"You Can't Control Them" - Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубліковано 13 лип 2023
- In this khutbah reminder clip, Ustadh Nouman explores the concept of guiding our loved ones towards the righteous path while acknowledging the limits of our influence. He highlights the importance of gentle reminders as a means to inspire positive change, recognizing that we cannot exert control over others' decisions and actions.
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Our role is to deliver a message that helps people remember, but we are not in control of others' actions. Guidance ultimately rests in Gods hands. Remind people in a loving manner, without trying to control or force compliance. Accepting the lack of control over others is important, as nobody has ultimate control over someone else. Pressuring or forcing someone into action leads to actions without genuine intentions. The Prophet's responsibility was great, yet he was reminded that he could not guide those he loved. It is important to follow the Messenger's model and understand one's limited role as a reminder.
Yes agree, but we can supplicate to Allah to guide those we love.
What makes you cry?
When Prophet Muhammad ﷺ Said "O lord, my ummah my ummah.❤️🇵🇰
Peace and blessings be upon him
May Allah guide us always to the right path
Ameen 🤲🏾🤲🏼🤲🤲🏽❤️
Ameen
'' What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
🌸Don't forget your five daily prayers🌸
Allah guided me through Nouman Ali Khan after my father passed away
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said:
يٰۤاَ يُّهَا الَّذِيْنَ اٰمَنُوْا قُوْۤا اَنْفُسَكُمْ وَاَ هْلِيْكُمْ نَا رًا وَّقُوْدُهَا النَّا سُ وَا لْحِجَا رَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلٰٓئِكَةٌ غِلَا ظٌ شِدَا دٌ لَّا يَعْصُوْنَ اللّٰهَ مَاۤ اَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُوْنَ مَا يُؤْمَرُوْنَ
"O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded."
(QS. At-Tahrim: Verse 6)
Ever since our childhood we keep on listening "Salat" is must from age of 7,then after 10 years of age if child is not praying he/she should be beaten by parents.
So that stands false I presume,only gentle reminder is enough 😊
Women should read surah maryam on a regular basis, to understand that they don't need anyone else but Allah for provision🔥🇵🇰
@nahedgemil8237 yes we fasten our camel and seek.
our rizq and what is written for us will come our way even if it is between two mountains and what is not for us won't come to us even of it is between our lips. We make the effort and Allah will put blessings in it. I don't think this person meant sit on your behind and money will fall from the sky. Make the effort, seek your provision and Allah will guide us to it and it to us, ameen. Sending you salaams and duas from Pretoria, South Africa 🇿🇦 😊
@nahedgemil8237es they can get jobs , but women has to pay for maid and groceries if she can't fulfill that roll
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: “Send prayer upon me abundantly on the day of Jumu’ah (Friday) & on the night of Jumu’ah (Thursday night) for he who sends prayer upon me one time, Allāh sends prayer upon him 10 times.”
● [صحيح الجامع ١٢٠٩]
Very true. And comforting as well.
But sad at the same time 😞
Yeah, right.....may Allah make it easy for us all and our families 🤲🤲
O Allah, I ask You for beneficial knowledge, good provision and acceptable deeds.”
May Allah guide us to the straight path which leads us to jannah✨
SubhanAllah! This lecture made perfect sense to me! جزاك الله خيرا for always teaching beneficial knowledge with understanding, compassion and love for others! الله اكبر 🤲 لا اله الا الله
Absolute value.
This is what we as Muslim should be listening to with actions😢
What a blessed wife you have to have a husband like you, mashallah, someone so knowledgeable and full of imaan, delivering and deciphering Islam to all of us the way you do. May Allah swt keep blessing you and yours and keep you among us for decades to come. You're an absolute gem! Jazak Allah Khair for all your efforts! 🌻
This is exactly what am going through grateful Allah has given me an answer to let go thank you sheikh
Assalamalaikum sir u r big fan from dubai ..mashallah mashallah u r the best
JazakAllah. May Allah bless you brother Ameen
Jazakallahu khayran
جزاکم اللّہ خیرا🌻
Very Strong words.
