Yosef Refuses to Apologize to Clare Crawley or Anyone Else - The Bachelorette
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Yosef, who left after a heated disagreement with Clare regarding a game of strip dodgeball in which he did not participate, is back on The Men Tell All episode to rehash his dramatic exit. For his part, Yosef declines to apologize to Clare or the guys for the things he said upon leaving, and the guys -- as well as host Chris Harrison -- appear shocked by his decision. From 'Week 10/The Men Tell All' of 'The Bachelorette' 2020. Watch MONDAY & TUESDAY 8|7c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.
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I saw 8 thirsty boys and 1 man in this video.
Seems that people are forgetting something called standards and self respect smh
Those days are long gone. Welcome to a world where yosef would be considered weird or conservative if he doesnt submit himself blindly to a women.
Facts!!
@@arthurmorgan4942 actually more men are waking up nowdays, females soon will understand their value dont worry about it.
@@bubazzubaz3841 highly doubt that. It's a downward spiral.
He should have taken it one step further and not have been on the bachelor to begin with.
Yosef wasn't yelling - he was stating his very valid concerns...Clare was the one that lost control...I truly feel that Yosef was there to find a wife and step-mother for his daughter.
I felt the same girl. I felt the same. I also felt she escalated the whole thing. I can see how Yosef actually watching her put men through a state of objectification irritated him. She was basically clowning those men & they didn't even see it.
Yosef was OUT of line. He started insulting her out of NOWHERE
He was, with values, instead got a drama queen & several simps
@@soulwinner247 ok simp
@@soulwinner247 Wasn't exactly out of nowhere though, was it? Men have a right to bite back if they're being fucked with.
This aged so well for him when they found out later that she already picked before the show started and was just playing with the rest of them.
@saxman I don’t either, heard about it from a reaction to this clip. It was proven and they had to reshoot the season.
Seriously?
Damn... but to all of those guys in the video?
Hope you enjoyed the taste of crow and shoe leather.
she picked WHO before the show ?
He was right regardless of whether or not she picked her favorite before the show started.
All of those dudes are there for clout. He's fake as shit to feign moral outrage. You are on a show where the person you are interested in is kissing one dude in the am and another in the pm and you're pretending to actually be interesting in this person you never met...
Room full of soft men with no back bone and at the end she played y’all by getting with dude that’s wasn’t even on the show. Yosef saw through the smoke and mirrors.
True that. A lot of "men" are like that these days in America.
room full of men who knew they where n a tv show and where up for fun, ego, idiot who thinks he is better than everyone else get what he deserves
@@zdelany6963 SPINELESS SIMP
True. Fun thing is that some of them actually look like male models. I thought simps were usually ugly or average guys. But there you go.
She picked another guy from the show...
That man has more self respect than all the others combined
Crazy world we live in.
Can't believe they attacked him after seeing the clip and the conversation he had with her, he called her classless pfft he said it nicely!!! Anyone else could have said alot more hurtful things then she is "classless"
well he might have self respect ....but he certainly did not have respect of anyone else. the guys made it clear ...they didn't need him to stand up for them . the man who speaks about "red flags " has the most.
1) i did it for the guys....guys :we did need your help, i dont care
2) it was disrespectfu: guys we did not find it disrespectful: i dont care
3) was voicing an opinion.....with facts ???: but we were there and disagree: i dont care.
I concur.
@@basicallyv9873 simp
I love how they’re making him to be the bad guy.
She had NO class, a victim status, and a 19 year old’s maturity level, and I am so glad he had enough self respect to say something like that.
oh please, he had the matuirty level of a 5 year old. He tried to enforce his standard of behaviour on a group of adults who 1) signed up for a tv show and 2) like the guy says could have said no if they wanted to.
Class please, "I could be with my daughter" ....but I am going to hang around for another 3 days....cause my poor male ego is sooo butt hurt that I need to verbally abuse ths woman to her face ......thats how much time with my daughter means to me . His problem was he was not in control, and the most telling for this behaviour, did he go to the guys did he ask if they had a problem with it , no he waited until he was alone with a woman and proceed to talk down to her and insult her ....an good for her for not putting up with it
It's all about the money.
