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  • Wilbur Soot Gets Personal About His Life Tommyinnit,Mental Health Dream etc
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  • @emmasoot6457
    @emmasoot6457 3 роки тому +6575

    then he said he's my best friend I crying

  • @dhrubogaming8201
    @dhrubogaming8201 3 роки тому +8084

    Look how even with this pain he still had a smile on his face

    • @MatthewDeJesus
      @MatthewDeJesus 3 роки тому +136

      he inspires me

    • @NekitaRui
      @NekitaRui 3 роки тому +227

      Honestly, the people who are the most hurt, smile the most. Cuz they do not want to show that something is wrong...

    • @mimigabugabu6858
      @mimigabugabu6858 3 роки тому +13

      This man is FKIN amazing

    • @joudmasaad6402
      @joudmasaad6402 3 роки тому +91

      @@NekitaRui its a defense mechanism, some people smile when they’re sad to show others that they’re fine

    • @user-fq1cc4zb9p
      @user-fq1cc4zb9p 3 роки тому +19

      @@joudmasaad6402 Coping mechanism

  • @DaFazGuy
    @DaFazGuy 3 роки тому +3937

    Tommy’s so talented to be able to put on the “annoying, obnoxious and unwanted kid” act in the SMP and yet be such a good guy irl. My heart 😢

    • @axelf9947
      @axelf9947 3 роки тому +229

      Yeah- there’s been a few times when he’s dropped the persona on camera and it just gives me serious whiplash every time lmao. He genuinely seems like a really chill and nice guy haha

    • @ailinhdotcom
      @ailinhdotcom 3 роки тому +64

      you guys should check out a channel that Tommy has called “tomaye”! he seems a lot more relaxed, but still keeps the funny :D

    • @ExDee419
      @ExDee419 3 роки тому +3

      @@ailinhdotcom cant find the channel

    • @_TiredMotherfucker_
      @_TiredMotherfucker_ 3 роки тому +2

      @@ailinhdotcom he doesn't upload on that channel tho:/

    • @tvds8350
      @tvds8350 3 роки тому +1

      😭😭, facts

  • @juliaandcassie2697
    @juliaandcassie2697 3 роки тому +5464

    I’m in Tommy’s position with a friend currently and I’m constantly missing days despite the fact that I love to talk to them. I feel like Tommy deserves more credit for simply being that persistent every day.

    • @kaitlinm9898
      @kaitlinm9898 3 роки тому +126

      fr he’s a great guy i wish i had a friend that checks up on me often

    • @kaz1304
      @kaz1304 3 роки тому +82

      You deserve credit aswell :)

    • @_gracieee
      @_gracieee 3 роки тому +55

      Tommy’s so fucking sweet

    • @snail1749
      @snail1749 3 роки тому +39

      Tommy supermacy

    • @juneb3rry
      @juneb3rry 3 роки тому +6

      Vouch

  • @vanzilla1037
    @vanzilla1037 3 роки тому +3551

    Tommy is such a legend- even if he is, you know, an "uncomfort steamer" and stuff like that but he's still a nice human being overall. I'm glad Wilbur talked about this

    • @reno9772
      @reno9772 3 роки тому +269

      yeah, his streaming persona and his irl persona is completely different things, for example just watch his lives then watch the Interview with tommy and the eboys, you can clearly see he is a good and smart guy

    • @ronaldmcmorgan9490
      @ronaldmcmorgan9490 3 роки тому +94

      @@reno9772 I couldn’t watch Tommy because of his persona and then I watched the eboys podcast with Tommy and now I can’t stop watching him

    • @Everybode
      @Everybode 3 роки тому +45

      @@ronaldmcmorgan9490 lmao yeah like he says he can be annoying at first xd

    • @whoaa6965
      @whoaa6965 3 роки тому +40

      who said tommy is an "uncomfort steamer"

    • @endistresse
      @endistresse 3 роки тому +68

      @@whoaa6965 tommy himself

  • @burn1253
    @burn1253 3 роки тому +9798

    this man deserves the world

    • @Xicoric
      @Xicoric 3 роки тому +35

      Yes, thanks for 10 gifted subs btw.

    • @HaveltherockDS
      @HaveltherockDS 3 роки тому +26

      Oh god, I can imagine this.
      Video:
      Starting gang wars in the Vatican city.

    • @burn1253
      @burn1253 3 роки тому +6

      @@HaveltherockDS PLSSS😭😭😭HAHAHH

    • @burn1253
      @burn1253 3 роки тому +1

      @@Xicoric i think uve got the wrong guy i didnt donate anything :)

    • @loscampesinos_enjoyer
      @loscampesinos_enjoyer 3 роки тому +9

      He is the main character

  • @arkhamshit
    @arkhamshit 3 роки тому +4457

    I was about to refill my water bottle with tears when he started talking about Tommy and caring so much for him, the things like not really tommy-related he makes tommy-related is so goddamn platonically cute like, ''cashapp you give Tommy dinner on his table.'' got me 🥺

    • @taniabegam8372
      @taniabegam8372 3 роки тому +106

      They more like brothers

    • @weebcactus368
      @weebcactus368 3 роки тому +135

      @@taniabegam8372 Stop that your gonna make him cry

    • @Arnoldismouldy
      @Arnoldismouldy 3 роки тому +17

      D O N T D R I N K I T

    • @beeeeph
      @beeeeph 3 роки тому +18

      Tommy is like a little brother to him

    • @taniabegam8372
      @taniabegam8372 3 роки тому +4

      @@weebcactus368 ooh noo 😢

  • @cidila
    @cidila 3 роки тому +5340

    It's beautiful that Wilbur has a friend like Tommy, it makes me cry, people, that's how cute that's it
    It's ironic that he was the least known guy on live smp but I started watching Schlatt and Tommy and everyone from the dream SMP BECAUSE of Wilbur

  • @civiltwilight1338
    @civiltwilight1338 3 роки тому +1787

    His friendship with Tommy is so beautiful and sincere.

