relationships with family
    3. Connect deeply with other people (friends, colleagues, etc)
    4. Have a respectable physique (where i can look at the mirror and be proud of my body)
    5. To be able to talk to girls
    6. To be confident
    7. To love myself
    8. A man that doesn’t procrastinate
    9. A man that consistently achieves his goals
    10. To stop thinking so lustfully
    11. To be more masculine
    12. To be closer with God and my religion.
    13. Be productive
    14. To make money
    15. I want to be constantly educating myself each and every day and learn useful skills (through reading, youtube videos)

  • @TylerAllgeierEnjoyer
    @TylerAllgeierEnjoyer 8 місяців тому +1

    You’re so comforting man thank you for the help

  • @PascalOliver-l6t
    @PascalOliver-l6t 5 місяців тому

    I'm not alone in this. Oh Lord help me quit this addiction. I'm tired of this habit 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @fowowe1988
    @fowowe1988 7 місяців тому +1

    I really appreciate you David, I am so glad to discover your videos on UA-cam.
    It really helps me alot.
    Thanks

  • @sardius61
    @sardius61 8 місяців тому +1

    My goals/ Who I want to be:
    1. Be free from porn
    2. Be more confident
    3. Be in control of my thoughts/urges
    4. Stop feeling nervous and scared when around women
    5.Be more confident playing Basketball
    6. Be more confident talking to women
    7. Stop procrastinating
    8. Somone who stops overthinking about small things
    What kind of a person do you want to be?
    The person I want to be is someone who's confident, and has high self esteem. I want to be someone who sets and achieves their goals. I aspire to be someone who has a strong drive and commitment to personal growth.
    What do you want to accomplish?
    Goals I want to accomplish is to play Professional Basketball. I want to accomplish engaging in activities that expand my knowledge. Spending time defining and refining short-term and long-term goals.
    Where do you see yourself after high schooler Highschool, I see myself playing college Basketball. After HS I see myself achieving and have achieved my goals. After myself I see myself as someone who engages in current/new activities that grow my mental and physical well being.
    Who do I need to become to achieve this goal?
    To achieve these goals, I need to cut out old habits that aren’t aligned with my goals. Like laziness, procrastination, and negative self perception.

  • @gaafarsuleiman7273
    @gaafarsuleiman7273 5 місяців тому

    Started a new journey on Mars 29th 2024. I'm ready for this one after mutiple failed attempts. Wish me good luck.

  • @lukecaruana8871
    @lukecaruana8871 9 місяців тому

    Thank goodness for this video Shimon. You share the name of my brother without the h and man am I glad to have found this.

  • @goldenpirate7399
    @goldenpirate7399 9 місяців тому +1

    Hey I'm from Spain and I just did what u mentioned in the video. After that, I really felt like it was the start of something great, hope it will. thank you for the advice brother

  • @spadifyb2379
    @spadifyb2379 9 місяців тому +2

    Love you're motivation my brother keep up the good work you'll be at 100k in no time ❤️

  • @zalae517
    @zalae517 9 місяців тому +2

    DAY 1 of no fap
    my future goals
    1 i want to not be addicted to porn
    2 i want to be more masculine
    3 i want to lose fat and build muscle
    4 i want to be more productive
    5 i want to start going to the gym
    6 i want to be more confident
    7 i want to find a girl that i can build a good relationship and then marry her
    8 i want to be more organized and focused

  • @LilCai-gv8nv
    @LilCai-gv8nv 4 місяці тому

    My goals
    1. stop watching it
    2.Start to learn how to set up a business
    3.make myself more masculine
    4.get better grades for next year in 9th
    5.Have better habits were I'm not think about other girl to date
    6.Be myself

  • @cloutbino9479
    @cloutbino9479 7 місяців тому +1

    Relapsed again what I’m doing is punishing myself to go to bed earlier I wanna be able to overcome my self for myself for me and for my girl friend who I love I wanna be better

  • @Smoiiny
    @Smoiiny 9 місяців тому

    I never realized I was addicted until I watched this video, thank you for making this video to help other people's lives change for the better. - I'm going to start working on myself every day from now on.