@@zdelany6963 nah yosef wasnt wrong he was a little petty the other guy where down right 5 yr old trying to fight over girl like a toy.
@@zdelany6963 Maturity of a 5 year expressing that something is demeaning as a man and her interrupting but not apologizing? Imagine if the bachelor had a similar group date, it would NOT be okay and it is NOT okay. He tried to calmly express herself but she felt nothing was wrong and did not apologize.
@@zdelany6963 I don't think it matters if they agree with his opinion on it or not. At the end of the day this is an adult in a position above others that told them to strip down on live television, that action alone is problematic. It doesn't matter if the guys involved didn't care or did so consensually, the very act alone is wrong. If a guy did this to a group of women on live television I'd HOPE someone called that fucker out.
The only petty thing Yosef did in the end was insult her on the way out, but even then I don't really blame him for getting pissed off. He was attempting to have a civil conversation with her about it and her response was "this is why you weren't on the date." She couldn't even understand that what she did was wrong and it was very clear to him then and there that she was just wasting his time with the WHOLE bachelorette. So he sets the scenario straight in a blunt manner, again nothing wrong with this but it was definitely going to hurt someone of Clare's level of maturity. This obviously hurt Clare's feelings so she lashed out angrily and said some nasty stuff. Clare then walks away, this angers Yosef but he clearly keeps himself in check until she walks away to the other guys so he lashes out in anger... Now if we look at where things went wrong we can obviously point to the fact that Clare gives no fucks about Yosef, his opinion or even considers that he might be right.
When we look at the situation nearly everyone is going to stand by Yosef because he was in the right for the majority of the situation. The petty comment he threw out is understandable as ANYONE in his situation would be pissed off. Also he was very much in control for most of the situation which is very telling for his behaviour. You can actually see how angry he gets when he realises he's been made a fool of by this women simply by coming onto the tv show, he still calmy albeit bluntly explains why what she did is wrong.
When he said “if my daughter did something like that i would hope someone would call her out” is a sign to me that he most likely is a really great dad for his daughter. Hopes she listens to him and not the crazy world.
Also that someone would be someone honest to and actually be caring about his daughter. A dad would hope for that.
What I respect about Yosef is that even despite being outnumbered, he still stands his ground and sticks by his truth, the rest of these moist little boys could learn a thing or two from him.
There is no strength in numbers.
@@drunkenrampage1588 You've obviously never been attacked by a rabid pack of gerbils, have you. They nasty!
The rest of them are all Simps. That's why
Did any of them simps get her tho
Yup.
this just made Yosef even more high value then he already was 🥵
Exactly
You'd let him hit?
@@langfordjeremy100 I would and I'm a straight male. I like people with common sense😂
@@yomammasboo713 fair
@Lèmon Lēe ?
"That was really not a good look" for you it's all about looks, for him it's about principles
just ask the internet. We are on Yosef's side
He said that in a room with men who got BUCKnaked on national television for a woman who never had any interest in any of them 🤣😂
Yes he is a man of sheer confidence
But it was a good look that the other guys were butt naked on TV because that Claire said so, and they still defended her after that ... smfh the simp energy is too strong within them XD
@Saksham Sharma No that's actually a VERY good look. The host was just trying to say everything he could to bullshit Yosef into thinking he's in deep water.
As a woman, I agree with Yosef. Her behavior is something you’d expect from a young female. Not an almost 40 year old “woman” looking for her husband. He’s correct to call her classless.
Not only that but she diverts from "I'm a strong independent woman who doesn't need mam" to "this man is bullying me! Come save me!" Real quick.
He could’ve got his point across and probably got more of a response emotionally from her if he didn’t use insults. Insults are powerful enough to create a debate and defeat the purpose of a message. It was not necessary. In fact I think it would’ve been better for his daughter to see a conversation going in the right direction instead of an insulting useless one.
He didn’t even speak in any bad way until she couldn’t handle the truth lol. I guess he didn’t need to repeat the words classless etc… but he didn’t shout until the distance between them increased.