  • @NoMustang273
    @NoMustang273 3 роки тому +2922

    Oof, that sucks. Hopefully it'll get better for him. I hope the DreamSMP stuff doesn't stress him out too much also.

    • @Bro1212_
      @Bro1212_ 3 роки тому +162

      I honestly think the dream smp stuff might help him. Considering the fact that Wilbur is one of the main “writers” of the smp scripts, maybe having a creative outlet is good for him.

    • @NoMustang273
      @NoMustang273 3 роки тому +82

      @@Bro1212_ Yeah, hopefully. He seems to genuinely enjoy it and he' probably going to return soon so that'll be fun. The SMP still seems to have a bright future ahead of it, even though it's already lasted longer than SMPLive.

    • @juliaandcassie2697
      @juliaandcassie2697 3 роки тому +15

      @@Bro1212_ he’ll probably continue to write his character with Tommy and this entire video is proof of why that works

    • @loganbrown9993
      @loganbrown9993 3 роки тому +8

      wilbur doesent write dream smp events anymore, which is unfortuante since his writing was 10x better than any of the season 2 and 3 stuff we have gotten so far. Like wil could legitimately become an auther if he wants to

    • @NoMustang273
      @NoMustang273 3 роки тому +31

      @@loganbrown9993 I know lol. I agree, season 1 was the best. Season 2 was messy but had it's moments...but still messy and had terrible pacing. Season 3, I'm liking it so far. Minor characters are getting bigger roles( Sam, BBH, Puffy). Ranboo is continuing his super interesting story with his phenomenal acting and Tommy's actually happy for once after all his trauma XD.

  • @dhrubogaming8201
    @dhrubogaming8201 3 роки тому +2462

    Wilbur literally makes so many of our days hope he stays positive

    • @vinceyuasa1605
      @vinceyuasa1605 3 роки тому +5

      Positive in virus or positive for mental health

    • @jandrosdumb
      @jandrosdumb 3 роки тому +2

      @@vinceyuasa1605 both

    • @nekidesuu_
      @nekidesuu_ 3 роки тому +14

      @@jandrosdumb wait wtf

    • @vinceyuasa1605
      @vinceyuasa1605 3 роки тому +5

      @@jandrosdumb why u want Wilbur to have a positive mindset and the virus

    • @garfield4873
      @garfield4873 3 роки тому +1

      @@jandrosdumb hu-

  • @psychofangirl_0428
    @psychofangirl_0428 3 роки тому +397

    "I'm getting hate on my friendly email address"
    Ight who's legs do I have to fucking break-

    • @ItzGl1tchy
      @ItzGl1tchy 3 роки тому +12

      *Strumming my pain with his fingers* 🧎🏌️‍♀️

    • @alungoo_uwu
      @alungoo_uwu 3 роки тому +7

      *would steal their kneecaps if I have to :)*

    • @reterols5442
      @reterols5442 3 роки тому +5

      *I'm late but who's bones do I have to rip out of their bodies and make smoothies out of their organs*

    • @milk-qh5zz
      @milk-qh5zz 3 роки тому +1

      @@ItzGl1tchy *singing my life with his words*

    • @ItzGl1tchy
      @ItzGl1tchy 3 роки тому +1

      @@milk-qh5zz *Killing me softly with his songs*

  • @pia5074
    @pia5074 3 роки тому +972

    Awwwwww Tommy is like Wilber’s little brother who is worried for his health, so he drags him out off bed to just sit and chat :)

    • @lisa-7046
      @lisa-7046 3 роки тому +27

      Stop you'll make him cry D:

    • @Raeeennnnnn
      @Raeeennnnnn 3 роки тому +12

      He's gunna cry ;(

    • @rroselandd
      @rroselandd 3 роки тому +12

      Don't say that, you'll make Wilby cry D:

    • @ariaiaiaiaia8219
      @ariaiaiaiaia8219 2 роки тому

      Don’t say that he will cry

  • @Fishfaceiskewl
    @Fishfaceiskewl 3 роки тому +1135

    People give Tommy and Wilbur so much crap and reasons not to stream but they still do and they deserve so much support

    • @darcyi8828
      @darcyi8828 3 роки тому +41

      I still don’t get why people still do that crap like live your life and move on if you don’t like that person no need to let him down, it’s just toxicity.

    • @Fishfaceiskewl
      @Fishfaceiskewl 3 роки тому +8

      @@darcyi8828 ikr

    • @Mike-tv9rk
      @Mike-tv9rk 3 роки тому +2

      The reasons are that they are preaching to twelve year olds and swearing at them and passing on anxiety and theories about the world that they are not filtering or thinking properly about. They have no critical thinking skills and young people are being exposed to their unfiltered idiocy too early in life . Kids stuck at home in lockdown are being damaged because these guys are not being responsible for the position of influence they have. Stop passing on your little dreamworld anxiety to kids !

    • @WeatherReportsHat
      @WeatherReportsHat 3 роки тому +16

      @@Mike-tv9rk I'm sorry.... what the actual Hell are you even trying to say??????

    • @darcyi8828
      @darcyi8828 3 роки тому +9

      @@Mike-tv9rk I get it but honestly no one is passing anxiety and people who literally copy exactly what they do should not even be watching them

  • @Akariiimeow
    @Akariiimeow 3 роки тому +841

    Its honestly nice how tommy just tells wilbur to talk to him, its also really sweet how wilbur isnt embarrassed to be friends with a 16 year old :)

  • @tebocra4141
    @tebocra4141 3 роки тому +1399

    I used to have bad anxiety as a kid too, I hope it doesn’t come back. But it was terrible, it felt like the world was slowing down just to send me into a panic for no reason. I remember when my parents would ask me what I was nervous about and I just didn’t know. God it sucked.