  • @Adamsnjai
    @Adamsnjai 5 місяців тому

    Thank you very much for this video bruh 🥂 i love your advice ,am addicted but i am going out of it by the grace of almighty ,

  • @WeirdlyRandom423
    @WeirdlyRandom423 9 місяців тому

    Who Do I Want To Be?
    1. I want to be Happy and Satisfied with my life.
    2. I want to develop my Masculinity.
    3. I want a Stronger body.
    4. I want to Communicate better and create a greater range of Connections.
    5. I want to be Responsible and Disciplined.
    6. I want to Love and Be Loved.
    7. I want to be Wealthy.
    December 18, 2023 - This will be the first of hopefully many more logs in my journey to becoming a better person. Although I’m still unsure of myself, seeing this video convinced me to believe that now is the time I have to start changing, because there’s no taking back lost time.

  • @tekn0329
    @tekn0329 9 місяців тому

    You're super inspirational thank you. Honestly this video made me stop feeliing shit about myself motivated me to start getting my life in shape.

  • @EpicKid900
    @EpicKid900 4 місяці тому

    My goals.
    I need to break prn and prove myself I am not a failure
    I want to make a book by my self even if no one reads it
    I want to focus more on my studies
    I want to focus more on instruments and music
    I want to lead people the right path
    I need to stop looking at people the lustful way
    I need to get out of the Fantasy world and get into Reality world
    I need focus on my family
    I want to make a band that has the same morals like me but has changed
    Lead my band and help them with their problems
    Spreading positivity to people
    Getting realistic
    Being more responsible on my obligations
    I need to stop being lazy
    I need to get closer to God to guide me in my path
    I have to love myself
    Stop being arrogant on people that are lower than me
    Become the person that I dream of
    I need to help my family
    I need at least 7 sources of income before i reach my 40s
    I want to make my parents feel the feeling of living in their dream house
    I want to have a family that is full of joy and raising my kids the right way and not end up like me
    Become a role model to people to inspire then
    I want to die peacefully knowing that I accomplished everything I dreamed of

  • @Andre-l5y
    @Andre-l5y 9 місяців тому

    God bless you. Thank you so much for making this video, i have started my journey recently from watching another one of your videos, 2 days in….long way to go but i got this. If someone else is also finding this difficult i fully understand atm. We got this and lets ‘knock the walls down!’ 💪 ❤️

  • @beef_cake6172
    @beef_cake6172 9 місяців тому +1

    Porn is definitely a problem, it should not exist. But accountability is also good.

  • @jjalltheway552
    @jjalltheway552 3 місяці тому

    Starting my journey today💪🏿

  • @alexvilleda4990
    @alexvilleda4990 9 місяців тому

    My goal is be a better version of myself and be positive in the stuff I love to do

  • @achillesduardo8358
    @achillesduardo8358 9 місяців тому +3

    My Goals:
    I want to be free from porn
    I want to be a better person for the one I love
    I want to live my life fully for God
    I want to become the best version of myself physically and mentally
    I want to live a life with no regrets
    I want to be comfortable being uncomfortable
    I want to show myself that I am better than the negative thoughts I think of myself of
    I want to conquer myself
    -thank you so much for everything you said and giving out this message for younger people in need of this. Your changing a lot of people’s lives for the better

    • @ChildOfGorb
      @ChildOfGorb 9 місяців тому

      Live for yourself you don’t need something controlling you

  • @LucaMu
    @LucaMu 4 місяці тому

    Big love for this my bro

  • @SeshMex
    @SeshMex 9 місяців тому

    I recently found your channel dude and I started watching your videos and I can proudly say that I am thankful that someone else out there had a similar issue as to what I'm going through; keep it up man I appreciate you fr

  • @EthanTheCosmos
    @EthanTheCosmos 9 місяців тому +2

    While I do not have a porn addiction, I have just gone through a breakup with a girl I had been dating for 4 years, and while it is just a temporary separation to let each of us focus on our mental health and attachment issues, it has hurt unbelievably much. It happened yesterday night, and it kicked me into a self improving mode. Videos like yours really help me in these tough times and show me that it will be okay, so thank you. Here is who I want to me, my best version of me. And I fully intend to come back here week after week and update you on my journey, as well as do daily video updates on my situation. Thank you Shimon, I wish there were more people in the world like you.
    My best version of me:
    1. Kind, help everyone I can
    2. Caring, I know what to say and when to say it
    3. Not Rude, I will never throw hurtful insults or interrupt
    4. Stable, I'm not easily aggravated, or hurt, I am a stable beacon
    5. Confident, I know I'm hot, knowledgeable and I'm not afraid.
    6. Bold, I speak up for others, and myself
    7. Loyal, lust doesn't affect me, the only thing I need is myself
    8. Safe, I am a safe space for the people closest to me
    9. Self Confidence, I know I will choose the right path
    10. Humble, I am able to accept defeat, failure, and being wrong.