Jazakallahu Khair ❤
Mashallah
Very good advice
May Allah bless him and reward him immensely
JazakAllahu khairan
Mashaa Allah
JazakaAllah ustaaza
Jazak Allah khair
Good reminder
Barakallahu fiqum
Jazakallah khair
Masha Allah💚💚
MashaAllah , such a wisdom 👌
SubhanAllah ,, how ustad knows what I need to listen this week ,,u are a great medium for us ,, Alhamdulillah
I feel pressured sometimes, thank you
Such a good Scholar this Man is .. How he teaches us the smallest of things in the most gentle manner is spellbinding .. ALLAH AZWAJAL bless you immensely, Sir .. ♥️
Alhamdulillah! Beneficial information!
May Allah reward you
And thank you.
Allahu Akbar, thank you
You speak well...even though I am Hindu U I can listen to you only because of the way you speak...Goodluck with your teachings and videos!
May Allah bless you and your family my brother
Jazak Allah khair brother
Thank you ustaz n to your team as well
may Allah swt reward, increase n bless you all for e effort n all you do for us Alhamdhulillah Jazakumullah Khairan Allahumma Thsumma Aameen
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Great reminder, thank you
Need to listen this daily in the morning so that I know what's my job .
Jazak'Allah Khair for this video♥
Mashallah nobody explained all of this that much Clear ❤
Alhamdulillah ❤
My sister Karlee recently had a son I might teach about Islam when he,s 8 or 9 years old.
Very true we can’t control anyone we can just pray for them
SubganAllah so true
MasyaAllah..
great msg
best grand super content ustad..really understood the philosphy
Sad but true.....
Most awaited series... Pls address my question...#AskNAK
Well at least coz we made them pray they dont commit sin of not praying. N hope that guide from Allah will come to our famity
The beard is back alhamdulillah
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Could you also please speak on the topic about the correct way to remind someone!
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As-Salaam Alaikum
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💊 1: The main message is that our role is to remind and deliver a message, but we cannot control or guide others.
💊 2: The frustration and pain of seeing loved ones not change despite reminders is discussed, using the example of Abu Talib, the Prophet's uncle.
💊 3: The Prophet's love for his people and desire for their guidance is highlighted, but he is reminded that he cannot guide whoever he loves.
💊 4: The Prophet's experiences serve as lessons for all of humanity, teaching us that we cannot control the outcomes or choices of others.
💊 5: The importance of gentle and respectful reminders is emphasized, as opposed to nagging, criticizing, or forcing others.
💊 6: Actions are only valuable if accompanied by sincere intentions, and trying to control someone's behavior for the wrong reasons is worthless.
💊 7: The Prophet's profound sense of responsibility is acknowledged, but he is reminded that even he cannot guide those he loves.
💊 8: The natural inclination to protect and guide loved ones is discussed, but it should be done within the framework of understanding that guidance is ultimately in the hands of the individual.
I am so sad my family can’t get the Message and doesn’t seem to be interested in it, they are absorbed by Duniya and worse than that they are trying to misguide me, they can’t stand the fact that I want iltizam they say we know religion more than you our fathers and mothers and grandmothers knew better, this is a new religion you are bringing, It makes me so sad, I know it’s a trial and a tough one, May Allah make it easy for all Muslims and for me
I am watching from Algeria 🇩🇿
Are there any duas one can make for older biological brothers that are quite old enough to get married, but haven't socialized at all outside of the house, you know, having a normal life by muslim standards of living in a community? Living with a network of friends to hang out every now and then? Any good duas I can make for them to hopefully with Allah's Will and Good timing, they will at least make the efforts to improve their lives? Jazakumullahu khayr
Sir please quote any authentic Hadith for saying H. Abu Talib (AS) didn't accept Islam .....
So, it's very frustrating to hear such a thing... Prophet has himself washed his body...Was he mushrik, had prophet never washed him...Such kind of Hadith are from the enemies of Prophet and his family
I did some research and found that the overwhelming majority of scholars agree that Abu Talib died a non-beleiver. There are some authentic hadiths but I don't remember
@@sans4124 what are these scholars saying about Muawiyah and Jezid? And Abu Sufyan?