    • @maddiedee
      @maddiedee 3 роки тому +40

      i remember one time i was having an anxiety attack about something that i won’t name and my mom was like “why are you so worried about ____ you don’t have anxiety” and i was like “you literally took me to get tested and i scored 37/40 and the doctor legit told you i had severe generalized anxiety” and she said “doesn’t mean you have it” and i was just like wtf??? she literally took me to a doctor because of how bad it had gotten and she says that i don’t have it??

    • @niko_kneecaps3644
      @niko_kneecaps3644 3 роки тому +30

      @@maddiedee bruhhhhhhhhhhhh, that doesn't even make sense
      "your child has severe anxiety"
      "no they don't"
      like what??

    • @maddiedee
      @maddiedee 3 роки тому +23

      @@niko_kneecaps3644 ikr! and she wonders why i don’t trust her with my personal life and mental health as much as i do my friends and other family members, like don’t get me wrong she’s a good person and i love her, but that doesn’t mean i have to trust her with everything

    • @niko_kneecaps3644
      @niko_kneecaps3644 3 роки тому +12

      @@maddiedee yeah. my mom isn't as bad, but she cant keep a stupid secret. I cant tell anything to her without her telling my dad, and when i get mad she says "oh well you cant expect me to keep things from your dad" half the time she acts like an innocent child that can do no wrong, and the other half is spent yelling at me and my brothers. I cant tell her things like my social life because she'll say stuff like "no you're just shy, you always had friends when you were little" and i came out to her, and she told my dad, basically said "no you're not, you're just taking it into consideration bc you're living in a time where it's accepted" i love my mom and she's a good mom, but she sucks sometimes.

    • @maddiedee
      @maddiedee 3 роки тому +5

      @@niko_kneecaps3644 like when i was quite literally going through an identity crisis about my gender i had texted both my mom and dad (it was really late at night and i expected them to see it the next morning) and my dad texted back saying “i don’t think you should be thinking about this right now because you’re very young and don’t need to think about this until later, but know that i’ll support you through it and will respect whatever your decision is” and i respect his opinion and response whereas my mom was like “you don’t need to think about this, you have so many tests to take for high school, plus you’re already a girl why would you need to change that? i don’t want you to be anything else because god made you a beautiful young woman and that’s what he wants you to be” and i also respect her opinion and response but the thing is that i was forced into christianity from a very young age even though i do not personally have a religion or belief in higher powers (nothing wrong with any religion i just don’t personally believe in that) and she knows my opinion on it and i feel as though i respect her opinions but she doesn’t respect mine and what i want to do

  • @coolsindy3457
    @coolsindy3457 3 роки тому +514

    You realise how important Tommy's friendship with wilbur is when he's asking wilbur to talk with him every day to make sure he's OK that's an amazing best friend tbh and I'm glad that Wilbur is looking out for himself and taking breaks to be honest I can relate in some ways to anxiety and especially with covid it can impact life alot.

    • @leah.5739
      @leah.5739 3 роки тому +4

      I wish I had a friend like that. If I just slipped off the face of the earth I don’t think my friends would even notice

    • @urtes561
      @urtes561 3 роки тому

      @@leah.5739 aw, if u need to talk to someone i am here

  • @notme8652
    @notme8652 3 роки тому +159

    Remembering that time Tommy Texted Wilbur "EMERGENCY"(Emergency minecraft) And Wilbur was actually worried and tried to call for help services

    • @juliaklaassen2247
      @juliaklaassen2247 3 роки тому +6

      Oh yeah... That was something- Well- at least motherinnit wasn't actually dying

    • @alliona502
      @alliona502 3 роки тому +15

      I think Tommy was trying to get Wilbur out of bed and interact with something.

    • @crowneddiamond
      @crowneddiamond 3 роки тому +9

      ITS SPEEDRUN TIME BITCH!!!

  • @harveyflaviano7448
    @harveyflaviano7448 3 роки тому +404

    He became Ghostbur and used that as a reason to not stream and take care of himself, what a CHAD

  • @taltzi
    @taltzi 3 роки тому +340

    streamers talking about mental health is so so so comforting

  • @animesenpai1163
    @animesenpai1163 3 роки тому +945

    Niki is trying to become a therapist
    Also I keep thinking how tf does Tommy have time.
    Then I remember when I was 16 lol

    • @crazybeats7375
      @crazybeats7375 3 роки тому +79

      I mean tommy hasn’t been streaming these past couple days lately like 1-3 days he doesn’t stream

    • @bleepbloop4221
      @bleepbloop4221 3 роки тому +8

      Mmm 69 likes

    • @BreeN__
      @BreeN__ 3 роки тому +36

      He has time because he has basically nothing to worry about mans got almost 6mil subs

    • @jblitz4722
      @jblitz4722 3 роки тому +6

      @@BreeN__ yes its pog

    • @cassie4923
      @cassie4923 3 роки тому +101

      I mean yeah Niki wants to become a therapist but you should never do therapy with someone you know or you are really close with

  • @angelaplays
    @angelaplays 3 роки тому +151

    Y’all 👏 don’t 👏 know 👏 how 👏 much 👏 I 👏 wanted 👏 to 👏 hug 👏 this 👏 man 👏 during 👏 this 👏 stream

  • @nex7071
    @nex7071 3 роки тому +447

    Omg that Tommy thing nearly had me in tears that’s so sweet!

  • @dylanmatthisen8977
    @dylanmatthisen8977 3 роки тому +1027

    Wait, so he and Schlatt were friends before he started streaming? Has he ever talked about that?