    • @EthanTheCosmos
      @EthanTheCosmos 9 місяців тому

      It has been 7 days. A lot has happened. I have been working out consistently, cutting out bad habits and addictions, and practicing self love. I have also not watched any NSFW material in a week. I am feeling confident, and happy in my own skin and by myself. The 10 things that I listed the best version of me is, I have started to integrate all of them. While at different levels each of them has been slowly integrating into my personality and my core person. I have seen a therapist, and have done more work on myself in the past 7 days than I have in the past 4 years. I am following a lot of the workout routine you provided in a more recent video, and it is working wonders for me. I'll update this in another week. See you then!

    • @EthanTheCosmos
      @EthanTheCosmos 8 місяців тому

      It is now 1, 3, 24. It's been 2 weeks. I'm doing a lot better. Thinking about getting a gym membership, haven't watched any NSFW content in 2 weeks, and believe I am solidly on a journey to my best self.

  • @lloydisong5588
    @lloydisong5588 5 місяців тому

    1. I am an exceptionally skilled pianist
    2. I'm going to gain weight and have a better body
    3. I am rich and wealthy enough to finance my dreams of Music, traveling and photography
    4. I have a strong mind and I'm not susceptible to lust.
    5. I build long lasting and meaningful relationships with people.
    6. I will never stop until my goals are met
    From Micheal at 5.52pm, Friday, 5th of April, 2024

  • @UnofficialTeeJvy
    @UnofficialTeeJvy 8 місяців тому

    My goals:
    1. I want to be free of porn, its put me in a chokehold that keeps destroying my life
    2. I want to consistently hit the gym and be a healthy weight. Already started this one, but still binge eat when not hungry to cover emotions.
    3. I want to not procrastinate.
    4. I want to get good grades.
    5. I want to produce and rap songs daily.
    6. I want to read 10 pages daily.

  • @andreborn2699
    @andreborn2699 8 місяців тому

    Heya, i am struggling whit porn addiction and have tried stopping before a couple times, but i think enough is enough. I will comment back here in a couple months and show some progress to my self. Thanks for the Vids dude, takes a lot to beat it and its very helpful hearing from you.

  • @WalterHWhite-mc3vk
    @WalterHWhite-mc3vk 4 місяці тому

    my goals:
    1. have a healthy body
    2. excercise every day
    3. be able to talk to people
    4. quit watching porn
    5. remove all of my point of view of woman from porn
    6. spend some time with god
    ill now make up these goals til i make it

  • @chrisralves
    @chrisralves Місяць тому

    I love you bro! Thank you!

  • @GavinHunsberger
    @GavinHunsberger 7 місяців тому +1

    MY GOALS
    1 Stop this bad addiction
    2 GET CLOSE TO GOD
    3 BE MORE Consistent AT BOXING
    4 GET IN GREAT SHAPE
    5 BE A BETTER MAN FOR MY FAMILY AND GOD

  • @NhlakaniphoKhumalo-mk2qp
    @NhlakaniphoKhumalo-mk2qp 4 місяці тому

    I wanna stop pornography. I wanna stop having a "pervert eye" towards women. I wanna stop thinking that porn is my "sleeping pill". I wanna spend more time with my family.

  • @fugzywugzy
    @fugzywugzy 9 місяців тому

    These videos actually changed my perspective about myself, i used to deny i was addicted to nic and p0rn an shit, but now, im just fucking disgusted at myself, and i will change. And thats because of you. So thank you.

  • @tristanbradley2799
    @tristanbradley2799 8 місяців тому

    Thanku my boi I promise you just changed my life around

  • @Avengement99
    @Avengement99 5 місяців тому

    For me maybe a douchie and also a successful guy.To be admirable by many.And also to ave a good connection with GOD

  • @nashfelix
    @nashfelix 9 місяців тому

    thank u man this helped me out a lot

  • @Yoa-cc7bo
    @Yoa-cc7bo 9 місяців тому

    What helped me the most is just simply going out and talking to girls more often. Once you start doing that you really have no need to go back to that sad place.