A bunch of simps vs one man
Mad respect and props to Yosef. He was basically in a lion's den with a bunch of simp pussies, and still maintained his composure and integrity. That's a man I can respect- someone who's true to himself.
He was in the lions den, but was the only lion, the rest were just hyenasimps.
69 noice
No, those were men and you're a just a child with a robot on your profile.
@@sonyvalencia "Boys" those were boys. They defended a woman strictly because of what was between her legs. That's not man behavior. That's boy behavior. She started the confrontation, yet they defend her. That's boy behavior, not man behavior. The man stood up for himself, and held onto his own self respect and integrity. That is a man, or man behavior. He shot back when the woman struck first, he was just better at it. Once again, man behavior.
Stop defending people strictly off their sex like that woman. It's sexist as all hell. Also attacking people for profile picture? That sounds like something a Karen in middle school would do. Seriously, grow up dude.
@@sonyvalencia Boys in men's bodies. I know this because those guys can't fight. They've a giant stick up their ass!
These guys are still out here SIMPING for Clare, when she didn't even give them the time of day! 😂😂
hi barb
@@vturner purrr 😛
It's about right and wrong idiot. Stop talking like an insecure INCEL
That's what makes them simps
@@Smooth258 Listen I say it how I see it 🤷 Yosef was the only guy with the balls to tell Clare how it is. Women always want equality until they don’t. 🙄
I love how they're defending Clare, when she literally wasted all of their time, when she already "fell in love" with one of them before the show ended. None of these men can handle the truth that Yosef is speaking about. He saw Clare as something he would never want his daughter to turn into, and rightfully called her out on it. Unlike the rest of them, he didn't go on the show to find a woman for himself, he also had intentions of her being a role model and a mother to his child. When he saw that she was not, he left. Like any self respecting person would do.
@Infinite Revery exactly and they're all defending her like she didn't just manipulate y'all and wasted your time.
@@thluuver don’t forget the fact that she made some of these clowns do some degrading stuff
@@DeezNutzzzzzzzzzzz yup which Yosef called her out on and she got offended. Like sis....he spoke the truth, own your shit
They are simp white knights
@@darrylrevok9936 thats exactly right. She is a piece of work.
They tried to gang up on him to apologize. He spoke honestly and sincerely and Clair responded with hostility and aggression. If he responds back in the same manner, immediately he is vilified. Huge respect to this guy, standing by what he said and he who is.
I don’t even know why he is wasting his breath answering these clowns. And he shouldn’t apologize. It’s good he doesn’t give in to peer pressure. It’s rare you see people with honor and character.
I mean he's probably contractually obligated to show up for the after show show thing
It made him look more like a boss by not backing down and clowning these simps even more.
Immunity to peer pressure and manipulation is one of the best things you can learn.
I swear to god the looks they gave him when he said “if my daughter did something like that i hope she gets called out on it” was funny af, they solidified in my mind that they’re simps lol
What's a simp?
@@searchingsoul1728 A personwho pedestalizes women/men to the point that they can no longer see any flaws or may see themselves as inferior. Often simps lack confidence to be honest with whom they may be attracted to.
@@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements So a simp would raise questions regarding their sexuality?
Also, would simp be equivalent to the previous terms for coward, wuss, weak, weakling, spineless?
Is simp a word for someone who respects other peoples feelings and would rather communicate with kindness? I’ll take that thanks.
@@KatelynDawn No. Its a word for people who don't hold others accountable because they're attracted to them.
Just him saying if his own daughter was out of line he would hope someone would call her out on it shows how legit this man is 👏
I don't get why they are trying to force an apology out of him when she disrespected him as well and noone held her accountable for her actions. I can't stand these double standards
“I’m sorry you can’t express how you feel as a man” absolutely based I love this guy
These men are embarrassing themselves and they don't even realise it. I hope they realise that women watching with an ounce of sense won't fault him lol.
There not men.
What men?
There are too many "women" and white knights attacking dude.
Ew
nope i definitely fault him
This man is a priceless gem. Good for him for standing up for what he believes in which is character. No one should be bullied into doing something they don't feel is right for them. Yosef was very respectful and well spoken. He did nothing wrong. Good for Yosef.
