These people don’t need to be on an episode of Dr Phil. This man needs to be behind bars. CLEARLY this is abuse…who in their right mind locks their spouse in the basement?? 😢😢😢
@@dorothymcguire2105 Yes, seriously. If you read my, you would know that the husband should be put away somewhere in evaluated. Not Central rehab after he was berated in public He lost it. He's an unfit man. You don't treat people that way You send them without asking their permission. There's enough evidence to show he's unstable. Dr Phil yell at him all the time persistent. I'm unstable man is an unstable man. It should not have been done that way, in my opinion. Dr Bill so powerful should have got a court order to have him evaluated without any choice on his part. However, he never said anything negative about the woman who said she cheated. Sometimes when people cheat it creates a very volatile relationship with a spouse. They lose trust and they become suspicious of everything. It may drive some people crazy. Not all people, but some who are unbalanced will do that. So before you cheat, make sure you know who you're living with and get a good lawyer and end the marriage. Put him away yes. Dr Phil destroyed him in public. The man is mentally disabled. I think Dr Phil mishandled this. He was too angry and hollered too much. A specialist does not do that, he did that for the audience. That's all I'm saying. And I like Dr Phil for the most part. And I don't disagree with your comment. I think you are right. I just added a thing that might be interesting about an insane person. Could happen that way. Thank you for your comment.
Luckily he was arrested immediately after the show. The dr phil team set up an escape route for her to leave and helped her leave and got her a restraining order and he broke it and stalked her and he was arrested like a week after this.
Wait to see the war in family court if she divorces him. I went through a divorce with a guy like this but I was lucky . He fell in love with someone else.
@@mariannehavisham8323 that’s the truth. I was a legal assistant for 23 years. For ten of those years I worked for divorce and family court lawyers. Worst field of law there is. Anyway two women who were being abused left their significant others and both were shot dead. One I think had a TRO but they are useless anyway. After that I switched to civil litigation. Much less drama and terror..
He’s punching above his weight and he knows it. He has a beautiful wife, who when others see them together , people wonder how did SHE end up with HIM.???? What an awful , controlling, inadequate little man.
This is the type of man who would kill her and the kids then himself because "if i can't have her no one can" She's in danger. I'm so glad she got out and got remarried and has zero contact with him. Go girl im so glad you're happy ❤❤
IN MY OPINION…he was drugging her and taking off her clothes and “doing things.” And he turns up the heat so she’ll believe him when he tells her she took them off in her sleep because of the temperature. She was living in a scary movie!! I so hope she got out with her kids and went to a safe place where she could go by a different name or even better, have a new identity.
1:14 WHAT IS WRONG WITH DR.PHIL?! CALL THE COPS SAVE HER AND HER KIDS!! THIS ISNT SOMETHING THAT CAN BE FIXED !!! 4:31 If she keeps taking him back she's just as much part of the problem as he is!! Those poor kids !!
Walk a mile in her shoes. If she leaves him he won't let her go anyway. She'll never be free of him. He needs locking up for her safety and that of her kids. He's a narcissist who.looks on them as "property" not "people".
Where is the full episode? Is this the one where the guy “watches” her while she sleeps? Is this a very old episode? If so, then he did go to prison. He violated an order of protection after she filed for divorce. I remember the episode and the follow up episode
Isn’t he one step away from murdering her? Dr. Phil and others will step back and say we saw it coming, we saw it coming, he needs to be stopped now and he does need to be in prison for what he did. Holding someone against their will? Criminal.
She is wasting her younger years with this man. She is beautiful. She should be spending her 20s having fun and finding herself, not with an abusive man
0:47 She kept taking him back! And that’s the problem! When you leave, you LEAVE-leave. Don’t go back to anyone that’s even showing slight signs of control or abuse! Don’t tell me it’s easier said than done. I’ve been there. I can’t stand people like that. It turns me off. And I am a survivor of childhood abuse. Just LEAVE and don’t go back, don’t TAKE him/her back. Don’t think it’s about the kids. Don’t think it’s about money. Because the kids will not have that stress, and you’ll always figure out how to make it. I PROMISE! 🙏🤗❤️🙏
Just because you could do it it does not mean everyone can.Some women are paralysed from fear.Because there is no way to know what sick person like this is capable to do
People have said that there was an update show at some point( I’d so love to see it!) and Jen is remarried and the kids don’t have anything to do with Jeffrey. I’m stunned we haven’t all heard on the news about him killing someone!
