At the beginning of the video I was thinking “eh…” because my experience of limerence and TF infatuation weren’t the same. In the middle of the vid what you said really resonated though! I have loooooooonnnng history of episodes of limerence in my life actually predating my “known” trauma. These infatuations were for unreal people- characters in books/movies, some rando celebrities, etc. but never a real person I encountered. Meeting my TF - more specifically being within physical proximity to my TF - did not immediately trigger a fascination but it did cause major awakening. My crown chakra opened up and my connection to Spirit And Source, which was previously absent (minimal, at best), became real - almost tangible. THEN - months after our meeting- I had a realization from a dream that my TF was just that. It was a profound knowing deep with my soul. A clarity that I’ve never experienced before. It was a complete surprise to me because Our interaction was intense but it wasn’t a physical attraction or the stuff that breeds fantasy. It was spiritually profound but it felt “normal” - Examples, looking in his eyes was too intense - everything else blurred out and I had to look away, I KNEW what he was thinking, I could physically feel his energy on my skin when we were close. But none of that was accompanied by infatuation. It felt normal but also way different (I can’t put it into words, not matter how hard I try). And, like you said in the video, I DID have realizations about traumatic events after I started looking at my shadows. I think those were the impetus for my previous episodes of limerence and doing the work has changed everything about how I feel, respond, even my physical body. Ironically, the previous infatuations are the main reason I doubted my TF connection- how could I trust that this is real when I have a history of fantasizing about people?! I’ve come to a place of acceptance about that part of me and I’m now able to clearly see the distinction between fantasy and the reality of my TF journey. I don’t know if I will ever see my TF again or be in union but it kind of doesn’t matter because our encounter literally changed everything for me. Idk the reason I am writing so candidly about how I have experienced both - maybe someone needs to hear it. I just know I felt very ashamed of my predilection to fantasizing and it ended up making me doubt my TF connection. But I understand it better now and accept it. Thank you so much for the video!
Wait I just thought of a way to succinctly say this: limerence was a way for me to escape my fears and pain but my TF journey has given me no choice but to transmute those fears and traumas into loving myself. That’s the difference for me.
I was impressed with the comment about the obvious gratitude you feel from this life changing encounter, regardless of anticipation for reunion. I then wondered, if one truly feels satisfied with the appreciation alone of their own self, could be considered as the " let them go" stage in a Twin Flame journey? Your follow up comment was on point with the major difference between the two experiences. We hide in our fantasies but are willing to work hard and encounter struggles for what we know to be the best for us.
Ahh yes. I meet a person in 2016, we split up in 2017. I thought he was my twin flame. But in January of 2019 it suddenly stopped and a realized he was not my twin flame. Four month later I met my twin flame. And I must say that these past 5 years have been completely different to what I now know to be limerance. But I needed that experience to understand my trauma and release it. The first experience I projected through my mind and the external. And through endless twin flames readings 😅 The twin flame experience. Very different. An inside/soul experience for sure ❤
Yes, with twin flames nothing changes on its own but you have all the power to change it within you. It's just a matter of aligning and balancing your energy. These energetic shifts is what will create the conditions for your twin flame to return to you and for you to feel AMAZING in the process. 💜
I’d like to be sure that this person is not my twin flame and ‘limerence’ is what I’m experiencing. However it has been a long time (pushing 3 years) and we met when we were both young (15 and 16). As soon as I am starting to feel better about myself the thoughts occur again and the synchronicities follow. Two weeks ago I’d completely stopped thinking about them all of a sudden and then out of nowhere it’s all bombarded me again. Really embarrassed that I looked at his socials recently as it’s been over a year since I last did. I’d love to take your course but I’d rather hope they are not my twin because I only want to focus on myself and have a free mind again
We recommend you schedule a free clarity consultation so we can see where you are at on your journey and how we can help you. bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation
Close to 10 years on this journey and I still keep questioning 🤨 is it limerence a false tf I need to just learn to detatch from for the right one to come in… I’ve racked my brain and it isn’t coming from my mind it is coming from my soul! I feel it from my core existence! 😢
There are no false twin flames and you really can't detach from your twin flame because you are the same energetic being. Doubt is common as it is part of the fear-based energy. If you would like assistance learning how to balance the push-pull, fear-based energy that is keeping you two apart physically, we can help! Ten years is far too long to suffer with this. Many of our students magnetize their twin flames within 6-8 weeks! If you would like to learn more, you can schedule a clarity consultation here: bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation 💜
I do not believe in twin flames crap. I think I’m limerent for a gal. Never had limerence before. And I’m 50. I live in incredible fear of this gal because all my trauma gets triggered. My therapist is the one who believes in all that. She is convinced I have a twin flame. If your person ain’t feeling it with you, then nope, you’re just limerent. I have all sorts of crazy spiritual stuff happening that I have to question.synchronicity, dreams, seeing ghosts, signs from god. Etc. And I came to the conclusion: I AM JUST DELUSIONAL. It’s really that simple.
