ASMR For When You're Sad

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  • Опубліковано 30 тра 2019
  • Hello darling! I know you've been feeling down in the dumps lately.. which is why I want to be here to help you. Sit back, relax, and let me take the world off your shoulders.
    PLEASE REMEMBER. I am NOT a licensed therapist or professional. If you are struggling with a mental illness, please do not rely on this video for a serious treatment. There are links down below that can help you if you are struggling with a mental illness.
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  • @theasmrdarling
    @theasmrdarling  5 років тому +16238

    Please remember to take care of yourselves, my friends ❤️

    • @noegarcia8274
      @noegarcia8274 5 років тому +58

      Ok

    • @shauna6086
      @shauna6086 5 років тому +77

      You too ❤️❤️❤️

    • @edar8881
      @edar8881 5 років тому +73

      No, U 3000

    • @JackPopkins
      @JackPopkins 5 років тому +88

      you have no clue how much I needed this today. Thank you luv ❤️

    • @samk7625
      @samk7625 5 років тому +113

      *its two oclock and i can't sleep*
      *i've lost track of counting sheep*
      *through old memories i binge*
      *shuddering with cringe*
      *at least someone whispers while i weep*

  • @gravy9724
    @gravy9724 3 роки тому +2821

    It sucks having to find comfort in a complete stranger and hearing the words “you’re ok” just hit

    • @freehleb9620
      @freehleb9620 3 роки тому +38

      hope u r okay tho;;

    • @owenjohnson705
      @owenjohnson705 2 роки тому +25

      I have never been talked to like this before no 🧢 it made me feel so loved and wanted.

    • @satiricwriter
      @satiricwriter 2 роки тому +16

      Agreed. Mum never tells me that its ok anymore. I had to hear it from this lovely lady.

    • @luvbug_1
      @luvbug_1 2 роки тому +4

      so true

    • @iceyuu.ghostii
      @iceyuu.ghostii 2 роки тому +6

      fr and the fact when ur actually crying

  • @user-pl8zn
    @user-pl8zn 3 роки тому +708

    it's crazy to think that an absolute complete stranger is much more understanding and comforting than your family and friends aka the people you know in person.

  • @genderfluidlygay7146
    @genderfluidlygay7146 2 роки тому +262

    Im so glad ASMR people exist, they are the only ones who care about me. Thankyou for existing. I love you.

  • @brittalunde4361
    @brittalunde4361 4 роки тому +1348

    looks like 1.1m people are sad...
    I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, you and me both 😤😢✊

    • @duckymaster756
      @duckymaster756 4 роки тому +7

      Depression got the better of me and naw I'm crying

    • @ei-on4eb
      @ei-on4eb 4 роки тому +3

      At the moment I'm not sad, I was just recommended this, you know. Anyway, affection is always a good thing, so I like ASMR videos like this.

    • @kmariesav
      @kmariesav 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🧡 going through a breakup. It’s nice to know I’m not alone.

    • @sketchedout4080
      @sketchedout4080 2 місяці тому

      2.2M now😭

  • @vanananananana
    @vanananananana 4 роки тому +7925

    taylor: so what happened ?
    me: it all started when i was born...

    • @Audiiaka
      @Audiiaka 4 роки тому +197

      Hay what r u doing here, your supposed to be in my laundry room!!!

    • @justchill6652
      @justchill6652 4 роки тому +38

      @@Audiiaka 😂😂😂😂

    • @justchill6652
      @justchill6652 4 роки тому +16

      Yo you again

    • @oliviaellie944
      @oliviaellie944 4 роки тому +8

      Hahahahahah

    • @miek188
      @miek188 4 роки тому +42

      hey what are u doing there hurry up and let me drink you!

  • @delelillie1
    @delelillie1 3 роки тому +1962

    As a man I confirm that I loved being called a queen by Taylor

  • @lilleilei169
    @lilleilei169 3 роки тому +67

    its sad that there are ppl who when they are down have to rely on videos for comfort instead of a real person in their life, but i am so grateful that this exists, that someone chose to make a video like this to comfort those who have nothing else to turn to. thank you for giving me a bit of healing and strength

  • @philipshit6636
    @philipshit6636 5 років тому +5690

    "I just looked at you with the crown on; you look beautiful"
    What she looked at:
    👑
    🎤📸🎤

    • @theasmrdarling
      @theasmrdarling  5 років тому +999

      You know..... you’re not wrong

    • @philipshit6636
      @philipshit6636 5 років тому +121

      Probably also why you chuckled a bit, right @@theasmrdarling? ☺

    • @philipshit6636
      @philipshit6636 5 років тому +100

      For anyone wondering, it is at 6:00

    • @T1m3out187
      @T1m3out187 5 років тому +75

      @@theasmrdarling I mean, maybe that camera looked really nice with that crown on... maybe there is an Alien in the cam... maybe I like TuRtLEs

    • @onlypain.4505
      @onlypain.4505 5 років тому +36

      Now this is a creative comment.

  • @zduh125
    @zduh125 5 років тому +1770

    when she said the second hey in the beginning I started to cry because she sounded like she really really cared

  • @Skifie16
    @Skifie16 Рік тому +58

    I was crying before I watched this, stopped crying for a minute, then at the very beginning when she started talking and everything I immediately started crying again. Just not used to being asked these questions or getting this kind of attention. I love this and it actually helped me feel a little better from what’s been going on ❤️

  • @littlemuffin8979
    @littlemuffin8979 3 роки тому +42

    the other day, i was having a hard time..hurting a lot.. and i was at school at lunch, and i was sitting alone and someone that i dont know walked up to me and asked me if i was okay. it made me feel a little better knowing that some cared. thank you, to the student who asked me if i was okay at lunch the other day ☺💓

    • @akkralla
      @akkralla 3 роки тому +3

      Wish that would happen to me😔...

