Naomi Shares Devastating News With Chitoka | My 3000-lb Family
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- Опубліковано 11 сер 2021
- While Chitoka tries to get out of her old, unhealthy habits, Naomi pays her a visit to share some bad news she recently got.
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Chitoka saying "whatever you're feeling is appropriate" was so important. Grief and confusion and hurt are never inappropriate when dealing with a loss. Whatever Naomi is feeling is valid and in no way inappropriate. Poor Naomi feeling like there is something inappropriate with anything in her reaction to having a miscarriage
I completely resonate with everything she said. It’s exactly how I was feeling. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage. And it is very confusing and painful. Since it was so early, you feel like you’re overreacting because it was barely an embryo.
@@deebutterfly19 Im so sorry, Dee💔💝 You're still a mama to that embryo, and they're in heaven waiting for you💝💝💝
Miscarriages can be absolutely devastating, but keep trying! We’ve got a beautiful daughter after two back to back miscarriages and she’s amazing! I’m sure it will happen for you the healthier you become!
Praying for you to have a baby when it's your time. I'm sure it will happen for you the healthier you become ,good luck!!
Did you use fertility treatments?
Sorry to hear about, wish you nothing but the best.
So according to what you're saying...it sounds like her weight caused the miscarriage.
@@angelflorence, so why are people so offended when I point out that fact? Damn, there’s snowflakes everywhere. They’re all acting like she’s innocent.
Love Chitoka’s personality, she would make such a fun partner in crime or co-worker :)
Yesssss
The fact she was able to conceive at this weight is actually a really good sign. I know it doesn't feel like that in the midst of a miscarriage though, but obviously she is going in the right direction to improve her fertility.
Very true but she gotta get that weight down
How did he get in there
why does weight effect fertility?
@@CHLOCHLOLP The amount of fat in your body affects your hormones
I'm sorry I know far too many big women who get pregnant all the time, I believe this something folks just makeup a lot being fat.
As a black woman raised on cornbread, I felt her pain when she took it and threw it away.
Lol amen
Cornbread is to good to go to waste
I can't live without it. My momma makes it with some black eyed peas or spit pea soup. Delicious. It can be eaten once in awhile and be okay. I felt so bad when the trainer threw it out, but I understand that she is doing it for her well-being.
As a white woman raised on cornbread, you know you don't touch a woman's cornbread unless you want bit🤣🤣🤣🤣
That one confused me. I thought cornbread was healthy?
I love this lady. She seems like such a kind, Godly woman. I'm prayin for her!
She was yelling at her one daughter the one who was successful with her surgery because she was trying to motivate her brother into losing weight ...she was kind of rude
She gave the best advice I've ever seen and heard. I needed to hear that today on something completely unrelated. Thank you muma.
My first pregnancy was like that. Literally found out at the same time figuring out I had a miscarriage. It wasn’t plan and it was very emotional still. Now I have 2 beautiful children.
Losing weight is not about DIETING! It is about changing YOUR LIFE STYLE!
So sorry for your loss. No matter the reason if you continue your life, getting healthier every day, you will have a Rainbow Baby. Happens all the time.
So according to what you're saying...it sounds like her weight caused the miscarriage.
@@lianasoares8052 it may not have caused it but for her to get pregnant again it’s best for her to lose weight. Not only will it make it easer TO get pregnant but it’ll also make sure she has a much safer pregnancy.
@@aloeleaf, agreed.
@@aloeleaf it does affect having a child. It causes an imbalance of hormones etc that can cause them to not be able to get pregnant or finish carrying
Miscarriages are so common, most women don’t even realize they were pregnant, they just have a heavy flow one month but never think to get tested. I’m glad she’s allowing herself to process the emotions even though she wasn’t actively trying for a baby. I hope the best for her and if she desires to be a mother, this is at least a good indication that she’s producing and releasing eggs even if this wasn’t the right one.
My heart breaks. This woman needed those kind words!!!
Chitoka would make an excellent therapist.
This always gives me the motivation I need to get out and walk 🙏🏾 But wow I noticed Honey Nut Cheerios in the trash bag; I thought that was an ok snack/cereal
It has a lot of carbs and sugar.. way more than regular cheerios even.