She needs to realize she's the one ultimately keeping herself there. She needs to make the decision to leave and be done. No magical person is going to swoop in and save the day.
Luckily he was arrested immediately after the show. The dr phil team set up an escape route for her to leave and helped her leave and got her a restraining order and he broke it and stalked her and he was arrested like a week after this.
This was originally aired in 2007, and it's now 17 years later (2024). So yeah, most everyone watching today will undoubtedly wonder about their situational outcome. If I had to venture a guess, I'd bet they're divorced. They collectively allowed his mental illness / obsession to get way out of control. It's extremely rare that it could be corrected without extensive psychiatric help, including a good deal of time apart from one another.
WHERE? Where is the final real story of this couple?? This was a few years ago but I havent heard of her being a victim since. That would have been all over the internet if he didnt behave himself. Any ideas?
He strategically messes with her knowing like any person who has a strong self preservation instinct will, he is purposely iliciting her reaction of self preservation and survival to control her even further 😢 she needs to get away from this evil narcissistic man, she’s not a husband he’s a dictator and eventually someone will lose their life due to their volatile relationship 😮
100%. I'll bet good money they've done some swinging, threesomes, or something of the like that they're not talking about. It would certainly explain his wild insecurities as to why he's worried someone else could "take her away from him". Not condoning his behaviors at all, but it certainly would explain some of the motive behind his obsessive actions. Women ALWAYS play the victim in every domestic situation. Although she's certainly a victim of his obviously unhealthy obsessions, there's NO WAY that her behaviors up to this point in time were all "saint-like". Don't for one second kid yourselves into believing otherwise. It always takes TWO to screw things up in a relationship, and both of them need mental/psychological help. Clearly, him more than her, but still, BOTH. He additionally needs professional psychiatric help.
Oh lord I live through a similar situation. That is like being owned by a psychopath. He will controll her life in ways most people never dreamed of including controlling the children. And making them obey his abuse. Grateful to God I escaped. Yet our adult children are still being controlled by him.
This guy is dangerous. Isolating her from her family is a tactic abrs use. Locking her up like that isn't that a form of kidnapping? This guy is a criminal. Potentially a psychopath , the dude has NO empathy.
I'm so thankful for Dr Phil having people like this man and Donald Trump on the show, to show how truly mentally ill some people are! Thank you for trying to help very sick people Dr!
She was throwing things at him. That’s attempted murder. STOP BELIEVING THESE EVIL WOMEN!!! Good women don’t act that way. Just because she weaponizes her fake crying doesn’t make her just.
Unless she was throwing axes at him, that is NOT attempted murder 🙄. If you watch their full episodes, you'll see that he has: deliberately gotten her fired from her job, locked her in their basement, recorded all of her conversations, stalked her with a GPS tracker, faked getting a vasectomy so he could try to get her pregnant against her will and without her knowledge, snuck nude pictures of her while she was sleeping and showering, isolated her from her family, and on and on. But sure, *she's* the "EVIL" one because she threw a dish towel or something. Get real. She's not perfect, but he is unhinged and dangerous af.
@@peachysea20 : They BOTH need professional psychiatric AND psychological help. Him, much more than her, but still BOTH need help. I believe their marriage is salvageable, but ONLY IF they both truly commit to fixing themselves and their situation. It's a very long, uphill, costly battle, that very FEW people are actually willing to do. Most couples will just take the easy/lazy way out and divorce. Why? Because they're emotionally weak, and because they usually didn't truly love one another in the first place.
This man needs to be in prison. Let him know how it feels to be locked up.
Apparently he is now
These people don’t need to be on an episode of Dr Phil. This man needs to be behind bars. CLEARLY this is abuse…who in their right mind locks their spouse in the basement?? 😢😢😢
Agreed!
Dr Phil gave him far too much grace!