Guy is clearly extremely intelligent. I love watching actual intelligent men arguing with people that try to get by on "Bro" credits. Good stuff.
@R B Sweeting Nope...he is a true man.
@R B Sweeting Narc is the same thing he seems like he has an arrested development.
I totally agree with Yosef. He shouldn't apologize for anything.
I admire his testicular heft.
This is like chad standing up for himself in a room full of betas.
Exactly.
I think this is rather a strong man standing up to simps...
EVERY man felt threatened!
Exactly 💯
Soooo true
I’m glad Yosef didn’t apologize, he’s a real man with standards. These other boys are simps trying to play ball with a sexy man.
But your words have a huge impact on people. And what Yosef did was so messed up. He hurt Clair and he was disrespectful. Could you imagine if someone spoke to his daughter like that. He’s a bad father then
@@elijahparis-salmon9943 if words have a huge impact then “Clair should choose hers wisely as well, what goes around comes around and she played all these guys. If any daughters was shady like Clair then they should face the consequences and they get what they deserve, not all woman are right just because they are a woman. Plenty of woman out there are liars and same goes with men.
@@pumpkinspicelatte6461 I understand where you’re coming from. I think Clair is just kinda toxic and it got silent because everyone was afraid that they weren’t gonna get enough time with her and they had to laugh it off and talk with each other and make the night about her be amazing. And then she feels like they weren’t their for her so she had the nerve to attack them and bash at them for no reason. She was leading them on the whole time and I think next time she needs to learn how to be more respectful
@@elijahparis-salmon9943 him calling out her age is not disrespectful. She literally yelled at him and cut him off multiple times before he got to that point. Even her body language was aggressive.
@@codeblueduceduce i understand. And she was not respectful to any of the guys at all
Yosef had integrity. I wish all men would follow in his footsteps. And I’m glad he called Clare out, if I did something along those lines. I would want someone to call me out. I still don’t see how he disrespected her. This honestly reminds me of the Luke P situation.
The simping is real. Only one man in this room.
There can be only one, lol.
Couldn’t agree more! I actually put your “he’s the only man in the room” in my comment as well because you literally nailed it!
Totally!
Except for Yusef, All those dudes were licking the muddy shoes of Clare's feet.
The rest of the males need to move to S.I.M.P city, S.I.M.P mountain,
Sad bunch of virtue signalling manginas. Crazy thing is I bet they all think they came across as really good guys too! I have literally zero respect for any of them. They will end up being doormatted and manipulated in their future relationships with woman, and deservedly so.
Yosef was the real winner. He realize she wasn't worth it and checked himself out. Simps jealous cause they didn't get any in the end
I’m glad he stood his ground.
Being a man in 2021 who stands up for himself and speaks his opinion in a calm manner is the wrong way to go... apparently... What a sad bunch of idiots. It’s good that he stood his ground.
No...dont equate this to everyday reality. This is the Hollywood reality. Where they pressure you to do all sorts of inappropriate things for the sake of the "show"... in real life, stripping naked if you feel uncomfortable with it would be seen as wrong.. It seems a lot of you have agendas to promote here, but I see through all the BS.. from both Hollywood and red pill blue pill and alt-righters or whoever.
Or your not getting laid
In a calm matter, you must not pick up on tone, body language, and micro-expressions very well.
Sounds just like the Democrats
I respect my boy yosef a 100% these guys are the worst kind of simps ever
The simp mob is a very cringy thing.
Seriously, it hurts my eyes looking at all the simpetry.
@@themysteryofgodliness6574 you guys are awesome... thank god real men are defending Yosef in the comment section.. classic
Awesome job Yosef, much respect, fuck these simps
Calm down Incel
I thought when this whole strip dodge ball happened it was a bridge too far. I think Clare went too far and stripped away their dignity.
This guy deserves a bow for standing up and not backing down on what he sees is wrong. Hats off dude!
this guy is the MAN !
I love it, Yosef stayed 10 toes down and didn't give in to the simps. 😂😂😂
Yosef represents the true 1%
The rest were sheeple, mAsses.