Oatmeal for breakfast is the way
I mean in moderation every food is fine but its not something to eat if you are trying to eat clean and/or loose weight.
It's a gmo food.
Stear clear of the poison
The problems is not high carbs it’s high calorie, so you get just a little bit for a lot of calories
Chitoka is obviously intelligent. Im glad Naomi has her as a sounding board. She was so right when she said whatever she feels is appropriate.
Being told “it wasn’t the right time” while dealing with a miscarriage is a huge slap in the face.
I am so sorry for your loss. I am also an Angel mommy 💔 I never knew that 1 in 4 women will lose at least on baby while pregnant! I never knew that until she had already passed 😢
I’m here crying. Sweet lady, I know this pain & it’s so deep. With time you can live almost normally, but you don’t forget. And sometimes, it still hurts, and you have to let it in order to keep healing.
I know for me it’s definitely easier to eat better when you have healthy food in the fridge !
Naomi, I know how you feel. It happened to me. I got diagnosed with PCOD. Have yourself tested hun. MY heart goes out to you.
Oh wow it doesn't matter if it's two weeks pregnant, a miscarriage is a miscarriage. It hurts all the same
I lost one of my newborn twins last year a few moments after birth
I’m so sorry
I legitimately didnt know that being overweight could stop your period 😮 eye-opening. I knew if you were too skinny you could lose it but I never thought about it the other way
Yes ma'am my sister and bff are both overweight and their cycles are very irregular and oftentimes non-existent. Sis just had gastric surgery few weeks ago and said she's already had 2 periods. told her in happy for her because she's always wanted kids
Naomi is really beautiful. I'm sorry she is going through this.
love chitoka. the second she said “i haven’t been doing too good...” i immediately went, out loud, “COME ON CHITOKA YOURE BETTER THAN THIS!!!!”
I live this conversation and how she went through the same thing I did and this helps me get through it even more.
The fact that he wanted to leave her because she wanted to better herself and become healthy and improve her self-esteem and her mental and emotional state says a lot about the kind of person he is, she’s better off without him!
Chikota is very pretty lady and neat
I feel for Naomi, I’m a little younger than her n I want so bad to be a mother. I’m praying for her
Me too it’s so sad to see people having kids that don’t even deserve them and treat their children horribly and there are women who would be the best mothers who can’t even
Hope all that food went to a homeless shelter or something how the hell could you throw all that out instead of giving it to someone less fortunate?
Naomi spoke her truth and took responsibility for her choices. I commend her strength and it was appropriate!
Post more of the show I missed this show so much
Been there it’s one of the worst things you can go threw I am
Glad you could talk to someone
I like that girl Lydia. She’s a peach. She’s the nicest ballbreaker! Lol! A cutie too
Y’all see that the lady threw away the delicious honey nut Cheerios 😩😩
GMO =poison
@@Bella.2424. so your saying that cake,candy,chocolate etc aren't delicious??
@@Bella.2424. i understand what your saying but it's not related to the taste of the products, I'm not asking about the healthiness I'm talking about the taste of it
@@Bella.2424. That's your destiny, not hers.
I lost 35 lbs and I ate honey nut cheerios for breakfast when I was too lazy to cook anything.
If you eat the right portions. Most people eat more and it may trigger you to eat other Carby foods.
I was Chitoka was my auntie. She's awesome 💙
I wish that I had close family/cousins kinfolks like that because everybody needs that extra shoulder to lean on. I wish that I could meet Chitoka she seems so spiritual, upbeat and has a good ear that really listens as a friend.
This whole family is beautiful
It's crazy because I have Crohn's disease and I struggle to keep weight on when it's active because of having up to 10 bowel movements a day and my body struggling to hold on to key nutrients from food. I have to literally overeat to keep a decent weight because my body doesn't absorb food like it should. Doctors have told me to just eat as much as I can and even have high calorie protein shakes in between meals. Just a view on the other side of the spectrum.
YOU ARE NOT DEFECTIVE!!! I had to have a hysterectomy at 23 years old while going through a divorce. I felt the same “defective” thing you mentioned. I thought wow I have nothing to offer any future partner because I can’t provide a child. I was so very wrong. That was ten years ago now and I am doing much better mentally. Please know there’s light at the end of this tunnel.