    • @SOVIETSONIC
      @SOVIETSONIC 3 роки тому +237

      im not sure how accurate this is but im fairly sure that he found schlatt as a small creator (when he was running soot house) and some how got in contact (may be confused with someone else will knows)

    • @roosty2266
      @roosty2266 3 роки тому +11

      @@SOVIETSONIC You are correct

    • @pizzatime5048
      @pizzatime5048 3 роки тому +27

      But they started to make videos with each other during the smplive era

    • @pandawillishelthostage2985
      @pandawillishelthostage2985 3 роки тому +4

      Soothouse

    • @notme8652
      @notme8652 3 роки тому +18

      @@pizzatime5048 during soothouse***

  • @iqcq2063
    @iqcq2063 3 роки тому +667

    I have the same anxiety he’s talking about it’s “generalised anxiety” and all I can find to help with it is : medication (prescribed) and Minecraft.

    • @danielk10271
      @danielk10271 3 роки тому +13

      relatable

    • @mayuhmetal
      @mayuhmetal 3 роки тому +6

      therapy! he talked about it eagerly and I know from experience, with the right therapist it is genuinely health improving

    • @iqcq2063
      @iqcq2063 3 роки тому +10

      @@mayuhmetal I did get therapy and yes it helps but I found just vining in a single player minecraft world works just as good for me

    • @izzieloughran8285
      @izzieloughran8285 3 роки тому +1

      @@iqcq2063 Same! Omg my parents think there’s something seriously wrong with me cos I don’t wanna go to therapy I just wanna play Minecraft 😂

    • @iqcq2063
      @iqcq2063 3 роки тому

      @@izzieloughran8285 hahaha... same except my parents won’t take me to therapy

  • @tigergonnagetu9592
    @tigergonnagetu9592 3 роки тому +126

    I'd like to point out how talented Wilbur is. Its really cool that Dream made a song, and it sounds alright as well, but Jesus your new boyfriend is actually one of my favorite songs rn

  • @c25my37
    @c25my37 3 роки тому +689

    Remember we dont know tommy's whole presonality cause he just gives us the "Arrogant Child" persona
    Edit: Is he that flippin skinny?

    • @clementen9017
      @clementen9017 3 роки тому +133

      Tommy is a kind person behind social media, people who have met him or went to school with him have actually spoke up at some points and said how chill he is, he also was a band, choir, and theater kid! :)

    • @LL-tr5et
      @LL-tr5et 3 роки тому +12

      ^^^^

    • @iforgor227
      @iforgor227 3 роки тому +38

      Well we do know all his bones will break if you breathe in his general direction. To quote a very famous man, "someone get that kid a sandwich"

    • @AleyCheco
      @AleyCheco 3 роки тому +7

      @@iforgor227 ???

    • @_kaleido
      @_kaleido 3 роки тому +7

      @@AleyCheco I think they’re saying he’s very skinny looking maybe?

  • @majabrannmark
    @majabrannmark 3 роки тому +245

    When I watched the stream and he talked about Tommy I just... melted

    • @axelf9947
      @axelf9947 3 роки тому +8

      ...yeah, I was there too, and I think the entire chat did...

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +12

      I started tearing up it was so wholesome, Wilbur looked so happy to have him istg. Their bond is special

  • @Oliviaprofessional1
    @Oliviaprofessional1 3 роки тому +296

    I'm glad he taking this time to help himself mentally, and realizes it's not embarrassing to be best friends with anyone. As long as you talk, relate to each other, and make each other laugh, it doesn't matter who your best friend(s) is/are.

  • @ahaha3845
    @ahaha3845 3 роки тому +78

    I’m so thankful that Wilbur talked about his anxiety. I’m a bit young and people would often say “why are you feeling that why, you’re young” it just makes everything worse. But hearing that Wilbur also went through the same things that I go through makes me feel so much better.

  • @Loganeggs
    @Loganeggs 3 роки тому +320

    He’s so amazing and he is literally like he is here for me to watch when I am so sad,angry.or just chilling he is so just wow

  • @clem.is.confused649
    @clem.is.confused649 3 роки тому +105

    he’s my comfort streamer. even with his anxiety, he calms mine. he’s such a great human being, he truly does deserve he world.

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +7

      Wilbur, Karl, Tommy, and Quackity are some of my top comfort streamers.
      Wilbur is such a sweetheart, it makes me feel better that I can relate to him. I’m undiagnosed, I think I may have anxiety, not because of corona although I’m sure it worsened it. I think it’s either my genetics (because it is there) or it’s because of things I went through. I also play acoustic guitar, I like the calm talks. I like his settle humor. He cares a lot about his fans and he shows it. I appreciate him a lot and even though I can relate, it hurts to know that he has been dealing with it for so long, and he deals with the stuff I’m dealing with. Except for me...I don’t know much coping mechanisms, I don’t know what helps me, I feel lost.
      My comfort streamer depends on what I’m feeling. Sometimes I feel numb and just need a comforting talk, sometimes I just feel down and need laughs, sometimes I just need something to distract me. The comfort streamers I mentioned aren’t even all of them...
      I’m so happy to have entered the mcyt community again. I’ve been losing myself, and everyone in the dream smp has their moments where they just stop, and talk to their fans, make sure their okay, gives advice and talks. Like my heart-❤️😖

    • @ynotistonybackwards
      @ynotistonybackwards 3 роки тому

      @@meraki-333 to long didnt read 😎

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +6

      @@ynotistonybackwards
      Was that rlly necessary. All it was was me talking about why I appreciate Wilbur and all my other comfort streamers. Don’t do that, it’s kind of insensitive when it’s about a mental health topic thank you :)

    • @ynotistonybackwards
      @ynotistonybackwards 3 роки тому

      @@meraki-333 dont care 😎

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +4

      @@ynotistonybackwards
      Smh...little kids...
      Always thinking being disrespectful makes you cool, I remember going through that phase 💀
      But it really wasn’t necessary and I wasn’t even talking to you so what was the point man 😶