AGREE 1000%
Man the simping is strong in this video
That's next dimensional s.i.m.ping.
These guys are still offended on her behalf months later... #NextLevelSimpetry
Yosef is the alpha and the rest are beta males by putting Clare on a pedestal
So cute to watch the incels gather... look at you guys leaving your basements to come and gust bump. It’s Cute AF. It really is.
@@RyanGBanister I don’t think she went with any of those guys anyway.
Yosef is an absolute legend, what a boss. This is what happens when a guy who isn't a simp somehow ends up in a simp situation like this show.
Yosef is an actual man of value, one who respects himself and stands his ground. He was not rude, in fact he was restful but honest when he was addressing his concerns with that woman with a mindset of a 17 year old.
yosef is really good at making people upset. certain words “crazy, like a man, oldest bachelor” he knows what he’s doing
Yosef deserves a standing ovation from all respectable men and women! The rest of those guys shamed themselves and refuse to be honest about it.
Yosef: *logic*
Other "Bachlors": "blah" "blah" "blah" "blah" "blah"
Yosef: *more logic*
Other "Bachlors": "blah" "blah" "Your the bad guy" "blah" "blah" "blah"
Yosef: *logic*
Saved you guys 4 minutes of your life but still watch for an example.
Sigma energy. The dude so sure of himself, he doesnt need the pack, he thrives outside the pack...a lone wolf.
And the rest are SIMPS blue pill white knights trying to shame him.
I'd say this is the norm. No sigmas no betas. Everyday dudes. Maybe Yosef is a bit more red pilled but unsure if he really has gotten some RP knowledge.
I'm not going to defend Yosef AT ALL, but Chris Harrison acting like he and the production team are on some moral high ground here is ridiculous. There is NO WAY that production would ask the women on The Bachelor to do this (or the cage match). It would get the show shut down. Somehow, asking men to take off their clothing for Clare's entertainment is okay? Despite what they said, the men were NOT okay with this. While they were willing participants, this wasn't a mutually agreed upon activity, and some of the men did NOT look happy to be there. They definitely felt some pressure to participate (or risk not getting time with Clare and possibly being sent home). If a man had asked Clare to do this, would she?
@TeamPaul17
I agree this type of double standard is actually just counterproductive and quite frankly disgusting.
At the same note, the way in which that arrogant male conducted himself with Clare and in this clip is deplorable. Calling out someone for their behavior and attacking their character are two completely different things. This guy was throwing low blows at Clare's character for an incident he wasn't even invited to. A healthy way to express his 'opinion' would have been to say "hey, what you allowed to happen with the strip dodgeball activity to me felt unnecessary and humiliating which has changed my perspective of you. I need to leave this show now but good luck on finding what you're looking for, really."
Clear, honest, concise, and start to the point without any of that disrespectful rhetoric.
You are totally right ! I believe that there is an agenda to destroy manhood, because they want to make all men to be gays ! They want to lift up the women and destroy the manhood!
Exactly right and well said !!
@@lilyzemengist8091 hes right tho shes 40 something acting like a dumb 20 year old
The question here is why you’re NOT defending him when he’s 100% right?
Now if the roles were reversed and this was a woman saying this stuff everyone would be behind her talking about you stand for yourself girl.
Exactly 💯
I love it when Claire justified despite being the oldest bachorette was because she didn't settle for a guy like Yosef when deep down she knows why she's almost 40 and still single. The show demonstrated why and I respect Yosef for putting her in place. She's hitting 40 but acts like a young 20 year old.
Exactly. She's not been single bc she "didn't settle for men like that", she's been single bc the men she wants don't want her. She's completely overestimated her market value (as per usual) and has zero concept of accountability. It's pitiful, truly.
exactly: I would add:behavior not even appropiate for a 20yo
She priced herself out of the market and its is the same issue why many women will continue doing so today. Can't keep telling yourself you can do better when you yourself aren't really that better.
@@saraeissa4954 at 40 on a show clearly for young people? That’s definitely a huge red flag
20? She acts like a spoiled child of 4 to me 🥲
Yosef is a legend. shout out to Yosef for standing his ground
The guy at 1:40 had so much frustration lol. Over a chick that played him like nothing 😂
Yosef is a perfect example of a real man...the female was disrespectful and passive aggressive and he stood his ground
He is brutally onest...we need more men like this...