  • @mahealanihuioutu5433
    @mahealanihuioutu5433 4 роки тому +1085

    Do you ever get sad for no apparent reason and breakdown in your room hoping no one will hear you sobbing ?
    It’s ok we all do that’s why we’re here.People tend to say don’t cry to people crying(I cry even more hearing that) but today let’s not do that, let’s cry together.Wether you lost a loved one,going through a breakup or just feeling down,let’s just cry,especially during that time, sometimes it’s better to just let the tears flowing.Gotta release the pressure.
    « I know I’ll be alright, but I’m not tonight »
    -Finneas

    • @hannahbrinsdon4373
      @hannahbrinsdon4373 4 роки тому +24

      After I read this it made my day. This totally relates to me in every way.

    • @Tasha-lz1ic
      @Tasha-lz1ic 3 роки тому +18

      I'm on the mend, I lost a friend, I lost my mind

    • @SooshiRole
      @SooshiRole 3 роки тому +14

      Honestly this helped a lot. Knowing that other people get sad randomly too..

    • @victoriajohnson7347
      @victoriajohnson7347 3 роки тому +11

      I thought I was depressed Edit: I cry myself to sleep each night Edit 2: who else is happy with there friends but totally dead with there family

    • @banana8269
      @banana8269 3 роки тому +16

      My life is a mess people toy with my emotions I get used I'm not going to beg for likes but please if you read this in my eyes you are a good person no matter what you've done in your life your a good person in my heart have a good day or night : ]

  • @gloriacoodood2287
    @gloriacoodood2287 4 роки тому +2725

    I literally searched asmr for when you’re sad and I started crying really hard when she asked “are you ok”
    Edit: I wrote this comment a year ago and it's so sad to see everyone so broken :/ i really hope you guys are doing better. Much love ❤️❤️

    • @dollbunhun
      @dollbunhun 4 роки тому +17

      me too, haha...

    • @nissamiris6677
      @nissamiris6677 4 роки тому +6

      Same lol

    • @lolaa5511
      @lolaa5511 4 роки тому +4

      Gloria wienersnitchzel Oof same

    • @gloriacoodood2287
      @gloriacoodood2287 4 роки тому +3

      Sharon Jensen yep :/....

    • @caynichole4345
      @caynichole4345 4 роки тому +2

      i looked up the exact same thing, and i started crying when she asked that too ahhaha

  • @mercury2814
    @mercury2814 3 роки тому +60

    So today my dad found out I was crying over exams and pressure, so he told the principal of the school i do my examinations at! And he was like “why is she always crying?”, like I never even cried in front of him! When I asked dad why he told the principal, he said that if I didn’t want people to know, then I shouldn’t have been weak enough to cry... this made me understand why I don’t like to speak about or show my emotions. It’s safer if I just watch a goddamn video in my room to make me feel better

  • @tecchou6327
    @tecchou6327 3 роки тому +25

    I was sobbing and couldn't breathe while entering the video, but as the video ended, I became extremely calm. I can swear that nobody in my life has relieved me like that. never
    thank you so much..

  • @kori-rr8ro
    @kori-rr8ro 4 роки тому +3451

    i’ve never realized how long it’s been since i’ve felt felt affection to the point where i started crying. i’m in such a horrible state of my life right now that it hurts- thanks so much darling ur the best

    • @lily4351
      @lily4351 4 роки тому +79

      i'm sorry about that, if you want to rant to me in the comment section i'll stick around and listen : ) hope everything turns out well in the end

    • @vinzi3670
      @vinzi3670 4 роки тому +24

      @@lily4351 you took the words out of my mouth. If you need someone to talk with we are here for you😊 Yes I'm a total stranger but still...I wanne help if you need it 😅🤗 good luck and I hope you're feeling better later on😊

    • @karapenney6922
      @karapenney6922 4 роки тому +17

      Yes... Very much yes it's so hard to deal with my brother, it's basically physical AND verbal abuse at this point I'm not even 13 yet and I actually want to die right now.

    • @karapenney6922
      @karapenney6922 4 роки тому +13

      And yes ive talked to my parents about this and they tried to do something about it but it worked for like 3 hours and then didn't work again I'm also a very non confrontational and paranoid person so that's a great trio

    • @staariaatt
      @staariaatt 4 роки тому +6

      Damn same, What happened if you dont mind me asking

  • @meiammaxie
    @meiammaxie 4 роки тому +1746

    she protecc
    she attac
    but most importantly
    *she cures people's depression and makes their happiness come back*

  • @mads3243
    @mads3243 3 роки тому +57

    I know there’s a few of you who continuously come back to this video, so i hope you feel better :)

  • @VVCSoz
    @VVCSoz 3 роки тому +276

    the saddest thing about all of this is, i comfort all my friends until they are 100% fine but my friends don’t have time for me when i need it😔

  • @leahsvlogs8482
    @leahsvlogs8482 4 роки тому +1700

    I respect her because she doesn’t put any ads in her videos 😭❤️

  • @kikichu6249
    @kikichu6249 4 роки тому +9398

    Where’s my ‘actually crying and having a breakdown rn’ squad?
    edit: 3 years later and im still crying.

    • @snirt1259
      @snirt1259 4 роки тому +127

      Jeon Jungkook right here my guy 😭

    • @kikichu6249
      @kikichu6249 4 роки тому +81

      Snirt125 That’s upsetting to hear, I hope you’re doing fine now :(.🧸

    • @snirt1259
      @snirt1259 4 роки тому +85

      Jeon Jungkook Not really, Girl dumped me loved her so much, she was everything i ever wanted

    • @kikichu6249
      @kikichu6249 4 роки тому +50

      Snirt125 Oh noo, I’m sorry for you, it’s her lost and I’m sure you’ll get through soon

    • @mageofrage8316
      @mageofrage8316 4 роки тому +15

      Howdy

  • @alitadepollo7984
    @alitadepollo7984 3 роки тому +49

    Today a dear friend of mine passed away. I hope he'll rest in peace...

  • @GTO_Kong
    @GTO_Kong 9 місяців тому +12

    My Father passed away 3 days ago and I have watched this about 15 times a day. Thank you Taylor.

    • @LokiVariant87
      @LokiVariant87 8 місяців тому +1

      Rest in peace 🕊️✌️

    • @singaporetrainenthusiast
      @singaporetrainenthusiast 4 місяці тому +2

      I know this is late, but I understand you are going through a very tough time without your father. If i put myself in your shoes, i know it will hurt as much as you are hurt. Be strong, and you are. Because strong people cry. The weaker ones don’t.