  • @j_isnt_available
    @j_isnt_available 3 роки тому +297

    one, I'm so proud of Will for everything, from getting through this and streaming even when his anxiety is so bad, to going to see a therapist about it, because I know how hard that can be.
    and two, am I the only one who didn't know the difference between counseling and therapy? I've been to therapy before but I never realized that it was different to counseling

    • @axelf9947
      @axelf9947 3 роки тому +3

      Same here lol. I’m replying so that if you receive an answer, I’ll see it too-

    • @solareclipse3020
      @solareclipse3020 3 роки тому +3

      Saw this comment and did some quick research:
      Counselling generally refers to short-term consultation while psychotherapy typically refers to longer-term treatment. Counselling typically deals with present issues that are easily resolved on the conscious level whereas psychotherapy intensively and extensively examines a person's psychological history.
      Hope it helps! I didn’t know the difference either until I bothered to search it up for other people.
      Have a nice day/night!

    • @j_isnt_available
      @j_isnt_available 3 роки тому

      @@solareclipse3020 oh wow ok thank you! :)

    • @solareclipse3020
      @solareclipse3020 3 роки тому

      @@j_isnt_available You’re welcome!

  • @emublanket
    @emublanket 3 роки тому +208

    🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 Tommy dragging him out to make him do stuff with him..... I’m cry

  • @divtejsingh2123
    @divtejsingh2123 3 роки тому +464

    The man who said "Just killed a woman feeling good" is a legend

  • @_gracieee
    @_gracieee 3 роки тому +57

    The fact that’s he’s still putting a smile under all that pain, and tommy is so sweet and caring.

    • @axelf9947
      @axelf9947 3 роки тому +7

      The whole awkward smile + laughter thing is just a part of the anxiety, really. I have it too, and every time I talk about it, I just get all fidgety and giggly and easily distracted. It’s just awkward and uncomfortable to talk about, and so your brain automatically makes you downplay it and almost ‘make fun of yourself’ in a way as you describe it. It’s pretty annoying lol

  • @rayadoodle
    @rayadoodle 3 роки тому +48

    Tommy dragging him out of bed to talk 🥺
    I love all of them so much, I’m literally crying haha 🥲

  • @dauntless_sg3858
    @dauntless_sg3858 3 роки тому +301

    I’m literally in Tommy’s position rn with an online friend

    • @JourneyThroughTime
      @JourneyThroughTime 3 роки тому +4

      Same! I'm 15 and my best friend is 20 :D It's honestly awesome.

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +5

      Same and I’m 14! But not just to one person, I talk to people in comment sections when they need to talk! I’ve gotten a lot of appreciation from them. Down side is, it’s bringing down my mental health A LOT. I’m struggling with my mental health a hell lot at the moment and I don’t know how much more I can take it.
      Some call me mature, wise, others say thank you, I wish I had a friend like you, that helped me, your friend must be happy to have you, etc. I’ve been doing this since I was 13. I also just leave positive comments so hurting ppl can have a boost of faith. I’m literally freshly 14 too my birthday is January 17th lmao
      I did say “not just one” that one is one of my closest friends. She’s struggling, a lot. I check up on her a lot, I’m there if she needs to talk or calm down. I try. I can’t contact her as much rn because personal stuff happened but she’s doing better, she has gotten professional help. I feel like I at least helped her on some hope and courage

    • @Idk-vg4tx
      @Idk-vg4tx 3 роки тому +7

      I’m in Tommy’s position with everyone I know and have talked to
      I ask how they are and how they’ve been and then talk to them to see what’s wrong to make them feel better
      But when I ask my friends how they are they say good and never ask how I am

    • @woahitsgrace
      @woahitsgrace 3 роки тому

      @@meraki-333 my snap is Pickle_Grace

    • @furrest3941
      @furrest3941 3 роки тому

      Same! I’m friend with an 8 year old 😀👍

  • @jolieashlyn
    @jolieashlyn 3 роки тому +77

    He looks like he’s in such pain and like it hurts to talk about this. Idk how people could hate him I mean I have anxiety and like never talk about it but this man makes me wanna talk about it

  • @beefeats3422
    @beefeats3422 3 роки тому +67

    it looks like he's on the verge of tears when talking about his hate commentators. he seems like he's laughing it off

  • @ImThePerson0
    @ImThePerson0 3 роки тому +35

    I love how Wilbur admits that Tommy is his best friend. That’s so sweet.

  • @axelf9947
    @axelf9947 3 роки тому +9

    Aww... you could see the change in his face as soon as he started talking about Tommy. It went from _”I’m talking about something awkward and I’m just smiling to make it less uncomfortable”_ to a genuine _”I’m talking about my best friend and I’m smiling because I’m proud of him and happy to have him”_ and it’s honestly so sweet lmao

  • @claudiae264
    @claudiae264 3 роки тому +135

    I really want a friendship like Tommy’s and Wilbur🥺

  • @ethancline2883
    @ethancline2883 3 роки тому +32

    That is so heart warming that Tommy messages him to make him feel loved/better, incredible to see that from a 16 year old

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +5

      I do this for my friends, I’m 14. And Yk, as much as I love them it’s damaging my mental health as well...I can’t help myself. I don’t have a therapist, I haven’t been diagnosed even though I really want to so I can learn how to help myself and finally feel that relief. At least to the ones I’m close too, I don’t really have contact with some, some just seem toxic...
      But I can’t do that now since the one I regularly check up on got her devices taken away and she has to use her family device now. (Not saying why because it’s a serious situation and actually did damage me a bit). Which worries me.
      I’ve been doing this on social media aswell, I just go to comment sections, and comment some positive things. I’ve gotten a lot of “thank you’s” I’ve gotten “that helped me” “you’re such a good person” “you’re so wise” “your friends must be glad to have you” “I wish I had a friend like you” “I wish you good in life” etc. those words help. But it hurts to know I don’t really get my own type of treatment back to me. I know about cutting people off to focus on yourself but that’s so freaking hard. I can’t do it.
      I shouldn’t expect praise from others, I shouldn’t expect reassurance, I shouldn’t expect anything.
      Sorry for the rant, I just relate to being the “helper” but also being the “broken”.