Sorry for your loss
I love how honest she is, alot of people dont talk about the mental aspect of over eating. You dont get to that point if you dont have an issue with how you view food. I know the people on these type of shows aim for weight loss surgery, but I think even more importantly is for them to get therapy to understand the why behind the over eating. You can get the surgery but if you address the mental portion it will be difficult to sustain it long term. i was 285 lbs so its been a process to understand why I emotionally eat, why do I want to eat even when i am not hungry. What comfort am I looking for when I eat unhealthy food, etc. Long process that i still am working on.
You can’t all be first 😂😂
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 FAAAAAAAACTS!
😂😂😂 they're all winners 🏆 🏆 🏆 🏆
I did have a feeling Niamo lost smth important to her . So I had the feeling she had a miscarriage . Just by the body language and her the boyfriend attitude. You can just tell
Poor thing. It's a journey, hope she continues on her path. And there are so many cogs in the system, it's not her fault if she doesn't 100% know for sure it's the weight. And even then, most people overeat due to trauma, food can be a drug and coping mechanism. Yes, it's up to us to fix it, but being hard on yourself is never the right answer, too many hateful people in the world, don't need negative self talk on top. Hope she's ok.
Went we didn't like what a person say we call it negative
@@yolandgibson1233 Who is we? I appreciate criticism and understand the difference between negative speech & helpful criticism. Sounds like a generalization.
Naomi I'm so proud of you keep up the great 👍 work.
I’m so sorry for your loss 😞
God bless her, she seems like a beautiful person inside and out 🙏🏽❤️ wish her the best
She has a lot of self awareness
Man, I just have to say this, Naomi is stunningly gorgeous ❤️
My heart goes out to her. ❤
when u lose weight and u gain the weight back the drive to lose weight again is 10x harder im not a dietitian.. but i think the diets are too hard and are not sustainable, i wouldnt go cold turkey like i would moderate one brownie a day after a long day or have two so u can reduce the amount so ur sweet tooth can be satisfied.. lifestyle changes are the key u can still eat things in moderation .. but these doctors want them to do crash diet.
completely agree
I agree, I couldn't quit soda cold turkey, cutting down and buying the smaller cans helped with my diet
@@kaitlinhannah442 i think if u stick to eating healthy a day its ok to have that one can a day ... should never suffer or deprive yourself
You don't do diets. You make life style choices and never keep foods around that you don't need to eat.
@@jewel1953 yeah but u will have temptations when u go out with ur friends to a wedding, or a party , or a birthday party and if u ever go out.. not always gonna be around salads lol
I lost my first pregnancy to a miscarriage. I didn’t think that hole in my heart would ever heal, but I conceived my son eight months later! He just turned ten, and he is nine ways from Saturday, lol! He’s definitely my rainbow child. You just have to talk it out, go through the emotions, have support, pray.
Wishing Chitoka the very best in her journey. I know she is going to do just fine ♥️
So sorry for Naomi’s loss ♥️😢
Chitoka seems intelligent and well spoken. I see a lot of potential for her to do great things.
I want to see more of Naomi...
God has a bigger plan for you don't worry God will take care of you I know it's hard but when it's time is right you will have a family I know it's sad because you really weren't expecting it but it was kind of nice that you were going to have a baby my heart goes out to you and your family
So how is she getting all this unhealthy food ??????
She's not able to go to the supermarket alone in her state,
So WHO IS FEEDING HER ???.
THEY ARE KILLING HER,
Hope they are proud of themselves... NOT 🙄
where is Drew
Girl give yourself credit where it's do but now that you're learning what to do and not to do you just have to tell yourself over and over how bad do you want this? Do you want to be around to watch your family grow up? You got this I'm proud of you. All my love from Michigan ❤️
Chitoka is so pretty. She also seems like a nice person. 🙏for her success.
I totally understand about having miss information of what is better for your body when you are trying to loose weight. I was sick for years before being diagnosed with SIBO. Always worn out and in pain from everything i was eating, thinking it was good for me. When i got diagnosed i had reached 305 pounds, my doctor put me on a fodmap diet for the issues of being in constant pain from food that is healthy. To understand the diet i had to see a dietitian that knew abot SIBO to understand that gluten, broccoli, stone fruits, apples, and many other healthy foods caused me pain cause it irritates the digestive system. Working with a dietitian has helped me turn around my way of looking at food because she informs me with alternatives i never thought of. I am very thankful for my dietitian and her knowledge to help me and others.