  • @vay2997
    @vay2997 4 роки тому +1246

    It kind of hurts that the only time i have actually been comforted was on videos. I can’t recall any time in my life where someone truly comforted and cared about me. It really makes me sad.

    • @kimkolwitz
      @kimkolwitz 3 роки тому +33

      It makes me so sad to hear that 😔 everyone and of course also you deserves someone who loves them and cares for them. I hope you'll get better soon because you are great and therefore you shouldn't feel that way ❤️

    • @frankie_airo
      @frankie_airo 3 роки тому +3

      same

    • @liashufflepuffs3584
      @liashufflepuffs3584 3 роки тому +1

      Then take care of yourself 💛

    • @agnes5951
      @agnes5951 3 роки тому +11

      I know you wrote this a while ago, but if you’d like to talk about anything I can send you my IG❤️ I really relate to what you wrote and I would love to listen to your stories

    • @agnes5951
      @agnes5951 3 роки тому +1

      Tanvi Akangire ❤️

  • @gloomsouls
    @gloomsouls 4 роки тому +1698

    God imagine having someone like this in your life like a genuine person like this..
    I'd be so much happier

    • @Haysti2000
      @Haysti2000 4 роки тому +33

      It's possible believe me. You wouldnt desire something that is absolutely impossible, especially because we all want someone like this, so you are not alone with this feeling and there will be people in your life that give this kind of support to you. Give off the energy you would lien to recive and good will come :)

    • @slimymotherflipper
      @slimymotherflipper 4 роки тому +3

      I do! But mine lives on the other side of the world! 😭💔

    • @serenmair3560
      @serenmair3560 3 роки тому +1

      Same

    • @NO-sd5qn
      @NO-sd5qn 3 роки тому +8

      ONLY Jesus can give you TRUE JOY. Not the temporary smile the world gives. ONLY Jesus can save you from hell. If you dont know what to do rn. just cry out to God and ask Him to save you, spend time w Him. You wont regret it.

    • @hozic9929
      @hozic9929 3 роки тому +5

      If I only had a girl to begin with

  • @riskyriskywiggywigi6775
    @riskyriskywiggywigi6775 3 роки тому +289

    It’s sad how depressed everyone is in this day and age, and I feel things are only going to get worse..

    • @armiesgachastudios1534
      @armiesgachastudios1534 2 роки тому +17

      Bc most parents don't know how to treat their children in a nice way most parents are toxic and abusive these days and I had experienced it sadly I hope that the next up coming generations dont have to suffer from toxic parents like most of us did...

    • @emilysmeets8382
      @emilysmeets8382 2 роки тому +13

      I'm 13 and alr done with life

    • @pleunvanewijk7748
      @pleunvanewijk7748 2 роки тому +4

      @@emilysmeets8382 same sis

    • @B3lph3g0r
      @B3lph3g0r 2 роки тому

      No wonder
      Government sucks in many countries

    • @timeprison9249
      @timeprison9249 2 роки тому

      It will get worse

  • @alinasmith3016
    @alinasmith3016 2 роки тому +26

    The sad part is I was crying even more because my mom never gave me this kind of care and still doesn’t when I’m sad, she cared for me but not like this. Thank you

  • @taylorherbertson2004
    @taylorherbertson2004 5 років тому +1574

    Some people may see this as dumb or stupid, but if it helps even one person then it is worth it. And it helped me when i really needed it. So thank you. People like you are undervalued in society, you are special

  • @nissamiris6677
    @nissamiris6677 4 роки тому +374

    To ya’all who are feeling blue:
    Everything shall pass, life will continue. Better things are awaiting so we just need to go through these stuff in order to enjoy better times when they come. Remember, people care for you, I care for you, so don’t be sad because it shall all pass.

    • @User417_
      @User417_ 4 роки тому +4

      Nissam Iris during this virus crisis?! SoCal no the entire country is falling apart because the president is not doing anything about #Shame

    • @nissamiris6677
      @nissamiris6677 4 роки тому +10

      @@User417_ Sorry but I posted this comment 3 months ago. I was totally unaware of how things would turn out in the future and how this outbreak would hit our countries. I do hope it gets better with time... it’s my only expectation.

    • @haileysnuthut5382
      @haileysnuthut5382 4 роки тому +2

      I’m just really sad because my friend is threatening to kill herself and won’t text me back and I was gonna text her and say “Hey, my bestie is making me sad by trying to commit” but then I realized it was her.......

    • @nissamiris6677
      @nissamiris6677 4 роки тому +1

      @@haileysnuthut5382 remind her you want her alive, that every moment you spent together is beautiful and that it'll be hard for you to live without her, sometimes the guilt of leaving people behind forces us to think twice before leaving this world.

    • @user-pr2vk1zr3k
      @user-pr2vk1zr3k 4 роки тому +1

      @@haileysnuthut5382 is everything ok? You don't have to say anything but I'm worried ❤

  • @aidosb3044
    @aidosb3044 3 роки тому +26

    Even tho this is 2 years ago i just wanted to let you know how much this honestly helped me. Im at a though position in life and since im only 14 people think im overExagirating it and listening to this has made me feel safe and just happy in general. So Thank you and hope you the best of luck :)

  • @MissCutechan
    @MissCutechan 2 роки тому +12

    Whenever I just need to have a really hard cry I come back to this video and it lets me FEEL my emotions, but also it makes me feel safe and helps me let go. Thank you so much for making this.

  • @user-qi7wo7zw9z
    @user-qi7wo7zw9z 4 роки тому +163

    everyone deserves a friend like her😭❤️

    • @lovemarjorie16
      @lovemarjorie16 4 роки тому +7

      i have a friend like her, that’s the person i have a crush on actually, and they don’t like me back and that’s why i’m crying- how dare you 😔🤚

  • @supremo838
    @supremo838 4 роки тому +6403

    i feel sadder because i realized i actually am lonely because of the fact that this is my go-to place when i’m having a breakdown and not someone i know in real life.

