I understand. However, women also have the responsibility to protect their wombs. It's 2024, we have a variety of birth control (hormonal and non-hormonal) in public and private medical institutions, and abortion is legal in SA. Falling pregnant and becoming a single baby mama is a choice.
True, only a woman has the power to have a child. Those women should take responsibility of explaing to the kids why they settled for this man for a father to their kids.
Guys don't gas light women, both men and women must have self respect. It is not only a woman's job to safe guard herself. Men lie and manipulate women. We must not make it normal to go around and men become defebe as well. Let us all respect ourselves. Men and women period. We must not normalize what is wrong, because it is the children who suffer at the end of the day. That is why all sexually transmitted diseases are rife in our communities. No one speaks about that, people are dying silently in their homes. There was once a promotion of Zithande, which means love yourself, irrespective if you are a man or a woman. So let us start doing that as a nation and stop gofeba period.
Not all women are not helpful or caring. A lady stopped her car to jumpstart my car when I was stuck. And she was also in a hurry to go to work. I appreciated her efforts and kindness. Yes, men also assist. There are good and bad people bathong!
So sad to watch. We are not thinking about the kids, but us and our desires. I hope the next generation will choose differently from us. They will have children in marriages only.
@@thembantshumayelo she is not lying. even in the States, it's this culture ya American ba batsu ka same trend. Dikereke de tletse nga basadi ba senang vhanna, either ba tsabele, in jail, divorced, or like this type that produce le basadi ba ba ngata. Kereke tsa makgowa ndi tletse ka many generations. You find 4 generations from one family. I've learned there, I didn't read about it. Black men have to change. Yes, segregation damaged our family structure and set up but we know better. We can do better, as men and women, or batswadi.
@@tnonkosi8021 he is in denial. We need to acknowledge the truth. As black people sithi who predominantly have kids outside of marriage, followed by the coloured community.
No matter how it's explained or wrapped up, it just doesn't make sense and should not be normal. You can hear how he's swerving around the issue, so uncomfortable.
I forget my own age, I know its somewher above 30 and below 40. I also forget other peoples ages, I have no idea how old my own parent are, but I remember my cell number and others from 2006. So it may not mean what you think. Men generally will forget ages and birthdays.
With this guy im convinced it means what im thinking… Notice how he isnt forthcoming about his situation… makes you wonder why he even came on to the show… But he is more than willing to talk about his tiktok success which none of care about much, we are more interested in his family dynamics
6 kids not staying with you must be nice. You don't spend time with them under 1 roof daily. You don't feel the responsibility that much. Yho.... school fees, medical aid, food, clothes, quality time, etc🙈🤦♀️🙆 Nka lla hore😫
My ex boyfreind lied about not having have any children and he was pushing me that we must have a baby...one day he confessed that he have 6 kids....i was like what nooooo i ran ran ran ran
Fact that he hesitated to answer how many kids he has and the age differences tells me that he knows how messed up his situation is & he is ashamed...as he should be.
@nkosinathingwenya6162 The interview is about this guy hence my comment is about him. Should the baby mamas come on the podcast I'll comment about them too.
You can't be having lot of kids knowing you can't afford to take care of them. This is stupid and irresponsible. Basadi ba gona le bona ga ba di chabe. Wa bhora mošimane woo. I feel sorry for the fiancée court orders and child support. She better marry out of community of property. Ensure she doesn't share anything with him or else she will loose everything she worked hard for.
The concept of building an actual family and growing the inherited assets and whatever wealth our parents leave us is foreign to us. People abayingeni. Let me tool.
My exact thoughts !!! These men are seriously disturbing and it’s strange how we seem to be too tolerant towards them… like this guy doesn’t deserve to marry nobody’s daughter - even Penuel doesn’t deserve to be anyone’s husband!!
Please let your children know each other as of recent siblings found themselves being I love with each other,having children with each other not knowing that they are siblings till very late. Be responsible please
Definitely not a blended family. He's not married yet to any of his baby mamas or current partner. None of his kids live with him. We don't know if his partner has kids before him, so blended?, I don't think so.
You need to diecde if you want us to listen or not because you speaking Sesotho and we don't even know this person. I love your podcast but you need to think about your viewers when you seat down with a friend or someone you know.
6 kids. 6 baby mamas. The current lady must just know she’ll never have peace. So many kids when he’s not even a millionaire. This guy is irresponsible. 🫤
He is not joking I personally know someone with 16 kids from different women. He is my friend I love him but he is just another guy who likes female I am not shocked
Promis is bitter towards baby mamas. You are so bias, this man is here next to you telling you about 6 kids with 6 women 😢 and you say baby mamas are silly.🤔
And le comment lentse le subscriber
Normally they make an attempt to speak English. Why not this time? Many people won't be able to understand. Even other South Africans
N not skipping them ads akerr❤
So irresponsible. There’s no need to glamorise this. He is just going around creating broken families
I understand. However, women also have the responsibility to protect their wombs. It's 2024, we have a variety of birth control (hormonal and non-hormonal) in public and private medical institutions, and abortion is legal in SA. Falling pregnant and becoming a single baby mama is a choice.