I experienced the same thing as Naomi this Christmas. Down to going to work the same day, which happens to be at a hospital. Only to go get seen to be told I had been expecting but was experiencing a miscarriage. I pray that God has given you some extra peace and love 💕
It's not what's she is eating it's what's eating her. Wishing her a successful weight loss journey.
Chitoka is wonderful. ❤
this is so sad to watch because YOU KNOW these heavy people really hate the way they look but feel like its impossible to change.
8:20 my heart breaks for her
At first, I thought it was going to be something really bad like the loss of a family member they already had and was worried it would lead to Chitoka eating more
Don’t know how old she is ? One thing for sure pretty lady!
Chitoka, I am so proud of you. You can do it.
LOLLLL her face at 1:26 hahahahahah
I have been diagnosed with endometriosis so I understand your frustrations on wanting a baby so badly but to be robed of it it hurts so badly
😢😢😢 I hope she can get back right
Chitoka such a good friend
Why isn't there captions on many of your videos TLK UK ??? 😓 I'm hard of hearing, I can't understand most of these videos all the time but I wish I could read the captions at least....
You'll get a chance again to be a parent!!! Be positive and keep urself happy!! That's most imp. Other things fall into place!! God bless!!!
It's so ashamed to have a child without marriage.😨😨
I love 💕 her she's so beautiful
I started to cry
my daughter just had her first miscarriage a couple of months ago and she was hurt about the situation but she said mom God does things for a reason she's 22
I just adore her 😍 ❤️
Love the video
I have 5 children and I had 5 pregnancies until last month I had the same experience and it broke my heart ❤️❤️❤️ but we will have our time again just keep praying 🙏🙏🙏🙏 baby girl
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you
She so pretty
Im bouta start waking up early, making smoothies and going for walks lmfao
A protein shake for breakfast is a very unsatisfying breakfast for someone this size. She could eat some greasy eggs and bacon, sausage etc and not spike her blood sugar and be satisfied for hours. A sweet liquid drink will get her appetite going and not fill her stomach. Just my opinion.
Self control. She needs to suppress the urge and grab a piece of fruit
@@xoxoPilar More blood sugar spiking fast burning food. Her metabolism is screwed up at this point. She needs fat and protein, her go to has been carbs and sugar to get to this state.
True. She'd been better off eating a whole pack of bacon and 5 fried eggs actually. She needs to make a drastic cut to carbs to allow her body to start burning her fat as fuel. It's the only way when you are that extremely obese.
Keto
Yeah I know she needs to lose a lot, but it seems unrealistic. You don't have to completely eliminate certain foods to be healthy
🌟😉🍀😉❤️🍀❤️😉🍀🌟
She so beautiful and has a
Smoothing voice..I wish I had
Her as Friend...
Enjoy your life ...keep on
Smiling and Shining
✌️
You look so good??? Tell the truth it could save her life.
This video is ridiculous.
I hate when they throw food away food cost too much talking bout we don’t need pancakes 🥞 girl bye
Protein pack cakes is good 👍
@@stephensmith5724 never heard of them before
Aside from the weight loss journey, it is so heart warming to see black women wearing there natural hair and looking beautiful. It makes me feel much more confident because that is also a struggle.❤
You shouldn't be trying to get pregnant unless you have a stable family situation ! Don't do that to a child.
Everyone has a stash.
I keep my stash in the bank., 💰💰💰💰
Take care sis, please
0:57😂
Chiseled Adonis needs to see this….
Keeping food, in the bedroom, is unsanitary.
She can do it 💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽
When she said no cornbread ?? Lol
First of all Sweetheart it just wasn’t a good time for your body. Perhaps the baby wouldn’t have been healthy. Now that you are losing the weight, and you know you can get pregnant, the right time will come for reproduction. I am praying for you that your joy will come and God will bless you with a child. In the meantime, enjoy your life and all it has to offer. Remember there are alternatives and adoption is still available to all women who have difficulties in pregnancy. I wish you the best in life!😘