Everyone has and is a twin flame. It's the divine truth of creation. Contrary to the highly romanticized teachings of what twin flames are, what you are experiencing is very common once twin flames have soul recognition. You can find out more here: ua-cam.com/video/T_bPrVCfVZU/v-deo.htmlsi=ku7h_ornAKEOvyvP 💜
At the beginning of the video I was thinking “eh…” because my experience of limerence and TF infatuation weren’t the same. In the middle of the vid what you said really resonated though! I have loooooooonnnng history of episodes of limerence in my life actually predating my “known” trauma. These infatuations were for unreal people- characters in books/movies, some rando celebrities, etc. but never a real person I encountered. Meeting my TF - more specifically being within physical proximity to my TF - did not immediately trigger a fascination but it did cause major awakening. My crown chakra opened up and my connection to Spirit And Source, which was previously absent (minimal, at best), became real - almost tangible. THEN - months after our meeting- I had a realization from a dream that my TF was just that. It was a profound knowing deep with my soul. A clarity that I’ve never experienced before. It was a complete surprise to me because Our interaction was intense but it wasn’t a physical attraction or the stuff that breeds fantasy. It was spiritually profound but it felt “normal” - Examples, looking in his eyes was too intense - everything else blurred out and I had to look away, I KNEW what he was thinking, I could physically feel his energy on my skin when we were close. But none of that was accompanied by infatuation. It felt normal but also way different (I can’t put it into words, not matter how hard I try). And, like you said in the video, I DID have realizations about traumatic events after I started looking at my shadows. I think those were the impetus for my previous episodes of limerence and doing the work has changed everything about how I feel, respond, even my physical body. Ironically, the previous infatuations are the main reason I doubted my TF connection- how could I trust that this is real when I have a history of fantasizing about people?! I’ve come to a place of acceptance about that part of me and I’m now able to clearly see the distinction between fantasy and the reality of my TF journey. I don’t know if I will ever see my TF again or be in union but it kind of doesn’t matter because our encounter literally changed everything for me. Idk the reason I am writing so candidly about how I have experienced both - maybe someone needs to hear it. I just know I felt very ashamed of my predilection to fantasizing and it ended up making me doubt my TF connection. But I understand it better now and accept it. Thank you so much for the video!
Wait I just thought of a way to succinctly say this: limerence was a way for me to escape my fears and pain but my TF journey has given me no choice but to transmute those fears and traumas into loving myself. That’s the difference for me.
I was impressed with the comment about the obvious gratitude you feel from this life changing encounter, regardless of anticipation for reunion. I then wondered, if one truly feels satisfied with the appreciation alone of their own self, could be considered as the " let them go" stage in a Twin Flame journey?
Your follow up comment was on point with the major difference between the two experiences. We hide in our fantasies but are willing to work hard and encounter struggles for what we know to be the best for us.
Can’t wait to learn the difference, I’m afraid they feel very much alike!
Ahh yes. I meet a person in 2016, we split up in 2017. I thought he was my twin flame. But in January of 2019 it suddenly stopped and a realized he was not my twin flame. Four month later I met my twin flame. And I must say that these past 5 years have been completely different to what I now know to be limerance. But I needed that experience to understand my trauma and release it.
The first experience I projected through my mind and the external. And through endless twin flames readings 😅
The twin flame experience. Very different. An inside/soul experience for sure ❤
22 years strong. It can't be just limerence. I've felt limerence for others over the years, but he's the only one who awakens my soul.
Yes, with twin flames nothing changes on its own but you have all the power to change it within you. It's just a matter of aligning and balancing your energy. These energetic shifts is what will create the conditions for your twin flame to return to you and for you to feel AMAZING in the process. 💜
I’d like to be sure that this person is not my twin flame and ‘limerence’ is what I’m experiencing. However it has been a long time (pushing 3 years) and we met when we were both young (15 and 16). As soon as I am starting to feel better about myself the thoughts occur again and the synchronicities follow. Two weeks ago I’d completely stopped thinking about them all of a sudden and then out of nowhere it’s all bombarded me again. Really embarrassed that I looked at his socials recently as it’s been over a year since I last did. I’d love to take your course but I’d rather hope they are not my twin because I only want to focus on myself and have a free mind again
We recommend you schedule a free clarity consultation so we can see where you are at on your journey and how we can help you. bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation
Universal law of perpetual transmutation of energy ❤️ divine truth right here
Thank You for this video ❤️
You are so welcome!
Awesome video!
Thanks!
Close to 10 years on this journey and I still keep questioning 🤨 is it limerence a false tf I need to just learn to detatch from for the right one to come in… I’ve racked my brain and it isn’t coming from my mind it is coming from my soul! I feel it from my core existence! 😢
There are no false twin flames and you really can't detach from your twin flame because you are the same energetic being. Doubt is common as it is part of the fear-based energy. If you would like assistance learning how to balance the push-pull, fear-based energy that is keeping you two apart physically, we can help! Ten years is far too long to suffer with this. Many of our students magnetize their twin flames within 6-8 weeks! If you would like to learn more, you can schedule a clarity consultation here: bewithyourtwinflame.com/clarity-consultation 💜
I got soul recognition so that's a good sign of not being mad.
Thank you.
I do not believe in twin flames crap. I think I’m limerent for a gal. Never had limerence before. And I’m 50.
I live in incredible fear of this gal because all my trauma gets triggered.
My therapist is the one who believes in all that. She is convinced I have a twin flame.
If your person ain’t feeling it with you, then nope, you’re just limerent.
I have all sorts of crazy spiritual stuff happening that I have to question.synchronicity, dreams, seeing ghosts, signs from god. Etc. And I came to the conclusion: I AM JUST DELUSIONAL.
It’s really that simple.
Everyone has and is a twin flame. It's the divine truth of creation. Contrary to the highly romanticized teachings of what twin flames are, what you are experiencing is very common once twin flames have soul recognition. You can find out more here: ua-cam.com/video/T_bPrVCfVZU/v-deo.htmlsi=ku7h_ornAKEOvyvP 💜
Very good question! I also struggle seeing the difference!!
Thanks for watching!