Bella Poarch Speaks On Her Traumatic Childhood
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She was a domestic helper who didn't get paid. They didn't adopt her because they wanted a new child to nurture and love. They wanted free labor from a minor and in return, her adopted parents would just give her some food and shelter.
true
Literally got a slave. Used a child so she wouldnt know anything or fight back as much
@@beepbeepbeep180 i got a headache reading your comment. 😂✌🏻
So a slave that’s so fucked up that her adopted parents sound so bad, she’s been through so much I’m happy she’s doing good for herself now
@@beepbeepbeep180 i live in philippines bro, i dont think what you said is right at all. It's also right for kids to be spoiled by things that they want, but it doesnt mean they should be ignorant about things that could help them survive. It's not right for people to hit other people. You're suffering from stockholm syndrome, try and get some help before spewing your baseless beliefs.
Bella is never lucky for being abused, it's not a way to be open to things that could help you survive. Get your mind in the gutter, you dont have to go through a lot of sht to learn things.
"Every kids deserves a parent, but not every parents deserves a kid"
This is so sad 😞
But it’s so true! And it’s a shame that so many undeserving a parents are able to conceive when good hearted amazing people cannot conceive 😣😩
She literally uses the most over used basic quotes as her personality and yall just fall all over it 😂
@@madamebih7825 let’s say it’s overused
But it’s still valid
Not all kids deserve a parent
@@jojobeeslife Exactly! It’s not fair that awful people get to have a ton of kids and amazing people aren’t always able to conceive 😞😞
'caring' isn't a sole American thing Ethan, it's human emotions. Every country is "caring" if you're with right people
Yeah it’s not about the place it’s about the person each place has good and bad people
Not that simple. Place and environment definitely affects most of the people there even if just a little. But I still agree that we should judge individually but still keep the cultures in mind.
Trust me, I've lived most of my teenage life in the Philippines, and honestly people are more apathetic there than on western countries, not everybody but majority don't give crap and people most of the time invalidates mental disorders, maybe because of ignorance and harder life, so yeah I think there are more culturally caring countries than others.
But the ironic part is her step dad is AMERICAN
There are cultural differences though, that's what he's referring to
How disgusting that the father “loved” animals, yet treated his daughter so abusively.
hold on... is this meant to be a joke?
@@Millionaires.Empire why would you think that?
@@ChristinaMagma It can be interpreted as you suggesting that Bella Poarch is an animal as a joke, like how weirdos say women are dogs. But I assume you had good intentions with that post.
SHES LYING ABOUT EVERYTHING
@@eyesee1179 oh gosh, i can see how it could come off that way.
You can tell she’s trying not to cry
yet ppl still hate her
@@osnapitzmads for no reason
@@adhi2 ikr :'D
Like just tell me the reason why you hate her!? She did nothing! She just posted a tik tok and it got popular like ugh!
her voice is so good, she's one of the best singers too. See like everyone gets hate for no reason if ur famous.
@@adhi2 she got a tattoo of the rising sun flag which was utilized when Japan invaded several countries (including Korea). In Korea, for example, they would force men into labor and sell women into sexual slavery during the time where this flag was waved by Japan.
Him thinking it was a typical Filipino family: *disbelief*
Him realizing her adoptive father was an American: *disbelief intensifies*
yeah as much as I dont want people to interpret filipino neighbours and parents like this nor generalize ppl here not caring at all or giving a shit when sum1's clearly not treated right, I can't rlly speak for others cuz it might be more common from what i observe or just might be different in their situation.
My neighbors shouts at their kids all the time and really wanted to talk to them about how they treat the kids but no one does that and no one would encourage that here. On the internet they even glamorize like how typical asian or filipino mom does. How their flying off their slippers on their kids as part of discipline. I have the same problem with my mom and dad as a kid. As the youngest in the family i have to give respect to my sister no matter what even though she’s clearly physically abusive.
Same I literally grew up hearing very young children next door being beaten and its so heartbreaking to hear them scream "enough" or "just kill me mom" most parents here have anger issues and are abusive. And then after the beating they will guilt trip these babies and would talk them down about how they're beaten because they're loved. I mean if you can sit and talk to your child in the first place why the need for beating? Bella was from the province but here in the slums of Metro Manila its so common to hear kids being abused and old parents being attacked by their adult children. So many times I told my mom how its heartbreaking but of course no one would interfere the most they can do is treat this as a juicy gossip. Most moms wont meddle with other moms because almost all of them do the same so they cant really talk.
these neighbors might just be afraid to meddle with their business because her stepdad is American. but usually, in my neighborhood everybody has a close bond. for example, when something happened to my dad almost all of the neighbors were in our house lol. and this applies to everyone in the neighborhood also. if something like child abuse happens, get ready to be nagged at by the elders lmao
@@nanan8992 Children nowadays here are so disrespectful. You can hear them cussing at you for no reason or to their parents. I think it often happens to unresponsible parents. I once hear my niece cursing because he can't have what he wants and I told it to his mother and she just said "Let him be, after he grow up he'll definitely get rid of that". Some of mother here doesn't like to give attention to their children behavior when it's still a kid and also some of them like to say to be a good children but don't like to be a good example.
As a person who was abused often as a child, I can relate to her saying the abuse felt normal. I was abused so often that I thought that's just how life is and everyone gets abused like this. Like her, I didn't realize what was done to me was wrong and abusive. My heart goes out to her. ❤️
I am sorry you went through that. You don't owe the abuser anything.
@@sherisetodd591 Thank you❤️
Be blessed!
When I was young I hit and bit my brother so much and I regret it so much I feel rly bad I don't do it anymore and I will never do it again idk why I did it I was so mean
Also me and my brother are so close now and we are like ride or dies
@Imbroke- At least you show remorse. Most abusers have no remorse. Plus I'm sure you were a kid when you were mean. As long as you don't so the same as an adult, what you did is forgivable. I'm sure you treat your brother well now. It's never too late to apologize and try to make up for what you did. 👍🏽✌🏾
It's so sad u can really see her trying to hold back tears :( she's amazing she escaped her abusive parents,served the army for 4 years and has an amazing voice
Lmao sweet comment but she served the Navy 😂
Her parents just apologized for her money.glad she didn’t accept it she’s smart to not accept/give a f abt it
Why is the pod cast sounds bored and sacrasm? Not her tho
Nice nam ebtw
yea her dad just said he has ptsd so she gives them money.
