Josh Seiter's Fetish Was NOT A Social Experiment

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  • @Egg_thing
    @Egg_thing Місяць тому +3017

    The fact that his parody of trans women is just being nice, reminding people about going to the doctor and making silly jokes about his cat. Like the worst version of a trans woman he could think of is just a wholesome person

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому +9

      i could l̶i̶t̶e̶r̶a̶l̶l̶y̶ tell you to your face "Im lying to you" and if i say it nice enough with the correct dress code, you will comply and agree, because you want to be nice
      EDIT: i had the word literally scratched cause i took a massive L on that

    • @LucyTheBox
      @LucyTheBox Місяць тому +318

      ​@@Luixxxd1 I also like to fantasize about hypothetical conversations I could have with other people, when I take a shower, but it's pretty weird that you've convinced yourself those fantasy conversations would play out the same way irl.

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому

      @@LucyTheBox so, if projection had a definition, how would what you just said not fall under it? Honestly askig.
      You could also have asked: how have you come to that conclusion with so little info? and i would have admited: it's just an asumption based on phrasing patterns and statistics (no, im not citing every single study i have read in the past 10 years that has a tangential relation to my conclusion just to satisfy both of our egos, lets just keep sharing eachothers understanding of the topic) on human behaviour, just like some people claim being [INSERT RACE OF CHOICE] means you need to be protected.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Місяць тому +4

      ​@@Luixxxd1 i generally go by looks. if someone looks like a woman to me, ill call them a woman. i won't ask. yall are nosy as hell

    • @mintygrey
      @mintygrey Місяць тому +120

      ​@@Luixxxd1 why are you here?

  • @AwoogaWolf
    @AwoogaWolf Місяць тому +8178

    I was like wow he really worked on his femme voice, but when he took the makeup off his voice didnt change

    • @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx
      @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx Місяць тому +492

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +1567

      lol I had the same thought

    • @jeIIycube
      @jeIIycube Місяць тому +385

      The fish emoji😭I love it

    • @bloodsports94
      @bloodsports94 Місяць тому

      His voice is completely different . You people are the dumbest humans on earth.

    • @iamrosewhoami
      @iamrosewhoami Місяць тому +90

      I came here to comment this 🗣️😭

  • @Moncherelouis
    @Moncherelouis Місяць тому +9014

    “I proved how stupid the left is by pretending to be trans, they were all nice to me!!!!” He’s such a dolt

    • @TehMomo_
      @TehMomo_ Місяць тому +439

      Like it literally costs nothing to take people at face value...

    • @kfcoyote
      @kfcoyote Місяць тому +873

      "I lied and people believed it!"

    • @anniee5487
      @anniee5487 Місяць тому

      "they shouldve verbally abused me like the morally upstanding conservatives!"

    • @uniquenewyork3325
      @uniquenewyork3325 Місяць тому +586

      Like imagine somebody fakes having glasses and then 6 months later says "HA! YOU GUYS ARE IDIOTS FOR BELIEVING WHAT I SAID!"

    • @KlLLALLWHITETRUMPTARDS
      @KlLLALLWHITETRUMPTARDS Місяць тому +1

      LMFAO LITERALLY typical white m*n sh**

  • @KomoliRihyoh
    @KomoliRihyoh Місяць тому +652

    Men will literally villainize an entire group of people instead of talking to a therapist.

    • @beepboop2842
      @beepboop2842 Місяць тому +24

      so true

    • @TimothyMorigeau
      @TimothyMorigeau 13 днів тому

      💯 It’s terrible. He can’t stop for a moment and be honest with himself.

    • @frishter
      @frishter 12 днів тому

      Men will notice patterns.

  • @aishahb8336
    @aishahb8336 Місяць тому +572

    Faking your own death is so Tumblr teen- I can't 💀

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +135

      A lot of his stunts give arrested development

    • @weezetard
      @weezetard Місяць тому +5

      @@KatBlaqueLMFAOOO

    • @KarlSnarks
      @KarlSnarks 23 дні тому +3

      No it was the second-greatest social experiment ever done ;)

  • @bharbarawyrstwaemasyn8741
    @bharbarawyrstwaemasyn8741 Місяць тому +6999

    A man gets dumped by a girl and turns misgonystic/transphobic.
    And the sky is blue.

    • @sleepyspacegremlin
      @sleepyspacegremlin Місяць тому +440

      Crazy how it took one little break up, when women have been dealing with men's BS their entire lives.

    • @helena4440
      @helena4440 Місяць тому +1

      @@sleepyspacegremlin and most of us don't turn against all men as a result, we just stop dating for a while lol

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee Місяць тому +1

      ​@sleepyspacegremlin
      Men when women are SA'd: not all men!!!
      Men when they experience any kind of negative experience with a woman: yes, all women.

    • @zigzagperson
      @zigzagperson Місяць тому +11

      😢

    • @ryss335
      @ryss335 Місяць тому +43

      @@sleepyspacegremlin exactlyyy

  • @sheryliversen8869
    @sheryliversen8869 Місяць тому +3653

    Cis/straight/white boomer woman here. I don't see a downside to accepting someone's gender identity either. If a Josh Seiter "fools" me, so what? I'm supposed to suddenly hate anyone who's trans because of that? Nah. I'd rather be fooled by the occasional conservative knucklehead than abandon the whole trans community (which would include some truly marvelous people in my life)! I hope Josh gets some help, though.

    • @pr0v0cative4pple
      @pr0v0cative4pple Місяць тому +234

      As a trans man, I thank you for your support, it means the world to me and many other lgbtqia people

    • @Gatheist
      @Gatheist Місяць тому +12

      Having boundaries doesn’t mean I hate someone. If I don’t want to have sex with you or I’m not attracted to you in that way because you’re not a man (I’m gay) that doesn’t mean I ‘hate’ women. And you can ‘identify’ as a man all you want but that won’t change the fact that you are a woman and it won’t change my sexual orientation. And sorry to be blunt but a piece of plastic is not the same as a real penis on a real man and no amount of homophobic bullying will change that.

    • @pr0v0cative4pple
      @pr0v0cative4pple Місяць тому

      @@Gatheist Thog don't caare

    • @eternallustformedusa4844
      @eternallustformedusa4844 Місяць тому

      @@Gatheist i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself.
      you don’t have to be attracted to vaginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails.
      i also highly doubt that penis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive.
      gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-ass, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men.
      it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough.
      gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you.
      you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others.
      go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much.
      but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s channel.

    • @eternallustformedusa4844
      @eternallustformedusa4844 Місяць тому

      @@Gatheist​​⁠ i really don’t get transphobic gays. your transphobia won’t protect you. you are still the weakest link of the lgbt community and holding back progress for yourself.
      you don’t have to be attracted to v@ginas, but to call trans men women is just you being insecure in your sexuality. no different than any straight man who fears putting on makeup or painting his nails.
      i also highly doubt that p3nis is the only thing that drives your sexuality. that a man has to be fully nude for you to find him attractive.
      gay men did not struggle through homophobia just to be called straight by some ugly-a$$, sexually insecure, transphobe for being attracted to trans men.
      it is not homophobic for gay men to be attracted to men, trans or cis. not to expect gay men to treat trans men as men, regardless of if they’re attracted to them or not. it is however homophobic to call gay men “not gay” just because their sexuality doesn’t fit the bounds of what cis-heterosexuals deem gay enough.
      gender diverse people existed long before sexual orientation was constructed. gender diverse people existed long before you, and will exist long after you. gay trans men existed and exist, and so did/do the cis gay men that love and f*ck them.
      you’re framing your sexuality as a disgust for certain people instead of as a love for others.
      go live your small ‘queer’ life and choke on the c0cks you love so much.
      but if you don’t want to experience trans men, stay out of trans spaces -like a trans woman’s comment section.

  • @Fosilkat
    @Fosilkat Місяць тому +4539

    "no its just ironic, i wear dresses and make up but in an ironic way, i enjoy and embrace my feminine side BUT IN AN IRONIC WAY, I FEEL PRETTY BUT ITS IRONIC I SWEAR"

  • @LJXrot
    @LJXrot Місяць тому +778

    He wanted to try public humiliation but instead got love and support, so he's pissed

    • @aguywhodoesstuff1116
      @aguywhodoesstuff1116 Місяць тому +34

      Nooo humiliate me >:(

    • @engalo-vamart
      @engalo-vamart 3 дні тому

      What years of active repression does to a man

    • @engalo-vamart
      @engalo-vamart 3 дні тому

      The result of repression can have various effects on a person.

    • @engalo-vamart
      @engalo-vamart 3 дні тому

      Suffice to say, the result of repression

    • @engalo-vamart
      @engalo-vamart 3 дні тому

      The result of repression has interesting psychological effects

  • @squirrelsinmykoolaid
    @squirrelsinmykoolaid Місяць тому +452

    I hate when Internet randos call their shenanigans "social experiments". EXPERIMENT?? Girl, WHERE? Is the methodology in the room with us? What are the variables?? Results and conclusion?? Riddled with wild bias. And all of this for what? Because a trans woman broke up with him 😭 Embarrassing.

