5 Red Flags in Modern MUSLIM MEN

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  • @FaiyadFit
    @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +5

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    • @a.m.pietroschek1972
      @a.m.pietroschek1972 7 місяців тому

      You coincidentally told me that the scum here is blame-shifting their guilt & shame to Islam, while in truth they are only pretending to be Muslims. Makes a lot of sense, as heroin (and other drugs, and of course X) are paramount to those immature brutes. Only remaining issue (not question): Why do our Muslim allies not support our police in ending this?

  • @servantofallah5400
    @servantofallah5400 7 місяців тому +138

    🚩If he watches porn

    • @ibrahim_-_-_
      @ibrahim_-_-_ 7 місяців тому +13

      oh yea, masssive red flag

    • @ShaheedLuigi
      @ShaheedLuigi 6 місяців тому +5

      good point

    • @afroabe520
      @afroabe520 6 місяців тому +5

      that should be on the list forsure

    • @mfinn6589
      @mfinn6589 19 днів тому

      They all do

  • @BrotherMazin
    @BrotherMazin 7 місяців тому +77

    Ya Allah grant me a righteous woman who wants to strive for jannah firdaus al ala with me. Allahumma Ameen

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +13

      Allahumma ameen

  • @ibraheemq7859
    @ibraheemq7859 7 місяців тому +55

    Sadly, can't even find friends with these traits nowadays 😔

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +19

      May Allah protect us

  • @Mlofb
    @Mlofb 7 місяців тому +54

    Brother, i am a russian revert, and I am struggle a bit with my deen, but your content helps me a lot, i cant even put it in words, you are doing huge work, thank you so much and may Allah reward you in this life and in the afterlife InshaAllah. Your channel is going to grow its inevitable 🙏🏽

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +16

      Allahumma barik bro that’s amazing, glad to hear. All good is from Allah alone

  • @AbdulBaseeth767
    @AbdulBaseeth767 7 місяців тому +23

    Nice videos bro as someone in college rn and i see alot of fitnah
    May Allah keep us from Zina

  • @bootsmade4walking
    @bootsmade4walking 7 місяців тому +15

    Yooo this content is giving “the big brother that everyone needs and wants” Please keep making content. Perhaps it will elevate the online and offline culture and conversation. InshaAllah your channel keeps growing. I honestly don’t always agree with everything you say (I have a different understanding of some Islamic and worldly matters based on my learning from my teachers/sheikhs). Nonetheless, a skillful community dialogue across different opinions is important.

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +4

      Jazakallahu khair

  • @Mahfuz1034_
    @Mahfuz1034_ 7 місяців тому +10

    Smashed it Akhi

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +4

      Jazakallahu khair!

  • @hellokitty10117
    @hellokitty10117 2 місяці тому +2

    i think main red flags in a man is when hes not empathetic at all and just acts tough all the time and is harsh with his wife, you can tell by how he treats his mother or sister. also if hes social media obssesed and obssesed with p0rn and looking at other women. also threatning the wife with getting married again even as a joke would be such a turn off, and expecting me to pay the bills like im ur wife not ur roomate.

  • @m_shakes
    @m_shakes 7 місяців тому +60

    I think red flag number 1 should be that he doesn't know FaiyadFit 😎

  • @zain1132
    @zain1132 7 місяців тому +11

    So a man who is working hard to earn a living in a corporate environment should be avoided as he is not, quote on quote "Trying to escape the matrix?". Ok buddy

    • @user-wu1cp6kq1r
      @user-wu1cp6kq1r 6 місяців тому +8

      I don't think that's what he said, more like a man who doesn't want to be better and do better with his life n

  • @_zaaphiel
    @_zaaphiel 7 місяців тому +45

    Using the word "matrix" unironically is a red flag too tbh.

    • @Nasirsfoodandtravel
      @Nasirsfoodandtravel 4 місяці тому +1

      Omg yas

    • @mynmeisname4825
      @mynmeisname4825 3 місяці тому

      Why😂 just cuz Andrew Tate used it?
      It depends what he means by it

    • @lana.dalo2
      @lana.dalo2 3 місяці тому

      Wait why? I'm really confused, can you please explain?