    • @alyssahayes268
      @alyssahayes268 3 роки тому +439

      This is so true for me too and probably a lot of others in this comment section. I wish I felt comfortable enough with the people in my life to talk to them when I'm sad. I hope you're doing alright today.

    • @ArkenForgeProductions
      @ArkenForgeProductions 3 роки тому +301

      There is nothing wrong with leaning on virtual friends. Support comes from the most unlikely sources sometimes.

    • @defendord4265
      @defendord4265 3 роки тому +54

      Damn on spot

    • @urmom2831
      @urmom2831 3 роки тому +15

      @@defendord4265 aw I’m sorry :(

    • @defendord4265
      @defendord4265 3 роки тому +28

      @@urmom2831 Thanks, u get used to it in the long run after all hah..

  • @aphrodite9267
    @aphrodite9267 3 роки тому +28

    Ive been cryin for 2 hours straight n ended up here she made me smile :) ❤️

    • @cherry_blossom5372
      @cherry_blossom5372 3 роки тому

      I hope you're doing ok now!

    • @aphrodite9267
      @aphrodite9267 3 роки тому

      @@cherry_blossom5372 i am ig :/ thanks for asking ❤️ hope u doin good too

  • @Lee_just_potato
    @Lee_just_potato 3 роки тому +26

    Hi :) if you are reading this just know that I am so proud of you for making It through another day👑! I am happy that you are here😊 don't ever give up do the best that you can💪 you are amazing, strong, smart, beautiful and you are going to get through this! I belive in you and you are not alone in this I am with you🧸(take a deep breath🧘‍♀️, drink some water🥤, everything is going to be ok🦋) ❤ U

  • @sophiealice1944
    @sophiealice1944 5 років тому +838

    She seems so genuinely concerned and it's the most comforting feeling ever if you feelin lonely

  • @Zombeedog
    @Zombeedog 4 роки тому +2277

    **Find someone who doesn't shout at you or question you when you cry**
    Impossible

    • @spider-gay7442
      @spider-gay7442 3 роки тому +81

      Ikr my stepmom mocked me for crying even tho she was the one who made me cry

    • @itzlylaplayz5830
      @itzlylaplayz5830 3 роки тому +35

      Kassandra Draws are you ok I’m sorry

    • @spider-gay7442
      @spider-gay7442 3 роки тому +33

      @@itzlylaplayz5830 yeah I'm fine she hates me😅 fun fact she threatened to kill me

    • @itzlylaplayz5830
      @itzlylaplayz5830 3 роки тому +17

      Kassandra Draws what the hell did you tell your other parent

    • @spider-gay7442
      @spider-gay7442 3 роки тому +16

      @@itzlylaplayz5830 my dad was in the room

  • @mercury2814
    @mercury2814 3 роки тому +31

    I think I know why we find comfort in strangers, atleast for me, I’m worrying that if I tell people I know, they tell someone and then more and more people know about my insecurities and worries, which isn’t a comfortable thought at all, I don’t know what my friends and family talk about me when I”m not there, but with strangers you can sort of feel comfortable in knowing that these people have no connection to you or your relatives, talking about your feelings have no consequences, mum never understood how I can find comfort in telling strangers how I feel, but just the fact that they’re strangers, makes it all the easier.... for me at least

  • @boxdoesASMR
    @boxdoesASMR 3 роки тому +7

    Ive been having a break down for the past 3 hours and the one person who supposed to be here for me isn't, so this made me feel so much better, thank you so much

  • @ifergalicious4695
    @ifergalicious4695 3 роки тому +2566

    When you have nobody to talk to so you’re here to sob to a video

    • @ArkenForgeProductions
      @ArkenForgeProductions 3 роки тому +36

      Speak friend. We will listen.

    • @ifergalicious4695
      @ifergalicious4695 3 роки тому +54

      Jack's Junkyard Idk I lost all my friends and I literally have nobody to go to. At this point I want to give up it’s too much pain.

    • @ArkenForgeProductions
      @ArkenForgeProductions 3 роки тому +12

      m g I’m so sorry you’re going through that. Such a heavy burden to bear.
      Why did your friends leave?

    • @ArkenForgeProductions
      @ArkenForgeProductions 3 роки тому +9

      Speak your piece friends. We have ears and willingness.

    • @moodiephillips4925
      @moodiephillips4925 3 роки тому +8

      @@ArkenForgeProductions my mom won’t respond and she’s out of town and I love her so much and she’s the only person who really knew how to comfort me

  • @TheSierawr
    @TheSierawr 4 роки тому +125

    Honestly cried the entire time then found myself answering your questions on what happened and why I was upset, this really helped me a lot when I didn’t have anyone to talk to. Thank you.

    • @phoenix_c2018
      @phoenix_c2018 4 роки тому +1

      Sierra H i hope you are feeling better now. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me. Everything will be ok

  • @bippityboppity4322
    @bippityboppity4322 2 роки тому +7

    I broke down crying and said “thank you” out loud when you gave me a hug. I needed one so bad and it made me feel loved, I needed it even if it was artificial it’s been such a long time since I’ve gotten a genuine hug, so I really appreciate this video

  • @TheStoryGamer3500
    @TheStoryGamer3500 2 роки тому +11

    My best-friend decided that she didn’t wanna be my friend anymore and I just wanted to cry my self to sleep but this video helped me fall asleep.

  • @sirenserenity6202
    @sirenserenity6202 4 роки тому +3106

    Am I the only one who immediately breaks down crying when someone asks if I’m okay?
    Edit: dang, I didn’t think that my comment would get so many replies. I’m glad I’m not alone 😁
    Also, I am fairly new to doing ASMR so if you would like to support my channel by checking out my videos that would be much appreciated. (I apologize about the low quality, I’m using my phone to do the videos but I’m trying on getting better filming equipment)

    • @wayverleesoulsong
      @wayverleesoulsong 4 роки тому +8

      Siren Serenity me too

    • @schnitzelg0tt
      @schnitzelg0tt 4 роки тому +4

      me too!