    • @ethancline2883
      @ethancline2883 3 роки тому +1

      @@meraki-333 damn that’s deep, no need to be sorry for the rant, I respect u

    • @_cottontuna_3790
      @_cottontuna_3790 3 роки тому +1

      @@meraki-333 I think I can understand you in some way, I'm 14 too, and I think I can define myself as a mature person? I guess. And I try to spend as much time as possible spreading positivity, as I like to see people happy. I do this often because it is comforting to me and it helps me not to think about my anxiety for literally everything. (Undiagnosed, since I'm a child I can't go to a psychologist without my parents' consent)
      So, if you ever want to talk about it, I have Discord! I think we may have a lot in common.
      But that's only if you want! I know that maybe talking to a random stranger on the internet might be weird, lol.
      (++Sorry for my probably awful english, but it's not my native language!)

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому

      @@_cottontuna_3790
      I’ll think about the discord part, but to be aware I hate talking through devices (or honestly in general) and I would rather chat. Also I barely know how to work discord so that might take time lmao.
      I like to spread positivity, but when I’m the one to always listen it feels like a trauma dump. You get all this stress from others onto you, then you start to worry about them since you know what their going through but you can’t physically help and the only thing you can really do is talk; which adds on to my possible anxiety, so this is kind of a bad habit for me and I do really need to cut off people from my life to focus on myself. If I decide not to do discord I can do Insta

    • @_cottontuna_3790
      @_cottontuna_3790 3 роки тому

      @@meraki-333 Oh yeah!
      By "talking" I actually meant chatting. Idk why I used the wrong verb, lol.
      Talking is such an extroverted thing to do, I understand you, i'm a fellow introvert. And yep, both Discord and Insta are fine for me.
      And btw, it's probably useless hearing this by a stranger on the internet, but just know that you really are a wonderful person, and that your feelings matter. Putting them in the second place for others is something generous to do, but harmful in long terms. Taking time for yourself isn't selfish, and it's okay not to always help others all the time and even think about yourself sometimes, it doesn't make you a less wonderful person.
      Okay, I'll stop with the pep talk that literally nobody asked-

  • @yasminland5504
    @yasminland5504 3 роки тому +37

    Wilbur has been my comfort streamer for so long. I'm a hypochondriac, insomniac and I have anxiety. His relatability to me makes me feel alot more comfortable in my own skin and helps me get through sh and other things. I'm so glad hes open with his mental health as its encouraging for me to try and seek help, his music also means alot me :] And hes british so the streams are at times when im awake as well which helps when im having panic attacks ect. Wilbur is an amazing guy and I hope he continues to look after himself.

  • @ninaaox
    @ninaaox 3 роки тому +122

    I love Wilbur, And I'm so glad he's taking care of his mental health.. And took a 2 week break I feel like he needed more but I hope he knows were here for him and support him to death. Very glad he's back :)

  • @zenwazhereboi682
    @zenwazhereboi682 3 роки тому +9

    Tommy and Wilbur on camera:
    Non stop arguing and hating each other
    Tommy and Wilbur off camera:
    Tommy helping Wilbur through all his problems and Wilbur getting along with Tommy

  • @justaperson8381
    @justaperson8381 3 роки тому +260

    While I don't like Tommy's stream persona, I think he's really just a nice kid.

    • @cori5110
      @cori5110 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah he is SUPER toxic but oh well I like him

    • @axothylest4417
      @axothylest4417 3 роки тому +56

      @@cori5110 very much a persona tho

    • @cori5110
      @cori5110 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah I just like to think he actually that confident in real life 😁

    • @strawberrystrawberry7149
      @strawberrystrawberry7149 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah, he is a really good kid, I just think he takes his bits a little too far. He’s cool tho

    • @edielaufeyson1106
      @edielaufeyson1106 3 роки тому +40

      @@cori5110 he’s no toxic wdym? I’m not like attacking you I just want you to explain

  • @sorayaa7184
    @sorayaa7184 3 роки тому +24

    He deserves the world, he’s my favorite :) and he doesn’t deserve the hate. People are just so rude. Don’t hate on a man who literally doesn’t do anything. He’s literally smiling this whole time. He’s so sweet dude

  • @liangailm.ilagan4153
    @liangailm.ilagan4153 3 роки тому +326

    "Why am I so low?"
    _Camera wise or mentally-?_

  • @engandaus8815
    @engandaus8815 3 роки тому +39

    Wilbur is my fav twitch streamer and this is why. He’s so down to earth and such a funny guy.

  • @andrecarvalho8470
    @andrecarvalho8470 3 роки тому +36

    Wilbur:Fucking child
    Also wilbur:He's my best friend
    Man I love this guy... He's not doing great and I hope gets through what he's going through...

  • @buggy9094
    @buggy9094 3 роки тому +23

    It makes me so happy to see that he’s being so open about his struggles. It helps people who feel the same way to feel seen

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +2

      Yes exactly.
      I’m not diagnosed with anything yet.
      But after months of deep searching all I can think is that I could possibly have anxiety. I can’t confirm I have it but it does make me feel nice that I can relate to a cc. It hurts knowing he’s going through it though

  • @Nyx_404
    @Nyx_404 3 роки тому +511

    Poor bean, nice that Tommy's helping him, not nice that I could've watched this stream, but I chose to watch UA-cam instead. I am such a piece of garbage

    • @samsneed917
      @samsneed917 3 роки тому +5

      Ikr?