@@vasiframazanli4416 I don't know. I left islam am looking back peeking at it seeing if I want to come back but ultimately I just can't.
@@vasiframazanli4416 I have very limited knowledge, I only looked for what I needed to confirm.
Abu Darda reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
Verily, the angels lower their wings for the seeker of knowledge. The inhabitants of the heavens and earth, even the fish in the depths of the water, seek forgiveness for the scholar. The virtue of the scholar over the worshiper is like the superiority of the moon over the stars. The scholars are the inheritors of the Prophets. They do not leave behind gold or silver coins, but rather they leave behind knowledge. Whoever has taken hold of it has been given an abundant share.
Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 3641 Grade: Sahih
Abu Talib was not Muslim..? But I have heard many ahle sunna sheikhs and scholars say that actually he was?
You will see if I am just reminder. read the verses of Dhou Al Qarnaine . I got all
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Which ayah?
Ustad Noman. Can you please call Sheikh Uthman and clarify your position on music in islam. I donated to Bayana and this is a request from you please. Jazakallah Khair
Ya Rabb, now, i not see translate to Indonesian language why?
Abu Talib died a muslim as
But nauman Bhai we all are reminding ppl of Pakistan to fight against injustice but we are domestically corrupt
Abu Taleb’s only crime is being the father of Ali as he is levelled such hatered but by levelling that upon him, we are disrespecting Rasu Allah saww because his nikkah was done by someone who is called a non believer. How will we face Rasul Allah sawas on the Day of reckoning?
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Someone tell desi parents that
The ayah does definitely Not refer to Abu Talib (as). Why?
1) propaganda of muawiyah (hated Imam Ali(as) and thus the father of Ali(as)
2) Abu Talib performed nikah of the prophet (saw).
3) the ayah does not specifically refer to Abu Talib (as) as is commonly mentioned bc as the Ustad said the word is “ ihbabta” and not “ ihbabtahu”.
4) logic would dictate why would the prophet (saw) when Abu Talib(as) died and Khadija (as) prophet (saw) would call it “year of grief “. Prophet equates the immense good quality of Khadija and Abu Talib at the same breath!
How can you say Abu Talib didn’t convert to Islam? He raised the Prophet and was beside him his whole life and you want to convince me that he wouldn’t convert? Do you hear yourself? I enjoy watching your videos 2estaz Nouman, but you can not think something so farfetched. Abu Talib was a big part of the Prophet’s life. He was like a father to him. How can the Prophet not have convinced him to convert if Abu Talib loved him so much and protected him? Please do more research into this and update your videos.
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He at least third wrong some afghan Muslim are somewhat right wing when it comes to dealing with people.altough both Islam and catholism view being too pious as unclean.😊
the deaf dumb and blind would never return to right path ....you choose which one is you 😢
@@omairhawk7622Deaf and dumb became intelligent thanks to internet now. They can spot scammers quickly 😂. Tsunami has come so fast same as Bilal Phillips stated. Everyone has started looking at their tailbones on Xray and append like cows. God of Adam and Eve forgot to take these out in human beings.
Dear Ustaz, please share something about munafiqun, who were companions of beloved Prophet but after his Shehadah all of them turned out to be worth enemies of Islam and Prophet and his beloved Family... Instead of spreading such kind of unauthentic historical facts, tell us about this facts, how they killed beloved daughter of Prophet...How they killed Hasan and Huseyn. And how they fought against Ali. Tell us something about that
As salaam o alaikum... @noumanalikhan @bayyinahtv
I watch your vidoes and Alhamdulillah I have benefited a lot..May Allah bless u and reward you.. I have a question
.. your story night videos. . about Allah giving us the trust and the entire event that Allah asked us about coming to earth or not... I know the verse is from Qur'an... But the entire explanation.. where do u get that from .. has our Prophet pubh told us about it in hadith?
If it's just scholars explaining it.. would nt ther be a possibility of doubt ...
Pls if u can throw some light on this ?
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