And look at how he is treated
@@KageNoTenshi Like Donald Trump?
@@ronnyzain5962 to be fair, there is a ton of shit trump said that was retarded, that's the only issue i have with him, i neither think he is actually dumb, or have any problem with him being an asshole
@robert noble values vs superficial looks
Well done Yosef for standing up for his values amongst an ambush by a mob of men and a host who has clearly been given the brief that he must make Yosef apologize for his "wrong think" values
"I tried to help" Yosef isn't the one that needs help. He's got more balls than everyone in that room combined.
This dude is so collected he is almost borderline sociopath. And I love it.
The way he stayed calm and wasnt even fazed by these lames is the definition of masculinity
The simps were all like "How DARE he not care what we think about him!"
The man stood his ground. He is the true alpha male and I hope he reads this!!!
I cant believe how the host was trying him to admit wrong. Unbelievable! If people are wondering where some of these entitled women get their ideas from -- this video is Exhibit A
Yousef is a real man. Lol all these boys are soft like charming. Emotional af.
Kudos to this guy for having a backbone !!!
Yosef's confidence level: 50000
The others: screaming lil babies
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I agree with Yosef, just not the way he said it
He said only what he had on his mind, cool and calmly. Until she literally scolded him like a boi and grabbed him and escalating simply because she was triggered and didn't like what she heard. She was out of line and imagine a man expressing himself or girls being made to strip naked and play fucking dodgeball.
@@Mozoleum27 yea and then she turned it down on him because he called her old. Like chill she just went over his whole entire point and then wouldn’t let him talk. Like...
He’s honestly right tho, and it’s productions fault probably even more so because they’re in charge of the group events and such, glad he actually called someone out because I have a feeling they won’t do this again. I’m sure some of the guys felt uncomfortable but didn’t feel like they could say anything so kudos to him for sticking up
me too. he had a decent point, but i think he said it in a really disrespectful way.
Probably the most well spoken and actually respectful person here. Y’all just want simpy simps that won’t dare speak or act out and somehow take that as disrespect.
@@nb-uq2zf good. She deserved that.
I see one man in a group of boys
I see 1 man in the group of simps 🤣🤣
Yep. Simps.
Yosef doesn’t care one bit & I love it.
Yosef is the only man I would want out of this whole room of little boys. Good on him for standing his ground when the little boys tried to assert dominance, that was actually kind of pathetic of them. I don't have a daughter, but if my daughter acted a damn fool like claire, I would thank someone like yosef for calling her out on it.
"Boys"
*Simps
Wow. I am so attracted to him. WHAT A MAN. Good for him for standing his ground. I’m a woman in the dating scene and I appreciate men who stay true to their morals and stand up for themselves.
Say it lounder for the simps in the back miss lol
MORALS. this is what separates Mens from boys.
They’re bitter because they devalued themself to impress an old woman and he call them out on that. Well done Yosef!!!
She said crazy things to him as well they some simps defending her
Women can't be held accountable for shit it seems.
@@victorsoto4821 facts
Yosef: I needed to stand up for the other men
Other men: actually we were fine with it
Yosef: STFU
Ya men in general not boys
Sunken cost fallacy...anyone who disagree that getting naked for a TV show is not humuliating, needs a time to think about himself. What is easier, admint that you acted pathetic and feel the shame than acted pathetic and then trying to point it out in good light. I think evidence speaks clearly.
@@trutela9210 I laughed at that. The other guys seemed to think that because they weren't forced into doing it that means what they did wasn't tasteless or degrading. Just imagine if the gender roles had been reversed.... There wouldn't even be a discussion about it. It would have been considered too degrading to even air on TV.
Other men: 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
He clowned them good style
“Tried to help”
No, you’re just scared of the backlash and the hate thrown your way..
Good on Yosef, a man for sticking to his word and for not giving in like the rest of these boys
What I don't understand is how is it that these guys don't realize they embarrassed themselves.