    • @bkidnamedfinger
      @bkidnamedfinger 3 роки тому +6

      I did the same thing 😿✋

    • @crystalclear9020
      @crystalclear9020 3 роки тому +11

      Same. Stayed up watching youtube not knowing he was streaming. Pain

    • @-.mune.-
      @-.mune.- 3 роки тому +13

      I can barely watch any streams bc everytime they're streaming ots most probably midnight for me xD
      So i rely on youtube to catch me up on stuff

    • @believer1056
      @believer1056 3 роки тому +1

      why do people say that I don’t understand

  • @sillyalert14
    @sillyalert14 3 роки тому +4

    Tommy dragging Wilbur out of bed to do things is actually adorable and wholesome...
    Your honor, they're brothers.

  • @Ivy3h
    @Ivy3h 3 роки тому +25

    The anxiety stuff hit me really hard. I’ve been having pretty bad anxiety recently too, what with being back in online school every day and everything else going on. I’m so glad Wilbur is working through it and has such supportive friends :)

  • @JamesMarriottenjoyer
    @JamesMarriottenjoyer Рік тому +4

    wilburs the most comfortable comfort streamer

  • @panshitcosplays7804
    @panshitcosplays7804 3 роки тому +280

    I would give you a hug but I can't because of covid

  • @axelf9947
    @axelf9947 3 роки тому +18

    Timestamps since this is a long video:
    0:00-1:32 : talking about anxiety
    1:33-2:54 : talking about his email + receiving hate
    2:55-4:24 : more anxiety and therapy talk, + _“I SHIT IN THERE, CHAT!”_
    4:25-5:22 : talking about Tommy (he also mentions Phil)
    5:23-6:10 : complimenting Cashapp
    6:11-6:25 : Technoblade controversy who?
    6:26-6:44 : “MrBeast, I’m givin’ you your pistachios”
    6:45-7:43 : talking about the Dream SMP scripts
    7:44-8:26 : talking about joining Twitch / SMP Live
    8:27-8:42 : _K A H O O T_
    8:43-9:13 : Geoguessr stats + “i’M sO cOoL.”
    9:14-10:48 : talking about + playing Road Trip

  • @bethanyrm
    @bethanyrm 3 роки тому +17

    I really like Wilbur, because he's funny and entertaining while also teaching me (even if it's not necessarily intentional) to be a generally better and more open-minded person. It's very grounding.

  • @angelaplays
    @angelaplays 3 роки тому +10

    This part made me cry, because Wilbur has friends that actually deeply care about him. But I don’t have friends like that, so this made me cry, but also made me smile because I’m happy that Wilbur is happy.

  • @Xenntaii
    @Xenntaii 3 роки тому +36

    Damn. I hope he’s okay. He deserves the fucking world.

  • @Ghostly_scarf
    @Ghostly_scarf 3 роки тому +27

    "I couldve streamed" he doesnt have to if hes already so busy, he deserves so many things a break is definetly one of them

  • @Katkit_1
    @Katkit_1 Рік тому +2

    I have the same problems as Wilbur with my anxiety, panic attacks. This stream is my comfort stream and I’m pretty sure I watch it almost every other day. I’m glad Wilbur is finding ways to deal with his anxiety and has friends that are there :)

  • @carpinchipedia7009
    @carpinchipedia7009 3 роки тому +33

    Wilbur is like Little Alex Horne
    -both make millions of people happy
    -both have incredible minds and use them for the people
    -both have the utmost respect for the people they are close to
    -have a surprisingly tall blonde friend
    We all love you Wilbur (in a not parasocial way, of course) and if you need time off, you need time off. Come back when you’re ready, but make sure you put yourself first :D

    • @lilfrontgarden
      @lilfrontgarden 3 роки тому

      Alex Horne lives in my town

    • @carpinchipedia7009
      @carpinchipedia7009 3 роки тому

      @@lilfrontgarden Pog champ!

    • @nerdishlive
      @nerdishlive 3 роки тому

      Wait wait wait wait wait… have I found another Taskmaster and Wilbur Soot fan? No way…

    • @carpinchipedia7009
      @carpinchipedia7009 3 роки тому +1

      @@nerdishlive on the basis that I’m English and that Minecraft is very popular and the dreamsmp peaked about 4 months ago, yes you have :) hello!

  • @pizzaapplepie1338
    @pizzaapplepie1338 3 роки тому +19

    The Tommy part is so wholesome

  • @dova9836
    @dova9836 3 роки тому +35

    I just realized that wilbur was 7 when tommy was born lmao

  • @firelynzmoonlight1025
    @firelynzmoonlight1025 3 роки тому +7

    I'm so happy that Tommy has been reaching out to wilbur he really is a legend, wilbur deserves the best

  • @mere_serendipity8275
    @mere_serendipity8275 3 роки тому +24

    I f*ing love this man. Such an inspiration

  • @stressedcapy1915
    @stressedcapy1915 3 роки тому +7

    I've been watching Wilbur only since like, the end of December but I just wanna hug him so bad rn, he really become one of my comfort persons. I hate getting attached to online people, so I'm still quite like a adopted cat, but i still love him

  • @sorayaa7184
    @sorayaa7184 3 роки тому +5

    Omg Tommy is so sweet 🥺. He said he’s my best friend. Aww Tommy cares about his friends tons.