    • @plaguedoctor5639
      @plaguedoctor5639 4 роки тому +51

      I don’t really like it when people try to talk to me when I’m sad because I start to break down completely and it makes the situation worse especially in public.

    • @brxghtmoon6620
      @brxghtmoon6620 4 роки тому +34

      When I start talking about why I’m crying tons of tears come out

    • @cece5119
      @cece5119 4 роки тому

      Siren Serenity nope

  • @DestinyyVictoria
    @DestinyyVictoria 5 років тому +1774

    Taylor: so what happened
    Me: I was crying like always
    Taylor: what did u do
    Me: I listened to sad music that made me cry even more

  • @priyabhattacharya1818
    @priyabhattacharya1818 5 місяців тому +2

    Doesn't matter how many times I watch this how many years apart. It gives same comfort everytime. THANK You

  • @dustinw3579
    @dustinw3579 3 роки тому +43

    "Asmr for when your sad" I'm always sad...

    • @bananen_katze3171
      @bananen_katze3171 3 роки тому +7

      I hope you are happy now and no more sad. And if you are still sad and don't wanna talk about it, here's a cookie🍪

  • @ellammae
    @ellammae 4 роки тому +434

    “i just looked at you with the crown on and thought ah, you look beautiful. caught me off guard.”
    that made my heart melt 🥺

  • @amarisachavez6871
    @amarisachavez6871 5 років тому +6525

    ~based on a true story~
    taylor: hey, you okay?
    me: *instantly breaks down crying*

  • @user-vm2sp3ld3p
    @user-vm2sp3ld3p 2 роки тому +4

    I was so depressed and never thought this video will make me any better but 3minutes later I can't stop smiling! Thank you for this amazing experience

  • @serenacs8760
    @serenacs8760 3 роки тому +7

    I never thought I'd end up here. But this is so comforting. I like to read people's comments who feel the same. :')

  • @dorkidani4052
    @dorkidani4052 4 роки тому +769

    on the first sentence “hey, are you okay?” i started sobbing. she sounded like she really really cared and i’m in a horrible state of mind and no one has cared

    • @kqzphobia
      @kqzphobia 4 роки тому +24

      i hope ure feeling at least a bit better now ! u seem so sweet and u deserve the world

    • @dorkidani4052
      @dorkidani4052 4 роки тому +23

      kaitlyn :[] that actually made me smile. i’m still feeling quite the same but little things like what you said can help a lot. thank you :)

    • @emmk.2615
      @emmk.2615 4 роки тому +7

      Your Local Legend DC hey let me know if you want to talk anytime I’ll be here :) you are sooo damn important and if you EVER doubt that please send me a msg so I can remind you that you are in fact, amazing. If you’re ever feeling down and don’t know who to talk to I’ll always be here just send a msg :) hope you have an awesome day☺️

    • @charlie-lr1xu
      @charlie-lr1xu 4 роки тому +2

      yeah same here 🥺💜

    • @HunterIsHeree
      @HunterIsHeree 4 роки тому +3

      Your Local Legend DC when she said “are you okay” i said no while sobbing and telling her whats wrong

  • @h.h.2090
    @h.h.2090 5 років тому +351

    🌻TIMESTAMPS🌻
    0:00 Comforting talk/Wiping with tissue
    1:49 tea cup tapping/sipping
    2:52 Comforting talk/wiping with tissue
    3:13 Tapping and scratching on crown
    3:56 Hand movements
    4:09 Tapping on candle
    5:37 Tapping on and tipping over matches jar
    6:29 Matches jar lid sounds
    7:01 Hug and comforting talk
    7:22 Lid sounds
    7:33 Playing around with matches in jar
    8:00 Lighting match and candle
    9:08 More tea drinking
    9:26 Playing with kalimba with face brushing (with makeup brush) and letting you vent
    13:37 Playing with kalimba with feather face brushing and feather arm brushing
    17:50 Reading book with tapping, scratching, and tracing on book.
    22:16 page scratching and tapping and page turning
    22:57 Reading page of book with tracing on page
    26:55 feather brushing

  • @Julia-uj5wp
    @Julia-uj5wp 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you, I was very sad and I couldn't find anyone to relieve my sadness except you😭

  • @ericawhite2830
    @ericawhite2830 3 роки тому +38

    Her: “It’s okay”
    Me: “NO it’s not I’m moving away from my bestie” 🥺

    • @ericawhite2830
      @ericawhite2830 3 роки тому +1

      @Elif Er thanks! I’m currently crying again since I moved 😞

  • @stupidpissbag
    @stupidpissbag 4 роки тому +37

    when you said “don’t be sorry” i truly felt that. im always apologizing and this just helped me in a way. thank you.

  • @mr.dickbutttheog2064
    @mr.dickbutttheog2064 3 роки тому +794

    “No no no.....Don’t be sorry...! Don’t be sorry....!”
    Jesus, that made me cry real harder. I’m a huge crybaby (always has been from birth and childhood) and I grew up in family that thinks crying a sign of weakness and would basically shame me for crying. It’s gotten to the point that I would apologize and feel guilty for even crying in front a few people or more. I’ve been depressed recently because of my family and many other things and hearing those words just increase my sobbing because not many people would say that to me

    • @slowtourtuscany6406
      @slowtourtuscany6406 3 роки тому +12

      Aww are you ok now?

    • @monafly561
      @monafly561 3 роки тому +12

      I empathize with you so much my friend...

    • @honeydew_6995
      @honeydew_6995 3 роки тому +9

      Why is this literary my house hold?

    • @needyasf3949
      @needyasf3949 3 роки тому +7

      felt this even if i did cry in front of my family and they said its okay i know deep inside they'd think its ridiculous and I'd need to grow up

    • @mr.dickbutttheog2064
      @mr.dickbutttheog2064 3 роки тому +5

      @@needyasf3949 Same tho, even if they don't show it, I can somewhat sense that they're annoyed with my crying

  • @queenvessel
    @queenvessel 3 роки тому +4

    this is so comforting. i had a bad night, a lot of suicidal thoughts. i feel so safe watching this. thank you darling.