Seriously? @@MrGazzara
@@dorothymcguire2105 Yes, seriously. If you read my, you would know that the husband should be put away somewhere in evaluated. Not Central rehab after he was berated in public He lost it. He's an unfit man. You don't treat people that way You send them without asking their permission. There's enough evidence to show he's unstable. Dr Phil yell at him all the time persistent. I'm unstable man is an unstable man. It should not have been done that way, in my opinion. Dr Bill so powerful should have got a court order to have him evaluated without any choice on his part. However, he never said anything negative about the woman who said she cheated. Sometimes when people cheat it creates a very volatile relationship with a spouse. They lose trust and they become suspicious of everything. It may drive some people crazy. Not all people, but some who are unbalanced will do that. So before you cheat, make sure you know who you're living with and get a good lawyer and end the marriage. Put him away yes. Dr Phil destroyed him in public. The man is mentally disabled. I think Dr Phil mishandled this. He was too angry and hollered too much. A specialist does not do that, he did that for the audience. That's all I'm saying. And I like Dr Phil for the most part. And I don't disagree with your comment. I think you are right. I just added a thing that might be interesting about an insane person. Could happen that way. Thank you for your comment.
Luckily he was arrested immediately after the show. The dr phil team set up an escape route for her to leave and helped her leave and got her a restraining order and he broke it and stalked her and he was arrested like a week after this.
He's extremely dangerous
Holy cow. Hon, you don't need to be living like this. Please take help from those that can give it. 🙏
This man treats his wife as a piece of property.
Run girl don’t look back ever
Wait to see the war in family court if she divorces him. I went through a divorce with a guy like this but I was lucky . He fell in love with someone else.
Statistically you are most at risk of getting murdered by your partner in the short time after you leave
@@mariannehavisham8323 that’s the truth. I was a legal assistant for 23 years. For ten of those years I worked for divorce and family court lawyers. Worst field of law there is. Anyway two women who were being abused left their significant others and both were shot dead. One I think had a TRO but they are useless anyway. After that I switched to civil litigation. Much less drama and terror..
That can be more easily said than done, sadly.
If I ever come into money I’m going to buy a home for abused women and children to stay and feel safe. I hope I get to do that
Wow you have the biggest humanity to help the abused ones my wish is the same God bless you 🙏 ❤ ♥ 💖 💕 💗
He is SICK. SICK. SICK…!!!
He’s punching above his weight and he knows it. He has a beautiful wife, who when others see them together , people wonder how did SHE end up with HIM.????
What an awful , controlling, inadequate little man.
🇿🇦 🤔 He's NOT a man, he's a punk of a coward‼️😡😡😎
Yes very little indeed. (Hope he reads this..)
He's a psychopath
Exactly!!!
This guy behavior is VERY disturbing and he needs to be in jail...this poor lady is going to need a lot of therapy to ever live a normal life
This is the type of man who would kill her and the kids then himself because "if i can't have her no one can"
She's in danger. I'm so glad she got out and got remarried and has zero contact with him. Go girl im so glad you're happy ❤❤
Gaslighting at its finest!
Perfect example of gaslighting, definitely.
What's the point of 5 minutes of this with no middle or ending where is the full episode?
So frustrating
IN MY OPINION…he was drugging her and taking off her clothes and “doing things.” And he turns up the heat so she’ll believe him when he tells her she took them off in her sleep because of the temperature.
She was living in a scary movie!!
I so hope she got out with her kids and went to a safe place where she could go by a different name or even better, have a new identity.
Sounds like it to me too
1:14 WHAT IS WRONG WITH DR.PHIL?! CALL THE COPS SAVE HER AND HER KIDS!! THIS ISNT SOMETHING THAT CAN BE FIXED !!! 4:31 If she keeps taking him back she's just as much part of the problem as he is!! Those poor kids !!
She’s apart of the problem? This poor woman is in fear
He is a crook who exploits desperate people like this woman
Walk a mile in her shoes. If she leaves him he won't let her go anyway. She'll never be free of him. He needs locking up for her safety and that of her kids. He's a narcissist who.looks on them as "property" not "people".
@@dorothymcguire2105 I agree.
Fkn narcissist. WTH….time to go….this is OLD…but still. I hope they are divorced and that she is still alive.
Where is the full episode? Is this the one where the guy “watches” her while she sleeps? Is this a very old episode? If so, then he did go to prison. He violated an order of protection after she filed for divorce. I remember the episode and the follow up episode
Never marry a narcissistic person.