  • @ManBunGaming
    @ManBunGaming 9 місяців тому

    good ass vid my guy im starting a mark will i will not watch porn and see how long i can go i will mark off one day if i have not watched it i hope this will help with my grief and help me have energy in school

  • @sinceregaming25
    @sinceregaming25 6 місяців тому

    My goals,
    1. Be more heathy
    2. Be free from porn
    3. Get closer to God
    4. Become a successful UA-camr
    5. Marry a women who has faith in God
    6. A man that has confidence
    7. Matured more
    8. Make my family proud
    9. Become smarter
    10. Leave porn with a smile on my face and say goodbye forever porn I hope to never see you again
    11. Be masculine
    12. Become a billionaire
    13. A man that loves others
    14. Be more productive

  • @miro322
    @miro322 6 місяців тому

    My goal:
    1. Beat the addiction
    2. have better grades
    3. stop being horny at every single woman
    4. have a better body
    5. make my parents and sisters proud
    6. mature
    7. stop overthinking everything that happened in the past
    8. have a good family
    9. marry a woman who shares same faith in god as me

  • @AhmedJOJO2D
    @AhmedJOJO2D 4 місяці тому

    1 a healthy weight
    2love myself
    3no porn no more
    4 i can be proud of myself

  • @OGTennyson
    @OGTennyson 5 місяців тому +2

    19th April 2024...
    Enough's enough

    • @hayansekamatte7674
      @hayansekamatte7674 5 місяців тому +1

      I’m with u bruh time for a change

    • @OGTennyson
      @OGTennyson 5 місяців тому

      @@hayansekamatte7674 screenshotted this comment. I'll report back in the next 30days to check up on us.
      Good luck to you brother. We can do this ✊🏾

    • @OGTennyson
      @OGTennyson 5 місяців тому

      Edit: I relapsed today😢
      But it's okay. I've learnt how I can be present with my thoughts and recognize when the demon is there and beat it.
      We go again. I won't give up!

    • @OGTennyson
      @OGTennyson 4 місяці тому

      Update: Relapsed today again, and yesterday as well.
      These past few days have just been Ls upon Ls.
      Its my fault I relapsed. Things got hard and I caved in like a bich and went back to my coping mechanism.
      But I'm not giving up. I will not till this addiction is beaten. Ion even care how much I lose. All I know is that I won't stop till I have my life back again

  • @Jokrmk
    @Jokrmk 9 місяців тому

    I can’t break free from it I even kept my phone away from me a whole day but I still did it

  • @Black_outzvr
    @Black_outzvr 9 місяців тому

    Thanks man I really appreciate ima break down the wall just as you said ❤ and by the way I’m a new subscriber looked through you’re videos your actually like hella helpful ❤

  • @MaliqElisee
    @MaliqElisee 9 місяців тому

    Men you gotta Fast stop eating and I promise it’ll go away also pray and also ask god too free you from the addiction

  • @duovydz
    @duovydz 9 місяців тому

    goals: good sleep, clean life, pray to God, better me

    • @duovydz
      @duovydz 9 місяців тому

      i'll come back stronger, i'm so disgusted

  • @onlycarra7
    @onlycarra7 9 місяців тому

    Study, read, train, repeat, that’s all i have to do, fine 2023+2024 sarà l’anno del riscatto, credo in me.

  • @abhijeetashiya8856
    @abhijeetashiya8856 8 місяців тому

    My goals
    1. I want to study hard and become an Ias officer
    2. I want to be jacked and have a good physique
    3.I wanna make my parents proud
    4. I want to get in a good relationship with a beautiful girl
    5.I wanna quit porn and never ever watch it in my life
    6. I wanna have lots of friends and colleagues
    7. I wanna impact the world in a good way

  • @KainLopez-d5o
    @KainLopez-d5o 5 місяців тому

    THX BRO YOUR A GREAT PERSON BRUH

  • @greuterplays6015
    @greuterplays6015 9 місяців тому

    I wanted a pornfree 2024 which i already failed. It is 2 AM in the morning right now and I'm going to bed. Im glad i bumped into this video. My journey begins today, thanks a lot man. Appreciate you, see yall in 2025 when i hopefully made much progress. Much love!