  • @sammylamsu5178
    @sammylamsu5178 Місяць тому +2796

    This shit just shows how little they think about women in general.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +317

      Yep

    • @sammylamsu5178
      @sammylamsu5178 Місяць тому +75

      @KatBlaque OMG you replied 😭

    • @BJtheBassist
      @BJtheBassist Місяць тому +11

      I mean, I didn’t think he thinks of women more than a little…

    • @zigzagperson
      @zigzagperson Місяць тому +6

      Exactly

    • @RoguSpanish
      @RoguSpanish Місяць тому +211

      The venn diagram between transphobes and misogynists is a circle.

  • @BlackXSunlight
    @BlackXSunlight Місяць тому +3247

    *takes backshots to own the libs~

  • @lowflyingdandelion9385
    @lowflyingdandelion9385 Місяць тому +6691

    "One of the greatest social experiments of our modern internet age" Hello??? This is blatant nikocado villain era erasure and I will NOT stand for it

  • @jjukijjuki
    @jjukijjuki Місяць тому +175

    The way he rarely repeated an outfit too... miss thing has a whole ass wardrobe!

  • @alexish8183
    @alexish8183 Місяць тому +620

    From my experience as a digital SWer, you’re spot on about the autogynophilia. I had clients, cis men, who were aroused by cross-dressing. They oftentimes referred to themselves as s*ssies. These clients enjoyed fetish play that included “forced feminization” or even being coerced/forced (consentual nonconsent) into s*x acts with other men. These clients are masochistic and view femininity as inherently degrading. I stopped doing feminization play because the idea of femininity or womanhood being inherently degrading doesn’t sit well with my spirit.

    • @coolkorners181
      @coolkorners181 Місяць тому +48

      So spot on. People’s kinks tend to be the opposite of their irl politics

    • @ed6705
      @ed6705 Місяць тому +76

      I'm not disagreeing with you here, but I think a lot of people who enjoy these kinks and enjoy sissy content are using it to explore gender in a safe environment. Trying to grapple with the idea that your whole gender is not what you always thought it was is a huge, life changing thing that can be difficult to face. Grappling with a new kink is much easier.
      It's like drag in that way. Iknow at least a few people who started exploring their gender via sissy stuff and later came out as trans, same as there are many drag queens who started their careers thinking they were cis men, only to later realise they're trans women.

    • @eggisfun4217
      @eggisfun4217 29 днів тому +1

      @@coolkorners181 wait this explains alot

    • @gandalf_the_purplewithredd2057
      @gandalf_the_purplewithredd2057 24 дні тому +25

      @@ed6705 I also would like to add that sometimes it can be a way to cope with the pressure of being so manly all the time and escape from a cisheteronormative society by breaking those social norms with a person that you trust, I think that it's more the relationship people have with the kink that can be toxic and not the act itself
      i've had some experience with men that do this themselves and the explanation I got is that it felt safe to be treated as girl by their dom while in other contexts being perceived as girly could make them feel unconfortable because of the ridicule they're affraid of suffering in society, engaging in a different gender presentation in the bedroom helped them feel more confident and less threatened by other people's opinions on their masculinity during the day

    • @BlertaPupu
      @BlertaPupu 20 днів тому +2

      ​@@coolkorners181 huh that's actually kinda true. I'm a woman and I love being dom but I'm really afraid to be anything similar to that irl because I have trouble seeing boundaries (probably autistic) and that's my cope to not overstep.

  • @fiascothe63rd
    @fiascothe63rd Місяць тому +1870

    “Hahaha, they were nice to me even though I was making fun of them the whole time! Look how stupid they are!”

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +155

      Ahahahaaah

    • @electronics-girl
      @electronics-girl Місяць тому +397

      Conservatives genuinely think kindness and empathy are weaknesses.

    • @devonmunn5728
      @devonmunn5728 Місяць тому +147

      ​@@electronics-girl It's like basically acting kind to anyone not considered "normal" is "enabling their delusion" or some other bullshit

    • @ashyeet702
      @ashyeet702 Місяць тому +49

      @@electronics-girlit’s genuinely so sad tbh

    • @knuckles543
      @knuckles543 Місяць тому +21

      @@ashyeet702 i'd say pathetic, to be deluded that deeply requires willing participation, not just being led to believe it's the right path

  • @harryritz4758
    @harryritz4758 Місяць тому +2285

    I really thought he was putting on a voice when he was in his Trans character but that's just his regular voice😂😂

  • @lilyarngoblin
    @lilyarngoblin Місяць тому +1917

    As an actual peer-reviewed & published researcher in social science (psychology), can we PLEASE stop claiming things are social experiments 😭 this man trying to use his bachelor’s degree in sociology to say give weight to his “social experiment” is unhinged 👹

    • @knuckles543
      @knuckles543 Місяць тому

      unfortunately people like him LIVE by doing so
      it gives their lives meaning, same can be said of TERFs (or FARTs, Feminist-Appropriating Regressive Transphobes) and it seems most conservatives that swallow such propaganda
      even worse that much of the U.S doesn't care to learn, and that the UK actively disregards any study that disproves their crusade (eg, the recent ''cass report'' that multiple scientific bodies have debunked and refuted, and called into question the inherent bias in those running the study who changed it's parameters before it was completed)

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +276

      I get the impression that the audience for these sorta things typically don’t even have degrees at all. So him getting one is supposed to do all the heavy lifting

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager Місяць тому +58

      @@KatBlaqueThat makes a lot of sense. I asked for sources from a person here on YT on body size and race. They gave me TWO non-peer reviewed journals. Who are they trying to fool? 😭💀

    • @vOID-fh1qt
      @vOID-fh1qt Місяць тому

      @KC-2049conservatives aren't often educated, whereas progressives are. that's why they fearmonger about college and university making you a liberal.

    • @squash6497
      @squash6497 Місяць тому +39

      I'm just going to start shouting "SOCIAL EXPERIMENT" every time something embarrasssing happens.

  • @artistfloor9
    @artistfloor9 Місяць тому +188

    The thing about trolls is that no matter how people react to them, they view it as a win. In this case people were kind and accepting which means he gets to call them dumb and gullible. “Haha I fooled them!”
    If people rejected his claim and accused him of lying, then he gets to call them hypocrites. “So much for the tolerant left!”

    • @PanEtRosa
      @PanEtRosa Місяць тому +25

      exactly, this is what it was really about. if it was any kind of "experiment", then the topic of it was his ability to get people to react. because that *feels* like having power and influence..... to an insecure person.

  • @Stac3y__
    @Stac3y__ Місяць тому +29

    He also wrote to Gypsy Rose in prison wanting to date her and also tried to date one of the 1000lb sisters.

  • @VibrantVenus
    @VibrantVenus Місяць тому +1684

    I'm confused as to what exactly the gag was supposed to be. That ppl were accepting & respectful of Josh's fake transition? That ppl decided to be kind? Like this for me (much like that other girl who faked being pregnant & having a miscarriage) just makes him look so unhinged & insanely cruel. What did he expect for ppl online to do?😂😂😂

    • @merri-toddwebster2473
      @merri-toddwebster2473 Місяць тому +463

      Well, there's certainly an aspect to conservatism that says kindness is stupid and weak and foolish, except when it's directed at the Right People, the insiders, People Like Us. I guess "I was mocking them but they were nice to me" is peak conservative humor.

    • @thehalfmoonmirrorsvenus1234
      @thehalfmoonmirrorsvenus1234 Місяць тому +189

      "Ha, I was shown basic human respect"
      Could almost pity the line of thinking, if not so dangerous.

    • @mollygrace3068
      @mollygrace3068 Місяць тому

      I don’t know. He kept saying he fooled the left, but the only people I saw fooled were conservatives and their comments section. I kept responding that he was obviously trolling. Although I do see the point he was making, and recognize that what he was saying was real shit “trans lesbians” have been saying online for real. He’s still a creep, though.

    • @anonymous-zs9rn
      @anonymous-zs9rn Місяць тому +43

      Yeah, as if people online can tell if you're faking it or not. You can literally lie about everything, and if you're not well known, you'll probably get away with it.

    • @Critical-Smoke
      @Critical-Smoke Місяць тому +63

      He was expecting them to be as cruel as he is. Because people like him do not know the meaning of emapthy

  • @greenbean3582
    @greenbean3582 Місяць тому +1072

    Oh that was his normal voice

    • @Hum4n_R3mains39
      @Hum4n_R3mains39 Місяць тому +87

      Right?? I thought he changed his voice to sound more feminine in the videos

    • @mhj4
      @mhj4 Місяць тому +20

      my exact thoughts lmao

    • @leonewulfe5137
      @leonewulfe5137 Місяць тому +16

      I haven't watched any old videos of him, but I feel like he probably been doing that voice for so long that now it is his normal voice, lol.

    • @PinnePon
      @PinnePon Місяць тому

      He sounds nice like wtf man

  • @Kris-lj7lq
    @Kris-lj7lq Місяць тому +835

    8:29 This is a misogynist. Period. The way he talks about ‘feminine’ things, the way he puts his ‘trans voice’ together breaths that he thinks of women as less- less intelligent, less worthy of attention; and essentially less than. This man is revolting.

    • @knuckles543
      @knuckles543 Місяць тому +239

      so much trans hate is innately tied into misogyny it's amazing they can even leave their house without pitching a fit

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +370

      Yep! Misogyny is at the core of this and that’s why they mostly focus on trans women and when they focus on trans men they’re always confused women who should be having children.