    • @mynmeisname4825
      @mynmeisname4825 3 місяці тому +3

      @@lana.dalo2 there is a guy Andrew Tate he uses the word matrix.
      Many women hate him.
      So now they hate the word matrix too 😭
      Logic 101

    • @_zaaphiel
      @_zaaphiel 3 місяці тому

      @@mynmeisname4825 Na3m i am now a woman

  • @LaithMMA
    @LaithMMA 7 місяців тому +5

    Salam alykum akhi, this helps me a lot ❤🔥
    Jazakallahu khairan

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +4

      Walaikum assalam Wa iyaakum

  • @Samsumah
    @Samsumah 7 місяців тому +5

    Alhamdulillah الله has always been there to protect me against these kinds of men i almost fell for their traps there was this man who threatened me with the idea of marriage he knew that i would be traped if he mentioned matters of marrying me but later on he started threatening by telling me i will never find a man like him since he was insisting on meeting me at his house Alhamdulillah i was smarter than his thoughts was Always a thought ahead of him what i learned from this is that الله will always guide and defend you if u are a true one and want nothing and no one but pleasing him only

    • @bushraqaasim4677
      @bushraqaasim4677 7 місяців тому +4

      Well said sis. I constantly usually tell people ALLAAH doesn't leave HIS sincere and obeident slaves to themselves Allah will never leave you to your affairs HE will always protect you and guide you to that which is the very best for you.

    • @Samsumah
      @Samsumah 4 місяці тому +3

      Exactly 💯 sis I totally agree with you may ALLAH keep our heart firm and with sincerity

    • @bushraqaasim4677
      @bushraqaasim4677 4 місяці тому

      @@Samsumah aameen aameen

  • @ShaheedLuigi
    @ShaheedLuigi 6 місяців тому +3

    3:40 is kinda funny at the start with "he does not know faiyadfit" lmao

  • @Uzair_Of_Babylon465
    @Uzair_Of_Babylon465 7 місяців тому +5

    Great video keep it up you're doing amazing things 😁👍

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +1

      Alhumdulillah

    • @Uzair_Of_Babylon465
      @Uzair_Of_Babylon465 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@FaiyadFitBro what are your thoughts on great Muslim leaders like mehmed II aka Mohammed Al Fatih who did great things at only 21 years old and conquered constantinople what do you think youth today can learn from Mohammed Al Fatih as it has to be reason why Allah made such young man do this great deed which prophet Muhammad praised who conquers constantinople as prophet Muhammad companions couldn't conquer constantinople and they were greatest of Muslims may Allah guide all of us to the right path ameen 🙏.

    • @Uzair_Of_Babylon465
      @Uzair_Of_Babylon465 7 місяців тому +1

      @@FaiyadFit Could you make a video about great Muslims for example for the youth then they could do more research about does greats after watching that video. The best caliph or sultan is a scholar who is also a warrior like Salah Al Din or Ali RA for example after of course our beloved prophet

  • @nasstak3440
    @nasstak3440 7 місяців тому +1

    This channel is truly unique content, something that’s difficult to achieve in this saturated UA-cam podcast environment. Well done man.

  • @rimab5894
    @rimab5894 3 місяці тому +1

    Lol, another reason to force my husband to exercise 😂

  • @radwaibrahim9276
    @radwaibrahim9276 7 місяців тому +12

    Strange...i recall not wanting to quit social media and publicly displaying personal content to 1000s of people (foreigners) a red flag on the women's version of this video. Was that deliberately left out here or by mistake? Or its ok for the man to keep usong social media this way?

    • @sole008
      @sole008 7 місяців тому +1

      Men are not posting thirst trap on social media 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @radwaibrahim9276
      @radwaibrahim9276 7 місяців тому

      @sole008 men are the ones getting dumped for cheating...from all religious beliefs and cultures around the world more than 80% of divorces globally are initiated by women and apparently.many reasons are behind that. If women are posting thirst traps, and you are truly are God fearing then the onus is on you to drop social media...not ask your modest partner to be to drop it and you to stay. Only dump girls can fall.for misogyny disguise as religious piety/advice...I.e. the kind of advice given by this young youtuber

    • @ky3644
      @ky3644 6 місяців тому +12

      @@sole008u said that very boldly. Yes they are

    • @sole008
      @sole008 6 місяців тому

      @@ky3644 fair enough, even if that was true it's not nearly as prevalent as women Doing it. It's just not close, to the point of it being irrevelant because those are exceptions

    • @xshesyourqorqeousxx3
      @xshesyourqorqeousxx3 4 місяці тому +2

      @@sole008there are a lot of men who thirst trap. It’s just not as popular because women aren’t phased by it like male stripper clubs. Women aren’t as willing to pay for s3x or DM an attractive guy. With that being said as said, it’s important for men to know that posting themselves online for other people’s consumption is haram too.