    • @Shad0w_D_Editz
      @Shad0w_D_Editz 9 місяців тому

      Guess we had the same ideas. I’ve stayed strong for 3 days already and I feel better than the entire year of 2023 just 3 days and I have better mind so let’s keep it going brothers stay strong 👊🏾

    • @greuterplays6015
      @greuterplays6015 8 місяців тому

      @@Shad0w_D_Editz thanks bro appreciate 🔥

  • @RileyRammers
    @RileyRammers 9 місяців тому

    Be free from p addiction
    Feel comfortable in a public group
    Be confident to talk to a girl
    Feel closer to god
    Be at a healthy weight
    Come back here every week saying well done to myself

  • @clipsknows
    @clipsknows 9 місяців тому +1

    my goals:
    i wanna make to the nba
    i wanna graduate high school
    and i wanna go to college and graduate college.

  • @lancematchett3698
    @lancematchett3698 5 місяців тому

    My Goals:
    1.) Porn and masturbation free
    2.) At peace with myself
    3.) Become a multimillionaire
    4.) Have a loving family
    5.) Get 1% better each day

  • @Hardplayinglevel
    @Hardplayinglevel 6 місяців тому

    I want to change for real 😢and I will

  • @jason.b4328
    @jason.b4328 9 місяців тому

    Man i just want to say a big thank you and i repect you man👊🏼

  • @itss_kennyk8091
    @itss_kennyk8091 9 місяців тому

    To be a better person

  • @JMedia1000
    @JMedia1000 9 місяців тому

    I'm going to start now!

  • @PrinceOwusuBanahene-lh3rz
    @PrinceOwusuBanahene-lh3rz 9 місяців тому

    Damn! Am quiting porn because of this video. Thanks for your advice bro.

  • @tylersaffle
    @tylersaffle 5 місяців тому +1

    My goals 1: porn free 2:closer to god 3: get a six pack and get big muscles 4: become the best basketball player in my shcool

  • @AshtonXD_OG
    @AshtonXD_OG 8 місяців тому

    Stronger
    wiser
    closer to God.

  • @jlemonz9000
    @jlemonz9000 9 місяців тому

    I’m gonna stop now and try my hardest, I’ll tell y’all my progress. The reason I want to quit is because my lust is too high even though I’m too young for that. I found out many things this year about myself like the fact I’m bi so I don’t want to be horny all the time anymore. Hope this goes well.

  • @Clxrss
    @Clxrss 9 місяців тому

    Goals of 2024
    1 lose bodyfat
    2 get better at football
    3 quit porn
    4 start making money
    5 try my best at school
    6 get good grades
    7 making my parent proud
    8 start getting real real real friends
    9 get rich w my nggas

  • @level4578
    @level4578 9 місяців тому

    Yo bro love you ❤
    Your channel is the best channel bro❤

  • @Carlossanchezjr2949
    @Carlossanchezjr2949 9 місяців тому

    My goals: 1. Be good at armwrestling 2. Get bigger 3. Be confident

  • @RAUL-is7ol
    @RAUL-is7ol 8 місяців тому

    I wanna have control of my emotions, i wanna change, i need to change and for best. i wanna be proud, i wanna feel proud of myself. Cried wachting this, thanks man🤍

  • @cyclone3743
    @cyclone3743 9 місяців тому +611

    My goals/what my perfect self would be:
    1. Be at a healthy weight
    2. Be free from porn
    3. Be closer to people
    4. Be someone that somebody can look up to
    5. Be accepted
    6. A dude that doesn’t procrastinate
    7. A dude that has good grades
    8. A dude that doesn’t use humor to hide the pain anymore.
    9. A dude that doesn’t take humor too far and make other uncomfortable anymore.
    10. Stop being horny around every woman I see in my life
    11. A man that has confidence
    12. A man that loves himself
    13. A man that loves others
    14. A man that can smile without overthinking it.
    15. A man that has finally matured
    16. A man that people can look at and say “Yeah, he’s gonna go far”
    I realize that for the past 4 years, I’ve been nothing but an overweight, loud, obnoxious, porn-addicted, butt of the joke, depressed, no confidence having, bad grade having, procrastinating, and lazy loser. I can’t afford to live my life like this anymore. It’s finally time for me to go the distance. My journey starts now. Wish me luck!
    Update: The final update. School is back, on my third day currently. Lost a couple pounds, socializing more, trying to focus on my grades and get a good job. The thing with the girl went nowhere, but what can you do about it? Thanks for everything y’all. This will probably be the last time I update this. Wish y’all the best of everything in life! Goodbye! 🎆🎇