  • @imperfectcovers1579
    @imperfectcovers1579 3 роки тому +40

    AWWWW WILBYYYY

  • @konumbra
    @konumbra 3 роки тому +12

    he's one of those people online that seems just so real. i hope things get better for him

  • @person.165
    @person.165 3 роки тому +4

    This just breaks my heart. I've been watching wilbur since he started twitch and even then I could just tell he wasn't okay mentally. I really hope he gets better. I'm so glad that he's found great friends that can help take his mind off of his anxiety

  • @katieclark1057
    @katieclark1057 3 роки тому +2

    its nice to see that tommy is by his side while he's struggling tommy and wilbur are lucky they've found eachother (not romantically) they really are brothers wilbur dont cry

  • @cosmic9149
    @cosmic9149 3 роки тому +2

    “You put dinner on tommys table and thats all that matters”
    *wholesome noises*

  • @lolilo2759
    @lolilo2759 3 роки тому +129

    “Wilbur gets personal about his life Tommyinnit, ...”
    *Tommyinnit is his life???? Sorry I am spelling obsessed lol.*

  • @camalon_sisters0348
    @camalon_sisters0348 3 роки тому +6

    I Love how the chat is so sweet.....I wish that wilbur would get better...i feel bad for him..but we are always here for him!!!!!

  • @jcat379
    @jcat379 3 роки тому +1

    It's so great to hear that Tommy is supporting Wilbur during this, and that Wilbur is getting therapy. It is really so helpful and useful, especially for people with anxiety disorders just to be told your fears aren't dumb or unreasonable, they just need to be managed.

  • @midnightbacon2857
    @midnightbacon2857 3 роки тому +2

    Wholesome tommy aww best friends

  • @smiley9020
    @smiley9020 3 роки тому +4

    He's so strong and he was laughing and smiling the whole time i hope he gets better

  • @kianon3322
    @kianon3322 3 роки тому +4

    This hits really hard having been a Wilbur (without a Tommy) and currently being a Tommy.

  • @strawberrycc7039
    @strawberrycc7039 3 роки тому +3

    I feel so bad for Wilbur, he has so many people looking up to him and expecting him to be perfect. Everyone needs to remember that Wilbur (and all streamers) are humans that need breaks, and will make mistakes some times. I've been having a bit of a hard time myself lately, and watching people like Wilbur, make the bad days so much better. Treat people like people, and be a good influence to the people around you.

  • @pastaslut
    @pastaslut 3 роки тому +3

    aww i’m so happy wilbur has tommy

  • @zoinksscoop20yearsago68
    @zoinksscoop20yearsago68 3 роки тому +3

    Man, as someone who has been fighting against depression and anxiety for like 6 years now(?), I know how it feels to want to stay alone in their bedroom all day not wanting to reach out to anyone. But this is beautiful.
    Like, so many people who are having rough times don't have anyone that cares for them (me included) and just knowing that wilbur had tommy, who stayed with him in his worst moments, makes me feel so happy for him

  • @minikipp8549
    @minikipp8549 3 роки тому +70

    i really like seeing healthy friendships come from all this internet pratting around

  • @brisahiggins6970
    @brisahiggins6970 3 роки тому +3

    He seems like such a fantastic human. I don’t know him personally but I feel like he deserves the world 🌎 💞.

  • @teeentee2695
    @teeentee2695 3 роки тому +1

    I'm really glad Wilbur is getting help-- and it warms my heart that Tommy is helping and supporting him through this rough patch. Their friendship is so strong and it shows. Brothers I say.

  • @minikipp8549
    @minikipp8549 3 роки тому +9

    what i learnt- dreams song sounds banging when he makes it and then you strip it back and make it just guitar it is completely different and so cool

  • @carlando4eva5504
    @carlando4eva5504 3 роки тому +40

    *********hug WILBUR guys*********

  • @fss_liscring
    @fss_liscring 3 роки тому +2

    Wilbur such a good guy. He deserves everything.
    And massive respect to Tommy o7. He's such a great friend

  • @k1w1fru1tz_6
    @k1w1fru1tz_6 2 роки тому +1

    I have really bad anxiety, depression and has been suicidal. I had loads of meds and went to therapy and counseling for a few years. Most days I was thinking about how I could take my life. But I love how Wilbur is still going. He has been a huge inspiration to me and I aspire to keep smiling every day as he does. Lots of love to you wilbur

  • @sl33py.35
    @sl33py.35 3 роки тому +4

    It’s really great to hear him laugh while he’s talking about this

  • @Teg2408
    @Teg2408 3 роки тому +8

    A lot of peoples mental health has been struggling the last year. My anxiety has gotten so bad.

    • @khfan6864
      @khfan6864 3 роки тому

      Same here. Not only my anxiety but also my depression. Never thought it would reach this level... hopefully you will feel at least a bit better soon

    • @meraki-333
      @meraki-333 3 роки тому +1

      Same. But with me I had NO idea I could possibly have a disorder. I was already experiencing derealization (since like 6th? I’m in 8th rn) but I had no idea it had a name and it wasn’t normal. Corona is what really worsened anxiety symptoms and behaviors, which also lead me to search into it for weeks. So I can say I think I have anxiety, I cannot confirm, I do want to be diagnosed but I have no freaking idea when that will come. But it’s been effecting me a lot I can’t handle it.

  • @pastaslut
    @pastaslut 3 роки тому +1

    wilbur makes me feel so fucking human. i love him so much. wishing only the best for him

  • @TommySoBored
    @TommySoBored 3 роки тому +1

    Honset to god I could watch this man talk about his anxiety and I walk away with a smile. This man is great

  • @missinglegs
    @missinglegs 3 роки тому +4

    oh man, didn't know tommy was such a legend... that's actually so awesome

  • @Taylor-xq9tr
    @Taylor-xq9tr 3 роки тому +5

    hearing him say my name at 4:41 damn near made me shit myself

  • @hippiebowbob6213
    @hippiebowbob6213 3 роки тому

    guys tommys a freaking legend for talking to wilbur as someone with anxiety i feel like everyone needs someone like that

  • @nuggs5509
    @nuggs5509 3 роки тому +1

    They really are like brother, Wilbur and Tommy just looking out for each other ✨❤️