    • @RawrItsJuul
      @RawrItsJuul Місяць тому +6

      I agree, but this is also the same criticism people had towards Dylan mulvany. Yet enough people defended that as well. This attention seeking behavior is perpetuated by how the internet works.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Місяць тому +51

      ​​@@RawrItsJuul I agree with those specific criticisms, but most "criticism" i saw of Dylan was just people accusing her of being a predator, and also arguing that ~real~ women would _never_ engage in potentially harmful stereotypes in order to sort of express their gender and be seen as a proper woman.
      People suddenly realize how weird gender is when someone does it "the wrong way"

    • @RawrItsJuul
      @RawrItsJuul Місяць тому +7

      @actualgoblin I've seen many people upset and talking about how Dylan was wearing woman face and making a mockery of them. Dylan was very much acting like what he thinks stereotypical women act like. "Walking around the forest in my little hiking boots and my hiking shorts", screaming hysterically at a bug and falling to the ground, talking about his experiences as a woman as "crying emotionally", the "women" have bulges. I think people believe Dylan sooner is because he already looked like a Twink and more feminine, but in behavior there is no difference between this Josh guy and Dylan.

  • @Spookybluelights
    @Spookybluelights Місяць тому +42

    I really appreciate the distinction you made between cross-dressing and being trans because it's such a difficult thing for people who aren't terminally online to wrap their heads around.
    I find nothing but joy in my femininity and womanhood, it's why I wanted to transition because I couldn't find that same happiness as a feminine man. I don't feel degraded or lesser from how I look or dress, I just feel like myself and that makes me happy because I spent so long trying to find that, getting close but never quite grasping it until I started to transition. I don't even really "pass" but people still treat me like they would any other woman and it's because of that happiness, I think.
    This Josh person seems to really want to just hang on to whatever speck of relevance that seems to have already passed him by at all costs and he's airing out his dirty laundry to do so because he can't handle being a mediocre man.

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 Місяць тому +77

    My first thought with that "feminine health" video was "oh, the pink top kinda works with his skin tone."
    Also, i feel like even when he TRIES to do a bit to make people mad, the lesson is actually really important: being aware of prostate health.

  • @Clover-juice
    @Clover-juice Місяць тому +708

    Saying wearing makeup is womanface when you were literally on the bachelorette, where you had to compete against 24 other men who are all wearing makeup (because TV), is so insane to me

    • @anonymous-zs9rn
      @anonymous-zs9rn Місяць тому +2

      Reminds me of one who'd said that the message of a trans woman winning a beauty contest was that "women, men can be better than you even at being women". Makeup, beauty, winning a beauty context... truly, the essence of womanhood 🤡 the misogyny is so clear. They accuse trans people of thinking womanhood is just a Feminine stereotype, but once again the call is coming from inside the house

    • @cottoncandie761
      @cottoncandie761 Місяць тому

      While sitting for a televised show, and knowing damn well all the men on television also wear makeup otherwise they']d look like a sack of potatoes left to rot behind a chair somewhere. As thought nobody sees their delusion.

    • @mayayamato7351
      @mayayamato7351 Місяць тому +38

      bro literally worked in tv and got pretty'd up for it and he of all people uses that stupid line when he knows better. the grift couldn't be any more transparent if it were made of glass.

  • @Rat2rrj
    @Rat2rrj Місяць тому +908

    Listening to conservative men talk about topics like gender feels like grown men having a board meeting about and discussing the intricacies of a baby's first book about farm animals

    • @Karmakarmelion
      @Karmakarmelion Місяць тому

      "Dont make your fetish my truth" from a conservative man who wants to get rid of reproductive rights 💀

    • @MatildaRoses
      @MatildaRoses Місяць тому

      ​@@henrylangham6428Do you have schizophrenia

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Місяць тому

      ​@@henrylangham6428 wtf is klee yammering about

    • @anothercub6958
      @anothercub6958 Місяць тому

      ​@@actualgoblinCrazy what solitary can do to a girl

    • @KarlSnarks
      @KarlSnarks 23 дні тому +1

      "Well gentlemen, today's first point of discussion in is our quarterly sales statistics, and second up is the essential matter if cows say Mooo! or Muuuuh!"

  • @supercrazylegs1
    @supercrazylegs1 Місяць тому +1553

    He and Steven Crowder both did this. They seem very enthusiastic to wear dresses and makeup any chance they get, and then act like it's all for trolling.
    I really enjoy your perspective on crossdressing cis men and how so many of them have these conflicted feelings, how so many of them are conservative, and how so many are transphobic. Your experiences in dealing with them sound exhausting.

    • @minako10
      @minako10 Місяць тому +183

      If I remember well, Crowder also said at some point that he had a "bisexual phase" in college. It seems to me that he might be quite repressed in that regard as well.

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee Місяць тому

      ​@@minako10 I think many homophobic people are. They hate LGBTQ+ because they get to live what they have denied themselves through social pressure.

    • @orionishi6737
      @orionishi6737 Місяць тому +25

      ​@hinasakukimi no, all homophobes have had gay thoughts. Might be bi and not gay, hence the reason they think it's a choice. But every homophobe has had sexual thoughts about the same sex for sure. That's why they get so scared

    • @orionishi6737
      @orionishi6737 Місяць тому +20

      @@hinasakukimi they're disgusted with themselves and have to take it out on anybody else instead of confronting their own issues and desires.

    • @molnet999
      @molnet999 Місяць тому +53

      @@orionishi6737 are you serious? maybe like an "emotional" homophobe that has a strong instinctual physical/emotional reaction to gay/bi people (of their own gender), but there are plenty of people who have just grown up with awful values and believe in those values because they believe what they were taught growing up (for example), there are tons of ways to be homophobic

  • @irishgn08
    @irishgn08 Місяць тому +57

    I love the new format: leaning in to the BDSM personality/aesthetics, starting with a story from your personal life and using it as a way to understand a larger story, the reaction phone! It's excellent imo.
    I don't have thoughts on Seiter besides being desperate in more ways than one, so that's my comment.

  • @juststeph3315
    @juststeph3315 Місяць тому +31

    You have made some absolutely PROFOUND observations about cis men-especially conservative cis men-who are cross dressers and find the idea of dressing like a woman and being "feminine" as "inherently degrading." You are doing god's work. Thank you so much for this video and all of your content!!!

  • @handfetisch
    @handfetisch Місяць тому +1096

    The obvious giveaway in his first video is him suggesting that there's no difference between cis women and trans women, something that no trans person believes, but that transphobes seem to think trans people believe. I didn't guess that he was faking before because I wasn't even aware of his existence, and I'm guessing neither were most people.

    • @Nat_778
      @Nat_778 Місяць тому +200

      ​​​​@@chrisbfreelanceNo they do not. The simple act of transitioning gives a trans woman a different life experience to a cis woman. While there are many experiences all women (whether cis or trans) share, no trans woman is claiming her experience as a woman is exactly the same as a cis woman's

    • @VuDuGrrrrl8075
      @VuDuGrrrrl8075 Місяць тому

      @@handfetisch Extreme trans activists in the faux trans movement LITERALLY say that transwomen ARE women. Stop it.

    • @knuckles543
      @knuckles543 Місяць тому +1

      @@chrisbfreelance nope, keep believing that little narrative (LIE), the TERFs and nazis appreciate it

    • @handfetisch
      @handfetisch Місяць тому

      ​@@chrisbfreelance it's vastly more likely that you misinterpreted what someone said (or are simply making shit up) than that you found the one trans person in the world who thinks that trans women generally have uteri.

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому

      ​@@VuDuGrrrrl8075 yes. Trans women are women but trans women aren't cis woman.

  • @luxtobeyou
    @luxtobeyou Місяць тому +796

    Cole Sprouse's tumblr era was a more thought out social experiment ffs 💀

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 Місяць тому +101

      This makes Timmy Thick seem like an actual Harvard researcher.

    • @j_fenrir
      @j_fenrir Місяць тому +14

      best comment fr

  • @Pooh_Bella
    @Pooh_Bella Місяць тому +439

    It doesn’t shock me that a man that’s dated trans women is now on a hate train against them because she didn’t want his stupid ass. When some men get rejected they get angry even with cis women so yeah that definitely sounds about right 😑

    • @fawnieee
      @fawnieee Місяць тому +115

      I've noticed that when certain dudes hate on a certain group of women it's almost always because they've been rejected by them and they can't stand the slight to their ego.

    • @Nat_778
      @Nat_778 Місяць тому +1

      Dude, not even trans guys are safe. I was asked out by man who was very clear he was straight, but then he threw a tantrum when I pointed out he probably wouldn't be attracted to me after I take T 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому +4

      ​@@Nat_778 yeah.

    • @unchartedraider7547
      @unchartedraider7547 Місяць тому +27

      Yeah...Most of the times if a man is targeting a specific demographic. That's what happened.