She is way too prideful
@@generalmailbox967 How ? They didn’t even recognize what they did wrong, they just said “sorry you feel that way”
I can see that she's trying not to cry. This is sad. What's sadder is people are so jealous and bored that they start hating her for no reason
Or maybe they didn't know her story yet
@@envylake2565 but yeah even if they don't know her story, people shouldn't hate someone just by what she does in life.
@@paulandrew8539 yes exactly
@@paulandrew8539 yeah facts
@@paulandrew8539 You have a point of course.
Poor girl, crazy stuff. Obviously, she's pretty damaged by this but glad she has so much now, really happy for her. Way to overcome such massive obstacles, not many could.
Bella mastered communication and she's authentic. Bella is the epitome of "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger." She bided her time until she could escape her situation and was humble enough to appreciate her times in the Navy of all places.
Her parents treated her like garbage and expected her to be their servant. I’m so happy she moved to the USA, otherwise who knows where she would be now.
Ikr
Asian parents are different i think i live in Philippines too but knowing that she had a bad parents is just awful lol
I think it doesn't have so much to do with her living in the Philippines. I know a lot of asian parents are really stricts but not all of them are abuse like this.
I have Filipino parents but they treat me good. They let me do what I want and tries to understands me. Mga pinoy jan alam naman natin mahal tayo magulang natin at pasalamat talaga tayo if maganda pakikitungo ng magulang natin sa atin. Kaso may instances kasi talaga na mali na ang ginagawa ng parents.
@@harlnieee aww rel8 si me :(
Some people ask why she acts like a child sometimes. And the answer is: she never had a childhood. It’s a thing called Age Regression. It’s when you have been traumatized at a young age, and use your inner child to try an cope. Not everyone uses it, some are just awful, or view themselves as grown adults even if they aren’t. I personally do what she does, and majority of the time I don’t even mean to do it. And sometimes she’s just doing a anime thing, gotta know the difference!
Like Michael
@@kossa8668 who- Michael afton?
Exactly i have the same thing
@@sarakolednik4659 whaaa¿¿
@@T.an.nie1 no, whos that? michael jackson lmao
My tears are falling in my sinigang. I also didnt realize I was abused until my friends heard my story and I thought it was normal being beaten by the family who adopts you.
The way it looked like she almost cried broke my heart. Tears are not our weakness, they just show that we are passionate about what we are talking about. As the interviewer pushes on and on, Bella looks really uncomfortable, but she stays strong and shares about her traumatic experiences. She obviously believes that what happened to her was wrong, but she did not once say that Filipino culture in general was bad. The interviewer made it seem like "America is a much better, safer place to live" but if you look around right now, he will have to rethink that. Bella is such an inspiring girl for sharing her story, and I hope her courier continues to flourish:)
When Bella said that "I also have PTSD but I don't go around hurting people or take advantage." I really really want to tell that to somebody.
but its the exact same for me. people trying to say that they have mental issues so that gives a free pass for some to be monsters. i have mental disorders and one of them is PTSD and i am a normal person with can i say even good moral grounds because i treat people like i wan to be treated and i mean EVERYONE in my life i treat like that. i could never see myself acting like an asshole and then being like "i have PTSD so...".
@@saanasalonen8684but arent ptsd ppl not emotion cuz i dont give fuck about shii
@@saanasalonen8684 nvm i have psychopathy 😂😂 then fuck em ptsd
Everybody has a different way of dealing with things. It doesn’t mean that you had shit and you dealt with it with ease doesn’t mean it’s should be the same thing what others do to deal with their shit. When people say i have a problem with this would you say “oh aren’t we all have one”, that’s invalidating a person having the problem.
@Kairy Night i definitely agree with you on that. But you missed the issue here, which the issue was “you having a PTSD or any mental health issue and you being an asshole or hurting someone shouldn’t be related at all because if one can control his mental health issues and avoid havoc then it isn’t a problem”. Yes everyone should be punished based on the bad things they do, but crossing out mental health issue as a factor shouldn’t be the case, otherwise what are psychiatrist/psychologists are for.
To everyone who gets mad why she acts like a child. Let her be. She's trying to enjoy the freedom and a childhood like life she never had.i hope you understand her now.
@@LivingforTruthPBUH bruh what? Elaborate
@@Tyler_18_ as weird as it sounds bruh
I never saw it like that youre so right
thats so right
@@Cool4Vids man deleted his comment
"I have PTSD too but I don't choose to hurt people." ..wow.👏 Both of my parents fought in our country's civil war and they have bad ptsd too. They abused my brother and I. Now that they're older they try to act like it never happened but i didn't realize i missed out on life till i met my best friend and he showed me how much i missed out on it made me so depressed honestly. I'm glad i came to Canada and i get help for my mental health because i never want to pass on my pain from my past to my daughters.
I grew up in an insanely abusive household. My brother used to force himself on me (I'm a boy, btw) when I was 5 to when I was 10, when I told my parents, my dad beat the shit out of me & made me sleep outside that night. I've never been to a theme park, or had a birthday party, or anything like a normal child. My mental state is absolutely wrecked for life. My relationships will never be normal. The way Ethan is asking these questions is how a lot of people question me about my past, & it makes me EXTREMELY uncomfortable. It's as if you said someone "roped" you, & instead of being there for you, someone asked you to "explain every little detail & exactly what they did". It's VERY anxiety-inducing & makes me feel like I'm a "thing" they're looking at & not an actual person.
I'm very sorry to hear. I hope you are able to have people in your life that truly care about you and I wish the best future for you.
I am sorry
part of the reason she acts like a kid is probably because she never got a real childhood. it’s heartbreaking
EXACTLY and it is sad
She doesn't really act like a kid🤪
Yea the official term is age regression and it’s more common then some think
She doesn’t though lol, its tiktok because simps giver her so much money doing that face.
@@ozymandias8523 are you bella to know that or are you just jealous
The fact that she's trying so hard not to cry. She's so strong, if that was me I would literally cry my soul out, she's so brave and strong. She deserves her success
Of course she deserves her success...
For sure 😔
Definitely! I feel bad for her. You can definitely tell she’s holding back tears. She deserves to have success. So she got adopted and then her step dad treated her like crap. So she just had a bad life overall. Poor girl.
Lmao 🤡
I see why she's blessed now because of her patience in hard times, God is just fair.