    • @__dolphin__
      @__dolphin__ 9 місяців тому +20

      you can make it man❤

    • @amulefn2487
      @amulefn2487 9 місяців тому +23

      Bro, when I read your text, I just want to say I am looking up to you, idk how old are you I am 18 btw but you are a king 👑 ❤

    • @ar0sti
      @ar0sti 9 місяців тому +6

      real

    • @zacharyhossain6537
      @zacharyhossain6537 9 місяців тому +2

      yo hope you made it

    • @oreosoda
      @oreosoda 9 місяців тому +4

      Read this and I realized this is my situation, Im going to try to change

  • @Bruddaman556
    @Bruddaman556 9 місяців тому +517

    Dude your channel is so helpful I really hope you stay on this grind and keep posting regardless of the views cus these deserve to get 100k easily

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +52

      I appreciate you ! We in this for the long run and I can’t let up now. We have already reached and helped millions of people, UA-cam and the subscriber/view count is just lagging💯🤝

    • @BoostYT87
      @BoostYT87 9 місяців тому +1

      Fr

    • @MTwezzy-Magica.MTwice_Mag
      @MTwezzy-Magica.MTwice_Mag 9 місяців тому

      Yeah with real ppl I agree

    • @NickBushta
      @NickBushta 9 місяців тому +1

      @@AskShimonbro u r the best person in the world ❤

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому

      @@NickBushta I learned from you

  • @altitudeadventures115
    @altitudeadventures115 9 місяців тому +209

    If you relapse, don't give up on yourself and your journey. Just keep going and the longer you do it will get easier. Don't let failure stop you from success.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +23

      Well said!

    • @lucassponsler9691
      @lucassponsler9691 9 місяців тому +2

      I got a problem I have tried to quit but when I would relapse I would give up

    • @declanbennell-brown4990
      @declanbennell-brown4990 9 місяців тому +1

      @@lucassponsler9691don’t give up fr you can do it

    • @AishiteruGG
      @AishiteruGG 5 місяців тому

      thank you bro, I can do longer, but I still relapsing. but I'm not going to give up.

  • @Tayson888
    @Tayson888 6 місяців тому +35

    Im 14 and stuggling, it sucks! i hate my self for watching it i still do and i need to stop, i can go 2,3,4,5 weeks/days without watching it but i keep relapsing, but one thing that has helped me is addmiting i admited to my best freind and had her keep me acountable but i still strugle, its a mental battle ladies and gents, do not fall into the trap that it satisfies you, it will destroy you, May God bless you all

    • @EZBLAST378
      @EZBLAST378 5 місяців тому +4

      same I'm 12 btw

    • @Tayson888
      @Tayson888 5 місяців тому +2

      @@EZBLAST378 stay strong and stay with God brother

    • @thespartan2288
      @thespartan2288 5 місяців тому +2

      I hope it gets better man

  • @breezybaboon2787
    @breezybaboon2787 9 місяців тому +85

    You’re helping me change my life for the better, thank you brother!🙏🏽

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +15

      Happy to hear that! Much love fam💯

    • @6ankfraud
      @6ankfraud 9 місяців тому

      i am 3 day clean right and this video help me so much and i will try to quit@@AskShimon

  • @williamdavis4893
    @williamdavis4893 9 місяців тому +43

    I didn’t do the deed for about 10 days and I felt unstoppable. I was in complete control mentally and was as confident as ever. Then I relapsed the other day and I felt like a failure. I need to change and I will. I’ll make sure to revisit this video if I ever feel the urge again and hold myself accountable for it. Thank you brother

    • @Twigs929
      @Twigs929 8 місяців тому +1

      Setbacks are just part of the journey

  • @altxnash
    @altxnash 9 місяців тому +82

    This ain't no "new years resolution" type shit but I really wanna leave this version of myself in 2023!