  • @cmmusic4721
    @cmmusic4721 Місяць тому +19

    i was so distracted by the burger king cup in the feminine health tiktok because i was like "the way it's placed this looks like a burger king sponsorship" but then i remembered burger king probably doesn't know he exists

  • @hydraph4843
    @hydraph4843 Місяць тому +51

    It's a relief you clarified not all crossdressers are like that. You had me at first ngl.
    I am a crossdressing man (well, I may be somewhat gender fluid but I tend to stick with masculine pronouns and a male name) but I do not have a kink from it, and I wear women's clothing because I just do prefer presenting myself as being more feminine, and hate looking masculine. I very much accept and verify trans women as women

  • @cabbage-soup
    @cabbage-soup Місяць тому +943

    Obv kink shaming is bad, but imho, as a person who hangs out in kink spaces, there’s a certain subsection of humiliation kink and forced feminization that screams transmisogyny
    Oh no I’m in a pretty dress and doing the laundry! How humiliating! It kind of begs the question: what exactly is humiliating ? Is being a woman inherently lesser than? Is it the fact that you’re actually doing chores for once in your life?
    What peeves me also is how the same people lump feminization with barnyard animals. Like wtf does that say about their perception of women 😭💀

    • @Nat_778
      @Nat_778 Місяць тому +201

      Hard agree. I'm a femme trans man who is a sub and it honestly makes me very uncomfortable when people in kink spaces talk that way to me. I hate being talked to as if what I enjoy is supposed to be humiliating (plus when it comes to transmascs/trans men, "force fem" usually comes with "detrans" added on).

    • @paulinameyer8387
      @paulinameyer8387 Місяць тому +38

      Louder for the people in the back!

    • @PGOuma
      @PGOuma Місяць тому +56

      ​@@Nat_778felt as another femme transmasc person

    • @MasoTrumoi
      @MasoTrumoi Місяць тому +161

      Kinkshaming and analysis of kink shouldn't be conflated, in my opinion. If you do race play, for instance, it's really important that you can acknowledge what about it HAS to be play and what about it is drawn from bigotry because if you don't, you're just being racist in a sexual setting.
      I know that kink can lead to a lot of harmful shame, but that goes in both directions. If your kink involves some kinds of bigotry, you can end up harming partners if you're not careful and if you don't navigate that properly either.
      It's not kink-shaming to point out when a dom is really bad at being a dom. When they're reckless, when they ignore boundaries, when they bring in play that wasn't cleared or they know the sub doesn't like.
      We shouldn't endure that shit, and we shouldn't endure people who refuse to acknowledge bigotry inherent to the kink that is literally just bigotry as a kink. It doesn't mean they are an irredeemable person, it means they need to understand their kink better and respect other people around them more.

    • @AmazonRiderNeoLove
      @AmazonRiderNeoLove Місяць тому +35

      I never really thought of it like that, you made me think.
      I always thought of it as being forced to be something that they are not, so being forced to dress as a woman is something they generally don't do, so it would be humiliating to be forced to be something you feel you are not, to me, I thought, it wasn't about being a woman that was humiliating, it is a man, who identifies as a man, who doesn't dress feminine, being forced to dress in a way and do things that is not typically them, or not considered stereotypically them, doing things that are stereotypically something different to what they identify as, while being forced dressed like that too, would indeed increase the feelings. And doing chores that stereotypically, a woman does while forced dressed as a woman, means it would get them into the headspace of being a woman, so more humiliating due to them identifying as a man, so I thought it wasn't the woman aspect that is humiliating, I always thought it is the fact they are being forced to be something they don't actually identify as. That would be humiliating to some people. Maybe that is why barnyard animals were lumped together. I always thought it was about being forced to be something you don't feel you are, or identify as.
      Maybe I was wrong in thinking this, I don't know, but that is how I have always seen it. To me, forced feminization's humiliating aspects, play with the stereotypes and kinda enforces them, but in a way that still plays with them. I always thought, it would be the same for a very feminine female, who dressed very feminine, acted very feminine, to be forced to dress very masculine and do stereotypical masculine things. It would stir up feelings of humiliation, I felt, as that isn't who they feel they are. So, I didn't feel it was about the fact of being a female that was humiliating, just the fact of being forced to be something they don't feel they are...🤷‍♀ Idk..

  • @silverofthesunbears
    @silverofthesunbears Місяць тому +403

    24:14 The projection in this statement aaah 😭”men turned on at the thought of themselves being women” as he dresses up for a 5 month long ‘bit’ imagining himself being a transgender woman and openly dressing in traditionally feminine clothing. hm… Suspicious!

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому +43

      He is really telling himself. Lol

    • @JohnSmith-ep6bj
      @JohnSmith-ep6bj Місяць тому +34

      SERIOUSLY I DOT UNDERSTAND HOW HE DOESNT SEE HIS IS TELLING ON HIMSELF

    • @bisiilki
      @bisiilki Місяць тому

      He totally was angrily masturbating into the mirror wearing those dresses/makeup.

    • @evanmak7837
      @evanmak7837 Місяць тому

      That guy is clearly leaking all over the idea of being a submissive bottom
      (...yeah, even straight men can be bottoms, prove me wrong)

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому

      @@JohnSmith-ep6bj because the only people making it sexual is you lot who can't think of anything besides the next coom

  • @notyourdaughter666
    @notyourdaughter666 Місяць тому +170

    as someone with an autism special interest in the psychology of fetishes and thus fetish content, i clocked this as being fetish content IMMEDIATELY. it’s so obvious and i’m so glad you made a video discussing it. also, if he “majored” in sociology, he must’ve barely passed cause good god

    • @airplanes_aren.t_real
      @airplanes_aren.t_real Місяць тому +11

      What about it makes you think it's a fetish? /gen

    • @roku9019
      @roku9019 Місяць тому +8

      please explain, would love to learn more

    • @T.JacobMain
      @T.JacobMain 27 днів тому

      His whole trans presentation was pure caricature in my eyes, which had that gross sexual vibe to it​@@airplanes_aren.t_real

  • @ThingsareLikeable
    @ThingsareLikeable Місяць тому +25

    "trans women are men who wear dresses, wear make-up, and get off to the idea of being a woman, it doesnt make them a woman"
    Me, a trans woman who rarely wears dresses, doesnt wear makeup, and is asexual: "okay"

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 Місяць тому +3

      That's why Kat's theory made sense: if we replace "trans women" in the sentence by "Josh Seder/cross dressers", we have solved this particular issue and can all move on with our lives!

  • @RoseThePhoenix
    @RoseThePhoenix Місяць тому +58

    As a cis woman who is a biology nerd, yes estrogen causes intestinal cramps. Whether you want to call it a "period" or not is probably debatable, but it's directly causal. The uterus and intestines are both smooth muscle; the only smooth muscle we have in our bodies. The hormonal signals that make the uterus contract are also going to make intestines contract. It happens to me every month. It also happens to my trans wife now that she's started HRT. So, I'm not gonna say you should call it a period; it might be most accurate to just call it hormone cramps, but it's the effects of estrogen and prostaglandins on smooth muscle. (Guy mocking it is annoying, but whatever.)

    • @luiysia
      @luiysia Місяць тому +4

      those are not the only smooth muscle in the body

    • @cambriaofthevastoceans6721
      @cambriaofthevastoceans6721 Місяць тому +8

      Thank you! Its so weird that people insist that hormones have no effect on this, when that what they literally do!

    • @AnotherAustin-z7b
      @AnotherAustin-z7b Місяць тому +2

      Great now everytime my stomach hurts I'm going to think I'm being poisoned by estrogen

    • @ashknight6696
      @ashknight6696 Місяць тому +12

      for me (a trans man), it's the way that so many people say "it can't be that bad", "they're just exaggerating", "they're just oversensitive and need to suck it up", "there's no way that the pain and mood swings they say happen to them every month is actually happening"... that makes me refer to the hormonal imbalance trans women go through as periods. because that's exactly how people treat periods with cis women, lol.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Місяць тому

      ​@@AnotherAustin-z7b estrogen isn't a poison

  • @DouglasASean
    @DouglasASean Місяць тому +764

    Trans women arnt doing “women face” but that dude definitely was

    • @red_panda3204
      @red_panda3204 Місяць тому

      They are, dylan mulvany def. doing it

    • @Albinojackrussel
      @Albinojackrussel Місяць тому +144

      As a cis woman, I kinda disagree. If we're making the comparison to black face, then what he was doing was trans face. It was a deliberately cruel mockery of specifically trans women, not women as a whole.

    • @DouglasASean
      @DouglasASean Місяць тому

      @@Albinojackrussel “Trans face” sure, that works..

    • @red_panda3204
      @red_panda3204 Місяць тому

      @@Albinojackrussel trans women mocking womanhood.

    • @red_panda3204
      @red_panda3204 Місяць тому

      @@Albinojackrussel trans women making woman face.

  • @UnderPurpleStarlight
    @UnderPurpleStarlight Місяць тому +484

    "I like to wear party city wigs and get my back blown out" 😂 the way I actually screamed at this.

    • @Chuck_EL
      @Chuck_EL Місяць тому

      Does he understand it's not the LGBT community who hates him , it's the party he's trying so hard to simp for

  • @cjboyo
    @cjboyo Місяць тому +310

    This video made me understand why so many trans women who post porn on tumblr have “Sissies DNI” in their bio

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому +48

      It's for people like Josh lol

    • @unchartedraider7547
      @unchartedraider7547 Місяць тому +34

      Oh my god. Thank you for making me understand. I was like "They are homophobic ?? Impossible."

    • @coolkorners181
      @coolkorners181 Місяць тому +17

      Yup. People’s kinks tend to be the complete opposite of their irl politics!!!