You can see the sadness in her eyes.. I have so much sympathy for her. I hope she has some happiness in her life, I really do. 💗
I think they only adopted her as a maid not adopted as their own child because in the Phillippines it is very common for children from the slums that had no money for education to be taken in by rich families for education, like labor exchange for education.
Exactly what I was thinking. Maybe her step parents just told her they "adopted" her...
Fuck that's so fucked up.
true its so sad… maybe they did adopt her bec her legal name is now different just for the legalities and the “parents” to get away with the child labor thing
@@baibiebaibea9740 Sadly thats very normal in the Philippines my cousin was adopted by my parents because her parents couldn't afford to pay the tuition fee in college but me and my family treated her like a family and now she has stable job and can now help her own family. ❤
@@shinobukocho2595 yes!! actually im filipino and i too almost was adopted by my aunt hahah!! they thought they couldnt get pregnant but then they decided to get a lot of treatments and now they have 5 children.. even until now she still wanted me to be a part of the family, i do have a feeling so that i can help raise her biologoical children since she wanted to adopt me at 13 yrs old.. old enough to fend for myself and help her around the house... kudos to your family btw if only most families were like that u know adopting children with good intent
She’s definitely not one of those awful, privileged Tik Tokers. She’s been through hell, I am so happy she’s doing so well for herself! Good for her.
@@LivingforTruthPBUH You want her to abolish the military? Why?
@@LivingforTruthPBUH um what if she didnt feel that way and if she did she probably didn't want to
@@LivingforTruthPBUH We need a military, you want the US not to defend itself???
@@noamweizmann girl against what? the USA is the one who starts all the wars
@@derpdanny The U.S. is the strongest country in the world, if we didn’t have a fucking MILITARY..?! ISIS will slaughter us all…wtf?
Stepdad is an American who mainly gave her the bad childhood experiences .Filipino aunt and grandma really cares. ❤️❤️
Next time you guys call her " childish " remember this. She didnt have a childhood she a rough life and parents who were SHIT she is just trying to enjoy the life she never had and healing her inner child.
She lied about literally everything stfu
Sometimes being called "Cinderella" is not a compliment.
Yap
Jealousy.
@@ssagevee6184 lmao you misunderstood my comment
@@mrpiggy4031 "Jealousy is a disease you can die man." - Lil Wayne
@@rabeechowdhury i guessed you didn't watch Cinderella right? now stfu.
I'm kind of depressed on the fact that child labor disguised as adoption is highly common here in the philippines
Depressed is a strong word bud
Not all filipinos are like that. Perhaps those only who lives in a farm they allowed to work and help their family while studying. But me I'm just doing a housechores when I don't have class or during weekends only it is common in philippines especially if you belong to low class or middle class family. But in the high class families they have maids who takes care of the house.
@@karz8891 I don't live in the farm, but this is common in our area, most of the people who do it are from "middle class" families. They adopt a child from a poor relative and made them do the chores, yes they enroll them in schools and pay for school materials but most of the time the kid is too tired to even study.
@@Jane00223 I'm from middle class I'm just doing housechores when I don't have class they not allowed me to get job while I'm studying. Now, I'm understand your point yes it really exhausting.
lol child labor is diff from doing family chores..mga genz ngaun npka snowflakes
I take back everything I said about this girl. She deserves all the fame, love and support bless her. No one deserves to be treated like she was her all life.
You shouldnt have been mocking people anyway 😭 esp if you literally know nothing abt them. Pls stop bandwagoning
Yeah but the reality is a lot of people go through exactly what she went through. Why should she get special treatment? She’s using her trauma to gain an audience. People go through worse shit than her, and their stories never get told.
@@lovinaokoronkwo9142 it’s their own choice to stay silent about it. I’ve gone through some bad stuff which I could possibly make a big fuss about if I spoke up but I choose to stay silent about it and I don’t blame people who speak up and gain fame from it. Good on them :)
Dude theres nothing bad to talk about her trauma past PLUS she was interviewing and ask by him and sis bella just answering the question afcourse since she's in the famous artist industry, people in world would be curious what her life is every artist have a story about their past even if its trauma ☹️.
@@nikkamaecahanap1668 Exactly! Her trauma, her choice of sharing. She don't make victim of herself literally fans care about her and what she went trough. She don't talk 24/7 about trauma If she's happy she say so or whatever she just say like influencers are ppl too.
I was born in America and I can relate to her so much. Minus having to move to a different country, I went through the same exact things she has gone through. I also have PTSD and I do not act like her father or even my father did. Sad thing is that I was dealing with being treated like shit by my actual "dad". Another crazy thing is I was 14 when I finally got away from my "dad".
The interviewer trying to generalize what Bella went through by blaming it on Filipino culture and then finding out her abuser was a white American: 😲
exactly
True
Exactly, it makes me cringe whenever he says "Philippines". Her stepfather is an American. Ulol!!!! Hahaha
The father is taking advantage of Filipino culture so in a way he's correct. And I don't blame him for thinking that we all make assumptions- even if they are not right.
That's what I'm thinking also..... 😒
she sounds like she’s trying so hard not to cry :(
Maybe she's not fully comfortable talking about it on camera
@Trinity Imade me too bc no one deserves to go through that
yeah
It seems like she has no more tears left to cry ... I know the feeling
If you look more into her eyes she’s actually tearing up a bit
"Here in America people are different, we care."
America: tons of mass shooting, Racism (like you perhaps?), Karens, Drugs, Domestic violence.
Yeah good one Ethan, you almost made me laugh.
Taking care of your mental health is very important especially when you have unresolved childhood traumas. It'll show up in adulthood and can still trigger others if not dealt with. I hope Bella is getting the help she needs because it shows her. Unresolved traumas especially from abuse have lasting effects on children.
I see. Her stepdad is an American. Really hate hearing about American retirees in the Philippines who are microagressive towards Filipinos. Some will try to hide it but they're still pretty obvious.
Ikr...l am always grateful that l am not born in a American family
it wasn't even "micro"
Oo, das packed up.
@@imbored4615 I was generalizing the retirees, not specifically pertaining to her stepdad.
true. this is quite common here. it's sick.
I hate how foreigners romantisize the Philippines because stuff like this happens on a daily basis. Filipinos just really care about other peoples perseption of them that's why it may seems we are happy on the outside. Today's filipino youth are f*ckin depressed because of all this generational trauma
amen
Facts
So r u Filipino? I'd love to hear ur story
Wait that is actually interesting can I hear more?