Isn’t he one step away from murdering her? Dr. Phil and others will step back and say we saw it coming, we saw it coming, he needs to be stopped now and he does need to be in prison for what he did. Holding someone against their will? Criminal.
Coercive control freak. Run lady.
he doesn't feel he's doing anything wrong. this man is dangerous
DANGER! REAL DANGER!!!!!!!!!!
She is wasting her younger years with this man. She is beautiful. She should be spending her 20s having fun and finding herself, not with an abusive man
He is nuts, but the point at which a woman decides to leave an abusive husband is the most dangerous. So sad.
Watching that episode I kept thinking surely he would be arrested while he sat there.
If my spouse locked me in a basement, I'd leave. This guy is way too controlling.
Easy to say until you are in the actual situation
Don't stay with him and stop having his babies! Geez....🤔🙄
0:47 She kept taking him back! And that’s the problem! When you leave, you LEAVE-leave. Don’t go back to anyone that’s even showing slight signs of control or abuse! Don’t tell me it’s easier said than done. I’ve been there. I can’t stand people like that. It turns me off. And I am a survivor of childhood abuse.
Just LEAVE and don’t go back, don’t TAKE him/her back. Don’t think it’s about the kids. Don’t think it’s about money. Because the kids will not have that stress, and you’ll always figure out how to make it.
I PROMISE! 🙏🤗❤️🙏
Well said 👏!! 💯 %%% right !
Just because you could do it it does not mean everyone can.Some women are paralysed from fear.Because there is no way to know what sick person like this is capable to do
Agree but how do you stop him stalking you and your kids. How do you keep yourself safe after you leave?
You can do better than that
There's good men that don't act like that
Coercive control. What an evil freak.
Where are they. Many people wondering
Poster boy for Power and Control. Sad, but this is how it works.
Leave him, guy isn't normal
Young lady, you need to RUN and take your children with you because they will grow up to be just like their father.
He should've been arrested for this alone because this is false imprisonment
He locked her in the basement?!?!?!?! He,s insane!!!!!!!
Run lady! What are you teaching your children!!
I would love to know what happened in the end with this family. Now that it is 18 years later.
People have said that there was an update show at some point( I’d so love to see it!) and Jen is remarried and the kids don’t have anything to do with Jeffrey. I’m stunned we haven’t all heard on the news about him killing someone!
Are they still together!!
Wouldn’t be sitting beside him. Wouldn’t be talking to him. Grab your kids and go. There will be opportunities to do so.
If he locked me in the basement when I did get out me & my kids would be gone the next day
Huuuuum this is what all the devils 😈 demons 😈 evils 😈 do they attack then they bribe with flowers 💐 or any cheap staff 🤔 so sad 😞 😥 😢 😔
He's very dangerous
She needs to realize she's the one ultimately keeping herself there. She needs to make the decision to leave and be done. No magical person is going to swoop in and save the day.
I read that she divorces him later. That husband is a wacko case.😮😮
Luckily he was arrested immediately after the show. The dr phil team set up an escape route for her to leave and helped her leave and got her a restraining order and he broke it and stalked her and he was arrested like a week after this.
I just watched this episode today or half of it. This was a long time ago. I was wondering whatever happened to her.
This was originally aired in 2007, and it's now 17 years later (2024).
So yeah, most everyone watching today will undoubtedly wonder about their situational outcome.
If I had to venture a guess, I'd bet they're divorced.
They collectively allowed his mental illness / obsession to get way out of control.
It's extremely rare that it could be corrected without extensive psychiatric help, including a good deal of time apart from one another.
WHERE? Where is the final real story of this couple?? This was a few years ago but I havent heard of her being a victim since. That would have been all over the internet if he didnt behave himself. Any ideas?
Y’all don’t know him like I do.
sounds like domestic violence!! that guy is clearly abusive and she needs to run and never look back!!!!!!
This man is sick
If you can talk to Dr Phil you can take your kids when he is at work and go to woman's refuge
What a sicko !!!! I hope she’s not still with him
Obsessive love the drama continues was filmed in 2007. How did it eventually turn out?
Please let us know if she is alive
What episode and season is this
2007 was the original year it aired. You'll have to do your own digging beyond that.