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  18 днів тому +16

      Sissies online have a tendency to steal images of actual transgender sex workers so that's likely why. I had a transition timeline video I posted YEARS ago and they downloaded it to upload it on a sissy page. They'll add misgendering captions because it turns them on

    • @cjboyo
      @cjboyo 18 днів тому +3

      @@KatBlaque jfc that’s awful. I’m sorry that was done to you!!!

  • @janaramoth8257
    @janaramoth8257 Місяць тому +62

    there genuinely is NOT A SINGLE downside to supporting someone's gender identity.... even if its a fake one 😭😭 bro is actually delusional.
    bur ur stunning as always Kat 😏😏

  • @sakuramitsukai5292
    @sakuramitsukai5292 Місяць тому +23

    So I don't know if you saw this while looking him up but Josh has done this/ similar things for other lgbtq+ communities. He made a huge deal about being bi and being the "first" bi bachelor's contestant only to then come out saying bi people don't exist but then after a few more controversies (stunts for attention) he came out as pan and dropped an OF but was talking shit about the men who bought it and said stuff about how disgusting sex with a man was next he jumped into the feederism community and gained some weight so people would send him money like all his other stunts after a while he lost the weight and said it was an experiment to show people don't care about health just their fetish and how easy it is to get into shape (think like those trainers who gained weight to experience what their clients go through). The thing he did before this trans experiment was him seemingly trying to into politics and I think he saw he got a lot of conservative attention and I won't be surprised if he goes down the conservative influencer route to make money.

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 Місяць тому +5

      Holy molly, Josh has issues.
      😬

    • @sakuramitsukai5292
      @sakuramitsukai5292 Місяць тому +3

      @moustik31 yeah he's known in a bunch of communities and sub groups as a fake person that should be avoided and not taught anything about said group

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 Місяць тому +1

      @@sakuramitsukai5292 With his record? That makes 100% sense!
      🙅🏾‍♀️

    • @sakuramitsukai5292
      @sakuramitsukai5292 Місяць тому +1

      @@moustik31 most definitely

  • @__melvino
    @__melvino Місяць тому +122

    Half-ass bigotry just looks like desperation. Cause his "sample size" was shit plus the queer pple that interacted with him told him to live his truth, and finally, he reveals the hoax to mostly shame makeup... none of this required five months of cross dressing.

  • @BDay90023
    @BDay90023 Місяць тому +283

    literally all of the stuff he was saying about autogynophilia sounded like it was being said directly into a mirror lmao

    • @queenvagabond8787
      @queenvagabond8787 Місяць тому +9

      Its also more complicated, lots of cis women *are* attracted by their own bodies, does that make *them* 'autogynophiles'? What about queer women? Cis and Trans Bisexuals and Lesbians enjoy their own and other female bodies.

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому

      @@queenvagabond8787 thats just narcissism.

    • @queenvagabond8787
      @queenvagabond8787 Місяць тому +14

      @@Luixxxd1 Its not *unhealthy* to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. Its only 'narcissistic' if you do it to the exclusion of all others, and if you consider yourself to me more attractive than anyone else. As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves, to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, to be unduly humble and to rely upon others for boosts to our self-esteem. Its why so many men will tell you that you are beautiful and then act like you're a monster if you say something like, 'I know' or even 'why yes I am, thanks for noticing.' You didn't ask for them to comment on your appearance, yet they did and expect you to be grateful for it even if they are a total stranger.

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому

      @@queenvagabond8787 " Its not unhealthy to find yourself attractive, or to be turned on by your own body and playing with your own body. " only insane people would say being insane is not insane. Holy shit what a bunch of nonsense
      "As women, we are taught to downplay ourselves" NO YOU SELF-CENTERED BRAT. AS HUMANS YOU ARE TO BE HUMBLE. Just because some people don't care about being humble doesn't mean only women are told to behave.
      "to constantly find fault with our own physical appearance, " same with dudes, we oughta be strong, since being weak is pathetic. Dont you even see how self-centered it is to pretend only you are being held to a standard? AGAIN: JUST BECAUSE SOME MEN DONT CARE ABOUT IT DOESNT MEAN ONLY YOU ARE TOLD TO BEHAVE... i stopped reading past that, it's just self-absorbed "the world is against me and only against me" psychobabble

    • @Luixxxd1
      @Luixxxd1 Місяць тому +1

      @@queenvagabond8787 the insane can't see how insane they sound...

  • @etasjo
    @etasjo Місяць тому +500

    watching this channel is slowly eroding my internalized transphobia

    • @ChocolateChipcookiie
      @ChocolateChipcookiie Місяць тому +30

      :3 same

    • @iknowwhatyouare102
      @iknowwhatyouare102 Місяць тому +28

      Happy for you :)

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +128

      Yay! I appreciate hearing that!

    • @LongHairCarolyn
      @LongHairCarolyn Місяць тому +16

      That’s awesome ❤

    • @LucyTheBox
      @LucyTheBox Місяць тому +21

      Watch out! The erosion of your internalised transphobia could have horrible side effects such as:
      -Self-acceptance
      -Having a more positive outlook on life
      -Being more genuine around others
      -Gaining a greater understanding of people's experiences
      And in extreme cases, it could lead to you living a long and happy life.

  • @Sakuralexis
    @Sakuralexis Місяць тому +10

    7:28 as a trans dude with endometriosis I will chimme in and say that because endometriosis (aka bad "period cramps") is the developement of uterine cells OUTSIDE of the reproductive system it's entirely possible for some trans woman to have endometriosis (the devellopement of theses cells) without knowing and have theses painfull menstrual pains triggered by the oestrogen treatment. I think that's what we say when we say "trans women have periods" and not the blood/ovulas leak ofc. I think transfemmes (but also everyone else because yeah even some cis dudes have it) who have this very painfull afliction shouldn't be dismissed. (not aimed at you but every demographic in general).

  • @Itri_Vega
    @Itri_Vega Місяць тому +17

    I'm not the gender police, other people expressing themselves differently from me has zero effects on my life. I transitioned at 30 and recently finished my medical transition 4 years later. Legal name change is in two weeks, concluding my social transition. It was a very private, personal experience, who am I to tell people what theirs should look like?

    • @Jessifizz
      @Jessifizz Місяць тому +1

      omg congratulations!

  • @thewatersop9795
    @thewatersop9795 Місяць тому +274

    Im a trans girl who doesnt pass very well. I honestly thought at first that he was like me when i saw a pic. Just hasnt done much medically, and has mostly masculine genes. Then i saw a vid and oml.

    • @BiggerinRealLife
      @BiggerinRealLife Місяць тому +145

      Pass or not, henny, you are valid. And beautiful and loved. 🖤

    • @phoenixdavida8987
      @phoenixdavida8987 Місяць тому +12

      Love to you

    • @rydbthatsme
      @rydbthatsme Місяць тому +12

      It’s not about passing it’s about gender dysphoria and making an effort

    • @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx
      @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx Місяць тому +58

      @@thewatersop9795 all the love in the world to all non-passing, muscled, hairy, gnc trans women fr but his presentation was insane! he rocked a masc haircut that MUST have been retouched a few times in the MONTHS he kept doing the persona, he didn't seem to even trim his chest hair, his face consistently had at least a few days worth of hair growth... for the character he was playing, that didn't make any sense at all!
      I myself am a nonbinary transfemme, I rarely shave my legs, intentionally keep my pit hair, accept the fact that hair grows in my face and can't deal with it everyday... and I know a lot of other women/transfemmes who deal with or even appreaciate some of their "masculine" features, but the whole combo he was putting on is insane and a clear parody to anyone who know any trans people

    • @jennoscura2381
      @jennoscura2381 Місяць тому +39

      ​@@xXxzAAa0aAAzxXxI am a post op trans woman with a butch side. I couldn't finish facial electrolysis due to the pandemic. Now that I no longer have insurance coverage for it, I haven't bothered. I don't shave daily. It's not enough facial hair to really trigger my dysphoria. And there are ciswomen with facial hair. Sometimes I wish I had enough facial hair to grow a nice beard.

  • @lilween5898
    @lilween5898 Місяць тому +389

    Thank you for explaining something that I've had a hard time wrapping my head around!
    I'm a straight cisgender woman, and a previous partner I had was a straight cisgender man who enjoyed wearing women's clothing (especially MY clothing, and especially receiving oral sex while cross-dressing).
    Naively, I thought he would be an open-minded breath of fresh air.
    He ended up being the most misogynistic man I've ever been with!
    I was shocked when he refused to wear condoms and insisted that I go on birth control. I told him I didn't want to mess with my endocrine system and troubleshoot different birth controls and their side effects. He claimed this was transphobic and I must by extension be opposed to hormonal gender affirming care.
    He would sometimes wear my clothing out in public and it never phased me until a friend pointed out that when he did, he would carry himself and speak in this ditzy "dumb blond" persona, giggling and batting his eyes a lot. I couldn't unsee it, and it irked me, but I was too self-conscious to say anything about it. I was terrified I might unknowingly be a transphobe. Or at least, be accused of that and not know enough to argue otherwise.
    He also tried to keep the clothes I had lent him during our relationship, after our breakup. I came by at the agreed-upon time to pick up my things and he handed me a bag conspicuously missing all my clothes he'd borrowed. When I asked for them he threw a really scary temper tantrum (BIG dude) that made me cry and call a friend to witness for my safety.
    Mostly, I try not to think about him now.
    Hearing your description of your experience with (some!) cross-dressing men was the first time I've thought about him in a long time, and for once it wasn't angering or confusing! It gave me some clarity, and also a good laugh.
    Hearing how these guys behave in interactions with trans women also sheds light on how comfortable he was using trans women in his narrative to control me.
    They are frustratingly nonsensically misogynistic against ⭐All Women 💞

    • @mhj4
      @mhj4 Місяць тому +48

      sending you love because i know being in a relationship with any kind of misogynist is really fucking awful

    • @lilween5898
      @lilween5898 Місяць тому +15

      @@mhj4 🫂

    • @_gross
      @_gross Місяць тому

      *Imagine* calling condoms transphobic... Ladies, is safe sex and caring for your partner's well-being transphobic? Glad you're out of that situation now! I hope you have much better times ahead of you.