Age of consent is 12
This type of trauma sticks for life. Never judge anyone as being privileged or had a good life you minimize and dismiss their pain causing more pain in their hearts. We’re all in this together love everyone.
Pretty cringe that he judged Bella's culture and race, only to find the abuser is an American, then proceeds to compliment America, only to find out that the Aunt that cared for her is a Filipino.
people only hate her bc she got famous so quickly and easily- Jealousy is a hell of a disease
People are mad she got famous for nodding her head which is a good reason to be mad cause a lot of people who have messed up background do a lot more than just and don’t get any recognition for it
@@blacksheep6415 can you name those people u talking bout?
@@mixoh it’s too many to name
@@blacksheep6415 so you're telling that people get mad at her bcos of something that she can't control.
@@blacksheep6415 Thats not a good reason to be haten for, wtf?
She's the living Cinderella but doesn't need a Prince
Louder!!!
Nope
She is a living queen
Facts
@@rahmankhalid4395 Nope
She is a living GODDESS
@@maxwellmoon Yes she is ethereal
after listening bella story, I can really relate to it. Mine was taking care of my young cousins who are 3years old 2 years old and 6 months old. Apparently according to my uncle and auntie they adopted me and always tell me that i should be grateful, at night when my cousins cried I woke up to make milk for them eventhough they sleep with their parents, wash their poops, feed them food until they turned 4 and when they play and get hurt My aunt would scold me sayin where do you keep your eyes and all the other horrible things.
my uncle got transfered to another city and we all had to follow him they told our relatives they would send me to good school, but when we reach the new city I was abused and used as their maid and no school for me. I would wake up before them and prepare their breakfast and uniforms, and then drop them to school and when i get back I had to clean the house and cook lunch and do laundry and then pick them up from school. And i was 15 at the time.
When the interviewer was in disbelief when he learnt that her dad was an american and her aunt was a filipino HAHAHAHA
Her tiktok contents mostly about cute things, anime or any child would enjoy and we know now the reason. She was robbed of her childhood. She didn’t experience what a normal child should experience. And now that she can finally afford to do things she can’t do in the past, some idiots would comment hateful and malicious speech. Let her live.
Penelope Secret good thing I never downloaded the app. Saw her in instagram vids only and totally can say that she is a lovely lady.
@@hiraeth6748 in my case i downloaded it for my own entertainment, mostly on meme videos created by foreign people (no offense but most of jokes created by filipinos there are cringey or not suited to my taste)
I never commented harsh comments there.
If i hate the video ill just skip it.
But maybe my first one is here ^
@Penelope Secret Same here, I remember being extremely depressed from being bullied and seeing other people get bullied. Deleting it was probably one of the best things I did for my mental health too.
reminds me of michael jackson. he also had no childhood
I m so happy for her
Now i understand why she acts like a child. And people gets mad when she do that. She never have a good childhood. She missed a part of her childhood. She deserves all the success she has.
@@olenabogdanov img stfu
@@olenabogdanov uhm.. what teribble message does she spread? she shows her body because she is comfortable or trying to be and shows that its okay to be you. build a bitch is about how woman are not perfect and you cant build yourself someone. like
dude i dont get u
@@olenabogdanov the fact that ppl don’t see anything wrong with promoting infantile sexualisation is scary. I agree with you mate
@@Jillberto Yeah but then she plays heavily into the goth gf stereotype which has gotten really popular over the past few years - so technically it is build a bitch. She's built by market preference.
@@trol5215 Yes I understand what the lyrics are saying. But the music video goes on to literally show her and a bunch of her traditionally sexy friends buying into a recently popularized sexy goth stereotype. The stereotype popularized by ... ding ding ding ... you guessed it - horny dudes.
So isn't playing into the male gaze - the gaze of men - the preferences set by men - extremely ironic in this case
I could pretty much relate to her since I am also adopted. I have had a vast share of such experiences of being treated in a non-biological family setup. Thank you for putting this out to the world.
Honestly im really happy for her now, I hope she has the best life and gets everything shes never had 💜 she deserves it💜
whatever fame and money she is getting from tik tok or whatever, she deserves it. she deserves everything in the world. she is so strong
Yup she deserves everything, idk why ppl are getting mad at her, like the heck they are the one who gave Bella a million followers and y'all the one who makes her famous. And plus a lot of people on the comment sec. is not believing her, idk why are their problems, but some of Bella's situation is common here in the PH (and me im also from the PH) and i've witnessed some of this. White people here are very full of themselves, they're adopting Asians for them to make money and then abusing them.
@@morpheus2925 envy and denial are why ppl hate her
@@morpheus2925 “deserves everything in the world” literally no one, not even Michael Jackson deserves everything in the world.
No one deserves, she earnt it, lightning in a bottle, she had the right look at the right time while the right app existed, literally planets aligning
I get that she doesn't make effortful content but you can't blame someone who had a hard life for taking the only way out they could.
She sounds like she has a good therapist.
She understands what happened to her.
How to cope.
What a beautiful emotionally intelligent person..
props to the therapist
@JAYEL RILEY No one asked for your opinion, now go back and play friday night funkin or whatever. I bet your dog water at it
@JAYEL RILEY *how’d learn how to spell before you attack others🥰
@JAYEL RILEY if u rlly dont give a shit,u wont be in this comment section in the first place
@JAYEL RILEY literally by your profile 💀. ik exactly what it is because my little brother blasts other people doing the gameplay on tv
I can relate, i was also a loner in my high school days.. i felt indifference.. i thought i was the only one experiencing this things, im happy i found this,, i am motivated
The interviewer seemed to attatch the abuse with the Filipino culture. He was shocked to know that the stepdad was White, however he still continued with saying “American culture is different because THEY CARE” because the AUNT was protecting Bella when they flew to the states, but then found out that the Aunt was a Filipina. So yes, its not the culture, it was about a sick White stepfather.
She sounds like she’s on the edge of crying, it must have been so hard for her. I’m so proud of her for being so strong, she was literally a child…. Nobody deserves to experience something like that.
Almost 700 likes and no replies
Why is there only 1 reply
Yeah I know I feel so bad she went through that
Momoring~
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It makes more sense knowing her dad is American, because most retired american soldiers/navy usually go and hunt younger women in Asia mostly in the slums, then live a comfortable life there because of the currency and those marriages usually don’t end up well. I would know because a majority of my classmates before their dad/stepdad is american. you will usually find a lot of americans living close to military bases.
