Why kindness matters | John Sweeney | TEDxStPeterPort
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- John's three key areas are, firstly, the need to be kind to others - to make someone feel they matter; secondly the importance of inspiring others to be kind - people notice kindness to others and are encouraged to pay it forward; and finally the need to be kind to yourself - we are often our own worst enemies in this regard but treating ourselves with kindness is just as important.
John Sweeney is a social entrepreneur and kindness coach from Cork, Ireland. He is the founder of Suspended Coffees, the world-wide social movement that has positively impacted and changed millions of lives around the world. No stranger to difficult times in his life, John's mission is to change society one act of kindness at a time. "Everybody matters and deserves to be cared about," says John. "No one should ever feel alone when one kind act - something as simple as a smile, a conversation or a cup of coffee - can change the course of their day and even their lives." Watch John's talk to find out more - he is as inspiring as he is passionate!
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Please tell me I’m not the only one who’s here bc they wanna be nicer and need more motivation bc life sucks and ppl are pretty rude sometimes
You are nice for trying to be nicer.
Hope your days are getting better.
You are not alone in that thought. I am not sure what country you are from, or your situation but you matter. We all matter. Sometimes a smile and a kind word can mean more than you will ever know. I hope your situation gets better soon. 💕
Yep same reason.
James Williams 777 good thing I’m not alone 😬😓
If you ever feel like a bad person, just remember that truly bad people don’t care that they are bad.
thanks
I totally agree with you that kindness matters! Keep on spreading your kindness! It is worth it! You are worth it! You are amazing! You have a beautiful soul! Have a lovely day! -Miss Kindness 😊
+Pari Kim I really appreciate the kind words.
I logged into youtube specifically to engage into a talk which talks about kindness. I get so enraged when things don't work my way. It angers me. I realize that internally I become unkind to people. I do think for once letting my anger out, which I don't do but that is again frustrating. I don't wanna be a person like this.I don't wanna poison my head against anyone even momentarily. This was extensively inspiring. Thanks John!
I think we all have moments like this. Takes something to admit this and try to improve.
I'm most grateful you stepped up to share John, thank you. Exercising kindness has been a path to frequent joy, and a means to live within happiness.
Great how you’ve turned your trauma around and are helping others now…well done , very inspirational 👏🏽
Thank you...i can see the shine in your eyes
your a wonderful man Mr. Sweeny! I really enjoyed watching your video. I've had so many people help me through my illness over the last couple of years and I try to pay it forward as much as possible. Thank you for the inspiration. you made this man smile with your kindness :)
My group, "Flotsam, Reconsidered", takes clothing, appliances, books, etc..and passes them on to people in need. I make it a point to learn their names, their kid's names, where they are from, how they came to be in want..and then, give them, based on what they have said, and I have heard..things I think they can use. I also seek out other venues, such as a local church which has a free store for people in need. Many poor families have children, and recently when a neighbor's child outgrew the stroller/pram..they gave it to me. I wiped and cleaned it, as it was still in great condition, and passed it to the free store, for another to use. It really does not take an advanced college degree, or a huge amount of money to perform acts of kindness. Start where you are - use what you have - and then, DO WHAT YOU CAN!! From NYC Union Square...Blest be, all.
Thank you so much John
Just doing little things to help other people can bring you so much happiness
In a world where you can be anything, be kind.
Such an inspiring story from a wonderfully unassuming kind man, how the seed of something so little can grow and grow . The kindness movement started by John is on my mind every day and like to try to do my little bit and spread the word too x.
Camilla Cruise Camilla, you're such a kind and wonderful lady. Thank you. :)
Kindess matters because they need kindness and love.
Powerful! Love the passion for kindness!
Benjamin Hero Thank you my brother! Hope we see you again soon. :)
John M Sweeney Haha, yess! Speaking to Liam at the moment!
Benjamin Hero - Motivation Fred?
Hi John. Your message inspired me the first time I heard it and I'm so pleased to hear you are now being kind to yourself too. Great talk followed by great actions. Thank you.