    • @БЕж-л8п
      @БЕж-л8п Місяць тому +15

      Thank you for writing this. I had similar experience with colleague on my job, who was misogynistic and acted like this
      I hope you are well now

    • @coolkorners181
      @coolkorners181 Місяць тому +17

      People’s kinks tend to be the opposite of their real-life politics, and I cannot stress that enough. So sorry you had to go through that

  • @Manyxe
    @Manyxe Місяць тому +153

    Speaking of, men are more likely to die from breast cancer than testicular cancer, because testicular cancer is so treatable and usually occurs when young, whereas breast cancer usually develops in older men.

  • @louie923
    @louie923 Місяць тому +7

    my mouth dropped wide open when you said "as a trans woman", i did not expect that. you are absolutely stunning and gorgeous. i dont mean this in a back-handed "but you dont look trans" type of way; im just a trans guy, happy to see other trans ppl :)

  • @horizon5417
    @horizon5417 Місяць тому +29

    1:58 when transphobia is a literal fear

  • @Ebrill_Owen
    @Ebrill_Owen Місяць тому +270

    I legit feel bad for this dude’s cat. Sorry I just had to say that lol I feel bad for any animals owned by weirdos.

    • @bloodsports94
      @bloodsports94 Місяць тому

      He seems like a totally normal guy. I think the weirdos are the ones dressing up as the opposite sex , making podcasts about sleeping with random people being perverted as f. I guarantee your parents HATE YOU.

    • @rgs8970
      @rgs8970 Місяць тому +69

      His cat did not sign a waiver and will be talking to his own legal counsel 😾

    • @jencendiary
      @jencendiary Місяць тому +7

      ​@@bloodsports94 This is a big hissy fit, little buddy.

    • @TheSapphireLeo
      @TheSapphireLeo Місяць тому +1

      ​​​@@jencendiarySpeciesist, and abelist and gaslighting, if this is not a transphobe, etc., you are responding to?

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому

      ​@@bloodsports94 Totally normal guys don't go on the internet to pretend to do a social experiment to live off his cross dressing fantasy.

  • @unovasfinest2623
    @unovasfinest2623 Місяць тому +535

    Well. He's EXPERIMENTING and he's making it everyone's problem so maybe it is social experimenting 💀

    • @yohaAlt
      @yohaAlt Місяць тому

      If he was trans she would be slaying with that attitude 🥲💅🏽

    • @ManyMonstersMedia
      @ManyMonstersMedia Місяць тому +11

      im screaming lmfaooooooo

    • @AnotherAustin-z7b
      @AnotherAustin-z7b Місяць тому +2

      Well said lol

  • @a.e.3984
    @a.e.3984 Місяць тому +175

    You saying "pali-pali" got a giggle out of me, the Finnish word "palli" sounds the same and is a slang word for testicle 😂

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 Місяць тому +8

      🤣

    • @edvh88
      @edvh88 Місяць тому +14

      This is useful knowledge!

    • @Acidfunkish
      @Acidfunkish Місяць тому +19

      빨리! Means quickly, faster, etc.

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Місяць тому +5

      It misophonia'd the shit out of me.

    • @jan_Masewin
      @jan_Masewin Місяць тому +2

      kin la ona li nimi pi toki pona a

  • @angelofdusk13
    @angelofdusk13 Місяць тому +26

    I'm genderfluid, and it took me a long time to figure out my relationship with gender. I find it really funny when I hear the argument, "But what if they change their minds???"
    So? Sometimes my gender changes on an hourly basis. People change. They grow to know themselves and how to articulate their identity. Just because *you* need an instruction manual on how to perform your assigned gender doesn't mean the rest of us want one.

  • @annatedikova6861
    @annatedikova6861 Місяць тому +14

    omg as a sociologist it's so embarassing to see him say he studied sociology and then pull THIS shit. yes, makeup is mostly viewed as a part of feminine social role, but gender is fluid, meaning it can manifest in different forms. and it can be a part of femininity, and can be a part of masculinity - for instance, there is a TON of research on non-conventional/non-hegemonic masculinity (like homosexual masculinity, soft masculinity, etc.) which might include use of makeup in certain social situations. I did my bachelor thesis in the prespective of gender studies and read up on this quite a lot and demonstration of conventionally feminine traits can even yield benefits for men in some situations (e.g. caring fathers - they demonstrate the parental qualities more typically seen in mothers but often get a lot of praise and social rewards for being more involved and caring for their children than "traditional" fathers)

  • @strawbunnyangel
    @strawbunnyangel Місяць тому +172

    24:27 his massive self report lmao
    bro wanted his "two steps ahead" moment so badly

    • @devonmunn5728
      @devonmunn5728 Місяць тому +10

      Nikocado Avocado also pulled that bullshit as well

    • @strawbunnyangel
      @strawbunnyangel Місяць тому

      @@devonmunn5728 exactly. i fear with the amount of attention nikocado's reveal recieved that it is already inspiring others to do similarly harmful/shocking "social experiments" 😔

  • @AlatheD
    @AlatheD Місяць тому +358

    My favorite thing was when someone said that my (late-in-life) transition was autogynephilia. But I'm a transmasculine individual. So ....
    I dunno man, some people are just ... not ok.

    • @ChocolateChipcookiie
      @ChocolateChipcookiie Місяць тому

      This is a random fact but to fetishise being male or masculine is actually autoandrophilia 🤓☝️

    • @ladymacbethofmtsensk
      @ladymacbethofmtsensk Місяць тому +73

      People just don’t know what words mean lmao. Maybe this is an argument for teaching linguistics or some kind of rudimentary classics in schools again, I was made to systematically learn Greek and Latin roots in high school biology and it’s actually made me a stronger reader too.

    • @jennoscura2381
      @jennoscura2381 Місяць тому +1

      I find this amusing as a post op trans woman with autoandrophilia. Sometimes I get sexually aroused if I imagine myself as a muscular dude with a big dick. I even got a packer and packing undies for when I am feeling extra butch.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +115

      Like at least change the Latin lol

    • @DZrache
      @DZrache Місяць тому +32

      I came across this random website that talked about AGP and HSTS, and then was like "There's not currently a known one for MtF" which I found so funny as a (mostly) gay trans man.

  • @noah.03
    @noah.03 Місяць тому +385

    I wanna live in the woods and never speak to another person again I'm so sick of society and the Internet

    • @toemushroom-np1qt
      @toemushroom-np1qt Місяць тому +19

      so so real

    • @Pooh_Bella
      @Pooh_Bella Місяць тому +12

      Same

    • @helena4440
      @helena4440 Місяць тому +18

      This is low key what a lot of us want tbh

    • @omni1001
      @omni1001 Місяць тому +13

      Hey I know a philosopher you might like. 💀

    • @viannizvnv7222
      @viannizvnv7222 Місяць тому +8

      @@omni1001 Industrial society and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race

  • @tofuhearts
    @tofuhearts Місяць тому +11

    I feel like this is his desperate attempt to regain his 'masculinity' after dating a trans woman by degrading her sexuality. The same way when you rejected dude and he calls you a bitch and not pretty anyway. It's giving fragile ego.

  • @IJNSophie
    @IJNSophie Місяць тому +8

    josh seiter treated his social experiment as a college essay that you eventually turn in for a grade. it's like he tried to appeal to people who arent even trying to understand what the transgender experience is like. it's just a grift and we should see that this is just a little boy in an adult body.

  • @Lady_Eleven
    @Lady_Eleven Місяць тому +76

    This guy managed to live his crossdressing dreams for five full months and then pivot right back into being adored by conservatives. It says a lot about him and conservatives that this happened, but not much about anyone else.

  • @nerdtubewtf
    @nerdtubewtf Місяць тому +186

    19:16 for me it was the hair. I'm a chica with disablities who just cut her hair today cuz too painful for shower when too long,(I might be hyperfocused right now on hair is what I'm saying lol) so just from the thumbnail. You need a LOT of upkeep to keep hair that short and the style to me has always screamed um, hypermasculine conservative male trying too hard to me, given the other details in his outfit.

    • @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx
      @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx Місяць тому +56

      my thoughts exactly! it's such an uneducated parody that screams "I'm taking that off when i stop filming"
      and it's not even that he should've let his hair grow, but the fact that he didn't change anything about it - even cutting it shorter would be more convincing.
      His character was very contradictory. It was a very binary trans woman, putting a lot of stock on having the same experiences as cis women, but also rocking a beard and a very masculine haircut, mixing in some very left field enby discourse... just an obvious lady ballers style parody

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +98

      That’s a really good point. Trans women aren’t likely to be confident in wearing their hair that short at the start of their transitions especially.