  • @muhammadmisbahuddin-ol5it
    @muhammadmisbahuddin-ol5it 6 місяців тому +4

    most of these are kinda obvious ngl, not really helpful. the only helpful one on this list is the dayooth one, since no many people know about the severity of that. you should've mentioned red flags that woman don't know about, such as musturbating, porn, not helping around the house etc.

  • @Rclsllh
    @Rclsllh 6 місяців тому +19

    Listen ladies, listen up….
    1. If he expects/ wants you to contribute a penny towards the bills, RUN!
    2. If he is raised by a single mother that worked two jobs, held the house down, care for the kids etc. RUN!
    3. If he lives with his parents, or mom calls daily to keep tabs of what’s going on with him…RUN!
    4. If you see any narcissistic traits… RUN!
    5. If he is divorced more than two times…RUN!
    6. If he is a feminine man, a feminist…RUN
    7. If he is looking to date you aka let’s talk get to know each other not interested in talking to your wali…RUN!
    8. Of his social media is following booty cheeks models…. RUN!
    9. If he is lazy, nothing going on in his life….RUN
    10. Be extremely careful when you met thru Salams and Muzz. If he uses curse words.. RUN!
    Don’t wait for a man to come, live your life and go for your dreams.

    • @DSJWIX
      @DSJWIX 6 місяців тому +6

      Stupid list

    • @kushinaa1XD
      @kushinaa1XD 5 місяців тому +10

      This list is more helpful than the actual video.

    • @playerx5583
      @playerx5583 5 місяців тому +11

      2 Wouldn't be something he could control, so I disagree. If his manners and deen are in place, then that shouldnt matter.

    • @playerx5583
      @playerx5583 5 місяців тому +3

      ​@@DSJWIX Yeah, kind of a shallow perspective

    • @Rclsllh
      @Rclsllh 5 місяців тому +2

      @@playerx5583 he can’t control it but he can get educated that what his mom went through it’s called suffering not normal and not expect his wife to go through that.
      The problem is many people don’t get educated and work on themselves

  • @user-hi5xq7nx2y
    @user-hi5xq7nx2y 7 місяців тому

    Gold as always 👍

  • @phoenixknight8837
    @phoenixknight8837 3 місяці тому

    Barakallahu feek.

  • @keepitreelcatfishing5883
    @keepitreelcatfishing5883 5 місяців тому +1

    Did he just plug use a list of red flags to plug his own brand “Faiyad Fit?”

  • @kjy05
    @kjy05 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤Alhamdulellah very true

  • @Lami2156
    @Lami2156 7 місяців тому +3

    What if she's the one that not doing fitness whatsoever? I mean she is not fit but also not fat, has fast metabolism, eat normal portion but has a good appetite with so called junk food, is she a red flag?

    • @d5555
      @d5555 5 місяців тому

      If that makes her a red flag depends how unhealthy she eats and her lifestyle in general. But it also depends on the man. If the man also doesn't exercise and eats junk food, then they are made for each other. But people with "fast metabolism" tend to gain significant weight as they get older. When you're in your late teens and early 20's, you can get away with a lot more than later on in life.

  • @ruinsfnbr776
    @ruinsfnbr776 7 місяців тому +3

    can i ask what do u mean by modern , is it the same as modern progressive muslim?

    • @FaiyadFit
      @FaiyadFit  7 місяців тому +3

      Modern is today

  • @reine6414
    @reine6414 4 місяці тому +1

    Again with the feminine / masculine energy on almost all your videos. This energy thing is a polytheist belief! It can not be mixed with islam !

  • @iamamuslimah215
    @iamamuslimah215 3 місяці тому +1

    But half of them are liars I guess the only way I would know Is by making istikhra