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +8

      Damn right ! and you will💯

    • @elijahgodsservant2906
      @elijahgodsservant2906 9 місяців тому +3

      If you have to get rid of your technology in order to quit do it.

    • @KermitTheGangsta58
      @KermitTheGangsta58 4 місяці тому

      Did you?

    • @altxnash
      @altxnash 4 місяці тому

      @@KermitTheGangsta58 honestly still struggling but so far I've come to dislike watching porn

  • @benjjmin
    @benjjmin 9 місяців тому +45

    i remember being young before I had started watching porn and finding it nasty. but hearing older friends talk abt it all the time eventually I got influenced by them. and I became heavily addicted convincing myself this is the only way someone like me can feel human connection. but it wasn't real and it would only cure that loneliness feeling for a moment. I feel like im going back to that state where the thought of porn is nasty to me. it feels good.

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +6

      Good my g ! Keep it that way and keep elevating

  • @looyhooy4556
    @looyhooy4556 9 місяців тому +30

    Edit 2: Its the second day of nofap. My mom left to the store this morning and you would not believe how much Satan was tempting me! I stayed strong though because of the promise I made💪 Shamon you earned my subscription☝️
    Goals:
    1. High stature
    2. controlled actions
    3. no porn
    4. Helpful
    5. confident
    6. hardworking
    7. focused
    8. organized
    I want to thank you so much! I feel like im living in hell right now. Im 16 and Im done with this damn life Im living. Everything you say hits home. I relate to everything you are saying about this problem. Ive always known I have a problem. I believe in Christ... You opened up my mind about fixing your life so you dont have to run to porn. Ive realized that I need to work harder in school and being more helpful around my household. I want to pray more and read the scriptures every night. I'm deleting UA-cam for a week. In a week I'll watch this vid again and repeat. I'm making a promise to you, me and God that I will be clean for this week.❤

    • @Deadlykitten3828
      @Deadlykitten3828 9 місяців тому +6

      im like less than one week in nofap and i didint belive myself i still dont that i will permanently quit in this go but still i have started taking cold showers and i prayed for help and its weird because ever since that prayer its feels like something is holding me back so i dont start beating my meat like everytime i get tempt im just like i cant, i CAAant and its weird but i belive oneday this addiction thing would be over in jesus name

    • @looyhooy4556
      @looyhooy4556 9 місяців тому

      @@Deadlykitten3828 God bless you! I haven't actually deleted youtube. Ive been listening to this guy all day at work today😂 But yeah man keep it up. Try making promises like I did with this comment. It's already helping my mind stay clean. Last night was the first night of nofap. Tonight gonna be the same💪

  • @Oshurs
    @Oshurs 9 місяців тому +39

    this series is genuinely a massive help to my life. i've been extremely addicted and im only 14. this has rlly helped me be more positive and think better abt myself

    • @hershelgreeneclips2206
      @hershelgreeneclips2206 9 місяців тому +4

      yessir keep it up

    • @Oshurs
      @Oshurs 9 місяців тому

      @@hershelgreeneclips2206 ty man, means a lot

    • @novagenesis0116
      @novagenesis0116 8 місяців тому +2

      turning 15 in 5 days, we in da same boat gang. we gon rise past ts tg🫡

  • @dajourphil0soph3r36
    @dajourphil0soph3r36 9 місяців тому +24

    That fist bump was everything man 👊

    • @AskShimon
      @AskShimon  9 місяців тому +6

      WE family ! ❤️

    • @6ankfraud
      @6ankfraud 9 місяців тому

      I am young, i was introduce to porn at a young age and i am 3 days clean today. And your videos helps me realize how bad it is and i will try to quit now so i can get more confidence and talk to people. @@AskShimon

  • @wouter635
    @wouter635 7 місяців тому +5

    I was so afraid it was part of my persona and influenced everything I choose to be
    After i started thinking about decreasing it and quiting
    I was really afraid of that
    but it is a by product
    its just stupid pleasure
    It doesn’t define you it rather holds you back from your potention

  • @JERRY_RL
    @JERRY_RL 6 місяців тому +6

    I just fell twice today ngl…. But I want to break free and get rid of this habit. Jesus saves ✝️❤️