Her mom wasn’t in the Philippines she was in Saudi Arabia probably working for some rich
@@want2thinkfree yeah but she was Filipino
So true
Yeah It happens a lot in South East Asia
Her biological dad was white??
I had the same childhood as Bella here in the Philippines as well. At some point when I was 10, I had to stay at my uncle's farm because my family hit rock bottom. They would order me around the house and farm doing heavy stuff for a skinny kid. When my uncle was drunk, he would call me and they would verbally abuse me all the time, talking shit about my mom and my dad in front of other people. Realizing it now, I was in front of adult relatives and NOT one of them defended me. Abuse is normal in this country. So fcked up.
omfg i had no idea she had a childhood like this… that’s so sad!! i was always kinda indifferent towards bella poarch (didn’t like her or dislike her either) but now i suddenly feel so happy for her that she’s so rich and famous now and has a chance to live the childhood she never could!!
Oof, when she said that she liked being at school because it was better than being at home, I felt that. This video is about Bella's story, so I won't share mine. But I can relate to that statement 100%.
She makes me realize that I'm going through something like her too I find it normal for me to get abused but I never realized and so yeah sometimes I cry at school because I don't wanna go home
Yeah I prefer being at school than home too :(
Same
Me too boo ♥️ it’s hard, hope you’re doing better now
@Penelope Secret True, but that just speaks even more to how much being at home sucked for her. It sucked even worse than being bullied at school. :(
This is why we shouldn't judge a person by their looks or their actions because we don't know what's going on inside their home.
Yes, don’t judge a book by its cover
@@j4sm1neee ARMY 💜
@@j4sm1neee also don't listen to one side of the story and believe it without hearing the other
Inside their life.
You should definitely judge people by their actions.
Bella, you were abused in the exact same ways as me, it was shocking to hear it coming from someone else and also kind of a relief that someone else knows/understands what that is like. Although I wish nobody ever understood, because it just shouldn't happen...
I was annoyed that the interviewer kept thinking her situation was *because* of being in the Philippines. Like no dude, it was *because* someone decided to be abusive.
The thing I will say about international differences is that after being active duty military fir 10 years and serving worldwide, I would regularly see men do *exactly* what her step dad did. They specifically choose places with cultural differences where women are less supported to speak up or have financial options. So the women are in a situation where silence=survival from having food, shelter, etc. And the man in power will abuse and prevent her from helping herself or her kids, so her way to cope is to let it happen. Not that that's an excuse, just saying that abusers look for people (in thier own country or abroad) where a woman is in a severe disadvantage to stand up to him.
I really relate to this. My situation wasn't as bad because I wasn't forced to do manual labor like that but I was singled out by my father and step mother. Constantly grounded, belittled, having things taken away and having my own family spread lies about me to justify the mistreatment. I have no contact with them now and they aren't allowed around my children.
That Awkward moment when the interviewer finally understood that it was the American stepdad who abused Bella in her own country.
Exactly.
Indeed
@Bobby Robin um ure not bella and neither are we so we should just keep to ourselves and not obssess on the lives of others smh
Spoiler alert. Happens more often than you'd think. There's a lot of American expats who live in the PH & are married to local women. And those marriages are rarely happy.
@@itsjustmin but it’s an interview. Maybe she’s an introvert?
“I have PTSD but I don’t go around hurting people.” 🥺
@Austyn Wright it would’ve been revealed on social media.
What is ptsd? Lol I know it’s like a sickness thing whne ur a veteran but like what is it
@@142_0xye ptsd stands for post traumatic stress disorder. you don’t have to be a veteran to have ptsd, anyone who has gone through something traumatic can have ptsd.
@@142_0xye A lot of veterans and soldiers have it but it's a disorder that happens when you go through something traumatic. Like, when my father was in Afghanistan he came back different.. Angsty and sad. War really changes people..
@@142_0xye ptsd is also know as post traumatic stress disorder its common after serious traumatic experiences
Poor thing. She had to relive all that because of the interview, you can tell she was holding her tears back and oh my gosh her shaky voice...I'm so happy for her, she's come a long way. May Allah bless her 💜
damn i never realized our paths were so similar. shes done an amazing job growing from her experience and turned it into her energy
She wasn't adopted, they took her for child labor
yeah but i feel like she doesn’t want to see it like that
@@zaboselma8826 it’s true, I don’t think anyone would want to be seen like that especially if the person is getting a lot of attention.
She was, look at her lastname
What does that mean?
@@emmanuelactubjr7054 we know but we all know why they actually adopted her, they didn’t love her.
And people wonder why she's so quiet in public. Look at what she's gone through. She's had the shit end of everything for half her life (or more). She's always got to be wondering who actually likes her or if people are just trying to talk to her to bully or try to troll when she's walking down the street. I see all these videos titled " Bella being rude to her fans" and it's really just a reporter or photographer following her around asking her crap! And she's not even being rude, she just looks scared or awkward.
@양반의사 Stop spreading this weird stereotype that all Asians are docile and shy or whatnot. Asian culture puts emphasis on respect, not being fucking scared of people or socially awkward. Bella is literally a product of abusive and absent parenting, both of which are NOT normal in any culture. making your kid into a slave and completely degrading them for the entire existence is NOT normal.
@@unbiasly it is normal lol normal is what is what happens on an everyday basis in that culture and region, but it aint acceptable
@양반의사 yours is the most stupid comment i read today. I totally disagree.
this is the things that makes the culture worse they keep saying that it's the culture like that so that seems normal when it literally causes kids have traumatic past that may develop some problems and a high possibility of panicking everytime someone goes to them or talk to them ik because this is currently what i'm experiencing rn and it pisses me off whenever they say that it's the culture so it's normal, it's the culture that you shouldn't romanticize about, you shouldn't hit your kid
@양반의사 So it's "normal" for Asian parents to refuse for their child to shower after shoveling poop, and are always made to sit on the floor, refused meals/getting slapped for not cleaning well enough, or for your nickname to be a derogatory name like "stupid bitch" when you're a literal child, all while the other siblings could do what they wanted? No this is abuse, period. That man is a white American man and even though he didn't raise his kids there, he knew that treating your kids that way is bad because he stopped being as harsh when they had to move back to America. He just benefited from the "mind your own business" culture in the Philippines.