You both make very valid points
True, only a woman has the power to have a child. Those women should take responsibility of explaing to the kids why they settled for this man for a father to their kids.
Wow and feeling good about it? Such a shame.
Guys don't gas light women, both men and women must have self respect. It is not only a woman's job to safe guard herself. Men lie and manipulate women. We must not make it normal to go around and men become defebe as well. Let us all respect ourselves. Men and women period. We must not normalize what is wrong, because it is the children who suffer at the end of the day. That is why all sexually transmitted diseases are rife in our communities. No one speaks about that, people are dying silently in their homes. There was once a promotion of Zithande, which means love yourself, irrespective if you are a man or a woman. So let us start doing that as a nation and stop gofeba period.
This is becoming a moderning pandemic Baby Daddy / Baby Mama .
Not all women are not helpful or caring. A lady stopped her car to jumpstart my car when I was stuck. And she was also in a hurry to go to work. I appreciated her efforts and kindness. Yes, men also assist. There are good and bad people bathong!
Another Panuel the Black Pen 😢
😂😂😂
Ai making nonsense make sense
We need to seriously frown on this baby mama/baby daddy culture, we're the only race with astronomical broken families.
So sad to watch. We are not thinking about the kids, but us and our desires. I hope the next generation will choose differently from us. They will have children in marriages only.
Don't lie on a public platform. Other races are facing the same problem; it's just that you don't know about them.
@@thembantshumayelo she is not lying. even in the States, it's this culture ya American ba batsu ka same trend. Dikereke de tletse nga basadi ba senang vhanna, either ba tsabele, in jail, divorced, or like this type that produce le basadi ba ba ngata. Kereke tsa makgowa ndi tletse ka many generations. You find 4 generations from one family. I've learned there, I didn't read about it.
Black men have to change. Yes, segregation damaged our family structure and set up but we know better. We can do better, as men and women, or batswadi.
@@tnonkosi8021 he is in denial. We need to acknowledge the truth. As black people sithi who predominantly have kids outside of marriage, followed by the coloured community.
No matter how it's explained or wrapped up, it just doesn't make sense and should not be normal. You can hear how he's swerving around the issue, so uncomfortable.
For the mere fact that I'm not on tick tok but I managed to finish this episode 😂😂😂, I love you promise❤.
I'm convinced he doesn't know how old his kids are or how many kids he has
I forget my own age, I know its somewher above 30 and below 40. I also forget other peoples ages, I have no idea how old my own parent are, but I remember my cell number and others from 2006. So it may not mean what you think. Men generally will forget ages and birthdays.
With this guy im convinced it means what im thinking… Notice how he isnt forthcoming about his situation… makes you wonder why he even came on to the show… But he is more than willing to talk about his tiktok success which none of care about much, we are more interested in his family dynamics
6 kids not staying with you must be nice. You don't spend time with them under 1 roof daily. You don't feel the responsibility that much. Yho.... school fees, medical aid, food, clothes, quality time, etc🙈🤦♀️🙆 Nka lla hore😫
My ex boyfreind lied about not having have any children and he was pushing me that we must have a baby...one day he confessed that he have 6 kids....i was like what nooooo i ran ran ran ran
Ladies and being careless with their wombs, ay bandla 😂😂😂😂
Generous with their wounds to matlakala a banna. Manyala
Men need to understand they model the type of partners their kids must get attracted to.
A walking red flag 🫣😭
ladies please we need to love ourselves better
Issa no from me
I understand whr we going but this is febe promotion
Lets get a gent thats actually responsible
Fact that he hesitated to answer how many kids he has and the age differences tells me that he knows how messed up his situation is & he is ashamed...as he should be.
And the 6 baby's Mama's? Where is their shame? 🤔🤨🧐
They probably don't have so many kids with different men
@nkosinathingwenya6162 The interview is about this guy hence my comment is about him. Should the baby mamas come on the podcast I'll comment about them too.
@RayOfLetsatsi...It still takes two to tango. How many times have we commented about people who were spoken off on this podcast?
@@user-ou8rk5jm2q...So you find out a guy has 3 children with 3 different baby Mama's and as a woman your response is: "I'll be number 4".
Basedi are ditshabe stru 😂😂😂 first born tseyi 6
3 kids!!! Emang nyana lol, The girl is brave
Precious Makunyane you are just matured. Love your podcast
I would never believe a man with 6 kids.To each their own ai
3 with same woman is max for me.
I know someone who has more than six baby mamas and he supports none of them.
Am obsessed with your broadcast Promise you doing amazing work
What a show❤I watched twice❤Promise o funny jjjerrr ❤I love her so much ❤
Bathong ba Modimo..Baby Mama Number 3, 4, 5 and 6 ba dibete basadi ba!
That's y we need to marry first and have babies
😂😂😂
Sum 1 is working spreading the genes .