If a bachelor treated his women the way Clare treated her men, and one of the women confronted him like Yosef confronted Clare, everyone would be applauding that woman.
Edit: I agree that Yosef’s delivery was wrong and that he has his own issues, but in this case, I thought he was fine until he began yelling, “YOU’RE CLASSLESS, CLARE, CLASSLESS”. That part and what followed was just mean, but everything before that seemed fine.
I agree. You can pinpoint the moment she becomes angry, and it's when his argument doesn't get the reaction he wanted. He is telling her how he feels, and she says she understands, but when she doesn't get angry is when he started attacking her character, telling her he's ashamed to be associated with her, that she's classless, etc. THAT was when the conversation went awry. She seemed to be understanding of what he was saying until that point. It felt like he just wanted her to be angry.
Exactly! I agreed with his argument in the beginning, but towards the end I could tell he wanted to not only inform her, but to hurt her. He didn't want her to be understanding. He wanted her to feel how she made Him feel, which was hurt and angry.
@@abi21891 ur conveniently leaving out the part where SHE initiated the whole insult battle. shes the one who escalated the conversation
The message was sent.
The message was clear. Whether or not it could've been delivered in a "better way" should be a whole different matter and should never take away from the point of the message (unless when it comes to drastic cases, to which this is not)
I agree. But I think he got mad like that because Clare was going off so it’s understandable that he reacted that way towards the end.
Yosef did NOTHING wrong and has NOTHING to apologize for.
Yosef is an insecure Incel
The man stands alone against an army of simps 😂😂
This guys my hero. I ain't no simp. He's has more self respect than all those other simps combined.
This man just motivated me to stand up for myself & what I believe in more no matter the adversity. King energy right there. Those other dudes were simping so hard it made me cringe.
The biggest joke is that those guys are standing up for her oblivious to the fact that she has already chosen the man she was interested in on instagram and that she has just wasted their time making them think that they have a chance.
Simp gang vs Yosef, haha! Yosef just said his opinion and hes right, period.
Those guys are butt hurt cause Yosef called it early and got out with his dignity intact!
mad respect for yosef. he has healthy standards, and isnt backing down from that.
Yosef is a true moral man
Unpopular opinion- I agree with75% of what Yosef said. It’s the delivery that was wrong
Sure. It should have been much harder and faster.
People keep saying the argument about it being his daughter would he want someone to speak to her like that. If she did something “bad” I wouldn’t be surprised or mad if someone speaks back to her in a “mean” way
right? he's basically asking Yosef to agree that no one should hold his daughter accountable for bad behavior if she exhibits it.
The dodgeball date was quite distasteful.
If this was "The Bachelor" and the male lead of the show had asked all of the women to strip down after losing the dodgeball date there would have been a lot of outrage. there is a double standard.
I'd love to see the genders reversed and anyone defend this then.
Right!!!! The production will be shut down🤣🤣 it’s the double standards honestly but the guys have no respect for themselves and Yosef is calling like it is. He should’ve have delivered it better but 🤷🏾♀️the truth hurts, the only man there is yosef
It's different bc women have been fetishized and sexualised for centuries and men have basically always been in control in this world. She gave them the opportunity to be vulnerable for a laugh and they couldve said no but they were ok with it. Saying you'd love to see the gender roles reversed in this cannot reply bc how women have been viewed in society is extremely different to how men are.
@@Nico-kn5vb yeah, and men have always been valued for their wealth and status, whats your point
@@johndillermand4053 did you just skim my comment or something and not actually take away any information from it?
@@Nico-kn5vb no
A Real Man and 5 SIMPS..
A respect for me to you as man for believe what you do is right
He said the truth to her, but he deliver it poorly, without kindness , the lack of kindness was wrong , but the rest was good. It has to be a combination of truth and kindness !
She put hands on him, pointed in his face and went pretty ballistic. Imagine the shock if it was turned around, he couldn't even finish what he was saying, simply because she didn't like what he said. Never put hands on anybody.