    • @tiasarkis2039
      @tiasarkis2039 3 роки тому +3

      Hold on tighter, it’ll get better, I promise. If you ever wanna talk to someone I’m here to lsn and comfort you

    • @queenvessel
      @queenvessel 3 роки тому +1

      @@tiasarkis2039 thank you so much lovely, i’m doing a lot better now 💞

    • @tiasarkis2039
      @tiasarkis2039 3 роки тому +1

      @@queenvessel I’m glad u are!💗

    • @tiasarkis2039
      @tiasarkis2039 3 роки тому +1

      @@queenvessel hey! How have you been? How’s life been treating you?

    • @queenvessel
      @queenvessel 2 роки тому +1

      @@tiasarkis2039 oh wow i never saw you checked in..well, i am better since the last time i watched this video however i saw something deeply upsetting and disturbing today so here i am! thank you for checking on me though. it means a lot

  • @kiaracamacho5751
    @kiaracamacho5751 3 роки тому +18

    Today I was having a bad day and started to cry infront of my mother whom assumed I was faking and laughed at me which triggered an anxiety attack that caused hyperventilating and dizzy spells and I really really needed this.

    • @shigbie2088
      @shigbie2088 3 роки тому +3

      Are you ok now? Sorry to say this about your mom but she really sucks for laughing at you.

    • @cassidy7285
      @cassidy7285 3 роки тому +2

      this happened to me the other day

    • @cassidy7285
      @cassidy7285 3 роки тому +2

      it sucks asf man

  • @BlinkOfAnEye1331
    @BlinkOfAnEye1331 4 роки тому +201

    These are mainly for me but, they are some of the saying that made me feel happier
    00:55
    01:07
    02:57
    03:03
    05:11
    07:09
    12:30
    15:40

  • @athenacrosby852
    @athenacrosby852 4 роки тому +315

    I was sad, but wasn’t crying before this. When someone finally reassured things were ok made me break into tears...

    • @juliapreston4259
      @juliapreston4259 4 роки тому +3

      Athena Crosby Same!! And now I can't stop

    • @phoenix_c2018
      @phoenix_c2018 4 роки тому +1

      Me too

    • @agh720
      @agh720 3 роки тому

      Yeah, the feeling of someone caring about me is just something I didn’t know I needed

  • @laurahenderson6429
    @laurahenderson6429 9 місяців тому +1

    The fact that I went from crying to almost falling asleep and forgetting on why I was even sad in the first place, is incredible. Thank you ❤ it is much appreciated

  • @teastillwell5736
    @teastillwell5736 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much, this week has been awful and it’s really nice to feel understood. Even if it’s by a bunch of strangers online, i hope you all have a good day/night

  • @DeadSilence-pt2hr
    @DeadSilence-pt2hr 5 років тому +3225

    I am not sad...
    But I will still watch the video.

  • @galaxyfoxlps9059
    @galaxyfoxlps9059 4 роки тому +308

    Her: Im glad you stopped crying
    Me: *still balling my eyes out like a baby*

  • @benviehman8640
    @benviehman8640 3 роки тому +1

    I have probably watched this video ten times, and each time, I've felt better after watching it.
    This is truly an amazing video. The world needs more of this.
    Thanks for making me feel better, my friend.

  • @Momo-ft2kl
    @Momo-ft2kl 3 роки тому

    No matter how many times I've watched this video, it still makes me feel like someone cares about me. Thank you so very much 💜

  • @yhuhu1
    @yhuhu1 5 років тому +669

    Exactly the video i needed . I hope you're okay Asmr Darling because sometimes we do things for others that we want for ourself like some support .

  • @dontbesadyouaresothicc2068
    @dontbesadyouaresothicc2068 5 років тому +2595

    Anyone else come back and watch this when they were actually crying? 😕😕💕

  • @camperavan
    @camperavan 2 роки тому +1

    bro the "your very important to so many people" is what got my tears flowing again.

  • @Abbie11336
    @Abbie11336 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for making this video I've been in a dark place recently and listening to this when I'm going to bed and thinking bad thoughts just really helps me

  • @MegaWanted16
    @MegaWanted16 5 років тому +2206

    (00:13) Darling: are you ok?
    Me: no, I'm not ok. UA-cam has now 2 ADS.

    • @unsolicitedd
      @unsolicitedd 5 років тому +51

      melon melon so true.

    • @fluffyjello
      @fluffyjello 5 років тому +38

      Like simultaneously, 60 seconds min.

    • @unsolicitedd
      @unsolicitedd 5 років тому +46

      Abisha Zaki Ar-Rafi exactly!! Like, I skip the first, then there’s a minute long I skippable one.

    • @trainlover16
      @trainlover16 5 років тому +14

      Lel, I hate that too.

    • @aylaholgate9623
      @aylaholgate9623 5 років тому +4

      Yessssss

  • @christinasohl
    @christinasohl 4 роки тому +60

    As a teen who struggles with anxiety , this video really helped.. life is so hard and stressful and I'm trying SO hard to be positive. I'm hoping tomorrow is a better day..

    • @christinasohl
      @christinasohl 4 роки тому +1

      @Blind Kid I'm doing better. Sometimes my mind gets the best of me, but I'm getting through it!!

    • @oli_playz_for_fun3307
      @oli_playz_for_fun3307 4 роки тому +1

      Me too

  • @laurenmarie7045
    @laurenmarie7045 3 роки тому +4

    You don’t understand how much I needed this video tonight. Thank you for making me feel a little bit better so I can get some rest and tackle the day tomorrow

  • @syd_nene
    @syd_nene 3 роки тому +24

    i feel like ive been put on hold my entire life.

  • @begays
    @begays 4 роки тому +3303

    im so alone i've resorted to youtube roleplays to comfort me when im having a breakdown lmao

    • @lilbabya.
      @lilbabya. 4 роки тому +165

      Me and my declining emotional stability felt this.