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Місяць тому +5

      Same. I've never seen a woman w that hair cut trans or cis.

    • @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx
      @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx Місяць тому

      @@SpecialBlanket you should hang out with lesbians, they're cool

    • @jennoscura2381
      @jennoscura2381 Місяць тому +15

      ​@@KatBlaqueBingo! When I first started my transition I grew my hair out. Sometime after getting bottom surgery I shaved my head full cue ball. I have done a shaved head or short hair a bunch since then. I am trying to grow it out again, but I don't know how long I will go before deciding to shave it off again.

  • @julieblair7472
    @julieblair7472 Місяць тому +135

    It's so funny how people will make the jokes trans people made about themselves on livejournal 20 years ago and they think they are SO original. You will never beat marginalized ppl at making fun of themselves.

    • @mikeymullins5305
      @mikeymullins5305 Місяць тому +41

      literally. I've heard that "My cat is homophobic" a bit

    • @marleymars2223
      @marleymars2223 Місяць тому +34

      This reminds me of the "controversial ways i raise my son. He has to walk in pride parades or i don't feed him. i force my horse to be gay. Gay horse." Video

  • @belosneshkaaaa
    @belosneshkaaaa 27 днів тому +6

    he now does blackface and compares it to being trans

  • @smolsupernova
    @smolsupernova Місяць тому +3

    when he started talking about "woman face" and trans people putting on a show and you're just dancing around the background like" OoOoO~ 👻" literally so adorable and got me so good 💀

  • @kai-qm6wm
    @kai-qm6wm Місяць тому +168

    As a leftist trans man, I never thought he was a girl, I just didn't care enough to do anything. If he said something like, idk I'm making my cat vegan, I'd react because it's abuse. But dressing in ugly clothes? Nuh uh

  • @LarisseMontrose
    @LarisseMontrose Місяць тому +188

    I can't think of any downsides to just trusting someone about their gender either. His whole thing was "Gotcha! Bet you feel stupid right now, huh? I said I was a woman and you believed it!" and it's like...ok? He might as well have lied about his favorite color and then called us gullible for believing it.
    I'd rather risk looking like a fool to conservatives (who would never approve of me anyway) than risk hurting someone over something that's none of my business.

    • @LongHairCarolyn
      @LongHairCarolyn Місяць тому +32

      Absolutely agree. I always try to treat people the way they present themselves to me. Reminds me of when a beautiful trans woman came to the customer service counter at the grocery store where I was working. And after I helped her my coworkers kept coming up to me and whispering “you know that’s a man, right?” Awful. It’s like so many cis people want to prove that they aren’t “fooled.” 😢

    • @dalailarose1596
      @dalailarose1596 Місяць тому +24

      Lying about your favorite color is a really good comparison! Idk, I just find it really easy to be kind in general. Mean people are weird.

    • @LarisseMontrose
      @LarisseMontrose Місяць тому +8

      @@LongHairCarolyn Mhmm! It seems like it'd exhausting going through life like that.

    • @flynnferal5878
      @flynnferal5878 Місяць тому

      as if Joshie ain't the one out here looking like a clown

  • @tonytheparamorestan
    @tonytheparamorestan Місяць тому +233

    is that the same guy that fabricated his death and made his ex (who's a trans woman btw) feel like shit because of their prior breakup?

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +110

      Yes lol

    • @egg_bun_
      @egg_bun_ Місяць тому +28

      Oh wow, that's certainly a story

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 Місяць тому +15

      Wtf 😒

    • @BiggerinRealLife
      @BiggerinRealLife Місяць тому +6

      Woooooooow

    • @SpecialBlanket
      @SpecialBlanket Місяць тому +3

      Wait was she transitioned when they dated? Either way this is bizarre

  • @cookiequeen5430
    @cookiequeen5430 Місяць тому +11

    Understanding that transphobia so often is just mysogynie makes everything click so easily

    • @milk-ik2vk
      @milk-ik2vk Місяць тому

      both homophobia and transphobia are literally just rooted in misogyny. being a gay man is bad because it’s feminine… being a trans women or gnc AMAB person is bad because it’s a “failure of masculinity”. i honestly could argue that most bigotry is rooted simply in either white supremacy or misogyny and understanding that really makes all bigoted talking points all the more bigoted.

  • @camrionr
    @camrionr Місяць тому +2

    THE KOREAN BIT! Girl I'm dead. Love your vibe and WILL be subscribing

  • @jeffree2001
    @jeffree2001 Місяць тому +256

    The “once dated MBH storyline” was a delightful and totally clarifying plot twist! These conflicted CDs or closeted gay men who date trans women so often secretly think they are superior to them. I’m sure this “social experiment” is just a sad little confused boy trying to get revenge by negating a whole community’s existence.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +46

      Yep!

    • @bucklemonster21994
      @bucklemonster21994 Місяць тому +7

      In my time CD's had music on them. (alright i'll see myself out)

    • @Jane_Doe-o4r
      @Jane_Doe-o4r Місяць тому +5

      This comment confused me for a second because I watch ManlyBadassHero. Thanks for the confusion, lol.

    • @mgsgamer8340
      @mgsgamer8340 Місяць тому +4

      @@Jane_Doe-o4r mew mbg lore just dropped

    • @Dressup_Doll
      @Dressup_Doll Місяць тому

      @@mgsgamer8340Lol.

  • @YAWSSSSSS
    @YAWSSSSSS Місяць тому +97

    As comical as this situation can be at time you can obviously tell that he is trying to get people to target trans creators like Dylan Mulvaney which is incredibly fucked up. I'm not really a fan of Dylan Mulvaney's content but she shouldn't get hate for just being trans and putting her story out there.

  • @sirentyper4457
    @sirentyper4457 Місяць тому +177

    This video was hard to watch. I'm glad you were able to take it with a grain of salt and in a jovial manner, but the fact that he spent months mocking trans women and is now pretending like its some big gotcha is mind blowing. LIke. There are so many more things you could make stupid "social commentary" on. Trans people shouldnt be some big ballot issue. We live in a society. Everyone plays into roles. It should not matter what people are deciding to do with thier lives when it effects NO ONE. If people even cared half as much about the corruption of billionaires the world might actually be a better place.

  • @tfox285
    @tfox285 Місяць тому +4

    I had a brief interaction with a trans woman in a bathroom. She was dressed in a traditional and old fashioned way with a flowery shirtwaist dress and scarf. I was startled when I met her gaze because she did not have a feminine face, it just wasn’t what I expected. Other than the brief confusion over the masculine face dichotomy I met her gaze and held it for a moment letting her know I saw her and accepted her like you would any other person you acknowledge in a public place. She looked so insecure, uncomfortable, and vulnerable. I hope she has found the acceptance she deserves and I am so worried about her and others in our current political climate. Why would accepting someone else on their own terms be bad? How is that owning the left?

  • @strawbraryliberry4604
    @strawbraryliberry4604 Місяць тому +12

    I feel for the transwoman who dated him... nobody wants a "social experiment" level spiteful ex 😅

  • @bluejay3101
    @bluejay3101 Місяць тому +123

    I think he wanted to be told he is disgusting and be dog pilled on therefore he have a reason to repress himself further into the closet- if people are accepting, and or don’t care- then why is he repressing himself? Why is he denying himself the life he want to live if people don’t really care. He goes to people to confirm his own disgust (maybe fetish ) to not be who is he, instead of confronting why he chooses to waste his life not being who he is
    But, I think people who criticize others for accepting others at face value.. is weird and strange, because we are taught to be kind and respectful. So, if we are those things then we are weak minded people,.okay girl

  • @cassandrar5127
    @cassandrar5127 Місяць тому +282

    Back in the yee ol' times, CD's were the biggest tr*nny chasers around. I would constantly get the most disgusting messages from them. It's kind of ironic because people portray trans women as predatory, when we are usually the ones be preyed on. MySpace was wild with chasers in the 2000's. I could write a whole book on the subject lol

    • @chocomelo454
      @chocomelo454 Місяць тому +4

      I haven't watched the video yet si forgive me if I sound dumb, but-
      What does CD stand for?

    • @augustproductions4914
      @augustproductions4914 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@chocomelo454 Cross-Dresser

    • @sallysoniclover
      @sallysoniclover Місяць тому

      @@chocomelo454crossdresser

    • @lanskandal1181
      @lanskandal1181 Місяць тому

      Cross-dresser ​@@chocomelo454

    • @liviwaslost
      @liviwaslost Місяць тому +22

      @@chocomelo454 I’m geussing cross dresser

  • @wazoowi
    @wazoowi Місяць тому +175

    I saw a post recently alleging that he is currently dating a trans woman... which I REALLY hope is not the case for her sake

    • @bloodsports94
      @bloodsports94 Місяць тому

      He's straight . Why would he date a man? The fact that you are so stupid that you think HES THE BAD ONE. LMAO. YOU ARE SO DUMB.

    • @antimale
      @antimale Місяць тому

      ​@@bloodsports94 LMAO. Josh has already dated trans women in the past.
      There are posts of that all over the internet.
      The thing is, he is a closeted cross dressing chaser.
      He lived off his CD fantasy while gullible idiots like you think he did a social experiment for 5 months.