Neal Atwell Thank you Neil, I appreciate it mate!
happiness is the answer ... love you JOhn.
Glad to finally see and hear the man behind the movement. I'v been a follower since nearly the beginnng, and am supporter of Suspended Coffee. I love the concept! ...thank you for listening to the heart of God.
the best kind of karma imaginable...thank you I will be passing this on and on and on x
Alias Grace I appreciate it Alias :)
I appreciate your kindness Alias! You are so marvelous! Thanks for being alive! You rock! 😍
This man is an amazing soul! Thank you.
I'm here for the accent, but I liked the message. I am writing an English essay basing it on kindness and this helps, thanks.
Well said John. A truly inspiring talk and such a simple idea. Going to call someone now that I haven't talked to in a long time.
Tom O' Mara Thanks Tom! Hope you're well. :)
Kindness does matter. But remember some see kindness as a weakness.
This is beautiful
Thanks, John, for your inspiring message.
***** Means a lot my friend. :)
John, what an amazing video, you brought tears to my eyes, that of pride and admiration. I'm also from cork , what a kind beautiful soul. I'm make sure to inspire and share my kindness! Thank you!
Kelly Marie Buckley Thank you Kelly, I really do appreciate the kind words. :)
Kelly, you are so kind! I love when people are kind. Keep spreading your love and kindness in this world! It is beautiful. Don't forget: YOU are cared for! -Miss Kindness 😊
This is great! Thank you for sharing your kindness and inspiring others for doing the same.
+Signe Comfort My pleasure. :)
Thank you!
John, I loved your talk. I loved your open honesty and I especially love your willingness to show vulnerability. This I believe shows strength of character. If I'm ever in Cork I'd be happy to buy you a coffee😊🤗. Keep up your great work!
bS! women hate nice guys.
Great talk John! My friend told me of the caffe sospesso concept a couple of days ago. She just sent me the wikipedia article on it and from there got a link to this talk. Classic serendipity! Cheers.
Oooof.. the end aged poorly unfortunately.
Joking aside, thank you. Working on kindness with my son, this helped our talk a lot.
thank you John Sweeney! Paying it forward!
I want to share kindness ❤️
15:03 I recognize the woman on that picture. Wasn't she who does interviews with actors and is know for her positive humour that people make like her almost instantly?
I believe the UA-camr CharismaOnCommand did a video about her some day.
I'm curious, Were you able to share a coffee with any of the three people?
I adore you, mister, and always will. Also, I love you. Also, you're awesome. Also, thank you. #youwinatallthethings #kindnessmatters
Jackie Lea Shelley Thank you so much, Jackie. Means a lot from a fellow misfit. :)
KINDNESS
that voice
Great talk!
Amazing talk😊
+Robin Veysey Thank you for the kind words. :)
❤
Inspiring!
Richard Warnock Very kind of you. :)
I believe I'm pretty nice, but I am pretty stressed as well. This world being reee reee doesn't help either!
Amazing and profound.
mrmoo524 Very kind of you. :)
John M Sweeney I hope this makes it to Ellen. Also, the day after I watched this, I bought a Starbucks gift card and gave it away. It's a start.
amazing~
Well done Johnny :)
Napels Rules!
happy to have coffee with you any time John :D if I'd had your phone number I would have used your 103 seconds to call you I called my sister instead :D
Sussan Munt I hope it was awesome. :)
is he vegan tho
Don't feed the unkind because they live on it. Don't give them any attention. Work on your self-esteem
Very good message overall. But the part where you want to meet Ellen DeGeneres didn't make this video age well. Oops that's not a kind thing to say.
your a wonderful man Mr. Sweeny! I really enjoyed watching your video. I've had so many people help me through my illness over the last couple of years and I try to pay it forward as much as possible. Thank you for the inspiration. you made this man smile with your kindness :)
You are such a wonderful man Rich! It really touches my heart that you're so kind! Your sweetness and loving spirit make you such an awesome human being! Thanks for existing! -Lots of kindness, Miss Kindness 😊