    • @wayverleesoulsong
      @wayverleesoulsong 4 роки тому +56

      clown king my depression felt this

    • @randomstranger5
      @randomstranger5 4 роки тому +19

      clown king same 😔

    • @subub4928
      @subub4928 4 роки тому +9

      the way all this matched up to how i been feeling

    • @arispachis4215
      @arispachis4215 4 роки тому +4

      Relatable😢😥

  • @acecola8295
    @acecola8295 5 років тому +1325

    ASMR Darling: The only ASMRtist to make you wish you were sad

    • @ikeya9939
      @ikeya9939 5 років тому +6

      Gimme the depression for full immersion plz ASMR gods and goddesses

    • @lilyjoseph5104
      @lilyjoseph5104 5 років тому +17

      I guess you could call me *L* *u* *C* *k* *Y* then 😃

    • @anonymoushalo6785
      @anonymoushalo6785 5 років тому +1

      I know right

    • @stephenferguson
      @stephenferguson 5 років тому +1

      Lol ikr I wanna be sad and teary 😭💔

    • @dewy3288
      @dewy3288 5 років тому +1

      Ace Cola yea I’m a sad boi

  • @ilovemrfrog
    @ilovemrfrog 3 роки тому +15

    Im here because, I’m scared my dad is going to do something to himself, he’s gets really bad depressed once in a while and I take after him. I’m just scared for him. I’m also here because I’m stressing over school and coming out to my parents. I’m already an emotional person and when ever I start crying I can’t stop until 3-4 hours later. Plus my anxiety is really high when I’m at school, I’ve almost cried in class, I also have self confidence. And I don’t know if I feel comfortable in my own body.. I could go on and on about what’s wrong in my life but these I had to get off my chest...
    You has really helped me through all of this.. 💖🖤
    Edit -
    And I’m back in the morning crying again

    • @asdfdfsj
      @asdfdfsj 3 роки тому +1

      I hope Ur okay now, im just helping ppl out.

    • @tiasarkis2039
      @tiasarkis2039 3 роки тому +1

      Hello, how is your dad and how are you feeling now? I hope it got better :) update us!

    • @ilovemrfrog
      @ilovemrfrog 3 роки тому +1

      @@tiasarkis2039 Helllllllo, my dad he is getting help and doing better, I’m doing okay, just stressed about my sexuality, pronouns, and school. But my friends have been helping me through it all, I am going by they/them for now, and I’m bi :) thanks for checking in!!

    • @tiasarkis2039
      @tiasarkis2039 3 роки тому +1

      @@ilovemrfrog I’m glad you have your friends around!! And I hope your dad gets better asap. Take care of yourself!

    • @rosecabezas8249
      @rosecabezas8249 3 роки тому

      @@ilovemrfrog im going through something similar, we can get through this together :))

  • @elliana.desselle1200
    @elliana.desselle1200 2 роки тому +1

    She so sweet 🥲 the fact she made a whole video this helped so much and I don’t know how to thank you asmr darling ❤️

  • @teagod9323
    @teagod9323 5 років тому +4319

    Asmr For When Your Sad
    Me:I found a video I can watch everyday

  • @planettmarss2572
    @planettmarss2572 4 роки тому +6141

    why does someone caring about me make me cry more

    • @charlie-lr1xu
      @charlie-lr1xu 4 роки тому +239

      i know! im not used to it 🥺💜

    • @stupidfantasma
      @stupidfantasma 4 роки тому +33

      Bro

    • @phoenixkinghorn5233
      @phoenixkinghorn5233 4 роки тому +300

      it’s something psychological. When someone try’s to make us feel better we just cry more for some reason

    • @hehexd450
      @hehexd450 4 роки тому +21

      Yea me too

    • @cheesecakeisgood4404
      @cheesecakeisgood4404 4 роки тому +29

      That sounds like something sayori would say

  • @valentinkaprincesska3097
    @valentinkaprincesska3097 3 роки тому +2

    One of my favourite ASMR videos ever!! Every time when I feel sad or lonely I watch this video and really feel better😘Taylor is a real angel!! 👼

  • @animenerd4307
    @animenerd4307 2 роки тому +2

    This helped me to much thank you, I was breaking down crying and I stumbled along this video and it calmed me down so much. U make this video so relatable that it feels as if ur actually there thank you so much u r amazing

  • @Lunano2
    @Lunano2 4 роки тому +665

    Me: *"loves" to bottle up all of my emotions and frustrations to a tea*
    Darling: heyy are you okay?
    Me: *releases the tear kraken*

    • @user39104
      @user39104 4 роки тому +4

      Luna Neemus SAME! I feel u, and love the “to a tea” bc..ME

    • @purple_skies05
      @purple_skies05 3 роки тому +2

      @@katelyn-marie-918 I'm so sorry sweetheart, please feel better, please know your beautiful, I hope you learn to love yourself 💜💜

    • @Alex-gb7mg
      @Alex-gb7mg 3 роки тому

      it’s been 7 months has stuff become better?

    • @azrael7773
      @azrael7773 3 роки тому

      @@katelyn-marie-918 hey I am always here for you ik how hard it can get reply to me I will give you my insta so we can talk if you want to

    • @l0litsl3x65
      @l0litsl3x65 3 роки тому +1

      I love this comment so much. It made me feel so better after my friend blocked me on Roblox because I told him I was bisexual. ✨ 🥺 🏳️‍🌈

  • @lorelieplum81
    @lorelieplum81 5 років тому +263

    You're a very thoughtful ASMR artist. It's very appreciated.

  • @andygmf3197
    @andygmf3197 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this video. I dont know how many times I have warched it in the last months. It always help to calm me down.

  • @sim09000613
    @sim09000613 Рік тому

    When I came home from Butlins, Skegness Resort last August (in 2021), I desperately needed this as I was so depressed that time as no one was there for me until I at least remembered this video was here for me. You are so good at cheering us up when we feel sad Taylor, I love you so much with all my heart. Xx

  • @Viewer962
    @Viewer962 4 роки тому +566

    When I’m sad I always wish I could just hold on to someone. Am I the only one that does that? It seems like I always make friends with ppl who hate touch.

    • @BooksandBuns
      @BooksandBuns 3 роки тому +9

      ✋ me too

    • @qtvxv1073
      @qtvxv1073 3 роки тому +21

      I don't like being touched but when it comes to my friends being sad I let them touch me and hug me or whatever they need

    • @animalswithbecky3925
      @animalswithbecky3925 3 роки тому +1

      No, not just you. I do it all the time.