"Culture is mind your business." Works the same way here in America. There are some people that are just assholes like my mom's side of the family. They were so horribly abusive to each other.
I am glad Bella decided to overcome the negativity in her life and do what she loves. Her album means a lot to me.
The tears she’s hiding when she was speaking just prove that she’s a super strong young woman. But crying doesn’t make you weak. I love that she’s speaking her truth
THIS^^^ EXACTLY CRYING DOESNT MAKE YOU WEAK it makes you more stronger because u express ur feelings
@@colagirrafe8667 so true
Crying doesn’t mean your weak, it means you’ve been strong for too long
Filipinos cry when explaining thing that hurt you I'm Filipino so I can relate
Crying dosent make you weak,it makes
You human
She deserves every bit of success more than any other ungrateful tiktoker.
No one on Tik tok deserves anything. What is her talent. I’ve never heard of her
@@RippyClippy set aside ur selfishness kid 💀 ofc she seriously deserve the fame cry about it
Big yikes MANY people went through a lot even more than her and famous and deserves
@양반의사 jealous 🥰
@@ROFO79 cuz she have an actual talent 💁🏻 a girl who can sing and a ex skilled navy vet army who serve 4 yrs ... why u act like her singing isn’t enough of talent of bella?? Do u want more??? U sound so Demanding like u should the one who find ur real talent
I relate to her especially as a Filipino
Shes so beautiful ❤ ive loved her since i heard her song "living hell". Someone in a different interview asked her what is "living hell" about, she said her childhood... i didnt even imagine it this bad. And despite all that she turned out to be a well put together unproblematic lady. I hope she gets everything she wants in this life ❤
When your abused you don’t know your being abused. It took me along time to realize kids don’t get yarded up by your hair or verbally abused being called lazy bitches. She is a strong girl. God bless you!!! My mother never stood up for us either.
I'm sorry that you went through that. My mother was very much abusive too. It took me a long time to realize why she didn't want the police around or got mad when we talked to counselors.
Thank you, I have a beautiful 10 year old and I stopped the cycle! I couldn’t ever cause harm to my kid. It sucks being blinded because you trust your parent.
I was stalked and harassed by an old man the entirety of high school and I didn't even know that was wrong until I was in therapy. The man eventually r**** me, and my therapist asked if there was any harassment that lead up to that and I was like "oh shit"
If they can manipulate you into making it okay u will believe it. I’m so sorry you went through that!
I'm a teacher and after this year of distance learning, it's eye opening to see how many parents talk to their children in general. Many are amazing parents, but some speak or act aggressively to the point I always had to be ready to mute kids who I knew had rough homes. It's so easy to traumatize and hurt children. Adults are acting very radically and the kids are watching... We are so self-involved we are ignoring them and letting them play on TikTok unsupervised. In about 5 years, we will see the fruits of this period
The fact that her older siblings didn’t protect them hurts my fucking heart. I have 5 younger siblings and I can never imagine not protecting them. Damn, poor babies 💔
Maybe they were scared of the parents too. I mean they must have seen what they did to Bella, so maybe they thought that it will happen to them too
@@biancaw6603 yh but they didn’t have to bully her
@@hafsahparveen1788 monsters are raised by monsters
People not protecting each other is common here it's called
"Not giving a shit about someone"
"Minding your own business"
Lol hahwhahha
@@biancaw6603 they didn't have to bully her and her brother or maybe just leave them alone?
I feel bad because I can see when they’re asking Bella all these questions about her abusive childhood, She’s trying to avoid them. And her voice is cracky as she try’s not to cry.
Beautiful soul and heart, hopefully she heals from most of the trauma, I know it ain’t easy but she deserves every blessing
Honestly she is so wholesome and the least problematic tiktoker idk why she gets hate
Who do people hate her for m to the b? She never asked for the fame. 😬 People are embarrassing.
@@dreamy_daze4 yea like they gave her the fame so don't regret it
@@dreamy_daze4 ikr
because pressed jealous ppl can't live without meddling other's life?
Ikr I dont get it then u see problematic tiktokers or some shit not getting any hate-
She'd clearly suffered enough that she isn't crying with it anymore, when life gets tough it's ur choice to ve tougher or to be weaker. Bella just got tougher, every success she had is what she deserves.
True
Crying doesn't make you weak
Nothing wrong with just letting it all out
@@Sabrina-sc1db Not what she's saying but okay.
@@Sabrina-sc1db but sometimes you just got numb by it and you can't even cry..
@@ssagevee6184 it gave me that impression, that if she had chosen to cry, she'd be weaker
I really admira bella for surviving all of that, she is so strong.
WOW!! Bella you had it bad as a child.
I'm glad you're away from the negativity! As an American woman, I'm glad you were able to come America and make a name of yourself, as well as escape from that brutality! You get to be yourself through your music and express your personality, as well as channel your pain through your art. And that's amazing, that is the best GLO UP! Wish nothing but the best for you in this new year!
This was sad but when the host kept generalizing the abuse as a cultural thing was so weird. Abuse is abuse. It was interesting when he found out the dad was American and the aunt was Filipino.
I was about to say that but I almost think “this is just the culture” is something she needs to tell herself bc it’s less painful than “my parents are abusive and no one helped us”
I noticed that too. He seemed to keep on concluding something until he realizes it wasn't really what he was thinking...
✅✅✔️💯
This is true being abusive is not a culture its in mental of a person. I hate how they generalized Filipino as people who doesn't care
Well when you're parents talking to you you can't talk back to you're parents it's disrespectful for them that's why bella don't talk back that's the weird culture in the philipines o-o
This really humanizes Bella! People were so quick to tear her down for no reason without knowing her story!! She seems lovely- such a strong person!!!
Nah
@@v3ggyishere613 mad
Um no. She's basic af. Uses the most over used quotes and lines as her personality and yall fall all over it. She's so unoriginal it's lame af.
@@madamebih7825 I mean ppl go through the same things… like just scroll if this bothers u. U okay? Is everything alright?
people judged the platform tik tok which pushes content as long as there is a girl in it. Everyone has a personal life. Then it would practically be wrong to say anything anyone.
I really think this story needs to be written and be published 😢❤😢
Sometimes you can't tell with people but with Bella, you can SEE her pain and her insecurity of what's not normal showing. Its wonderful to see her open up and talk about it and still be so sweet and nice.