You can't be having lot of kids knowing you can't afford to take care of them. This is stupid and irresponsible. Basadi ba gona le bona ga ba di chabe. Wa bhora mošimane woo. I feel sorry for the fiancée court orders and child support. She better marry out of community of property. Ensure she doesn't share anything with him or else she will loose everything she worked hard for.
The concept of building an actual family and growing the inherited assets and whatever wealth our parents leave us is foreign to us. People abayingeni. Let me tool.
Keep doing the great work Piwe❤
There goes another Penuel🤷♀️
My exact thoughts !!! These men are seriously disturbing and it’s strange how we seem to be too tolerant towards them… like this guy doesn’t deserve to marry nobody’s daughter - even Penuel doesn’t deserve to be anyone’s husband!!
Please let your children know each other as of recent siblings found themselves being I love with each other,having children with each other not knowing that they are siblings till very late.
Be responsible please
Say it out louder please
I know one old man in my village he fill the bus with his own kids alone and bring them to home affairs for birth certificate .
A bus? 😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂
Are they from the same mother or different mothers?
These ppl r not to be celebrated
And Promis doesn't see anything wrong.
English subtitles needed on this channel please 🙏🏾
The views have even dropped that time people love her Channel.
Language barrier will be the detriment of this Channel.
I'm disappointed at Phiwe xis Bby mama's yesees being soo irresponsible yerrr.
Broken society
This guys humour and charisma is dope
Nangu loCaptain😂
When grown up boys think they are men just cause their IDs say so… what kinda lineage does he even come from?
The interview starts in 16 minutes
😂😂😂
Thanks for headsup😂🤣
Thanks 😂
Someone check on this mans partner ukuthi uright?😢
She is definitely not okay😢
She knew, nothing was hidden mfethu….
Yoh, women don’t love themselves. When a man has that many kids. You leave him alone 😬
Promise are iyoooo mara man 😂😂😂😂
This is a blended family . How does he manage .
Definitely not a blended family. He's not married yet to any of his baby mamas or current partner. None of his kids live with him. We don't know if his partner has kids before him, so blended?, I don't think so.
@@SibsM93
And that lady he’s with, if she has no kids is dumb. 😢
Honestly can't stand people who says Bru God.
ME TOO ITS LIKE GOD IS THEIR PEER😢
@@Cuselihle Glad I'm not the only who think this is wrong.
@@Cuselihlelol true
More of English please 🙏
same request here.
Click the " CC " on your screen it will translate for you
promise could you please add subtitles when you are speaking your native languages,,,some of your subscribers reside in other parts of the continent
Its often difficult to translate our language sometimes it loses context.
Sisoza strong strong ka language... you fan all the way from Eswatini. I love your content Promise❤
Very funny phiwe😅
Please incorporate English 😢 we foreigners would like to enjoy the stories as much as everyone else is
If you want an international audience to subscribe lets have more English
Ae I just hope he is not a deadbeat to some of them.
Kanti why is he here if doesn't want to about himself
What’s his handle. He’s so funny 😅I’ve never seen him before
Piwe357
English ???
He is right about Cindy Nd Melzi
Women like who they like , life is a choice.
Whoever is dating him.is not serious
❤❤
You need to diecde if you want us to listen or not because you speaking Sesotho and we don't even know this person. I love your podcast but you need to think about your viewers when you seat down with a friend or someone you know.
Nangu lo kaptain wa ma birth equipments * in Simz Right voice* 😜
Promise are “yoh mara men!” 😂 ba loile batho ba
Mmm... mara basadi ba strong waitse just for golf. Are you supporting them bro?
So he had 3 more kids while staying with a lady?
Yes
Wait… isn’t this man gay?
Yoo😢
3 13 yr Olds poi yey
Father Abraham
6 kids. 6 baby mamas. The current lady must just know she’ll never have peace. So many kids when he’s not even a millionaire. This guy is irresponsible. 🫤
He must be joking
Fortunately/unfortunately not..😅
He is not joking I personally know someone with 16 kids from different women.
He is my friend I love him but he is just another guy who likes female
I am not shocked
Iyoh @@mashadimokgata871
@@Ownnarrativepodcast iyoh
@@mashadimokgata871sesi you love bs here
Did I hear does u or ur co company needs security
She didn't ask him to speak more English. This sucks
What sucks? He is speaking official languages (Sotho & IsiZulu).
Promise did a good thing.
Promis is bitter towards baby mamas. You are so bias, this man is here next to you telling you about 6 kids with 6 women 😢 and you say baby mamas are silly.🤔
🥹🥹🥹
Very bitter this one. I blame her man for cheating on her and having a baby
H0w d0es one hosts such a disrespectful guy yoh
Unsubscribe for me..we not being accommodated!
Sorry I cant watch this nonsense I dont even understand what his saying!
Unsubscribe fore..
Confused , confused confused to the last🤷♀️🥹
Keep doing the great work Piwe❤