He strategically messes with her knowing like any person who has a strong self preservation instinct will, he is purposely iliciting her reaction of self preservation and survival to control her even further 😢 she needs to get away from this evil narcissistic man, she’s not a husband he’s a dictator and eventually someone will lose their life due to their volatile relationship 😮
What happened to her
There's nothing behind those eyes!
Psyco
My true comment will get deleted ..... This guy is a true wnker.
insecure jealous little boi
This was recorded in 2016. Im watching this in 2024. Hes most likely killed her by now ☹️
I thought this was made in 2007
I think there is more to it..he made a comment that he hasnt showed the pictures to noone.that she didnt know..there is just something else going on..
100%. I'll bet good money they've done some swinging, threesomes, or something of the like that they're not talking about.
It would certainly explain his wild insecurities as to why he's worried someone else could "take her away from him".
Not condoning his behaviors at all, but it certainly would explain some of the motive behind his obsessive actions.
Women ALWAYS play the victim in every domestic situation. Although she's certainly a victim of his obviously unhealthy obsessions, there's NO WAY that her behaviors up to this point in time were all "saint-like".
Don't for one second kid yourselves into believing otherwise. It always takes TWO to screw things up in a relationship, and both of them need mental/psychological help. Clearly, him more than her, but still, BOTH.
He additionally needs professional psychiatric help.
The blank stare is chilling, he’s truly mentally disturbed…run!
Making money should not always be the first goal.
Call the cops and get her help.
Wtf
Run girl Ru
This is not a full episode
It's a 5 minute clip so obviously it's not a full episode.
She needs to disappear change her name and go into the protection person program
when people move weird,leave 'em right where they moved weird at,bruh,no cap,oms!🎯💯
Leave, Leave, Leave
All for the views, where are the cops?
Oh lord I live through a similar situation. That is like being owned by a psychopath. He will controll her life in ways most people never dreamed of including controlling the children. And making them obey his abuse. Grateful to God I escaped. Yet our adult children are still being controlled by him.
He feels he's her husband and she has to listen. I've been in a relationship like this. It's horrible
control of the viewers
This man deserves more than prison! He can't be treated by anyone! They lady should leave and go as far away as possible.
This guy is dangerous. Isolating her from her family is a tactic abrs use. Locking her up like that isn't that a form of kidnapping? This guy is a criminal. Potentially a psychopath , the dude has NO empathy.
The update better be that he is in jail.
Run far away as you can take some time and plan it when he is at work leave.Keep everthing logged so you have evidence to Purdue.
She eventually divorced him. And his work was in their garage so no leaving while he’s gone.
I'm so thankful for Dr Phil having people like this man and Donald Trump on the show, to show how truly mentally ill some people are! Thank you for trying to help very sick people Dr!
@auntiefan4202 :
Don't go dragging politics into this story, where it doesn't belong.
T/f is wrong with YOU?! Ya nutjob.
She KEEPS going back - 100 her fault .
Wrong. They BOTH are to blame, and they BOTH need professional help. Him, more than her, of course.
She was throwing things at him. That’s attempted murder. STOP BELIEVING THESE EVIL WOMEN!!! Good women don’t act that way. Just because she weaponizes her fake crying doesn’t make her just.
Unless she was throwing axes at him, that is NOT attempted murder 🙄. If you watch their full episodes, you'll see that he has: deliberately gotten her fired from her job, locked her in their basement, recorded all of her conversations, stalked her with a GPS tracker, faked getting a vasectomy so he could try to get her pregnant against her will and without her knowledge, snuck nude pictures of her while she was sleeping and showering, isolated her from her family, and on and on.
But sure, *she's* the "EVIL" one because she threw a dish towel or something. Get real. She's not perfect, but he is unhinged and dangerous af.
@@peachysea20 : They BOTH need professional psychiatric AND psychological help. Him, much more than her, but still BOTH need help.
I believe their marriage is salvageable, but ONLY IF they both truly commit to fixing themselves and their situation.
It's a very long, uphill, costly battle, that very FEW people are actually willing to do.
Most couples will just take the easy/lazy way out and divorce. Why? Because they're emotionally weak, and because they usually didn't truly love one another in the first place.
Its clear what kind of a man you are... hateful way to describe women. I can imagine there are very few women that would ever pass your requirements.
Wtf