As a Filipino, it hurts to see how she was treated here. The Philippines isn't a bad place, it's just that it's not the most developed country. Abuse is definitely one of the problems in the country, and Bella was one of the victims of it. People should've helped her with what she was going through but sometimes, people are just ignorant/scared to get involved in other people's business. I'm so proud of her though. She earned every single bit of success that she has now.
Bruh they weren't poor. Unfortunately, she just had an abusive American stepdad.
The people around them might have been scared to help her because her stepfather is an Army Veteran.
This has nothing to do with poverty. Plenty of families in the underprivileged sector are actually hardworking and not abusive like her dad is. She just unfortunately had an ass of a stepdad.
@@youtubeweb3009 Yep, I knew about that but the fact the her step mom was relying on her stepdad's retirement pension shows that she didn't any means of livelihood. It's a typical situation, to be honest. A filipino citizen marries/gets together with a foreigner and relies on them entirely on finances. It's a harsh relaity to accept, but that's what mostly happens.
@@kazumakiryu9369 yep, definitely. Plus the filos may have been intimated by him being an American and also a retired army veteran
bella did NOT deserve this. the fact that people could do this continuosly each day is completley mental! super happy she is living a nice, rich, and happy life. BELLA FOREVER 😭💖
There is o such thing as mind your own business in the Philippines unless the subject is a strong, terrible family or an American (which seemed awkward to approach). Everyone is so chismosa and pakeelamera, but they really do care. Also if you're living in a farmland, a neighbor will just appear on your yard with a bowl of their viand (just a normal sharing thing). We moved may 4x times already and that's true to every place we moved to.
I lived alone in our house in 2019 to mid 2020. My neighbors who are not my family nor close friend sometimes approach me and say if I'm short with money, I can tell them. A lady said whenever I feel anything strange at night, call her right away and she would be sleeping nearthe sala of their house. An old granda also put their grocery store store barriers on our gate, adding extra hight to my fence.
Now I lived in an apartmend and working on a graveyard shift. Neighbors, who I really don't know sometimes give small talks with 'take care' whenever I leave the apartment.
Bella's Amercan step dad is an exceptional case.
Bella : Speaks about her parents
Interviewer : judges filipino culture and says American culture is the best
Bella: My step father is an American
Interviewer : disbelief
Bella: Aunt treated well
Interviewer: In America people care
Bella : My Aunt is an filipino
Interviewer: disbelief to the power infinity.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thx
Y’all are reaching so hard here. When did Ethan say “American culture is best?” 🙄 Btw, him & his wife Hila are both multi-racial Israeli-Americans.
@@XleahrachelleX You can identify it in his voice. He really not say but the way he said that our culture is bad, that's kinda insult.
@@XleahrachelleX 18:35 Watch this.
I just edited. I thought it was in 8:35. But 18:35
she sounds like such a sweet person, i don’t get why she receives so much hate…
I’m not saying I hate her alright, people hate her because apparently she pretends to be cute, she makes weird baby faces and pretends to be a baby... Again, I said that I’m not hating on her; I’m just onlooking other people’ point of view.
People hate her because people are insecure with themselves so they find someone vulnerable to project their anger & insecurities onto someone they don’t personally know. It’s sad how cruel people are.
@@captainnoobhd143 i think she’s doing something called age regression which is a coping mechanism people use if they were abused and traumatized at a young age. you don’t really realize you’re doing it hence the faces and things she makes.
@@Frances_Elizabeth im tellin’ this to everybody i see irl, the world is gonna end by humans!
@@_.lizziejohnsonyes! Thats the word! Age regression!!
She is so kind and I truly hope she doesn't allow her family to use her for fortune❤ Child abuse to me is unforgivable. So happy to hear a happy ending story about a child who was neglected but still turned their life over on their own, she doesn't need them or owe them anything
This reminds me of Jordan Turpin. The horrors and abuse she and her siblings endured. They also had to save themselves, and nobody spoke up or did anything to help them. I hope they are OK and can overcome their abuse.
This is literally NOWHERE near that. Jordan Turpin and her siblings were starved, not allowed to shower, chained to their beds, etc. Bella was making this shit on the spot and it’s so obvious. Don’t disrespect jordans story like this.
@cmitch5598 I'm aware of what happened to Jordan Turpin and her siblings. I also know that abuse is abuse. I'm not going to discredit or downplay someone else's abuse because they didn't suffer as bad as others.
What kind of heartless person would say such things. That's like telling someone who was tortured for 30 days straight, "Hey, you were only tortured for 30 days. This other person was tortured for 90 days straight. So suck it up and stop making things up!"
What proof do you have that Bella is faking this? I, unlike you, believe victims of abuse when they've told me they've been abused. It's people like you, who discredit people who've been abused, that allow victims to continue to be abused. Because, if a victim were to trust you enough to tell you they've been abused, you may reply, "well that's not as bad as what Jordan Turpin went through, stop lying."😑
I find it hard to believe that you are that heartless. Do better, and believe victims of abuse. Do better, to stop abuse in any and all forms. Regardless of whether you think their abuse is severe enough. You should still care and stop it no matter the degree of abuse that person has endured. No one deserves to be abused in any way, for any amount of time. Abuse is abuse and we should stop all types of abuse.
@@11cylynt11 Jordan Turpins case was one of the worst cases of all time. You cannot compare her situation to Bella’s. Bella’s is trivial in comparison. Jordan turpins parents are locked away for a very, very long time. Bella didn’t have to make a legitimate escape where the cops had to go in and save her to where she was on the brink of dying from starvation. Also Bella’s parents aren’t locked away for a long long time. Look at the obvious differences and think about what you just said. It’s disgusting that you would even compare the two situations. Again Jordan Turpin and her siblings were chained to their beds on the brink of starvation, couldn’t shower for a years length at a time, weren’t allowed to go to school, etc. Jordan Turpin literally had to escape her room and ran out onto the street with a phone to call 911. She couldn’t even read the street signs because she wasn’t developed enough at her age, due to the no school and no leaving the house, no actual education thing. Bella didn’t call 911, wasn’t on the brink of death, she went to school, had friends, could shower it just had to be at night, her parents weren’t even arrested, the list goes on and the fuck on and on. So please think before you say something so outlandishly stupid and incorrect. Now Bella sounded like a textbook pathological liar. Ethan basically gave her a story line and she just agreed with whatever he spewed out and ran with. Even IF she was telling the truth, don’t ever compare Jordan turpins sitaution to Bella’s. I’m not saying that because her abuse (if true) is okay, but what I am saying is that you can’t even compare the two. There is validity in every abuse case, HOWEVER, there is also different levels of severity. So let’s take that into consideration before saying something so extremely ignorant.