    • @Avcado_-pw5mu
      @Avcado_-pw5mu 3 роки тому +2

      I wish I had someone like a sister rn to hug so they could be with me in lockdown☹️

    • @NextGenChills
      @NextGenChills 3 роки тому

      I lost someone and now I dont know how I'm gonna be for the next 4 years unless they decide to come back.

  • @melodyquinones8451
    @melodyquinones8451 4 роки тому +246

    This comment section is not helping my sadness these stories are brutal

  • @whyyyouuu2285
    @whyyyouuu2285 3 роки тому +7

    That instrument was beautiful

  • @jacquelinemacgillivray5560
    @jacquelinemacgillivray5560 2 роки тому

    I came here to watch this nearly three years ago after a bad break up and would watch this a lot to cope. I’d never really express the emotions I was feeling in front of my friends or family during the aftermath of it all cause I knew what most of them would tell me. Listening to this and watching this was one of the small things daily that helped me get through it, so I just wanted to come back to say thanks 🙏💕

  • @rachie5025
    @rachie5025 5 років тому +521

    i’m emotional bc she’s so sweet and an absolute angel omg we don’t deserve someone like you taylor!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @avinashthakur4105
      @avinashthakur4105 5 років тому +2

      Then do we deserve better?! , lol😄

    • @alienpopcorn3417
      @alienpopcorn3417 5 років тому +1

      Wait so she's not real...
      But...
      I want her to be real...
      But angels ar--....
      😢

    • @handsoap3417
      @handsoap3417 5 років тому +2

      I like how taylor puts tissue on the camera to feel like were actually getting a tissue on our face.

    • @rachie5025
      @rachie5025 5 років тому +1

      no it’s that she is so much sweeter and understanding than most people in our society, we need more people like taylor

  • @mkelly80
    @mkelly80 5 років тому +1906

    Taylor: So what happened?
    Me: UA-cam has 2 ads now
    Taylor: What did you do?
    Me: I watched Netflix

    • @dontreadmyprofilepicture.7315
      @dontreadmyprofilepicture.7315 5 років тому +38

      Imma Arianator omg I’m not the only one

    • @corazonthewolfgamer18
      @corazonthewolfgamer18 5 років тому +20

      Don’t read my profile picture. Even I thought I was the only one. I hate UA-cam for that but otherwise I love UA-cam.

    • @Alejandra-im9iy
      @Alejandra-im9iy 5 років тому +17

      I thought it was only like my phone having a glitch but it’s terrible, the two ads I mean, not UA-cam

    • @callumpeters2529
      @callumpeters2529 5 років тому +9

      you know if you skip one ad it skips both unless theyre unskippable then i feel sorry for you

    • @savannahkennedy6059
      @savannahkennedy6059 5 років тому +2

      They gotta make money somehow. I guess it could be they added more ads so people would spend money to get no adds. Otherwise, I thought it was a glitch too and am now saddened but its understandable.

  • @DianaMirelly
    @DianaMirelly Рік тому +3

    The crown and the “queen that you are” got me 😭❤️ happy tears ✨tysm

  • @cookiechan5961
    @cookiechan5961 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this....I've been crying since last night. My eyes are swollen and my head hurts so much. I definitely feel better after seeing this. Thank you so so much! God bless you, dear...💜

  • @youtubevideos9618
    @youtubevideos9618 3 роки тому +605

    *To anyone who sees this comment: I'm proud of you. I'm proud of you for:*
    *doing that thing*
    *for getting out of bed for interacting with that person*
    *for fighting your demons again*
    *for everything you didn't feel like you could do.*
    *Keep going boo, you're stronger than you think❤❤❤*

    • @monafly561
      @monafly561 3 роки тому +10

      You are amazing, hope you're life is going well 💙

    • @tiaradh650
      @tiaradh650 2 роки тому +10

      this made me feel good so thank you kind stranger xx

    • @stephaniecourteoreille5972
      @stephaniecourteoreille5972 2 роки тому +8

      thank you so much
      despite the fact i'm not even a teen yet I really just wish I could talk about my issue's and self consciousness but my troubles mentioned before prevent me
      going online and seeing just.. this comment makes me so happy people like this exist
      thank you for being a kind person

    • @hllo6152
      @hllo6152 2 роки тому +4

      Ty

    • @ag09fernandezryannedenisse2
      @ag09fernandezryannedenisse2 2 роки тому +7

      Ur comment made me cry even more, but thank you

  • @faithxJx6
    @faithxJx6 5 років тому +807

    asmr for when you're sad...
    can I have this just in the background of my entire existence

  • @cupidwoman
    @cupidwoman 3 роки тому +4

    i had a really rough month and this is the only thing that actually made me feel better, thank you taylor

    • @jasleenmathur7378
      @jasleenmathur7378 3 роки тому +1

      Well my g I’ve had a really rough year it’s okay tho the pain is temporary (I hope) swag is forever ✨

  • @tinss686
    @tinss686 3 роки тому +55

    Me: *crying at night because of my complicated friendship and wondering if I'm a bad person or if I'm being mentaly abused*
    Her: *actually cares about me*
    Me: *CRYING HARDER*

    • @hllo6152
      @hllo6152 2 роки тому

      👁👄👁👌

    • @waterslicer3618
      @waterslicer3618 2 роки тому

      I had good friends for 7 years...they just ditched me, nobody wants to be my friend(´ . .̫ . `)

    • @xavierharris9749
      @xavierharris9749 2 роки тому +1

      I felt that a lot after 6th grade even though I changed a lot intellectually, maturely, and mentally
      I'm in 9th grade now, 15 years old, and I'm ready to move out of the darkness into a brighter future of friendship and belief

    • @tinss686
      @tinss686 2 роки тому

      @@xavierharris9749 bro, I'm also 15. My friendship is mostly okay now!! I have new problems tho :') But I'm glad that you're happy!

    • @j4wbr34krr6
      @j4wbr34krr6 2 роки тому

      @@tinss686 hey, it’s been three months how’s it goin’?