She lost her right for him to do that once she started behaving inappropriately and immaturely
it doesn’t matter , the bad behavior of somebody else can not be powerful enough to destroy your kindness. I used to be like him and people didn’t hear me because I lacked kindness , once I incorporated kindness in my conversations, I noticed that people started to pay more attention to me to the point that some of them corrected their wrong behavior because of my kindness when I spoke difficult truths to them ... So we can NOT sacrifice the truth for the sake of kindness , but we can not either ignore the kindness with the excuse that we are so honest and sincere ! This is also the problem of the ex president Donald Trump , he said many things that were truth , but his lack of kindness and lack of humility when he gave his speeches were his biggest problem ! So I respect Yoseph for speaking the truth to Clare in her face , but he was wrong in delivering those words without kindness !
@@hijaovercomer5500 Alright, I respect that.
This i agree with. It is a very hard thing to apply when the person you are talking to is a narcacist.
One man in a room full suckers, including the host “ let me help you help yourself “ What has this world come to were a man can’t speak his mind.
She' the one who yelled, stood up even to loom over him and be intimidating. She's the one who owes an apology to everyone, him, the other men, the viewers. And all these dudes on her side? Ya'll are grown men and you feeling ashamed because he spoke up speaks volumes on how you feel for doing it, not how you feel for him talking. HE IS RIGHT AND YOU'RE CONFIRMING IT!
gotta love papa chris stepping in, trying to build bridges to a common ground of decency.
I somehow doubt building bridges was the real intention here...
More like behavioral conformity through using mob tactics and peer pressure to get the man to admit he was wrong when he wasn’t.
Papa chris that racist bastard. Stop talking with the thing between your legs and open your third eye
@@ReadDaGospel care to take a look at the time I wrote that comment? how was I supposed to know that about him. Also: Thanks for the sexism. uncalled for and unnecessary. maaaaaan.
Gas lighting at its finest - “ you did this, therefore I have the right to do this to you”
She didn't even do ANYTHING to the guy. He just used it as an opportunity to be his true self (rude and abusive) probably loves attacking women!
@@FaryalZubair77 gaslighting with nothing to gain?
@@FaryalZubair77 you're exactly right and he's a misogynist through and through. He has that ugly sneer and meanness about him! ewwwww
@@noahhess3402 that's just ridiculous!! You can't see that he's an abusive idiot? OMG
@@FaryalZubair77 ITA!
Yosef is the kind of guy who has things under control while the rest of the guys complain like kids about their toys being stolen
We livin in a simp society
Holy crap what a cool dude. Mad respect for this guy for sticking to his guns.
Yosef is truly a man that has worth, standards and a pair of oo. The others need to grow some and have some self-respect.
Lol I like how he just laughed at them when they were shouting! Just cause he got boundaries dont make him judgemental
I totally get where he’s coming from... the kind of woman that would be ok with her potential suitors playing strip dodge ball is not the kind of woman he wants as a partner.
Was his delivery appropriate? Absolutely not. But I respect he stands in his convictions.
If that's the case, why would he even consider going to a show like this one? Anyone who's ever watched it knows that tiny bikinis and small speedos will happen, if that's not his type why would he agree to be on it?
He's allowed to have his opinion, but it was wholly inappropriate to a) take it out on Clare, who is just a pawn in a show where the PRODUCERS plan everything, and b) to take it to a personal level (by calling Clare old and whatnot) when she disagreed with him.
@@amykaufman7002 he never said or did anything inappropriate, she got up in his face, raged, pointed in his face, towered over him and talked down to him cause she didn't like what he was saying. Totally a good look on her part, she was out of line. She also put hands on him as he wakked away, totally Buena toxica.
@@Mozoleum27
A lot of women and beta men consider actions as bad as words (because they fight their wars with words, they consider them a real threat).
Using their logic, if you humiliate a few women on national TV telling them to strip down to nothing and walk back to their building naked for your entertainment, it has the same gravity as when a woman confronts you with "harsh" delivery of words about what you did a couple of days ago to the women you are considering to marry.
That's why the ones who are mostly against free speech is mostly beta men and a lot of women.
His delivery was perfectly fine.
How about Claire say shes sorry for being so classless!!?? I love how he stood up for morals.