@cmitch5598 So you think it's ok to discredit and downplay a victim of abuse because they weren't as abused as Jordin Turpin and her siblings? Abuse is abuse. The point is that they were abused and need help.
I know of all the things you mentioned about Jordin Turpin. I also follow her social media account. She is a kind and caring person. Based on what I've seen in her social media posts, I think Jordan would show sympathy toward Bella and do whatever she can to help any victim of abuse, regardless of the severity of the abuse.
I said, "Stop abuse in any and all forms."
I said, "believe victims of abuse when they've told you they've been abused."
I said, "No one deserves to be abused in any way, for any amount of time. Abuse is abuse, and we should stop all types of abuse."
If you think these statements are "stupid" and "ignorant," then you are the problem.
Also, you gave no proof that Bella is lying. You are simply a heartless troll. And I will not be feeding the trolls anymore. I've said what I had to say. And I'm done interacting with heartless trolls like you. Grow up and learn to have sympathy for any and all victims of abuse.
I’m Filipino and it’s true that people here “respect” how other families raise their kids unless they see actual abuse in front of them, then they’ll step in. Oftentimes, people will help in subtle ways like giving the kids food / clothes. My mom and I do it for the kids next door who have an alcoholic father as their solo parent. Bella’s case is just an American taking advantage of a Filipino woman’s and children’s vulnerability. Period.
I understand respect someone, but it seems extreme if a little girl can't even write cause it hurts, like you're seeing abuse with your own eyes and as a teacher she should have reported it
@@martinaasta since she said she lives in a farm, there will not be alot of action if the teacher reported it to local authorities, unless the teacher is wiling to file a case at the court of appeals, after she reported it to local authorities and the white father acts like everything's fine... It would only get worse for Bella.
The Teacher is probably poor aswell a court case is pretty expensive, and when your enemy is a white foreigner who has lots of money you'd be scared.
Bella said her house had 7 rooms with an AC on his father's room. That would mean they're considered rich there during that time especially in a farm village.
People would assume the people and children living there would be well off.
I live in a wooden house in the center of our municipality we have 2 rooms 1 room for my uncle and 1 room for me, my sister and my mother, my father sleeps in the living room, and we have AC so we're considered as middle class.
I just like to say that try to look at it in the perspective of a teacher whose not paid alot, and has to work extra jobs... My mother during that time in the country same timeline as Bella's time collects coins from each test paper she gives during exam and uses that to buy me milk as a baby. do you think a teacher would do something that can probably cost her something when she's already quite distraught by her situation?
@@animesenpai1163 I stand you man. Looking at other peoples perspective is one of the most important things before going into conclusions. We know getting help and filing a case at the court is the correct thing, but situational problems like lack of financial supports really prevents the teacher from helping.
what you guys need to understand is this happened way back.. its quite the opposite now thou, everyone is up in everyone's business with the help of social media... theres no privacy anymore now.
As a Filipino, I will agree with that as well. Culturally, it's wild and my American friends never understood.
i’m not even trying to be funny, she lived a literal cinderella story. good for her that she’s successful now
Except she was her own Prince Charming which makes it that much better
@@jordanspitzer4053 Fact: She doesn't need a prince just to be called a princess 💅🏻
@@mamamoblue9732 she's not a princess but a queen
@@carnatic6205 she ain’t just a queen she a whole goddess
@@Bilan agreed
i live with my cousins and my older cousin treats me really bad every time i make a mistake she always say i'm dumb and always tell i don't deserve going to college it's just a waste of money
As someone who didnt have a childhood either and suffered a lot of abuse I can relate to why she acts younger age regression is insanely common in these situations and it's not always like what you see on social media people that regress can go back one year they could go back 20 it's what ever calms them and makes them feel safe happy etc I've got a lot of respect for where she has been and what she went through and how far she has come 💜💙💜💙
i could hear that she wanted to cry so bad talking about her past, just her voice omg girl....sens love
Edit :omg thanks for the likes!!! Very grateful
Her eyes got red too.
She didn’t deserve anything that happened in her childhood, she seems like such a sweet person 💔
Yes
I love how people just listen to one side of the story and believe it, she could be totally lying about this whole thing....
all I see in her is hypocracy , her fame was the easiest thing she's ever earned , a rough past doesn't make her fame deserved
This is why women should have a career so they can provide for themselves and have a FUCKING VOICE. In my experience this is not just in the Philippines, it's also happening in other asian countries, asian women are usually quiet when the man of the house decides because they're the one who makes money and the wife is afraid of making him upset because she doesn't know how to support the family if he won't provide you $bucks but it's different now and thank God for that!!
Hmm no I think it happens In Arabic countries only
@@death5913 nope
@@death5913 no
I agree. Dad was both physically and verbally abusive towards my mom but still stayed with him for 2 decades until I was old enough to move both of us out because we relied on him financially. Everyone should have a career because otherwise it's easy to get stuck in situations like this, especially where this stuff is common.
@@user-eg4zb8sp1w hmm True Sadly that's Just the majority mentality even My aunt who Has finish 4 university degree kept relying on his husband financial support ever since they immigrate to The US and even though she has lots of overseas job offers such as jobs from UAE and Europe Her husband still control her career
I really don't know what going on her head
It is so brave of hers to be speaking about these things. She is one of those rare people (famous or not famous) who r really actually inspiring! She has a clear reason why she is famous and why she deserves it. ❤️
Praying for healing. Stuff like this really breaks my heart 💔✨💖
Looking at all the comments about their personal stories on how they got abused breaks my heart. I pray for all of you.
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@@SpoilerAlert__ what are you adding to society by commenting stuff like this? Do you really need to keep stroking your fake alpha male persona you created for yourself? If people are opening their hearts and you don't like it, just don't watch/read/comment. But I know what you really want, you want this. The attention im giving you. Well do you feel better I gave you some attention? Why not just make a friend? Or friends?
It disgusts me what people are capable of doing to others. It doesn't cost anything to be empathetic.
@@HarryToeface nobody wanted this reply to read through nor did we need to read another useless comment.
@@SpoilerAlert__ was this comment really necessary?