    • @aquariussolaris2492
      @aquariussolaris2492 Місяць тому +5

      He dated one before but this is new tea. I need the doll to come foward

  • @adrianomaly1760
    @adrianomaly1760 Місяць тому +3

    loving this new format, Kat you're doing amazing, flourishing, my crops are watered, my skin is clear

  • @Montesama314
    @Montesama314 Місяць тому +11

    "Excuse me, I just want to pick up that rice over there."
    "Hi, I'm a trans woman."
    "Oh, okay, well, if you could please step aside, ma'am, I'd like to get that-"
    "HAHA! I got you, I'm a man! Now you have to treat me like shit!"
    "What? Why? You're just another person. And you're making a scene in this grocery store."

  • @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl
    @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl Місяць тому +136

    If makeup is going to be woman face, I'm going to start calling pants man legs.
    "I had a dream last night that I had to do a speech and I didn't have man legs on!" 😱

    • @Elisabet-w7k
      @Elisabet-w7k Місяць тому

      It's a question of historical power imbalance, sexism, and how women have been viewed and charicatured.

    • @actualgoblin
      @actualgoblin Місяць тому

      ​@@Elisabet-w7k i have psuedo-feminized bone structure i wear woman face by default. what power does that give me

    • @Jane_Doe-o4r
      @Jane_Doe-o4r Місяць тому +4

      @@actualgoblin Flight.

    • @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl
      @Reverse_Cat_Cowgirl Місяць тому

      @@Jane_Doe-o4r narrr I'm dead!
      💀 🪦🕊

  • @garnetbristan9984
    @garnetbristan9984 Місяць тому +44

    I'm ashamed to say that "Gender Dysphoria By Proxy" did make me laugh out loud.

  • @burningsinner7303
    @burningsinner7303 Місяць тому +212

    I recognize Josh Seiter as Joshua Andrews and I discovered him through tumblr because he was showing off his 🍑 and that was a couple years ago so it's wild to see him treading on the internet.

    • @tuttiFrutiikawaii
      @tuttiFrutiikawaii Місяць тому +51

      omg he is sooo messy

    • @aelwynwitch9460
      @aelwynwitch9460 Місяць тому +22

      That's a twist I didn't expect.

    • @denaliagolden
      @denaliagolden Місяць тому +23

      Oop! Clock it!

    • @dielotosblum
      @dielotosblum Місяць тому +16

      I think you meant "trending" on the internet, but the image of his trampling all over time internet is honestly so spot on.

    • @ihateualso
      @ihateualso Місяць тому

      I was gonna make a comment saying a reality tv reject who wants attention and doesn’t make an OF must have a button down there, then I saw this comment and remembered that name, button confirmed

  • @aubreyirene4059
    @aubreyirene4059 Місяць тому +1

    Girl you are so well spoken and charismatic, dang! Excited to watch more!

  • @yasabushieowhagaksure
    @yasabushieowhagaksure 22 дні тому +1

    21:13 the way you started dancing around got me CACKLING

  • @lillipad_frog
    @lillipad_frog Місяць тому +1030

    As an actual cross dresser, I have to say: a cis person will not be comfortable going out expressing themselves as the opposite gender if they weren’t into it sexually. It is so mentally and socially uncomfortable a lot of the time, that being into has to overpower all that discomfort. He did the makeup the uncomfortable looking dresses, it’s way too much fucking effort for 5 MONTHS to be a bit. He’s definitely into it 😭.

    • @BiggerinRealLife
      @BiggerinRealLife Місяць тому +129

      Literally what I was thinking. Not as a cross-dresser myself, but as one who has known many. I literally don’t care about this man at all, but I do hope he finds peace with himself.

    • @lestatsluv317
      @lestatsluv317 Місяць тому +93

      He needs therapy so he can be introduced to himself in whatever form he will be happy in. There seems to be a wall between who he is and who he really wants to be and he doesn't strike me as someone who can work through that on his own.

    • @williamqin5051
      @williamqin5051 Місяць тому +223

      As a cross dresser, nope! I'm not into it sexually, I just enjoy cross dressing

    • @shinycharms
      @shinycharms Місяць тому

      i dont think ALL cross dressers do it for sexual reasons. some people just like the clothes they like. some definitely do it for a fetish, but some guys just like women's clothing, and some women like to wear men's clothing. its just their sense of style.

    • @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx
      @xXxzAAa0aAAzxXx Місяць тому +34

      I can see many ways beyond sexual gratification cis women would be comfortable being seen as men and I can think of a few other ways men could enjoy presenting more femme (especially if it includes how Josh turned out in drag while doing his "experiment") although I wouldn't say it applies that much to STRAIGHT cis guys.
      I just think that when guys like Josh are doing it, especially considering his record... that's suspicious af

  • @mic4600
    @mic4600 Місяць тому +59

    i had a best friend that dated someone that came out and began their transition into womanhood as they were dating. my friend told me that she felt that her partner’s love towards her felt like envy. i went to visit this friend and we ran into their ex at a restaurant she works at. my ex-friend made the choice to stay to prove something and ordered food and talked shit until the cows came home, deadnaming her ex. i had taken a lot from this friend on this trip, and i finally stood up and told her it wasn’t right. she didn’t take kindly to being challenged and shut me down. i texted her about it after i left and she acted like i was the problem and we haven’t talked since. transphobia is a disease

  • @Vahlee-A
    @Vahlee-A Місяць тому +198

    I heard about this like two days ago on Treads I think. It's infuriating to think men will go that far to try to prove our lives a joke. This the kind of thing people delete us about.

    • @meeomelovescookiesandhisto459
      @meeomelovescookiesandhisto459 Місяць тому +37

      Their loser behavior makes them the joke. We see you, we appreciate you, and we're fighting with you

    • @seeleunit2000
      @seeleunit2000 Місяць тому +15

      Indeed it's quite insidious. I'm not trance, but this is heinous

  • @jabbathehutt2774
    @jabbathehutt2774 Місяць тому +4

    The thing that gets me about this guy, and a lot of other people like him, is that no matter what you do, they will think they won. You act nice to them, they will go on about how they fooled you. You call out their behavior, they will say things like so much for the tolerant left. If you ignore them they will always have another person to get a reaction from. You tell other people not to react, and they will celebrate because you care.
    Its stupidity at its most frustrating.

  • @QuintBaas
    @QuintBaas Місяць тому +2

    Yes, at the 25:45 mark, talking about autogynephilia. That's exactly what I thought as well and in fact, I believe that the researcher who originally wrote about this (Ray Blanchard, I believe), who stated he went to a gay bar and talked to transgender women, actually talked to crossdressers but believed them to be transgender, and then based all his "research" on this error.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +1

      Yes and that’s also my theory. Because the reality is many transgender women do not exist in contexts where they are openly trans. I didn’t for years. Only recently started to go to gay bars. Cross dressers are much easier to find by comparison and the easiest way to find them is via sex websites

  • @GaryOPostle
    @GaryOPostle Місяць тому +166

    He gets a lot of the terminology mostly correct? (Not the concepts) so is he paying a lot of attention to trans women without respecting them? Is this chaser behaviour?

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Місяць тому +95

      Yes.

    • @Dave102693
      @Dave102693 Місяць тому +11

      Yeah

    • @phoenixc7245
      @phoenixc7245 Місяць тому +3

      What is a chaser?

    • @ctorres236
      @ctorres236 Місяць тому

      @@phoenixc7245chasers are (usually) cis ppl that fetishize and sexualize trans ppl. In my experience they tend to have transphobic ideas of what a trans person is and sometimes believe they can ‘turn’ trans ppl cis and are very dehumanizing to trans ppl

    • @knuckles543
      @knuckles543 Місяць тому +15

      @@phoenixc7245 putting people (insert person or demographic here) on a pedestal in order to approach them and then enter into a sexual relationship
      a close-ish summation

  • @PGOuma
    @PGOuma Місяць тому +74

    I'm just so exhausted of people confusing trans women, drag queens, and crossdressers 🙄🙄🙄

    • @AnotherAustin-z7b
      @AnotherAustin-z7b Місяць тому +2

      That is an excellent point, usually I'm the first to get on people about that being an etymology nerd but I didn't think of how bad the interview was for not being clear about it.
      Although these days most transvestites (cross dressers, vestis meaning clothes) identity as trans in some way. Transsexual used to be in the binary sense, MTF or FTM and TERFs still follow this, but now trans more generally means transgender, identifying as any sort of outside the cisgender binary (including FTM and MTF.)

    • @tylergriffin3667
      @tylergriffin3667 27 днів тому

      In this case it isn't confusion, it's an agenda

  • @JamieGcali
    @JamieGcali Місяць тому +38

    Im so glad you decided to tackle this fool. As a woman who transitioned 40yrs ago, I knew that he was pretending from the very beginning. He just poured fuel on a fire that's already raging.

  • @kimekim12345
    @kimekim12345 18 днів тому +2

    I used to work a sex line as a dominatrix and so many straight men would call to fulfill a degradation and forced feminization kink. Maybe this worked or not, but I would make the scene into an empowering as a woman fantasy and other women loving them as a woman.
    I couldn't get into the mindset of degrading someone as a woman

  • @blabell9402
    @blabell9402 23 дні тому +2

    28:40 i remember my first bf 17 who would constantly call me the most beautifull woman in the world suddenly calling me a man and playing fully into my insecurities after i broke up with me. Was really hard to trust men or cis people in generall at all after that for a while